REVEALING YOUR TINDER SECRETS

[@allietrudel5393]

Hi, I'm the one who dated the Mama's Boy. To answer your question Alyx, I stayed because he actually treated me well. I had just gotten out of a 4 year emotionally abusive relationship with a narcissist. Mama's boy, was almost a breath of fresh air after that 4 year ordeal. Anyway, he has a mullet now and builds bird houses ✌✌✌

[@joewinkler8932]

first

[@gal1l1l-f7c]

[@trinitymornjngstar]

oh thats nice

[@Chariiss]

Oh to have a mullet and build bird houses what a life

[@shreyachaudhary1249]

Is his behaviour the same now?

[@alyssa915]

i’m honestly terrified for this, but not as terrified as for cousin secrets…

[@heracosmic]

Nah Alyx knows better than to pull a cousin secrets

[@sunsetdreams4921]

@@heracosmic oh that did not age well...

[@TrystaTaylor]

@@sunsetdreams4921 not at all Lmfao

[@catherine2225]

To the woman that sees the coworkers husband on tinder: you should tell the wife but anonymously because if they decide to stay together, you will be the bad guy ://

[@Chariiss]

💀💀 i did this, not anonymously, but now she’s single and just bought herself a Mercedes so I’d say it was a win

[@maxissad5823]

@@Chariiss queen shit

[@Gnome0003]

@@Chariiss omg im so happy for her LOLL she deserves a mercedes

[@tipsygamergf8997]

the secret about the 28 year old that started sobbing when his headlight was out and said his 'easy' job was too stressful makes me think that person has some intense mental health issues like an anxiety disorder or autism (I sometimes experience meltdowns over very small things like that and im possibly on the spectrum, I also am 20 and take my mom with me like everywhere because everyday things can feel extremely overwhelming). that man def needs therapeutic intervention to learn how to become more independent, respect boundaries, handle rejection, and resolve some of those mommy issues tho!

[@jamessavent3636]

Well, when your mommy dies, you're gonna have abandonment issues🤣🤣🤣

[@madbornstudio]

Looks like you need to be medicated for Anxiety disorder.

[@AJ-zf6oh]

@@jamessavent3636 Why are you laughing its not really funny.

[@finleygray417]

as an autistic person i just want you to know that autism is a developmental disability, not a mental health issue. autism is not any type of mental health condition, that's a common misconception.

[@jamessavent3636]

@@AJ-zf6oh because it's funny

[@rinnace]

i think the main themes and lessons from this episode are to: 1. don’t over accommodate 2. trust your intuition and red flags and 3. just… don’t use tinder

[@honeybear5792]

never used tinder or been on omegle and I'm proud to say so🤞🏾😌

[@somecuber7001]

@@honeybear5792 same bro

[@slayyyder]

you should definitely do a "love your videos" secrets

[@k9roppi]

YES

[@kai_guy9657]

Why do I feel like it would be pretty much every secret ever submitted lmao

[@slayyyder]

@@kai_guy9657 LOL its so funny to me when the secrets are like i drowned somebody.. love your videos though!

[@kai_guy9657]

@@slayyyder it's just such a funny change of pace

[@JessieArt]

IM SO HAPPY I THOUGHT IT WAS A COMPILATION AND WHEN I REALISED ITS A NEW VID I GOT SO HAPPY YAYAYAYAY

[@AxxLAfriku]

I broke my feet today because I kicked my computer because someone commented that my videos are bad! I hate unjustified criticism. Please wish me a speedy recovery, dear jess

[@MauveMimi]

Yea I love her but I want new secrets instead of compilations 😭 I’ve been addicted this this series ever since she started it.

