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[@hana_anah9036]

1: YTA, there isn't a "right direction". If she likes Legos and stuff, let her. 2: NSH. I can get both sides. OP feels uncomfortable, and mother is trying her best to be supportive while still keeping something she likes. 3: NTA. What is wrong with OP's dad and friends?

[@meh5036]

2. I completely disagree. OP is definitely TA, listening to the words (not the tone of the reader) it's every obvious that OP has no respect for his mom, or mental illness. The mom isn't bringing up the tattoo, and (by the sound of it) it seems this tattoo has been in place for a long, long time. Telling (not even asking!) someone to remove a tattoo that had been in place for years, pay for all those expenses, and be left with the blank aftermath of something that has been a part of them for years is completely unreasonable. It would be a completely different story if this was a recent tattoo, received after OP changed his name.

[@lumos_child]

what does NSH stand for? sorry, I'm not familiar with that acronym 😅

[@hana_anah9036]

@@lumos_child nobody sucks here

[@defnotbanana6481]

​@Hana_anaH actually the Cousin does because she didn't even hear the whole story her whole arm will have to go black for the tattoo

[@hana_anah9036]

@Def not banana true, I forgot about her. She's probably the only AH in my opinion.

[@lumos_child]

"I know how it sounds" "to steer her in the right direction" only like 15 seconds into the first story and I can already tell the mom is TA

[@lunahix4815]

I feel so bad for the daughter in the first story.

[@ResinateByChanel]

Ikr 😳 that's legit abuse!! (This one is fake tho! 😅) At least I hope so!!

[@meatymaggot]

Same

[@katherinevanderpool5606]

Me to

[@pinki8888]

@@ResinateByChanellol I knew it ! I was listening like this is all way to perfectly written and layed out like a horror story , sounded fake af

[@JUstAFreAk-u8p]

Yes the mom was not acting like a mom I fell so bad for the little girl 😢

[@AutumnRayne936]

DUDE THE DAUGHTER IN THE FIRST STORY SOUNDS POSSESSED!!! It’s like listening to the plot of a horror movie! She said she wasn’t the one playing it, the box is playing on its own even with no batteries inside and now she’s dancing to it in a tutu not responding to her name, and she doesn’t feel like his daughter anymore? She is 100% possessed good lord

[@eriii6391]

Omg I thought the exact some thing

[@KrakenSea13]

@@eriii6391 me too! that was some creepy stuff, and as an Empath I've come across items that have bad energy connected t them I wouldn't go near that box its prob haunted

[@MompreneurDiary]

Maybe the first story is fake it's waaaay to movie like

[@victoriamcdonald7550]

I was doing something and my neck cracked so fast back to my phone when this woman said “steer her the right direction” 😭

[@ResinateByChanel]

😅😅😅😅

[@meh5036]

7. That's a really tough situation. NAH, because what was OP supposed to do? Leave a child in an abusive household? No, especially when the child calls you because you're their safe contact. The kids are probably still too young to fully comprehend the situation, so it's sad it ended up like this.

[@alongley4644]

There's probably a reason why the kids does not like her They will never forget what he did choosing the niece over them. It's so bad for her call child protective services..

[@meh5036]

@@alongley4644 That might be an ok seeming option, but at that point you have to be prepared to have her fully taken from her parents: where will she go? Can her other uncle take her, or will she have to go into the system? Most likely, nothing has happened because the uncle and OP realize that they can't care for her and that the system would fully pull them apart.

[@reverehouston-lf3fe]

Nah the kids were being rude and bratty for no reason the person should have tried to tell them how they were lucky because they didn’t have to deal with abuse every day

[@johanncai5184]

The first story made me go through a roller coaster of emotions. At first I was mad at this parent & then so happy that this little girl turned it around on mom/dad. Then I was glad that this parent learned their lesson & realized they didn't want their daughter to change who she was. They became the ass hole again when they still refused to get this child a birthday gift that they would enjoy and appreciate. Kids like what they like. As parents our job is to help them figure out who they are and teach them kindness, love, communication, personal responsibility, and accountability. As parents we can be wrong and it's 100% okay. It's a good lesson for our children to have their parents admit when they are wrong and act accordingly to right that wrong. The last emotion I felt as the story really sank in was fear.. Are you 100% sure she's doing all this to make a point and that she hasn't been possessed by a ballerina demon??? First she got bad vibes from the music box... but she would play it all the time. Second you removed the key so it wouldn't play, & yet it still played. Then she's awake when she should be sleeping, dancing around in a girly tutu ALONE. Why would she do that when she A) doesn't like the music box B) isn't into girly things *tutus * & C) would most certainly get in trouble for being up past her bedtime. And then she wouldn't respond to her name. 😱😱😱

[@heathermaciejunes3710]

Yes that was what I was thinking that music box is legit possessed

[@bookdragon6065]

YTA you don't need to "stear her in the right direction" you need let her be who she is. There's nothing wrong with being a tomboy, it's not hurting anyone and if it's what makes her happy and let's her be who she is then why not let her?

