New English. We're old cakes. "Asexual"... only amoebas are "asexual"... Maybe yes, their sex ed in HK may be not that great.... I learnt mine from Tampax. lol.... The thing is, whether they will find a kind enough guy who is patient. That's it.
Hi Vivian, You are perfectly fine the way you are. Even for anyone who are open to have relationships with same/opposite sex who wants to be alone, it is your decision to make. I think Vivian is very wise, she understands she can be alone, like everyone else will end up dying alone. I am so glad you find peace in such a young age. You are a very wise lady
佢話同另外一個人發展親密/伴侶關係會覺得困擾或intrusive. 我是這樣嘗試去理解(可能不全面,請見諒)有些人天生比較private, 或者比較心儀獨處的狀態,或者某一天她遇到合適的人可以一起過,但她這個需要不強烈/或者低。 至於性冷感,在外國好像一般用high/ low sex drive 來表達,就是一些人需求多些,一些低些。這樣看好像比中文的版本中立一點。
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啊,或者我轉少少字眼可能會易啲理解。 「我有個困擾,未遇到有興趣同永遠唔會有興趣點樣去界定?我唔否定有同性戀,只係覺得點去決定自己係呢個性取向。」 喺呢個case,同性戀係對異性無性 or 浪漫吸引力,我地唔會貿貿然去問佢會唔會只係未遇到有興趣嘅異性,對吧? 返返去無性/無浪漫戀嘅case,無性/浪漫戀者係感受唔到性/浪漫吸引力,唔會sexually / romantically attracted by someone。照道理說,我地亦唔會貿貿然問佢係咪只係未遇到the one。 至於性取向,本來就係fluid的。 不乏本來identified自己係同性戀嘅人,後來identified自己為異性戀 or 雙性戀 or 其他性取向,又或者返返去同性戀。無性戀、有性戀,各種性取向都係流動嘅,因各人當下對自己嘅覺察而異。
LOL...... Sigh. If I can give any advice... it is that, give yourself space. The line that you need to keep saying to your parents are... "Give me breathing space please. I want to feel connected to my decision". (Repeat it. Repeat it. Repeat it. x 5000 times. Because they're old... ) The most important thing is to know how your body reacts... and if you do like somebody... then do basic things... talk to them, learn about them... And take it easy... Cos when you do want to be with somebody, then you would know. The thing to be weary of, is not to lie to yourself, or to the other person, basically. You will find that you won't be able to jump on the person, even if you wanted to. lol... Cos you don't work like that anyway. lol. Always perfect your periods. The end. If the guy is smart, then he would learn to focus on your cycle and support you as well. That's it. If he can't figure out his own cycle either. Dump him. It's that simple.