NEVER Tolerate a Disrespectful WOMAN

In this video we talk about women who don't have respect towards men and how to deal with that.
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[@mortalkomment8028]

If she can disrespect you once, she'll disrespect you twice. If she can disrespect you twice, she'll never stop disrespecting you.

[@nickdiaz6095]

im fucked

[@billyb4790]

Bingo. These dudes can sit here and act as alpha as they like and tell their cute stories about setting their women straight but it doesn’t matter. Women are a boundless sea of toxicity and no matter what you do it’s like shoveling shit against the tide. Best to work on yourself. Get enough money to tell any woman to go screw herself. You want a cute “alpha” story? I have a box of dildos I keep on hand to give to women as a consolation prize. “Go fk yourself” is the last thing they hear from me.

[@OpEditorial]

If she hates her father, she hates you.

[@redpillthinking6043]

Yup. Never date a woman with daddy issues.

[@pjf3837]

If she hates herself, she hates you.

[@saif9amar417]

@@pjf3837 If she hates her mom she hates herself and if she hates herself she won't be able to love anyone.

[@ReticentIndignation]

So true...wish I'd known that before marrying my ex-wife.

[@queerasthedayislonglove8950]

That’s what I’m starting to see.

[@financeinfluencer2158]

Private disrespect turns into public disrespect 🔥

[@ethanstewart459]

Need to put that one on my corkboard of quotes

[@MenMovement]

That's a fact. You're right

[@eamonosiadhial2802]

Respect

[@ricliu4538]

damn....thank you

[@007mrredpillguy6]

@financeinfluencer true words

[@kevinreily2529]

When she disrespects you, dump her, quit being such a jellyfish. Get rid of her when she continually puts you down. Too many men have no backbone and women feel they’re never going to be held accountable.

[@Anthony_in_Bloomington_Indiana]

Now that ... is definitely a true statement! Thank you, Kevin, words from a wise man. My rule of thumb is - would you tolerate this same sort of rude or judgmental behavior from a friend, as you do from your girlfriend?

[@jahbay]

Agreed.... disrespect=I'm outta here

[@scottw3039]

Exactly, “losing” a woman who treats you poorly isn’t losing at all. Women that will gladly take advantage and treat you poorly have no value and can be readily had anywhere and anytime. Find something better or just be alone.

[@Nick-ue9of]

@@Anthony_in_Bloomington_Indiana no, but let the friend know they disrespected you. If they can't change, adios.

[@Bunnyofthebunny]

Kevin from sales right here guys! Indeed, man...

[@burgcarli929]

If you are an introvert, ambivalence really goes a long way. When you are not afraid of being alone, you can afford to have a zero disrespect, tolerance policy.

[@mizukagematt1186]

Facts 😂

[@JeffreyGillespie]

Three weeks ago I moved in with a girl because she said she wanted me to. I was paying a big chunk of the rent even though I own my own condo outright nearby. She badly disrespected me this week. That was on Monday. When she got home last night, I had moved out. There was no trace of me. I even patched the wall that one of my paintings was hanging on and wiped down the bedside table so that there was no trace of me. She has been calling and texting like crazy and I am not responding nor will I. That is how you deal with disrespect. Exit.

[@User37621]

Respect my brother

[@snakebite2529]

Disrespectful isn't always verbal. Cheating is very disrespectful. Lying is too. Can be the nicest woman in the world but have very disrespectful traits

[@actuallyflaw]

Exactly, disrespect is not solely about words or behavior, I had an LTR with the sweetest girl, but she was narcissistic and a liar, ended up cheating too.

[@thomasshort1784]

@@actuallyflaw I hope you got rid of her! You're definitely better off without her.

[@colinjones5209]

Lying is a big one, total disrespect, plus another step into deceit, plus another step into selfish, and knows exactly what she’s doing, and will do it again if you let her, the lying habit is almost impossible to break, it’s not teamwork, if she lies early on, dump her on the spot, much easier and cheaper than a divorce, been there done that, lies was the thing that destroyed us, and cost a lot of money.

[@actuallyflaw]

@@thomasshort1784 i did after a horrible breakup (putting all the blame on me) 2 years after she came back begging to take her back knowing that i was the only one who tolerated her bs, but no more my friend.

[@thomasshort1784]

@@actuallyflaw Good for you! You owed it to your self-respect. That blame angle is a form of gaslighting.

[@Steve-gn4hk]

I know a guy who’s girlfriend was acting belligerent on a road trip. He dropped her off in the middle of the interstate and drove away...DON’T be afraid to crack the whip.

[@thomasshort1784]

@WM Paco If it's what you had to do, it's what you had to do!

[@elijalive4303]

@Mark Park good following your frame but lad, atleast drop her off where shes save. no need to kick her out next to a few lions because she disrespected you on a jungle trip

[@Z8terfix]

@BASIL!!!!! The musical and pumpin' Seagull you are clearly an Alpha .. all the other clowns that kicked their gfs on the side of the road are lowlifes

[@Z8terfix]

He was a lowlife

[@--thatbih]

@Mark Park you mean woman/women

[@opinionatedape5895]

Lots of men won't put their foot down because they think it would be the end of the relationship. You will either be a doormat or divorced. Stand up and if the relationship ends move on. Better to know now, than after a costly divorce.

[@dciccantelli]

If you don't put your foot down, there is no relationship. It's already over.

