[Full Story] What’s the most hurtful thing a loved one has ever done to you?

[@demonspawn5174]

That "friend" of the wife's needs to keep her damn opinions to herself. WTF you mean girl? That soulmate's can't have other partners before they find each other? Life is full of pitfalls and mountains, you're gonna stumble a few times before you find the right person.

[@moodykat4198]

Yeah her "friend" was gaslighting the hell out of the pregnant wife.

[@purple-guy-fnaf-.1987]

that aint no friend thats an enemy 💀 shes literally tryna mess up their relationship. obviously, ur probably gonna have other partners before finding the one for you?

[@TaranHariram]

exactly, bro, the 1st one might not be a soulmate, but the 2nd might

[@Randomguy-Maybe]

fr

[@carrieduvall4579]

Sounds like her “friend” is a low key hater who fanned the flames.

[@Magicnun]

What did she think when getting with a single father? She needs therapy and men can be a father to multiple kids and have bonds with all of them. And she friends, she needs new friends.

[@larissa-je8dc]

She’s in therapy he already said that do you not listen 😂

[@Shimonotoki]

@@larissa-je8dc Oh she definitely needs a new therapist additional to a new friend.

[@lylahamer8831]

@@Shimonotokiyeah her therapist sounded awful

[@Blazewoman84]

She is so jealous of Leah that she can't stand it and is causing her to have delusions and is making up reasons to distance herself. She is making Leah hate her. She needs some serious mental help and not from the person who blamed it all on OP's previous relationship. She was acting like she had cheated with everything she did. I still wouldn't rule it out. She needs to stay off social media and her friend who said soulmates only save themselves for their soulmate is not a friend. She started this whole thing. She never should've said that and it's not true. What if soulmates never find each other? Are they just supposed to be alone for their whole lives? What if they thought someone else was their soulmate first but they turned out not to be? We can't all be Monks until we are absolutely positive we've met our soulmate....what if soulmates don't even exist and it's just something someone made up because they loved their mate so much? I'm 58 years old and never found my soulmate but I wasn't about to stay celibate waiting for someone I might never find or who might not even exist. I have two children with a man who was definitely not my soulmate but they wouldn't exist if I had waited to find my soulmate. This woman was completely ridiculous!!!! NTA

[@captaingramcrackergrams5990]

​@@larissa-je8dcJust cuz you're in therapy. Doesn't mean you're not a completely mentally broken. Psycho lmao

[@slugbro]

I’m glad she realized and she took accountability by saying that she made her fears a reality with her actions

[@SkettiBollocknese]

“Baby wants blueberry pancakes.” 😂😂😂 that’s amazing

[@BeFreedomBusy-ub7mb]

Hahaha!! 🤣 🤣🤣🤣

[@Salepniger]

LMAO that's so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Dog.life.brother]

That was the good part but the she forgot my candy 1 time was even better

[@alloew7735]

Thank god I thought she was gonna pull the, “your not the father.” last second

[@FatCat19-v3g]

Bro I thought the same thing the dark secret got me thinking it ain't his child

[@caelyclifford6133]

The wife needs intensive therapy as it seems she has some major mental health and communication problems. She trusted google more than her husband.

[@keepingitreal727]

Well it's not like sh saw one result and that's it she seemed to do a lot and being pregnant takes a toll on a person and obscure a person's thought

[@Wolfsaloe]

Yeah... Plus talking to a "friend" who says "your baby with him isn't special" surely helped...

[@claudeyaz]

Some of these therapists are doing more damage than help

[@user-me7iw6ft8z]

Therapy? Therapy was the thing that validated her behaviour.

[@caelyclifford6133]

With a different therapist

[@user-ei4tl7qd2s]

The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised

[@LymanB.Crosby]

There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@user-ei4tl7qd2s]

Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white

[@LymanB.Crosby]

This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

[@user-ei4tl7qd2s]

You won't regret it

[@zubdub6646]

that friend of hers sucks

[@RaulMedina-xx2lz]

I think the therapist made it worse Thanks for all of the likes

[@MrCrowley6]

Real

[@FOXcakepro]

Think?!? They did make it worse

[@christophercombs7561]

They frequently do

[@yamatokurusaki5790]

​@@FOXcakeprohe made it very much alot worse

[@yamatokurusaki5790]

Sometimes therapist are unable to hide thier opinions or won't word correctly Mine tried to gaslight me

[@gabiegbeauty8605]

She’s scared dad won’t be involved and then alienates the dad 😅 wtf ?

[@user-pi3hd2bt3f]

This is what we call a self fullfilling prophecy.

