MOVING OUT AT 18 (What I Learned From Getting Out On My Own)|| STORYTIME

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Reggie Bryant

Reggie Bryant

Күн бұрын

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@yeshuaissalvation1528
@yeshuaissalvation1528 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 22, and I love my parents, I appreciate the housing, but I am so miserable because I’m not being stimulated. I want to grow, to learn what it means to fend for myself without having a backup. I feel stale, like a dull knife. I know my parents work hard for me to live comfortably, but comfort doesn’t build strong people.
@Star-ie8br
@Star-ie8br 2 жыл бұрын
Well said. I hope you're working to something now
@tracy_cakkes
@tracy_cakkes 2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@ksddre
@ksddre 2 жыл бұрын
I see your very self aware. You will go far in life🔥🔥
@STRMCLIPS7
@STRMCLIPS7 2 жыл бұрын
I was just telling my grandad how certain people can feel like this even if you got everything you need he said dont care what people say but I said it’s not what people say it’s feeling like your parents helping you don’t bring drive into your heart give you that motor you looking for
@cashtache
@cashtache Жыл бұрын
You just described my situation perfectly. Even the age haha. Hope you’re doing well man.
@sct4040
@sct4040 4 жыл бұрын
I felt imprisoned when I was at that age, not only by my home life, but by high school as well. They were suffocating!!!!! I loved college! College was a safe haven.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Same!
@enochduah3066
@enochduah3066 3 жыл бұрын
@@ReggieBryant I went to more college than home
@jaylatee9888
@jaylatee9888 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 21 and sick of feeling like I’m always in the wrong despite working a job while enrolled in college and giving my mom Money to help pay HER rent. I did it Bc we’re family and Ik she’s a single mom but it just sucked when I hit the lowest point in my life and she treated me like a lazy slob. I have a job but it’s not cutting it, so I’m getting a second job nightshift at a warehouse to save up and get the hell on. Ik it won’t be easy having no support but some people my age have kids and are making it work so I’m not doubting myself any longer. It’s happening. Thankful for the tips and advice!
@M3LTr1
@M3LTr1 2 жыл бұрын
@@KapQueen Girl please . First of all you don’t know how much she chips in and even if, it’s none of your business. They expressed well how bad it was for them but they are holding on and here you are trying to tear them down when they’re doing their best. And whatever she wants to use for money for since you wanna mention “ weaves “ is again none of your damn business. Again, you don’t know how much they chip in but the mother is the one getting prg and clearly being a nuisance to someone’s mental health, that’s on her.
@souljakoye
@souljakoye 2 жыл бұрын
Parents choose kids and should support them, not other way around. Don’t feel guilty for not supporting parents. They messed in life not u.
@a.h.i267
@a.h.i267 3 жыл бұрын
im 16 but have been plotting to move out since i was 11, i have 2 years left and i can’t believe its almost happening. Im vowing to myself that i will not fall into the trap of peer pressure and laziness! Thanks for sharing your experience🙏!
@adonis7339
@adonis7339 3 жыл бұрын
I'm about to turn 18 in November and moving out in April and it's hard but it keeps you motivated 10k in savings is a good plan that's what I'm doing with my Cadillac paid off and I paid off a iPhone 12 that way every year whenever the new one comes out you get it fir free because you trade it in
@Jr-fm2ye
@Jr-fm2ye 3 жыл бұрын
Have a source of monthly income and don’t spend it until you move out
@NewChannelSwitch
@NewChannelSwitch 3 жыл бұрын
Man I'm 15. I have three years left.
@blaze8643
@blaze8643 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 16.5 let’s go 1.5 more years to go 😭
@TopdogPlayz
@TopdogPlayz 3 жыл бұрын
@@blaze8643 more time to save money, I was in your situation and kept telling myself I have time, now I have 8 months left and $0
@vicrattlehead8665
@vicrattlehead8665 3 жыл бұрын
Almost 18, sick of this unsupportive environment. Life starts now, fresh slate. Here we go.
@calmclover3797
@calmclover3797 3 жыл бұрын
U commented this 3 months ago how are u?!
