Relationship Therapy 101 | The Joe Budden Podcast

[@DRMZBeatz]

Man I really miss these guys together. Something special you had to be there.

[@nasa5700]

Yeah i feel u , this is something thzt no matter how much money u couldnt create what they had

[@bk2les]

@@nasa5700 big facts. I've been rewatching all the old INTL epsiodes.

[@EmersonAce1]

“We don’t take into consideration how much energy we take in, and hold on to” - MAL

[@NuffCeD410]

Mal spitting facts on this one. That's why relationships 99% of the time end in disaster. People rush to next relationship before fully getting over the last one. In essentially not giving the new situation your best version of yourself.

[@gorgeousschaos7495]

Couldn’t agree more

[@circa2008]

Mal: “aight but this ain’t no relationship therapy 101 with Mal tho....” whoever uploaded this: “Lmao”

[@UVFlow]

Savon out here wildin'

[@Dkmo94]

I find myself moving like Mal; you can't be happy with someone else if you can't be happy with yourself. it takes time to heal and learn yourself; hopping to another relationship as soon as one ends is a fat set up (Ladies)

[@Peprahism]

This was why joe asked mal if its self esteem issues but he denies it. I think it could be self esteem issues or fear of commitment

[@NinaBae8]

Mal was trying to say he's EMOTIONALLY unavailable and wants/needs to do more self-work before he's ready for a relationship. This is important to know.

[@yoelpachuco6875]

WAITING 280 EPISODES FOR MAL TO EXPLAIN HIS FEELINGS IS CRAZY 😂

[@AbstractHomosapien]

Wild😂😂😂

[@jackanderson5695]

Lmao 😂😂😂😂

[@Homentertainement2]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jahjohnson31]

This is grade a story build up

[@cptheartist]

Everyone needs 1 friend like Mal.

[@imanrich800gaming]

we here for you man

[@joewill9967]

I’m that guy for my friends. It’s awesome to be so knowledgeable

[@marco.lasean]

I wouldn't ask Joe for relationship advice...

[@yoelpachuco6875]

Ikr...and somehow he judging mal all the time 😂😂

[@rell3500]

Gives you insight about how he may be in a relationship. Joe is delusional lol

[@MannyTwice]

Why not? A person that's tried and failed will probably give you better advice than someone who hasnt

[@citylights3452]

MannyTwice finally someone with some common sense

[@TheMr2face]

Yea Joe thought it was a good idea to propose to a woman he hasn't talk to in 3 months just to get her back lol

[@carolstrickland2316]

They not hearing Mal at all. I feel him on another level! Mal on his grown man right now. Whoever gets him after this will be GOOD!!!

[@naimhasan8154]

It’s partially mal fault

[@kameronbryant1341]

Some y'all hating because Mal got this game figured out.

[@Silhouette_1]

Exactly. A whole bunch of blue pill beta boys in these comments. They need to take the red pill ideology and wake up. The game is different now

[@imanrich800gaming]

@Christian Barrett Should already know . but that's good

[@jourdancallahan5144]

Silhouette Yeah he’s red pill but can’t out himself for obvious reasons

[@nijadeans8359]

Totally agree abt broken ppl trying to fixed broken ppl!

[@Blazin50s]

18:11 Mal's face after Rory starts speaking 😂

[@Jayberryjam]

😂😂😂 😐

[@BIGBARLIN]

@@Jayberryjam fr he was like 🤣🤣😐

[@kaiwhat1207]

It was really nice to see Mal finally peel back a few layers and be a little vulnerable. Idk who that girl was but she really hurt him.

[@KCoopp9]

And I'm sitting here trying to flirt with this guy who doesn't even notice me LOL. I would never do you like that Mal..

[@kaiwhat1207]

Alike Cooper Mal is definitely fine af lol but he got trust issues and man trust issues are the WORST!

[@KCoopp9]

Jamilah Hardiman yeah it is men who don’t trust usually dog the woman out but dang Mal fine Lol

[@ownthispwn]

never knew mal was such a simp smh

[@pimpindymepiece]

Girl I BEEN in Mal’s dms trying to get a reply. I won’t do him like these other women did lol

[@Psych86_]

When they get in their relationship bag it helps me so much

[@Igetsitin89]

true

[@likestxrscream]

damn this was such a good talk. cool to see the guys I normally put on to laugh at or hear their opinions on current events, etc can have a real conversation and be just as entertaining. good shit

[@yoelpachuco6875]

