When Do I Let Go of the One Who Left Me?

[@samuelroberto7400]

I was not the husband or father that God had commanded me to be. I pushed my wife so far and hardened her heart towards me. We have been separated for two months now and since then I have given my life back to Christ and I’m standing for my marriage. Praying and believing that God will soften my wife’s heart towards me and that she will give her life back to Jesus Christ. This is a hard season but it has also brought me so closer to God and his peace.

[@larrymoodley3048]

Go with Gods Grace Samuel, belive in Christ, and pray and be fervent, for Gods deliverance. I am going through something similar. Stay the course, even if you feel like you bleeding.

[@MMinnisTennessee]

Samuel, I am currently going through the storms that you went through. I pray that you have a new life in Christ, that and that God has softened your wife's heart.

[@jeraldbrownjr1381]

Same here bro I feel your pain

[@WinterKing1967]

I did the same, and my wife has done the same. Moved to another state. I'm standing on God's word and surrendering it all to God and going through redemption and becoming the man of God.

[@Idiopathogen]

What level of responsibility is she taking?

[@amyverri9268]

I can't tell you how thankful I am to your ministry. I was slapped back to truth during a very hard 7 month separation with your videos and zoom sessions. The Lord fully restored my heart, my husband's heart and our marriage back in June. I thank you for the truth that you share. I'm so thankful to God for you! May He continue to bless the work of your hands.

[@SisJannie]

How do you get zoom sessions?

[@amyverri9268]

@@SisJannie if you go to restoring relationships website and sign up for the 4 week zoom session course. You can email his wife on there. She's very helpful. They do cost a small amount in comparison to what 4 therapy sessions would be just so you have a heads up. Totally worth it to me though.

[@celestbutler702]

Hi Amy thank you for your post .I just need some advice - my husband said he is going on a business trip- turns out he left us! He suffers from depression but has left on a very bad note. He is going out of his way to ‘punish’ us by withdrawing financial support. Also he has sent me a letter of intent to divorce . But when he spoke to the pastor he says he doesn’t want a divorce? He has blocked me on all platforms and refuses to take my calls. It’s almost two months since he left. I’m battling emotionally. My children are adults - they are still at home - they are working except for my son who is in his final year at school. The kids are struggling in there own way. We are supporting each other. I am hoping for a miracle? Am I being naive?

[@amyverri9268]

@@celestbutler702 I don't think hoping you're being naive to hope in God to restore your husband and marriage. He can do all things! You may want to file for financial support though. Please do protect yourself while he's going through this season. It's abusive to withhold provisions when he was providing before. This may upset him officially, but it won't stop the Lord from doing what He will do. I pray the Lord guides your every step! 🙏

[@ryand4410]

@@amyverri9268 Did you let God work on him or did you contact him and tell him how you feel on a regular business?

[@user-pm5kp8jh3y]

Yes. Don’t be a Pickmesha. Let them go and put them in God’s hands. God will never leave you nor forsake you. Don’t let people keep telling you they don’t want you. Let them go if they want to leave and go to God and pray about it/them. Go take care of yourself in the meantime. The battle is the Lords. You are priceless and worthy and what the prodigal spouse is doing is the plan of the enemy. And some of these people are dealing with demonic narcissist manipulative spirits and need deliverance and don’t know it. Go to God for healing and people have free will which we can’t control, but God can deliver the spouse if they are willing to humble themselves.

[@PastorJamaalFrancois]

That is so true

[@user-pm5kp8jh3y]

@@PastorJamaalFrancois Amen 🙂

[@clarencemayminao6364]

To God be the glory! Being broken is God's way of redirecting our path to His own will. For 15 years I thought loving my husband is the best way for me to do as his wife, but now he has left me. I was so down that I don't know what to do anymore because I put all my trust in him. I put my happiness in him and all the fleshly love that I can give. But now that he left me, I would say this is part of God's perfect plan because of His great love to me, He wants me to look at Him who truly loves me with his sacrificial love. Thank you for sharing this video. I am your new subscriber and I am really learning a lot. I love that verse Exodus 14:14. God bless your channel.

