RELAXING MY NATURAL 4A/4B HAIR | ALLABOUTASH

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You guys... I did it lol. Honestly I just didn't feel like the natural life was for me. I'm really happy with the decision I made to become relaxed again. This time around I really do want to properly take care of my hair. I'm looking forward to just how healthy and long my hair can become. Hope you enjoy ♥
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[@Simplyjalaya]

I’m natural. It’s what I like. I’ve never understood why the natural community sometime is so harsh on women who relax their hair. I follow both relax and natural KZbinrs. It’s your hair girly do what works for you. Your hair turned out beautiful!

[@AllAboutAshh]

I agree with you, it’s your hair so do what you want and what makes you happy! & thank you!❤️

[@Tiffanetic]

I agree 1000%

[@UmaAbde]

right!

[@laurenlatta495]

@Gwyn S you must be trippin then. many women who make videos relaxing their hair have to turn the comments off.

[@tiffanydrake1652]

@@AllAboutAshh agreed, the only person you should get concerned with making happy is God, Jesus and you😃

[@nubiancutey2530]

Her hair, her dimple, her skin😍😍😍

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you 💗

[@mzfancy4767]

I'm new to her but she is SUPER BEAUTIFUL!!!

[@spicynomad]

yep.

[@msQUEENS5477]

Def the dimple!!! 😊😊

[@usherofsoulsxx212]

Dimple envy..she’s so pretty 😍

[@MsR-si7tt]

I'm on a mission to relax everything in my life, I don't want stress with my money, my men, or my hair! (I'm getting it relaxed next week)!

[@macummings7818]

Does it relax you to introduce even more environmental chemicals into your body and bloodstream through your scalp? 😬 But, ok, you're on your mission. Godspeed. 🤷

[@MsR-si7tt]

@@macummings7818 Thank you for your concern... you take in chemicals everyday! Breathing the air outside, the food and drinks you digest, the products you use to wash your clothes, the exhaust from your car or the buses you travel on! Think before you reply and bless your heart! ❤

[@lashanndamcclain9607]

Love it!!

[@macummings7818]

@@MsR-si7tt 🙄

[@lightshadow5913]

I literally shared this EXACT same sentiment with my fiancé yesterday. Ha! Got my confirmation from spirit 😂

[@smiller0612]

I just wanted to say you're so pretty

[@AllAboutAshh]

Aww thank you! ☺️❤️

[@HealthyFoodBae_]

She is so beautiful 😻

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you!💗

[@Breezy11harvard]

She is!

[@teelee2130]

Her eyes are beautiful, as well!!!

[@selinelebrun2117]

What people don’t understand is that permed hair can flourish just like that of natural hair, the chemicals are not good, yeah, but not everyone’s natural hair is easy to maintain!

[@nisal.2663]

Seline Le Brun facts, I’ve tried natural not for me at all

[@UmaAbde]

yes girl. 100% agree!

[@ashleyw.7549]

Facts. I loved my hair relaxed, but for me, it was destroying my hair so I went natural and my hair is thriving. I absolutely hate having to deal with it but I do love my natural hair and for the sake of its health, I haven't gotten a relaxer in 9 years.

[@rhondeenpitts567]

Worrrddddd I wanna relax right now I feel like I can't handle it

[@mrs.knowsitall3019]

I agree ☝️ because when I was relaxed my hair stayed long and beautiful even when I would cut it it would grow back super long super fast. The main things that made me transition to natural is the fact that there’s a claim that relaxers create fibroids and other health concerns, I wanted to see if my hair could be more thicker and with the simple fact that natural hair is just so freakin GORGEOUS 😍😍

[@Ssa53367.]

Yes ma'm! Apply that relaxer like so like that. Why? Because that's your business (in my Tabitha Brown voice) Beautiful hair before and after!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Lmaoo I love her 😂 & thank you! ❤️

[@UmaAbde]

yasssss!

[@ThePoshTrainer]

Yasssss like so like that!

[@RaethePhoenix]

Lol I read it her voice, before you said it! 🤣

[@khamilaclark9076]

YES MA'AM! "Because it's my business!" I love Tabitha for that. I'm also considering going back to relaxers...

