Relocating To South Africa From Nigeria? Culture Shocks

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Chandie

Chandie

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@sphekza
@sphekza 2 жыл бұрын
Cape Town experienced terrible draught in the last few years. Businesses and residents had to conserve water as the city went on a massive campaign of "Day Zero" which was an anticipated day when the city won't have even a drop of water. Well that was politically contested but I was just trying to explain the 2-3min shower restrictions.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this :)
@Sindi-N
@Sindi-N 2 жыл бұрын
1. South African men love genuinely and deeply! 2. They do not show off their wealth! 3. They do give money if their committed, because not every girl is in a relationship for money! 4. South African women are very much independent, and our independency is our pride as women! 5. We definitely do not have water shortage, it was just a phase that passed! 6. We have power cuts but we do not pay for the electricity during those power cuts, we only pay for the electricity we used!
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this . The water shortage was as at when she was there . Being independent is key ! I admire and stand for that , thank you so much for watching and sharing :)
@oluwashinaogunsanya6278
@oluwashinaogunsanya6278 2 жыл бұрын
Please how safe is durban
@vusip6978
@vusip6978 Жыл бұрын
Capetown have water cut in some seasons and very strict, there's nothing wrong with that
@Marysmmiiith
@Marysmmiiith 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for stating the truth about south african men, I also feel that they are more genuine and authentic than other men from certain other countries, they will not give you money so to keep you in a relationship
@palesamogorosi8939
@palesamogorosi8939 2 жыл бұрын
Lol this slander against South African men is tiring. Broke? Because they don't want to give you money? Girl you need to make your own money and stand on your own two feet. In South Africa, everyone works. Everyone is breadwinner - men and women. Yes your boyfriend or husband can spoil you from time to time, but remember that generally SA women are groomed to be independent and learn to be able to provide for themselves, not depend on men. Once you want to solely depend on a man for everything you become shamed and called all kinds of names like slay queen and so forth. It's merely a cultural difference that you'll need to adjust to. South African men are also not all the same entirely so generalizing is just unfair. Enjoy your stay :)
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
You’ve said your piece !! I’m so grateful for the clarity , thank you :)
@Sindi-N
@Sindi-N 2 жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head 🙌🏽! People should get their facts straight because they confidently validate their opinions!
@ajogayetunde5281
@ajogayetunde5281 2 жыл бұрын
I should av said ‘Most SA men are broke ‘ SA woman are very financially dependent I must acknowledge . N of course I make my own money , I have 2 flourishing businesses in my name .
@palesamogorosi8939
@palesamogorosi8939 2 жыл бұрын
@@ajogayetunde5281 I appreciate you having your own money, but still some of the things you said give an impression of entitlement which is creepy. Just understand that we're different and generally don't like showing off, so even if someone is loaded you can never really tell.
@gugulethukhoza9208
@gugulethukhoza9208 2 жыл бұрын
Danko. Well spoken
@zuluuyasabeka9303
@zuluuyasabeka9303 2 жыл бұрын
SA has the highest number of black millionaires and the highest black middle class in Africa even though we have half the population of 🇳🇬 . So how can you say SA men don’t have money🙄. South Africans are generally not flashy like Nigerians. We also don’t blow our cash on women since they were taught to be independent.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing :)
@Robio_scorpio
@Robio_scorpio 2 жыл бұрын
No sa doesn't have the highest black millionaires its Nigeria wherever u got that information is wrong
@trayway9067
@trayway9067 2 жыл бұрын
@@Robio_scorpio lmao😂ur so obsessed with south africa... and yes south africa has the highest number of black dollar millionaires with wealth based in the country....read i alwys tell your read
@Robio_scorpio
@Robio_scorpio 2 жыл бұрын
@@trayway9067 no it doesn't never did 🤣🤣🤣Nigeria has so many dollar millionaires and billionaires
@zuluuyasabeka9303
@zuluuyasabeka9303 2 жыл бұрын
@@Robio_scorpio Nigeria has the most billionaires in Africa. Not millionaires. Please look it up.
@kemmoneR
@kemmoneR 2 жыл бұрын
FYI South Africans can tell if your are a foreigner
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Oh really? Even without speaking ?
@happygolucky4635
@happygolucky4635 2 жыл бұрын
Not true. I lived in SA 15yrs never could they think I am foreigner. You know why. I made sure to learn Zulu.since I had clicks in my language was easy to learn and I could speak Afrikaans. So Noone knew. They thought I am but I was not
@zuluuyasabeka9303
@zuluuyasabeka9303 2 жыл бұрын
@@happygolucky4635 You sound like you are from a neighbouring country in SADEC. Since you know Afrikaans & have clicks in your native language. So chances are you fit the stereotypical Southern African look. East Africans tend to also look like SAns since they have Bantu genes. However, West Africans are very easy to tell apart from a Southern Africans
@whateverstaymad8309
@whateverstaymad8309 2 жыл бұрын
@@chandie3585 yes we notice
@MosesMatsepane
@MosesMatsepane 2 жыл бұрын
@@chandie3585 Lies, without hearing your accent there’s no way of knowing that you’re not from here. You would blend in, and people would speak to your in South African languages.
