Since you have a lot of leave out I don't think you choose the right hair to blend with your own hair texture. I have tried a couple of their textures and I would have chosen the bounce selection for you it has more texture and body. I have 16 in in straight relaxed, 14 in in straight relaxed and 20 in in pure wavy and none of their hair sheds for me. With any human hair purchase you have to take care of the hair. Just my thoughts based on your video.