Relationships and Complex Trauma - Part 4/11 - Love Languages

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Tim Fletcher

Tim Fletcher

5 жыл бұрын

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@sarahcouture24
@sarahcouture24 2 жыл бұрын
I wish Tim Fletcher was my pastor, and I am not even religious! He’s so wise and insightful.
@Chaifloable
@Chaifloable 2 жыл бұрын
He made me cry with the God hasn't given up on you speech the other day. I'm not Christian, not nearly religious.
@Lemoncare
@Lemoncare Жыл бұрын
He is he prays for you in every video.
@sll110
@sll110 9 ай бұрын
he has very warm heart
@Forestgump12able
@Forestgump12able 9 ай бұрын
HE IS, IF YOU WANT HIM TO BE.
@UrRLB
@UrRLB 6 ай бұрын
Amen
@teamginger6359
@teamginger6359 6 ай бұрын
Once again Pastor Fletcher tells a biblical story which I have heard countless times, giving it an entirely new depth & meaning. Beautiful. Thank you, thank you for the gift.
@user-in8it1rx6l
@user-in8it1rx6l 2 ай бұрын
Unconditional love = dog 🐕
@aurelienyonrac
@aurelienyonrac 14 күн бұрын
😅
@johnmiller0000
@johnmiller0000 2 жыл бұрын
Growing up, love was just a word in a birthday/Christmas card. There was no love in my family. Today, I've no idea what it is.
@Abe-rz1nm
@Abe-rz1nm Ай бұрын
I used to avoid Mothers Day cards with the words "love" or "you're the best" in them because I couldn't bring myself to lie. I would always give her a funny one to get the job done without compromising my feelings about her.
@andylee7862
@andylee7862 2 күн бұрын
​@@Abe-rz1nm smart move. Wish you all the best
@NUCLEARMAMA1313
@NUCLEARMAMA1313 3 ай бұрын
Sooo yeaaa...last relationship...I was the 1 who wanted physical touch all the time and felt neglected bc affection was NOT his love language...I brought it up and he said something like "That's just not the way I am" or something similar...I tried & tried to "learn him"...long story short...He just didn't believe we are supposed to learn and grow continuously...I ended up completely losing myself in that relationship (off and on over 3 yrs) and am working on healing still...THANK YOU so much for your channel. I am so glad I stumbled across you ❤
@joshuapjung
@joshuapjung 3 ай бұрын
Gosh this series is so good.
@maggieadams8600
@maggieadams8600 2 жыл бұрын
It is a joy to have you add depth and understanding to the familiar stories from the Bible, and to relate them to us. It all makes so much more sense when put into perspective. Thank you!
@Lemoncare
@Lemoncare Жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me, and thank you for teaching me love, balance, and GOD. God Bless You
@jessbarker4909
@jessbarker4909 Жыл бұрын
I love what you have shared. And listening to your faith based talks have reminded me of when I walked away from believing in a higher power. Please keep doing what you are doing!
@esthercintron8057
@esthercintron8057 9 ай бұрын
So worth listening to. Thank you Tim. Explains so much.
@Superflyradioguy
@Superflyradioguy 8 ай бұрын
I've been watching the series of videos from the beginning. I just want to say thank you. I've found your information very helpful and informative..
@holly8132
@holly8132 Жыл бұрын
This is so helpful and insightful for what I’m going through
@judytomlin9508
@judytomlin9508 6 ай бұрын
Best I’ve ever stumbled across! God leads!
@josmith8518
@josmith8518 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVED this so much. Thank you 😄
@krystalshannon2159
@krystalshannon2159 Жыл бұрын
Relationships and recovery can go hand in hand. You have to eliminate sex.. And use the love languages to fill the void. Living with out sex with your partner is hard but very beneficial.
@miller5170
@miller5170 Ай бұрын
Yes this is true as much as I think the love languages can help save or heal relationships by filling the love tank or understanding why sometimes our actions arent hitting the mark.. it’s for people who already respect one another and are committed would show it
@KatWoodland
@KatWoodland 5 күн бұрын
Absolutely right! He mentioned narcissistic people. They only speak “love languages” during the love bombing stage. Then, they will insist their partner fills their so-called tanks, but will not reciprocate. At all. Ever. It’s so good to be single at last.
@christinawalker2099
@christinawalker2099 5 жыл бұрын
As I've grown it's changed what I thought my top languages are now there not . Thanks for these vids
@billnyedaguyshorts5708
@billnyedaguyshorts5708 7 күн бұрын
I’m on part 4 and it’s helped me realize that I have in fact been the problem. Thanks brother.
@OliveWeitzel
@OliveWeitzel Жыл бұрын
WOW! Never before somebody knew that I was buying spontaneously gifts for friends - even though I ould not afford it...:) Here Pastor Fletcher names so much of me.....
