Retired Txoj kev ua zoo lawm~06/16/2024~

[@mayotao1024]

You’re not wrong. People will not love you the way you love them. Rather not go all out anymore. Good that you found your peace. Do what you can only.

[@lotusvert7024]

Koj ua tau yogkawg lawm ❤

[@daovue7484]

Good for you ❤ may God continue to bless you and your family

[@onlygod5667]

I hate these types of relatives....

[@payang3701]

Tseg Txoj kev siab zoo Thaum luag siv tau yus mas luag pom yus zoo tiam sis thaum luag siv tsis tau ces txhob vam luag yuav hlub yus .

[@kazouavue2939]

Yu ces yu lub siab zoo zoo, yu xav tias lwm tus muaj lub siab zoo li yu thiab. Txhob tu siab os. You live and you learn.

[@pvp503]

That’s how people is,, the more you give the more they expect..

[@minalee6453]

Too nice, no boundaries. People will walk all over you. Learn learned.

[@leek-te5dx]

I always say the good one lose in the end. Smarten up people are selfish. Family or no family.

[@Fromspam09]

Its human nature to take take and take...test to see how far and how much they can get for free. Its a lesson better lesrnt late than never. Glad you finally retire your kindness to these peps.

[@poggersrus1802]

Your beginning thinking was like my mom until the day she passed and those people never loved and cared for at all, so what you and your wife did was a good thing. A lesson will learned!!! Thank you for sharing.

[@shathao24]

Txhob tua siab. Tso tseg kev mob siab. Koj ua zoo txaus lawm. Xav tias them nuj nqis tag lawm so in the future, you don't help alot, you're at ease and peace because you had done plenty lawm. Don't regret and just focus on your future.

[@KevinVan-Kresnik]

We need a nice people club, people who have no family can adopt each other.

[@ElleLauj]

This is exactly how it is. Never put anyone before yourself and your immediate family in your household. People are ungrateful and unappreciative.

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

What a sad story!

[@maixiong-mu5cm]

It's ok to be nice cuz there's not enough good people in the world. However, sometimes u have to be mean in order to be nice. It's impossible to be nice all the time. People tend to disrespect you easily if they know that u're a soft hearted person. Also, when you volunteered to help others, don't expect those people to return your kindnesses. Only the thoughtful ones will repay ur kindnesses. Glad you u are cancer free. God knows that u're a good person that's why he helped you get better. See, ur kindnesses weren't wasted. U didn't die cus u have a good heart. Please take care of yourself. Praying for you 🙏.

[@michaelf2700]

Only love & help people the same way they love & help u. Dont bend over backwards for someone if they dont do the same for u.

[@Nraugkevdeb1]

Thanks for sharing

[@SuabNkaujStudio24]

Tus mi nus aw txhob tu siab mog koj Li es tseem yog tej kwv tij sab nrauv os mog, kuv Li es nim yog kiag kuv niam tug kuv kuv ob tug mi nus kuv nian yug ua rau kuv os mog. Yus cov niam txiv ib plab ua rau yus mas yus haj yam tu siab os mog

[@maithao1139]

Yep ur story is so true. Ppl will take advantage of you only when u are a benefit to them. They will never be able to return the favor so it's best to focus on ur self and ur own family. Set ur priorities and put ur family first. Everyone else u do what u can. Don't need to go above and beyond because at the end of the day only ur wife n kids matter.

[@marielor2255]

Brother aw tiam no ua zoo los yeej tsis tau zoo li nawb u ua li u ua tau xwb . Kuv twb retied txoj kev ua zoo lawm thiab vim tias lawm yeej tsis pom u txoj kev ua zoo.

[@spenceryoung4422]

Neb khub niam txiv no siab mes!!!

[@lubneejKajsiab-99]

Lq

[@nengxiong6991]

Kwv tij qhov koj ua siab dawb yog txoj hmoo koj cawm dim ntawm koj tus mob cancer vim ntuj muaj qhov muag , hos qhov koj muaj mob kiag thiab tsis enjoy koj lub neej yog koj pab ua noj ua haus , haus Beer haus cawv dhau lawm nawb !! Kuv pom tsis txog 100 los yeej txog 10 leej nce lawm haus Beer haus cawv ces tsis mob plab ulcer los yeej mob stroke thiab cancer leej twg tsis ntseeg los sim thiaj paub .

