Refine Your Communication; To Reach Your Desired Goal! Gaur Gopal Das

Based on a research article from the Harvard business review, Gaur Gopal Das points out a very important aspect of communication for success in any area of life.
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About Gaur Gopal Das
Gaur Gopal Das is an Electrical Engineer, having studied at the College Of Engineering, Pune. He has been speaking at various prestigious academic institutions and corporate firms in India and abroad for over 2 decades and has even spoken at the United Nations & British Parliament. He has spoken at many charity events to raise funds for social initiatives in the field of education and rural development. His motivational videos are viral having reached around 1 Billion views. With over 13 million followers across all social media platforms, he is known as the urban, online monk.
He has been the recipient of several awards including the most prestigious Dadasaheb Phalke International Film Festival award, Lokmat’s most stylish international life coach award, an Honorary Doctorate by KIIT university and many more in recognition of the work he has been doing. Based on the timeless wisdom coming down from ages, his talks make the audience think deeper and find simple solutions to difficult problems.
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[@akshayshirbhate7]

His voice nd pronounciation of each word is soooooo clean n clear 👌 wish to talk like him ....

[@saishreetambe900]

Seriously💯

[@manjirakar6603]

Don't try to be like him, be like you. Only then you will be unique. 😊

[@akshayshirbhate7]

@@manjirakar6603 truee ☺️☺️😊👍

[@antarasharma6531]

He has awesome language and very good English speaker.We have very few people in India like him.I respect and love him for this talent...I also try to get lil knowledge from him

[@akshayshirbhate7]

@@antarasharma6531 good ✌️✌️😇

[@theexplorestudio932]

We can learn English easily through his videos,because his prounsation is clear and slow.

[@Jaydeep_prajapati]

Yes dear u r right

[@dolandtunk8147]

@@sahilrawne88 it's pronunciation bruh

[@ajaypandey2281]

Me too bro

[@navya2521]

Yes 💯 % crct bro

[@SkpSanjog]

Actually

[@shanthibabu6118]

If u r happy n u know clap ur hands👏👏guru ji my daughter Mahathi 10yrs old guessed ur taps...

[@kaushalchaudhary5772]

I Thought, The song should be "Shiv Tandaav Strotam". Thank you

[@tusharbagudai5945]

I'm also thinking the same

[@sathwikaveluguri1283]

Same

[@hreshabhnandi7053]

Not at all iskon doesn't prais other deity

[@lavanyamamidi8773]

Me too thinking the same

[@KishoreKumar-gi9jm]

Shiv tandavv strotam

[@jhphotomum]

Beautiful video love your video

[@digitalskk2639]

Yes sir I always try to blame my wife that ur not understanding my feelings....And this vedio made me my thinking was wrong...I always communicated her wrong way...thank u sir...

[@ankursharma6157]

Bravo! It takes Courage to admit and Change Ourselves! Wish You Both Happiness in Togetherness!

[@Lankanaresh6137]

Me too have a same story and finally i lost temper but now I will surely work on this and be more specific coz i lov her very much

[@shivavivo9895]

ok wife's WhatsApp number?

[@pramodkumbar1]

@@shivavivo9895 reply me bro want to talk to u SHIVA VIVO

[@mayurshetty4587]

@@shivavivo9895 I would have msged badly to you. But I Love Gopal Das videos and I don't want to type any wrong words on comment section of his videos. Have some sense about what you are typing... And have some basic knowledge about how to respect others and their relationships. Even if you think that you just wanted to make it appear like a joke, even then this was not the right place, bcoz the one who commented was very serious and had openly expressed his feelings about his soul mate .

[@kanchanamehta523]

The song . If you’re happy and you know it, clap your hands If you’re happy and you know it and you really want to show it If you’re happy and you know it, clap your hands🙆👏👏....

[@kanchanbisht2514]

If ur happy and u know it, clapp ur hands..

[@varma21abhi]

Correct ✌️

[@babita567]

Gr8

[@erammalkani7605]

How did you know??

[@ahadijohn9190]

Can you find me pliz

[@madhavbegusarai]

Teachers are the best skilled tappers they very wonderfully clarify concepts to all of her students. And I have been gifted by God like guru - a teacher like gaur gopal das. Heart felt thanks to you for inspiring and helping all of us.

[@ritheshrodrigues3]

Tqs Swamiji.

[@genograce2874]

I always blame my partner for not being the way i wanted him to . Yet he tries out his best . This video changed everything

[@samruddhi1412]

"If you're happy and u know it clap ur hands " Simply great way of explaining... thank you so much 🙏🙏

[@savita788]

I would like to recommend the video to all my teachers...

