Regrets from my 20s, Language Learning Hacks, & Terrible Advice | Not Your Average Jo Podcast #22

[@jofranco]

What was the worst advice you've ever gotten? PS: Do you want more visual podcasts?

[@TalitaNeres]

Yes, please! And some videos in portuguese too

[@khalilahd.]

Just the idea of revenge when someone wrongs you instead of healing and removing that person from your life. Doing something to hurt them they way they hurt you only stunts your growth and doesn’t take away the pain you are dealing with in the first place. I’m so glad I quickly learned this was not the ideology to have in life. And yes I LOVE the visual podcasts!

[@NM-zn5qk]

I just want to mention that unfortunately a lot of people don’t have the extra money that the mango language app is available free through most libraries as long as you have a library card. It’s immersive and I enjoy using it.

[@ines5013]

yeeaaah please more visual!one of the good thing of that it´s like if I don´t understand any word on spotify , here in YT I can use the subtitles!

[@EricStinehart]

+1 to visual podcasts!

[@ksanetmehari7202]

Just because people WANT whats best for you doesn't mean they KNOW whats best for you.

[@onwards.and.upwards]

Wow that just opened my eyes thank you for sharing that 💖

[@stephanieg2887]

Worst advice ive gotten: dont apply to this internship (or job/etc), you are too young and inexperienced. Glad I never listened. I got accepted and it changed my life. Dont let others tell you what you can or can’t accomplish. Dont hold yourself back just because someone doesn’t believe in you.

[@YogaBlissDance]

Same here!

[@val3rystar885]

The worst advice Ive ever received to this day is to lower my standards for other people around me... its bs! and because I uphold high standards for the people closest to me Ive been able to stay true to my core values, protect my energy, stay out of drama and care for my mental health. Im a firm believer that if you truly love yourself you will be picky with your energy and with who you allow in your circle! Its okay to deny access when people are not meeting your standards

[@abdullahtk33]

worst advice was to change career paths to be realistic; i went to a talk this week, and the host basically said that a good mentor is someone who isnt going to give you the advice for the trendline; if youre an outlier (which to a degree we all are), you need tailored advice

[@gandg.6830]

Worst advice I've ever received was from a college advisor who told me to stick to my plan of study. I had already gotten approval from my professor to skip a class and move in to the higher class and my advisor tried to tell me that wasn't possible. Make a plan of study that works for you and your interests. We spend too much money on tuition for it to be cookie cutter.

[@khalilahd.]

Yesss! I’m so happy you’re talking about language learning! I’ve followed your career since your show on Netflix and I admire your commitment to exploring the world and learning new languages to connect with locals and it’s beyond inspiring. I’m currently trying to learn Japanese (as my first language outside of my native English) and to be honest I don’t know where to start so this is so helpful. Thanks for being an inspiration Jo 💛

[@littlepuppet34]

Literally exactly what I needed. All of these things are things I’ve been thinking a lot about as a 20 something who wants to travel to learn languages. I want to make my 20s meaningful. Thank you ❤️

[@jofranco]

Thanks for the comment ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾 hopefully my mistakes become your triumphs!

[@oluwashinaomisanya7487]

"Feeding two birds with one scone." I love that!

[@jjjj-uh3mu]

You can break a scone into two pieces. You cannot easily break a stone into two while trying to hunt dinner in the wilderness, even if you did it may become too small or useless for throwing. Having one stone means having one chance.

[@blessedwithcolour]

I love how you described homesickness in a beautiful way, such a refreshing perspective!! I'm moving from my home country in a few months so I was a bit nervous about it but this makes me feel so much better

[@trangnguyen-tj7nb]

Im glad Jo is back on track!! Really nice of you to say impact is more important than numbers :)

[@i78sd273sdf]

Yes, Jo!!! Make more videos of you speaking several foreign languages!!! I've seen a few of yours, but we need more!!! So inspiring!!! ❤❤❤

[@jencristina2881]

Ok, what did I miss? I SWEAR I came here looking for you latest video intending to comment "where's the visual podcasts????" and look what I found! Is it what destiny is? What a warming surprise! Loved this visual podcast!