[@kelissamack8954]

I love how supportive everyone is being in the comments. You and your hair are beautiful.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Yesss me too! I was honestly surprised but I’m happy that everyone is being supportive! & thank you! ❤️

[@janaewishem2507]

Not gone lie I miss that fresh relaxed feeling

[@cleo6189]

Me 2

[@justlivelovelaughfrugally]

Right!

[@tf8054]

It was a mood wasn’t it though?!

[@ivademus9514]

Same lol

[@synamin1]

Same!!!

[@j.a.whittler6983]

You are super stunning. The dimple is everything. I'm a former professional hairstylist, I think it is wise that you go to a true professional and allow them to cut your hair. Your hair looks like it could stand having about 1 inch taken off of the ends. You'll be surprised at how easily you'll be able to comb thru it. Just remember to condition your hair like crazy. Moisture is the hair's best friend. Good Luck with your new transition!! I have all the faith in you! Have a very blessed day!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you❤️! & Yes I really want to go to a professional to get a trim! Just waiting til everything dies down 😕. Thanks for the support!

[@sandianbc8732]

This was such a helpful sweet comment.

[@j.a.whittler6983]

@@sandianbc8732 ...you are so very welcome! Keep fighting the fight! Have a very blessed and safe day!

[@rqhstlouis]

I love cowashing and spraying it with leave in between washes. I’ve finally found what works for my relaxed hair. I’ve incorporated a lot of what I’ve learned as a natural and guess what? My hair grows crazy. I’ve cut my hair at least 4x in the last 3 yrs. Not trims but anywhere from 4-6 inches of hair each time and I’m already pass shoulder length.

[@kreneeh79]

Loving the positivity in the comments here. I'm subbing and good luck on the transition❤️

[@BritniMichelle1]

Moms just be out here momming. This really reminded me of when my mom used to slay my relaxers in our kitchen. lol i could cry!! lol

[@AllAboutAshh]

Yess! lol don’t know what I would do without my mom ❤️

[@allielovestyle]

I was thinking the same thing! Like, "now that is a mama!"

[@cabezitadealgodon]

Honestly! They are do or die!! Love Blaq moms & all mommys supporting their adult kids.

[@SouthernGirl89]

Yes. Thank God for Black mommas ❤️

[@qadeerakhabir5768]

I remember doing this for me and my daughter. Her hair was always beautiful and long. She has gone natural and me too. But I am so tired of endless braids wigs and fake hair. My hair is not growing any faster. It still gets dry and it doesn't do well with gels. Just tired of all the hassle and still unable to wear my natural out

[@hawaiianBombshell]

Wow your hair is so pretty ✨ I just relaxed after 7 years & I'm so happy..no more detangling. I realized all the tips I learned while natural (LOC method, protein treatments etc) I can apply that to my relaxed & it's really healthy.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you❤️! Yes it’s just so much more manageable & yea I agree, you can apply a lot of the treatments that you used on your natural hair on your relaxed hair.

[@UmaAbde]

team relaxed! lol 🙌🙌

[@HelloMyFavoriteVids]

I was thinking the same.. I think if i was to go relax again i would know how to better take care of my hair thanks to learning how to keep the integrity of my hair.

[@mmmhmm3674]

quin del rey Well if it LOOKS healthy and is easier for the person to manage...what’s the problem. It’s JUST hair.

[@hawaiianBombshell]

@Tay Q Right! Naturals color & bleach their hair & that's not healthy. Also detangling & yanking isn't healthy either. Relaxed all the way 💁🏽‍♀️

[@sandianbc8732]

Your dimple😍😍😍😍. Honestly people with dimples have a whole honoury degree in smiling

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you 💗

[@kittydollsxo189]

Africans have fake dimples

[@pinkbutterflies994]

@@kittydollsxo189 did you snort crack?