[@user-ws8gy7lg5p]

I was a little tomboy cause it was fun am 22 years old and now girly let the child be a child

[@Shiangelic69]

For the tattoo one. I'm a ftm, and I actually don't connect with the whole dead name thing. I still think of it as my given/brithname, cause that's what it is, the one that was give, and as we transition we chose the names we transition to. Not to say it's ok for people to refuse to use that chosen name. But that's beside this point. This one is the tattoo was there before the mother even knew, possibly before the narrator themselves knew, and to get mad about it it ridiculous. The mother is supportive, even tries to hide it from view which she shouldn't have to. So yea, that person is an asshole for this. Honestly as a community or whatever, trans individuals should accept that those names are our past, are part of what has made us us. And seeing it in thing that were done before we came out should not be upsetting, it's our past, good or bad, trauma and all. And again, this is not me saying misgendering or being call by birthname and not our chosen names are ok, but it someone is accepting and genuinely trying we should not attack or get angry we them. Save it for those that are not accepting.

[@theblackvalkyrie69]

Well said 🖤

[@foxtrot0201]

i have never agreed more with a statement. Go off 👏🏳️‍⚧️👏

[@willunawonderland5453]

late but mtf and i feel the same kinda

[@PeacockandPuppets]

I have a unisex name, so I never had a deadname, just new pronouns, but I don't think someone who has a deadname needs to just accept it as the past. That person can't just get over the disphora and pain associated with it. I do think getting upset over the tattoo when covered is a bit much

[@Shiangelic69]

@@PeacockandPuppets that's not exactly what I meant. Those sort of things take time to heal, at sort of pain and/or trauma does. But, as with any, you should try to heal and accept it, because just ignoring it, refusing to acknowledge it, and/or rejecting it it's healthy. And I get that some needed to say that person of the past is no more. The not liking deadname is more my personal feelings and not for everyone. But I do believe that we, everyone not just the trans community, need to be more understanding and accepting, to take to time to better understand and communicate... to an extent, some people are just pos that can kiss a hippos ass -,-"

[@AJGecko18]

Second story, OP is in the wrong. They say don’t get your lover tattooed on your arm because it’s PERMANENT. It’s painful and expensive to change a tattoo and it’d be inconsiderate to your older sister. I say op is in the wrong, but they aren’t an asshole, I just think they don’t realize what goes into a tattoo

[@Ouchiness]

Agreed. Unfortunately any kind of procedure like this comes with risks and is physically and emotionally exhausting. I really think OP needs to value that mom is using their name & trying to cover up the offending tattoo. If mom were using the tattoo as an excuse to continue with deadnaming that would be one thing but mom is clearly just as uncomfortable with the tattoo, it’s just a large procedure to get another one.

[@AJGecko18]

@@Ouchiness oh, but the cousin is definitely an asshole in this case They have a tattoo themself so they should know how much time, money, and pain goes into tattoos. If my parents got a tattoo of my dead name before I came out (I am a closeted queer), I think I would be so excited about it - but that’s just me.

[@pinki8888]

@@AJGecko18100% the cousin is the AH! They just threw a whole bunch of misplaced anger on that poor mum ! I can imagine how sad she must be how confused and heartbroken to be treated like that and called those things ?! And y is it the girl is so adamant about her rights to look how she wants be who she wants because it’s her body but they think the mum doesn’t have her own rights .. op and cuz both hypocrites

[@michellealjunaidi8471]

Just more teenage self entitlement here. Also the cousin is lucky she wasn't shown the door. Coming into someone's home and acting up. I was raised in the 80's we didn't step to our parents like that we were raised right.

[@Ouchiness]

#2: tattoos are so physical and permanent. If mom is making efforts to cover the tattoo, while I understand how painful that is to still have *deadname* there, that’s a large procedure and physical change that people need to come to in their own time. We are sovereign over our own bodies and you really can’t tell someone to change their body. You can ask them to cover things that make you uncomfortable if it’s related to you but asking someone to physically change their body crosses a line.