[@carrieduvall4579]

Some people do this to emotionally protect themselves or to prepare for what they see as inevitable

[@astridferrera8742]

I kinda hate the wife; why would she marry and have a kid with a man who already has a kid, if she was going to act so stupid about it. She was so easily steered towards hating her husband, that i wouldn't trust her judgement. She is acting irrational and childish.

[@yamatokurusaki5790]

I mean i can get the pregnancy doing something with the psychic but that doesn't excuse her behaviour

[@Polomance862]

And the worst part is all this resentment towards his husband's daughter and ex-wife. Like, ffs this story is full of hatred that she didn't find the husband first. Fairy tale stories don't exist and sometimes the perfect person isn't going to be without some unexpected bits. Such as being a parent prior to meeting.

[@astridferrera8742]

@Polomance862 exactly. Like most adults have a past and a past doesn't make our present any less special. That mindset was making her and him miserable. What a mess

[@TheNikkinick001]

I don’t care what you two looney tunes do… but you both better continue to treat Leah with utmost care, love and attention. Right along with the new baby. And for the love of God tell the friend to keep her opinions to herself.

[@RavenDAce-k1l]

The therapist is sus, who says that? He needs to help her to resolve that "resentment" and not make her use it as a weapon. He needs to be investigated.

[@tofluffybunny6780]

I heard this story she just made this into a horrible experience she needs some major therapy and I like how op is blaming himself for everything even though he didn't do anything wrong the wife was the problem

[@claudeyaz]

Yeah the wife was very easy manipulated, and she surrounded herself with toxic people, if the dude was in the military and spends a lot of time away from her, he needs to really make sure her friends aren't that crazy

[@yamatokurusaki5790]

​@@claudeyazwell... It was the therapist who made it worse

[@Kiva1435]

The ending genuinely made me smile, happy for the op and his wife that they could work everything out

[@TheShooteronKoolaid]

1:07 for shorts people

[@ThatGirl12351]

Thank you kind human ❤️

[@Riced4Life]

🐐 thank you!

[@The_white_wolf-t4q]

You are one of the goated ppl in life

[@user-nz7hk1xy9o]

W mans

[@BoojaDooja]

I'm not short😡😭

[@varalyn9714]

Op’s wife needs serious help, she is emotionally abusing him. I think op made a mistake apologizing to her because he had absolutely nothing to be sorry for and I think it gives her the idea that this situation isn’t entirely her fault. It’s great that they’re doing better but I dread to think what kind of reactions like this she’s going to have when the baby is actually born

[@ABPman11]

I think the "bad guy" in the story is the friend who was saying the stuff about your soul mate shouldn't have a child already

[@dailyRddit]

Both needs therapy more, open communication, and respect each other's boundaries...

[@Craezy-Love]

No i don't think so The only One who needs therapy is the B* She's treating him in a terrible way Just because she's jealous that he already had a daughter.

[@purple-guy-fnaf-.1987]

“i am 100% sure she’s not cheating or anything” gonna end up badly.

[@TinfoilHatGirl]

I know right?!😂

[@Dehja15]

Wdym?

[@Stronghand-yw1lk]

His wife is being emotionally abusive. Put this shoe on the other foot and every woman in this thread would be crying 1000 different kinds of foul!

[@jesschen5513]

Dude, I get the energy, but save it for a situation that calls for it. Nothing justidies the wifes behavior, but just like in everything else, context is key, especially when trying to explain the behavior. The wife herself was being constantly emotionally abused by both that friend, that one therapist at the beginning, and herself. She took it out on OP because she was afraid, and Leah wasnt helping either by being the average kid when there is a new baby in the family.

[@trenae77]

Pregnancy hormones are NOT a fantasy. Yes, her actions were abusive, but her own mindset was extremely conflicted. Everyone took responsibility for what happened and sought a solution. Yes, outside help was needed but counseling is healthy for a relationship.

[@sw1nkz50]

The "friend" is just a cynical a-hole, you can't tell who you will love from the get go, or if that person will love you, soulmates are just people who are good for each other, and work together, if I look at a bolt and take the wrong wrench size at first it doesn't mean that I can't ever go get the right one, one that's to large might still work even if both the bold and the tool will get a big damaged, doesn't mean you did something wrong, if you get the right one instead after trying, it still doesn't mean you're wrong. Yes the wife is likely VERY hormonal, which explains the mood, but she still needs to work it out.

[@trenae77]

Wife DID work it out. It took a confrontation, but she took the steps and worked along with OP toward resolution.