[@patrickmcgee6917]

Well I understand what you are saying but don’t let God block you from trusting and loving another man. I really don’t think he wants that. It’s just that your husband really wasn’t the right person. Don’t shut down and deny yourself possibly true real love with the right man. Your soul mate. 😊

[@shelbyburdette9040]

It’s ok just look at it as a leaning experience and remember even when God send you the one still keep your happiness in GOD first and not in your spouse

[@claudiapennisi7987]

@@shelbyburdette9040 I don't know if God sends you "the one." The person you married, unless they are abusive and dangerous, should be the one God wants you to have a Godly marriage with. A spouse shouldn't be considered as disposable and replaceable like an old pair of shoes or junky car!

[@clarencemayminao6364]

@@patrickmcgee6917 Thank you. But I am still hoping and praying that my husband will come back and that he will love me again.

[@clarencemayminao6364]

@@shelbyburdette9040 Yes this is the most precious learning of all. To love God first.

[@mamasworldview]

Both gotta go through the throne room to come back together. Amen.

[@beautyforashesministries6257]

Oh my goodness. Thank you Dominic. I'm facing unwanted divorce and my husband is wayward and I've done all I can to change his mind. This video confirmed to me what the Lord showed me. That His love doesn't control or keep people from freely choosing. I truly do love my husband and and am wanting him to get right with God so I must let go and let him take this path. It's the hardest thing to do because I know deep down he loves me and is just confused. Thank you!!

[@claudiapennisi7987]

This is a beautiful thing you have done..what Dominic is saying in all the videos is to let go of any control and trust that God will take care of it. God came into my life in a very powerful way since my husband left me. He comforts the brokenhearted and heals our wounds! Praying for you to have such comfort..🙏

[@sarahlaporte6896]

I wanted to stand for my husband of 29 years. The “standing” Christian groups kept teaching that I am supposed to stand in the gap…that I was responsible for his coming back to God. I finally had to come to the realization that my ex knows right from wrong. He has free will. By believing I was responsible for his salvation , I was putting myself in the place of Christ. God can do this without my help. I let go. God had other plans for me, for my current husband, for my wonderful step children who needed me in their lives.

[@rondalowe8855]

In love and in truth, remarriage while your 1st spouse is living is adultery.

[@helenak3749]

@@rondalowe8855 I was confused for a very long time becouse nearly all teachings in churches allow remariage after divorce, but after 10 years of research and God speaking to me trough the scripture and even confirming me in my dreams I definitely know now that remariage after divorce while spouse is alive is adultery!

[@rondalowe8855]

@@helenak3749 Amen!!!!!

[@wasdoty]

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[@StormsHurt]

⁠@@rondalowe8855the blood of Jesus covers all sins and there is no condemnation. Not the same as premeditated sin. Please read 1Cor 6; 9-11 read it

[@shelbyburdette9040]

GODs “rejection “ is his “PROTECTION”

[@jodyt3060]

Divorced.. and I still don't have peace to let go... no sweet release.. He has moved on. It's a difficult place to be in.. but I keep looking to the Lord..

[@SigmaPathfinder]

I am a Christian man that has backslid during our marriage. I am ashamed of what I didn’t hold on to. This pain is teaching me. I have been convicted and repenting. My ex wife also needed a stronger relationship with Jesus too. Our three children being separated and me and her not being together is so painful. But I will trust in the Lord to fix this and I won’t interfere. I will know when to let go because our Father will tell me. But as for now, I will pray without ceasing.

[@lexaynelogramonte384]

Thank God for His undying love ...i am struggling for a year since my husband rejected us with another woman and i've been searching and praying for healing and for my children...and even how much i wanted to hate my husband and move on with my life..but i can't have that feeling but instead i am praying for restoration...

[@littlemisstwiggy4529]

I’m right there with you. Worst pain ever.

[@lexaynelogramonte384]

Thank you...but unfortunately my husband died 2 weeks ago...another worst nightmare for me and the kids..it was so sudden news for us...i thought there could be restoration....

[@alexandrabergstrom4393]

I’m so sorry for you’re loss. Praying for you & you’re family.

[@Beinghopeful]

I thank you for this man’s life, I am in pain for almost a month now my husband left me after we had fight and I found out that he is cheating on me and I can’t believe it because I thought it is impossible he can do it the way he show his love to me and our family but I was wrong. My prayer now is always the restoration and reconciliation even after what was happened. But this message is a confirmation for me that I should be still and let God to what He can do in my situation, and stop idolizing the restoration of my family. God bless this man!

