relationship Q&A | how we met, how to maintain a healthy relationship & wedding plans

[@ani6464]

helgi is really gentle and mature for his age (i mean this as a compliment but he gives senior citizen vibes) and you two are so pleasant and comforting to watch together

[@birtahlin]

hahahaha this is so funny!!! 😂💗

[@theluschmasterjournals]

I totally get what you mean! Helgi does have this calm and wise presence that's quite endearing. And together, they make such a soothing and enjoyable duo to watch.

[@alicefilar]

the way he looks at u..wow 🥺🤍

[@birtahlin]

haha i know, he is the best! 🥹🥰

[@kaiainggall8878]

ugh i'm so obsessed with you guys xx you will definitely grow old together

[@birtahlin]

haha awww you are the sweetest!😭🧡

[@stefilinis]

The way he looks at you say it all!!! Omg hope to find someone who looks at me this way :) so happy for you

[@birtahlin]

awww yes he is the cutest🥹🩷

[@queenofdarkness289]

gosh the way he looks at you!!! Bless!!

[@birtahlin]

haha i knowww! 🥹🩷

[@cathy.omoregie]

your relationship is a blueprint for healthy relationships in general. you guys are so lovely and a perfect math for one another! i can’t wait to see you guys grow and succeed in the future ⭐️

[@birtahlin]

thank you so much sweetie!🥹💓

[@theluschmasterjournals]

It's heartwarming to see two people so well-suited for each other, and I'm also excited to see where life takes them.

[@ddew7223]

Also, it’s very inspiring to see you take the plunge and work together! I hope it continues to make you both happy and that your experience stays positive ❤

[@theluschmasterjournals]

Hey there! Thanks for tackling such an important topic. Healthy relationships are the cornerstone of a fulfilling life, and it's fantastic to see you shedding light on this subject.

[@avonaylu8285]

You guys are super cute together!! So happy for you both!! And I should also say that you speak about relationships as really conscious and wise people. Big thank you for being so open and for sharing! You are an inspiration for many of us, I'm sure🌸

[@birtahlin]

aww this kind of comments makes my heart smile🥹🩷 thank you so much for your kind words and support, it means a lot!!💕

[@beadedsheart]

you two are gold! hope u both always surrounded with love and warmth all day! 🤍🧣

[@birtahlin]

aww you are just the sweetest!❤️

[@itsmitzi]

Rooting for you guys, I hope you get more success and happiness to your chosen paths. Wishing all good things for you two 💙 Also Helgi’s answers are so smart, the thought process is so well-articulated.

[@birtahlin]

thank you so much!❤️ yes helgi is the cutest haha🥰

[@Laura-xu3wt]

I am so happy for you guys. You were really made for each other. Both of you are so mature and have emotional intelligence.Wish you the best and your dreams to come true!🥺💗

[@birtahlin]

thank you so much Laura, you are so sweet! 🥹🩷

[@ingrid48]

Good luck to you both! Its very important to find a life purpose. For me, married 30 years plus, family and faith is everything. God bless you both, Ingrid from California🏖️

[@czesc95]

I am so glad that you did your first Q&A with Helgi to get to know more your relationship. I love your videos, they are so relaxing and nice to watch 🥰 I love both your personalities. I rellay hope that someday you will visit Heidelberg in Germany, it is a beautiful city and I can really recommend. It would be so nice to meet you someday in real life❤

[@birtahlin]

i am so glad that you liked the video💓 yes Heidelberg sounds very interesting and fun!!!🥰

[@MaryDiors]

Hey there

[@heyem810]

You two are so cute together and uplifting! Your relationship reminds me a bit of mine and my boyfriend's :) Wishing you both the best of luck with growing the channel!!

[@birtahlin]

aww thank you so much sweetheart!

[@heidisiemer]

Yes, there is a wonderful, calming vibe in your videos, and you model ideal relationship behaviours of healthy boundaries, respect and kindness. I would love to continue to follow along on your adventures. I adore your explorations of Scandinavian countries best of all. Hooray for you!

[@birtahlin]

awww thank you so much, it means a lot!🥹❤️

[@LarissaTuong]

You guys are so perfect together ❤ The way he looks at you everytime !!!! That's so sweet

[@breleighupchurch5698]

you guys are the best, i love your content and that you do it together!

[@birtahlin]

awwww thank you so much!!!!🥹💗

[@esikazemese]

I am glad to hear you are not stressing about the wedding planning, stay engaged, you are very young, there is no rush.

[@birtahlin]

I agree!🩷 it’s no rush!