[@tairalawarce7815]

Exactly and what the cousin shows how crazy trans/queer people are 🙄🙄

[@kikkisworldgachalife5574]

Here are my quick opinions on all of the stories. 1. Something that I caught from the story that brings a really big red flag is "leading her in the right direction". In life, there is truly no right direction, and trying to not LEAD her but FORCE her in YOUR direction, in my opinion, is not how it should be done nor should you do it. 2. As a person who was not tran or knows people who are trans this story is hard for me to comment on. From the outside looking in it honestly seems like the mom is doing everything she can especially if the part where she says "she can't handle another tattoo session" holds some truth to it. However one thing that I can acknowledge is that you can change yourself but that's because you change yourself doesn't mean the people have to change around you. If they want to change is up to them if they don't then you can't make them. At the same time I feel like you can't make people see your point of view. Maybe in this situation backed out what he's doing and he just feels uncomfortable with the tattoo, but I think finding a compromise is a very good solution. 3. My opinion here is simple THIS IS WRONG. I don't know about the rest of you but I personally don't believe in sugar daddies. I don't think they're right, relevant, or needed especially if you were cardent of to produce enough money for yourself. And this Situation gets more wrong especially if you're doing all this at the expense of your own daughter who you should be taken care of. 4. For the birthday suit my opinion here is also simple. The OP's friend bought it for her so why can't she wear it. Yes, maybe it was a little rude to wear it in front of her boyfriend. I say, SO WHAT!! You got it for me now behold the consequences. 5. As a person who is religious myself being told to take off something that represents my Religion can either be seen as offensive or it's under the right circumstances fairly reasonable. In this situation if it's just for a wedding, I say don't compromise. You shouldn't have to not where something that represents you even for one wedding. Especially, if it means that much to you. 6. Although I see where the bride is coming from, I believe she is in the wrong for lying in general. Instead of lying that she wanted a simple make up job for a wedding with the excuse that she doesn't like heavy makeup. Instead of lying for that she should have instead told you honestly but tried to negotiate the price with you. The prices are like that for a reason, And well yes I believe that she shouldn't be charged full price for a simple makeup job. If she was honest with you in the 1st place and negotiated the price with you then I don't think you would have ran into this problem in the 1st place. 7. If I mean totally honest with you, you did the best you could have done in this situation. I mean who in the right mind would let a child go back to an abusive household all because your kids don't like them. Right now your kids will see this as favoritism, But as I grow up and learn about the situation more and more they'll eventually understand that this was the right decision to make. So don't hold this over your head. 8. How about this why can't you pay for everyone at the gate instead of trying to find a way to pay ahead of time. Really I don't think the issue is the Canyon fee cause well it happens. But I think the real issue is the wedding itself. I know people are allowed to do whatever they want for their weddings but making people bring their own stuff, have a little bit of food, and just in general how the wedding I think is being made here it's very cheapskate of you. Also, about the gift receiving thing online if people before have asked you about it and you just posted it for the air shakes then I don't think that's an issue. The issue is it just adds to the cheapskate look. 9. I honestly don't see the issue and why you guys can't sleep together. You guys obliged by the rule that you can't sleep together until you're married and even after that they still want you to sleep separate? Even if they are NOT homophobic bowick by them doing this it makes them look like they are. In all honesty while I do not feel bad for the parents in the situation hurricane kicked out I do however feel bad for the kids because they technically did nothing wrong. So if you can I'd say if anything either take the kids in with you if they want to. Or for the kids to take help them out find another place to live. I'd say if there were no kids in this situation who were involved then there would not be an issue in general. However since there are kids involved that's when the situation gets a little bit more tricky. 10. Stand up for your rights and a matter what do not apologize. Those kids essentially just killed fish and even if theyoretically they did survive they then promoted a destruction of an ecosystem. And if not only the parents but the teachers can't jump and support on this issue, Then what does that say about this school in general. And although in the moment calling her a dumbass might seem too rude. In all honesty, that's what she is. She is dumb for doing that in the 1st place. And an a** for sharing all about it on social media and not doing proper research 1st into what that could do for the fish and ecosystem. So yeah I don't think the real issue here is what you said to her more or less the issue here is the school's actions towards it. They shouldn't be making you apologize if anything they should be lecturing that girl for what she did, having an assembly, and teaching children that throwing fish into the wild like that is not right not for the fish nor for the ecosystem.

[@lily-if8ir]

I could get the no sleep in same bed BEFORE marriage for catholic because that could be considered respect of cultural and religious views and practices

[@samanthagolding3876]

The last person is 101% in the right and I'm glad they didn't apologise for anything

[@jessiessymphony]

1: "Steer her in the right direction" BISH, WHAT 'RIGHT DIRECTION'? She's TEN 😭😭😭

[@HA-zx2pk]

I feel so bad for the mom in story 2 yes the bad apple... she explained she is too old and it is a sleeve so you cannot fix it. She was trying. I hope OP is unable to abuse their mom anymore. That tattoo was there for years. Before the op changed gender. Its terrible that mom is trying to adjust to ops change and attempting to be supportive but op is unsupportive and unforgiving of their mom. I hope op gets what they deserve and i hope ops mom finds peace because her child obviously doesn't love her and is very toxic.

