RELATIONSHIP Q&A | Jealousy, Staying Passionate, Arguing

Ever since I posted the Husband Tag video, you guys have been asking for another relationship Q&A! We asked you to send us all of your questions, and we answered the most interesting out of the bunch. How do we stay passionate in our relationship? Is jealousy something we deal with? What has been our hardest struggle? We answer it all...
Let me know in the comments below what other videos you want me and Gary to do together. Are there any fun challenges you would like to see? ❤️
TIMESTAMPS
0:27 - How do you not get bored of your relationship?
2:18 - Have you ever thought, "I can't do this anymore?"
4:07 - How do you get over insecurities in your relationship?
4:49 - How did you know you had found "the one"?
6:25 - What do you do when you're upset with your spouse?
7:38 - How do you spend time together when you're so busy?
8:15 - Are you ever jealous of Gary's female friends?
9:29 - What makes Gary different from previous boyfriends?
10:24 - What is one thing that bothers you and one thing you love about each other?
11:49 - Were you ever in love before? Is love supposed to be difficult?
13:00 - Did you ever worry you'd never find "the one"?
13:31 - Does Gary have any issues with your modeling / KZbin career?
14:58 - What has been your hardest struggle as a couple?
19:04 - How do you continue to grow together instead of apart?
20:49 - Are you an introverted or extraverted couple?
22:48 - How did you decide how to raise your kids?
26:03 - Other than kids and work, what do you talk about the most?
26:27 - How do you tackle postpartum life together?
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[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

You guys always request more videos with Gary in it... what do you want to see next? A challenge? Another advice video? Give me your ideas below ❤️

[@romina558]

Valeria Lipovetsky prank him!!!

[@melinda7332]

Morning routine or night routine

[@magdalenarutkowska4738]

Challenge or a prank ❤️😂

[@Nikki-ks6wi]

HI :)

[@vendela678]

not a fan of pranks..I just like Gary as a person, so I'd be happy if he partakes in the vlogs and we get to see him talk about all sorts of stuff, maybe how he grew up?

[@Kim.firsttimemomlife]

'The other person is not there to entertain you...' spot on. Build your own life, develop yourself and invest time in your loved ones🙌🙌

[@positivekarolina1260]

How true! So many problems occur when we expect too much, without realising our own actions!

[@leroi3967]

Yes yes yes yes yes! Thanks guys for the reminder!

[@ioanaprovo6513]

Yassss! I call it the "Prince/princess on the white horse" syndrome. When the other person expects someone to waltz in, swoop them off their feet into a fairytail relam, without them putting any real effort. No. A relationship requires teamwork.

[@Frufru-]

Gary is such a lovely person. Professional, 100% mature, husband and father .

[@natascha8028]

Dora T. *100.000.000 % 💗

[@vikakond]

And twice her age... and could pass as being her dad.

[@barbarak5489]

@@vikakond and?

[@melaniegrigoryan4561]

This is what a real husband and wife should be, loving. :)

[@maryc.56]

Honestly the best thing that you could come up with would be a clean skincare and makeup brand

[@K.l.b99]

Maryka Chatelain I absolutely agree. I don’t trust a lot of skin care lines but I would trust Valeria’s ☺️

[@chelsear1336]

Agreed! I always trust Valeria’s skin care recommendations because she is very genuine .

[@em8693]

Yaaas!

[@g.s.632]

۱ swear

[@marijana2322]

yes!!

[@stephlyndsey3932]

Gary reminds me of my father. He too was in his late 30s when he met my mom. No kids no prior marriages. He had just been living his life and building his career. I wish women would stop accepting bad men just because they think all men come with baggage. There are good solid men out there but we women have to be patient and let them find us!

[@Ivy285]

I feel like those men are few and far between.

[@hiThisIsCameron]

Pixie Living Garry makes me think he’s her fathr

[@Mondoshawn]

'Let them find us' sounds very passive. Good luck with that.

[@sabaabbasid206]

Needed to read this ❤

[@savagekitty1288]

AMEN PREACH SISTA

[@maryc.56]

Favorite part of the video was when Valeria said « your young you’ll be fine » like I swear that was So reassuring like honestly thank you

[@tw1145]

I really appreciate how authentic this is. Both you and Gary are so true to yourselves and each other. Big thumbs up.