[@larissa-je8dc]

The issue with putting shit on the internet too many people who don’t know them constantly saying divorce divorce blah blah blah is toxic 🤦‍♀️

[@Penchofn]

Completely agree. Glad they worked it out

[@Samandjam555]

Exactly. People have such a horrible view on the world due to politics and stories like these that they don’t even think of the whole picture. They just assume the worst and they don’t understand the people who make these posts leave stuff they did out, whether purposefully or not. I’ve seen what I think is the same Reddit story from both sides and on each post the commenters agree with the OP.

[@breannaxoxo3850]

Her “friend” really steered her toward divorce huh

[@strawberryqueen-zs7md]

The woman is a 🚩 she treated her husband poorly just because of her overthinking

[@stephaniecherry9136]

Is it just me or is it sound more manipulative

[@broiamtellingyouthatyousuck]

Should divorce ngl

[@katanaandfriends]

I don't think she is, it would be her friend making her fears bigger and stress more about everything

[@tofluffybunny6780]

​@@katanaandfriendsI mean she knew she was wrong but double down

[@Penchofn]

Maybe, but you have to realise that she's pregnant and probably irritable, uncomfortable and tired. She was also manipulated, maybe to easily but still manipulated by someone that she trusts that her behaviour was normal and acceptable.

[@Jacob_WasTaken]

10:37 what are you apologizing for?? she psyched out with all the research and not talking to you, and listening to her terrible friend, you've done nothing wrong

[@floooooooo9]

He's a soldier, she's lowkey insufferable 😭 but that's pregnant women for ya. Good thing they talked it out

[@Smokey_Blue]

What do you mean by that?

[@idsagf33456]

uhhh not all pregnant woman are like that

[@svenolsen8184]

First, that's not low key insufferable, that's very high key insufferable. Secondly, that is not normal behavior from pregnancy, and I've been around alot of pregnant women.

[@Stronghand-yw1lk]

No, just women in general.​@@idsagf33456

[@Steak12345]

@@svenolsen8184source: bro is a pregnant womanologyst trust bro 😎 true tho

[@Leglessolas]

The wife doesn’t need therapy, she needs to grow the hell up and stop behind like a petulant child

[@MaggieTheCat01]

God, that woman sounds insufferable.

[@OrcaThe8th]

My mom and dad are absolute soulmates and they BOTH had past marriages! The “friend” is a jerk and idiot

[@miles0576]

that wife's friend is SO dumb and the wife needs to get that person out of her life

[@Maninawig]

I have yet to meet a father of multiple kids who didn't see each pregnancy as a new journey, a unique adventure... albeit with more practice every time.

[@Mr.Fallout2077]

Prevent little mf's from saying "first"

[@Swiftie_Haunted22]

14th 😂

[@MaryOConnor-r4r]

52nd

[@Alexander24871]

59th

[@lily-bb7fd]

83rd

[@ElijahMitchel]

300th

[@SilverSaiyanAce]

This sounds kinda ridiculous Not that it's wrong to feel jealous or insecure about not being your partner's first love, but the fact that there wasn't an issue with it until OP's wife got pregnant. Like it just doesn't make sense Everything was perfectly okay and the wife even seemed to see Leah as her own child, up until she got pregnant with her one herself. The only explanation I can possibly think of is that there was always a small feeling of resentment and insecurity in the wife but that it was so negligible that she didn't even realize she had those feelings until they were amplified by her pregnancy If those feelings weren't there in some form since the beginning then it doesn't make sense for them to suddenly manifest just because of the pregnancy alone, there had to have been an underlying issue before it got to that extreme In fact the post seems to imply that there was, The wife's explanation included that she had Told herself that it wasn't a big deal and that she'd be okay with the change, the fact that she had to think about it so much and try to reassure herself implies that there was already feelings of doubt at that point

[@nuclear_stardust]

They were amplified by the original therapist and the friend as well. Friend needs to GO

[@SilverSaiyanAce]

@@nuclear_stardust yeah definitely I'm sure that if she actually had a good therapist and wasn't spurred on by her friend that she would've been fine but there were still some underlying doubts in her mind that were present in the first place for them to be amplified

[@nuclear_stardust]

@@SilverSaiyanAce Probably, yeah

[@sayemsaruwar]

Now we need a revenge arc against that "friend"

[@trenae77]

Her dad is a good man. If he didn’t respect the OP, he wouldn’t have pushed him into taking action.

