Rejection Never Has The Final Say | Lysa TerKeurst

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Jeff & Alyssa

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@KatieBadger1
@KatieBadger1 8 жыл бұрын
I'm feeling extremely hurt by the actions of my ex right now, and this just spoke to me. Thank you, Lysa. Turning pain into compassion is something I've never thought about before. God's blessings to you!
@MichelleAlejandra
@MichelleAlejandra 8 жыл бұрын
Such perfect timing. I've been going through a season of being falsely accused and being rejected as a result of it. Something a friend told me that is giving me peace during this season is "Sometimes rejection is just God's 'no.' "
@rdetv1840
@rdetv1840 8 жыл бұрын
Yes I definitely agree Michelle. Very wise words. Feel free to check out my latest video on religion vs relationship.
@iiAngelic
@iiAngelic 8 жыл бұрын
Just went through a horrible break up, my compassion for breakups and rejections definitely grew!
@tiffanysergey
@tiffanysergey 8 жыл бұрын
I've been there!! it definitely makes you grow and help others who are going through it :)
@TheWellnessPatriot
@TheWellnessPatriot 8 жыл бұрын
I love the idea of a Monday night dinner and being able to help someone feel welcomed, loved, and accepted. My biggest rejection happened when I was 3.5 and is my first memory. That surely has carried with me to this day. I look forward to Lysa's book!
@175Boomer
@175Boomer 8 жыл бұрын
Oh My..... I just pre-ordered this for the Bible study and 5 mins later I opened KZbin and watched this video!!! (There's a sign!!) Amen
@JeffersonBethkepage
@JeffersonBethkepage 8 жыл бұрын
YALL!!! Lysa's book is a MUST READ!! If you liked this video, you'll love the book. Get it here! j.mp/jbamuninvited
@spyder87
@spyder87 8 жыл бұрын
im new to your channel just i want to say I enjoy your videos they are very helpful
@ktallen8605
@ktallen8605 8 жыл бұрын
reading it right now!
@Birdienez
@Birdienez 8 жыл бұрын
Rejection has been a prominent theme in my life recently. From coworkers, to my closest "friends", to my church community, to the point I was deceived into believing in rejection from God. An answer to my current season, thank you miss.
@naomibourrous7155
@naomibourrous7155 8 жыл бұрын
I love Lysander terkeust!! She is such a great speaker and author!!
@FourHawkswomen
@FourHawkswomen 8 жыл бұрын
LOVED YOUR VIDEO ,MY WHOLE FAMILY HAS UNINVITED ME FOR A LONG TIME BUT MY LORD IS WITH ME!!!
@TeamFurjan
@TeamFurjan 7 жыл бұрын
I've been rejected so many times and it does hurt alot. Rejection is one topic I personally haven't enough of.
@happymommy22
@happymommy22 7 жыл бұрын
I just went through the toughest year of my life.. and I'm finally on the other side now... I feel closer to God than I have ever been .. and I know exactly what it feels like, because this is me too..
@shadowproductions9825
@shadowproductions9825 7 жыл бұрын
Kiya amen. Me too!! To all of the above. Our God is great!!! hope you are doing well. Xoxo
@FarAwayDistance
@FarAwayDistance 8 жыл бұрын
Literally from the first couple sentences, this video was soo incredibly inspiring. I am a note-taker so I took a lot of notes. :) Thank you so much for sharing this Jeff! x
@bekahirwin4239
@bekahirwin4239 7 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say thank you for interviewing Lysa. Because of your video, I read her book and everything she said was exactly what I needed to hear. I thoroughly believe reading this book was a pivotal moment in my life and I am so glad to finally have solid truth and wisdom on how to walk through rejection. I suspect this will be one of those books I read many times. Thanks again. :)
@tiffanysergey
@tiffanysergey 8 жыл бұрын
I'm so ready for this book!!! and I seriously loved this video!!
@HananyaNaftali
@HananyaNaftali 8 жыл бұрын
*Love from Israel! Great video :)*
@thadhdminimalist
@thadhdminimalist 8 жыл бұрын
I LOVE Lysa TerKeurst! One of my favorites! Great video Jeff!
@MyLifeFastForward
@MyLifeFastForward 8 жыл бұрын
This video couldn't have come at a better time...
@FarAwayDistance
@FarAwayDistance 8 жыл бұрын
I love hearing that kind of thing because it's just confirmation that God is always working! His timing is perfect.