[@tide5402]

Refreshing to see a couple on youtube that is actually mature and not just faking the perfect life and relationship for the views

[@marti4582]

I love how Gary actually says what's on his mind without worrying about anything, he just tells the truth and he's not ashamed of it. You are a very lovely couple 💕

[@alexandraSashY]

Gary is a total stud, not only that he looks masculine but he acts like a real man. Without being too soft he provides a great backbone for the family and you feel always protected and supported. And Valeria is super wise as a woman for such a young age.

[@rosebush2880]

I agree! Most Canadian men do not provide like this for their families any longer....Hence why I usually date European men.

[@ENZOxDV9]

@@rosebush2880 european men are falling down hard, especially in the west. Eastern Europeans are still in the right mindset though

[@alexandraSashY]

@@rosebush2880 it's definitely the upbringing. Eastern European men typically see their value as providers and protectors first. They would be offended if you, for example, took your wallet out to pay or split a bill at a restaurant. Not to belittle a woman, but to show he is serious and not a couch potato. Gary's mom I think is to thank for instilling those values.

[@ChiniBau]

What’s his age?

[@alexandraSashY]

@@ChiniBau i don't remember exactly but a little over 40.

[@angelheartsXD]

Okay can you do 1 more video with Gary about entrepreneurship and finding a way to make money out more artistic things.

[@lenacojocari6032]

please

[@james889]

That would be great! I'm an artist/creative and I find myself envying people with more...concrete and typical business ideas. It's a lot harder (to me) to sell my life's passion.

[@aniachka]

yes please!

[@JuliaK-ve2rw]

Yes please!

[@avanisawant8969]

"You're young. You'll be fine" Thank you Valeria. So much.

[@soukaina9597]

Just imagine Valeria in a podcast. 😍

[@hellonadi]

OMG I would listen to it 24 hours x 7

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

I can tell that Gary is professional. He is also a great husband and a responsible father. Every girl needs someone like Gary. Thank you for sharing this. You inspired all the of the married couples out there.

[@cecilefeun4521]

Meh he says "he's not that guy" about changing diapers etc .. wouldn't call that being a responsible father

[@Yogirliej4dee]

Cécile Danjou my dad didn’t and men don’t feel manly doing childcare type things. Most dads when I was growing up didn’t do baby care stuff. My parents told me and my mom says don’t expect men to help. This is why I’m still a single parent.

[@katemiller7874]

Cecile- I would rather have a real provider than a diaper changer. Pick your battles honey.

[@camilledumas]

@@katemiller7874 To me I am both the provider and the diaper changer and my husband has to be both too.

[@mariusi1722]

This made me realize how miserable my relationship is. But thank you guys, im in a toxicidades relationship and i hope this will help mw to get out of it and get over it. You guys are the best, всего вам самого прекрастного !

[@louisemb14]

You can do it. It might seem difficult but if you think there's no future in the relationship, dont postpone it, do it now. Dont wait for the 'right time' cuz it'll never be the 'right' time!

[@sulaonlyhere1607]

it'll hurt at first but after sometime you will LOVE your self for doing what's right for you

[@elenaprodan871]

i relate to this comment :(

[@sulaonlyhere1607]

@@elenaprodan871 most of us do.. but it's a good thing to know were you stand even if it hurts.. if you don't, you won't do what it takes to change it. don't feel bad we all know how it is.

[@yente583]

My toxic relationship ended about a month and a half ago, it has been hard but so worth it! Yesterday i looked back at some old convo’s and realised how unhealthy our bond was at the end of the relationship!! I truly hope you can find the strength to move on and focus on your own happiness 💓 It is worth it and you are worth it too 💓

[@nataliamt4487]

Every girl needs a Gary in life! Perfect couple!

[@diananarovski9641]

If I ever get married I wish I can have a family just like yours. Thank you for being an example and a role model for so many people!