[@CHRYSSIBOO]

That's a bit extreme.

[@HA-zx2pk]

@@CHRYSSIBOO no it isn’t, op threw her under the bus hoping for the outcome that resulted and op was happy and won’t correct it. On top of that, OP doesn’t care about the strain and pain and lasting effects that would go into destroying his moms tattoo that’s been on her body since op was a baby/before OP’s change. OP doesn’t care about their mom at all. Very self absorbed.

[@meuchuc.m.p.2891]

​@@HA-zx2pk I agree. It makes me sad that even if they try it will never be enough for them, and they are just more willing to make anyone a villain than they are to accept that they are doing their best despite their own struggles And maybe that defacing your sister's art is also disrespectful to your sister I really don't like how people are always so quick to jump on the idea that everyone is attacking them But really no one really cares and the people who do care are trying to do their best and you're just chasing them away for no good reason Sorry. I went on a bit of a tangent...

[@AngelicaJCardona]

That first jar is so beautiful. It looks like a night sky. Awesome job! ❤

[@ResinateByChanel]

Yeeeesssss tysm boo❤

[@Calicobl00d]

#7: honestly. you did the best you could in the situation! definitely not the A-hole. sure, your kids are going to be sour about this for awhile but once they grow up and start to realize rosa's situation they'll get it. if they can't be nice to someone for a few days they really don't deserve the trip. you did a good thing helping rosa. it sounds like she needed you a lot more than you'll ever know ^u^

[@ameliaabernathy4150]

Lmao the first one starts out with “PlEaSe No JuDgEmEnT” and proceeds to say their daughter needs to be “steered in the right direction” BRO

[@amberbrown1277]

In the first story, that child is not immature. That adult is the immature ah

[@ResinateByChanel]

💯💯 the adult is crazy

[@celot9412]

As someone who has heard “I wanted a little girl so I could play dress up and do girly things with her” multiple times and had relatives ignore me when i asked for more masculine things, I can confidently say it hurts a lot more than you would think. Because it doesn’t just fell like you want to do feminine stuff with me, it feels like I was a huge disappointment and that I’m not a good enough daughter. So yeah, OP is definitely the a**hole in my opinion.

[@taramccormick4042]

I fully agree I was the only girl out of four and a major tomboy. my dad when I was in 8th grade told me "when you dress like that it make me embarrassed to be seen with you" I was wearing a sweat suite during the winter. Like that isn't going to affect my self-esteem and stay in my mind for the rest of my life.

[@nikki_evers]

for story one miss ma’am you’re just wasting your money buying your child something you know she’ll hate. steer her in the right direction? you mean steer her to go no contact with you when she moves out?

[@Rin-oo9pf]

Kudos for the daughter in the first story. I kinda get what the parent was going for but the daughter made her point beautiful. Sometimes even well ment gifts are annoying. After being ignored when she told her parent that it's not right for her finding a way to stand her ground and making the point anyway is impressive. I wasn't able to do that at that age. The mother should be proud and get her child the gift she wanted.

[@untitled-gv3qp]

I forced her to listen to the song over and over and ignored her "dramatics". Waa she's playing the music box all the time to bother me I'm SuCh A vIcTiM. 🤡

[@amberwilson6959]

I feel like in the first story. The girl just because she thought she was trying to put her in the right direction. She really? I felt like I had no business really doing that. Because I've heard daughter like more of a tomboy. You could turn her into the wrong direction. And you already knew that when she started doing it. So then she didn't feel like your daughter. Because then you realized now what you did was the wrong thing. And you put her into the wrong direction. It was like she became more girly. But and I'm proud to say this. But, uh, 72 be sent to the g

[@mTHEaTHREEtSISTERSt]

1 yes, your daughter should be allowed to like what she likes 2 yes. It's your mom's body, and she got it a long time ago, leave the poor woman alone

[@CHRYSSIBOO]

The makeup story makes me so mad for some reason... OP is definitely the asshole. 500 for 150 worth of work just because she is a bride is ridiculous!

[@carly-annelegge4932]

This is what i thought, as a mua myself, the bridal price usually includes a trail, so if she didnt request the service shouldn't be then charged for it

[@shir4136]

1. Yes

[@michellealjunaidi8471]

Story #2 the teenage daughter is 100% the AH. The audacity to tell her mom who's had the tattoo this kids whole life to get it removed. She decided to change her life. Her mom shouldn't have to change her life or a tattoo to make her child happy. She's lucky her mom went to stay somewhere to clear her head. Otherwise the daughter may have gotten the sense and the respect slapped back into her.