@dawnparker4489
@dawnparker4489 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this message Lysa and Jeff! God Bless♥♥♥♥ this really hit home for me
@michaelblackburn1179
@michaelblackburn1179 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for that! It's amazing at times of how God works in his timing to put something in place just at the right time☺ Really love what you do Jeff and really encourages me!
@wandamacpherson8733
@wandamacpherson8733 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for a great perspective.of taking charge of our life. This is awesome!
@alessandraechevarria2353
@alessandraechevarria2353 7 жыл бұрын
I bought it! helping me to heal my heart after a break up, thank you!!!
@rianwilson8724
@rianwilson8724 8 жыл бұрын
I have been through a rocky season of dating and singless. It is super draining. I found myself assigning myself value based off others who use the world to weigh me out as their partner. I have the best love of all! The love of God! unfailing and never ending.
@jenjen-ii3kv
@jenjen-ii3kv 7 жыл бұрын
Love her!
@jeffreychrist268
@jeffreychrist268 8 жыл бұрын
Amazing, Hallelujah
@marlstarl8791
@marlstarl8791 8 жыл бұрын
I just started reading your book 'It's not what you think', and I'm just constantly getting goosebumps. Aaaaaaah! Didn't think a book about religion could be addictive.
@bethanyvasquez2443
@bethanyvasquez2443 5 жыл бұрын
It’s not religion it’s relationship
@JessicaAndBubbzYT
@JessicaAndBubbzYT 8 жыл бұрын
Me too! Needed to hear this message
@susankendall4031
@susankendall4031 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@LuvMy3Boyz22
@LuvMy3Boyz22 8 жыл бұрын
love This. It Caame At The Right Time 🖒
@meganhuntley8300
@meganhuntley8300 8 жыл бұрын
Love this!!!
@eddier2k9
@eddier2k9 8 жыл бұрын
thank you
@anjarichards8839
@anjarichards8839 8 жыл бұрын
Wow Jeff, thanks sooo much for sharing this! Really needed to hear this today! Thanks for being obedient to the Holy Spirits voice, love you guys!!
@KeyannaWeaver
@KeyannaWeaver 8 жыл бұрын
I LOVE Lysa T! She is amazing! So happy to see that she is well!
@forerunner45
@forerunner45 8 жыл бұрын
this is SOOOOO good! Wow.
@louisianarainwater
@louisianarainwater 5 жыл бұрын
Me too! Love this
@beastboy235
@beastboy235 8 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@aaronmalcomb2965
@aaronmalcomb2965 8 жыл бұрын
Right on time! Thank you Jesus! I can't wait to read that book!
@TheLeightyLife
@TheLeightyLife 8 жыл бұрын
Love Lysa!
@tamarabaker6822
@tamarabaker6822 4 жыл бұрын
Well said
@jennafigaro744
@jennafigaro744 8 жыл бұрын
I've already read the first 5 chapters since I pre-ordered it and it IS straight fire! Haha, so appreciated this video :) Thanks Jeff!
@jlars4157
@jlars4157 5 жыл бұрын
Oh I ordered this last summer! I really need to read it!
@Grugginmihh
@Grugginmihh 8 жыл бұрын
The Monday night dinners thing made me cry- it really hit home!!! I'm in the same place at the moment, people can't come over due to the family situation. Can't wait till I can get my own home and make it a place of love and hospitality! x
@andrewthomas9980
@andrewthomas9980 7 жыл бұрын
A job well done
@underthemermaidmoon
@underthemermaidmoon 8 жыл бұрын
I just ordered this book the other day!
@danlocsin3043
@danlocsin3043 7 жыл бұрын
such a beautiful practice and message :)
@tubailey2459
@tubailey2459 6 жыл бұрын
I have found that building my worth on what Jesus Christ says keeps me SOLID. All other ground is sinking sand
@hunterborman2887
@hunterborman2887 8 жыл бұрын
I saw you at Life 2016 and you were amazing! Also, I know it doesn't really matter but, your Like/Dislike ratio is amazing! By far one of the best I've seen on youtube. usually 100-1 is great, but you blow that out of the water. Keep up the amazing content!
@jenniferrascon7281
@jenniferrascon7281 6 жыл бұрын
I think that is so beautiful how you and your husband would do Monday night dinners, just a simple yet powerful gesture!
@markkropf8295
@markkropf8295 8 жыл бұрын
Jeff I had to laugh at the ending of the video! May God's blessing continue!