[@avahale2321]

@@AxxLAfriku how do you kick your computer with both ur feet

[@arianasleftmiddletoe]

@@AxxLAfriku It’s cuz they are 😕

[@e.y.a7140]

@@AxxLAfriku omg axxl no way we meet here I thought you only hung out on video essays with your weird comments🤩🤩

[@anisadlamini6385]

One day, you should paranormal secrets pretty please 😊

[@savedthroughgracebyfaith]

that’s a really good idea

[@Ayaunno]

I would love that

[@alexia3552]

ooh ooh ooh yes

[@pamelab4910]

You inspired me and really taught me a valuable lesson. As old as I am (28) I finally hear someone say the truth about men!! Women definitely are very accommodating and it’s ridiculous! My love language is catering to my man and making sure he knows how much I want him around. It’s really shut me down and shied me away from dating the fact that men take advantage of that! They use that against me ugh. It’s a lot but thanks for putting this out there and making me realize that I deserve some effort.

[@6iths3nse]

Well truth is that both parties should put in the same amount of effort.

[@Hollytargaryen]

Yes we are far too accommodating

[@lillym5908]

Yes girl! Respect your own mental health and happjness by choosing partners who respect you in turn 💜

[@maepicnic2460]

The right man who will want a women like you will reciprocate it back

[@MyDarkerSide3]

you should never have to feel like you need to "keep someone around" when you're in a healthy relationship.

[@khanhfident]

The number of times I’ve seen taken men on dating apps, told their girlfriends, and they didn’t believe me is… insane.

[@destineyrosa7609]

Literally even with screenshots. Now she has baby with him 2 years after telling her, he’s probably still cheating

[@annepickens2042]

Say it louder for those in the back. Even if you send them screenshots !

[@EspeciallyOnetinez]

imagine submitting a secret & not only does alyx feature it, she calls you hot

[@whizzabellex]

I think for my own sanity I'm going to pretend that last secret is definitely not true

[@dailytrash8540]

I mean it didn’t make sense to me how she was a runaway teen but then came back home with this random 40 year old, like was was their intention with that in the first place?

[@Gafafsg]

@@dailytrash8540 I think by “runaway teen” she means that she ran away multiple times but kept coming back right away because she didn’t have anywhere else to go (as is the case with a lot of kids in unstable households)

[@joeeckroth2932]

That last secret simultaneously cured and worsened my depression

[@xcelestialsongx]

I'm legitimately angry with the mama's boy mother. It's clearly her fault he's the way he is. He needs a ton of therapy and to get away from his mom ASAP. She has screwed him up to no end by not letting go of her attachment to her "baby boy" well past an appropriate age. So now he is completely dependent on her. So unbelievably messed up and selfish.

[@letterborneVods]

Hm, you sound overly judgmental. You have no idea what might be going on. For example, I would completely fall apart if my mom wouldn’t help me with things (currently getting an autism diagnosis). My younger brother is mentally stuck at around 8-10 because of a learning disability and will never be able to do anything on this own. You’d call my mom selfish just for not abandoning him, which would probably lead to him becoming homeless or being taken advantage and so on? I know you probably did not picture this scenario when you wrote this, but I’m letting you know because your words might really hurt some people. With that said, I guess the main problem is just that you didn’t verbally accommodate for other situations, because in the absence of any disability or mental illness/distress (or any other reason a person might need help) I agree with you, parents should always try their best to help their children achieve the most independence they can.

[@cherrymintzasmr797]

@@letterborneVods you’re reaching.

[@chickenandsilver1649]

yes. yes yes absolutely yes.

[@lex3651]

You uploaded this at the perfect time! I was looking for something to watch while I eat ☺️

[@sarah-janeharrison8640]

i thoroughly enjoyed my cornetto and cookie dough through this vid. Who knew such vile stories don’t deter me from food.

[@khanhfident]

Every minute of this video makes me more anxious as we get to the last secret…

[@nikkievans2023]

I really think Alyx should do a video on the responses from these anonymous people to see how they feel about what she said. Cause honestly I agree with everything.

[@alexia3552]

23:23 NEVER tell your abusive partner you are leaving, especially if you are a woman. You have extremely high odds of being killed by your partner for announcing you're leaving them. If at all possible, contact a helpline or shelter so you have someplace to go. Either leave the house abruptly sometime when they are out, go to work and never come home, or if possible, pack a bag or even all your things if they are gone for a weekend or something. If you have to leave with the clothes on your back, grab your important papers (actually, find a way to sequester these into a bank safe deposit box or something ASAP). Then, later, with the police or other very formal accompaniment (preferably several people), go to your place of residence and pick up your things _with them present in the room with you at all times_. Wishing safety to all of you out there in this situation. Freedom is attainable, both physically and mentally.