BASICALLY WHAT MAL IS SAYING: THE ONE THING BEING IN RELATIONSHIPS IS THAT YOU DONT EVOLVE AS A HUMAN BEING SO YOU GOTTA BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE YOU CAN HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP...🔥

[@delrayvelo3277]

Wow bro it was so hard to understand mal explaining it 3 different ways but I’m glad you broke it down

[@BryanV4]

That statement isn't true. I don't think he meant that exact. I agree you can't look for another to complete or fix you, but you definitely grow together. If we all waited to be our best self no one would be in relationships untill 50

[@stephanieduncan9023]

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[@donpatchey3178]

@CaramelBeauty03 oh you poding now

[@jklee0323]

I don’t think anyone is whole or their best self when they get into a relationship. No matter how long you been single or how many seminars you’ve watched/attended.

[@ShaiSew82]

Joe might want to listen to Mal and move accordingly. Obviously we don’t see what Mal is doing in the streets / sheets. But at least homie keeps himself away from a relationship when he feels that he isn’t about it. No matter how many years it takes. 💪🏾

[@natashashere]

Relationships are there to show you yourself. They are our mirrors. When you stay single for a long period of time, you don’t have anything to show you your issues. You said it best Mal, you’re not ready to give that time and attention. That’s real.

[@graysonorphe9420]

Mal is slowly taking over the Podcast lol

[@yoelpachuco6875]

Slowly? I would watch a mal and joe pod, a mal and rory pod, but a joe and rory pod aint doing it for me😂😂

[@rell3500]

Once Mal came the pod blew up.

[@Norisknoreward310]

What i kinda learned from this is that Joe , Rory and parks would prolly get financially and mentally finnessed by a woman wayyyy easier than Mal would.

[@dallyvfx3d]

yeah what rory said at 15:45 is exactly how to get finessed by a woman.

[@naimhasan8154]

Some of the types of women they date is the reason they are jaded.

[@TalibKweli882]

Mal being the thumbnail on a video titled relationship therapy is crazy

[@mzalthomas]

“No, I can get Mal for free.” 😏😂🤣😂🤣😂 Joe is hilarious for that!

[@tamarasky2043]

Just finished my college class thanks for the stressed reliever anatomy and physiology is killing me

[@jfrey1497]

Same

[@animeroomradio6799]

I love how they deflect to laughter and jokes when things get to deep. Especially when they notice mal gets uncomfortable.

[@MODERNDAYGRIOT]

3:38 “JadedKiss”🤣🤣🤣

[@Nominal405]

Relationship therapy 101 being the caption with Mal as the screen cap is crazy 😄

[@lochofmceo]

"I don't think it's a repetitive thing,it just happened a few times"

[@MichelleMonet15]

Joe hates accountability

[@carladungee8787]

Right like...😒😒

[@mahgorstark7793]

Im in that situation now and its the worst its like you know no one is perfect...but at the sametime you want what seems to be your version of perfection😂😂😂 it truly makes no sense

[@antoniocervantes6522]

I think it’s all about finding someone who isn’t perfect (like you) but is similarly striving to what you’re striving for (principles, relationship, goals) and is willing to grow with you towards that. And a whole lot of grace.

[@lindsayt7950]

Mal is definitely me when my friends try to pin me down and get all into my emotions *rolls eyes* like damn leave me alone lol

[@DeeBrownLTD]

I wish I could’ve learned what I learned now in just one relationship like Mal. Lol fr tho

[@dhstillcantaim]

been watching this pod for years and this clip is the most relatable one i've seen

[@tatsithytv]

Won't lie, miss this.

[@mahgorstark7793]

I understand what mal saying...but from the otherside i Actually know my lack of being in a relationship is due to my self confidence

[@dayle.johnson6683]

Therapy time on the job podcast.

[@A1KX100]

Joe Budden. Top 3. Not 1 or 2. Trick Daddy.

[@elsolbrilla3652]

People don’t care about feelings anymore.

[@imanrich800gaming]

SMHHH

[@Noog6284]

They don’t bro you’re right

[@tyjusto9351]

If anything, some use those feelings to their advantage. I've seen women go date hunting, knowing damn well she wouldn't give the man a shot in the world for a relationship, or sex. It's another reason why dates have been watered down, cuz people don't know if they getting played out of they poccet

[@gie3973]

Relationships are overrated

[@CPI99]

mal 2 stacks?!?!?!?! insane

[@AyeshaGo]

After that phone call with Kash Doll we need that Mal speed dating series

[@nijadeans8359]

Gotta respect Mal's honest tho

[@mizzyfit_334]

Jadedkiss.... ladies and gentlemen Mal.