@GrowPhiGrow
@GrowPhiGrow 8 жыл бұрын
Great message! I always say rejection is protection!
@tetozagada7030
@tetozagada7030 8 жыл бұрын
Amen ❤️
@SignsForSustenance
@SignsForSustenance 8 жыл бұрын
that's true
@1jennifer89
@1jennifer89 8 жыл бұрын
This is awesome! I love that you're able to interview Christian authors and tv stars that some of us have never heard about. I've always desired to do the same as a TV and radio host but there aren't any outlets for someone on the beginner's level living in South Florida. Do you have any advice on what steps I can take to achieve that dream?
@user-vl6sb7qo8l
@user-vl6sb7qo8l Жыл бұрын
Nice to meet u sur good lucky guys for ur future
@gospideygo6061
@gospideygo6061 8 жыл бұрын
Wow, this video felt so much longer cuz there was so much wisdom to be said here. I was like wow wow wow ok wow!
@rdetv1840
@rdetv1840 8 жыл бұрын
Right! Very wise words spoken by Lysa. I definitely enjoyed it too. Feel free to check out my new video on religion vs relationship.
@picturetranquility894
@picturetranquility894 8 жыл бұрын
Man you just keep adding books to my reading list lol
@mindofiris
@mindofiris 8 жыл бұрын
I totally want to do Monday Night dinner when I have my own fam! I need to pick up Lysa's book!
@steflondon88
@steflondon88 7 жыл бұрын
me too! I wanna have a bustling house and to teach my kids how to love others well.
@averyhan6587
@averyhan6587 8 жыл бұрын
🙌🏻
@AnimatedBibleandTheology
@AnimatedBibleandTheology 8 жыл бұрын
Every time I get rejected, I'm just like... NEXT haha
@thebiblefoundation
@thebiblefoundation Жыл бұрын
I am Gali, in the year 1980 I lost all my hopes, I became a thief and club dancer. At that time I heard about Christ, the Lord spoke with me though the Scripture. JOHN 14:6 “I AM THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE NO MAN COMETH UNTO THE FATHER BUT BY ME.” I surrendered my life to Lord Jesus and confessed that He is the only Lord and died for my sins to deliver me from all my sins (Karma). When I totally surrendered my life to the Lord He has delivered me from evil spirits, which suffered me about 6 years. I became a new person in Christ. I love Bible so much and started memorizing the scriptures. By the grace of God I have memorized Five Thousand (5,000) Verses from the Holy Bible. Every week I also remember all the verses. Morning time I remember about 1500 verses for praise, worship and prayer. (Including 100 Psalms). This practice helps me to grow strong in the Lord and also to help others for the glory of the Lord. John 14:6 is my favorite verse; I preach this word to many unsaved people that they may find the peace in Jesus Christ because He is the Lord of all. kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYi5mqWvjLyWnpY
@lovegoldfrapp
@lovegoldfrapp 8 жыл бұрын
alleluia
@lucyyoung290
@lucyyoung290 8 жыл бұрын
COOL
@theologn
@theologn 6 жыл бұрын
I have given up. I always thought I would be a wonderful husband and father. I was rejected over and over in my late teens and early 20s. Now I'm 45 and I've lost hope. My relationship with God has been destroyed and I'll be forever lost. Why was I put on earth? Paul said, "Be married. It is better for you to be married than for your body to burn with passion." What can a rejected man do with that advice?
@chosen1874
@chosen1874 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@user-vl6sb7qo8l
@user-vl6sb7qo8l Жыл бұрын
Ur make me cry mom 😭
@alicetraill5870
@alicetraill5870 8 жыл бұрын
So weird I just watched (i'm assuming her daughters) wedding video on KZbin and had this video open in another tab from a couple days ago. I had just started watching it and read the last name, what a coincidence...
@TheWeirdoinchains
@TheWeirdoinchains 8 жыл бұрын
I didn't understand it when she says "me too", because if someone is hurting it's not about us for that moment.
@monstertruckfan8450
@monstertruckfan8450 8 жыл бұрын
I think the "me too" is to let that other person know that you can relate to what they're feeling/going through. You're not trying to take their focus off themselves and put the focus on you, but to let them know they're your focus and you can relate & understand.
@EmilyGloeggler7984
@EmilyGloeggler7984 4 жыл бұрын
Actually it can be. I rejected an Nigerian man I wanted in my heart but it was worth rejecting him for someone better and even more godly.