[@omi_shad]

If you want to tell someone something secretly, send an anonymous letter and make sure to type it out so they can't recognise the handwriting. Hope this helps!

[@he-men-achoo-mah-say-row6873]

me just thinking about jersey shore and how they did this and it didn’t end well for jwow 😭

[@aeriannayork2701]

@@he-men-achoo-mah-say-row6873 or any of them for that matter

[@emeliamay507]

i love the revealing secret videos. quite easily my favourite videos 😭😭

[@whosyou3022]

16:48 These type of guys i can't even blame them It's the moms that force these relationships into thinking that the only person they need is their mom basically keeping them like a lil child

[@Edensholders]

The cheater husband secret- ofc you should tell her!! Imagine she'll find out and discover that you knew for the longest time... you'll become the villian instead of the hero, she better find out by you doing the right thing and not the other way around

[@wrenimations6188]

THE TAMPON IN THE PILLOW CASE HAD ME ROLLINGGGG 😭😭😭 PLS IVE BEEN SOBBING ALL DAY AND THAT BROKE ME

[@sidewalkbear2916]

You should do party secrets!

[@arianavail]

Fun fact: the accidental dad fuck was “normal”. (I say that VERY loosely) It’s apparently incredibly common and a real phenomenon in which a child and father (it might be mothers as well I’m not sure) are separated from a young age and when they are reunited - be it accidental or intentional - it can result in an intense attraction. Thanks for that weird information L&O: SVU lol Also -doesn’t make it okay or less insane

[@eva_peterson]

sigmund freud rn😏😏😏

[@hncounts]

I've watched like every single confession vid you have, and there are plenty of times I feel for you. But NEVER until that last one have I felt the intense urge to find you and hug you solely based on the fact that you read someone else's secret! Man, that was rough!! Hope you recovered eventually!

[@gabbyh5119]

Yep…that last secret was the worst 🧎🏻‍♀️

[@communistcardib1991]

as a transfemme, id like to use that last secret to show the trans younglings why we do NOT hook up with chasers 😁

[@ugh_doll]

Trans dude here just wanted to say is there something with transfemmes and communism or generally trans people and communism because I know so many transfemmes who refer to it alot and honestly so do I

[@communistcardib1991]

@@ugh_doll for me, no corelation between the transness and the communism, but its probably general "fuck the cistem!" (ba dum tss) mentality of going against the grain that is engraved into us while just trying to live

[@ugh_doll]

@@communistcardib1991 that makes a lot of sense and I feel that statement

[@tegancouncil7612]

Alyx stands for women's rights and women's wrongs.

[@michellemoisa500]

Omg I laughed so hard at the tampon story and the way you told and responded was HILARIOUS I’m ded

[@Sandra-cn4wn]

can we talk about how pretty alyx looks here

[@dailycupofizzy]

That’s exactly what I was thinking. Her skin is glowing

[@cassiusfelix2805]

She always does

[@eringriswold4837]

@@cassiusfelix2805 ur so right

[@wrejned8590]

Forreal

[@k9roppi]

can we talk abt how shes pretty in every vid

[@dylan-tristamoores2077]

I need to hear the “anyways.. love your vids!” category. The messed up ones always end like that 😂

[@kathleentotten3453]

There are two types of mama's boys, the type that are best friends with her and look up to her for advice but are completely independent, then there's the type that are completely dependent on her and won't make any decisions without her.

[@amandamcbride1083]

I don’t understand the mamas boy one… like how do you get through all of this and get to the point of engagement?