[@brittney5563]

MALs therapy session was great...

[@brandonf.8360]

Jaded Kiss top 3 dead or alive, that's just off one GF. Have a healthy relationship with yourself before jumping into anything.

[@showcase1219]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@taylormotley3611]

Parks was mad wild for 11:00 tho!!! Lmao🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣 who says that to another dude

[@brandonf.8360]

@@taylormotley3611 🤔🤨🤦‍♂️🤣

[@moonintaurus5918]

I think Joe doesn't know his worth when it comes to women. Some of his popular girlfriends are not in his league. I see him with a beautiful and successful woman, not some love and hip-hop losers.

[@lookatme247ok]

More shows like this.

[@judithjackson1086]

" I need to be single." Mal

[@Hovitv]

When mal first got his Jesus piece that shit was shining! Now that shit look like the lights went out 🤣

[@cridahinsane7692]

Joe budden is the only cornball that’s cool

[@cousywarhol1745]

Damn, Thought Mal Was In His Late 20’s.. Makes Sense..

[@cousywarhol1745]

jpkp012345 Ok Yeah See I Thought Mal Was Like One Of Them Young Niggas That Stayed Around Older Peers But This Shit Makes Sense.

[@BigTrisStreams]

I'm just like Mal honestly. Same form of thinking

[@fg8512]

Anybody else feels like Joe is intimidated by Mal a little?😂😂

[@KingStreetBrody]

Bobby Capone naw mal just doesn’t give him what he wants psychologically so joe wants to picks his brain

[@stephaniemarquezramirez8371]

Right. It's all good.. to each it's own

[@davidf5449]

17:22 and ON Joe sums up everything Mal says

[@MarcusJII]

That’s trickin 101.

[@Keviekev115]

Maul is wise AF

[@webbie1891]

Pro Tip 101: you can’t make a woman happy

[@NuffCeD410]

Jumbo Factz

[@webbie1891]

Christian Barrett exactly! Women aren’t equipped to be happy because if they are, there won’t have anything to complain about. 😂

[@NuffCeD410]

@@webbie1891 u call it "complaining" I call it bitching😁

[@alexanderjones8510]

BOOOOOOO

[@ShaiSew82]

Pro tip 102, making yourself happy (male or female) is way more important.

[@ivytalks1279]

I rock with Mal 100% on this.

[@Keviekev115]

Raury is a mini bill burr lol

[@sarcasm176]

Therapy session part 2 please 😂

[@MichelleMonet15]

Crazy how no matter how many times Mal said how he felt, they kept telling him no, this is how you really feel like how are y'all gonna tell that man how he feels and what he wants lol. Everybody dnt want to be in a relationship just bc y'all are in one lol. Joe loves telling ppl how they feel or expecting everyone to think like he does as if we dnt all have our own individual experiences. I understood exactly what Mal was saying and it wasn't that he was looking for a perfect woman. It's actually very mature to realize that you're not interested/ready for a committed relationship and staying single vs getting into a relationship and messing it up bc you weren't ready for a commitment. That's what makes ppl jaded yet they're clowning him like he doesn't know what he's talking about when he was making the most sense imo. They're acting like they can speak for everyone's experience just bc they're in relationships smh.

[@lochofmceo]

This convo had me looking like that Michael Jackson meme where he's looking sad in the chair .Depression

[@lochofmceo]

@Christian Barrett horrible break up to LTR.I hate everything

[@DesFunnyAF]

I fucks with Mal on this. He made great points and he is right.

[@outoftime417]

I treat all my women like they cheating on me🤷🏾‍♂️ been that way since high school.

[@MrJbake17]

They could never have this level of conversation on the pod now smh

[@MrHumble1116]

Hopefully, at the right time, Sir Mal!

[@ashcash1991]

Mal is speaking straight facts 👏🏾

[@MsAyoFashola]

Lol you can only think that if you’re jaded lol 😂

[@jegszilla]

Mal forsure gives drake relationship advice

[@mikesgarage18]

The day I "put up" with a woman who isn't being held to the same standard as me when it comes to cheating (emotionally, and physically) just for a relationship is the day I eat dog doo doo off the turnpike. Same sh*t. Barz.

[@1HunnitGrand]

If I put my trust in you what am I trusting you to do? Trusting what you say? Why? I can figure out information on my own. What do I need you for? Being beneficial to my life doesn’t make make you my souls mate girlfriend or baby momma it makes you a good person.