@Lulu-wv1nt
@Lulu-wv1nt 2 жыл бұрын
South Africa doesn't have jolof rice. So that was probably a Nigerian restaurant. South Africans are not about class. South Africans all work, men and women so you don't wait for a man to have something
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, thanks for this information. It’s such a beautiful thing that y’all have a sense of independence. Thank you so much for watching :)
@gugulethukhoza9208
@gugulethukhoza9208 2 жыл бұрын
True lulu
@tua-tuna
@tua-tuna 2 жыл бұрын
We don't eat jollof rice here.....
@shaunrhyssa2082
@shaunrhyssa2082 2 жыл бұрын
Every person who visits South Africa has their own experiences...I've been living in Cape Town for 8 months now and I'm originally from Jorburg both places are similar but different at the same time....one thing I've noticed is that when it comes to a TRUE relationship your status is just a cherry on top...money isn't that much of a factor, of course it creates financial stability but as long as your partner is open minded, smart, you help each other grow the.....yeah everything is okay...only few people show off their wealth ,most prefer a simple like 🙂 I appreciate your curiosity about SA
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you for sharing. Very true, thanks for watching :)
@ernistox
@ernistox 2 жыл бұрын
I think she don't know SA yet
@natashamonyatsi4220
@natashamonyatsi4220 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely
@timesup4454
@timesup4454 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha nice video guys ,love from South Africa
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot :)
@MosesMatsepane
@MosesMatsepane 2 жыл бұрын
We don’t scam people, that’s why we don’t have money as South African men. You must ask the Jollof boys to teach us, maybe that will help us to get some as well.
@gugulethukhoza9208
@gugulethukhoza9208 2 жыл бұрын
True Matsepane
@hopebuhali3887
@hopebuhali3887 2 жыл бұрын
True
@ChinazaMichael-d7b
@ChinazaMichael-d7b Жыл бұрын
Nandos hot plate saved me in j burg till I start getting used to the food..
@zainyo516
@zainyo516 3 ай бұрын
lol that’s not all we do Jesus some are but 70% aren’t
@MosesMatsepane
@MosesMatsepane 3 ай бұрын
@@zainyo516 So you're admitting that 60million Nigerians are scammers? That's a lot of people.
@PrincessVelaryon
@PrincessVelaryon Жыл бұрын
I am a South African woman and I have never dated a stingy SA man ever. SA men usually take care of their SA women but its just spoiling as SA women value independence. As a Nigerian you wont know this as SA men usually dont date outside of SA. Also remember that the people you may have encountered dont represent the whole country. As South Africans we are very low key and conservative so we dont flash.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this with us :)
@trayway9067
@trayway9067 2 жыл бұрын
my sister south africa has the biggest middle class in africa , we have the highest number of black dollar millionaires in africa. this thing of black south african men not having money is all lies.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the clarity :)
@ziphonxumalo5410
@ziphonxumalo5410 11 ай бұрын
Im so surprised to see South African women defending and speaking positively of us South African men. Thank you ❤ its so refreshing What that woman said about South African men is very antagonizing
@marshathomas6422
@marshathomas6422 2 жыл бұрын
I was in Cape Town 2 weeks ago and I showered for 30min with no issues.. it’s shocking to hear such because that’s not the case
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Oooh, that’s awesome. According to the comments here the drought is over now :)
@manayesh
@manayesh Жыл бұрын
It wasn't a drought coz agricultural production continued without interruption.
@lebohangbusiraseobi5154
@lebohangbusiraseobi5154 2 жыл бұрын
The shower issue😳 it's my very first time hearing about it,what hotel is that?
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Hearing the drought has been resolved :)
@scholarspeaksinspired
@scholarspeaksinspired 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaa...the Airport 😊😀Oh my...People always say this...I hope to travel to SA one day...travelling makes you see the world in a different light..a very insight video...I just subscribed
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Very true! SA is definitely part of the bucket list. Thank you so much :)
@kelebogilebesong2392
@kelebogilebesong2392 2 жыл бұрын
But South Africans don’t eat jellof rice though 😂
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
So I heard ! Thanks for watching 💙
@OkoiPatrick-gp1dj
@OkoiPatrick-gp1dj 11 ай бұрын
I'm from Nigeria, you must understand that south Africa is an independent country where women and men pay bills.