@it_is_muffin445
@it_is_muffin445 3 жыл бұрын
How are you?
@vicrattlehead8665
@vicrattlehead8665 3 жыл бұрын
@@it_is_muffin445 pretty fuckin great compared to how I was when I wrote this comment… still have LOADS of improvement space obv but my god if this isn’t a step up from that time, I mean… I actually know what I want do in life, and I set some personal boundaries and don't get stepped on by others
@PhillDrakeEntertainment
@PhillDrakeEntertainment 3 жыл бұрын
@@vicrattlehead8665 that is awesome man wish all the best and chase your dreams
@Max-rn3eb
@Max-rn3eb 3 жыл бұрын
@@vicrattlehead8665 big wins. pick up guitar some day
@RoadtoFIRE
@RoadtoFIRE 4 жыл бұрын
Loved hearing your story. I moved out at 18 and never looked back. Love my family but needed the space!
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Road to FIRE Thank you!!
@steadycreeping8508
@steadycreeping8508 3 жыл бұрын
How do I move out when it's just my mom and brothers and sisters. No protection once I leave
@runsedbliid
@runsedbliid 3 жыл бұрын
I'm planning to move out pretty soon. I am afraid. I wanna work for 4 months to have a nice cushion.
@Sickgurl7
@Sickgurl7 Жыл бұрын
@@runsedbliidyes save up as much as possible trust me
@saintarj4552
@saintarj4552 3 жыл бұрын
a lot of people think it's impossible to move out straight after high school, but bro I'mma leave straight away
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
It can be done, you got this!
@morningglory.213
@morningglory.213 3 жыл бұрын
Same like idk where ur frm but in India , everyone says my parents are soo strict they won’t let me leave Like I got those parents too but ur a fucking adult now- So stop blaming things on them fr- 💀 And same I’m gonna do the same thing-
@realtruth1448
@realtruth1448 3 жыл бұрын
In the U.S depending on what city you live in moving out after highschool is nearly impossible unless you score a really good job The average rent in the U.S is 1,124$..... then factor in monthly food Car note and or insurance Gas/light/water Gas for car Phone bill Easily can be a monthly bill of 2,000$.... so just factoring that in, the majority of people are not living on their own, and the people who live on their own for the most part score cheap rentals, if you’re lucky, but having a roomate cuts rent in half
@blaze8643
@blaze8643 3 жыл бұрын
Same I’m tired of living in a single wide trailer for 16 years
@tobyngenn9826
@tobyngenn9826 3 жыл бұрын
@@realtruth1448 you can rent a room
@marithebarb4105
@marithebarb4105 3 жыл бұрын
Thank You for this. i’m trying to move out by the end of the year at 18. hopefully this will work out
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
You got this!
@goldgemi7629
@goldgemi7629 3 жыл бұрын
Same girl we got this 💕
@hanhabonanha4306
@hanhabonanha4306 3 жыл бұрын
me too, november ! we got thai
@hanhabonanha4306
@hanhabonanha4306 3 жыл бұрын
this*
@spiwolf6998
@spiwolf6998 3 жыл бұрын
You absolutely can do this! It's scary yes, but if you keep your priorities right and meet your goals you can totally do anything!
@ALofiLife
@ALofiLife 2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your honesty. I just recently moved into my own apartment by myself. It's truly surreal and I'm doing my best to build confidence and never look back. Life is insane. I have no family at all either, it's literally just me and I have to make this work.
@huh-9494
@huh-9494 2 жыл бұрын
Stay srong 👍
@NateVega-jm3zf
@NateVega-jm3zf Ай бұрын
How’s everything bro been 3 years hope you doing good it’s 2024 now
@NebulaWolfie
@NebulaWolfie 3 жыл бұрын
Im really determined to move out at 18 this September, I already have a budget and work plans and spaces. It will be a lot of responsibility to take on so quickly, but I want my own life.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome, I wish you the absolute best!