[@KhueYang-c8b]

Self-love first and no Mr. Nice

[@pangvang2304]

Thanks for sharing muaj tseeb tiag tiag zaj no thaum kuv tus txiv tsis tau mob ua dab tsi tsis NCO khuv lub zog tab txij kuv tus mob no kuv pom neeg lub siab ib yam li tus txiv ntxawm no tag kuv taug koj txoj kuv lawm thiab tsis ua neeg zoo lawm hlub yus tus kheej thiab yus tej me niam txiv tub lawm xwb.

[@maivang6987]

Peb ua neeg nyob tsis yog niam txiv ib plab yug ces tsis txhob cia siab tias luag yuav hlub yus mog . thaum luag thov ces yus pub dawb hos thaum txog yus ces yuav tau them nyiaj xwb es tsis txhob hlub22 luag mog es yus hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua nawb mog .

[@TMoua79]

Being too nice, people takes advantage of you. That’s just life 101. If you’re okay with that, then so be it.

[@myprecious6751]

You're too nice and kind! Those people are fakes. They're only using you. Taking your kindness for granted

[@nkaujhmoobvaj1491]

As human, we always have to learn the hard way.

[@kyaj5781]

Txhob tus siab. Neb yeej hlub sawvdaws lawm. Neb tej kev ua zoo, koob moov yeej yuav ncuav ntau rov los rau neb xwb. Enjoy living your new adventure life from here on.

[@mosvaj1385]

I like this Title.

[@CloverStarz]

Love those love you f the rest

[@noulongyang4555]

You feel sad that these kwv tij was not there for you because they were not biological, don't be. That is not true! Even kwv tij that are biological will not be there for you when you needed them too! You were right about many of the lessons from your experience, one for sure, put yourself and your immediate family (wife and children) first and live a peaceful and quiet life. Your wife and you have given enough, you as a couple have already paid your dues.

[@MsPangY]

Omg, you and me both!! Some of us think being mean to them is cruel but it’s the best way to deal with idiots!! Sometimes, you go into a family, friends and people and expect or thought that they do you good like you do them!! Now, you tramatized for life!! Don’t want to do good to people anymore!!

[@pahouayang1063]

Yus ib leeg xwb txawm yus ua npaum cas los kwvtij nkauj muam tsis pom. Vim hmoob lub tswvyim xav hlub thiab pab cov muaj kwvtij coob xwb. I been there done that.

[@nhiachouathao6251]

Nim Yuav hais kwv tij sib zeem os qhab naj khwv tij yug tib plab twb tseem tsis Pab os

[@ljvue]

I’m the same way. I had to learn the hard way that people are not as kind as I am. No more.

[@dolliilov3144]

Like I told my ex-husband, it's OK to be super nice but there are boundaries to set. He didn't listen and in the end, his family and relatives took advantage of him to where he's super broke now and not one of them gave a hand to help him. Some people have to learn the hard way. SMH!

[@wisteria4550]

A lot of people just want to take and take.

[@pkcyang2910]

Cas cov niag kwvtij no es tsis paub txajmuag li tiag. Koj twb pab thiab hlub lawv npaum ntawv es tuaj pab koj tseem yuav2 nyiaj thiab ces txhob pab2 lawv lawm. Lawv ua li cas rau yus ces ua li ntawv rau lawv xwb mas. Hlub tus hlub yus

[@missysmart8620]

Yog kawg los mas ib cov kwv tij ces tsuas xam thiab hlub yus thaum yus noj qab nyob zoo xwb os. Glad you are ok and live your life for yourself.

[@chatvang5648]

Brother, I'm glad you learned your lesson well. Been there done that. Move on and love yourself is a good thing. In fact, they just used you and you even know some might even hate your gut because they can't do what you do. They don't bury you only your wife and kids. Good luck!

[@zoolikuv]

Don't judge people who prioritize themselves, because we don't know what they have been through.