[@ninaysabeld]

Right? This question will keep me up tonight lol

[@allietrudel5393]

@Lamou Lamou I'm right here, ask away

[@bubzilla6137]

@@allietrudel5393 The fact that he's building birdhouses now makes sense, the fact that you added he has a mullet? That just made me laugh!😂🤣 I feel bad about it, but I laughed and I can't change that. I'm glad you got out of that relationship before you lost yourself... 🙂🙂🙂

[@minafra1717]

@@allietrudel5393 Hey , do you think he may have been maybe abused by his mum? or maybe he has any other mental issues and that's why he is so dependant on her. or maybe she just smothers him all the time he never got the chance to be independent...Im so intrigued bc ive heard about a similar case to this but the other person was severely sa d by their own mother.

[@allietrudel5393]

@@minafra1717 no I don't believe he was. He was an only child, adopted at birth by older parents. His mother was I think in her mid 70's at the time we were together. She smothered him beyond words. She called him "her special boy" in front of me at one point. I fully believe he is on the spectrum. Throughout our whole relationship I begged him to get therapy. I was in therapy at the time; and while I was improving, he was spiraling. I left before I could watch him completely unhinge. I couldnt take it anymore. He had no sense of self. He turned our relationship into his identity. I explained to him countless times that he needs to be an individual. I couldn't even tell him about my day because if I had a bad day or something he would literally cry at the fact I had a bad day. It got to a point where I could see it was unhealthy for him to be with me. I was patient and tried my best to explain how unhealthy it was to revolve his life around me. He just couldn't understand. I know I hurt him immensely by leaving, but he couldn't see how much he was hurting himself in the relationship. I dipped and never looked back. I care for his well being and I truly hope he gets help in the future. As of now, I know he hasn't gotten help and still believes he's fine (yet gripes on twitter about his "shitty life").

[@izherimonet]

“I ghosted him shortly after riling him up” this is so funny to me lmaooo 😂💀

[@katfore9585]

Every time I watch your videos the secret ones especially. I love them so much I just lay my phone down and close my eyes and just an array of happy pink and calming blue and yellow fill my mind while I listen to people’s secrets about eating human flesh.

[@Floralysz]

Alyx, I really enjoy watching you and have been a supporter for quite sometime. I just wanted to say that we really appreciate any content you put out and most of us just love to see you happy. So do what you feel not what you feel like others expect. You’re amazing and will do great at whatever you pursue!

[@valley_sock_zero]

05:10 "we're all women" is the best quote I've heard from Alx so far XD

[@aquarion6457]

I mind my own business. Last time I tried to tell a girl she accused me of trying to get with him out of jealousy. It will always backfire.

[@The_Life_of_Maddy]

or just say it anonymously. that seems better bc than at least they know

[@privatefields]

Damn that last one sounded euphoria level of fucked up lmao

[@111jade]

this is revealing your secrets #48 i think for 50 you should FINALLY give us cousin secrets 😭

[@ackity]

well, you got your wish around 80

[@111jade]

@@ackity I'd like to think it was all because of my comment that got 24 likes💪🏾💪🏾/j

[@personal8996]

I like how these secret videos have turned into therapy

[@gauzeeeee]

this was such a good video! i love when horrible secrets are mixed with fun and wholesome ones. ughhhh this series is my life source also u can block someone on spotify on desktop!

[@clowninaround2430]

Where are the cousin secrets? I wanna be afraid and be shivering in my timbers please

[@buttertoes6304]

i really want that too but i feel like majority of them will just be crazy fake stories

[@alexbroski3835]

Teacher student secrets 😂😂

[@nanamikento4205]

YESS!!!! I know she made teacher secrets before but we definitely need more!!

[@mishka_savahl]

Hubby looked over at me now and was like "wtf are u watching" 😂😂😂note to self, watch revealing secrets with head phones on!

[@matjb]

4:23 I’ve never heard anyone else say “Christ on a bike!” I always say it and people think it’s so funny.

[@franceskacostamagna1036]

“Jesus Christ on a bicycle” is one of my favorite lines to use and I’m 90% sure the only time I’ve ever heard it before is from one of my favorite movies.

[@julissa6639]

omg are we’re gonna get a podcast!??

