The answer to question one isn't good enough! The sheikh seems okay with a serious issue, ignoring the answer and making it seem normal. I'm worried not just about this guy hurting the girl, but many people who claim to know about religion doing wrong things. In our society, we don't often point out people's mistakes, just silently say "masha allah." But everyone makes mistakes. If you're not sure about an answer, it's better not to talk about it publicly and suggest the person get help from a professional. I'm sorry if I offended you!