Totally understand. My daughter chided me when I bought a ticket to an event for myself then felt bad about it. She told me I do so much for everyone else, I need to spend some of that love on myself. Admittedly, I still felt bad and was going to go back and buy two more tickets, but it had sold out. Now, since the choice was taken away, I'm actually loving the idea of making it a whole day for self love. Possibly even an overnight so I don't have to drive home late two hours after. It's so easy to get caught up in the idea that the advice you would give to other people you seldom keep for yourself. ANd I know better, I shouldn't have to have an excuse to do it. It's not selfish, which is what the previous generations taught me.
@stephaniecheco5724 Жыл бұрын
A place to lay is almost more necessary than the desk!! I definitely prioritized it and I fully understand what you mean, 😂 zero justifications needed, it's part of the process of creation !
@Andrea_7783 Жыл бұрын
Fran, te entiendo perfectamente a lo que te referís con un lugar para "echarte". Hay veces que lo único que querés hacer es eso... echarte. No dejes que nadie te diga que está mal o que sos perezosa....la mayoría de la gente no lo entiende. Algo que me ayuda y que podría ayudarte es deshacerte de la mayor cantidad de cosas que no uses...ya vi que algunas cosas las pusiste en storage....pero siguen estando ahí. A mí deshacerme de lo que ya no uso me libera un peso enorme de la mente y me hace pensar con más claridad. Besotes! Andrea
@FranMeneses Жыл бұрын
gracias Andrea : .. )
@mmcoookies Жыл бұрын
I always love to watch organizing videos to get myself motivated 💕
@heatherinde Жыл бұрын
I used to feel guilty all the time. Now it’s much better (though not perfect. Haha) One of the things I tell myself when I feel guilty is I’m allowed to take up space. Another is I’m allowed (or responsible for taking) to take the best care possible of myself. It sucks that the world didn’t give us these messages growing up. Thanks for sharing your drawers with us. I love seeing other artists art supplies!
@garancem7303 Жыл бұрын
as per usual, watching your videos is like sipping a delicious tea on a cold day = the perfect soothing feeling.
@TheAlkhemiaStudio Жыл бұрын
it's called "buyer's remorse", more common than you think. But remember to treat yourself from time to time. You always deserve a splurge from your hard earned work!!!
@vvvvveronica Жыл бұрын
The moment where we live in the storage room and your jk-let's go-back-smile made me ❤🥲😍
@FatBubble. Жыл бұрын
Your videos are always so relaxing and motivating. Thank you for making them for all these years and sharing so much of you with the world!
@juliaschnell5083 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely feel that way sometimes about buying things, esp. when going through a depressive episode, but I'm glad you got the sofa anyway! (You deserve comfort!)
@heygabimara Жыл бұрын
Totally understand the need to lie down frequently. Somehow depression can just feel so heavy you physically feel it that lying down is the best way to deal with it
@lpsfun7777 Жыл бұрын
Cada vez que subís un video me llenás un pedacito del alma, me das ganas de hacer cosas, me hacés sentir cómode en la cotidianidad. La cantidad de cosas que siento y pienso viendo tus videos superan a casi cualquier otra cosa. Veo la notificación y tal vez tardo 3 días en verlo porque tengo que encontrar el momento correcto para hacerle justicia. Nada más que decir por ahora, gracias por esto :)
@littlej0ys Жыл бұрын
So calming to watch you rearranging and showing your studio! I definitely want to buy new pens now.
@Marina.Kudrevskaya Жыл бұрын
wow those MOFT laptop sleeves look so cool! Thank you for telling us about it.
@fm9167 Жыл бұрын
日本の文具をたくさん使ってくれてありがとうございます!!
@cariiinen Жыл бұрын
Loved the stationary tour! Sorry to hear about you've been feeling low. Hope you feel better soon and are able to get the support you need. You absolutely DESERVE a place to rest, and a beautiful sofa that you enjoy.
@noovernightguests Жыл бұрын
Hi Fran! Your needs are changing, as an artist and a person, BUY that couch! Plus you found the one you wanted secondhand!? *miracle* I agree with another comment about taking up SPACE. Go Fran! ❤❤❤
@aimeesu402 Жыл бұрын
These MOFT laptop sleeves are such a game-changer! The origami-inspired design is so cool, and I love that they're so easy to use. Thanks for bringing this to our attention!
@ariannahall8831 Жыл бұрын
You get that sofa Fran!!!!!! You deserve the world and you absolutely need that sofa if you’ve been thinking about it for a year 🎉
@ormdian Жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you mean about "deserving" things and second guessing yourself when you buy something expensive... but I want to believe that we all deserve nice things every once in a while. and certainly you do!