@anaaez4128
@anaaez4128 3 жыл бұрын
yes me too! im planning to buy my own car by september and move out by december. im scared for the backlash from my family but i need to do it for myself :) best wishes to you
@silenthilll_
@silenthilll_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@anaaez4128 have you done it yet, I haven't been happy at all and I'm 17 rn turn 18 in January. Never had a job I want to to work and make my own money to the extreme, but being held back by my father who prioritize school over every aspect of my life . I need to start my own foundation and life and I legit have a vision in what I want. Art, music, streaming. I'm just on limit for everything
@TopdogPlayz
@TopdogPlayz 3 жыл бұрын
@@silenthilll_ I’m in a similar situation, except my parents prioritize themselves over my life, they just use me to boost their own gain, I turn 18 next august
@MiaChanzz
@MiaChanzz 2 жыл бұрын
Updates?
@calebsessions37
@calebsessions37 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 25 and just moving out tomorrow morning. Excited but nervous. Thank you for your message
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
I’m happy for you!! Thanks
@wadebarnett2542
@wadebarnett2542 5 ай бұрын
We need an update. How is it going these days?
@anaaez4128
@anaaez4128 3 жыл бұрын
Im planning to move out by the end of the year. Despite how my family will feel about it, i need to focus on my feelings. Im tired of being under their rules and way of life. I love them but i also love my happiness and mental health. I hope all goes well for everyone else in this same journey!! I turn 18 on September 18th so this is a special year! Im going to take control of my happiness :)
@Lovethegoddess
@Lovethegoddess 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you got the chance to move!!! Wishing you alot of happiness❤️👏🏾
@gabriella3831
@gabriella3831 3 жыл бұрын
hiii! how did it gooo
@melaniealaintrad6751
@melaniealaintrad6751 2 жыл бұрын
Did you move out? And how was it?
@tempest_2222
@tempest_2222 2 жыл бұрын
how are you?
@classicleslie6914
@classicleslie6914 3 жыл бұрын
Words cannot describe how much I love and appreciate you for this video as a male, as a Black American male. I am also in college but community and am ready to leave. I am ready to live and I want to move out. I'm ready and so hyped. I never been away from mom. It's time it really is and I love it. Subbed!!!
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🔥
@julieestrella8552
@julieestrella8552 4 жыл бұрын
i love this so much thank u for being straight up, I want to move out when I'm 18 and I see a perfect plan and was trying to find videos of people doing the same and trying to find problems I might have but they just sugarcoat their videos so THANK YOU for this
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed 😊
@maritzamoffett8021
@maritzamoffett8021 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! This was incredible. I only wish that every young man, every man listens to this. Thank you so much for sharing your life experiences and keeping it so real.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 😃
@richiedanaher7112
@richiedanaher7112 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the inspiring video I’m trying to prove my independence to my parents now that I am going to college. But I still feel like no matter how hard I try I can’t gain that independence while still living with my parents.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly how I felt 💯
@justducky8508
@justducky8508 Жыл бұрын
I’m 23 and I live at home with my mom. Living with your parents doesn’t make you “weak” or “privileged”. There’s no need to dump yourself in the deep end to prove that you’re strong. Focus on yourself and your finances & build habits while IN your moms home. Don’t let other people’s circumstances push you to make a poor financial decision. I know dozens of people that was eager to move out and wished they had stayed at home with their parents so they can invest more aggressively. If you’re reading this and you live with your parents, strategize your life REGARDLESS if you’re living alone or not. You’re not weak for having a safety net, you’re more prepared, because let’s face it, you’re going to experience the real world and get tougher with or without prepared financials. And for those that move out early due to poor circumstances or eagerness, I’m proud of you for making the jump but tread carefully on words you use around those that haven’t made the leap yet. Keep in mind there are people that stay with mom and pop maybe because mom and pop need them. Focus on yourself. Your finances. Your objectives & YOUR health❤️
@baka5835
@baka5835 Жыл бұрын
bum
@Charming_Lure
@Charming_Lure Жыл бұрын
well said. Its the classic american mindset that you HAVE to move out at an early age. It really depends on your goals and ambitions.