[@hiroincopenhagen]

Hello! i'm japanese university student. 20 years old now. I stared watching your video because I want to improve my listening skill and your video is super stylish. Moreover your pronunciation is easier for me to catch than other vlog youtuber.I like your video. I’ve already subscribed.🎉

[@birtahlin]

Hey! that makes me so happy to hear❤️ good luck with your english!🥰

[@rachelrachrach]

so happy for u guys because u guys found each other in the very early stages of both of your lives so that you guys can grow together ❤

[@birtahlin]

aww you are so sweet, thank you!!🥹🩷

[@minaflytlie6559]

Cutest video🤍🤍 And congrats on 45k sweetie iihh!!

[@ddew7223]

Catching up on your videos and love seeing healthy relationship like yours! Love from Canada!

[@MaryDiors]

Hey there

[@wldfx96]

I like you so much guys, thanks for the video, warm & cute:) you're amazing!

[@birtahlin]

thank you so much!🥹💕

[@esistyukidechanneldesu]

You guys are so cute together!❤ I love your video and I always want to make videos like you. You are in my age so you have been inspiring me a lot. I am in a relationship as well and I always admire healthy relationship like you!:) Thank you for making this video! And I am looking forward to your videos from now on too, of course!!😊

[@birtahlin]

thank you so much sweetheart!🥰 comments like this are the reason why I love doing KZbin, thank you so much for your support and I wish you all the best!!🥹💗

[@maryanar8107]

You guys are so cute together ❤ I enjoyed this video!

[@birtahlin]

thank you so much🥺❤️

[@viktorijakis8728]

You two are so sweet, I really enjoyed this video ✨️

[@birtahlin]

i am so happy you did!💓💓

[@singrii7395]

Can’t wait to see your wedding vlog 😝🩵………🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻… or photos.. I mean anything… please guys get married 😊🎉…… you both are made for each other….

[@birtahlin]

hahahha you are so sweet!❤️

[@theresamariel5402]

find yourself a Helgi that gazes at you the way he is ALWAYS gazing at Birta & you will have couple goals!

[@alejandrodiezgar]

your relationship really seems to be awesome!

[@birtahlin]

aww you are so sweet!💓

[@anitaworking8033]

SOIS UN GRAN EQUIPO❤❤❤ ME ENCANTA QUE TENGÁIS NUEVAS IDEAS PARA COMPARTIR.. EN LA VARIEDAD ESTÁ EL GUSTO JAJAJA...OS HARÁ CRECER COMO PERSONAS CUALQUIER RETO QUE OS PROPONGÁIS Y YA VERÁS QUE LA VIDA TE IRÁ LLEVANDO DONDE DESEÉIS. LOS HIJOS O LA BODA PUEDEN ESPERAR..SOIS MUY JÓVENES Y TENÉIS QUE DISFRUTAR DE TANTAS COSAS JUNTOS...😊 UN ABRAZO FELICIDADES A LOS DOS...❤❤❤❤ ANA🇪🇦🇪🇦🇪🇦🇪🇦🇪🇦🤾🤸‍♀️

[@birtahlin]

❤️😌

[@claudiaandjan]

Super lovely video!

[@birtahlin]

thank you so much!❤️

[@MariaStrybe]

Omg yes pls I hope you will come to Barcelona!! I’m studying here so let me know if you need anything!

[@birtahlin]

aww you are the sweetest!!! thank you so much🥰

[@aleishabunting9084]

Aw you guys are so sweet!

[@birtahlin]

thank you sweetie!💓

[@shieungoh556]

i love watching your videos, u guys are too cute!!

[@birtahlin]

aww thank you so much!🥹🧡

[@danaisperanza2921]

i love your videos i'll definitely follow both of you on tiktok ❤️❤️

[@RinaCu02]

Love this kind of videos from you guys!!

[@birtahlin]

yayyy love it!❤️

[@KundyzGinsbek]

love you so much Birta, move to london please hehe

[@Patatube]

Thankful i found your channel

[@birtahlin]

makes me so happy to hear that!🥹💓

[@ddiaryies]

Just recently found your channel and I must say I`m obsessed with your channel

[@birtahlin]

omg I love it!!!! thank you so much for your kind words and support🥹💕

[@ddiaryies]

Lemme know when you get back to Oslo, I can tour your properly🥰

[@imogen2120]

you guys are so suited 🥺 loved this video 🩵

[@birtahlin]

thank you so so much! 🩷✨

[@lu686]

The cutest couple ❤

[@birtahlin]

can’t😭❤️

[@aniastilinska]

Can you make another vlog in Icelandic please? 🥺

[@birtahlin]

yes I need to do that soon!