[@Ted1775]

"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." -- Maya Angelou

[@smoken4311]

Gold

[@Z8terfix]

Yes.. make no excuses for them.. men woman or child..

[@johnmoore37]

Yep

[@ajwalker2365]

Indeed

[@gregabrams5792]

Yes!

[@deepthought708]

In over 50+ years of marriage my Mother only argued once with my Father. He pulled the car over and looked at her and said sternly, "Never raise your voice to me ever again." My Father never laid a hand on her or his children ever but my Mother went pale and silent. Set your frame. Set your boundaries. In this case, my Father would have divorced her in a heartbeat.

[@CedarRoofsOnly]

Doesn't sound healthy to me. If they argued once in 50 years it sounds like a dictatorship.

[@glenroberts7557]

Yes I like your dad

[@nimbusnimbus.IV.]

Women of yesteryear had family values instilled into them. The woman of today think they are special and can do whatever they want without no accountability. God forbid you ask a woman to make you a sandwich, that's unacceptable.

[@Z8terfix]

Never tolerate a disrespectful anyone...

[@krisduboise276]

If she don't want you, she will tell you...it's in her behaviors

[@coreyt6675]

Yes

[@lukeArmstrong524]

Women do the chasing. Never chase women. If a woman is chasing you shes not replacing you.

[@Astral_Dusk]

True, a lot of women are happy with a roommate with resources, little benefits / little romance, and having the real side action. Many need adventure and this is a form of adventure. Two or more partners, and the thrill of disrespect. Caught and cut off, these types might move on very quick, requiring codependence, unable to heal alone because of weak accountability - "no idea how I got here" stuff.

[@nimbusnimbus.IV.]

​@@Astral_Duskthe best is when these women claim they are "independent" and dont need no man, while getting welfare to pay their bills

[@ctomlevy]

Ive found in my personal experience that it only gets worse. Disrespect is a snowball, growing and getting worse. Once she gets away with it, she'll try it again. Then it gets worse.

[@rich99global]

True. You need to squash it as soon as it rears its ugly head. If it's a minor infraction give your girl some straight-talking the first time it happens. The 2nd time : dump her, she won't change.

[@julianblackycaesar7472]

One thing’s for sure. You’ll get MORE of whatever you tolerate...!

[@gregkarson]

True. This is Economics 101

[@adalecarter]

Words of wisdom my friend.

[@proghead59]

Exactly! One of my cardinal rules is: Whatever you choose to tolerate, you are facilitating by default.

[@Astral_Dusk]

Tolerance vs Boundaries - a pretty binary process. Maybe = Tolerance.

[@zipperpillow]

Well said, grasshopper.

[@brown_recidivist]

When a broad checks out of the relationship she will not only disrespect you openly in front of your friends but she will not care what happens to you. I've seen so called "love" dissappear and turn into disdain lol

[@gwynedd1]

Love is real, but existential. Its a verb and not a noun.

[@vincenth3267]

Very true!!! I have seen it many times and experienced it myself, on both sides from multiple woman!!!

[@vincenth3267]

When a female checks out!!

[@garysavala665]

She’s trying to get you to leave .so she be with pookie and ray ray

[@NSLZ6]

Do you have any example of her not caring? I’m having trouble thinking of them. Also in this scenario, what other things will she do ?

[@EBUNNY2012]

"When someone willfully disrespects you it is a test for hierarchy; so, be a knight or be a pawn because you cannot be both." - brian padrick drake

[@lordzooq8987]

Damn! Thanks for this

[@saif9amar417]

That's a good one.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

Respectfully, I choose to be king, with a queen who serves and protects me.

[@Astral_Dusk]

This is great, not doing anything is too often the pawn unless you're adept in a knight's body language and silence to convey a fury back at them. Sometimes you've got to strike fear in the entire room to stop a war.

[@CryptoBellwether]

I found out my wife cheated on me. I didn't say a WORD!!.. SHE had a trip out of the country 3 days later. I took her to the Airport and have never seen her since. Divorce papers were on the table when she got back!!

[@ATVallthingsviral]

Nice

[@sgtlucifer6883]

Bravo! my fella. - you gotta know how to stick it to them. - my dumb ex went to work at 7am one Saturday in 2012. - by the time she got back from work, my belongings were packed out of the house. - 3 kids. yet i had to give up for my own sanity. - modern women are a basket case of never-ending troubles.

[@jaykay7300]

Never tolerate any form of disrespect. You have the power to walk away.

[@LouStoriale]

Any disrespect, invalidation, emasculation, dismissiveness, or denigration.... they get ghosted. Before I even get into a relationship with somebody they know the rules. I tell them straight out not only am I gonna walk away from you forever I’ll forget your name and I’ll go find somebody that looks just like you.

[@pvtruestmusic]

Gang

[@zippyblessed839]

That sounds harsh 😳

[@rockr10]

@@zippyblessed839 "That sounds harsh 😳" It's called being a man and having self-respect

[@UnitedStatesofClips]

W

[@whysoserious6641]

I had this girlfriend that tried to disrespecting me this one time. I told her ‘thats it i’m done’ I literally just stopped talking to her. Received like over 100s messages. Even now 2 years later, i get birthday and holiday messages from her and i only reply ‘thank you’. Every couple months

[@starscream6629]

Wouldn’t even reply at all if you want her to stop

[@dasein9980]

Good for you

[@ericpowell4350]

Why are you even replying?