@netzjan
@netzjan 5 ай бұрын
Thank you and bless you for sharing all those insights, this is extremely helpful and clarifying!! But please find a voice coach, it is really quite painful to hear all that pressure you're putting on your vocal chords. 🙏🏻
@CMoore8539
@CMoore8539 5 жыл бұрын
Always Excellent!!!😊♥️✌️
@joannapeters4738
@joannapeters4738 25 күн бұрын
Thank you! 🙏🙏🙏🌿🌈
@writeousrhema
@writeousrhema Жыл бұрын
Love this content!
@Forestgump12able
@Forestgump12able 9 ай бұрын
YOU ARE ALWAYS DOING OR INVOLVED ONE OF THESE. 1. ACTING ON WHAT I FEEL I NEED TO DO. 2. RE ACTING TO WHAT PEOPLE, OR SITUATIONS COMPEL M E TO DO.. 3. BEING ACTED UPON BY PEOPLE, OR SITUATION OR UNKNOWN SITUATION. 1. ACTING ON WHAT YOU KNOW TO BE RIGHT AND TRUE , UNDERSTANDING THE ENVIRONMENT, SITUATION, THE CONSEQUENCES. PEOPLE, SYSTEMS, SOMETIMES IN RELATIONSHIPS OR AT WORK. WHO IS RELATED TO ONE ANOTHER.
@GoodDay-ox1el
@GoodDay-ox1el Жыл бұрын
This is GREAT!
@krystalshannon2159
@krystalshannon2159 Жыл бұрын
You learn in recovery about character defects . Love languages are physical properties. You start to build. You advance You learn to shuffle.
@sweetearthflyinghigh
@sweetearthflyinghigh 11 күн бұрын
recently diagnosed cptsd acts of service for me stresses me out but that’s one of my biggest love languages i love to do
@C-Span222
@C-Span222 Ай бұрын
Thank you!😊
@leticiamilo4387
@leticiamilo4387 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this video!❤⚘
@Crazydoglady.
@Crazydoglady. 5 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT!! 👏👏
@bevsofroniuk1193
@bevsofroniuk1193 Жыл бұрын
Relationships messed me up or I messed up relationships/ or lack there of... confusion/ misunderstandings....
@andrewjohn4876
@andrewjohn4876 10 ай бұрын
Unfortunately it’s too little too late… I was divorced years ago and missed fathering my children. They are adults now and live in another city . I’m depressed and a recovering pot addict. Every time I hit rock bottom I fall even further down always ending up in the same state … Going to try getting a job this time round.
@paulalane8638
@paulalane8638 9 ай бұрын
It's never too late! You are not stuck with the wrong person. Please know you are here for a purpose. I pray your children's hearts are turned to you. God is God of the impossible. He helped me get healed of addiction. Don't give up!🙏🤗
@andrewjohn4876
@andrewjohn4876 9 ай бұрын
@@paulalane8638 cheers I’m getting stronger everyday, more confident … the best thing for me is not getting high when I have been triggered.
@cjennings6179
@cjennings6179 4 жыл бұрын
Values? Think about LIFE Desires. What is important to you? What do you Value?? What is IMPORTANT????
@andrewjohn4876
@andrewjohn4876 10 ай бұрын
Thanks I just realised the only love language i recognise is when someone buys a piece of my art. Problem is that it is not often so I go around feeling unlovable ,desperately trying to make something saleable. Every so often I spin out and destroy years worth of unsold work… sending myself into even greater depths of depression. I’m in one at the moment… contemplating getting a day job and giving the art for love thing a miss .
@jennyferguson5583
@jennyferguson5583 9 ай бұрын
Hope this goes from your Head( mind) to your Heart( soul) God Loves You More than you can even Imagine! Just Because - He made you a Unique person. You cannot Work Your way for This Love-❤️ God Loves you!
@cjennings6179
@cjennings6179 5 жыл бұрын
What manipulation to get ones way every time? What does it LOOK LIKE?
@cjennings6179
@cjennings6179 4 жыл бұрын
What is an insecure addicts VALUES? What is their MOST IMPORTANT VALUES?? Life Desires?
@davejayne2076
@davejayne2076 Жыл бұрын
I'm an intimacy addict, help!
@jessicah4498
@jessicah4498 9 ай бұрын
I don't believe in unconditional love. It doesn't exist just like a perfect shape that only exists in concept but always ends up imperfect in reality. If your love isn't conditional they it's probably obsessive. There should always be a boundry to love. I was raised by a narc who talked a lot about unconditional love and I thought I experienced it as a child. But I was being groomed to put aside all my needs.
@krystalshannon2159
@krystalshannon2159 Жыл бұрын
Complex trauma is induced trauma. Results from Undue influence. The negative influence tends to make you dwell on the past. Cause you don't understand. Most of that can be overcome. It may require medical attention.. or medicine. It is a mental illness.
@krystalshannon2159
@krystalshannon2159 Жыл бұрын
It's from being manipulated.. It changes after you realize the traits.