@ElizabethSampson
@ElizabethSampson 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! It is so important to share with others. Life lessons learned the hard way but very memorable.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@MrsApril-kx9wt
@MrsApril-kx9wt 3 жыл бұрын
Reggie, Your video has helped me understand the behavior of my son better. He moved out a few months ago at the age of 18. So many things we warned him about he is learning the hard way. As a Mom, it is painful to watch and not try to help fix it but his Dad has helped me understand that our son needs and wants to figure it out himself. Thank you for your words of wisdom to younger people. Now here is some advice from an older generation, If a person hasn’t had children yet , especially grown children, they probably won’t understand the importance of this. If you’re not already, Set aside a few minutes to call your parents at least once a week and tell them about what’s going in your life. It will mean alot to them.❤️😊🤗
@sidxsriram
@sidxsriram 3 жыл бұрын
Thank u for making this video bro. I’m 22 years old going to move out for the first time in a month. I’m going to succeed and make everyone respect me as a man
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats bro!
@prettymilli6984
@prettymilli6984 3 жыл бұрын
Discipline is really important , everyone needs it. Thank you for this 👏🏽
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@zerozero2166
@zerozero2166 3 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful to know your story because I am moving out in under 48 hours and I didn't know I knew so little but now I know more important things so thank you very much
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help! 🤙🏾
@soulfulsessionswithsihleen3522
@soulfulsessionswithsihleen3522 Жыл бұрын
I'm 18 turning 19 next month and I'll be going to university next year and I'm going through exactly the same thing that you went through when you were 17 in terms of wanting to move out and not returning back home ever again.
@chriscarlisle777
@chriscarlisle777 3 жыл бұрын
Moving out tomorrow, just curious to see some other perspectives before I head out 😎
@pedrofarias9724
@pedrofarias9724 3 жыл бұрын
Same here heading out in 2 days good luck brotha 💯🤘
@heinrichdekok1261
@heinrichdekok1261 3 жыл бұрын
Same with me I will move out in 4 days ,I just wanted to see someone else's experience
@mygrandmaisatoaster40
@mygrandmaisatoaster40 3 жыл бұрын
@@heinrichdekok1261 hope it went well for you! About to move out too
@nishka9605
@nishka9605 3 жыл бұрын
@@heinrichdekok1261 how's it going ?
@nishka9605
@nishka9605 3 жыл бұрын
@@mygrandmaisatoaster40 ayo goodluck !
@joycelawrence7183
@joycelawrence7183 4 жыл бұрын
Those limitations are the ethos of the young man you have become level headed grounded and structured thinking and also clear headed. Thank God for the parents you have. They haven my respect...uk subscriber 67 years old. Keep your feet firmly on the ground. God bless
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the positivity! I really appreciate it
@skylarsimard2942
@skylarsimard2942 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this vid. I got kicked out of my house by my parents now I live by myself with 2 roomates it’s been hard tbh so this vid helped me with a lot thanks
@dianemedina5814
@dianemedina5814 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my God. Thank you so much for doing this video. May God Bless you richly. I have 4 teenage grandchildren that are coming up to that point and I feel so blessed to be able to share this with them. What a True Treasure. Thank you so very much.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I’m glad you enjoyed and found value in this!!
@YesToTech
@YesToTech 4 жыл бұрын
What an amazing video Reggie! I also moved out at 18 and I grew so, so much! Thanks for sharing your story! :)
@Logo_lj
@Logo_lj Жыл бұрын
I feel trapped I feel grateful they took me in but I’m ready to start building my self for my future I know it ain’t gonna be easy I’m gonna work for it no matter what I ain’t giving up I wanna be smart about it and your videos are really helpful thank you for the tips man
@imvanbradshaw
@imvanbradshaw 4 жыл бұрын
Your story is inspiring, thank you for sharing the lessons you learned.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
😀
@karen3876
@karen3876 4 жыл бұрын
Reggie, This is priceless! Wish more young people would be focused like this. Good advise for all young men. Things I didn’t teach my boys. I can only hope they will come across these videos and apply your lessons in their lives. God bless. Your parents must be very blessed.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@simbarocksone
@simbarocksone 2 жыл бұрын
I’m planning to move out to Uni in 4 days and I needed to hear this. Here’s what I picked up: 1. Have a solid plan before moving- packing and moving to the new place, meeting people and preparing for your course. 2. Discipline is key for studies, budgeting and financial independence to the point where you don’t rely on anyone. 3. The world is cruel and will test you physically and mentally and this will test who you are and that’s pretty scary. 4. Pushing through so many barriers by yourself makes the experience so fulfilling as you earn respect for yourself, your parents and your peers. Thank you so much! Hoping I can do this!