[@dontfeelcold]

@@ericpowell4350 he's a beta

[@forgottenmma3694]

What she do?

[@donking454]

I could write a book on these women. And at this age I’ve learned the good ones got married and stayed married, what’s left is other men’s cast offs and lunatics who can’t keep a man.

[@brettgoranflo5101]

Man, 1000% true! I wish I knew in my mid 20's what I know now... would've stopped the partying and settled down. Now at 40, going through a rough breakup 2.5 years ago to a solid 9 then seeing what's left in the dating pool.... my GAWD, it's bad out there..

[@Drumbeat52]

So right!! Dating today is like shopping at the Goodwill!!

[@eskanda3434]

all the good ones get locked down once you hit your 30s its not a pretty site

[@User37621]

@@brettgoranflo5101have you had any luck dating since lol?

[@johnkennedy4023]

This is true for friends, co-workers, teachers, students, bosses etc. My old boss yelled at everyone but me. Give respect, expect respect

[@anoadmin8178]

Disrespect, comes in many forms: Here is some examples: At a restaurant I told a waiter I dont want peas in my pastas. She tells waiter he will have the peas after I said I didn’t want it. She got checked real quick! Another time holding her hand while walking to restraurant I said something she didnt agree with she threw my hand away from hers in front of everyone. I walked out of restruarant and took off. No dinner for her! This is on point start distancing

[@jamiedonnelly9076]

"When your silence inspires more dread than anything you can say, that's when you're alpha." 100%. There's a reason women use the silent treatment. They use it on each other and it is brutally effective when they do, their tendency to gaslight themselves does more work than any words they say. They use this on men too thinking it will have the same effectiveness but not knowing they can turn it right back on them. When she's the first one to speak after a conflict it's almost always because the silence is getting to her

[@bigneiltoo]

When your dread inspires silence, that's when you're Omicron.

[@thetruther9521]

That's not alpha That's sigma

[@split_jcgg9613]

On God.. NEVER EVER TOLERATE DISRESPECT. You don’t deserve it and don’t let it slide.

[@AggravatedMan365]

🎯

[@leonpeltvan95]

Spot on, i learned the hard way.

[@mrtimtom2631]

Right on brother

[@ScarfaceFranckRibery]

Same here

[@NsIX3]

Me too, never again.

[@jvc9386]

Never again

[@caucasianafrican1435]

I'm sorry, brotha

[@lardal1502]

It's funny when Paul mentioned leaving her behind and it reminded me of an incident that happened in my family. My dad and mom came to visit us in our apartment shortly after I was married. At one point in the evening around 10:00 my dad stood up and said it's time to leave. He went to the door , put on his coat, said his goodbyes and walked out. My mom said I'd better go or he'll leave me behind again. As she was putting on her coat she said he'll go down to the car, start it and wait two minutes and then he'll drive home and leave her there. Mom said he won't come back for her; if that happens and I would have to drive her home. As dad got older he didn't take crap from anyone. He had ran his own businesses his whole life and had to put up with customers. Once he retired and sold his business and his apartment buildings he didn't put up with anything.

[@ivantheterribler8346]

Was your mom a nag?

[@topcathk1]

Thanks for sharing - who's side do you take when your parents visibly quarrel like this ?

[@lardal1502]

@@topcathk1 It has nothing to do with me. I just observe. It's not really a quarrel it's more a quiet statement of dominance from my dad. My mom was not that bright. All women need to be lead. But, lead by a man that cares for his woman. Women expect to be lead and it gives them a sense of security as long as she has confidence in that man.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

It's true. Age gives license. It sounds like your parents have an understanding of how their marriage works.

[@EDINFarms]

That's a BOSS. Thanks for sharing

[@Payne..]

If she dont respect you get rid of her and find a woman who will.

[@GordoDustin]

I started noticing this 2 years into my relationship that I ended at 4 years. At family gatherings or at get togethers with mutual friends I would often become the butt of one of her jokes, but it was always have joking and half serious. I got to the point where I didn’t want her around the people in my life. It took too long to realize my mistakes, but I’ll be hyper aware moving forward.

[@Cantbuyathrill]

"Private disrespect becomes public disrespect" That is sooooooo fuckn right!!!

[@plasmaarmelund]

In the 15 years I was married to my ex, she apologized less than 3 times. I didn't have the spine to hold her in check. But I learned the hard way.

[@Reevay762]

No child should ever experience mum throwing dad out of the house. It messes with a child's mental health. What's worst is a man trying to come back after she did that. I've lived through that and i feel sorry for my dad. It came to a point I couldn't handle the disrespect I moved out. If a woman doesn't respect the man of the house, the children are in deep trouble. Better leave when dad doesn't even stand up for himself. A mother who claims her children are emasculating her husband needs help. If mum doesn't respect dad, how on earth do u expect the kids to respect him. In my case, I tried respecting dad but she made it impossible. Now I love them from afar, but for my own mental health I don't associate with them. I'm just being real here. I'd rather die than treat my husband that way.

[@transformationwithmax4930]

Check a woman's disrespect immediately, in private or public! They will cower like wounded kittens and crawl back. A woman only gets one shot with me, when it comes to disrespect. She's trying t pull the man out of you!!! Give it to her.