[@countrylivingpets4135]

Kwv tij aw, zoo siab uas koj zoo lawm. Moob ces yeej coj li ntawv os. Yog lawv coob lawm ces yeej muaj plhus li ntawv. Cov laus hais tias moon hlub moon no tab sis dag xwb nawb. Brother move far away from those ppl like that.

[@kevinher4010]

Ua zoo tau phem ces yog li no tiag.

[@TrinityXiong-o2d]

Neeg lam hais tias ua zoo tau ntuj ntoo xwb ua zoo ces tau phem xwb tsuav yus txhob mus ua tub sab tua neeg npog nroj ntsuab xwb lwm yam zoo ces neeg muaj siab ntsws ib yam tus uas hais tias pab luag lawm pab dawb paug txhob vam kom luag pab yus rov qab ces yog nws lam dag luag lem tus thiab dag nws tus kheej xwb hauv ntiaj teb no yeej tsis muaj ib tug neeg ua li ntawv li yus pab luag ces twb yog yus ntshai tsam txog yus tsis muaj neeg pab yus ntag

[@tsis-k-koj]

Now days you do nice to people the will take advantage of you and not remember all the good you have done for them. As the saying goes "no good deed goes unpunished".😢

[@nancymoua4982]

Nco ntsoov hais tias koj muaj thiab zoo tshaj luag ces luag yeej take advantage of you. Thaum koj tsi zoo lawm luag tsuas hnyo thiab enjoy watch you fail.

[@meemeezong1827]

My husband and I use to help friends, families and employees. Then we slowly learned that people will take but never give back. They will stab and steal from you every chance they get. Two years ago, we decided never to help people again.

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

When you are too nice, you get used and taken advantage of. I have learn to say "NO". Always think about you, your wife, and kids first. People will use you until you are useless to them. Its sad, but true. Everyone learns the hard way. Nice people gets worn out quickly.

[@MSMAIYANG]

This is the reason why my husband said if we have land, we will only allow our parents to garden. If not them, no one can. Not that we are mean. We’ve seen and heard too many stories so we have to set boundaries.

[@hmongremark2686]

Neb hlob ua ib zaj khawv khoob yog $200.00 no ces tsim nyog neb tsis txhob khom nqe kom nkawv nqes thiab nkawv los tsis tsim nyog yuav. Nkawv tsuas yuav ua dab qhuas chaw ntseeg thaum neb cev rau nkawv xwb. Tom qab ntawv nkawv rov muab cev rau neb thiaj yog vim nej txoj kev sib hlub tseem muaj rau 2 tog.

[@MV-ct6nj]

Cov hmoob ruam no tsis zoo li koj os. Koj lub siab zoo2 they take advantage of you. Get rid of all of them.

[@tswjntug2346]

Thaub, koj yog ib tug neeg hlob quav nyuj, quav npua xwb koj cov kwv tuj thiaj tsis xam pom koj kev hlub. Uz neeg mas yuav tau ntse zog luag thiaj saib yus.myaj nuj nqis, txhob cia lwm tus noj tau yus or take advantage of your.

[@444902720xv]

I was once just as nice as you are brother but I do learned my lesson by taking everyone for granted and assumed that they will always remember my generosity. In the end, it's the other way around. Now I don't give a rat ass about other people's needs unless they pass my vetting.

[@euyang6510]

Lawv yeej tsis hlub yus li os Vim lawv yog cov noj yus xwb Os mes tub lawv yeej tsis xav Li yus xav os mog

[@neejhmoob9347]

Yus yog neeg siab zoo zoo ces xav tias lwm tus yuav zoo li yus no tiam sis ua zoo yeej tau phem ntau xwb.

[@houahyang8791]

Some friends only take but not a friends of giver . Stay away for being good person Be good only for your blood family

[@MsBL32]

I have to blame you both on this!! I understand your kind but there are boundaries and privacy that you need in life, you welcomed them to do what they please on your property and house. I really can’t understand the situation, you did it to yourself!

[@miabhlub63]

Don't be too nice, people will take advantage of you.

[@ndzaeumoua7006]

Tus nus tsis muaj hnub ua koj ua zoo rau cov kwv tij es lwm hnub lawv yuav hlub koj os,peb cov hmong Française no muaj ib qho version hais tias,quand tu es trop gentille Ils te prennent pour un con ok.,a l'avenir soyez prudents et ne faites plus confiance à personne et cadeau pour personnes.😊.