@chigochigo6643
@chigochigo6643 2 жыл бұрын
did you move out?
@giovannaescobar407
@giovannaescobar407 3 жыл бұрын
hoping to have 10k in savings by the time i move out at october 1st. i’ll be 18 in september. i’m scared but ima make this happen
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
You got this. Make it happen!!
@Kevin_burgess
@Kevin_burgess 3 жыл бұрын
If you don’t mind me asking, how much do you have saved now? I currently have a little over 2k saved up, and I am currently working on a calendar date for having 10k. That’s a lot of money to save lmao.
@anaaez4128
@anaaez4128 3 жыл бұрын
im going to 18 in september too! on the 18th. untill then, i planning to save and prepare
@unreleasedcontent9316
@unreleasedcontent9316 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kevin_burgess get into investing your $ to make more
@unreleasedcontent9316
@unreleasedcontent9316 3 жыл бұрын
@KASHMAER bro I stay in California I can’t go door to door offering services maybe south south or somewhere less cityish
@kal386
@kal386 4 жыл бұрын
You are one of the most underrated creators on youtube. Throughout the video I had my eyes and ears 100% focused because you speak so clearly and get straight to the point. Thank you so much for this.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@gxnailz
@gxnailz 3 жыл бұрын
I took the chance and put a security deposit down for my first spot! I have to break the news to my parents this Wednesday and I am dreading it. Thank you for this video !
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
I wish you the best. Thank you!
@deoksunsong1863
@deoksunsong1863 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 16 and planning to move out at 18 to pursue studying abroad because I felt that moving out from my parents house would be a great decision for my self-growth and also a great start for me to become independent and responsible for my own life. I Just don't want to be burden for them anymore...
@tinydemons988
@tinydemons988 Жыл бұрын
Oh.. the thing that pushed me the most was when I told my Mom and dad that I was moving out my dad looked at my mom and said he’ll be back don’t worry. Now there were two ways that I could take that , 1 a reverse psychology thing or 2 He had no faith in me , he knew that I wasn’t ready something in me my actions told him that I couldn’t do it. Which hurt more but kick started that school yard phrase “ I’LL SHOW HIM “
@aa1903
@aa1903 4 жыл бұрын
Bro you are so motivating! I just shared your video with like 5 people! I especially love that you touched on not getting stuck in victim mentality and walked us through how all you owned up. Keep doing the work you’re doing🙏🏽🙌🏽 Thank you!!
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and sharing! I’m glad this was motivating!!
@TOOBUSY-yq9mm
@TOOBUSY-yq9mm Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience I too am planning on moving out the goal is next year am currently saving money and learning new skills and everything I can to prepare me for next year I can't wait 🏃
@EdenGold
@EdenGold 4 жыл бұрын
These are some very valuable lessons, and I love how you continue to touch on important topics that can help so many young people. THANK YOU FOR YOUR WISDOM AND YOUR STORY
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
That means so much! Thank you!
@sokka1005
@sokka1005 2 жыл бұрын
so far this is the best video i've watched on the subject of moving out young. take it from a 16 year old
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate it!
@saigie3908
@saigie3908 2 жыл бұрын
Such a wise man! God bless him & cover him
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@bianca4829
@bianca4829 3 жыл бұрын
This is the realest advice. The truth is, you just gotta live life to understand it.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Much appreciated!