[@louisn1368]

So get angry back at her or just ignore her disrespectful comment ?

[@User37621]

@@louisn1368i did the getting angry back at her and it didn’t help much. Now I’ve learned to carry yourself assertive yet calm and stoic while expressing to her you won’t tolerate that. Along with some silent treatment until hopefully she recognizes, respects, and learns.

[@ryanstrasser9013]

I don't tolerate a disrespectful anybody. Probably why people respect me.

[@thomasshort1784]

@Ryan Stresser Same here! When somebody tries doing that, you're best off cutting ALL contact with them. This world needs MORE stand-up and assertive men!

[@bradleyb.425]

BINGO. I got locked up for 17 months by the Feds for doing some hard core patriot stuff. Everyone around me called each other "fool" all the time. Not once did anyone ever call me fool. Know who you are and live it. Others can tell.

[@Rich-rd1ge]

I put up with so much of what you said and now I'm in my 60s where I finally left my wife from decades of disrespect. She trash talked me constantly to all her family and relatives. I kept thinking things would get better but only got worse. I should have left decade's ago, but now I'm looked upon as the bad guy. Sure wished I'd had guidance such as you guys decade's ago.

[@k-baye6292]

Taking notes RN should have known this as a teen. It's messed up when you see blatant desrespect of a guy from his girl in public. It's sad to watch you feel sorry for the guy especially if he's married or has kids.

[@a45rt689]

Never let anyone mistreat you always best that you leave find something better

[@jaykay4766]

Zero tolerance for any form of disrespect. Shut it down the first time. End it after the second time. Don't look back.

[@TheNoirAlien]

If she doesn't honor her commitments or isn't willing to cooperate, leave her.

[@danurachman5626]

When to Dump your Women: 1 - When She is not DTF 2 - When She steps out of your Boundary 3 - When She is operating in her Hypergamy Mode Be So Unpredictable and Make Her think She has made a BIG Mistake! - And Of course, DON'T TAKE HER BACK! Rollo's Iron Rule: it is time better spent with new prospective women than to rebuild already broken relationship

[@danurachman5626]

@Luis just exactly the right time to dump her... When she think she can do better than you, show that bird the exit 😆

[@vdm_]

DTF?

[@danurachman5626]

@@vdm_ No DTF means no Genuine Desire... DTF (Down to F*ck) 😏

[@RicardoLopez-ty4kn]

@Luis how can you tell? Whats the signs?

[@DanielEarl]

I love rich's story about the gf calling him cheap.

[@hpmetabolics7558]

"if she values you you'll notice changes, if she doesn't then she won't change"..... its that simple and I ended one quickly over this!

[@andersonboy620]

Thats the most important, right on spot.

[@kevinjohnson7693]

I shut a woman down that tried to play games. So glad I’m learning tools from you.

[@gman1550]

It’s important to train the women in your life

[@JL-mb7om]

Left mine at a wedding 3 hours away bc she blew up on me over nothing. Ruined the whole weekend. I was done and had enough. She was yelling at me like I was a 9 year old. Complete bs

[@dontfeelcold]

You dodged a nuke.

[@adonai7187]

@@dontfeelcold lucky he.

[@Fakestockguru]

Awesome lol. How did she get home?

[@Arlene_DOTK]

Good for you, that will teach her 👏 👍 These disrespectful and narcissistic females need to learn manners and how to treat others.

[@johnnyr3340]

It’s sad to see men get pushed around by women and then they still plan on marrying her like dude you’re setting yourself up for failure

[@Snarge22]

Actionable advice? I divorced my wife for huge levels of dismissal and disrespect over too long of time. And now she has little going on, is still shocked after more than a year, is alone and very lonely. Yes, she is indeed replaceable.

[@24Cristiandiaz]

The story Rick told at the end sums it up perfectly!

[@Fortunee44]

If being cheap means owning a McLaren down the line, then I'm in!! 🏎️

[@surfguy777]

Put your self respect above all else gentleman. Follow through when these women test you and have the abundance mindset to walk away. This video is truth and you'll be happier with or without her.

[@ChrisPuckett]

They only sincerely apologize when you don’t call them out on it

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

I disagree. They apologize only when you call them out.

[@abhisekgogoi1043]

From my experience they apologize only when they need help

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

@@abhisekgogoi1043 Unfortunately, I have to agree. They rarely apologize because it's the right thing to do. In my experience, they do it when they see that not apologizing could be worse. Or, when they are under the gun. It's funny, in that I know I am not perfect. I know I am prone to error. I do not want people to think I am perfect. That would be a terrible burden. But others have a VERY high opinion of themselves, and they would rather die (figuratively) than apologize.

[@ericpowell4350]

@Chris you have to call them out on it and not whine about it. There's definitely a difference. The thing is marriage turns most men into the type that will eventually start whining because one is trying to keep the peace.

[@NADA-ok2ce]

I appreciate what you are explaining here. My partner and I treat each other with care and respect. I’m female and my dad an alpha. That being said the things that you are saying women do I can’t even imagine. Women have become horrible. I wouldn’t even do those things to a girlfriend. What you are doing here is teaching yourself boundaries and how to communicate to the immaturity that women seem to behave with. It also shows me that fathers are important. My dad treated me with love but we also treated him with respect. He would have taken a bullet for me. Be good fathers. You will help correct this insanity of modern feminism.