[@ladyinpink1833]

Do all black women have that same brown wide tooth comb?!?! 😂😂😂 I love it!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Lmao I think we might 😂❤️

[@iamraynella7614]

I definitely think so cause my hair be breaking any other comb😂😂😂

[@metsl1870]

👍🏿,yup

[@SexySensi]

Nope, mines is red lol

[@laflex7653]

Yes I got a comb like that somewhere

[@CandiceandJose]

Her “I’m tired of looking like this” is my hair goals 🤣

[@AllAboutAshh]

😂😂

[@anisaskcirmoht57]

Me too, I've been stuck at twa length since 2013 😭😭

[@flygirl1612]

After 7 yrs of being natural, I relaxed my hair Oct 2019. I believe with the knowledge that we have now will support us who have went back to the creamy crack with having healthy relaxed hair. Welcome back! Can't wait to see more uploads!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Yes I agree! Thanks for the support 💗

[@aanaayss]

Yes! alot of women were not taking proper care while relaxed, which is why their hair was breaking off. But now there are so many resources on YT and IG to teach us how to properly care for our hair whether relaxed or natural

[@biancalord488]

Same, 7 years later relaxed may 2019

[@nari.y.]

I went back to the creamy crack 2 years ago and my hair is still healthy lol

[@REDzVelvet]

This coming , June 8th will make 7 yrs. I have thought of relaxing and doing a rinse on this day. Since it’s the week before my bday. And I have been questioning if I should relax or stay natural. Sometimes I wished I never went natural. Before cutting I had my hair in a nice routine , health and length was great. And I completely understand what she said simple styles like ponytails and detangling it requires soooooo much work. Y’all really have me thinking hard on this

[@alexism.7712]

THIS DAMN QUARANTINE DONE FORCED ME TO BECOME A NATURAL WITH A BIT OF PERM HANGING BY A THREAD, SO I CAN'T WAIT TO SIT DOWN IN MY STYLIST CHAIR AND RELAX.....AAAHHH!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Natural with a bit of perm 😂

[@nalaamour]

Lol this was too funny 🤣

[@sweettoothmarie7304]

Hahaha! 😂 i totally get you...i ended up braiding mine last next week as we await for salons to reopen. The hair growth is just too much..😁

[@juneplumlogan]

🤣

[@nadinacorbitt]

Right.. i stretched for a year because of quarantine. I was suppose to have it done in april. Its a lot of 4b/4c fro at the moment. Im finally getting mine in a week. Im Nervous lol.

[@teahoney15]

Hairlicious is the truth. I've incorporated a lot of her methods over the years. Your hair came out great.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you! ❤️

[@vmina12]

Lol. Girl your forehead is just fine...it doesn’t look huge at all. It’s very proportionate to your face. Love how your hair turned out.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Lol thank you 😂❤️

[@sharisseila]

Her skin is so gorgeous 😍

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you 💗

[@slicebread26]

If you're following hairlicious hair regimen , you'll be MBL in no time. She is the truth, when it comes to relaxed hair. I highly recommend her videos.

[@AllAboutAshh]

I hope so! I really like her videos too, excited to be on this hair journey!

[@jokeybaby4]

@@AllAboutAshh Briana Rashay also cares for her relaxed hair very well as well as April Sunny, Seun, and Style Domination. All have healthy relaxed hair. Check them out 👌😉

[@casmitacompton1723]

True I fellow her. Her hair long and look healthy.

[@UmaAbde]

I relaxed a few months ago and I love my hair. Most people say it doesn't look relaxed because it looks so healthy! so yes, you can have long healthy relaxed hair. I actually posted a video on how i relax my own hair at home.

[@kitbracadabra]

you weren't lying, it's so cute! I'm a natural but you have a new sub lol

[@Acentra277]

Its just hair guys. If she wants to go natural again in the future she can. Hair grows back.

[@kenadielise7780]

Especially on mah legs

[@Acentra277]

@@kenadielise7780 lol XD

[@SeeKelaLive]

ur dimple is so cute! I came here because ive been back and forth about it! Your beautiful both ways

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you!❤️ & I was going back and forth about it too but I finally said imma do it and I’m so happy I did, lol no regrets at all!

[@UmaAbde]

follow your heart love!