@mondeklaas1486
@mondeklaas1486 2 жыл бұрын
But my sister you can’t travel all the way from west Africa to South Africa in a hope to find jollof rice 😂😂, you Nigerians are special. An for your guest to say SA men don’t have money😢, then who does? Hayi sisi your guest was just the worse 🙆🏾‍♂️ I couldn’t finish watching this video
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, you should have , she had some pretty decent things to say about your country as well . Thanks a lot for the clarification, stay tuned for more which hopefully you’ll love to see till the end 😅
@samuelntshangase267
@samuelntshangase267 3 ай бұрын
Pls where did you stay in Cape Town? The shower thing will be rectified immediately you were tourists.🇿🇦
@Simitsegay123
@Simitsegay123 Жыл бұрын
Nigérian and SouthAfricans and others Africans country ,WE are brothers and siters.Our Aim must be to fight againt thé bad citizens in all Africans country.🙏
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
Let love lead ❤️
@Simitsegay123
@Simitsegay123 Жыл бұрын
@@chandie3585 🙏❤️🙏
@sweetescapewithVoke
@sweetescapewithVoke 2 жыл бұрын
Love the new series 👍🏽
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Please stay tuned for more :)
@vat81
@vat81 2 жыл бұрын
Yes there was a water shortage in Cape Town. But I think that's over now.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, that’s great ! Must have been hard for shower lovers like myself 😊
@phungoyavhonenzhelele670
@phungoyavhonenzhelele670 2 жыл бұрын
Yes she's about water restriction, Capetown just came out of day zero where a lot of people left without water because of unexpected drought, actually it was predicted that the rest of the country could at some point experience it.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, That’s not so nice for shower lovers 😅 Thank you so much for watching :)
@Nikolizky
@Nikolizky Жыл бұрын
Mostly we can tell if someone isn’t South African, except those from Botswana, Swaziland and Lesotho as those are our direct cousins and share similar culture and languages, some from Zimbabwe as well. Mozambican culture is totally different from South African culture even though we share a border, a Mozambican will struggle to assimilate in Soweto, but someone from Botswana will fit in easily. It’s not only about language, light skin, dark skin, tall or short, it’s about the culture and the way one carries themselves even without saying a word. West Africans are totally different from South Africans, in height, facial features and hair type, even if a Nigerian can learn Zulu, we’ll still see he isn’t Zulu. Even though your guest who visited South Africa has skin type that some can say looks South African, her facial features and mannerisms will still let people know even if she’s isn’t saying anything. However, there are outliers in every population sample, there are South Africans who get mistaken for West Africans, and I’m sure there are West Africans who can totally look South African in every way, in their demeanor and mannerism. In terms of money, I don’t know why Nigerians are so arrogant as to think they can walk into a country and have more money than the people who run that country, but it’s a general believe I’ve heard, and I think it’s just culture like I said before. SA people don’t show off, sometimes if you can’t see someone’s car and/or house, you’ll literally classify them as low class or poor, because mostly we don’t like to show off, it’s extremely frowned upon. Ask yourself, with all the infrastructure you can see, who designed it, who built it, who manages it, who got the big contract to build it, who’s getting the maintenance contracts, who’s the CFO, CEO, HOD etc. This is our country and all these things are done by us and we get paid for doing all these, and SA salaries are waaay higher than Nigerian, it’s just that it’s not in our culture to show off. Ask Nigerians who lived in South Africa for years.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
I really do appreciate this comment . Thanks a lot :)
@valentineisraelshabangu4069
@valentineisraelshabangu4069 2 жыл бұрын
Am a fan of black patriotism but the thing is what are travellers bringing to make economy better because in Europe when Dutch travels he doesn't burden the economy of Germany. In this way Africa will grow.
@Harlymart_kamor
@Harlymart_kamor 2 жыл бұрын
i realy want to visit SA cos i hear alot of good things about the place. Thank u for sharing ooooo this one we wil be spending 3 minutes inside the bathroom edakun that cant be possible ooooo if i wan shit nko and i stay long in the toilet if i have to do number 2 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣🤣 From the comment it’s said to be over, so you’re all good now . Thanks for watching :)
@MG-kx1bb
@MG-kx1bb 2 жыл бұрын
Do you do number 2 in your 🚿 shower as toilet and shower are not the same thing
@veemotaung1060
@veemotaung1060 2 жыл бұрын
It is something that happened 4 years ago because of lack of rain. Now things are back to normal. You can shower as long as you can
@MG-kx1bb
@MG-kx1bb 2 жыл бұрын
Let me respond to you neh ,as far as I can see from your msg you're from Nigeria 🇳🇬 pls tell us what we see in your movies are real or not? And what we hear from stupid women in SA about Nigerian boyfriends that they bath in buckets as we see on their movies, is it the truth or propaganda
@ayobampilo5762
@ayobampilo5762 2 жыл бұрын
@@MG-kx1bb They don't have toilets, Nigeria is the capital of open defecation💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩I wonder how it smells in Nigeria 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
@mzimhlemosiwe5047
@mzimhlemosiwe5047 11 ай бұрын
The shower thing may be true, but I do not think she was in cape town, probably in Hermanus, cause they do announce in hotels there that each room's water is capped, especially if there is a drought..