@winarhay5859
@winarhay5859 5 жыл бұрын
Whatever I have done... How hard and how much love I give...they keep rejecting me bcz of my faith in Jesus ... Painful yes... Bcz I am the only one in family... Only me who worshipping Jesus
@marybronaugh
@marybronaugh 8 жыл бұрын
Hi Jeff! Great video. Could you do a video similar to your "Race?" video on how to view the controversy of feminism as a Christian in today's world?
@ADejesusProduction
@ADejesusProduction 8 жыл бұрын
When God has selected you, it doesn't matter who else has rejected or neglected you. God's favor outweighs all opposition. You're a winner! I encourage everyone to watch my video in my channel called "Don't Give Up On Jesus" and "Why Do I Feel Alone?" God bless you all and remember God loves you!
@ryancduff
@ryancduff 4 жыл бұрын
Jesus was rejected by His own and yet He still willingly continued His ministry and ultimately laid down His life for the world. He saw a bigger vision of humanity and that fueled Him. It certainly wasn't the final say in His life, nor should it be in ours.
@TheJustDesperation
@TheJustDesperation 8 жыл бұрын
Never had a rejection before, cause I never asked to be accepted. But... Perhaps soon, I'm about to either be rejected or not rejected. Anyways, good video to listen about this topic that is hardly touched on in this perspective!
@user-vl6sb7qo8l
@user-vl6sb7qo8l Жыл бұрын
Think u for understand my problem I need help for u
@wakingtoglory4388
@wakingtoglory4388 8 жыл бұрын
Oh, I love that! First, we invite Him in before we go out and change the world. I agree whole heartedly. Relationship is first and foremost. It really is in our spending time with Jesus and investing in growing to know Him that we are filled with His amazing love. If we "go" with out taking the time to really know Him, we will give people a weak representation of who He is.
@jogburn
@jogburn 8 жыл бұрын
Question: If a shooter would to walk into a church would it be biblical to shoot at them?
@user-vl6sb7qo8l
@user-vl6sb7qo8l Жыл бұрын
I was bteaken down and heart people see my world wat this evil people doing to me I was evil to me to fiting for my painful wat this people to me they don't stop nobody stop them
@lxkxsjxxn557
@lxkxsjxxn557 8 жыл бұрын
will you ever do spoken word videos again Jeff??
@Bridget7521
@Bridget7521 8 жыл бұрын
try to love someone who deliberately despises you even if you willing to reach out to the person, but that person refuses. :(
@Webbgurl2000
@Webbgurl2000 7 жыл бұрын
Bridget Williams this isn't about being a doormat. If you've reached out, and they don't want your love, it's gonna hurt. Keep moving to the next person
@Bridget7521
@Bridget7521 7 жыл бұрын
+Tu Bailey that's true.
@Thomolompkinson
@Thomolompkinson 8 жыл бұрын
what kind of rejection is she talking about?
@AnimatedBibleandTheology
@AnimatedBibleandTheology 8 жыл бұрын
I was wondering the same thing. I'm think it is just every kind of rejection... especially when other people reject us in any way.... job, relationship, friends....
@Thomolompkinson
@Thomolompkinson 8 жыл бұрын
+Masculine Theology ah ok, thanks man
@user-vl6sb7qo8l
@user-vl6sb7qo8l Жыл бұрын
That ur wife oh sorry
@sisaliceponnuswamyfastingp3414
@sisaliceponnuswamyfastingp3414 Жыл бұрын
I am Gali, in the year 1980 I lost all my hopes, I became a thief and club dancer. At that time I heard about Christ, the Lord spoke with me though the Scripture. JOHN 14:6 “I AM THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE NO MAN COMETH UNTO THE FATHER BUT BY ME.” I surrendered my life to Lord Jesus and confessed that He is the only Lord and died for my sins to deliver me from all my sins (Karma). When I totally surrendered my life to the Lord He has delivered me from evil spirits, which suffered me about 6 years. I became a new person in Christ. I love Bible so much and started memorizing the scriptures. By the grace of God I have memorized Five Thousand (5,000) Verses from the Holy Bible. Every week I also remember all the verses. Morning time I remember about 1500 verses for praise, worship and prayer. (Including 100 Psalms). This practice helps me to grow strong in the Lord and also to help others for the glory of the Lord. John 14:6 is my favorite verse; I preach this word to many unsaved people that they may find the peace in Jesus Christ because He is the Lord of all. kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYi5mqWvjLyWnpY
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