[@user-ru9tz3zj1v]

Im not married to him, yet for months and months i keep praying to God that he'd restore what we had broken... but now really if its not for me i pray to God to completely remove my thoughts and care for him. I dont want it yet i keep being affected by everything he do, His not mine God remove my feelings on wanting him morethan you. I just want to be free from this bondage...please Jesus i pray remove him away from me completely and free my thoughts and heart that i may never want him again in mylife... Heal my heart oh Lord his yours not mine take him... Protect my thoughts and cover my heart. Amen

[@donna62016]

WOW... such truth! Nailed it! It is soo best to stay away from people that do not know the Bible and the will of God. It is sad that soo many people encourage divorce when God opposes divorce. Those people are not of God. They are coming between the spouses further separating them.

[@motangalibbie6835]

Thanks so much Dominic, I'm down right now concerning my breakup. I felt like the world was coming to an end for me but you are giving me hope and a new life, I'm grateful 😘

[@susansookdeo1465]

Amen Amen and Amen ❤

[@travisjones5311]

Wish I would have had this about 8 years ago to listen to

[@petra9291]

Thank you, you opened my eyes a little bit. I am praying for someone to come back and I am very deppressed and I will continue to pray for it but I also prayed for God to show me why did seperation happened and I get now that I idolized person and not God. I hope he will restore us when I see all the wrong things even clearly.

[@SWIFTGAINZ]

This is very timely. A lot has been going on and thru my mind and I’ve been seeking God for everything. And he has answered with a lot of things and I am still waiting for reconciliation with my best friend. And today I honestly was so close to contacting her but I know I would be overstepping God. This is nothing but God here thanks Dominic you are a true man of God.

[@danielbrown8602]

Swift how has this reconciliation gone?

[@SWIFTGAINZ]

@@danielbrown8602 hey man it’s still in God’s hands and I am just happy with the journey

[@leahluckinbill]

Thank you Jesus 💜 I believe God has told me to stand for my marriage and during our separation, God has healed me so much and drawn me so much closer to him. I sometimes question if I am hearing God correctly but I have never felt the urge to walk away or that God was calling me to walk away from our marriage, even when I was angry and disgusted with my husbands actions. I had to learn to “let go” and fully surrender to God, and I feel more in love with my husband than ever. We are not currently in contact but I believe with all my heart that God is restoring my husband as well and will resurrect our marriage. Please pray for me (Leah) and my husband Kyle. Thank you Jesus, your will be done.

[@janedear5037]

how are things now?

[@BeautyforAshes636]

This helped me so much as I’m going through separation. Thank you so much for making this video for us to hear

[@Eightone331]

Best in depth Godly wisdom and advice I've heard in a long while.❤

[@CalynnA]

I thank you Dominic for the reminder that true reconciliation comes through the throne room from both sides. This is truly what I want anyway. Thank you for the encouragement to help endure the pain. Blessings to you all ❤️

[@juliabentley8022]

I have no words… but amen amen… I am out of God’s way… it’s His turn to work. Painful as this is I am enduring the love of Jesus Christ. My boyfriend for almost 4 years believes in Christ’s death burial resurrection he knows he’s a sinner however he has not accepted him into his heart. There are two children involved 12 and 13 years old. He broke up with me Monday and it’s only because I prayed that God would intervene because I did not have the strength so he gave Matt the strength to break up with me. It has been excruciating pain however before I even came upon your video I knew I had to get out of the way to let God work. To be able to see God‘s aligning word and way work through even four days of being broken up has been amazing. Please pray for Matt Hartley’s salvation, that our loving Savior will break through and only by His grace and mercy will bring us back together through God’s throne room… bless you brother in Christ.

[@deondavis344]

I’ll focus on the Lord my God and allow him to order my steps.

[@chaquitagonzales1684]

Amen

[@JJ-to7hj]

Thank you Dominic, this is most definitely one that I will be listening to a few times over. So much truth.

[@fenesss]

I asked God for confirmation in this season I'm currently going through...and i saw this video and it's title. I'm so thankful to have come across this video. It's confirmation from God that I'm in a good place right now during my storm...because in this place, i will hear him and i will know where he wants to direct me. I will continue to watch this video so it can be a constant reminder and encouragement for me during my season. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾♥️

[@jasonvelazquez1957]

I stumbled on this video by "accident", and I am glad that I did. It was such a blessing. God is good all the time. Thank you!