[@THERIAN.GRACI3]

0:03 yes OP is the AH,they tried to change their daughter from being herself, if you do that your NOT worthy of having a child in your care 3:04 I understand both sides but OP’s mother is trying to be supportive and cover it up and it has a meaning to her and OP’s sister! You can’t take it away when she’s covering it up for you,so yes OP is the AH 6:03 no OP is def not the AH! Her best friend nor father didn’t tell her! And the best friend is around 20 and father around 53! That’s just weird ur not the AH 7:12 no it was OP’s birthday gift it’s her fault for not telling u she deserved it though u maybe shouldn’t have done it purposely in front of her boyfriend 9:13 NO definitely not the AH the sister is! She knows that OP wears it for her religion and her grandfather gave it to OP! That is not something her decide! Not the AH 11:09 she didn’t have anything more then party makeup though she’s the bride then YES it’s simple

[@KatySueWho]

This is one of my favorites 😂😂😂 “You’re on fire!”

[@jessicamarsh9779]

16:52 Lol that one always gets me… “come to my wedding, you have to bring your own chair, you have to pay $10 to get into my wedding, there’s only 20 people who’s really invited but everyone can buy me a gift… oh and I won’t have a reception, just a small little dinner for those who are allowed to come”. Tacky AF.

[@reneenoriega4524]

Listen (and I say this as an artist who depends on commission work) normally I would be on the makeup artist side, but a. The bride asked for simple party makeup, just that. Just because she was a bride it doesn't mean you automatically do something different; and b. If the artist was going to insist on doing bridal makeup, she should have notified the bride and the family, not do her own thing and then expect everyone to be on the same page

[@Rei_Ray69]

The Tomboy: You are the asshole, excuse me… “stear her in THE RIGHT direction?!! Wth open your eyes! Listen, I’ve been a tomboy since I was little, and came out as Bisexual at 11, a kind of waved around in my teen years, settling down as a Bisexual who prefers the same sex (Women) this is just one example of the most likely outcome of this, but the point is don’t try and stop your child form living their life, it’s short and we haven’t got much time so live life to the fullest ❤

[@Shiangelic69]

So I'm not even a Christian, almost borderline anti lol, but for her sister to demand she take the necklace of, especially know the history behind it, and to that extreme, like nah brah.

[@sqiudy-catmedland1421]

As a very tomboyish girl, that first mother is absolutely the asshole. I understand that maybe she wishes her daughter would do girly stuff with her , but you cannot have children with expectations that they will be exactly how you want them to be and like exactly what you want them to like. I have always been a tomboy, liking dinosaurs, videogames, starwars and all the other stereotypical 'boy stuff' since i was a kid, and my mum still bought me dresses and stuff but when i was around 7, i started expressing that dresses and skirts werent necessarily my thing and she stopped making me wear them and i am so happy she listened. That poor girl must feel like her mother dosent love her for who she is and wishes she was different 😢

[@maryhernandez9699]

Second story, biggest ah ever. OP and her cousin.

[@teetotee]

"Steer her in the r9ght direction" that's where you done effed up.

[@Leslie-On-Pawz]

Story one you don't teach them the the RIGHT DIRECTION

[@dhiyaaa...]

Where did u get that butterfly...which is in the 8th one...and is that sticker or metal...

[@anayachhabra7155]

Make-up Artist: YTA-if u didn’t use more product then it’s not fair to ask her to pay more

[@butterflydustdezignz]

The 👙 story was a good 1 😁

[@mauriquicamcbean7281]

Bro the one with the gold fish 😂😂😂😂

[@merrymac5460]

2nd Story: The f-to-m (daughter) child is TOTALLY the A-hole! They are militant about having the right to have THEIR body be how they want it to be (and to represent), and yet they feel that they have the right to dictate their mother's body. I cry bullsh*t. The mothers tattoo with their child's "deadname" was done before their transitioning was even an idea. The tattoo was their mother's bonding experience with the other sibling and was HER choice regarding her own body! Ugh! To constantly pressure the mother to change her body, and then to rally support with family members to bully her about it is hypocritical and unacceptable. TOTALLY the A$$hole!!!

[@cailingathercole9795]

Don't be mean

[@frann8002]

Ok you don't agree with him, doesn't mean it's cool to misgender

[@dhiyaaa...]

In the 8th one the butterfly too resin art? Or it's a metal...

[@okiamherenow5000]

It is metal

[@dhiyaaa...]

Where it is available?