[@pracillabain4218]

This friend is not a friend at all and the wife needs to ditch her

[@averageplaystationenjoyer2082]

This woman is a lost cause, holy shit

[@ReginaldKrond]

Tf is ur problem

[@glitchyt1]

Imagine being named Reginald like spell that backwards 💀 @@ReginaldKrond

[@ReginaldKrond]

@@glitchyt1 bro ur using an Xbox username from 10 years ago and Reginald isn't even my real name

[@glitchyt1]

@@ReginaldKrond i don't even use xbox bro

[@glitchyt1]

@@ReginaldKrond and still what is that name 💀

[@user-ll6qw3it6g]

The woman is crazy. I don’t think it’s regular crazy. She either is being brainwashed by hormones and the therapist or she’s having imbalance of hormones and the issue isn’t being correctly handled. I’m hoping it’s not that the therapist is the actual dad.

[@angelicakaufman7183]

10:11 at this point in the story all I'm thinking is that the friend is an evil b

[@toniirion5225]

First. Your wife needs to get rid of her (so called) Friend. Also, the little girl seems a little spoilt (understandable being an only child for so long). But, mad because it took 32 minutes for the store to deliver her candy. Doesn't anyone find that being a little entitled? Someone better break the news that her time as a full fledged princess is about over and that the whole will now revolve around everyone not just her. 😊

[@nm-foxy-simp270]

After I heard the soulmate things I held my hands against my forhead and screamed how fucking stupid this shit is.

[@VickieH.-so6ts]

Listening to the end of the story I was smiling n gushing, 🥰 Y'all r so cuuuute 😊 I'm so glad u got her to talk about her feelings, her Dad gave perfect advice. I think u two will be so happy going forward. Sincerely, no longer crazy? deranged

[@loudandnerdygames5986]

She needs a new therapist and a new friend. The therapist justified the pregnant mom distancing herself from her husband. If it wasn't for the woman's father insisting on being a man and confronting his wife, they would be divorced thanks to the therapist, her pregnancy brain and that friend. That friend probably bitter and single. That man did all the right things and had a reason to blow up at her and was big enough to try and make things right. OP isn't at fault here. Everyone, but OP, Leah, and the wife's father, are at fault. She needs real therapy if she think calling your 'soulmate' a sperm donor and wishing your daughter from your first marriage never existed is going to make him feel goeey about a baby with her.

[@LostGirl04]

I don't think the therapist justified it. Based on what we have, the therapist only explained it. An explanation for a behavior is one thing, justifying it is another. The therapist explained it, the wife (disingenuously) used that explanation as a justification.

[@rachelcampbell9733]

Sounds like the woman needs to have a new therapist! This one is not helping.

[@KristinChase-t6l]

She needs better friends.

[@sisira.p]

How did you find someone this dump?? Literally acting like a child.. what the fudge did she expected from a partner who was married once and had a kid? To magically became a bachelor??

[@yowhotfisTae]

She needs to watch that friend.. twice she set her on the wrong path and almost ruined her shot at happiness. Soulmates are for you and you only when it comes to emotions and love but, that doesn't mean the universe/life won't throw them curveballs along the way, some see them quicker than others therefore you can't judge their path to you.

[@Cat_Noir.]

I love family drama

[@KaylaMartin-k9e]

I feel really sorry for her. Pregnancy hormones can make your feelings so irrational.. it's hard to control and no one can understand or have an opinion unless they experienced pregnancy in the same way. For some people it's a lot worse

[@katthekhajiit610]

A commentary channel that actually posts the full video??? HOW???

[@roach2110]

L therapist

[@GOGGLES-dd5bp]

This is completely unrated to the story but I love listening to this with my headphones and play some Minecraft or something

[@mignon902]

This woman has a whole diff life in her head…SMH

[@captaingramcrackergrams5990]

What do you know? Another story where the woman is the bad guy without a doubt couldn't even be questioned on it and yet the man is the one who ends up apologizing to them first 🤦

[@Rezzyeloizee]

Pre-partum depression??

[@TissuDemon]

The first therapist and the friend both suck~

[@guianna2799]

He’s most wanted for a reason

[@heathergowland7265]

The friend didn’t help her mental health

[@NerdyAngel1989]

If anything the friend made it situation worse.

[@Beanburrito1757]

U can’t have it both ways she needs to choose

[@AlphaPlayzX]

“32 whole minutes” what a big problem

[@Dreamlight12439]

That friend as not a true friend if they said that

[@Kalico.K4t]

1:07 for shorts people ( I know there’s another one lower but this is just a renewal )

[@ozone115]

They need family therapy and more blueberry pancakes

[@AliceDavidson-g1z]

Divorce her

[@Brooke-x2t]

To late now i think

[@svenolsen8184]

If a relationship is salvageable as I think this one could be, divorce is bad. Divorce is the nuclear option, not the 'I don't feel validated so bye" option. "In case of fire, break glass". Especially when kids are in the mix.