[@sharleenmains1407]

I’m tarring! Exodus 14:14 The Will of God is the word of God!! I have left my husband and it’s not the Will and plan of God. I’m so thankful this unbearable pain has drawn me closer to God!! And I now desire my will be his Will!! God is a good God!! I will never do life my way again. Thank you Jesus for marriage!!

[@robert81069]

Why did you leave your husband?

[@robina3443]

Thank you for sharing that Perfect Verse , Exodus 14:14 🙏🏾💖🕊️

[@JS-cu2cu]

My unbelieving bf left me yesterday after being together for 7 years. My hope is in Jesus for him to come to Christ. Please pray for McLean Pearson to come to Christ. I love him and care for him so much. He told me he fell out of love with me and isn’t happy anymore and that we should be with like minded people. It’s hard to obey God, I pray that McLean comes to Jesus I’m so heartbroken

[@mariah1975]

I pray that he comes to God too. Continue to stay close to God he is merciful and gives you grace

[@princeosaro25]

@@mariah1975 Amen

[@Mellowbluejay]

The same thing happened to me. He walked away from his faith over time and He told me he didn’t know if he loved me anymore and I found he was cheating on me within a month before our wedding & 6 year anniversary. So sorry girl. Pray for direction and god will give you clarity on your future!

[@juliabentley8022]

Update?

[@dennisray8904]

Pray for me please it's starting to feel like false hope 💔 I pray for reconciliation but it is very overwhelming to not know what God will do

[@ezraarel8418]

Amen Amen Amen….. we both need to walk through the throne room of God

[@littlemisstwiggy4529]

What a helpful video that’s right on time. God is so good 🙌

[@brianharnage4544]

When I first saw this video title, I thought this is not for us, but the Lord spoken said yes it is now listen. Thank you for this video for it explains what my fiancé and I are going through right now. we are engaged to be married, but she canceled the engagement. And I felt everything was falling apart and we both have drifted away and have not been able to communicate for three whole months. This video explains how I must allow God to bring about reconciliation and how he’s got a bigger purpose in allowing our broken relationship which should become so I don’t worshiping each other and pushing God out of it when it was God all along who brought us together and it is God who will reconcile this back together, but we have to put our trust and faith in God, and what he’s doing in this time, and not demand anything from God, but surrender our relationship to him, surrender each other to him and pray and seek God. Thank you for this video. May God continue to bless this ministry you have and may God bless my fiancé and I. I miss and love her so much and pray that God will reach to her heart and do a mighty work in her as he’s doing in me then we can come back and be stronger more. God centered and focused and accomplished everything he’s called us to do in ministry in marriage, and to have the beautiful children God promised us we would have if we would only follow his lead. God bless you for all that you are doing this ministry.

[@tiffanymonique82]

Thank you thank you thank you🙏🙏🙌👏♥

[@audreybell8388]

Thank you Dominic for this message. I really needed to hear this. I love my husband but I had to let go. I pray for him all the time I know I need God more than anything. This message has confirmed to let go and let God fix us. May God continue to bless you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@iamthestorm1004]

Thank you Dominic for another powerful message that was definitely perfect timing for me to hear this. Been really struggling with a breakup of a 2 year LDR. I so thought she was a blessing from God but clearly meant to be a lesson !! I've prayed for Gods intercession on my behave to take over and touch my beloved ex with the holy spirit, heal her broken heart and shattered soul Heal her from multiple medical ailments. Psychological emotional and mental disorders and to bless her with the will to forgive her bio dad, daughters father and her former husband And even myself for having to walk away from her this past August 29 2021 I know by my faith in my heavenly Father that she will be in the best of hands and I will continue to love her in my heart and pray for her daily God bless you brother 🙏🙏🙏❤

[@marvintalbot5075]

Good prayer you took the words right out of my mouth... But you could explain my innerman... thankypu I wanted tp paste and copy but I can not... Beautiful prayer God bless Marvin

[@tinasettle1026]

Wow!!! This man is powerful 😮

[@angelicagabrieli7169]

This is very timely. Thank you Domenic!

[@kristenbutler6557]

I needed this today. Exactly today and this came out.

[@lukamartha3229]

God thank you for this word, it's an eye opener. Oh God use me for you glory, and remove the veil from my husband eye in this failing world. Help me to trust you oh God.

[@321ready9]

Thank you. I am having a really tough time at the moment and you are helping. Praise God.