[@Cantbuyathrill]

There is one thing women hate more than being ignored, that's being alone. I already see generations of cat ladies in the making.

[@Ascension_3030]

If a woman disrespects you, it means you need to check her. most beg for it

[@DesertHaunter]

Imagine our boy Rich at the grocery store and feeling the tap on the shoulder and him turning around thinking it might be someone who wants to fight him or something lol she was scarrrrrrrrrred

[@65firered]

And now people are going to do that if they see him.

[@akhtaruzzamanjoy8524]

I have mommy issue and grew up with 3 sisters (one of them has BPD), there was constant fight and controlling mother so I am getting Avoidant personality disorder. So when my Borderline girlfriend came into my life, I couldn't see her abuse abnormal (yelling, physical hits, toxic attitude). Sometimes family dynamic makes young boys not having strong boundaries. In conclusion, my borderline ex mentally broken me into pieces.

[@jayc342009]

I am avoidant too and i dated a BPD, we seem to ignore red flags more because we see them as normal from growing up around toxic family members. Just a question, how long were you with your BPD ex?

[@CarlosRamirez-no2js]

Same here. One sister , crazy mom, dads too long of a story but none the less sides with the girls against me . Almost shot myself a while back. Glad I’m alive , I hate women now but want to bang ‘em still haha

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

" Can you drive her home? " Leave, light a cigar, and drink some bourbon. Leave her on read.

[@hanoworld3]

Dad does not need to say anything. It’s just that look he gives to us including mom. He just passed 70 and still have our respect and we’re 10 successful siblings.

[@User37621]

Respect to him

[@KeyserSoseRulz]

You need to be willing and ready to walk out of a relationship. If you are not married, it is easy. When you are married and no kids, it is also relatively simple. When you are married with kids the problem is exponentially more complex... Don't get married if it does not feel right. Listen to your gut feelings and don;t be a needy bastard!

[@dustinquinton]

My ex wife never disrespected me while we dated for 16 months, and not the first 6 months of marriage, but after the first 6 months the disrespect started. She never disrespected in front of people (she did it once and I ripped her) or cheated. I always called her on the disrespect. After a couple of yrs of disrespect, she became an ex wife. And yes, she only rolled her eyes at me one time!!!!!

[@User37621]

You always called her out on the disrespect but it made no difference ? She continued to be disrespectful and your calling out words didn’t effect or or make her change ?

[@dustinquinton]

@@User37621 I think it was a way to sabotage the marriage. To me, she didn’t value the marriage, and in turn, I said, “Bye.”

[@User37621]

@@dustinquinton Good for you. Lots of respect for your decision. Wishing you the best!

[@dustinquinton]

@@User37621 appreciate it. 👍🏻

[@scottmac3539]

She disrespects you it's time for NO CONTACT. Depends on severity of disrespect of course. A little dread game can work wonders. If it's a pattern of disrespectful behavior and words then cut bait ASAP.

[@noahlarson1861]

Both my exes did this. Breaking ranks, if you will, in front of the kids, parents, friends, etc. I'm a very self-reflective guy, so I wondered what I did to cause them to lose respect for me. I did things different...changed how I dressed, how I spoke to them, put more value on my time (by refusing to waste it), worked more, was home more - not at her request....nothing worked. Its kind of like once she loses respect for you, it's gone. There didn't seem to be anything i could do to get it back. So I agree. Once she loses respect for you, adios. But you have to treat yourself like a high value man. My own personal observation: You have to show the world that you're worthy of their respect without demanding it. If you have to say it, you don't deserve it. Keep control of your emotions and don't take shit from people. Zero tolerance for bullshit. She has to see you earn respect from others. Let her see others asking your opinion... about something that matters (video games and star wars don't count). She has to see you handle your work load (vocational and daily stressors and life's curve balls) with poise, determination and an even keel. If you're going to lose your shit, Don't. You. DARE. do it in front of her. Ride your motorcycle, kick the crap out of a heavy bag, take it out picking up and putting down some heavy shit, anything but yelling and screaming or arguing. Don't allow the cracks in your armor show. You're better than that and you have to make sure (by SHOWING her, not by telling her) that she's well aware of that fact.

[@lordzooq8987]

I'm 21, thanks for this man

[@calleocho2107]

I’m 26 years old and it makes so much sense now after reading why women have ghosted me once they see a slight weakness in their (me) “knight-shining armor.”

[@mav8243]

Thanks my friend, the same thing happened to me, everyone disrespects me and my exes disrespected me at the first opportunity and I tried to change a thousand things about myself but nothing went back to the way it was before. The more I opened up the worse it got. Stoic.

[@damo9961]

It's not about respect, those chicks were probably cluster B.

[@forgottenmma3694]

Her kids? Lmao first mistake

[@brianhoyt3780]

These women "know" when they have crossed the line. They know. Mine did. Even if you don't call her out.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

The question is, then what happens?

[@3oxisprimus848]

@@Ace.0.0.0. what happens? You bounce!

[@lifeofadividendinvestor1206]

Its funny that you say that. My wife is amazing. Respectful. Loving. Caring. But all woman piss you off and test you at times no matter how good they are. And the more annoyed i am the less i say. If im dead silent there is a big problem. Ive had multiple times this year shes coming running back to me apologizing because i just shut down and didnt give her 1 cent of attention. Didnt even acknowledge she was there. Every time the matter was fixed within a day without a word being said and didnt happen again. But guys ill be honest my 1st wife walked all over me so i had to learn this the hard way. So please take these lessons before wasting time on the wrong women.