[@paris3478]

Yim ua zoo lawv yim saib tsis taus os.txawm ib pab kwv tij ib plab yug los es koj txawm ua zoo los lawm yeej tsis pom li.yog koj zoo pab mam pab.zoo cem yeej cem ntag ces tis qab lawv mam paub hwm thiab hlub yus os.kuv twb pom kiag ntawm lub qhov muag los lawm ma.tsis yog tus qhua,yus tev neeg kiag,niam txiv ib plab yug xwb tiag.koj ua zoo dhau lawm ces lawv yeej muab koj tsuj tuag nthi li os.

[@pangdaoxiong9459]

You’re at fault. You didn’t set boundaries in the beginning so they took advantage of your kindness. It’s soo annoying and bothersome how you’d let those people get into your space like that.. hopefully you learned your lesson. You can have your boundaries and still be kind.

[@tongyang6314]

Peb hmoob siab phem2 txhob ua zoo2 rau neeg lawm nawb, ua li yus ua tau xwb thaum txog yus ces luag hais nyiaj npaum ub npaum no tuaj rau yus xwb. Muaj kwv tij los yeej zoo hos tsis muaj los yeej haj yam zoo, kwv tij ces nyiaj ua ntej xwb luag thiaj paub nrog yus hais.

[@GhOst-fv7kf]

The story sound like re-run

[@mlee7800]

Good for you and your wife to put both feet down and do U!

[@maivlisl0]

This guy bragged too much about himself. It's good to be nice and kind, but that's overkill. Your intent for doing this was to receive love, but unfortunately, most people do not feel that way. They only use you for their benefit. Sad!!

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Tried to buy love and respect, but failed. Ua cas es hmoob nim yuav ua cuag li tsis muaj kwv tij ces yuav tuag. Miskas feem coob yug ib ob tug mi nyuam los tau ntau xyoo. Cov mi nyuam ib ob leeg ntawd lawv twb nyob lawv tsis tuag tsis ua cas sav.

[@charlieyang9389]

😢😅❤😂😢

[@MTlee-zr4oh]

Hmoob yeej phem coj li ntawm….khwvTij xav2 siv yus, lawv tshua hlub thiab pab yus thaum yus muaj2 xwb

[@maimoua1371]

Tus me brother aw kuv los yeej tau 6 koj nkawm khau tib yam os .qhov muaj nuj nqes ces swb yus tus m txij nkawm thiab yus cov menyuam seb lawv puas yog yus lub chaw cia siab xwb .3 yuav kawm tau ntau2 yam thaum peb raug kev txom nyem

[@xayxiong1061]

Sad that you got used! Should’ve been smart in the first place bc blood will always be thicker than water.

[@poggersrus1802]

Bro, hopefully you have learned your lesson and don't let other people take advantage of you again. You should charge the people for using your land and truck. Not others will love you the same as you think and do. I believe that God have opened your eyes by causing you sick so that way you will get to know your so called relatives' hearts and the real them, that they will not love you like you do to them. Things happen for a reason, bro. Fake relatives and charge them for the usages too. Nothing comes free!!!

[@youwatchme3631]

Peb cov tsis muaj kwvtij nkauj muam no mas yog koj yim hlub luag ces luag yim ntsia yus yog neeg ruam nawb. Yus yim ua siab zoo hlub sawvdaws los lawv yim khaw noj dawb nawb. Pov xyooj muaj ib lolus rau peb cov twmzeej no siv

[@TV-lp4qi]

U let them walk all over you by yourself

[@lukemoua9027]

Mus ntseeg vaj tswv xwb mas dab thiaj nrhiav tsis tau, cov ntseeg thiaj nrog yus ua kwv tij.

[@phem55]

Yog kawg os tus txivtsev.., kuv ib txwm hais rau kuv tutxiv hais tias txhob siab zoo..zoo tsis tau ntujntoo, kuv tutxiv wb twb pom kiag li neb pom thiab, thiaj li mus caum Vajtswv lawm xwb Nws thiaj tsis mom peb txheej os…