[@gurteenview]

Hello my dear sister in Christ I totally understand your pain, all I will say is that it wasn't until l got full of thee Word Jesus Christ that is when things really started to turn around. My circumstances did not change on the outside, but the completely changed on the inside of my innerbeing. It was the greatest thing that l lost what l lost because of the freedom it brought in my walk with Jesus. We must be broken, yes it will be painful but so so needed so as to be set free Stay strong and you will endure till the very end.

[@EastCoastFishnHunt]

Dominic, hearing your God given wisdom lifts my spirits during this tough season of my life... I love my spouse so much; I pray for her daily and that the Lord continues his work in ME... 18 years together and 3 wonderful children.. My the Lord keep and protect my wife.. God Bless this ministry!!

[@StayHumble-fe5eh]

Very much needed. Thank you. Definitely don’t want to do Gods job or miss a blessing.

[@jcabrerap1]

Thank you for that! U made it loud and clear! Thank u for using scripture to back up your counsel..... love how you related psychology to what is truth in scripture! Keep doing what you’re doing!

[@throughthefire1980]

Amen I needed to hear this

[@kathzambas6827]

I pray that God will reveal to Mads what he's been doing wrong, not just to me but to God...how he's been hurting me & God...I know that God can change him. there's no heart too hard for God to soften...God can open his eyes & let him see the light. I pray God will heal & restore our relationship for His greater glory. Amen.

[@royrodgers567]

Amen brother. Thank you. Glory to God

[@pattisanders4723]

Thank you for your encouraging words.. Praise God!

[@aprilwood1184]

I really appreciate your wisdom and biblical truth. Thank you. Lingering with expectation.

[@maryrophael3997]

Brother Dominic thank you for this blessed video. God bless you and your family 🙏🏼

[@Eightone331]

Thank you again for wise and Godly advice.

[@drea5973]

This has been so helpful! Thank-you.

[@brendahatieno2833]

Thank you for this wonderful massage pray for me so that my relationship be restored

[@TheVelvetFilo]

About to hit year 4 in separation. My husband is an unbeliever, I thought the goal was restoration but its been one sided the whole time. Coming to that place where I feel God is saying to let the marriage go. Its sad because it feels like betraying the children.

[@claudiapennisi7987]

Sounds like my situation..4 years now but he is "supposedly" a believer. Hope things work for the best for your situation!

[@JohnVelez-7]

Something similar with my wife 😓

[@coconuttyisland8232]

I understand completely what you are saying. It’s such a helpless and hopeless feeling.

[@claudiapennisi7987]

@Tehmine Royal I am sorry to say this but God gave the parents the responsibility to raise children justly and correctly. If we make mistakes in our marriages that is our fault, never God's!

[@claudiapennisi7987]

@Tehmine Royal Tehmine I checked your channel and started to watch one of the videos..it is atrocious to hear you speak of what your ex-husband was capable of doing to his family! Was there no justice for this? I hope you are both far away from his grasp! I don't know what your relationship with God is but I can tell you that if you draw yourself close to Him, He will always be with you..you and your daughter are in my prayers for healing 🙏

[@janedear5037]

He left because of my reaction to his cheating. We had lots of issues before. He doesn't take into account what he did. He does pile a list against me and not realize he did evil to me. I am praying for his living for Christ.

[@susansookdeo1465]

Prayers for Danny Sookdeo, Ricky chandrapaul,Nevesh zparmanand ,Anthony Ramlal. Ontario Canada 🇨🇦 ❤❤❤❤❤

[@sharleenmains1407]

Thank you Jesus and thank you Dominic!!

[@morningwoodfarms713]

The gift of pain brings the gift of sight. 🙏

[@sharonmcgillivray2119]

My question, is, HOW do you let go, not just when.

[@cosmicbrambleclawv2]

I'm not sure where my comment went to (I made it hours ago but just realized it's gone from my screen, rewatching this) But I needed this today, thank you Dominic ❤️ I've been struggling for almost 5 months now waiting for my prodigal friend to return, dealing with that fear and idolatry. I don't want to be obsessed but it's been difficult to get past things, this is the second time she has walked away and gotten involved with men who are not good for her. Now she is pregnant (by the same one she was pregnant by a few months back, who treated her poorly and left her while she was pregnant only to come back after she lost the child) and it seems she is still with this guy, or perhaps a new one but I don't know. I just really miss her and I hate to see her hurting, but with her history of not being able to bear a child to term I'm worried she is setting herself up to be very hurt, especially if she is still with this person who treats her badly. I know God is taking care of her and can use that for her greater healing, but it's a very unpleasant thing to stand by and watch her live that way and be hurt because she is choosing things she claims she doesn't want yet keeps choosing, and turning away from unconditional love