[@emmanuelpetit8291]

I see dumb comments have millions of likes. But yours sir was brilliant 😊

[@thinkcreativewithdhruvi3229]

Just saw ur comment....as I wrote mine...do check

[@raj10535]

😂😂😂hats of bro & u should🙏🙏

[@shrisamitha8828]

s🤓

[@harshavardhanreddy8330]

Nice thing

[@thyagarajansrinivasan8151]

A few songs fit into this rhythm including 'happy birthday to you' and 'if you are happy and you know it....' thus underlining the message!! Thanks, as always for delivering the takeaways in very simple terms.

[@vishusrivastava]

The way he explains things... 👌🏻 One of the best teachers 🙏🏻

[@sandeshgupta6555]

First I thought it’s shiv tandav latter I came to know it’s “When you’re happy and you know it clap your hands”!!!😃

[@mannmerwana476]

Me too😂

[@davidredfern8450]

again I think that all my feelings and emotions are expressed by you Mr. Das. I always try my best to explain in different ways without getting angry and losing my temper that is why people around me feel very comfortable with me and appreciate me for this, thank you for expressing in such a simple way, you are incredible. kotti kotti pranam.

[@rakshithphotography9907]

The song is... If you are happy and you know it,clap your hands...👏👏👏 If you are happy and you know it,clap your hands...👏👏👏 If you are happy and you know, you really want to show it clap your hands...👏👏👏

[@swarnalimodak4967]

Rakshith Photography right

[@atharvaphadtare2151]

Rakshith Photography no wrong

[@princejoseph1573]

thanks

[@12takuTCtigere]

Correct..... the only missing part is the Clapping but i tried it.... 100% correct

[@romilnegi5491]

Rakshith Photography you are right!! It reminds me of my nursery class...

[@devilstergolds7604]

Now i got it why everytime i go on to the stage, speaks about something and whole batch turns against me.❤

[@rishabjain3081]

Bro heart touching realization sometimes happen with me also...!!

[@Sk7979_]

Hare krishna prabhuji... I heard this song- Kisi ke muskurahaton pe ho nisar...jina isi ka naam hai...

[@vishnupriya-ex5lu]

Wooww...ji...All the above mentioned is only for me....thank u for point out my negatives...what you said ....it's happening still in my life..I assure u that I ll rectify it....Thank u ji...Be blessed by the divine....

[@sofiajang9469]

Am I the only one who thought the song is Shiv Tandav Stotram? Also, this was a very beautiful lecture. A very informative one.

[@rramsundar]

You are not the only one, I was convinced beyond doubt that it was Shiv Tandav Stotram. But the comments are so different, now I am confused 😕

[@lionpower2047]

Yeah it is shiva Tandava stotram

[@mrdash8695]

Yes you're right

[@kumariprity6942]

Yes

[@komaloswal5946]

Yes this video is for teachers and I being a teacher always try to clarify each and every doubt of my students by being specific but still not always all the students do understand in the same way . I think the role of IQ and understanding level is also that important, the grasping power of each individual is different. As sociology says 'no two individuals are alike.' This is a fact indeed

[@divyaalugottu8140]

Yup 👍 dtz obviously true

[@MrShawalh]

If you ask all your students to open maths textbook..is there any student open science textbook..? If yes the what your trying to say is tight.

[@mukuu0984]

I feel like Shiv tandav stotram 90% sure ❤️🔥

[@sumanthrbhat8875]

Im for sure that's not shiv thandav, he never tap shiv tandava music

[@kaushikkalita5149]

Swami ji...aapkey darshan pakey main dhanya ho gaya....jai ho

[@studyfiwith-vishal9023]

Shiv tandav stotram taped by you guru ji 😊🙏🙏🙏

[@yourprabin]

If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands If you're happy and you know it, then your face will surely show it If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands

[@abdulnoor2952]

Absolutely correct

[@pramitlahiri1978]

Same pinch!

[@riyapataskar1500]

Spot on!!!

[@femmynanwani9982]

I always always fall in the trap of assumptions....thank you for this vid ...u are an angel to us

[@narottamkumar7392]

Same here

[@ramaswamykonar2832]

it happenss its human tendency

[@ravid274]

Aint the angel female? Idk just clarifying

[@sajidpeerjade5414]

Yes sir absolutely right...instead i have adopted this theory by saying Wear the shoes of person to whom you are telling things to do. It meant me lot when i heard from my Lead and now i make specific and clear to things for person so they get easily to do

[@sachingite786]

जटाटवीगलज्जल प्रवाहपावितस्थले गलेऽवलम्ब्य लम्बितां भुजंगतुंगमालिकाम्‌। डमड्डमड्डमड्डमनिनादवड्डमर्वयं चकार चंडतांडवं तनोतु नः शिवः शिवम 🙏🙏

[@nadikarmadi]

I have been through this situation and so frustrated, get angry, feel I was not appreciated as my workers keep doing things I did not ask. This video just so simple to understand how fool I have been thinking about my employees all the time. Salute to you, Teacher.