[@1385sandy]

You should do a video Gary buys my outfit. xxx

[@rosebush2880]

Love this idea! I'd like to see his taste of clothing and what he would like to see her in.

[@cryssp.2486]

Yessssss

[@toniaa3183]

Yeah

[@karenacostakam]

What I like the most about you guys is the fact that, as Gary mentioned in the video, you both came from a very modest life and you have worked so hard together to get to the place you are today. That and your parenting style is something I greatly admire. Greetings from Barcelona. Best wishes for you and your family.

[@kristinam6374]

Karen Acosta ä

[@chubbybunny123]

I can see you as a Canadian Victoria Beckham by the time you're 30 ❤

[@dawnforlife]

Just a cooler one. Not in that not smiling way though. Fun! :p

[@onemillionpercent]

A prettier n cooler Victoria !! Lifestyle queen like her tho

[@ASh-ej1bj]

I love how you guys gave such thoughtful responses. Thank you so much for letting us know about your thoughts on such private topics! Really love seeing the bond between you two ❤️

[@nanstagramm]

Seeing Gary and how he talks and all makes me see so much of him in Benny. That's amazing. Love these types of videos. Love to both of you and the kids

[@lenacojocari6032]

i also noticed the same

[@darlynDUH]

I know there’s an age gap between you two, but I really don’t see it. I think you guys look so good together!!!

[@loveydovey89]

Really? He looks almost like her father haha

[@HoyaZak]

Ralitza Treneva men should be older

[@noticemesempai3427]

Nabad Nabad he is way too older plus that’s a very sad way of thinking

[@konstantina5217]

how many years is this age gap?

[@loveforfarmiga3147]

anatoli Katsouli 18

[@sedonavane6130]

love this video and you guys, only couple on youtube that feels SO genuine and real #goals

[@ViG0R0USx]

I'm 22 and and now married for 2 weeks, you guys are my role models seriously, I take you as a good example for a good marriage/relationship. Love from Germany, я вас обожаю!! 💕💕

[@marion5056]

Valeria, as a seventeen-year-old teen girl you tought me so much about life. I am so grateful for someone so warmhearted, wise and grounded on this whole social media platform. Keep going I believe in you !Greetings from Germany!

[@dayone7572]

every girl needs a Gary in her life ... for real

[@SSGrace21]

I want to find the Gary to my Valeria! 💕

[@oumaimamaghraoui6034]

He's stuck with me HALO my fav part that's where you know it's relationship goallsss😍😍😍😍😍

[@pillecukorka2862]

You are nice and sweet and mature but I somehow miss the fun part in Gary. Also, I call bullshit on changing diapers and his opinion in not being that kind of guy; well, honey, noone is the diaper-changing kind, you know? Luckily they have enough nannies to take care of that part. Other than this, I really like you! All the best! And make a little baby girl, Valeria! 4th time’s with luck, just ask Victoria Beckham.

[@yoitslooo]

I can’t believe I just barely found you. I’m a stay at home mom and wife with two toddlers and I’m about to be 23 as well. I just love the real ness of the conversation and both your perspectives. So similar to me and my hubby!!

[@lauramikkelsen2608]

I have gotten obsessed with you these last Days and ive been waiting for you to post because i love you and your beautiful family! You have such an amazing family and i really love your personality, and you`re so beautiful like you are so stunning!!! Lots of love from denmark❤️❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@MyNameIsNoWay]

Oh my, I was watching the video and I just now realised how much Jake and Benny look like Gary, well, in my eyes at least 👀 & obviously he's their dad but this similarity is rarely seen . Much love from Latvia ❤️❤️❤️

[@xKETISHx]

I think Jake looks like 50% Valeria+ 50% Gary. Benny is 100% Gary 😄 and Little Max will be 100% Gary as well, sorry Valeria😉

[@estereeglite8717]

I’m not the only one from Latvia who watches her?

[@azlondon]

Jake is 100% Valeria, not Gary.