[@okiamherenow5000]

I don’t know

[@chriscouri4149]

What about the Moms feelings in the tattoo scenario. Decisions in a family affect more then the person making them

[@anahatahandmadeproducts4319]

Nice way to do your content. Good job.

[@sleepyangel2456]

7. Not the AHole you did what was right in the future when something really bad happens and she needs to run away she knows she has you to trust and that’s very important this is coming from someone who grow up in an abouse house. Your more of a hero

[@hmoataz2011]

For the first story, please throw away this box , If you want to make your girl like girly things you can do it another way , I have a bad feeling about this box.

[@strawberrybunny9322]

Change the music in it to SLIPKNOT or something tomboyish/less girly (you can get custom music for music boxes online). Dye the ballerina dress black. Paint their nails black with a toothpick. And dye the hair black with a sharpie or paint (depending what material the hair is).

[@sethstewart1849]

The right direction gurl

[@mayramajano6054]

For story 9 as someone who is bi with an unsupportive family I think OP made the right choice love is love no matter who it is with and the fact that they said that it was not a true marriage is bs and also they were rude to your husband for no reason while saying that you were going to evicting them might have been a little to far they were being rude and they have no right to tell you who to love so NTAH

[@alee200788]

7:47 am in Cali

[@munsuncox7694]

Steer her in the right direction is wild

[@katherinevanderpool5606]

Favorites 4:32

[@LoopyOrchestra]

Story 10, 100% NTA. Im a vet and I'm sick of idiots like this killing goldfish or- sorry as they say: "saving them." on Tiktok for their pathetic saviour complexes when all they're done is kill them by throwing them in salt water, or thrown them into small ponds with other fish and dooming the other fish to painful deaths as a result. I don't even care OP was rude about it, people who do this to animals almost never listen to how they're wrong.

[@meghanaraju1169]

So we're not going to talk about how in the first story op calls her daughter a terrorist

[@omnikid]

Yeah, it’s a euphemism, chill.

[@meghanaraju1169]

@@omnikid She called her *daughter* her own flesh and blood a *terrorist* Nothing about that sentence is okay to say about or to ANYONE especially your own daughter. Terrorists are disgusting people who have killed mass numbers of people, have tortured many and etc. comparing a CHILD to a terrorist because she bought her a toy she didn't want and when that toy is played repeatedly and the daughter tells her it's not her who did it she says she won't negotiate with a terrorist that's not a euphemism that is disgusting, her daughter is *ten* nothing excuses that

[@Marcus.kc273]

If you REALLY want her to wear jewelry then I would just get her jewelry that would match her tomboy outfits, and you should’ve gotten her game to.

[@Choas0verlord]

First story: yes you are in the wrong. Getting your daughter something girly isn’t gonna change her or her mind and what she does and doesn’t like. When I was a bit younger I was more girly much to my mom’s delight however the older I got them much more clumsy and dirty I got from roughhousing with my brother and painting and building and everything due to my interests. Other things along the years have more pushed me to a more tomboyish look than a female look because I would prefer wearing shorts and pants with a ‘masculine’ shirt over a girly blouse and skirts (or booty shorts for those who wear those, no shame tho). But just because your daughter is interested in something doesn’t mean she’s in the wrong and needs to be pushed in the right direction and yeah of course she’s gonna make a point because you pushed her outside of her comfort zone and you only think that she likes it and loves to make yourself feel better about getting her something she obviously does not like or want. Let the girl be a little tomboy it won’t kill you

[@CaoimheRodger]

I have a necklace that my mum give me and I only tack it of and when a teacher kept telling me to tack it of so I understand

[@ajsmillie905]

Right direction?

[@LorE_aka-midwestmemaw8555]

S1-yes mom is the AH, you have to accept your child as they are. S2-yes the child is the AH. Dead name, really. I have a trans daughter and we do not refer to her previous name as a dead name, as I have buried an adult child as well and that is dead. S3-that is not a best friend. I say walk away from both of them!!

[@shadesofjade]

Imagine having a daughter who is bright and inquisitive enthusiastic about life but doesn’t really like girly things. And calling her a terrorist for feeding you the energy you yourself forced down her throat. If this is a man, he doesn’t need to reproduce anymore. If this is a woman she doesn’t need to reproduce anymore. They don’t appreciate the gift they were bestowed.

[@Jay_wayda123]

I don’t think that the mom should get stomped by the entire family because of one tattoo because she is trying to make her son as happy as she can,and the son shouldn’t have gotten “ sad”, because his mom wanted some time to think about what was happening. THIS MESSAGE IS NOT TO OFFEND ANY THIS IS JUST MY THOUGHTS!!