[@ayushpawar2004]

Guru ji it is the melody of Shiva Tandav

[@Ajeet-Yadav-IIITD]

Guruji Can you please start a series to develop "Good Communication Skill"... Please think of it 😊😊😊😊

[@reetusrainbowworld]

The way u give examples to understand the real meaning of life ia awesummmmm. Speechless..

[@rajesbashkar914]

Gaur gopal das. ..you are my best motivater. .tq

[@sultanawahida1111]

I was so depressed .. mentally disturbed...but after hearing all of ur videos..i am healing...

[@studyandfoodvibes5226]

"If you happy and you know clap your hand".

[@subhodas3469]

Shiv Tandava🎼🎼

[@FoodAndTravelWithDada]

Sir your transmission of knowledge and each of pristine words always penetrates into my mind and soul. My days starts with your lecture. Goodmorning Sir🙏

[@srinisrivatsa3948]

Excellent message - and thanks for sharing the song (in comments) - I am clapping my hands since i am happy and I know it 🙏

[@thespiritualkanojia6573]

Prabhu ji..I have been watching your videos for two year your videos have different and deep meaning with cognizance and the words that you use with giety and praise ... I am still loving it... Hare krishna prabhu ji

[@jagmohanarora4105]

So true in the case of teachers and students...

[@tejaldixit9051]

Jagmohan Arora not only with students and teachers but with each and every relationships...

[@tejaldixit9051]

And here relationships means..like a father-daughter,Friends,a boss-employees...!

[@Dhanashri001]

Yes for teacher it's so appropriate

[@riyazuddin6743]

Jagmohan Arora yes.. Exactly

[@poojapraveen8789]

He was perfect

[@sheelsindhu2009]

Don't know about that song but the clarity one needs to have in one's communication is very well addressed in this video. Thank you Gopal sir. 🙏🏼❤️

[@amanninawe2375]

The song was "if you are happy and you know it clap your hands"

[@kamalrandhawa2211]

This is what I need today to boost my confidence. Thanku sweet soul. U r jst awesome. I'm a listener but no one understanding me. So its their prblm not mine. Be specific.

[@aryasinghania5632]

The best public speaker I have ever seen! His communication is so simple and clear.

[@theadamra5771]

Thank You for this video! Bless

[@SrSrk98]

this has to be taught since childhood and practiced everyday...wow! will avoid so many issues in the first place:) superb lesson:)

[@sulthanbeedoodekula382]

From this video, I learnt we have to express our feelings in a way that will be understable to others.

[@r.5664]

Wow . So true . Our perception and understanding differs from others so expecting the assumed level of response is wrong. Bone of contention is that all of us are at different mental levels of maturity and experience .

[@krishnashaw1680]

Ati sundar Ji 👏 Jai Gurudev Ji 👏 Jai Sri Radhe Krishna Ji 👏 Apko Koti Koti Pranam Mera 👏

[@drkmlakshmipathy]

Excellent example Guruji about miscommunication...u have given a wonderful tips to make listener to understand the communication..so beautiful it works .lots of regard from Chennai👍🙏

[@sasthimarjit642]

Don't know why 1k Dislike in this wanderful video. Truly appreciate you Sir for your motivational speech.

[@priyankachawla4604]

You are the best... And am alwys keep in my mind ur example..sir ur examples are very strong and solid. 🙏🙏🙏

[@srinivas3824]

Korutla?!

[@BuildTechCivil]

Sir ur changing our lives by giving simple story's Thank u

[@garimatyagi5761]

The woods are lovely dark and deep but I promises to keep......

[@thinkcreativewithdhruvi3229]

U r very unique....on this earth....I as a teacher usually assume that children hav got it.....but now I came to know. ... thanks...🙏🙏

[@toshishukla250]

Thanks is a word that is so small to express my gratitude towards you... Thankyou so much Guru ji🙏🏻 The way you are speaking is mesmerizing all of us. You really inspired me a lot.. I am so blessed that I have engaged with your session and videos all the time, all these things helps me a lot to solve my problem and keep myself calm and peaceful in every situation..