[@marthabarnabas2790]

Ellena Meiere

[@positivekarolina1260]

From Lithuania here :)

[@lyrica5816]

You know the difference between the teenage couple who’s dating for few months and the adult couple who’s matured together. I somehow felt this was more realistic and a glimpse of how life is as parents. It wasn’t interrupted by fake laughter or stuff to personify that yal cute and “couple goals”. Just by talking and how the conversation went on we could feel how in love yal are. Enjoyed it x

[@graceless6103]

Lavender Stone just a note: just because two people make a couple video where they stop and laugh doesn’t make it an immature relationship. It really depends on mood. This whole excitement =/= maturity thing is stupid. Some people just have different sorts of personalities and that isn’t bad. I’m not in a relationship myself but I find I resonate with both and it honestly irritates me when I see people say things like this

[@hoikatia]

my 2 cents: giving up is not for losers. knowing when to quit is better than to endure something self-destructive for the sake of "not quitting". it's one thing to do everything in your power to make things work, and another to swallow hardship because you can't bring yourself to give up

[@emmaechafi8245]

I would be interested in hearing more about money talk, how do you manage your money in your household, what do you share/what you don't, how much you invest in your businesses ventures etc... Loved your Q&A !

[@harpreetjandu7902]

When she said you can have panic attacks in a relationship without having a meltdown when you realize you are where you are meant to be; that spoke to me directly personally. If you feel you are stuck or you deserve something else that is when you have a meltdown!

[@arianatorworld8968]

You are beautiful Valeria, your beauty is so natural, you have a beautiful family ❤️ You are a powerful girl 💕

[@bluesky2028]

You guys are always so genuine. So many people on social media are fake, interested in maintaining some sort of image, carefully choosing all the questions beforehand and sharing minimally, only the highlights, never struggles or problems they overcame. You guys share your true experiences - and that is always worth listening to. Thanks for being real.

[@TheUnicornBunny]

"not that guy"....women hate diapers too

[@Ivy285]

Exactly.

[@sweetpeace5]

Bridget Woods Yes. MAN UP! That’s a really lame EXCUSE.

[@lilaccandyfloss]

I really love the way they are with each other. But in some way it looks like Gary want to educate her - I would hate it. Like the situation he was upset with her... I see him talking to her like to his kids. But I can't imagine Valeria being upset with Gary and talk to him this way. If I'm wrong, it's awesome.

[@Neverseenstars]

That's because of their large age gap. No matter how much he claims he see's her as equal, he still feels superior and wiser to her due to more life experience. He is an older male so he feels somewhat paternal to Valeria. So he wants to take care of her, give her life she wants, give her money etc. Its that dynamic that comes naturally, and i guess Valeria likes that because she is a woman who prefers a man to take care of her. I wouldnt like that either but Valeria does and thats her marriage i guess.

[@mc-ob7vp]

I know some women who would like you hate to have this kind of relationship or to say a man like gary. But tbh i feel like i need a man like that. So i guess she does too.

[@littletrebleclef]

I'm simultaneously Gary and Valeria, more Gary though but definitely as introverted as Valeria. I love this realistic raw honesty it's refreshing from say all the "couple goals" things you see on KZbin and Instagram. I think focusing on realism instead of the superficial would do wonders for this generation. A lot of people preach realism but don't really practice it and it's nice to see people practicing the things they preach. Love the video xx

[@eylulsubasbuyuk1538]

You guys are LITERALLY relationship goals. You are such a role-model.

[@kayflorence9099]

LOVED THIS. My hubby and I are 11 years apart and I had our son when I was 22. I can relate to everything. Thank you!

[@latifaal-qallaf9848]

Who else wants to meet Gary and get business advice from him? 👍 Much love Valeria awesome video!! I hope you guys stay together and happy forever and ever 💝

[@lenacojocari6032]

omg ..i would

[@sojansetly6810]

I LOVE that high five at 2:17 😍😍 you two are serious relationship/marriage goals. I enjoyed watching this a LOT. Love youu💕💕

[@annafidler9011]

I will watch this video again several times in the next few years of my life. This is exactly the kind of relationship I want to be in, but am in the exact opposite of. There have been times where I've felt like I was crazy for wanting someone who puts me first, cares about me and treats me like I deserved to be loved. Thank you for showing the world that healthy, life enhancing relationships exist and are attainable, I had lost hope for a while.