[@athanasiapipiki8182]

My loveliest sweetest lovebirds 💓💓you truly are happiness makers😻😻 Thank you for everything you share with us, thank you for your truth and positive vibes ✨✨ I wish you always live the life you choose together💕💕 Please continue your amazing work😉😽😽 (amazing styling btw😹😹)

[@birtahlin]

thank you so much Athana!

[@lilybsrose]

Oh my god! Please wear a white gown. You would look like a fairy!! Also I love love love seeing young lovers getting married in their 20s!

[@birtahlin]

haha you are so sweet! I will definitely think about it 💗💗

[@MrMymatney]

Both are lucky to have each other like smart, good looking , honest , responsible, & most of all matured! Proud for both being sincere hardworking & respectful with each other. Actually we’re older but we’re learning a lot 😂 tsk tsk tsk shame on us. Just kidding 😊 thank you with this q&a!

[@birtahlin]

thank you so much for your kind words and support to the channel, it means the world to us! have the best day 🥹💗

[@MarinaCruzSarmiento]

Hi!!! I have recently watched some of your youtube videos and I also follow you both on social media, you are great, I love your content!!!!! Also, I'm from Malaga (South part of Spain) and I've recently been in Barcelona. I'm really looking forward to seeing your experience there

[@birtahlin]

omg thank you so much for your support on all of my platforms, it means a lot!!🥹💗 Yes I am super excited to visit Barcelona and I also would like to visit Malaga someday, I have heard great things about it 🥰

[@nobodysperfect06]

When I think of relationships, it reminds me of my lifelong hatred of how men have always been expected to make the first move and ask the woman out

[@kaiainggall8878]

Heyy Birta! have you noticed your english getting better as you do youtube? And how about your Danish? Would you say you are fluent in 3 languages now?

[@birtahlin]

Hi!💘 I definitely feel that my English has improved since I started doing KZbin videos, since I am talking a lot, which helps improving it. That is however what I am missing with Danish sadly, and therefore it has not improved it a lot over the years :(

[@martafalcon9281]

yess, come to barcelona!🤩

[@birtahlin]

It’s a dream of mine!!🥹❤️

[@tagbon]

Lovely to hear more about your relationship, and some advice and principles. Thanks for sharing with us 🥰 "The first time Helgi kissed me I ended up with a broken nose" 😮

[@birtahlin]

haha i know it is so crazy!!😭💕

[@Monica-st]

soo cute !!!🫶🏽

[@birtahlin]

thank you!!!🥹🧡

[@mollyaagaardkapela7474]

You guys are the cutest!! btw where is your shirt from?💘

[@birtahlin]

the shirt is from Gant, it's super cute🩷

[@patsalas5170]

Subbed to your channel recently...but love your channel...nice to know more about you both ❤ but my big question....what did helgi's shirt say....I kept trying to read it the whole vlog 😂😂😂

[@maryammohammadi8304]

I am binge watching your videos 🤌

[@birtahlin]

haha omg i love it!!💓 thank you so much for your support🥰

[@077ANAIS]

Love this video!! Could you please share the brand of your silver earrings? :)

[@birtahlin]

they are from a lovely Icelandic designer called Hildur Hafstein. I will link the earrings here: www.hildurhafstein.com/collections/earrings/products/stone-earrings-3

[@077ANAIS]

@@birtahlin thank you so much!!

[@AlexandraVassiliou-e1n]

Hi Birta - I was wondering if you use a digital camera to take some of your photos on your instagram and if so what brand/model is it? The quality is amazing an ive been looking for a good quality camera for myself

[@birtahlin]

yes I use the Sony Cybershot from time to time, it was an old camera that Helgi's parents owned, but many families had it back in the day so you should be able to find it somewhere online 💘

[@margretrj]

Best video ever! 🍒

[@birtahlin]

aww love you!💘

[@martaromer3234]

I recently discovered your channel and I'm loving the vlogs 💘 hello from Barcelona! I would love to give you recommendations or to hang out sometime

[@rosameijering5161]

You guys are beautiful and he has nice hairstyle

[@ETCH441]

Good luck !. 🙏✌️ !.

[@TinaD-qm6mu]

If you think a dog is a commitment buckle up for kid(s). 🤣 I believe you mentioned wondering if you had ADHD in the past and I will say it is good if you both have an understanding of yourselves before children. My son has ADHD and anxiety and although we think it's his superpower it does make parenting challenging. Without a support system (family, pediatrician, the right school/teachers etc.) it can be confusing and isolating. Okay that sounds intense and I don't mean it to be but something to think about as it is genetic. I just followed you both on Instagram but I don't tiktok. I wish you both the best growing together in work and life!