@africanandproud6792
@africanandproud6792 2 жыл бұрын
As a South African I'm fascinated by how much Nigerians love their rice. That's just weird 😂😂😂and also Nandos is not just for black people. It's for everyone and can be found everywhere in the world,although originallly from South Africa.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Lol, it’s weird that a country love their meals ? It’s fascinating to you ? I’m very much fascinated at how shielded you’ve been .
@thabo3866
@thabo3866 2 жыл бұрын
LoL, South Africans can instantly tell when you're foreign
@Jozi-T
@Jozi-T Жыл бұрын
we can even tell without hearing you speaking,the way you walk and the way you dress says it all.
@World_Of_Competition
@World_Of_Competition Жыл бұрын
SA men dont date women from other countries,This is because we try to preserve our culture
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
YOU! Don’t date woman from other countries because you’re myopic and ignorant. Speak for yourself because as much as you’ll want to ? You can’t speak for everyone ❤️
@LimoMolelekwa-xz8hi
@LimoMolelekwa-xz8hi 7 ай бұрын
No need to get mad, we just don't date women from other countries. It's almost frowned upon, like it's disgusting​@chandie3585
@thabomoses8765
@thabomoses8765 6 ай бұрын
​@@chandie3585most of south african man we dating girls from oveseas we don't date african girls
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 6 ай бұрын
@@thabomoses8765 Interesting, Is that some sort of achievement? I’m not aware 👏
@GiftMichael-ii8wp
@GiftMichael-ii8wp 5 ай бұрын
​@@thabomoses8765 SA men are not the Ideal type of men women want. Even out and inside of Africa women doesn't like them. And they lack confidence to approach a lady cause of rejection.
@marshathomas6422
@marshathomas6422 2 жыл бұрын
In South Africa there is no jollof rice.. the one you ate was from a Nigerian restaurant funny enough 😅
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
That’s really interesting. I guess the one she had was from a Nigerian restaurant :)
@minenhlekhumalo433
@minenhlekhumalo433 2 жыл бұрын
Seconded. South African culture does not have Jolof rice.
@marshathomas6422
@marshathomas6422 2 жыл бұрын
@@minenhlekhumalo433 yet she is from Nigeria and just bashed her own people for making bad jollof 😅
@sbongilenkwana5648
@sbongilenkwana5648 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣vele !!
@MG-kx1bb
@MG-kx1bb 2 жыл бұрын
@@minenhlekhumalo433 she thinks yellow spicey rice is SA jolllof,clearly Google is not her thing,we don't eat jollof in SA
@theFHBBYPAM
@theFHBBYPAM 2 жыл бұрын
You look so beautiful 😍
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
You’re so kind, thank you :)
@beverleymasin7760
@beverleymasin7760 2 жыл бұрын
We realy can tell as south Africans physical features also give us a clue .
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
I bet. Thanks for watching :)
@irenesenoe5201
@irenesenoe5201 2 жыл бұрын
Which houses have 3 minutes shower restriction🤔
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
The hotel and houses she visited as at the time she was there :)
@johannesmfolori9902
@johannesmfolori9902 9 ай бұрын
hi beautiful queens of Africa God bless you and your family Jesus name enjoy your day I m from sauth Africa I love platform
@lu881
@lu881 2 жыл бұрын
I don't get it. Was she in Cape Town during the water crisis? That was like...4 years ago
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
I’ll ask her exactly what year :)
@ajogayetunde5281
@ajogayetunde5281 2 жыл бұрын
From may 2019
@thembimaseko4756
@thembimaseko4756 2 жыл бұрын
Our boys are not loud or show off kind of, they know what they want most of them are loaded, they are not in a rush like Nigerians infact your guys are scary they act as if they are in a marathon I must marry a South African sometimes it doesn't add up but it is happening everyday and our girls are buying it, Nigerian girls are beautiful and they know what they want.South African boys know what they want especially those who are monied.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
That’s a really admirable trait SA guys have. Nigerians are really in a competition 😂 can’t lie about that. But obviously we know we can’t generalize at the end of the day :)
@pelomk9022
@pelomk9022 2 жыл бұрын
Cape Town is not majority white. It might be the places she visited.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, guess it’s the place she visited :)
@MG-kx1bb
@MG-kx1bb 2 жыл бұрын
But they all like to talk about cape Town and come back to say whites own the country,while they never been around enough to see in SA there's a lot of W,B,C & I who are south africans all over the country and most are rich and don't show off
@realsebsworld3004
@realsebsworld3004 Жыл бұрын
There are more Coloureds than Whites in Cape Town.
@fredrickubiri
@fredrickubiri 2 жыл бұрын
Good video are you saying that south Africa is far better than Naija
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Oh well 🤷🏿‍♀️ lol
@benjiza0314
@benjiza0314 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think is what she saying... She just stating differences...