[@Karatsukino]

There's nothing wrong with relaxers as long as you go to a professional who does it right and you take care of your hair. I haven't had a relaxer touch my hair since 2008, so I can relate to the struggles of natural hair. In my case I did a big chop 😁 I was and still am tempted to relax my hair again. There are a couple of things that I will say about this video: 1. You should never use regular scissors for cutting your hair. Go to the beauty supply store and get shears. They are specially designed for cutting your hair. 2. When doing a relaxer, do the roots last. Your roots are closer to your scalp and are more warm then the ends leading to over processing. That should be the last area you do. Also becareful of putting relaxer on ends that have already been relaxed. You run the risk of over processing which leads to breakage. If you feel like you absolutely have to, I'd suggest using a mild relaxer for only a few minutes...less then 10. Provided you are doing your hair at home. Even so, it's only a suggestion, I don't recommend it. If anything at all look for a reputable stylist with a good track record of doing relaxers the right way. Use Oleplex to rebuild the bonds that were broken when you straighten your hair. Like I said, relaxers aren't bad, it's the technique and after care that causes the problems you hear about. I'm a cosmotogist, so this isn't coming from lack of experience. Other then that, your hair looks beautiful. 😁

[@KenLex]

I relaxed mine two years ago after being natural for 3 years but now I’m going back natural. I missed my natural hair 😭. Natural and relaxed looks great on you! 💕

[@AllAboutAshh]

Yea honestly that happens lol I was relaxed then went natural (for about 2 seconds) and then came right back to relaxed 😂 but like I’ve said it’s just hair so we have to do what we like and what works best for us! & Thank you! ❤️

[@barexammentor]

That’s why I like beautiful textures. Their texture manageability system gives me the relaxed hair without permanent straightening. When I want my curls back I just wash it out with a clarifying shampoo. I do it once a year and keep my hair in mini twists for the rest of the year so *no detangling*.

[@brklyn2922]

@@barexammentor I will try this system out. Thank you.

[@LadyAngela678]

You have a good mom.

[@AllAboutAshh]

I agree ❤️

[@janet.ndomahina]

Your hair came out sooo cutee 😍😍🤍 you’ll be good as long as you’re moisturizing your relaxed hair and doing protein treatments! Oh and avoiding too much heat!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you❤️! I’m going to try to moisturize and seal daily or every other day when my hair isn’t actually styled & I’m going to try to only do heat once a month lol we will see how that goes

[@s.houston3498]

My hair has been relaxed for years. healthy and long. But I’ve learned that those blow dryers and flat irons dry my hair, make it brittle. So I’ve learned to stick to roller sets with large rollers and let it air dry at home or sit under a hood dryer. Then put it in a doobie at night. 😊

[@AllAboutAshh]

I definitely want to try a roller set! If I do I’ll film it!

[@staciep2638]

The heat is the devil,the flat irons

[@Flourish_today]

@@s.houston3498 Yes roller setting is old school but still works well. In my country we still use rollers. Some saloons do not even have hair straighteners.

[@kadyelizabeth8680]

Whew Chile this lady is so pretty and that hair is majestic🌹😭😍

[@AllAboutAshh]

Aww thank you! ❤️

[@UmaAbde]

agreed!

[@tf8054]

Everyone already said it, but I’mma say it too, girl you are gorgeous 😍, hair, skin, dimples everything, teeth lol

[@AllAboutAshh]

Aww thank you ☺️💗

[@dimanshediamond6347]

So very true!😊

[@KayySmoovee]

Hairlicious , Healthyhairjunkie , & Ulovemegz are the ones I follow constantly !

[@AllAboutAshh]

I watch them too! Love their content!

[@KaylaKM]

Moms are such a blessing !

[@teidrafonacier356]

I love how your mom was so supportive and helpful. Taking care of her baby girl.

[@dcarmeto]

Don't know why this was in my recommendations, but I'm not mad, lol. I am natural, and love being natural. But as you can see from my profile, I am color-treated, and that is a bit shunned in the "natural hair community" and we are no longer seen as truly natural, blah blah blah. Anyway, its fun being color-treated and hair is meant to be fun. Its your crown, your hair, so do with it as you please. If later down the years you chose to be natural again, then that's your choice. No one else can make it for you.It is crazy how people really be sitting here pressed trying to tell other people what to do with their hair. All the girls that told me not to color my hair because it will get damaged and ruin my curl pattern, I know they mad. They see me all the time at work, and they still see how healthy and shiny my hair is, and I know they are questioning what went wrong for them when they colored their natural hair, and why it isn't turning out the same way for me. How you care for your hair, matters. What works for you, matters. So do you boo, lol. This was weirdly so relaxing to watch until you pulled out the scissors, and I had to pause, cause I was like "Please don't let her become scissor happy to her own self." Lol.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Yess I agree! It’s just hair, do what you want with it, cut it, relax it, dye it, whatever lol. & yea I’m happy I put the scissors down too 😂