@bhajanphul7979
@bhajanphul7979 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I recently graduated and am planning for my own place. I appreciate the honesty and what to expect.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
You got this 💯🤙🏾
@brodywalters4079
@brodywalters4079 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 16 and I can’t wait to leave. I’m not coming back either. My parents are so strict that if I text someone they block that person through Verizon. They have screen time that runs 24/7 through my phone. And dad is drunk half of the time. I’m trying to figure out how to make sure I can sustain myself once I leave. But I’m hoping I can figure it out. And soon.
@japsukei8685
@japsukei8685 2 жыл бұрын
I believe in you I’m rooting for you
@Malin0vkka
@Malin0vkka 11 ай бұрын
Hey man!!! It's been 2 years, how're you doin?
@brodywalters4079
@brodywalters4079 11 ай бұрын
@@Malin0vkka been a lot better. lowkey realized that it wasn’t that bad and that i was overreacting
@HouseJunk1e
@HouseJunk1e 3 жыл бұрын
This is the video I was looking for. Ty.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you enjoyed 🙏🏾💯
@ducklin_arts5855
@ducklin_arts5855 2 жыл бұрын
First of all thank you so soo much for this video. So i am moving of in a month and it’s a bit sudden decision that i had to make. This video is such. Help every time when i think that it’s gonna be really hard or that I can’t do it i literally just watch this video . It gives me all the confidence and strength that i need to face the real world.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 2 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help 💯 🙏🏾
@shamiahfields7991
@shamiahfields7991 2 жыл бұрын
wow I never comment on videos but this was worded so perfectly. God bless you, because you didn't have to share this with us. Thank you!
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you enjoyed it! That’s what I’m here for
@galvansword2166
@galvansword2166 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. Im trying to give myself good discipline, and stabalize myself to be at ease
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 2 жыл бұрын
You got this!
@platonum3832
@platonum3832 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed this... Thanks for this man! deeply appreciated, you have my sub
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
@jenborshuk4515
@jenborshuk4515 4 жыл бұрын
#bingeworthy Thank you for sharing this story. I did the same thing as you--moved out without a plan and had to dig myself out of such a hole. We did it tho! 👏
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@EndlessMemoriesMusic
@EndlessMemoriesMusic 3 жыл бұрын
Trying to move out ,not from my parent's home but from my country ..hopefully i can make it by the end of next year.
@Omar_-5
@Omar_-5 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 20 years old and still living with my parent's🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️,I'm writing my goals and hope to achieve them before I move out.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
It’s definitely no rush, the key is financial stability before moving out. I wish you the absolute best!
@NoCluYT
@NoCluYT 3 жыл бұрын
20yo with parents is nothing weird or wrong. That just means more time to set urself financially
@therealbabykyky
@therealbabykyky 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad your video came up I’m 17 and I’ll be 18 in October. I got kicked out of my moms house in August 2021 so I’ve been saving money and got a job. Trying to go to community college at the same time so I feel like I’m planning everything ahead of time to avoid struggling.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
I wish you the best! You got this!
@LILDEE3XXvlog
@LILDEE3XXvlog 2 жыл бұрын
Upload some videos
@infiniteenergys9973
@infiniteenergys9973 2 жыл бұрын
Bruh im 18 with no dipoloma in a highly toxic family dead broke currently stuck in a forgine country going back to my home country with no place to live or job man i havent even moved out and life is already tuff hopefully when im on my own I can get on my feet same to anyone going through tuff times rn🙏
@divaboo2412
@divaboo2412 2 жыл бұрын
Same with Me * I can't take living with those toxi ass ppl anymore ..
@livefromtheground7274
@livefromtheground7274 3 жыл бұрын
I felt the same thing at 16. I had a full time job and prepared myself to be out at 18. Found an affordable apt thru a friend and never looked back. I didn’t fight or cuss them or anything like that. And I was scared! I learned hard lessons in dealing with men and it was during the crack era. Many of them were addicts and people were outrageous. I always stayed employed so that helped. I look back and realize 18 was very young. My daughter left at 19 and we barely talk. My 17 yo I put out because she’s so disrespectful fighting me. The police at my house all the time and ambulances cause she claims she’s gonna kill herself broke my heart, now I’m bejng charged with neglect. Watching these videos now and my heart breaks for everyone.