[@aohamer]

"Sounds like a skin condition" 🤣 I can totally relate to following the itches of life. So glad you're doing that for yourself even if it's 10 years later. I loved this talk 💕 Thanks Jo!

[@Tessebun]

Wow. I have NEVER EVER watched a 40 minutes video from start to finish. I couldnt not finish it. And im left wanting for more. You've given me a ton to think about. Like im legit tempted to turn on the light, take out a piece of paper, start thinking about my life and writing stuff down. Even if its almost 9pm! And to think I literally just discovered you this evening from your french video. One thing lead to amother and here I am. Lots of what you said resonated with me because I've failed at alot of things. And this left me reluctant to want things for a while. But I think I feel pumped now. We're the same age, You've achieved so much, And you've inspired me. So thank you for this.

[@jofranco]

yayyy! hope you wrote things down :)!!!!

[@Tessebun]

@@jofranco I did.... Alot. And I've been revisiting those words since then to ensure I'm still on track.

[@8AlisaInez]

🥹Worse advice I’ve ever gotten; To go home. My department supervisor released me from my position, after, the department approved my disability accommodating work schedule. Then, I was told to wait on the lord and everything happens for a reason! The value of a Passport is life changing! 💚Traveling abroad and learning to speak multiple languages, along with tasting some of the best food, is the best part of studying 📚 abroad. Traveling 🧳 abroad changed my life!

[@BlueBlossom24]

I cannot wait to pick up your book one day- already considering a spot on my bookshelf saved for it and every book of yours after the first!

[@YogaBlissDance]

@21:09 I had an old white male professor tell me I shouldn't apply to a very good college, he thought that I wouldn't "fit" in as it's mostly upper class....and I'm black and working class background--what an idiot. I did it got in and loved it. How will we grow if we never change things or expand out of a box? He also didnt' even realize his advice was racist and more. HE said the women who attended that college were well traveled and ...has "big calves." ughhh...what the heck do their calves have to do with anything??? So funny, he had the tweed suit with the pathces at elbow. So glad I didn't listen. Trust your gut.

[@Jordan-xg4pn]

I told my younger brother the exact same thing simply because of my own experience. He probably had good intentions and is happy that he was wrong :)

[@1flower161]

ayee im glad to see you're uploading visual podcasts now! Its so dope that you're adding extra footage and effects to it so it's not just a standard recording 💕 as for the worst advice i've ever got...CHILE! I've been told by so many ppl from family, acquaintences, etc to not go to therapy bc its a waste of time and all they'll do is suggest some woo woo solutions for your problems and affirm your feelings without being critical. That was a blantant lie bc not every problem with your mental health can be solved by diet, exercise, praying, talking to wiser ppl in your life, etc. If you continously see a concerning pattern with your mental health, it is okay to see help bc it could very well transform your life for the better.

[@jofranco]

Thanks for the comment ❤️ and yea - therapy is such a great tool! It’s definitely something older generations weren’t always aware of though - I think we’re the self-aware enthusiasts always looking to heal these wounds! Keep shining boo!

[@-aims_italydream07]

Just found your Podcast today and I LOVE IT your so authentic

[@Ivy46983]

I think songs are a really good way to learn accents! I've been learning Portuguese for nearly three years now and I listen to lots of different Brazilian musicians. I've noticed I automatically sing in the accent of the singer when I've heard the song a few timses

[@katelynfields2345]

Yayyy, I love watching my fav podcasts!! I love seeing people's facial expressions and body language when they talk, especially about things they are passionate about. Couldn't agree more about the pros and cons of where you live. I feel like it's the same in small town, rural KY. Spring time is gorgeous (when it's not raining) and I love being relatively close to my family and friends. But maaaan, do I get in a rut with the same old, same old.