[@folakemie]

I just relaxed mine last week and mehn, I'm so loving it👌😍

[@AllAboutAshh]

Yesss, I love the relaxed life lol ☺️

[@folakemie]

@Danniell C I used the ORS relaxer

[@MarissaLaChelle]

I’ve relaxed my natural hair twice and this video is so tempting! I always end up going back because I miss how full my hair looks and feels textured BUT the maintenance of natural hair.. whew 🥴

[@AllAboutAshh]

Maybe you should look into texlaxing! Still allows you to have texture, your curls just loosen up a little bit! & lmao girl I know, it was just too much for me, that’s why I’m relaxed now 😂

[@solarlola5953]

No kidding about the maintenance😫I’ve relaxed twice as well but I’ve been natural for almost 5 years. I think I’ll stick with it because if I relax again I’ll probably go natural again. Right now I’m focused on achieving long hair

[@ljd6643]

I just big chopped again at the start of quarantine because of this 😖 I was alternating between keratin treatments & relaxers + my hair was the longest it had ever been but it just got too thin for my taste

[@Coolkem1]

I was holding my breath when you did the first cut. Your hair actually didn’t look like it needed a trim at all 😊

[@chasturner84]

I relaxed in Feb of this year after 10 years natural. I don’t regret my decision at all; I honestly wish I’d done it sooner. I’ll definitely be subscribing for updates on your new journey.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thanks for the support! ❤️

[@NiKKey411]

Girl I feel you. My name's Ashley too and we got the same type of hair. I love my hair but it takes so much work to make it look "presentable". The styles I like are damaging and the protective styles that dont take forever make me look like I'm 12. Ive been considering for years a perm or texlax. IDK. My scalp is too tender to keep all this thicc hair sometimes.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Heyyy Ashley👋🏾 Lol, just do your research, I can say that I’m so happy I made the decision to relax & I hope that if you relax you love your results as well!

[@hemsyyy]

There are some temporary straighteners better to check those options out

[@daniellevaughn4598]

I've found myself falling down the rabbit hole of "natural hair" KZbin gorgeous. I can't get out. I don't think I want to. 😄 Second to getting my hair done, it's weirdly satisfying watching someone else getting their hair done. Especially washed, brushed or straightened.

[@aminadakaka7716]

Looks great ... my hair is also relaxed. And within a short while I started my hair journey it grew from shoulder length to below bra strap length. Just keep up with your conditioning, protein treatment and hot oil.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you! One thing I do need to do is a bit more research on protein treatments and how to incorporate them into my hair care

[@RobinIsSewin]

I’ve been natural this time around for three years, and I’m looking forward to relaxing it this month. For me, natural hair is more difficult to upkeep. Your hair looks great👍🏾

[@shannonarmstrong6364]

Gorgeous head of hair regardless

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you ❤️

[@1908prettylawyer]

Your hair is gorgeous! Your mom did a great job applying your relaxer & the little bit of texture is a perfect result IMO. Your hair looks full, healthy & shiny 👍🏾

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you❤️! I just can’t wait til I can go to the salon for a real trim lol

[@trishtrish999]

Welcome to the club. I just did the same after 9 years. I also unfollowed the natural hair channels just to be able to focus on healthy relaxed hair content. Cant wait to see your new journey and your hair looks fantastic. ❤

[@trishtrish999]

Also wanted to recommend the ponytail rollerset...see peggypeg_

[@AllAboutAshh]

Trisha Wow 9 years! I’ll check out the ponytail roller set, Thanks ❤️

[@Chelss3648]

Me personally i think its better to have natural hair because if u dont look after relaxed hair properly it will start to get thin and break off and u will be forced to go back natural

[@AllAboutAshh]

That can happen, but whether you are relaxed or natural you still have to take care of your hair. For me, I think being relaxed will help me take better care of my hair because it’s more manageable

[@rainerwells1573]

So so pretty, your complexion is life! beautiful hair before and after

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you!❤️

[@gracechilo345]

Her dimples are Absolutely stunning ❤️

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank youu❤️

[@richladytv3014]

Thank you!!! I'm getting a relaxer now. I've been natural for 8 years. I'm tried of looking like Florida Evans. It's tooooooooooo much and I can't do it NO MORE!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thank you.. Blessings...