[@Jay_wayda123]

The mom is wrong with taking Rosa with her on the trip she could have stayed at a friends house and the mom should have took her kids I would be mad to.

[@Claraaaa121.]

At the fifth storyu are right that miss sister she needs to put it for a good reason

[@adventurewithgracie5106]

0:28 THE RIGHT DIRECTION!?!?!? EXCUSE ME!?!?!?!?!? NAHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[@FizzleFroggy]

Lost any hope at ‘ right direction’ Let the girl be

[@GoatmomProductions]

I do think you're a bad person for charging more for that bride

[@peppermintcat2290]

What happened in the third story oh

[@eriii6391]

Tbh in the first story I thought the box was possessed

[@lubnahindi6909]

The second story(the tatto) the mom is right and the cousin and the person telling the story and in the wrong,it’s your mother you should have respected her,idk that story just pissed me off if I was the mother I would have kicked them out because they humiliated me,didn’t respect me,and turned the family against me

[@godseymadrey7270]

Story 1: YTA set her on the right direction? What is wrong with you! Your child is choosing what she want for herself and you call her a terrorist!? What kind of parent douse that Story 2: YTA she is obviously trying and you say thats not enough get rid of a tattoo can be painful and I see how with older age those sessions would be horrible I understand seeing your dead name may be triggering but the disrespect towards you mother is horrible the tattoo would be painful to remove and it has sentimental value for her if you want others to respect you, you have to be able to compromise and respect others as-well

[@godseymadrey7270]

Story 3: NTA that is just plain creepy I mean first of all they didn’t tell you which may not be such a big thing to Some but if I was in that situation, I would be livid. Also the fact that they tried to invite another young girl to enter the “ relationship “ kind of gives me a really weird and creepy feeling. I think OP has every right to be mad about it and every right to complain about it because that is really creepy. Story 4: YTA you knew her boyfreind was there and chose to flash the poor guy on purpose for what? Payback they is really petty and on top of that you pretended not to notice when he was staring honestly are we sure OP doesn’t have a thing for the boyfriend ?

[@danielwardwell914]

STORY 1: the OP is the asshole. Literally 0:19 you gave your true opinion and feeling away by saying “steer her in the right direction”

[@astxrope]

Ok ok- So for the wedding fee one there's 20 people going, meaning if you covered the cost it'd be about $200+ to get EVERYONE up there And camping chairs are approx $40...which would be *$800* for 20... NTA

[@Rei_Ray69]

My Niece: Dude, those are your KIDS, I have 8 nieces (Half blood and in laws) and I would never sacrifice them and over my child, I will mostly be there for them but If my sister was abusing them, CALL THE DAMN POLICE, give her to the grandmother or something. I don’t have much insight for this one cause I don’t like kids 😅

[@peppermintcat2290]

In the second story yes it’s her body you cannot tell your mother what to do with her body

[@huntingorgon44]

If you hate the tattoo that much, ask her if she’d be open to adding part to the tattoo design with your current name, she would still have the deadname but it would also include your current name so you’d both get what you want. Also I’d like to say that I understand if trans people don’t like their deadname, but I want to know from a trans person why most hate theirs so much? I think you shouldn’t forget or try to change the past and just embrace that it used to be a part of you, this isn’t saying you need to love it and go by it, I just wanna know why you would hate it so much? (So so SO sorry if this is offensive I’m genuinely curious I mean no hate!!!!)

[@Starzzurdrugg]

8: 10 dollars honestly isn’t that much money i don’t get why everyone would complain

[@IWouldRatherSleep999]

Ok the tattoo one really got me angry. They are definitely the AH, and I think they are bc she is disrespecting what her mum wants for her own body, it’s not ur body and the tattoo isn’t even just about you. They said it triggered them to see the dead name is the most important thing and everyone’s priority to make u comfortable but then completely dismissed that their mum has depression and no motivation. Then the mum tried her best to cover it up and was obviously very worried about it (cuz she actually cares about them) and then it’s not ok to just not see it but knowing it’s there is still triggering? Like after removing the tattoo, the memory of it being there is too painful? Is putting on makeup over it still too much for u? Then cutting off her arm (ik extreme but hear me out) is still too triggering cuz u knew it was once there? How far u wanna take this just to make a fight about something that u can’t even see. To be fair, I’m not trans so idk what it is like but her body, her choice.

[@ThatBookGirl123]

Omg the dad and friends one What is wrong with some people! The dad should be in jail!!!!!!

[@Wondergachaland]

So first one any one else restart just to make sure they didn’t say “steal in the right deregtion

[@user-ev1sh9ct3g]

St2: how can you not see how much of the AH you are?