@serahdonald
@serahdonald 2 жыл бұрын
Mehn Nigerian airport needs a revamp, I have never been to SA, but this was an eye opener, i will not order Jellof rice. Sure we eat white rice lol
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
🤣😂 Heard they are building another, hopefully that would be better. Thanks for watching :)
@youme1414
@youme1414 Жыл бұрын
I am glad you are able to survive a week in SA. How many time do they try to attack you? Be careful of that place!
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
She felt really safe being in South Africa . Sometimes it’s better we leave the media and go experience places ourselves :)
@youme1414
@youme1414 Жыл бұрын
@@chandie3585 People keep saying that not until something happens to somebody. Thank you though.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
@@youme1414 🙏
@veramooreslounge1
@veramooreslounge1 2 жыл бұрын
I wanna go to SA so I can also experience this for myself 😂 I love her vibes😂 she says it as it is😁
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Haha! Me too! She’s honestly saying it as she saw it :)
@maxxala3418
@maxxala3418 2 жыл бұрын
Kom
@lizwingqondoyi3286
@lizwingqondoyi3286 Жыл бұрын
Where in Cape Town were you staying?
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
I’ll have to ask her :)
@AmmyJ
@AmmyJ 2 жыл бұрын
I shall want to visit SA so I can experience the country for myself
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
The right thing to do :)
@AbuNape
@AbuNape 5 ай бұрын
Nigeria is the richest giant in Africa i m happy when the youth stand up Nigeria can be modernized in few years with all the billionaires en millionaires en the government Nigeria can transform
@sbongilenkwana5648
@sbongilenkwana5648 2 жыл бұрын
Great video💯💯.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks :)
@kayprincersa8129
@kayprincersa8129 2 жыл бұрын
My question is 😲WHY IS SOUTH AFRICA SO ADVICE IF SOUTHERN MEN DON'T HAVE MONEY 🙄,WHO IS BUILDING THIS COUNTRY?,In all the country is beautiful because of you Nigerians 😏
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t entirely get your question, can you please rephrase?
@lady-jn3mf
@lady-jn3mf 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly my question, who is building this country 🤔
@nonhlanhlamahlangu8427
@nonhlanhlamahlangu8427 2 жыл бұрын
Cape town experienced a water crisis a few years back, so yup the water thing is true
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@veramooreslounge1
@veramooreslounge1 2 жыл бұрын
So we don’t even eat the same kind of foods interesting!! And this issue on their men is quite interesting as well😂
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
We don’t oo, that’s actually very interesting to me. Thank you so much for watching :)
@siyandajola585
@siyandajola585 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know where she went in Cape Town, but she’s wrong. Black people are majority. Maybe she saw tourists
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Oooh, thank you for the clarity :)
@kayprincersa8129
@kayprincersa8129 2 жыл бұрын
Cape town is full of Tourists
@lungamadoda6992
@lungamadoda6992 2 жыл бұрын
I was also surprised when she said she saw only whites, I think she might have gone to Capetown for a short holiday Capetown is multicultural there’s Black, Whites and Coloureds I think she’d go to Durban and say she only saw Indians only😅😅😅😅
@manayesh
@manayesh Жыл бұрын
Did you friend visit Gugulethu, Khayelitsha or Langa to see black people? Or she just ended up in white areas?
@AdaezeAkubueze
@AdaezeAkubueze 2 жыл бұрын
Let me relax and watch 🎉
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Tell me what you think :)
@hlanganisambatha614
@hlanganisambatha614 Жыл бұрын
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@MichaelOlawale
@MichaelOlawale 2 жыл бұрын
My First culture shock was in UAE i was surprised during their ramadan fasting restaurants are not allow to open during the day.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Omg! But it makes sense nau 😂 It’s an Islamic country so everyone’s got to fast 😂 UAE culture shock dropping soon! Please stay tuned:)
@cecitv1569
@cecitv1569 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! Never been to SA but hope to visit sometime!
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Same here :)
@hlanganisambatha614
@hlanganisambatha614 Жыл бұрын
Come through
@AmmyJ
@AmmyJ 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, I love the clothes
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
She’s really good :)
@AmmyJ
@AmmyJ 2 жыл бұрын
She's so pretty🧡
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Aww, thank you :)
@ChisomOkeke
@ChisomOkeke 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! A lot about South Africa. I hope to visit one of the days. There’s order in most countries to be honest. 3 minutes shower limit?😏😳😳
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Ikr, definitely got to visit the country:) Thank you for watching .