[@brittanykamalie1075]

Omg when Gary said "you are also my wife and the mother of my kids" he said it in such a possessive way i loved it😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@avab6762]

Brittany Kamalie 😐😪😐😐😐😐😐😐😕😐😐😐😐😐

[@miraabulhaija7661]

what time??

[@AC-cp4on]

Nigga hes bald

[@brittanykamalie1075]

@@AC-cp4on Nd u cant even put ur real face on ur profile

[@brittanykamalie1075]

@@miraabulhaija7661 watch the video

[@rebekasojka8646]

I love this. You werent trying to be super delicate with your responses.. you were honest and straight forward. Thank you. These minutes were time well spent ❤️❤️❤️

[@adrianab4405]

SO SO SO SOOOO EXCITED FOR THIS ONE!!! You guys have the smartest most healthy relationship I’ve see (wich doesn’t mean you don’t fight, go through stuff etc..). You really are a role model couple! So happy for you❤️

[@starry_skies]

I love your way of resolving conflict by understanding one another's position, talking through it, and making sure you don't blow it out of proportion or raise your voice!

[@bellaford890]

if Gary was younger, do you reckon you still would have decided to have children and make a family at this point in your life? xx

[@athenagem17]

Thanks Valeria and Gary for this video. Definitely learned a lot in terms of knowing what a good partnership really is. 😊 I think that sometimes we struggle to realize what matters most simply because of the movies we see. We often think about the grand gestures, fairytale-like type of love which can be misleading. It's not wrong to dream. I mean of course as a couple you need to have your goals and make sure you see the same goals together like starting a family, dream destinations and all that. But what matters most is those little moments when you realize that "hey, I found the one". Coz there's nothing that could ever make you doubt that. It's true. When you know, you know. There's no other way I can explain that coz you'll have to experience that yourself. Also I have an additional answer to the question about getting bored after being together for a long time. I think that at the start of the relationship, of course the butterflies are so prominent but when you become comfortable with each other, it doesn't have to completely disappear. In a way you can rekindle the love by simply having a date, some quality time, be spontaneous like preparing a lunch, go to the beach, or check of some things in your bucketlist whether that's having a road trip and stopping to stare at the sunset, or a simple romantic slow dancing in the kitchen. Also, it's not difficult to learn to love what your partner does. Like if he does play video games, which could sometimes annoy you, maybe ask him to teach you play it. Who knows, maybe you'll learn to enjoy it too. Or if you like photography then have a photoshoot session. You be the model, he the photographer, or do it the other way around. Love is not supposed to be complicated. There will be times when you won't see eye to eye, but when you know you're with the person you're going to marry, losing the argument is better than losing your person. And that's the beauty of love. You learn patience, you learn trust, you learn all about what's most important in life. 💖 This has been quite a long comment. I'll just leave you this. I pray that all of us here find the one for us, at a time when we're truly ready and have the best love story with that right one. Better than we have ever imagined. 💝

[@jkg5215]

This is beautiful seeing a couple take these questions, and communicate in front of a camera... I think the introvert, and in an own world is a Virgo thing, because the Lord knows I do the same thing. Haha 🤠

[@karlasu]

Valeria, you & Gary are like soulmates to each other. You two are meant to be together. Love your family.

[@mpmousumi]

This is the kind of marriage I aim for with my boyfriend. Thanks for guiding every one of us. Love you both!

[@GH56789]

Yes!!!! I've rewatched your husband tag video over 10 times. I just like to listen to it when I drive. Please keep making videos together like this! It's wonderful! And happy Thanksgiving!!!

[@ДианаШайхина-у4л]

"not that guy who changes diapers", "man is more of a hunter" OH COMMON! Wtf was that?

[@katiakyriakou3071]

That's why I like you guys, you both know yourselves and own your shiz and thats why it works so well!

[@anastasiak1487]

I just LOVE this couple😍😍😍 Lots of love from Greece🇬🇷🇬🇷

[@nastasiaallopoulou9953]

Ολοι εδω!!!