[@luvellieee]

ALYX !!! you should do a compilation video of “if you’re homophobic you’re probably gayyy” 🎶 SECRETS NEXT

[@makaylamckinnon1603]

Okay yes I might be a little tipsy. But when you said you didn't ask about the mommy during sex.... that just proved me that I want to be your friend 100%. Because I know that you're very open about that type of stuff and in general and I am also open. And I feel like we would have the best conversations. I love you and your videos.

[@stephaniecreech5803]

I swear I thought you said 'Jesus Christ son of Ike' and I was like who tf is Ike as you're talking about how perfect it is.

[@_dani.dlc_]

A man called me mommy once, and it made me feel so powerful tbh.

[@roxyavie]

No but the friends response to the cannibal guy was so fucking funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 probably sarcastic too 😂😂😂

[@nugxbug]

22:32 "DID HE FINGER YOU AT THE DOG PARK??!!?" lmaoooo

[@_phiaa]

this is gonna be interesting, im preparing for the crazy stories

[@alexia3552]

16:42 I honestly want to say he was failed by his parent(s). It's a form of child neglect to not teach them life skills. I haven't learned enough to say why parents do this, for some I guess it feels "easier" to take care of them than go through the growing pains of nudging them into personal responsibility. It's a codependent relationship though at the end of the day, it's not a dynamic that has room for anyone else, much less is healthy for someone else to try to be a part of.

[@lev2066]

omg the new secret system sounds really fun

[@Kiki-vr8gk]

“That’ll fuck you up for good” lmfao

[@AfonsoTordo]

Love ur vids 🥰 Please do more Uber pranks 😁!

[@poppymairs5375]

So excited for this

[@carolinaqb6945]

“YOU ATE IT?” Killed me lmao

[@human_beans7540]

Christ on a bike is like one of my catchphrases. Can b used in many different scenarios like "Christ on a bike, how r olympians so talented" Or "Christ in a bike, ur so good looking" Basically like profound, unexpected unbelievable moments. 😅

[@HopeCasias10]

Behavior that is fucky worries me when I start "getting it" or understanding it like oh no... So alyx understanding the catfishing appeal worries me 🤣

[@Briidotcom]

My mom used to say Christ on a bike all the time. I think it’s an “old people” phrase.

[@rainbowcupcake124]

This video was gold lmao love your vids been watching for years

[@dexy2387]

Will Uber pranks be returning? They are hilarious

[@soup8900]

I'm convinced, I'll submit a secret 😅

[@milkshackowo2014]

Hello Alyx!! You came at a perfect timing since my muscles are tense up so I can’t walk lol, so this will give me entertainment for a while.

[@shannon4816]

I HATE CALLING YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER MOMMY OR DADDY ITS SO GROSS ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU USED TO CALL YOUR PARENTS THAT ITS GROSS

[@idiomatic444]

Agreed. I'll never do it but I don't kink shame so you do you boo

[@idiomatic444]

@A sorry, that made me think of "kink shaming is my kink" LOL

[@Thatpersonjulie]

“Was he good?” Cracked me up

[@nikkif4667]

I'd say this is the best video of your for confessions!!

[@cadebowman4582]

Tinder secrets sounds like a Shakespeare quote… definitely a different context here

[@usagiprincess4387]

Catfishing secrets should be the next one, I have a horrible one I’ve never told anyone about

[@rachsweetheart77]

Haven’t even started the video yet and I know it’s gonna be the best one

[@Retroman__ll]

Jesus Christ on a bike is a very popular saying over here in England. My ex used it A LOT.

[@sugawarakoshi728]

Kinda waiting for them to do discord because I wanna know how many ppl went through the same stuff I did-

[@iiparis6636]

Exactly, same here.

[@lewiskwb9870]

Alyx “Jesus Christ on a bike” is a saying in the uk haha we usually shorten it to Christ on a bike thi

[@mommadeenaa]

Lmao the last one *was he good* ?😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@DeeDee-mb2zk]

I actually say “Christ on a bike” all the time and I first saw it from season 1 I think of s3x education it was so funny that I just started saying it all the time and I got surprised hearing someone else say it

[@santiagovankesteren8844]

The last secret... BRUH I FEEL NOT OKAY LOL

[@taelordavis8255]

This is exactly what I needed on my 30min break at work🤣🤣😭

[@lya6703]

Something similar to the mommas boy secret happened to me just not as extreme. Never dating a momma's boy again.