@Lifewithvikky
@Lifewithvikky 2 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this video
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot :)
@Svig
@Svig 2 жыл бұрын
Cape Town draught also known as Day Zero, was in 2018. I guess your lady friend was around Cape Town during that time. That has passed. She sad a lot of nonsense abt South African men which makes her look cheap.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Ha! Her opinion and perception of a place shouldn’t make her look any type of way , don’t you think ? A lot of non Nigerians have dropped inaccurate view and perception of Nigeria and Nigerians but I won’t tagged them ignorant because that’s their perception :)
@theFHBBYPAM
@theFHBBYPAM 2 жыл бұрын
I haven't travelled out yet but South Africa is definitely on my list❤️
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Same thing I said! Thanks for watching :)
@hlanganisambatha614
@hlanganisambatha614 Жыл бұрын
Come through
@johannesmakoti7406
@johannesmakoti7406 2 жыл бұрын
We dont sell drugs, we dont scam people and not do human trafficking, we work hard for our momey.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Nobody said anything about selling Dr*Gs here . Are you maybe insinuating that your media stereotyped Nigerians to these form of hustle ? I honestly feel like , if the Europeans are uninformed about Nigeria , our fellow Africans shouldn’t be uninformed as well , don’t you think ?
@johannesmakoti7406
@johannesmakoti7406 2 жыл бұрын
@@chandie3585 go to places like Kempton Park, Berea, Sunnyside just to name a few . U will realize im not insinuating anything its a reality. Its so unfortunate our law enforcement are not patriotic . They working with the criminals that are destroying the lives of young South Africans.
@gabrielann9045
@gabrielann9045 2 жыл бұрын
Lazy people will ever remain lazy, if you think Nigerian Men get rich by scam go do it.
@kessiofkerah
@kessiofkerah Жыл бұрын
There is no way you guys don't do those things. There are bad people every where. But stereotyping Nigerians to those jobs is not a good thing, cos anyone who really knows Nigerians will tell you they are hard working people. Do they have bad people, yes! But the 10% that want to live fast lives shouldn't be used as a yardstick to describe the rest of the nation.
@MoeketsiMoseme
@MoeketsiMoseme 9 ай бұрын
But it's ok to generalize SA men as being lazy and broke
@africanandproud6792
@africanandproud6792 2 жыл бұрын
I'm South African and I spend 15 minutes in the shower. But go on... I'm intrigued 🤔
@makwatithokozani4638
@makwatithokozani4638 9 ай бұрын
Cool 👍🏽
@johannesmfolori9902
@johannesmfolori9902 9 ай бұрын
hi beautiful queens of America ❤
@serahdonald
@serahdonald 2 жыл бұрын
First of all, you said you are fully back and i can see it. Ok let me watch
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ! I am back o :)
@natashamonyatsi4220
@natashamonyatsi4220 2 жыл бұрын
In Cape Town you hardly don’t see blacks???🤔🤔🤔 bruh which Cape Town have I been living in😂😂 because there are a lot of blacks than whites..
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, thanks for sharing. She saw mostly whites when she was in Cape Town :)
@mandlachonco3499
@mandlachonco3499 Жыл бұрын
The shortage of water is only in Cape Town.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. And some few years back as well :)
@tua-tuna
@tua-tuna Жыл бұрын
We don't eat jollof rice here🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣,if wasn't for Nigerians being here and their movies we won't even know the type of food they eat. Point of correction South Africa has their own staple food we eat from traditional to modern😩😩😩. No fufu or jollof here mxm
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing :)
@nontozamoluqhide3828
@nontozamoluqhide3828 2 жыл бұрын
I think people before coming to sa please do a research because you guys giving folse information
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Online research isn’t always accurate y’know . She’s just giving her experience based on how she received it . No offense was meant 💙
@bigsalas4584
@bigsalas4584 2 жыл бұрын
Come on my sister, be honest, tell the truth, about the water issue, is not the case in the entire cape town. You are bashing my country now.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, I’m so sorry you feel that way . She actually said the hotel she stayed in cape town , she doesn’t know about other parts of the country , I’m guessing you didn’t hear that part . Your country is an amazing country, hardly can it be bashed 💙
@EnochlungeloNgcobo
@EnochlungeloNgcobo 3 ай бұрын
Most of SA men don't give away there belongings easily we do give but it hard Siyidlu emnyama thina
@OscarineMlisana
@OscarineMlisana 2 жыл бұрын
Nigerian food is primarily for you guys, our food accommodates International I'm a🇿🇦#🇬🇧
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Ahhh, I guess :) Thanks for the clarity .
@leonmangweta3500
@leonmangweta3500 2 жыл бұрын
yes that's true...South African food can be eaten by everyone not just the people who grew up accustomed to it like natives.
@tyaler9805
@tyaler9805 2 жыл бұрын
Not true, Nigerian food is loved by a lot of people around the world, and when people talk about African food that they like to eat, they either talk about Ethiopian or Nigerian food.
@palesamogorosi8939
@palesamogorosi8939 2 жыл бұрын
@@tyaler9805 she's talking about the availability of it in South Africa, so calm down. It's not our thing in SA and as much you may perceive that it's "loved all over the world" then you'll have a rude awakening when you come to South Africa because we prefer our own cuisines. No hard feelings. When you visit SA, you shouldn't be shocked that there isn't Nigerian food available or that the food is different. What else does one honestly expect?