@Renmeleon Жыл бұрын
After watching this I picked up one of the Slicci pens and, OMGOSH. I love it. Before I started using microns I swore by (and still do) the Pentel EnerGel .5mm black pens. This is the perfect compliment. Thank you so much.
@annecanright4918 Жыл бұрын
in my first studio that i rented from someone else it was in the basement and has concrete floors. my depression manifested as extreme tiredness. so i would lay on the concrete floor for hours. finally in a fit of guilt, i laid some fabric underneath me and started to trace myself. i did many paintings this way...now i'm an old woman and i have never made so much art in my life...things work out this way!
@laurao.rodriguezsanchez5130 Жыл бұрын
Gracias Fran, todo esto me da mucha paz , es casi como meditar poder tener este contenido. Saludos desde México, te sigo desde hace tiempo ❤
@kaylaalarcon1920 Жыл бұрын
the gilmore girls clip!! i love your mind fran. Now i'm in the mood to re organize my art shelf !!
@emilsepericles Жыл бұрын
Siento que la última vez que hiciste un video mostrando tus artículos de arte fue hace AÑOS (tal vez no es tan así jsjsjs) lo extrañaba un montonazo, era de mis cosas favoritas. Fue un mimito a la nostalgia
@Jianbingozi-v9m Жыл бұрын
I love how the MOFT laptop sleeves are so sleek and slim, yet still offer great protection. Thanks for introducing me to this brand!🤩🤩
@yamilatamara Жыл бұрын
Hola Fran! Que tengas una linda primavera llena de inspiración ♡
@biansei Жыл бұрын
miss you so much fran💘 always in luv w your vids, it's the moment that i take a break and relax with you
@VISUALSHOCKCOSPLAY Жыл бұрын
Felicidades por el nuevo sofá! 💕Entiendo lo de la culpa por las compras grandes, pero son como objetivos ganados y muy merecidos! un abrazo Fran 🫂
@morganmarianaguido5336 Жыл бұрын
SIEMPRE ES LINDO VERTE, TE MANDO MUCHA BUENA VIBRA
@marguiWaterland Жыл бұрын
Querida Fran, quiero agradecerte por este video. Tuve una semana emocionalmente y llegar a casa un viernes y ver este video me dio vida. Te abrazo desde Austria
@sxiaofinnhwang5728 Жыл бұрын
I've been looking for a laptop sleeve that's both functional and stylish, and these MOFT sleeves definitely fit the bill! Thanks for sharing this awesome find!
@CassRenata Жыл бұрын
Fran tkm ❤ tus videos me hacen sentir tranquila y los disfruto mucho
@AnggiSahamCantik Жыл бұрын
Hey Fran, the second guessing yourself when you want expensive thing for yourself is real. I feel you 😊 if you alredy work hard, financially make sense then buy it ❤
@WinnieRoseReyes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. I needed the p use. I too need to organize my studio. I feel you girl. With spending on yourself and the needing to lie down. Just Jake sure its not too comfortable or you’ll end up sleep I ng long ER than your like? You work hard and you deserve to get everything you want and need.
@ChantelleArts Жыл бұрын
You’ve got such a big studio! It looks like a great space ❤
@ninamurphy4952 Жыл бұрын
Can’t wait to see your new sofa!
@anitadeandrade266 Жыл бұрын
Oh! I know exactaly what you mean by having a sofa to lay dawn. I suffer from anxiety and really need to take some breakes during the day to lay down and recompose my self :) Don't feel guilty if you are doing somenting to embrace yourself . Love your content!!!
@CarlyGarzaArt Жыл бұрын
You can write off that couch! Thank you for sharing as always Fran ❤
@craftblend Жыл бұрын
Yay! I've been waiting for a new video 🤩 I also need to clean out and organize my craft room 🥲
@zzdanxd Жыл бұрын
Te amo Fran, tu contenido siempre es tan agradable ❤🎉
@ilared Жыл бұрын
I feel you about the second-guessing the expensive purchases. In my case it does not come from a "i don't deserve it" position, rather from a "you could have not done it, you could have keep on living without it, because if now something happens, you already spent some (too much) money".
@bri.forcier Жыл бұрын
genuinely so excited for you that you're getting a sofa for you're studio - you're going to love it!!