[@johnhue8933]

Disrespect will manifest when a man's confidence is low usually when finances are tight or there is disruption in income security and concern and doubt about the future. That is the point where keeping frame will be vulnerable, it is going to happen at some point. It is very damaging and debilitating and can and will lead to the man's self esteem breaking down which in turn effects his ability to turn things round when in a slump, it is this dysfunction that is dangerous. Disrespect is going to happen at some point because it is in women's nature to shit test and test the boundaries and as a man you have to keep the plates spinning to keep this at bay but understand you are not allowed a weak moment and if you get into a slump disrespect will follow. The problem with disrespect is that it is a conditioned habit which gets stronger with practice and reinforcement and will become the woman's MO the only way to avoid it is to avoid it completely.

[@whirlwindmgtow5534]

Troof.

[@wizrom3046]

From the start of the relationship, NEVER tolerate her badmouthing you to other people. Set a standard. And ALSO, NEVER badmouth her to other people, set that standard that you respect her and "this is how we behave, like a class act". I'm not saying you worship her in social settings, with glowing compliments, just talk about her with respect and dignity. Like I said, set a standard and then always insist on that standard.

[@GreenBroccoli100]

Hard to remain respectful of someone who constantly disrespects you and treats you like a dirty rag.

[@wizrom3046]

@@GreenBroccoli100 hmmm, I would not be in a relationship with someone that bad...

[@GreenBroccoli100]

@@wizrom3046 Problem is you don't find out till its too late, my ex became very disrespectful towards me in the end, was gaslighting me and being emotionally abusive. But she played the sweet and caring girl for a while.. till I started living with her then I found out really who she was... all the respect and love I showed her, she took it for granted, and discarded me like trash. It's easier said than done, if you know what I mean. Unfortunately I haven't met a lot of girls who treat men with equal respect if hes good to her, usually she ends up treating him like crap, so one thing I have noticed is that they do respond well to and seem to give respect to men who treat them like trash... I get it alpha fucks beta bucks lol Anyway it was a harsh but important life lesson for me. Never love someone more than you love yourself. I'll just have to be incredibly selfish and ruthless next time, not put up with their BS again.

[@wizrom3046]

@@GreenBroccoli100 I feel for you man. 🙂 All I can say is you have to pick them right from the start, then set good standards right from the start... And probably still takes some luck too. A good trick is to test her character early in the relationship. Expose her to problems, especially ones where she doesn't get her own way. If she has a quality character she will respond with humour and a good natured approach. If she instantly turns into a screaming spoilt psycho when things go wrong and she doesn't get her own way, that tells you all you ever need to know. 😱👎

[@GreenBroccoli100]

@@wizrom3046 Thank you for your kind words brother. To be honest I'm not experienced enough with relationships, I was still somewhat red pill.. I read a lot of red pill books, articles but not red pill enough to actually have enough practical experience out in the real world when it came to having a relationship. Although I've slept with over 50 women in my lifetime..by doing pick up. Finding a girl who was looking for a serious relationship was hard work.. (I'm not a fan of hookup culture but that's just me, since sleeping around made me feel hollow and empty) Early on there weren't any red flags I could think of (perhaps she just hid it really well). She was completely different to most girls I've been with, she had this charm about her, and well she kind of exceeded my expectations so to speak.. (I was an idiot to think she would be any different to any of the other girls I had met prior) Its just that it turns out she hid her true nature till later on.. she had far more relationship experience than I did like most girls do (This is an area I think women tend to have an advantage over men, I have found more men lack relationship experience than women nowadays, even fat girls can easily get a boyfriend) Here men on average have never had a relationship, or only had a few, while women jump from one relationship to another from what I've seen. I basically live in the worst country for a single man lol since statistically over 80% of our women are obese and well we have a country that embraces feminism.. and our laws here are very anti-male.. the future ain't looking so bright here when they are looking to introduce made up laws about consent.. I'm just focusing on myself now, building myself up. I don't care about relationships anymore..or dating, I'm too burnt out by women and their drama, they are more demanding than they were ten years ago, and I've never met one woman who has ever told me she was happy with her man. So I've decided I'll move abroad if I really want to settle down one day. I just don't feel the lemon is worth the squeeze anymore. I'm going to chase excellence and focus on myself, luckily I'm approaching my 30s.. and my sex drive is more under control. If i was still stuck in my 20s, I'd be having a really hard time having it under control.

[@JFredric]

for those not sure how to calibrate disrespect, if it feels like it was a "dig" then thats your signal to bounce ( Especially after patterns of it )

[@callanc3925]

Yeah and dudes need to realise that they probably have a different metric for disrespect. Some guys like to joke around and will take a lot of shit if it seems jokey and like they can send some back. Other guys are no nonsense and even a joking dig is disrespectful. Its all about finding out what is disrespectful to you personally

[@mikegarrens5286]

They think because they're good looking no one's going to clown them back. Well guess again!!!

[@aliakseilapitski899]

100%, Listening to this great book "Iron John" by Robert Bly. He talks about how this soft masculinity came about and what could be done about it. Highly recommend. Robert explains steps for the male initiation, hero's journey, what to expect for you as a man throughout your life based on mythology. Thought provoking.