@tyaler9805
@tyaler9805 2 жыл бұрын
@@palesamogorosi8939 Who cares about your country which I have absolutely no interest in visiting. Y’all hate everything about us so of course you’ll hate what we eat to.😂 Btw, y’all food is disgusting and we have better food on average.
@TheOracleVA
@TheOracleVA 2 жыл бұрын
I am going to look for Banker in South Africa 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
🤣😂😂😂 Give us some update , eh ?
@lungamadoda6992
@lungamadoda6992 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I don’t know which South Africans she mingled with when she was here 😅😂 but hey that’s her take on SA
@hosealumadi5869
@hosealumadi5869 2 жыл бұрын
The water restrictions were only in CT because of the drought at that time. That’s no longer the case now
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah , so we’ve been told . Thanks for sharing :)
@JoieblissWorld
@JoieblissWorld 2 жыл бұрын
I would love to visit an African country especially South Africa... I love their songs n dance
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Right ….?
@mogp427
@mogp427 10 ай бұрын
Lol kfc is nice😮? And nandos is not nice? We sure are not the same🤣 , to know that a person has got money,how do they look like? Flashy? Hehehe we truly are not the same,one thing about SA'ns we very basic...even the rich rich you cant just tell when you see them in a mall.
@fullmetaltheorist
@fullmetaltheorist 2 жыл бұрын
I haven't watched the video because I know what you're going to say and the comments have confirmed that this is just another video bashing this country. Stay in nigeria if you have problems with this country and its people. You won't be missed over here.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Aww, you should always see things for yourself . The comments are only from people’s perspective so is the video so you can’t really say . I really appreciate the comment though :)
@fullmetaltheorist
@fullmetaltheorist 2 жыл бұрын
@@chandie3585 Nope. If the people are telling you that you're being biased against them then you're the problem. If you want come here and call us xenophobic then please just leave and never come back. We already have enough foreigners causing problems here and you'd be one less problem if you left.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
@@fullmetaltheorist Hmmm, okay 🥰
@Lulu-wv1nt
@Lulu-wv1nt 2 жыл бұрын
The drought is over. It was in Cape Town
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
That’s such a relief! What ever caused it ?
@happygolucky4635
@happygolucky4635 2 жыл бұрын
You guys are beautiful
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
You’re so kind , thank you :)
@happygolucky4635
@happygolucky4635 2 жыл бұрын
Love from Namibia. I was once in Lagos and it was best time of my life. Kind people. I will love to visit again. I Wana go to the markets again.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
@@happygolucky4635 This is so sweet . Thanks so much , please stay tuned because I’ll be bringing some market vlogs your way soon !
@manayesh
@manayesh Жыл бұрын
My wife would be very offended to hear that RSA men dont give money to their women or dont have money. I promise you she'd be mad at you.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
Why Will she be mad at someone’s perception? If it’s a wrong perception I’d say she should correct and educate rather than being mad about it :)
@manayesh
@manayesh Жыл бұрын
Coz south africans aren't homogeneous. We're of different cultures even though we're all south africans. As a Zulu, it's our way of life to spoil our wives and we work hard to achieve that. But i know one particular south african ethnic group i wont mention, that generally avoids to spend money on their women. For example my wife is a university qualified teacher. She became unhappy with teaching and i gave her the choice to be a housewife because i can take care of her. And she is now a housewife whos decided to do an online accounting degree this year. And im paying for all that and her whole upkeep in general. Im not just unique. Thats just how we Zulus generally treat our wives.
@SheilaGakii
@SheilaGakii 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Cape Town must be a totally different place from your explanation
@ronalduchenna6068
@ronalduchenna6068 Жыл бұрын
My guy u don blow
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
🙏🤍
@GavinTale
@GavinTale Жыл бұрын
That Woman has given a false reflection about South Africa, mostly. I suspect she lives in Hilbro
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
Really…? What’s the real thing ? She’s just sharing her experience though :)
@thembimaseko4756
@thembimaseko4756 2 жыл бұрын
Please with due respect, have you ever seen a South African in Nigeria or Ghana or Congo or Zambia?
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
I actually have no idea :( SA Is an amazing country , no one can deny that . Thanks for watching :)
@gabrielann9045
@gabrielann9045 2 жыл бұрын
Sweet heart south Africans are every were, infact their wealth mostly comes from them investing in other countries, eg Nigeria. The way we patronize them in Nigeria they should ever be greatful for us.
@hopebuhali3887
@hopebuhali3887 2 жыл бұрын
@@gabrielann9045 But we will never let you feel entitled to us. Never!
@ayobampilo5762
@ayobampilo5762 2 жыл бұрын
We don't eat Jollof this side🤕😷😩
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
I honestly didn’t know, not me here thinking jollof was an African food . Thanks for watching :)
@palesamogorosi8939
@palesamogorosi8939 2 жыл бұрын
@@chandie3585 Africans don't eat the same food wtf?! South Africans have their own cuisines dear.