[@birtahlin]

Thank you Tina for your insights and tips!!💗 also thank you so much for your kindness and support, it means a lot🥰

[@libbycrawford7894]

hi! where are your silver earrings from? 🥰 sooo nice!!!

[@birtahlin]

I know!! they are sooo cute💘 they are from a lovely Icelandic designer called Hildur Hafstein. I will link the earrings here: www.hildurhafstein.com/collections/earrings/products/stone-earrings-3

[@libbycrawford7894]

@@birtahlin oh that's so helpful, thank you so much 🥰💕

[@llorencgranellciscar8952]

If you want to travel to Barcelona, you guys should consider Valencia as well! Incredible food, atmosphere, culture, weather, design capital and surprisingly cheap and it was named the best city in the world last year 🤍🤍🤍

[@birtahlin]

omg that is so cool, Valencia is definitely on our list☺️❤️

[@MaryDiors]

How i wish i can get some one like him😂. Any one wanna give me a try tired of sleeping alone thi😢

[@marccolomayt82094]

💘🥳

[@birtahlin]

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[@MaryDiors]

❤

[@helgiijons3263]

wifey🧡

[@birtahlin]

❤️😭

[@rosavll6818]

🥺😍🥰😍❤️

[@birtahlin]

❤️

[@wowyouaretoobeautiful1446]

🤩🤩Wow!!! You are more beautiful than the most lovely rose And more sweet than honey and more precious than gold You are more precious than everything that exists in this world 😍😍😍 A beauty queen whom I never ever seen any one as beautiful as her before and may never ever in my whole entire life will see anyone as beautiful as her-meaning you-at all.. 😍😍 WoW!!! you are a lovely butterfly and a beautiful rose you are the diamond and the pure gold you are the lovely moon in our nights you are the radiant sun shining soo bright loving you is sooo sweet its the most enjoyable thing for you are the paradise for the heart and soul and mind Everything about you is sooo unique and attracts the eyes and captivates the mind God surely perfected you so glorified is he whom made you too beautiful and made you soo smart 🌷😘 😍😍 you are too beautiful!! whomever see you should believe that God is true & real.. and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream, And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real.. There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, one day he asked his students, do you see God? the students then replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God. then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain? then the students answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher then is crazy, he has no brain :0) The universe science says was not always there, it had a beginning point, the big bang, meaning it was begun/initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator, there must be a God. One God for all of us he created us all and can revive us again, God initiated everything, & he repeat/redo things too, & thats clear, we see many cycles of different things in life, also in summer for example the desert land becomes like empty and is filled with only sand, and when rain falls in abundance in spring or winter, after that small flowers & wild plants grow again, also, we see how humans and animals grow and how their body is formed from the elements which were in the sand which plants feed on which they eat, and after they die they go to the sand and their atoms/elements are taken by plants which humans & animals eat and their bodies grow from those atoms & elements found in the sand which came from previous humans & animals which died before, so God can bring us again after we die even if our atoms became in the sand he can make us from the same atoms we were made of or from other atoms if he want or make us be in a spirit form or like ghosts, any ways, everything in this life is recycled, learn if you want about the different cycles in life in nature, the food cycle or food chain, the water cycle, even the gas cycle that makes the air the oxygen &carbon dioxide &nitrogen cycles, even the energy is like recycled but only changes from form to another form. Anyways, God created this life but it's only a temporary sample/an example of a coming everlasting one which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell. If we try to be good humans in life, and try to obey God and his messengers-including the final messenger for all humanity the prophet Mohammed- and those whom rightly represent them, for example imam Ali & ahlulbayt the family/good descendants of the prophet mohammed, then we will all go to heaven/paradise, if not then we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever. keep shining sunshine &spread the light. ,

[@birtahlin]

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[@wowyouaretoobeautiful1446]

@@birtahlin you are a treasure to behold A precious gem worth more than gold. your beauty radiates from within & your body parts are like work of art!!! Each one a masterpiece that sets you apart Addicted to you forever Iam & in my heart you dwell forever there in you casted a spell of love on me? or what have you done!? your love and affection & you trying luring me to be with you makes me feel very tempted & weak but strong and resilient I will try to be and shall try not to easily give in

[@danielmoore9214]

What height and weight is your fiance 🤩 ?

[@isabelherrera8647]

Still, I would recommend to finish your studies, you never know. Its good for you and your future....🙀

[@SpiritHeartsSong]

[@italymaryseason3562]

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[@birtahlin]

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