[@trace891]

Why is Mal talking? And Joe🤔

[@stephaniemarquezramirez8371]

Friendships real friendships w no sex is the best

[@Rico.splash]

I 100% feel mal. Bitches will convince you for months and years they aint like the rest and then you find out some shit, youll forever be jaded after that. Cant trust em

[@anthonycolon4681]

Peace and blessins

[@justinschamp6212]

what company makes that hat? its fire!

[@SP-uj3kf]

Exhaust video plz

[@SP-uj3kf]

Lol the letter O instead of the number 0 kept me from finding your accounts smh

[@braydenhutson2860]

Where does mal get those hats

[@donaldwarren2497]

Facts mal

[@Drell82]

Mal just confused but.....understandable it’s hard out here

[@producedbykhireyakeem4340]

Why are all Mal’s hats flipped upside down

[@kedurham226]

lol!!! why Joe and Rory asking Mal all these questions like we as a people dont have internal emotions that say when you are or arent ready for a "Relationship"

[@raymondezell7817]

Jaded. For sure.

[@jordanebert3313]

Fucking needed this, big up man like Mal

[@Firestorm2814Sector]

Mal ain’t having no kids 😂

[@tonypyro21]

Mal 1k trying too get them 2stacks!

[@stephaniemarquezramirez8371]

So broken and narssasistic is all bad bad

[@gtmtv9566]

relationship therapy

[@weird1877]

I think Joe is just as jaded as mal but in slightly different way

[@orenstroble5438]

My algorithms make me sad cause of these kinds of clips, Joe I still support you, but maaaan dawg, smh, just know that shit you had will never be duplicated and I hate knowing that

[@empresslbqt]

Mal sounds like every woman he hates that’s been treated terribly by a man.

[@abciluvme]

empresslbqt he really does smh

[@daddytrees9074]

Who hurt Mal 😂😂😂 damn

[@MrReal717]

Trusty shoes

[@franckofourever8733]

RELAX 🤣🤣🤣

[@stephaniemarquezramirez8371]

But that's the perfect timing next

[@genesisobscura7165]

I'm currently dealing with a Scorpio chick. I'm enjoying the mind fuck right now.

[@Silhouette_1]

There’s no such thing as relationships in today’s era. I don’t care what anyone says. I suggest all men to not fall in love with anyone but with your self and your purpose in life. Chase the success never chase women and they’ll chase you

[@Silhouette_1]

Christian Barrett we can agree to disagree. And it’s not an excuse or insecurity it’s accepting reality and understanding female nature.

[@2Muchpjp]

@Christian Barrett we lie in society that celebrates and encourages whore-ish behavior. this was a part of a bigger plan but that's a whole nother story. understand the times we are living in.

[@Silhouette_1]

2Muchpjp thank you bruh. There’s always one simp ass nigga tryna be naive and negate the facts. “My girlfriend isn’t like that she would never” lmao ok

[@Silhouette_1]

Christian Barrett ok buddy

[@sock4661]

Bunch of sad lil boys and big ole cucks on this thread. Go back to beating it and hating your life thanks

[@geraldos9094]

Trust but verify.....

[@TheSweetpea0711]

I could really feel Mal on this. He seemed to really understand where he’s at and know he’s not ready. Better that than to drag someone thru some bs in an attempt at a relationship he’s not ready for. And sometimes Joe just needs to just sit these convos out. He didn’t seem to get it. Maybe why his shit always failing. And I see a lot of “jaded” men in this comment section. Somehow women have singlehandedly ruined all things related to relationships? So I guess men don’t be on bullshit too? Foh.

[@TheSweetpea0711]

......keyword...”those women”. I understand it just fine. There is a lot of bullshit out there on IG or whatever. Shit a lot of us real women are disappointed with the trash we also see. Not every woman falls into those categories though. Just like not all men are hoe ass niggas or bum ass niggas out there. However, a lot of us women are “jaded” toward men too for bs some men have done in the past. So some comments are too inclusive. There’s an “argument” for both sides.

[@iniosom]

@@TheSweetpea0711 Late af bc I'm high and this came up after watching the most recent JBP, but is there a secret place where single, no kid having, hardworking women, that aren't overly promiscuous or public or obese (I'm a considerably fit man, but i'd take up and an extra 15-20lbs) or more homely woman (I'm a 7 in the face, but I'll take a 5), that isn't celibate, gold-digging hangs out on a regular basis tho? I'm asking seriously because you claim to be in wifeable woman set. In 2020 shit seems like a secret society and I'm pulling up with the big trust if I can find y'all