@ayobampilo5762
@ayobampilo5762 2 жыл бұрын
@@palesamogorosi8939 Thank you Pali
@gmack7488
@gmack7488 2 жыл бұрын
I'm from Texas and I want a South African wife.
@junitakhangale5759
@junitakhangale5759 2 жыл бұрын
Capetown faced water crisis not so long ago..3 minutes shower might be the reason 😂
@jabulanithema1467
@jabulanithema1467 2 жыл бұрын
The reason you see lots of white people in Cape Town is that Cape Town is an internal tourist destination, especially for Europeans. The majority of population is colored (mixed race) followed by blacks. White people form about 15%.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Ah! I see . Thanks so much for sharing :)
@Lifewithvikky
@Lifewithvikky 2 жыл бұрын
See how you are shading south African guys stopeet 😃
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Haha! We’re not shading oo
@MG-kx1bb
@MG-kx1bb 2 жыл бұрын
One should ask If she was a tourist or someone who was looking for men to give her money to show how rich they are,in SA we work for our money mostly getting some from a man it's just a bonus.
@maxxala3418
@maxxala3418 2 жыл бұрын
Bye beautifull ladies.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks :)
@carolinemakunike1566
@carolinemakunike1566 2 жыл бұрын
SA men aren’t stingy. I think west Africans just have a different relationship with money. Southern Africans we tend to be more conservative west Africans tend to be more showy which isn’t a bad thing but it doesn’t necessarily mean SA men don’t have money.
@Thetruttu
@Thetruttu 2 ай бұрын
Sa guys aren't natural hustlers
@ty8915
@ty8915 2 жыл бұрын
Lol you guys, we eat different food from west Africans but I’m sure you’d find Nigerian restaurants.
@Lifewithvikky
@Lifewithvikky 2 жыл бұрын
I think this bribing thing is only in Nigeria o
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Sadly , it’s seeming so :(
@梅西小姐
@梅西小姐 2 жыл бұрын
I think you’re wrong
@noqhamozibi8955
@noqhamozibi8955 2 жыл бұрын
Nice vid. Glad I clicked. What I would advise Nigerian women is to associate with South African women when you visit. You'll have a totally different experience. What I have noticed with some Nigerian women who live in SA , they keep to themselves/ their own circle. Which is disappointing.
@palesamogorosi8939
@palesamogorosi8939 2 жыл бұрын
These people do the same thing when they go to America. They distance themselves from the Black Americans then turn around to speak smack about them. They can't coexist with host citizens. I don't understand that mentality.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot . I personally feel same way . Hopefully things will become better and we’ll all be open with ourselves:)
@tyaler9805
@tyaler9805 2 жыл бұрын
@@palesamogorosi8939 Are you even in America to say this shit? Plus, the relationship between Nigerians and SA is different from the relationship between BA and Nigerians so stfu.
@realsebsworld3004
@realsebsworld3004 Жыл бұрын
That simply mean they are in a host country to take take take and leave not to add any value that is why South Africa should make their Visa expensive.
@thabomjiyako8894
@thabomjiyako8894 Жыл бұрын
She's speaking a whole lot of nonsense. Not being not flashy doesn't mean broke
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
She’s not speaking nonsense. She’s speaking her truth. And I think it’s very close minded of you to judge someone simply because you both don’t share same views or understanding of things :)
@thabomjiyako8894
@thabomjiyako8894 Жыл бұрын
@@chandie3585 Sorry, calling everyone "broke" is nonsense
@bokangreacts843
@bokangreacts843 2 жыл бұрын
Lol what is shishi?
@tshidioageng6918
@tshidioageng6918 2 жыл бұрын
I want to know too...
@lilithaxalisa9026
@lilithaxalisa9026 2 жыл бұрын
Shishi if I am not mistaken in Pidgin English spoken in West Africa. It means Nothing. Example: shishi dem no get. They don't have anything . In other words Dololo.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
It’s a Nigerian slang “ Having Nothing “
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
@@lilithaxalisa9026 Haha! You’ve got some truth in there . Thanks for watching :)
@bokangreacts843
@bokangreacts843 2 жыл бұрын
@@chandie3585 Lol guess we work hard 4 our money just to give it to a woman just for being women
@coconeli1409
@coconeli1409 2 жыл бұрын
Nibahle x
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
You’re so kind , thank you :)
@Hundhammer
@Hundhammer 2 жыл бұрын
interesting...
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Dominik:)
@ndaedzondaie
@ndaedzondaie Жыл бұрын
This one she dont know her story shes telling people lies
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 Жыл бұрын
Oh really..
@baphithi
@baphithi 2 жыл бұрын
South African women drive their own nice cars, and have their own fancy jobs. You won’t tell just from looking at a person at a shopping mall sometimes, that they drive big German cars. We do not need the men’s money so they are not under pressure to do everything to make money. Showing off is for people who are trying to get there.
@chandie3585
@chandie3585 2 жыл бұрын
That’s impressive & admirable ! Thanks for watching :)
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