[@axitabhatt3185]

The song may be, 'kisika dard le sake udhar, jina isika nam hai'

[@priyavenky]

Song, that you created while tapping was : Jatatavigalajjala pravahapavitasthale Galeavalambya lambitam bhujangatungamalikam Damad damad damaddama ninadavadamarvayam Chakara chandtandavam tanotu nah shivah shivam

[@081_paromitaroy2]

exactly i thought that only............and then thought maybe i was litsening too much thats why it came to my mind'

[@pragatitiwari7575]

Yeah same 👍🏻

[@Nobody-dg3cl]

sir , truth be told , YOUR VOICE HAS ITSELF A PILL OF MOTIVATION.

[@fighter8425]

Guru Gopal Das G has a unique way to express any article, In his video, we can make our life differently stable and maintained and our english speaking practice also improves by listening to him ,We are very lucky to have a amazing youtuber like him. Thanks Guru g .

[@sasmitamangaraj745]

I like his teachings :)

[@rambopeace856]

Sassie Hare Krishna

[@aminamulla6699]

Me to

[@jaiminmodivlogs]

then what ?

[@elvira.verygoodworkcongrat426]

Very good !

[@siddharthjha_18]

Shiv tandav stotram chanting..is it?... Good morning guru ji🙏

[@ishanpand3y]

Siddharth Jha same I guessed.

[@traveldiscovery2461]

yes it is..even i think soo

[@अज्ञात-थ7झ]

Yeah👌

[@namratabhattacharya9280]

Today is shiv ratri also may be. That's why he is tapping the melody. And the melody has such a strong music that it cannot go unnoticeable .

[@akashdewangan8028]

Yes I even thought of same

[@krishnizedworld9621]

The song is If you are happy and you know it ,clap your 👐

[@shivangijaiswal7004]

Wish to meet you someday in my life... And want to work under you as your disciple... Radhe krishna ❤

[@anarup916]

Teachers should be chosen by this criteria ....!

[@fromafathertohisson7548]

Prabhu Ji, You came as a blessing to the whole mankind. A glimpse of your face , a few words from your mouth can bring troubled souls back in to the track. I know Krsna is there but can't see him. I see HIM in you. Dandavat pranam. Hare Krishna.

[@sutapadey3940]

If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands...song

[@manasaanand1435]

I felt the song was "kisee ki muskuraahaton pe" by the legend Mukesh.

[@debayanbanerjee_01]

The song was " If you happy and you know it, clap your hand..If you happy and you know it, clap your hand.. if you happy and you know it, and you really want to show it, if you happy and you know it clap your hand.."

[@itsallhere3712]

Shiv strotom melody was tapped in the beginning

[@multy3164]

I do agree with you.

[@meenakarthik3753]

One of my favourite ❤️ Thank you Swamiji 🙏

[@sivaganga91]

I can very much relate this to me.. everytime I feel that I am not able to convey what is there in my mind

[@laddoomahato1628]

Good evening sir g I would like to add one more point here that is it also depends on the desire of a listener as how eager he is to know the particular thing. Please don't mind guru g But I like your preaching

[@Yadavji-rj2mz]

This song can only be guessed by the Legends Like Dhinchak Pooja, Omprakash Mishra etc.

[@godgifted5882]

Congratulations for 1 Million Subscriber...u deserve 100 Million Jay Shri Krishna😊🙏😊

[@achana1512]

Thank you sir to make us understand the point of view of the listener. We always repeat the same mistake like the tapper. From now will try not to repeat the mistake.

[@harshawasthi3820]

one of the most eloquent speaker i can ever have come across , thanku guruji for this video , lots of love from my side

[@shubhamtiwari8004]

Myself shubham tiwari i also want to be a saint like you soon i am going to say you thanks a lot ..

[@ayushrohilla008]

All the best brother for your journey. You will one day be a Good Saint

[@ayushrohilla008]

😊

[@GoldenPhoenix1981]

Lol. U know u can’t become a saint Judy because u want to. Like he said, leaders speak because they have something to say, while fools only say for the sake of saying stuff. So don’t be in the latter category.