[@hebooal-sherif5377]

The first thing that came to my mind when you read the secret about getting fingered at the dog park is Hannah Gadsby screaming “AT THE DOG PARK!!”

[@annar708]

Jesus christ on a bike is definitely a common phrase in England idk about anywhere else

[@stingreii]

jesus christ on a bike sounds majestic

[@bebo1492]

Self care is not watching the last secret after seeing all the comments on it 🥰🥰

[@chanelhudson6666ssez]

Anything we are aware of is part of our conscious mind. Anything we aren’t aware of (within our mind) is the subconscious. You ever wondered what part of you has taken over while black out drunk and why you can’t remember. When you’re blackout drunk the conscious mind is basically asleep and so you are operating from the subconscious mind. Meaning that if you are cheating while black out drunk. It was in the back of your mind

[@chanelhudson6666ssez]

Moral of the story. Take responsibly for your actions. We can all do better :)

[@auroramoss531]

Omg I’m so glad there’s another!!!!

[@booperdooper9762]

Last week I realized that I needed to stop catering so much to people who don't meet me in the middle. I do it too much.

[@MusicAddix04]

So i actually just went on a tinder date recently and it went so good that we’re now together and have seen each other every single day since

[@norajamieson1908]

26 minutes?!?! Oooooh I am SO excited for this

[@peep420xx2]

Do grindr next

[@peep420xx2]

i have some crazy ass stories with that app

[@nicarmendariz9079]

Stg mfs weird ash on there😭

[@peep420xx2]

@@nicarmendariz9079 right????!?

[@melissawilkinson1997]

Jesus Christ on a bike been said for a while 🤣🤣

[@awareinthevoid]

clicked on this at 666 views and i'm not sure what to make of it EDIT: very fitting number for this particular set of secrets

[@critter_keeper3660]

My cat had a heart attack and died out of nowhere while I was watching this. . Just thought this would be a good place to share my trauma. . RIP Baby 🐈

[@bubzilla6137]

What the heck??? That's terrible! I'm so sorry... May he or she rest in peace. 😿💔

[@sourbubble8045]

I’m sorry for your loss 🥺 RIP ♥️

[@critter_keeper3660]

@Bub Zilla thank you 💔 He was just running playing with his brother as usual and collapsed. He was only 4 and has never had any health issues. I'm at a total loss. .

[@critter_keeper3660]

@@sourbubble8045 thank you so much 💔

[@bubzilla6137]

@@critter_keeper3660 Oh my goodness, that is bizarre. I cried reading your original comment and now the tears are back. I wish I knew what to say. For genuine cat people, myself included, losing one is no different from losing a human loved one, many times it's even harder. But so young, no previous health issues? I can't imagine... I've lost many, many cats and humans over the years. With cats, it always at least made sense. Age, health issues, wildlife encounter, poison, it's always explainable. Sad, tragic sometimes, but explainable. I genuinely hope you're able to find the strength to move on. Not to forget your beloved, but to continue living knowing he isn't suffering and never will. I'm no vet but the only thing that makes sense to me is that he had an enlarged heart or something, a condition in humans that can be fatal before it's ever discovered. If that's the case, there's literally nothing anyone could have done. If he was happy right up to the end, I would count that as a blessing and use that info to comfort anyone saddened by his sudden loss. Please take care of yourself, mourn his loss, do all the necessary stuff. Remember that you are far from alone. 💔😿🌈🌉

[@elerisoto6190]

Pleeease do one but for best friends 🙏

[@zoelopez3993]

i am so excited for the voice secrets

[@clarasiervo4300]

Jesus Crist on a bike! fuckin amazin

[@naoisegale7472]

Christ on a bike is a saying in the UK!