[@Chris-qp1mj]

I question if u should stay with a person who choose to lesson to Google of all things and a friend that just shots venom at there relationship like u rlly trusting google? It will tell u your upset stomic is cancer 😂

[@conjoutoons9722]

Well, if you ask Google anything, it should be about grammar. The woman was pregnant and raging with hormones, so it's not surprising she went to google when she felt insecure. This situation seems to be a one-off from the ops wording, so it's nothing to end a relationship over.

[@Chris-qp1mj]

@conjoutoons9722 lmao idc about my grammar this is yt comments not school 😘

[@MuxiGaming867]

@@conjoutoons9722i dont Think this was the hormones, man. Not everything has to be about hormones.

[@durgon1497]

​@MuxiGaming867 Pregnancy wouldn't happen without hormones my dude. They start raising after 11 days of pregnancy and just keep raising.

[@moonlightlightning9500]

Google my stomach hurt (Google) " I'm sorry to say that you well die after an hour " how why where did he knew that don't ask 🙂

[@neolanoronha2541]

The first 500 times 💀

[@Calmingdogfish]

Hilarious, I like your style

[@marekmikrus1961]

The friend is an ah

[@bobcena8760]

6:13 ladies, why are you guys always trying to ruin eachothers relationships? WTF is wrong with you?

[@Nvggs]

A happy ending for once

[@Have_you_ever_tried_this_one]

Please tell me that that friend died in a terrible car accident.

[@backbonepictures78]

Yeah I’m back in the USSR, You don’t know how lucky you are buddy

[@Destyni123]

Please get her therapy....seriously

[@vtdolgai497]

ok

[@ElijahMitchel]

What

[@vtdolgai497]

@@ElijahMitchel yes

[@Swiftie_Haunted22]

@@vtdolgai497 no

[@shaliastephenson3993]

​@@vtdolgai497exactly

[@generic_account8252]

​@@vtdolgai497i agree

[@NothingToSeeHere-po5ci]

W step-dad.

[@friskjustfrisk]

She shouldn't have even had children or married a man with one already.

[@jamsterwilliamson6439]

Good on u dude

[@argkid347]

Hope that women gets help

[@CarterWilson-g9y]

No you didn’t need to apologize and how could your wife say I wish Leah wasn’t born but that just might be the hormones

[@betamiNusDecayLol]

watch this in 1.5x speed

[@mariabeatrizpereirarodrigu6387]

me when i'm completely insane

[@Officer_Time]

In your shirt you say OP reveals a disgusting secret wtf? This shit isn't disgusting at all

[@wolfehologram3539]

You've been clickbaited. It happens.

[@averageperson5845]

Dababy?

[@ItzCuhhh]

So.. we aren’t going to talk about her friend?

[@littlemisstink921]

Anyone else think this rambled on for far too long?

[@austin9059]

I haven’t watched it and I know the secret is that she cheated on him

[@Toddsquadsports]

That’s her fault not yours

[@Karina-h1r8s]

1:07 shorts users

[@AyaanKhan-v4f]

what the sigma

[@AyaanKhan-v4f]

im 57th

[@glitchyt1]

In the 57th name of yo mom she was so fat she crushed me​@@AyaanKhan-v4f

[@Timothy-gq1nn]

woman crazy

[@DaSkullIsBetter]

1:00

[@24k_junifer]

11:41

[@Azazel_is_my_name]

Crap like this is so unrealistic, men don’t actually act like this.

[@Duke00x]

She needs to get rid of that "friend". This is why I say a guy has to watch his girls friends. Because they most often tell you about who she really is especially old friends. And because they most often have more say on her actions and feelings then you do or even most of the time more then she herself does. Women are very easily and heavily influenced by their friends especially their female friends (and agian even more so by old friends).

[@blocoes2757]

why do you word things diferantly in shorts? its kinda anoing ngl

[@PTE20]

Leah is a brat

[@neutrion]

How tf is leah a brat? She is literally a 5 year old kid

[@MMM_toasty]

she probably cheated on him

[@patentedbattheamazing7761]

Bro💀

[@Andventureseeker]

2

[@Hamstring33]

nobody cares you have no life your biggest acomplishemnt is getting the first comment on a video

[@kristofferljungberg5057]

The u don't sign the birth certificate