[@darceljones2571]

Hahahahaha

[@rahra2483]

I love how it's still thick and looks strong. I'm so leary of going back to perm because I'm so addicted to my hair having body. I can't stand the look of stringy, thin, limp relaxed hair.

[@jay4ever2day]

It's actually therapeutic seeing you just comb through your hair post conditioner *Le sigh* it's just so simple and seamless Big congrats for doing you, you hair looks gorgeous!!!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you ❤️

[@kaykaykunicornwright1909]

It looks beautiful. It looks healthy and long. Just do your conditioners, take care of it and your hair will be fine. Natural, or relaxed it doesn't matter. What matters is you taking good care of your hair, enjoy the journey and have fun.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you ❤️

[@flythrive6633]

This was so sweet to watch it likes takes you back to when your mom might give you relaxer when your a kid to now a whole adult! Gurls will always be mamas babies

[@AllAboutAshh]

☺️❤️

[@hairhealthfashion9737]

Your hair turned out beautiful! I know you feel some parts were under processed, but I love how the under process strands gives your hair volume! And yes, natural hair is a lot of work and time. It takes me over 5 hours to do my natural hair. I'm seriously thinking about relaxing it.

[@Eve05342]

Your mum was so gentle... It is so cute 😍. And you look amazing btw

[@AllAboutAshh]

Lol yea she did a really good job & thank you! ❤️

[@Preciousdocumentaries]

Your skin is soo beautiful!!!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you❤️! Lol I wish it still looked like that

[@Preciousdocumentaries]

@@AllAboutAshh Ah hopefully it does! You're welcome btw💕💯

[@itsyourgirlBEE]

I just love finding new pretty black girls to subscribe to 🥰 you look stunning with both natural and relaxed hair!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you ❤️

[@zannigibbs5327]

I can’t manage my natural hair at all. I have no energy to even comb it 😩😩 definitely considering a relaxer bc I just can’t. You look amazing ❤️

[@nyap7539]

I want to get a relaxer but it's just so permanent 😭 I wish they could make a temporary relaxer that even lasts through washes

[@andreawilliams650]

You can get a keratin treatment

[@junkmail1111]

Omg, your dimples and eyes; you’re absolutely gorgeous 😩

[@AllAboutAshh]

Aww thank you ❤️

[@terrijdavis1953]

Thank you for this! Three years to grow out my relaxer with crochet braids. OMG, it’s been a natural hair challenge, I miss my relaxer so much. You look beautiful.🤗❤️

[@keishadavis5402]

That dimple though! I swear you are making me want to relax my hair!

[@SpiritualOutsider]

Your hair is beautiful! It's so full and has great volume ♥️

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you! 💗

[@billiebillie678]

Quarantine is making so many of us ditch natural hair! 😂😂😂

[@AllAboutAshh]

Lmao girl I was thinking about doing this way before quarantine 😂 but yea I know a lot of people are thinking about things to do to their hair right now

[@billiebillie678]

@@AllAboutAshh haha me too! I started thinking about it before quarantine but not being able to go to the braiding salon pushed me to my limits. haha. Your hair came out great!!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you! ❤️

[@adriennabanks2411]

😂

[@nickij8464]

@RiceAnd Chicken um ok

[@sandianbc8732]

Honestly i am just here to chill and watch people do their hair. I find it soooo relaxing

[@MichelleIjeoma]

First of all, you are stunning! I’ve been natural for years now and I’ve been contemplating getting a texturizer for the past few weeks because while I love my natural curly hair I need my time. For some reason, my wash days and styling days take forever. Lol. Love watching videos like this. Thanks for sharing!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Yess I totally get how you feel! Lol that was a big factor that motivated me to actually relax. A texturizer will definitely make your hair more manageable while still allowing you to have some curls! I think that could be a great option for you

[@ellenrics]

I love the relaxed hair style you look fantastic !

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you! 💗

[@TheDreamer279]

i appreciate your video quality so much. And I am also about to relax, natural hair is just not for me. Thank you for uploading this I feel better about my decision.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thanks for the kind words❤️ Yea honestly you just have to do what’s best for you! No matter if you are natural or relaxed you still have to take care of your hair. Hope you like the results!