[@delilahs8037]

Jo, you're so inspiring. The world needs more inspiring people. thanks for sharing things with the world :)

[@AlaunaRoby]

19:08 your coffee is the only one making waves here lmao I was so nervous for your white shirt

[@jofranco]

That’s my personal brand

[@alexisterry7112]

Thank you Jo for the Visual Podcast! I enjoy all your videos because you speak the realist truth! You are an OG! I've learned so much from you. As a former Communications Arts students, I can honestly relate to the "go back to the drawing board" comment. Sometimes these professors don't know best. Point of View is is essential when asking for advice. I wish there were more diversity in higher education insitutions, because diverse minds have a better frame of reference.

[@beige_ricaforte]

Wow, I was never this interested in podcast style but when this ended, I felt like 'it ended to soon'. Thank you for sharing! I learned something 💕

[@denisdenchev413]

Worst advice Ive been given is look around at what other people are doing. Why aren't you at the level they are. For me there is a time and place for everything that's why I never listened.

[@everyone]

I never leave comments but leaving one now so you know your content isn't going into the void!! I live in CT too close to family and I agree 100% on your pros and cons. I love having a home base though and being able to fly all over the world and come back to family.

[@jofranco]

THANK YOU!! Connecticut team stand up haha!

[@nathanweasley5564]

Jo te amo, tu literalmente mudou minha vida, obrigado pelo ótimo trabalho ❤❤🤝🏽

[@jofranco]

Wowwwww que comentário lindo!!

[@thefamiliarforeigner]

Absolutely loved this episode. Thank you for this, it honestly feels like I needed this at this exact time🙏🏽& yessss, more visual podcasts for sure!!

[@alexwyler4570]

Good singers can often copy/imitate accents more easily than non-singers. Something I observed.

[@511Colin]

I’m actually obsessed with how amazing his beatboxing was

[@EricStinehart]

Jo you have such a nice podcast voice I love it! Thank you for all the great content :)

[@temisanpopo8036]

I love you and everything your doing! Im an avid listener of your podcast.

[@jofranco]

So glad to see it! The podcast is so interesting because there’s no comments section at all, so I’m like… is anyone hearing this?! 🤣 glad to see a human on the other end

[@TheBaritonoAssoluto]

For me acquiring accents is easier in an intentional setting but if im next to a native and Ive heard the language before I can not do it at ALL

[@TalitaNeres]

Jo, estou começando meu negócio digital e, uau, como olhar para a sua jornada me inspira!

[@monicaokami]

I actually just finished binge-listening to your podcast yesterday! Glad to see the video version of your nephew beat boxing xD BTW I plan on participating in your 21 day language challenge soon! I appreciate the way you phrased how paying for an app/lessons are an investment in yourself. I've noticed a lot of language channels have been ragging on Duolingo lately, which makes me sad because that has been a really helpful resource for me both to refresh my high school Spanish and to pinpoint things I need to work on. Obviously that's not the only thing I use, I make mistakes speaking in the real world and watch KZbin grammar/speaking videos, but as far as apps go it's definitely what I've spent the most time on. The WAY you described it, what I'm sure other people are trying to say about it, inspired me to buy a course and hopefully I'll be doing some tutoring soon cuz I'm sick of not being fluent lol Most of the worst advice I've gotten are from my mother making generalizations about people, and her presenting that as wisdom she's gained at her age. (Ex all men do this, all people from this culture are this religion, all people with this skin color believe in the super natural etc.) Thankfully I'm old enough to realize its bs and even my younger sister knows it's poopoocaca thanks to the environment we grew up in, somehow we turned out pretty mindful.

[@jofranco]

Love this paragraph 💕 yea I’m not ANTI the gamified apps, but I know they’re like Frappuccino drinkers saying they drink coffee. It’s good as a gateway, but only the tip of the Iceberg

[@monicaokami]

@@jofranco Exactly 💯 you're so good at articulating. I wouldn't ever say I learned a language from one specific thing, but I also wouldn't say I love EXpresso instead of ESpresso lol

[@indiahawkins8732]

Your nephew is so talented!!!!