[@VooDooDaddy46]

Thanks, just bought it on eBay for $4. Arriving by May 2nd. Hopefully it's a good'un?

[@krisduboise276]

You want to let her know openly and as often as necessary... She needs to know you can get with someone else easily. Hard for her to respect you if you can't get another love on your own. If you can get another love right in front of her, her behaviors start changing quickly.

[@beardedace9894]

Great content with the collaboration Rich 👍🏽

[@MrTimjm009]

love that suzuki swift / pull over and throw her out story . Made me chuckle . More guys need to take that kind of action .

[@supertruthfortynine]

With me after about a year'ish she started speaking to me like I was dirt. At first in private, then in front of others. Sporadically increasing over time. Then she became unafectionate. Little if barely any intimacy. The relationship went on for 2.5 years and came to a car crash end when one weekend she was simply plain horrible towards me. The look of utter freezing dislike in her eyes actually chilled me! I realised then she was a fraud, a fraud of feelings. And used men to do things for her - support her, graft for her... Then began to treat them like utter crap! I'd started to see the woman she truly was, and her privileged life and being spoilt by her parents had done nothing for her. I cleared off that awful weekend, even left a few things that I never returned for her. And I never spoke to her again.... She was a good looking bird, received a lot of male attention. But I cared not. I was glad to get away from her! Totally had enough. Let some other bloke suffer her. Horrible bird she was. Not at first mind. Lovely. But that's the lure. The trap. Once I saw the 'real' woman behind the attractive looks.... Wow, TERRIBLE.

[@ItsRaitisLV]

Did you do anything wrong or was it all her fault?

[@supertruthfortynine]

@@ItsRaitisLV yes I did do something wrong Ray!!! Treating her so decent. Treat her like a star, eventually she'll treat you like a fan. Do as you please and act like you can take it or leave it. That's my advice.

[@jjberg83]

Same thing happened to me!

[@Harrymaguireisthegoatoffootbal]

It's videos like this that have made me realise I am not crazy, or "too sensitive". Thanks gents.

[@worthey1969]

I'm just done with her negativity every damn day, it literally makes me sick to my stomach!

[@dipayandey2838]

My friend's girlfriend often disrespects him. Recently she started disrespecting him behind his back in front of all his friends including me. We gave her no reaction but kept it to ourselves (even her boyfriend wasn't aware). Feeling defeated she decided to take it a notch higher by slandering the reputation of the guys to their respective girlfriends and wives. Girls being girls easily fall victim to the gossip. Our girls started questioning us. In retaliation, us guys made a round table conference with her boyfriend and cleared off everything. Right now she's an outcast from the friend circle and has lost all the privileges. Unfortunately my friend's still a puppet. Hope he realises that soon. It's very very important for men to stand strong in the face of adversity even if it means standing up against your female counterpart. Principles matter. I'm grateful that we a have a group of strong male friends. Any female attempting to break us up will be obliterated socially.

[@jjberg83]

That's fucking cool.

[@vapourmile]

This leaves me with a question: What if the woman disrespecting you (and others) is doing it because she already has the power. For example, the woman belittling you is your employer and she has the power to fire you if she doesn't approve of you. Then what do you do?

[@justinbailey3968]

Proverbs 21:19 - ‘Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.’

[@lovetofly32]

I had a girlfriend that was 14 years younger than me when I was 35 and boy let me tell ya.. she could be a different person in different situations. I had neeeever dated anyone like her. I was guilty of letting things go too far because I didn't want to end the relationship but damn it got so bad. She wouldn't stand up for me or anything. I remember a comparable time to his story about turning the car around... We had loaded up my snowmobiles and had only made it about a half mile down the road and she was in one of her disrespectful moods and she said, "the only reason I'm going is because you're making me!" She had me so mad I just turned around at the corner and took her back to the house. She immediately changed her tone but I just wanted to get away from her. I wasn't making her come with me and I wasn't even fighting with her, she just liked to stir shit up over absolutely nothing! So as I was out riding my snowmobile and having a good time she started texting me and being all nice. This would always happen, back and forth to where I got so damn sick of getting her to behave! She just wore me the hell out so I kicked her out. Been single ever since. Now I'm 40.. I have a bad taste in my mouth about women now. I just view them as all bad now to where I dont even want to be in a relationship with them. I go on lots of dates but shit.. I just dont trust that they won't turn into a shithead. Women just aren't what I used to think.. Theyre so much trouble..

[@tommybrown187]

Amen

[@CJ-tc7xh]

Similar situation. She’s 11 years younger than me. First time I checked her she got on good behavior for two weeks then everything went down hill from there. I have to constantly pull back to get her to behave and it’s wearing me out.

[@User37621]

Any luck since ?

[@LatimusChadimus]

100% What women need most from men is unconditional love. What men need most from women is support and respect. The Bible even teaches that.

[@JeremiahHedrick-wc9hu]

My favorite, KZbin video of all time hands-down

[@jaketinder3557]

If a girl disrespects me I don’t dump them I transfer them in my mind from “potential gf material” to “I’m gonna use this s l u t for everything I can” material. Make videos get 3somes whatever. I’ll lie cheat anything once they cross that line - but I’ll keep tapping it til the cows come home who cares

[@lukeArmstrong524]

Right on. I never chase my gf. I give her freedom, i dont get jealous of her male friends. I just smash it and use her for sex. I use her as a social experiment. This woman is a liar, a drunk, a druggie and a sl ut. I dont get jealous of who shes with or what shes doing. I just focus on creating attraction. This bitch always chases me, and i never get jealous or insecure of her male friends.. i simply dont care and i know i can replace her.