@gabriella3831
@gabriella3831 3 жыл бұрын
do you beat your kids? are you strict with them? do u verbally cuss them out? cause that could influence their behavior. look up
@peightonrunkel7406
@peightonrunkel7406 2 жыл бұрын
Im 16 now, 17 in September but I'm making plans, saving money and all to be able to get out, thank you.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 2 жыл бұрын
You got this!
@DonnieGupton
@DonnieGupton 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this life lessons this is very interesting to watch!
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
👍🏾
@jotarokujo9242
@jotarokujo9242 3 жыл бұрын
wow the respect thing made alot of sense. cant wait until im finally financially independent
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! A lot of people don’t think about the respect part at all
@mage6562
@mage6562 3 жыл бұрын
Fantastic advice dude. I’m 19 going to college in september.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Much appreciated!! I wish you the best
@debyates4543
@debyates4543 Жыл бұрын
You are an AWESOME INSPIRATION❣️ Thank You!!❤
@haleysmith9062
@haleysmith9062 3 жыл бұрын
I’m moving out by the end of this year and I’ll be 18 in October, I cannot wait.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
You got this! I’m happy for you
@sct4040
@sct4040 4 жыл бұрын
My freshman year, I didn't really know what a syllabus was 🤣🤣🤣 . I also had to work really hard to get my GPA to a decent #. Every 17-23 year old should watch this video.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@kanamekiyru
@kanamekiyru 2 жыл бұрын
I was luckily still living at home when my reality check hit. 2 years later I'm finally about to move in a couple of months and it won't be a struggle move
@jjvandermerwe4894
@jjvandermerwe4894 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is just what I needed. Thank you so much!
@lilxcoco8072
@lilxcoco8072 Жыл бұрын
Go to Church if you ever feel alone or suffering from depression it’s good for the void that we all need, God got you.
@Leawwww
@Leawwww 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me realize so much...I am 21 and moving out very soon.
@mysterycurry
@mysterycurry 2 жыл бұрын
My parents are overprotective narcissists and they keep gaslighting me into not moving out because of roach infested buildings and men preying on me. Before I was at their mercy because I needed co-signers/guarantors. But now I can just move where I want without anyones help. Period.
@beautifulnaypage
@beautifulnaypage 3 жыл бұрын
On the freeway listening to this I appreciate you putting out this video ❤️
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Much appreciated 💯
@thomasduke7827
@thomasduke7827 Жыл бұрын
Yk man, this is huge for me, my parents do love me and all just I'm not in an environment where I can truly live, rn I'm just surviving, this video helped me be prepared as 17 going onto my senior year were I plan to move out in 4 months
@newnengates3764
@newnengates3764 3 жыл бұрын
This is the most important video I've ever came across with moving out.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
That means a lot! Thank you!
@williamrussell83
@williamrussell83 3 жыл бұрын
You're inspiring to me Reggie. I went through a lot of this myself. Thanks for this video and the confidence you have given me. I greatly appreciate it bud.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏🏾
@graciouschioma5210
@graciouschioma5210 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks reggie am planning on moving out as soon as am 18 years ..please make more videos like this ...am new to your channel
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 2 жыл бұрын
You got it! 🫡
@Huuppah
@Huuppah 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this, along with your insights...
@Thee_Labb
@Thee_Labb Жыл бұрын
this was very motivational cause im going through this my first year of college and it really made me think
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant Жыл бұрын
I’m glad I could help!