@nyzhafirkins5512 Жыл бұрын
I get such purchase guilt yeah. Think it’s such a good idea to get a couch for your studio. So glad you’ll have a place to rest or curl up and draw in a more cosy way at your workplace. Love this video, thank you ❤😊
@MAIS2 Жыл бұрын
I haven’t tried new art supplies in AGES!! I guess that happens when you don’t have irl Art friends? I loved seeing your art supplies drawer💙✨ Miss u
@Lecarini_ Жыл бұрын
AJAJAJAJJA la referencia del perrini de GG. ¡Mucho éxitos en los cambios que se vienen
@jenniferm5356 Жыл бұрын
Fran, thank you for such a great video! You look so glowing and beautiful as well!
@eringriffis349 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for always sharing so honestly Fran 🥲
@irenetorokart9318 Жыл бұрын
I’m such a big fan. You inspired me to start my own KZbin channel. I’m a fellow artist but I paint in my own style. Love your work so much. 😘😘😘
@izabellacalzolari7277 Жыл бұрын
The poetry book is from a brazilian author and I just bought the book right away!! haha This video is so relaxing and motivated me to organize and clean my own stuff too I'm from Brazil and your channel is my favorite from yt! 🥰
@89CIH Жыл бұрын
Lo pasé muy bien viendo este video, Guardado ropa de verano y sacando chalecos para el otoño en stgo 🍂🍁
@conys5876 Жыл бұрын
Me demoré 3 dias ver tu video, porque es tan relajante que me dormía jajjaaj un abrazo y espero que tu vida vaya muy bien, gracias por calmar mi insomnio.
@jenb5029 Жыл бұрын
Missed you, Fran!
@marguiWaterland Жыл бұрын
Fran you deserve all the beautifull things from the universe!💖✨✨✨✨
@Habichl Жыл бұрын
I’ve never heard of deleter paper!!! Would be really cool to see how you use it in your illustration 😊 Also now definitely asking someone to get that award winning eraser for me hehe
@cocomump Жыл бұрын
I love Fran. Such a beautiful soul 💕
@abbyanderbard Жыл бұрын
I'm so excited for your sofa! :)
@olinca5288 Жыл бұрын
Hola Fran, es en serio culpa? Pero si trabajas un montón niña! Te lo mereces y ya desde hace bastante tiempo que oigo que estás deprimida, no te están haciendo los medicamentos? Cambia de médico, la vida es muy corta para desperdiciarla en depresiones, yo quiero volver a ver a la Fran alegre y creativa de antes que se emocionaba buscando un lapicero diferente, que hacía una fiesta a la hora de ver materiales nuevos, que reía y disfrutaba incluso con dibujar un punto! Fran eres un ser humano maravilloso y eres encantadora! Venga piensa que el mundo es un bombón y tú eres un terrón de azúcar así que vamos haz una fiesta de tu vida y piensa que habemos gente en este planeta que te amamos mucho y queremos que resurjas ❤😊
@ybanzen Жыл бұрын
OMG A SOFA!!! THATS SO EXCITING! (i dont even have a sofa in my apartment which is also my law office and art studio and a yoga studio LOL)
@jessicalemeur Жыл бұрын
Your videos are like candies for my soul Fran ! 💜
@chronicfish Жыл бұрын
I'm so hoping the sofa is a stunning, vintage Togo. Whatever it is, *I know* it will be gorgeous. 💜
@kondaszeszti-dk2uz Жыл бұрын
I understand that feeling and I'm glad you made a purchase thinking about your mental health! 🤍 it's good seeing you're taking care of yourself 🤍🤍
@bilboloko100 Жыл бұрын
What a cool product and ad
@FutileGrief Жыл бұрын
Fran, amé la edición del video y de todas tus tomas creativas!! 🎉💜
@TheStainedCanvasArt Жыл бұрын
I love seeing other artists favourite suplies and how they organize their creative space. Thanks for the video!
@marisadaniela6 Жыл бұрын
Fran, you are a treasure. Hope you feel better soon❤
@aldosahagun3350 Жыл бұрын
Such a relaxing video :^) its crazy to think how the copic marker frenzy is gone… how far you have come and grown.
@julie_uk_ Жыл бұрын
When your video finished, I said to myself 'well, that was cute af' and it was ❤
@piowono Жыл бұрын
watching you explain all those art supplies was like crack, i want all of them!!
@simoncartes8810 Жыл бұрын
Hola Fran :^) soy un estudiante de ilustración acá en Concepción chile. Siempre que trabajo o almuerzo disfruto verte, es muy acogedor. Solo venía a comentar eso, espero estes teniendo buenos días y felicidades por tu nuevo sofá 🌻🍁
@sub0ida Жыл бұрын
Jajajajajjsjs amo esos lápices pentel y pilot, son mis favs también ❤😂
@Hunac-Ceel7 ай бұрын
Love your videos 😍 thanks for sharing.