[@narendraprajapati6413]

Parnam guru ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@nrsimhadasi8227]

Hare Krsna

[@Anuragkumar018]

Sanu

[@vikasmastwal6626]

Parnam madam ji

[@rss9001]

Happy Birthday to you + Jingle bells, Jingle bells = If you happy and you know, clap your hands👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@14neo1]

Thank you 🙏🙏

[@rajeswaribashkar386]

Harekrishna sir...just a wowwww for you❤🙏

[@enjoyingeverymoment7365]

I feel like this is what that is really happening in school these days... ☹️

[@Venom12371]

So true buddy👍

[@piyushvaish8147]

Who all Are Checking Ans.In Comments like Here 😂😂😂

[@uznainshah1102]

Mummàz HŔT Bèàţ me😅🙋🙋🙋

[@rambopeace856]

😂😂😂

[@purohitchintan66]

😂😂

[@karthikmudhiraj8774]

Mummàz HŔT Bèàţ 🙋

[@ayushirai1998]

😂😂

[@GareebSinger]

Its a popular hindi(sanskrit) song. "Shiv tandab"..

[@SurajMondal-ey3pt]

Thanks Guru ji

[@anjalimittal5605]

Sir as we all know that u are good motivator but also the way of your talking is attractive . Your vocab is very clear. Your words have the power to interact someone.. Who agree with me hit like 🙏👍

[@jyotiverma4831]

this is completely me as i always get hyper when someone asks me again and again 😂😂

[@anovaclub1563]

Which song is it

[@pavanrajput944]

Hello 👋

[@Desenholandia]

The moment u come to the comments to try to figure out which song it is lol

[@mineeshamini961]

😂yes

[@sumellika__shruti2876]

Yes 😂

[@indumati9724]

Yes 😅

[@gayatrinikumbh9464]

😂😂true

[@Civilized_1]

😁

[@darshanappi4448]

Guru Ji, please help me with your speech to overcome of Guilt and Fear which are killing me day by day, help me to obtain Inner PEACE from you most Valuable words

[@heenat2520]

DARSHAN Appi Sir hi ESA kya kiya Jo apko guilt khaye jata he. Reply only if u feel comfortable

[@ajittutika]

DARSHAN Appi please visit nearest Iskcon Temple... You can find good counselors for helping you relive your stress. Else you may reach to extreme situation

[@SrSrk98]

Think good...be good...do good...never think bad for anyone Always pray for everyone to have a blessed life:)

[@mamtakukreti3220]

Me too need inner peace

[@darshanappi4448]

@@ajittutika thank you sir. I'll visit Iskcon Temple which is situated in Bengaluru.

[@yashoboy21]

Shiv tandav stotram is the sound you are tapping 😘😘

[@chinmayeepriyadarsini6330]

May be 'Shiva tandaba stotram' Gurujii🙏🏻

[@SimpleComplexity]

Shiv tandav 🙏

[@s1a1j1]

Most of time my teachers ask me questions from the previous chapter when I ask doubt from the current chapter 😂

[@jokkujokku7381]

My teacher has to see this vedio

[@MithleshKumar-fl9gd]

Sir, We have learned english through your videos. We are learning english as well as great life lessons. Thank a million.

[@sankarikasthuri9277]

Such an enlightening video!... This video is the solution for the 'n' number of problems around... Thank you, GuruJi for this...

[@MrPranoybiswas]

Guruji ..Hare Krishna song goes with every types of melody...and as you are a devotee of Lord Krishna...it is obvious you will play Hare Krishna song..not Bollywood garbage..I think 😁😀

[@noghanvadaraaxay5659]

Pranoy Biswas good thinking brother

[@govindbisen388]

Pranoy Biswas intelligent guess

[@AnkushKumar-if1nr]

oh really...so according to u all bollywood songs are garbage. This is bcoz what's there in our brain we see it outside. Get well soon.

[@MrPranoybiswas]

Ankush Kumar ...I don't mean all ... actually some Bollywood songs are very favorite to me also... I wanted to mean those songs which are very vulgar ..I guess now you get my point. .. I love Lata, Asha,Rafi,Kishore,..and many others songs.. everyone has their own taste .. may be you don't like what I do.. isn't it ?

[@AnkushKumar-if1nr]

Yeah exactly...everyone has their own taste. The songs which seems to be 'vulgar' for u not necessary to mean the same for others. Think twice before making such statements otherwise u will get trapped in your own web of words.

[@sivat5671]

Sivathandava stothram

[@thestudentguruji187]

I thougt that the song is ' SHIV TANDAV'

[@tanushridas8640]

Sir first of all your English is so clear... It's not difficult to understand... And secondly sir you are a huge inspiration for me... Whenever i am trouble or in a peaceful mind you are always a solution... A ideol for me... Thank you sir for spreading such lovely messages among us... Thank you sir.. I wish I can met u for once

[@suparnabasak3931]

Wow sir....what a wonderful explanation!! Thankyou so much. One more thing- Hare Krishna! Thank you iskcon for your priceless contribution.