@shade_fox3175
@shade_fox3175 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you man this has given me a lot to think about before i move out in 2 years
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you enjoyed! More moving out videos will be posted soon
@kadenvalentine8230
@kadenvalentine8230 3 жыл бұрын
The first minute of this video is exactly what I think everyday
@steezytaegan4612
@steezytaegan4612 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 19 and living with my dad and step family, I don’t like how negative it is here, and I really really want to leave
@mrwendigo3374
@mrwendigo3374 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed in order to move out
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@nateSeries
@nateSeries 2 жыл бұрын
Same boss I hate living by people’s rule this sh*t is killing me now , I’m gonna make a move by the end of this year , I hope help me out
@meeieio
@meeieio 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been 18 for two months, and I’m wanting to move out and in with my boyfriend (even if I didn’t have a boyfriend I’d end up moving out) and I don’t know how to explain that to my parents
@calmclover3797
@calmclover3797 3 жыл бұрын
Don't explain it ur an adult 😁
@ckw1519
@ckw1519 4 жыл бұрын
You’re inspiration Keep going don’t stop
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Will do!
@jas2beinspired146
@jas2beinspired146 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I’m trying to finish school due to be being in and out of it. I want to move out so bad.. have to prioritize
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Prioritization is key
@destinyrivera8139
@destinyrivera8139 2 жыл бұрын
My stepdad unfortunately verbally abuses me all the time and call me all of these degrading names. I’m hoping that this year I move out
@stefanstefanov8365
@stefanstefanov8365 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! That was exactly what I needed to hear.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you enjoyed
@jordanmendiola7025
@jordanmendiola7025 3 жыл бұрын
Great story man. You have a great head on your shoulders!
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@sammccaw4859
@sammccaw4859 3 жыл бұрын
I'm moving out next year !!! Gonna live with my boyfriend and his parents 💟💖🥺
@ULTRAVEGITO-l1o
@ULTRAVEGITO-l1o Жыл бұрын
Thanks man I plan on leaving today or Sunday
@ruthibrahim5133
@ruthibrahim5133 2 жыл бұрын
I am a girl of 32 years and single leaving with African parent😭 I m really going through trauma and blackmail from mum & how she hadly understand me, every day I feel I need to see a physchologist or someone to talk to that can understand me, worst of all is how my married siblings come home and fight me why I m still not married & why I have no shame still single in my parent house maybe cos I like to care toomuch for my mum & I get worried who will take proper care of her and daddy the way I want it, I have a good job and right now I feel I should move out and have my peace, when it's time to get married I will let them know, I am in pains & hurt ..I don't even like the part my mum feel my married sisters are always right when we have any argument jst bCOs they have kids and married they treat them like they are more responsible🙈 I need to go pay for a house soon and I need advice on how to nicely & respectfully break the news to them without been offensive🤦🤔
@reallogan
@reallogan Жыл бұрын
I understand you because I am African also Nigerian precisely you have to move out dear.
@preyonce
@preyonce 3 жыл бұрын
This is gold, thanks for sharing!
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@gigraphickinstallers
@gigraphickinstallers Жыл бұрын
Great video , thank you.
@chlq35
@chlq35 3 жыл бұрын
Great video buddy.
@Nytellem
@Nytellem Жыл бұрын
Aye, you jus lived a regular experienced but privileged life. Atleast you had a father, and that gives you a more head start in life than everyone who only had one parent present and struggling financially. When you learn all these “life lessons” at a young age of 7,10,11 or even younger, you learn quick how hard life could be when your suppose to jus be a kid.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant Жыл бұрын
I hear you, but the purpose of this video is to teach people how to move out of their parent’s house and what those benefits look like. Assuming I had a privileged life doesn’t have much to do with the topic of the video at all. Besides, I never said any of this would be easy
@asj4785
@asj4785 3 жыл бұрын
When I turn 18, the first semester of senior year will be over, I basically have Christmas break to move before the second semester starts
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Are you ready/excited?
@ephraimrene9624
@ephraimrene9624 3 жыл бұрын
This video alone just made me subscribe. Salute king.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro! Salute
@anhdrw
@anhdrw 4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate this.
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@keyontaylor9220
@keyontaylor9220 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this bro I’m 18 I’m sub
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 4 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the channel bro!!
@mysterycurry
@mysterycurry 2 жыл бұрын
Ughhhh everything you’re saying is golden
@rayskates159
@rayskates159 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice. Thank you
@ReggieBryant
@ReggieBryant 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 2 жыл бұрын
I care more about getting respect (and even praise) from society! I think that's harder, at least from my experience.
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