[@caras6438]

Elladara

[@esmerinaaa]

Τρεις Αναστασιες!!!😀

[@Κλειώ-η3ν]

Χαχαχα😂😂 🇬🇷🇬🇷🇬🇷💪💪

[@stelini0076]

Νόμιζα πως ειμαι η μονη. Γεια σας κορίτσια!

[@saskia2499]

Such an amazing example of a married couple!! I can tell you 2 will last forever

[@emiliakosic2675]

I really loved this video. I learned from listening to you both, made me see things from another perspective. This december will be the third year I'm with my boyfriend, I'm 25 and super proud of our love❤. Thank you for sharing this :). Is always nice to see you !! Sending you love!!!😊😊

[@Pippi-rippi]

You two have such a wonderful kind of love. I wish I find a significant other like you two have found!

[@faithqueen8525]

You look amazing together

[@mia-zv5xq]

Like dad and daughter actually

[@salinacuffy6064]

You both are so mature! This shows a lot! The age difference I can’t even tell. You both are on the same level. You both balance each other out and give each other what the other need. Wishing you guys a continued great marriage! I love it! 🥰💖

[@jadem8691]

you guys are so inspiring! keep building your empire, we're here to support you and watch you grow 💪🏼

[@RobynKimberly]

Love it when Gary makes an appearance! So much good info in 30 mins :) Thanks for being so open and sharing with us!

[@tanemtezgeldi1371]

My fav couple 💕 i really like you guys, you are so suttle and the way you look each other while talking is so sweet 🍬

[@estii8878]

I think the main reason why you’re such a great couple coz you BOTH are so committed to one another! It seems like you both want what’s best for one another and you’re not selfish! So inspiring!

[@AtelierFleur]

You guys are amazing!!! Love these videos, very helpful and insightful

[@deimantekrinickaite5598]

I love how down to earth and relatable you both are. I can't stand fake positivity and only smiles on youtube.

[@alyssaloves1006]

oh my god I'm only on the 2rd question and I'm crying because I love hearing you two talk! Sending you guys much love!

[@ivayanev]

Regarding what you said about not wanting to raise your children to become spoiled, I actually really love what you do on their birthdays - they have some gifts, but you also sit down and teach them about giving to others who are less fortunate. I think this is a pretty great balance and I am so copying that when I have children

[@stevejennlim9962]

LOVE this! Thanks for keeping it so real. Would love to see a video about your postpartum experience.

[@dannabibingka]

I see how both of you are in the same level of maturity thinking wise and it's amazing! That was the kind of connection I was looking to have in a relationship and glad I found that kind of partner (in my boyfriend who's 7 years older than I am). It makes a lot of things so much easier. It's like finding someone who's willing to listen to you and understand you, support you, in the way you wanted and the way you were willing to do. I love you both. 😘

[@saanvijaiswal8506]

I recommend one of my friends your channel ❤️ She watched a video and she was like wait she's 27? How come she looks like a 18 year old😂 And btw we all need a Gary

[@unicornzalltheway8064]

You are both so grounded and hard working ! Videos like this are such a nice reminder of this fact. I'm so glad you mentioned about your concerns about a privileged life for your kids. My Dad would make us do small chores around the house, earn money through those chores and then pitch in for half of a toy that we really wanted. Much respect for your parenting styles , the boys are lucky !

[@Kreka008]

This is exactly how I see how any kind of relationship i might have has to work: communication, support and respect for each other. And when i see you guys I truly cannot wrap my mind around the fact that there IS such a relationship, that it is not my high expectations or some romanticized fantasy about this concept. I know that everything you have together is a matter of constant work and patience, but I believe it is worth all of that. You guys are amazing for each other and are incredible parents, wish you and your family only the best

[@lucasophie4132]

I love how two are so honest on this! ❤️ It's a very private topic I very appreciate that because I can learn so much from this.

[@farahanasmailovic9589]

I really loved this video ❤️ It was so inspiring to see your relationship ✨ So amazing! Love you guys a lot 👼🏻

[@sp500-steph7]

gary always throwing in a compliment here and there like a GOAT ^_^ and Valeria you are such a rolemodel!