[@itsalovelybae]

Thank you for being so thorough in this video! I am relaxing after 5 years natural & this was very informative.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Yay! I’m glad it helped! Good luck on your relaxed journey ❤️

[@indiablunt9053]

Your hair is so thick! I can’t believe how beautiful it is even with the relaxer! Wow

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you ❤️

[@elizabethhonour2216]

You’re gorgeous!! And your dimples are the cutest🥺🥺

[@AllAboutAshh]

Aww thank you! 💗

[@Tyland2020]

Your hair came out so cute! It’s noting wrong with perks as long as you know how to take care of your hair properly. We have so much more knowledge about our hair now which is amazing! And honestly having type 4 hair can be beautiful and a struggle all at once 😂

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you❤️! lol I feel like my hair is going to be so much better off this time around because of all the resources we have now!

[@WITHLOVE_DANIELLEJOY]

This girl is insanely gorgeous omg, I couldn’t get pass her natural beauty 😍

[@AllAboutAshh]

Aww thank you so much! ☺️💕

[@AuthorLHollingsworth]

Your hair is so beautiful. Just keep your hair moisturized, dust, and trimmed. Im due for a relaxer, and cant wait. Continue to do what's best for you.

[@OlaNmotion]

I had to pause this video to comment on your skin like WOW please upload a skincare routine and you are sooo pretty with cute dimples. but girl.... I keep watching videos like this and this is the motivation I needed! I'm texlaxing tmr

[@AllAboutAshh]

I have one on my blog! (allboutashblog.com) but thank you❤️! & good luck with texlaxing!😊

[@MimiIman]

A tip, when I trim my hair, I trim it section by section just like I do when I flat iron my hair. I’m not considering getting a relaxer but being stuck in the house with a 6 week old and not really being able to do my hair has me going crazy cause it’s a hot mess, I need these hair stores to open so I can get braids 😩😩. Also your hair came out nice, and if relaxing your hair is what works for you, that’s all that matters. Right now I’m trying to limit heat to get my hair to grow but my hair isn’t doing well so the only way for me to accomplish that is to start getting braids more frequent.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Oh okay that’s a good tip! I think when I feel comfortable going to the salon I’m just going to let a professional trim my ends 😂 & honestly when I was natural braids and sew ins made my hair grow sooo much, so I would definitely recommend braiding hour hair up

[@AllThingsAvernelle]

Dimple squad! U Did great girl, your hair looks beautiful 💜

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thanksss💕

[@FatimahsFiles]

You’re beautiful with or without makeup and your hair is looking healthy! I think it’s your hair and you can do what you want with it, when you want, others opinions don’t even matter.

[@raeginagant5417]

I was natural for two years then I decided to start getting Brazilian blowouts! It’s all about what’s best for you, and as long as you care for your hair properly it will continue to flourish. Good luck on your relaxed hair journey! Can’t wait to see more videos :)

[@AllAboutAshh]

Yes I agree! Do what’s best for you! & thanks for the support! 💗

[@AllergicToAshAndDust]

Your hair turned out beautiful. I miss those days when my mom relaxed my hair for me ❤️❤️

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you ❤️

[@justedominique]

you are stunning and your hair turned out so beautiful!! 😍

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you 💕

[@crystallight328]

I’m over it too. I’ve been natural for 10 years. I just turned 30 & my hair is still not what I wanted. Long, thick & healthy. I will not spend my 30s stressing over my hair

[@adriennabanks2411]

Not going to lie I cracked up on the 3rd snip. So happy you put the scissors down, queen 😂🤣 xx

[@AllAboutAshh]

Me too 😂

[@janereyrules1083]

You are gorgeous sis! I don't plan to go relaxed but I support you! Stay blessed!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you ❤️

[@yvonnenartey2338]

Finally something for relaxed hair. It's a choice to go either natural or relaxed

[@beemocha]

You’re so gorgeous omg 😍😍😍😘 love that dimple in ur cheek too. Your hair looks pretty

[@AllAboutAshh]

Aww thank you! 💗

[@natinapowell7990]

A lot of naturals are relaxing now including myself! I do miss the thickness and fullness of my natural hair thou! The more I relax the thinner its getting!