@amorrodriguez6220 Жыл бұрын
Hola fran 😊 yo acabo de terminar mi limpieza de otoño y saque demasiadas cosas 🤭. Espero que estés siempre bien 💖
@vickie_sha Жыл бұрын
So inspiring! I hope you’re doing well!
@claudialaroja1225 Жыл бұрын
Disfruta tu sofá Fran! Un abrazote ❤
@SaRiTa4561 Жыл бұрын
quiero ver el sofáaaaaaaa no soporto tanta intriga
@suzettefon9928 Жыл бұрын
Quiero conocer ese "maldito" (sofá) por favor! El descanso, el parar, el cuidarnos es amor!
@majesea Жыл бұрын
Love your hair❤❤❤❤❤
@shesjustsomegirl Жыл бұрын
Hey. Been watching for a while. Thanks for sharing. You got a new subscriber out here in California
@stephanieplata3743 Жыл бұрын
I like that orange folder thing. where did you get it from ?
@msellenandrea Жыл бұрын
Whenever I buy something expensive, or maybe not even that expensive, I will justify it endlessly 😂 you are not alone!
@bluebossanova Жыл бұрын
Abrazo, Fran ❤
@margherita717 Жыл бұрын
Missed you❤
@paxorra23 Жыл бұрын
I miss some art videos 😻 like teaching something, or you drawings something🥰 hugs❤
@muzeyyendenizucuncu1674 Жыл бұрын
im a sucker for organisation videos on this chanel so this one helped
@mielestrazio Жыл бұрын
Hello Fran, I love you videos :) can you tell me the brand of those little tubes in the transparent bag next to the inks?
@catlnrzs Жыл бұрын
Hola Fran! Quería recomendarte el libro "La mujer temblorosa o la historia de mis nervios" de Siri Hustvedt. Es el libro que estoy leyendo en este momento y me recordó a tu video, que ya había visto días previos. Muchos saludos!!
@natashaspencer8831 Жыл бұрын
I do jewelry making. I also suffer from bipolar disorder. I get depressed mostly. My studio is where I live so sometimes I don’t feel motivated to work. I would rather sleep my days away. I am glad you are getting a sofa but be careful it makes you lazy and interferes with your sleeping habits at night. Emprezz Tash from Jamaica!!,
@andesg603 Жыл бұрын
Al hablar de la funda te saliò la voz de Lláme yaaa😂
@mandy7674 Жыл бұрын
I 100% relate to that feeling of financial guilt, especially over larger purchases. Something that has helped me massively is to view money more as a tool than anything. Although it's easy to feel the pressure to always be saving money, that's not the goal...the purpose of the money is to help you progress. A couch sounds like the perfect addition to your studio, an investment into your mental health and physical health.
@javierfernandobritoarribas7072 Жыл бұрын
con tus bocetos, más si estan en hojas de buena calidad, los usaría para encuadernación, como guardas de libros, o para las tapas... me imagino reciclándolos dejando los dibujos como texturas, un palimpsesto!
@francaeleana Жыл бұрын
When I heard a little to the left my brain immediately went to gilmore girls 😂❤ good to know it's not just me
@gwendoleeeen Жыл бұрын
Tqmmm Fran
@monasafavi426 Жыл бұрын
You are awesome 💕
@aurorashortt9465 Жыл бұрын
I get that sometimes....feeling guilty when I buy something for myself that is a bit pricey than what i would normally go for... don't know why but I do😮
@sowhatstudio_ Жыл бұрын
can't wait to see your new sofa, fran◡̈ i know what you mean about needing to lay down and having 'horizontal' time on heavy brain days
@vichitorcaza1402 Жыл бұрын
Ay Fran, me encantó que incorpores ese fragmento de Gilmore Girls 😂
@lalalaidontcare321 Жыл бұрын
You look so much like Phoebe Bridgers in the thumbnail!! So much love, Fran
@FranMeneses Жыл бұрын
WOW major compliment, thank you so muuuch!
@margarita6700 Жыл бұрын
It's called 'buyer's remorse'! "... refers to negative emotions-such as regret, anxiety or guilt-that consumers may experience after buying an item. It's typically linked to large purchases-like a car or a new home. But some people may experience it after smaller purchases-like buying a new bag or set of golf clubs."
@fantazero4618 Жыл бұрын
every time i make a big purchase I start to tell myself to forget about the price, it works wonders xd i also do that every time i want to forget something, i somehow gaslit myself lmao