[@vendela678]

oi!!!First!💋💋💋💋💋 from Berlin in Germany! Love you, guys!

[@deadr0sez]

Vendelabelle Miller moin hahahh

[@fleursdesel]

I love how these videos address real issues thank you so much valeria and gary ! it's always so nice to listen to you :)

[@anah.6493]

Omg I’ve been waiting for this. You are the cutest couple 💖💖💖. Love you Valeria 💖💖💖💖

[@lieswandiarti]

I really love how you two are growing together as husband wife and as parents, the way you communicate to each other ..so real ,open minded and mature..loving it😘

[@nackamarko]

Aawww... you guys are great... love you...My husband and I are together for 23 years and there is no other scenario... we are each other soul mates

[@SarahNicholls]

You guys are so wise. I love that you are working hard at your relationship, you clearly keep the lines of communication open and have a lot of respect for each other 💓

[@lea-sophieernst3688]

I can’t. This video is way too cute :) You guys are seriously my relationship goals❤️ Sending you so much love Lea

[@yckieh568]

I appreciate how you guys project a very realistic view on being a relationship. Relationship takes work and commitment. Social media “perfection” is unattainable. Love from Edmonton!

[@zhaviathefour4425]

You solved so many doubts about the perfect relationship thank you so much 💖

[@aquaroxity]

GREAT advice! I also really enjoy watching you two interact as a power couple for raising kids, building a business, and maintaining a strong relationship. Also, I appreciate how you both are on the same wavelength to not spoil your kids rotten after achieving great things in your own lives, and making sure they know where they are coming from and how important it is to appreciate what they have. Love you Valeria!

[@ramsharaza15]

I see people commenting Ohh my God they have so much age difference...like first of...if you really Wana have a family you definitely Wana have a guy like Gary..coz he is a maaaaaan with strong body, mind and goals for their future...you just doesn't wana end up with pretty face coz that gona fade away within a year so me being 27 I definitely look upto a guy like him successful and strong not just a handsome looking puppet who is just a boy at the end of the day❤

[@Yogirliej4dee]

Ramsha Raza Yes! He looks fit and good for 45.

[@analuisa5s2002]

you guys are so wise, i loved watching this. pleaseee give us more of that nice work family talk, we need it ❤️

[@sehrish1203]

I love watching you two together

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

aw❤️ thank you my dear!

[@elvirazeb4113]

I just came around this video and wow :) my husband is 13 years older than I am and your video shows all the positive perspectives of having an older partner, so nice to see!

[@Cindy12345ful]

I was really waiting for this video because I wanted to learn more about how to improve my 3,5 year relationship with my bf. But a few days ago he officially broke up with me and now I'm in pain.

[@anamargaridaoliveira3626]

Don't worry I know you will find someone as amazing as you, who wants to work towards a good and healthy relationship 💗 that guy is trash btw, he didn't deserve you

[@sulaonlyhere1607]

if he broke up with you then he is not your soulmate.. you'll find your best man later trust me

[@onigirimely1]

Stay strong darling. Time heals wounds.

[@Cindy12345ful]

@@anamargaridaoliveira3626 Thank you, However, he wasn't a trash. I was a trash because of personal problems and inexperience but I worked hard to solve and to learn. I think we should be happy ourselves first before entering a relationship if you want that to be healthy.

[@positivekarolina1260]

@@Cindy12345ful your last comment is amazing! First thing towards improvement is realising what you did wrong and how to improve! Also not trashing your ex, but saying good things about him! Embrace your experience and dive deep into personal growth! There is a great book called '5 languages of love' 💕 stay strong and loved, hugs!

[@Mimi-vt2om]

Valeria, even though im 19 I can see my future self in you. Yours and Garys advice will definitely be on my mind because that is the relationship I strive to build with my significant other. Thank u to the moon and back!

[@vishalini5781]

“like where he is gonnna go?he stuck with me” 😍

[@Valeria-ic3dt]

My sister recommended your channel a couple months ago and ever since then I have been watching your videos and love your style. You guys are so realistic and helpful and I am hooked to your channel awaiting for every update to come. Love you guys, your awesome!