[@laysimmer3580]

haha yes that’s me right now however I’m transitioning because it’s become way too thin

[@baddgallindsay70]

Yeah. I texturized and still noticed thinning after a while. Think I’m going to transition back to natural.

[@natinapowell7990]

@@baddgallindsay70 Me too! My relaxed hair breaks off with box braids! I love and miss my box braids and twist!

[@Panicatthejazz]

I’m relaxing my hair in a couple of weeks and I can’t wait. I’m over being natural and I miss my straight hair.

[@AllAboutAshh]

I feel your struggle lol! You’re going to love being relaxed!

[@sweettoothmarie7304]

I'm relaxed and definately in your corner!! 💖 Plus your hair turned out beautiful! 💕

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you ❤️

[@violabeautymua]

Girllll!!! You’re so beautiful and your hair is BEAUTIFUL! It’s rich black and so thick and full!!! I love it!!!! You just won a new subbie!!!😍😍❤️

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thanks for the support! 😊💕

[@flamingoparrish8215]

Dang gurl your freakin beautiful love your skin.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you! ❤️

[@bossbabe8797]

It looks good! I recently decided to become a "straight natural". Im completely natural but I wear it straight. I love it!

[@gracecallowayable]

Beautiful!!! I love the mixed texture look!!! Gorgeous!!!🧡

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you! ❤️

[@tokamartin2175]

Hey girly! I just watched this video and laughed sooo hard when you clipped your hair and you said let me stop😂😂😂😂 keep the vids coming doll🙏🏾❤️

[@AllAboutAshh]

Lmao girl I thought I messed up big time😂, thanks for the support! 💗

[@cierragirdy9966]

I'm thinking of going back to relaxed hair! I was relaxed elementary-10th grade and then switched to protective styles until now (sew ins & braids) I didn't really know how to take good care of it back then but im glad we have youtube now xD I miss having my natural hair lol. Your hair looks good!

[@AllAboutAshh]

Yea my relaxed hair now is nothing like the relaxed hair I use to have the first time around, it’s much more healthy and thick this time, I’ve learned sooo much from KZbin! & thank you! ❤️

[@rcooper1033]

I’ve been natural for 11 years. I never had any damage when my hair was relaxed. I will be going back to relaxed hair in a couple of weeks.

[@AllAboutAshh]

Welcome back!❤️

[@chantellea9938]

Just out of curiosity, why will you be going back?

[@rcooper1033]

Beautifully African 1. I have 3 different hair textures. At times it gets frustrating dealing with all three. 2. I feel that I’m doing more damage to my hair in its natural state. 3. I have waist length hair and it takes a lot to maintain it.

[@chantellea9938]

@@rcooper1033 Understandable. I hope the new journey goes well for you.

[@The.Anyamah]

You are so beautiful! And your hair turned out gorgeous 😍

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you☺️

[@starzzzy22]

This brings back memories of getting a box perm from my mama in the kitchen until I was 22. When I moved away for grad school and my mama couldn't perm my hair anymore, I went natural. I never had good experiences letting other people perm it. Also those soft bonnet dryers ROCK!

[@AllThingsAniyah]

I’m thinking about texlaxing again. I had one about 3 years ago and my hair took off and grew so well. But then I wanted something new and cut it all off and wore it short. My natural hair grew out beautifully the first 8 ish months and made it to shoulder/collar bone length but then my hair started getting brittle, breaking off, shedding really bad, horrible single strand knots and not taking heat at all. Think I might have to go back for my 1st year of college and switch it up again

[@jasonwilliams7175]

You’re hair looks fantastic 😍

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you ❤️

[@CourtneyRaiBeauty]

Your so pretty 😍! First off next ive been contemplating doing this but im doing it for the exact same reason as u. I needed to see this !!! 🙏🏽

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you & glad I could help! ❤️

[@Daphneamy360]

Kudos to you this was a big step on your decision love the blow dried look and light press gives me kinky straight I look forward to more videos on your channel I subscribed and light in the second 😍

[@AllAboutAshh]

Thank you! I really do like how my hair still is still thick and have volume even though I relaxed & thanks for the support! 😊❤️

[@Daphneamy360]

@@AllAboutAshh your welcome ❤