[@blackngold007]

Is it worth getting disrespected for a bit of sex every now and then?

[@AndrewZambetti]

This is such high wisdom it would’ve been more powerful if you all would’ve met up to speak on it together in person

[@josephl9619]

If you only take one thing from this video ladies, it is that you should never call man named Rich 'cheap'

[@cdorothy444]

😂

[@alignyourlifetv9944]

I am a woman and I am not a fan of everything said on this channel but everything said in this clip was 100%! It needs to be said loud enough for the people in the back.

[@LewisBeckman]

Goddamn that’s so right. But all I can think is of all the times I should have employed these principles and didn’t.

[@hi90163]

“Your presence isn’t unconditional” at 2:42 should be applied to all relationships especially family.

[@bartuc88]

The dread, when you realize, that you were the women in the relationship.... I hated the silent treatment, and she knew. And loved to use it on me....

[@modelomacy516]

Stop it the first time it happens. And yes even as your dating .

[@andro3041]

This is amazing

[@Alaninbroomfield]

My sister-in-law talks down to her husband all the time now, as if everything she wants must be the best & only way to approach any given issue of the day in their family. I've known this woman since 1986. I thought about pulling her aside and telling her she's out of line, but the other part of me says my brother should fight his own fights. Thing is, he can't just kick her out of the house now that children are involved.

[@olefeelsnature6589]

Don‘t think of it like that. You‘ll be doing your sister a favor by pointing out her behavior. That‘s your responsibility as her brother.

[@Director-M]

@@olefeelsnature6589 You misunderstood. Alan's *brother* is married to this disrespectful woman (aka Alan's SIL). I do think it would be helpful if you talked to your brother about it, but it may already be too late. She's set in her ways, mentally, and they've got kids in tow..

[@olefeelsnature6589]

@@Director-M Oh. Thanks for clarifying.

[@GBU61]

It is your brothers relationship and your brothers problem. He is either a weak man or accepts it. I would pull my brother aside say my peace and let it go. However, I would make it clear if she does that, I will tell him it is better if we not spend time together if she is involved.

[@Alaninbroomfield]

@@olefeelsnature6589 Yes SIL. I kind of don't want to intrude on their relationship, but she's talking down to him in front of the kids, and teaching them that this is acceptable behavior.

[@rich99global]

Pay close attention to what women write on their dating profiles. They often unwittingly tell you who they are. Psychologists call it "leakage". Examples : "I've got a lot of attitude!" (I'm a bitch). "Strong, independent woman" (I will not value you). "Feminist" (I will disrespect you"). "I know what I want" (I'm selfish). "Kissed too many frogs" (I don't know what I want, I am promiscuous). "Where have all the good men gone?" (I'm promiscuous, I make lousy decisions and blame others). "No ONS!" (I've had a lot of ONS. Otherwise I wouldn't mention it). "I've got my flaws" (I'm a bitch and people have told me so) "Looking for a generous man" (I'm a gold-digger).

[@CharismaticDad]

Early Frame Announcement. There's a girl I work with who has signs about working hard so she can shop hard. EFA suggests she's a materialista.

[@blackviews202]

Never got an apology

[@stresslee]

Experience is definitely the best teacher! Hands down. I messed up so much but I definitely did a lot right as well. I never understood why 1 of my exs was so crazy about me when I literally would do things like that where I would not care. By that I mean, like when you get disrespected and you do something “crazy” like what rich said about when he was called cheap and just pulling over to tell his girl to get out. I had an ex once where I did something similar when she disrespected me and she literally would go crazy apologizing to me and trying to please me in every way possible doing everything she could to make me happy. I was unaware of what I was doing atm. But now it all makes sense. Her friends would think I was an asshole for standing up for myself when she would disrespected me and that I was cruel to her. But when someone disrespects you, you cannot tolerate it. Even she herself did not know how to explain to her friends why she wanted me so bad. But now it all makes sense. I definitely screwed up a lot after as well but some of the things I did really make a clear point now to me. You guys are all doing amazing work. Definitely learning so much from you Rich! It’s crazy all of us get this info for free.

[@pssa3215]

Aint got no time to deal with women who want to be childish

[@elohim77]

If she acts out there is probably somebody else behind the scenes

[@Boo-hu1ix]

That stunt with the car doing a 180 like that is some of the worst advice you can give someone. Thats how you get put in handcuffs and taken to jail while your woman cries to the police officer that she was just "talking" and you lost your shit. Thats going to look really alpha huh when you're being pushed around by the cops and ahe has the house to herself enjoying the time without you.

[@greenfly1264]

Public humilation. Wow that's a biggy.Ive suffered that out the blue . Never again but i see it happen to others time and again . The pub family evenys or Supermarket are the favourite venues for this behaviour. Hate to see the poor guys face .

[@mfascuba]

Ex started apologizing when I stopped listening to her altogether and stopped participating in the marriage. I told her it was too late, and left. No more western women, EVER. Done with it.

[@JM-xj5xt]

This channel is gold!