[@ijeomambah4304]

Truly blessed me.. being separated for 19months.. being wondering whether to tarry or release..Thank you

[@joseemmanuelmallari2811]

i wanna hug you pastor! thank you soo much

[@leighjacobs6125]

Dominic u r such a blessing, your videos are helping me so much thank You. 🙏

[@arianajones4033]

Dominic god bless your ministry I really needed this word I was having trouble hearing his and you just pin pointed all the reasons to look for now when I'm being attacked thank you Soo much for following gods will!!!!!

[@bloomandgrowministries2117]

"If you want to know if it's time to release and you're asking the question, it's not time yet." That'll preach.

[@juliabentley8022]

Wow! This is exactly point on

[@joyofsalvation100]

Perfectly said.

[@marvintalbot5075]

My wife betrayed our marriage vows Mar.2019. 3 years now. I dont think she loves me anymore. No time left for me. Does God want me to hang on to hope? Or let go? Broken busted and betrayed...me

[@littlemisstwiggy4529]

That’s the million dollar question for so many of us holding onto hope and trying to be obedient to Christ knowing he hates divorce but wanting resolve because it feels like a purgatory position. Not knowing to divorce and move on, wait for them to file, wait for our miracle. I know I keep thinking I hear from God but then I question what I thought I heard and ask for him to tell me again for the 20th time. This is what he means by terry on I believe. I’m right there with you. I pray for our strength through this pain I pray for our healing and breakthroughs and I pray for Gods peace that surpasses all understanding over our lives. Amen

[@marvintalbot5075]

@@littlemisstwiggy4529 Amen to that . And thank you I am not alone in my thinking. I know I control nothing. Gods will. Not ours. Amen

[@manda-panda]

It's hard to completely let go of all expectations and cast ur cares on God, asking only that His will be done. But unless we want to drive ourselves crazy then that's what we have to do. Completely let go, & expect nothing, focus on our relationship with God rather than focusing on our relationship with our estranged spouses. Only God can change their hearts, after all.

[@ralphey8189]

God wants you to love Him with your whole heart, and mind and soul. Let the Great Physician heal your heart and mind and soul and spirit. Once you have the relationship with Jesus Christ that 100% satisfies....then ask Him if you should wait or be free.

[@sharonmarshall8807]

Restoration of relationship with children. People can use the occult out of envy to destroy people. Mr. Cutis said he was paid by my step mom to make dad hate me. My mom was before she - step mom. Deuteronomy 18:9 to end. Forgive all enemie's evil. It pains but Psalms 126 and Isiah 54 :13

[@mattzeing7807]

You know my partner told me it's not God's will for us to date and I was surprised by this words,

[@eileenfuentes6975]

2:42 ❤❤❤❤❤ my personal bookmark

[@motorcyclemark2889]

A 35 year marriage my wife is throwing me away she's a believer I'm a believer makes no sense to me

[@sakurasakura2892]

Thank you..

[@eileenfuentes6975]

4:42 YES!!! Wow!

[@teresat6876]

My x is with another woman it’s his third one he told his children he won’t let go of this one because he is getting older and he does not want to keep looking I feel lost as I been praying for years

[@beautyforashesministries6257]

So where in the context of a marriage ending, is grief? How do we know what is healthy Grief and where we are crossing the line to something that is not of God? Like you talked about idols?

[@darlenemscott]

The sin of idolatry is real. It comes in so many different forms. We must be vigilant.

[@rosserscott4376]

God won't bless a second marriage if you're first spouse is still alive.

[@Hisagape4ever]

Can you back that scripturally?

[@rosserscott4376]

@@Hisagape4ever yes I can. Go read your Bible it's all there.

[@blue246]

@@Hisagape4ever You are only released from your FIRST spouse if they are dead, then you are free to remarry but only in the Lord. Romans 7:1-3 Matthew 19 1 Corinthians 7:39 There are many more scriptures in Genesis, Luke, Matthew etc plus ensure you read , Ruth, Ezra 10 and Hosea. Also, remember why John the Baptist was beheaded…..He told Herod he was in an unlawful marriage with his brother’s wife, because guess what? Her husband was still alive!