@ZOILAR2000
@ZOILAR2000 6 ай бұрын
Is there a church he does sermons at
@manixburn6403
@manixburn6403 5 күн бұрын
Will, is it our value or ethic ? What we're suppose to be love for, success. I am afraid will is simply part of a healthy brain able to feel, to link, it's natural. Will can fail, and i only goes as sickness. We can't judge ourself, no one is judging us... We survive ok...now can we learn to live ? To evolve, to face the challenge without poisoning ourself ? Destroying the world ? Hell is Earth, it seems to be the righteous path. We're addict to performance because of survival conditioning. We're under the bias as species of the one of the survivor. Thinking our strength is what work,....but maybe not anymore. Maybe peace is the challenge. Failure doesn't exist, doesn't matter for life. It's a path. It seems that success as today standard is failure as a whole... To drop the mic and let life teach us. Sobriety is the key, sobriety is knowledge, the one of entropy and syntropy. The meaning of life. Science rewrote the bible. The sacrifice is the one of ourself, the part that doesn't even exist, so frighten, the primitive brain. I'm afraid it's directly link to identity part of ourself. Many time we suffer without physical wound. What is that ? Identity, rigidity ? Is that our doom ? Morphogenic field is the new dimension to explore but can't be done without intelligence. Truth. As species. Problem is that identity can't be bring in this exploration, it doesn't matter, it's inappropriate. The present is only required, paradise is a garden filled with path, ourself and everything. The one and the whole is true. Will is health...and there also one health. Our health, our health as species is the same. War to the world can't bring anything good, that's treason of ourself, our nature, nature itself, to life in any form.
@vanessamcclain455
@vanessamcclain455 5 ай бұрын
Does anyone know if a narcissist will withhold sex and why?
@patriciamharris5664
@patriciamharris5664 2 ай бұрын
Yes. Power and control
@Lyrielonwind
@Lyrielonwind 9 күн бұрын
As punishment.
@doyrayburn2668
@doyrayburn2668 2 ай бұрын
Is this a series for women? Remember women are narcs too.
@KatWoodland
@KatWoodland 5 күн бұрын
some women
@angiecontreras9324
@angiecontreras9324 Жыл бұрын
Lots of generalizations
@janiceandrus3109
@janiceandrus3109 2 ай бұрын
Do you think
@cjennings6179
@cjennings6179 4 жыл бұрын
Lack of GIFTS. LACK APPRECIATION for good things. 😥😥👀
@funkchurches
@funkchurches 2 жыл бұрын
Accept his teaching and adjust your perceptions. The answers of your good questions are given. Simply accept his perspective and reflect I into yours. Calm perception. Easy reflection. Joyful connection.
@krystalshannon2159
@krystalshannon2159 Жыл бұрын
Your preaching about, Acts of God. I get that. But why blame anyone. We should have prevention team
@Gemisnotmyname
@Gemisnotmyname 2 ай бұрын
07:44
@cjennings6179
@cjennings6179 4 жыл бұрын
Identity deep conversation of his achievements meaningful genius Reporting for 3 or more hours not stop. Exhausting for everyone to be disrespected by an exaggerating SPEAKER FRIEND (man). 😥
@carlamccollough897
@carlamccollough897 8 күн бұрын
I could not touch or hug my ex-husband it would turn into sex
@niccic.
@niccic. 23 күн бұрын
The woman at the well went back and told many people, so she wasn't an outcast. Many believed her, many waited until they met Jesus themselves, because Jesus came to her town.
@paulalane8638
@paulalane8638 9 ай бұрын
JESUS is the only One who satisfies....nothing or no one else! I was an outcast most of my life, but Jesus is the only One who truly loves me.
@suzannehomrighausen2231
@suzannehomrighausen2231 Ай бұрын
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@sipto45
@sipto45 19 күн бұрын
Love yourself, you know your journey and what makes you admirable. You know why you deserve that. When you care for yourself as a loved one, you help others see this too. Hope you get to feel better, that you get up on your feet and back on that path quicker and quicker each time
@AdamWestish2
@AdamWestish2 5 күн бұрын
Almost any religion works as long as you practice it
@GodHelpMe369
@GodHelpMe369 Ай бұрын
RED HOT WHITE BURNING HOMICIDAL RAGE Jesus, I cry out to you in faith and desperation, pleas pleas please HELP ME! alone and lonely desperate for escape paralyzed with trauma he raped me he was supposed to be my best friend I die inside rage and grief eat me alive I'm in hell 7 INSATIABLE DESIRES: - the man that left me. he discarded me like last week's garbage. he took my heart and my soul with him. I'd do anything to have him back. I'd do anything to have my heart and soul back. - LOVE. the real thing. in it's purest truest realest rawest form. romantic and sexual and intimate. twin-flame (re)union. - sex. intimacy. attention. affection. romance. passion. cuddles. kisses. - to be wanted/needed/loved/desired. to be seen as beautiful and attractive. - to have all my past traumas erased/deleted/dissolved/healed. gone forever. - A TRIBE OF REAL FRIENDS - for Palestine to be free from the satanic grip of Isra-Hell!
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