[@Crystal_Jones1984]

1.yta at the start they say “steer her in the right direction” like what?!?!?

[@therealkaitlynmichelle2348]

First story the daughter is not be a whole mom is a complete 10 out of 10 a hole I feel so bad bad daughter

[@vannacam1]

The bride was wrong for lying. She could have told you before hand that she was getting married but wanted simple make up and y’all could have negotiated a price or something but she straight up lied

[@junghookedforlife3335]

As a makeup artist myself I will not call the bride an AH she clearly asked for simple party makeup if it was me I would just do the simple party make up that I was told to do ,bridal makeup in my country is quite different from party makeup hence we charge more I do find it morally wrong to charge three times the price of party makeup when she is doing the same thing for both makeup just cause she is a bride

[@largehorse]

1st story: yes 2end story: yes 3red story: no 4th story: yes 5th: no 6th: no 7th: yes 8th: yes 9th: no 10th: no

[@dilemmaart]

I’m sorry but the goldfish story is what got me. Op is NTA. I would do the exact same thing the OP did. Heck I’d have been way more brutal. She basically killed those fish. Also, if you’re gonna release animals into the wild shouldn’t you do the bare minimum and research the fish? Or even just ask the person at the pet store? How can people be this stupid? The OP did her a damn favour by pointing out just how much of a moron that girl was. SMH. Those poor fish 😞 (The first story as well damn that’s exactly what I hope NOT to be as a parent. Absolutely YTA)

[@Totally-Weird_alt]

13:08 your not the jackass she’s ripping YOU off.

[@St4rg1rlyyyyy]

For the first story, OP got their kid something that they know she won’t like and got mad when she didn’t like it?

[@MompreneurDiary]

Uhm getting Aunt and Uncle kicked out of their house...so you can have a sleepover. Uhm AH

[@foxtrot0201]

First story red flag: “…to steer her in the right direction” dude. let kids love what they love if it ain’t hurting anybody. TA

[@kittycandy7022]

No that's all he should not be feeding them when he barely even know like that and he is too controlling And Should not be taking away your stuff just because of some silly stuff!.

[@IWouldRatherSleep999]

The first story: “Am I the asshole for forcing my child to like something just bc it is the ‘right thing for them’ to ‘set them in the right track’ and then get angry when she does like it so start screaming at her?” Nahhh

[@maybaby13x]

Don’t worry on the 1st story - it’s not real and was originally posted to r/scarystories

[@katherinevanderpool5606]

you're allowed to be a tomboy

[@MEIAMDYLAN]

The tattoo: OP is definitely the asshole… 10 out of 10 point blank. Mama gets to keep that tattoo because guess what!? it holds, sentimental value to her. We all have to put up with things in this life that we do not like! Get over it. It’s her body, her choice! Just because it makes you uncomfortable does not mean that everything in this world needs to bend over backwards for you what you go through. I mean how entitled would you have to be in order to think that you have any authority or should have any say over what somebody does with their own body? The world or your family does not have to bend over backwards and adapt just to make you feel comfortable! People transition to blend into society, and to be perceived, as the gender that they transitioned to. your mom decided to cover it up, but that’s not enough for you. You want it gone despite not understanding the significance of that tattoo for her. Plus, I hope you really do enjoy being a Man, if and when you do transition because life is gonna get a lot harder for you ways you’re not gonna see coming! Truly, I do not wish any ill will, but I hope that OP actually did do research on the fact, because there are plenty of cases of people that have detransitioned that regret it and have done irreversible damage to themselves.

[@Callistovalerie]

In the first one they're are both in the bad

[@jessdeane-hall8450]

Ist story: yes you are the A if your daughter is tomboy ish then except her for who she is instead of trying to make her someone she is not!!

[@MompreneurDiary]

Making guests pay to do you a favor uhm AH

[@peppermintcat2290]

Number for 100% it’s just a piece of silly jewelry you can take off for one day what if you went swimming for a whole day well same Thing and it’s your sister’s wedding When is your wedding it’s supposed to be your perfect special day and you don’t wanna live across in your wedding then you don’t it’s simple and the person wearing a little crush will be asked to take it off

[@SlayAllDay610]

7:00 wtheck how is she pregnant with an old man’s baby that’s something they can catch a case on

[@Starzzzzzzzzzzz]

If she felt uncomfortable with that gift,and you know she wouldn5 like it. Just buy her stuff she is gonna 5hank you for, love you for.if you do this she will lose trust with you. Just let her be her style and YOU make your daughter happy on her BIRTHDAY by gettin* her whatever she wants. It’s horrible getting them something you KNOW they won’t like.

[@Razzberry_dollz]

The moment she said “ right direction “ was all She needed say to be the asshole