[@jenniferalshouse8254]

@@Hisagape4ever it's clearly in the Bible. Unfortunately most people can not accept it.

[@broman9216]

better read the bible some more. there 2 biblical reasons for divorce. 1 is unfaithfulness or adultery and the other is an unbelieving spouse that doesn't want to live with a believing spouse. it says let them go. I also would believe that drug addiction, alcoholism or wife beating, or child abuse might also be acceptable reasons but not doctrine. True repentance God will forgive. Divorce is not the unforgivable sin. God is ultimately the final authority so listen to the Holy Spirit.

[@kresivarivkah612]

Hi there! Thank you for this message. I'm struggling this morning. My husband and I were separated geographically due to the pandemic. He's Hungarian. I'm American. I learned that his prime reason for marrying me was for American citizenship. He is now engaged to another woman. I started the divorce process. I received a prophetic message to stay married. I am saved. My husband is not. I'm trying to be obedient. I paused the divorce process. I want to leave the marriage but I want to be obedient to God. I do not have any love or respect for my husband ATM. He has sent me pictures of the two of them. This is frustrating. He wants me to stay married for green card purposes. He wants me to be friends with this woman. Sigh. 😨 I need counsel. I need a word from God. I'm frustrated.

[@gx4ext]

I’m praying for you sister. This is a horrible situation to be in.

[@littlemisstwiggy4529]

I’m so sorry. I know the pain of seeing your husband in pictures with another woman. I just seen pictures today plus my husband and her claiming their relationship with each other on Facebook. Those details we don’t need because they’re from satan himself trying to destroy us. Let us press into our father as this video is telling us. This is one of those videos we need to listen to often as a reminder. Praying for you and all of us going through similar situations

[@CalynnA]

Thank you for your strong words of faith, Miss Twiggy, you woman of God. You are an inspiration ❤️

[@CalynnA]

To Kresivah and others, may we stand up in faith and love and keep pursuing the Lord above all ❤️

[@manda-panda]

I don't know ow who the "prophetic word" came from, but he is in adultery, does not love you, is not ur friend, is only using you for a green card, & already planning another marriage. So what then? Wait for him to get his green card & then divorce you?? Smh

[@aprilwood1184]

Wow….asking God to forgive me of idolatry. I want to be best established to have a healthy relationship. Protect me Lord

[@janegriffin3872]

Yes my husband keeps saying he thinks he better off alone- he has repeatedly said he feels the need for a restart ALONE.

[@StormsHurt]

Prayers for you two. Go to the Throne of Grace

[@eileenfuentes6975]

12:54 don't be mislead by other people's opinions about your marriage

[@shayweideman9896]

I love your videos. Thank you...not sure if it's my phone or is there no sound to this?

[@JohnVelez-7]

Must be your phone because I can hear it🙂

[@jojomunkee1675]

Try closing KZbin and opening again. This sometimes happens to me and that usually fixes it. 🙂

[@donna62016]

They always have sound issues

[@jenniferalshouse8254]

Remarriage is adultery unless to your first spouse who is your covenant spouse with God.

[@mariafinke9913]

Yes,Amen my husband is not with me to,he is depressief!i have waith 3years,but i most trust yhwh, halleluya!is so True wat you tell br,Dominic,the Lord have the control!we most pray:for all marriges. SHALOM For all br and sisters in pyn, He is the only True helper.Amen amen!

[@urbanhymns8880]

If aching for a spouse is idolatry, then no one should ever get married, because they should not have that desire, and should work on it and replace it with desire for God, but most can't. Paul said it is better to not marry, but better to marry than to burn with desire, which acknowledges a human desire for that companionship even in Christians.

[@robert81069]

Aching for a spouse? What?

[@manda-panda]

The point is to put Christ first, before ur spouse or anyone else.

[@maribelrivera300]

I am lost!!! I was seeing Ricardo for 3 years. He then in December says he wants to see others, no relationship just sex. I live next door to him. I prayed for restoration, I prayed for deliverance. I placed fleeces before God, I always received confirmation that we would be restored, I still live him, but today confirmed he is seeing another, his coworker. My soul is torn asunder… I don’t ask him for nothing, I try to avoid him, but if I asee him I am cordial. I come home and cry and pray. I know he is my meant to be husband, but I don’t know God’s Will anymore, I don’t want to go against God, help me to let go.