[@parismir9856]

girl u are radiating!

[@blackkman]

Wow, we get a video version of your podcast. This is wonderful..

[@jofranco]

Thanks Owolabi ❤️

[@janellepichardo8376]

Wow. I've never had a role model. I think i just found my first. Thank you for existing as you are - it makes me believe that I can and should exist as me, too.

[@jofranco]

Wow what a lovely comment ❤️❤️❤️

[@anelagrace]

You have a podcast!!? My day just got better :) thanks for being you 💚

[@toshspice]

Love this video. It was the best part of my work day.

[@jofranco]

Your comments are the best part of my work day ❤️

[@amayaperry]

Worst advice - not actually a direct piece of advice but more on my end thinking others knew what was best for me. Trust yourself bc only you know you best. (This is not to say never take advice but don’t value other’s advice and opinions over your own to the point where you keep doing things that don’t work for you) my example is “do the hardest thing first” when that actually is very counter productive for how I personally work.

[@SharonizedMakeUp]

Thank you! This was a great podcast .❤️🙏🏾

[@maemilan2352]

Nah your nephew went awfff😅👏🏾🔥

[@meika175]

jo i am looooving your recent content! I've been following your journey since i was 14 and now I'm 21 and currently traveling around europe for 3 months - omg that's crazy to write out. goes without saying I'm incredibly inspired by you. always asking myself WWJD? what would jo do? 🤔✈️💗

[@jofranco]

Thank you for caring for so long 🥹💕 lol at WWJD that’s hilarious!!! I’m curious how that’s shaped experiences you’ve had!! Let me know :)

[@victorbarbosa9318]

Congrats, Jo! It’s fucking amazing!

[@jofranco]

Thank youuuuuu ❤️🥹

[@alexandriagonzalez7801]

Loving this look!

[@abdullahtk33]

words are also the only memory that doesnt decline

[@lavenderwarrior1]

I do have a question, how can I learn a language if I have a tongue tie? I can't roll my r's. It's physically impossible for me. What would you suggest for me in this case? I really want to speak it well.

[@grainofsalt2113]

Jo looking stunning!~~~

[@jofranco]

Thanks boo

[@thatswhytheycallmelanita6980]

Ah I love the person u have become 😁❤️

[@Sammieboi04]

I can understand different languages a bit but I can’t do accents either. I know Spanish French but can’t to their English accents

[@bilingualmami]

I can mimick any accent...💪🏾🥰

[@jofranco]

what's your secret?

[@bilingualmami]

@@jofranco Super Sonic Ears!!

[@meg7221]

Wait when did you go to Portland? Can't believe I missed that :(

[@abdullahtk33]

wait im laughing at feeding two birds with one scone instead of killing with a stone

[@jofranco]

Hahaha! It’s because the killing part is so aggressive 😂😂😂

[@forbsy2116]

Could u send a link to that Lake Como airbnb please 🙏🏾?

[@jofranco]

It’s in the description boo ❤️

[@theartesana]

Have you read Big Magic?! ❣️✨

[@jofranco]

I have! It’s a great book!

[@theartesana]

@@jofranco Indeed it is! Part of your talk reminded me of it, as one tends to push away our true desires/purpose to only have the Universe give you all kind of signs and encouragement to follow your heart!❣️✨Lately, you have been exuding beauty that only comes with being true to yourself❣️✨INSPIRING!

[@carlosbarross]

I didn't know u had a podcast!!! Unfurtanely I am not an apple music subscriber anymore

[@Ivy46983]

Older Caucasian gentleman 😂😂 Yes, they do love to impart their wisdom.

[@christyclarissemercier6359]

They really hit her with the 'relatively young' 🤔

[@jofranco]

Hahahahaha