[@godsown7947]

I Am in the same predicament as u ..let's pray for restoration of our relationships..

[@tnj4ever]

Maybe you were not hearing from God...and if he's not your husband you're free to leave.

[@manda-panda]

This is why sex before marriage isn't good, because you form soul ties to a person who is not your spouse, then you have to deal with that grief. Ricardo told you what's important to him, jist sex, & it definitely has nothing to do with God. Why do you think God would want you with a man like that?

[@maribelrivera300]

@@manda-panda it’s not I who had sex with him, I want a marriage not just sex. I have loved this man over 30 years, for decades we lost touch, then unexpectedly encountered eachother. I am willing and praying to do God’s Will, yet the love I have for this man is still in me. Since I was 19 and now 55, even when separated he was in my heart, and in the time we were separated we always without knowing lived less than 5 miles from each other, worked in same hospital, without knowing, our kids were friends in school without us knowing, I always prayed for him, even with out knowing his whereabouts, I prayed God watch over him

[@Donalew]

First of all: you say it was sex bounding you. Looks like youve developed Ungodly soul ties. Ask the Lord to be forgiven and free from that warped relationship. God Almighty wants you to trust Him with the right person (husband of God) x

[@gslovethemusic]

Can I still pray for reconciliation and that person?

[@user-ln2lz9io2z]

I stand long enough but when you chest right in front of me I’m out

[@Regirl75]

I think I’m confused. I’ve been married for 28 years. Husband stepped out of the covenant. We aren’t supposed to be praying they come back to the marriage because we have fear of losing them? And lose Gods blessing? But don’t listen to friends that urge us to leave…? I keep rewinding that part.. I think it’s the 4 min mark to the 8 min mark. I’m praying that he come back to God and this affair he’s in be broken. Help me understand this. EDIT- It’s at the 5:45 mark

[@Regirl75]

I had to listen to the rest of the video. I think I get it now. Release them, do not subject ourselves to suffering and leave it to God that their life be restored back to God.

[@user-it6oj4wm9w]

I might be mistaken, but it seems that what Dominic is implying is that SURRENDERING our prodigal spouses to God is not the same thing as giving up on them and the marriage we once had with them. Of course we want to see our marriages restored; we wouldn’t be listening to this podcast if we didn’t. What’s more, Dominick isn’t diminishing the importance of marriage; it is a sacred institution that God has ordained. But the thing is, we can’t turn things around in our own strength, and this (I think) is Dominic’s point… as difficult and counterintuitive as it seems, we need to say to Jesus: “I’m choosing to surrender them to you. I still love them. I still want this marriage. But you’re the only one-the ONLY one-who can stitch our marriage back together. And so again, I place my spouse and this marriage in your hands.”

[@LiaDuarteGoossen]

7 years…. If you gals think 7 months 2 yrs is bad… 7 yrs for me

[@aprilwood1184]

❤

[@goyim8858]

I understand what your going through. Just behind you. in length of time

[@Anonymous-qe1zh]

Does this apply to relationships too or just marriage?

[@anjumohanty8060]

YOU PEOPLE ARE HIGHLY LEARNED PEOPLE WITH GOD'S WISDOM ....but I am a very very very normal woman ..who was cheated once by her own married husband and after spending 13 long years of single life forced to trust and love again ....BUT AFTER SPENDING A 5 LONG YEARS OF TOGETHERNESS WITH ALL MY HEART AGAIN THIS MAN FORGOT ALL HIS PROMISES AND SECRET MARRIAGE INFRONT OF GODS IN TEMPLES .....LEFT MY HAND JUST BECAUSE I COULD NOT MEET ALL HIS FINANCIAL DEMANDS ...HE FORGOT ALL MY UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND SINCERITY 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@michaelford5885]

How do I get in on these zoom meetings ?

[@donna62016]

Do you have books on your teachings and prayers?

[@mildredwessner6189]

God doesn't like divorce!

[@faithsukhoo5437]

How do I get on zoom

[@kyleesharp378]

God was the one who betrayed me. He gave me the Judas kiss. He pretended to love me but he was just leqding me to heartbreak. God has hurt me worse than my adulterous abandoning husband ever did. I have prayed that god will prove that he didnt lie to me. So far it looks like he refuses to prove that he didnt lie. I will not lie, even for god. That is my testimony.