10 Reasons Not To Have Sex Before Marriage

[@RobBKowalski]

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[@mredenktas]

I agree with you cause I’ve been there BUT don’t be a fool and talk down on religion. Religion already knows and tells you all that before you get fried on the dating scene. And another point is majority of people never recovers from the damage. Accidental pregnancies , suicides , mental/emotional damage , drug use etc etc. SO RELIGION BRO. just be honest

[@mredenktas]

Isn’t it rational and logical that whatever created you and I knows what’s best for us ? Oh yea I forget I created myself and you created yourself. And he comes a monkeys lineage and she comes from a pig. Maaaan get real get fearless and be honest with yourselves. Try to understand Islam cause that’s the only reality in life period. Don’t allow anybody to change our nature our codes to happiness and peace. Human beings never killed and destroyed more than they did in the 20th century. That’s the century of materialism. The issue y’all are talking about has roots that would reach to your core.

[@Filipinagirlnextdoor]

I remember my ex bf was forcing me to have sex with him he said if I love him I should show it to him I told him if he loves me he would wait. He did not want to wait so I showed him the door out. Plain and simple.

[@johnsonugo2366]

Elizabeth how are you my name Dennis I live in Sweden can we be a friend if you don't mind

[@shinryujinanswermycalls6648]

👏

[@johnsonugo2366]

@@shinryujinanswermycalls6648 why claping

[@connieurdal4307]

Good for you!

[@Filipinagirlnextdoor]

Johnson Ugo I don't think my husband would like the idea 😕

[@gabetalks9275]

It's ridiculous how much shame and pressure society, friends, and family put on us to have premarital sex. Sex is sacred, and it's high time people learned that. Thank you for the encouragement.

[@RobBKowalski]

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[@Relies-t5v]

this is mostly a western issue (which is also why americans have highest divorces and most ruined families, due to promiscuity)

[@Relies-t5v]

vast majority of people around the world have intimacy after marriage with their partner at 20s, also the comment is a little strange, i have never seen a parent forcing child to do premarital stuff... even in the us, it would be really messed up in those cases

[@boitumelolamola9582]

I'm a 23 years old virgin and was starting to feel conflicted about this waiting, but now after watching this video I've just reaffirmed that I'm on the right path. Thank you.

[@RobBKowalski]

Keep going! Join our community: facebook.com/groups/waitingworks

[@tiisetsomahlatji57]

Me too, I don't feel alone anymore so thank you man.

[@alltruth881]

I’m 24 years old virgin. I’m sure it’s God’s plan to wait. What if the future wife used to whore around? I don’t know what to think honestly. It’s like I’m waiting for nothing. Most people who wait end up marrying someone who is on the other end of the spectrum. 😞 I think there is no point in waiting if anyone can just be forgiven. Everyone can say that right? 🤷‍♀️ something is seriously wrong here

[@Countryboy316]

My wife was a virgin till our wedding night and we started dating when she was 29 and got married when she was 30. Unfortunately my first wife took off with someone else and so I wasn't a virgin.

[@akoladeabdulsalam7119]

i'm a boy of 19 years,still a virgin and i've promised not to break it until my marriage. thanks for this video.

[@tyronesmith6921]

Good job bro! I'm 21 and I'm waiting until marriage, just like you!👍

[@omega0195]

Same

[@bombshellstatistics4369]

Gods not real go have fun

[@simpsbelongtothegulags3702]

@@bombshellstatistics4369 thats not fun And God is so real man

[@bombshellstatistics4369]

Kyrie Clutch GOATving you’re a virgin how would yk if it’s fun or not being a virgin for 25+ years is just like wtf are you doing and where’s proof of god

[@bupbeinc]

My husband and I were virgins and we never regret waiting.

[@lydiatania9750]

BUPBÊ INC blessed couple 😘😘

[@socksumi]

My only regret was not getting layed in my youth, being shy and all. It would have done me world of good and realeased a load of pent up sexual tension allowing me to focus on other things. You see some of us have blood coursing through our veins and don't suffer the cycle of guilt and shame imposed by religion.

[@XxYukaaXD]

BUPBÊ INC beautiful !!

[@alaninguyen8434]

Wow

[@armandoj.sanchez9243]

Beautiful!! Praise GOD!!!

[@abundanceoffavor1353]

If he's faithful enough to wait, he'll be faithful enough to stay.

[@hoihnuhaokip3540]

Exactly

[@abundanceoffavor1353]

@Victoria Solis the principle which governs against premarital sex is the same one which governs against extramarital sex - chastity. If, on the other hand, you don't believe in obedience to the biblical mandate to honor the marriage bed, then, I respectfully rest my case. Can 2 walk together unless they be agreed?

[@abundanceoffavor1353]

@Science not religion I could parallel that to buying produce without scanning the inside. The reasonable expectation is that the produce is what it's worth. Occassionally, you'll run into a rotten bag when you open it at home. It's unhealthy to go around expecting to unearth the negative things about people. I personally think that's starting the relationship on the wrong foot. Not all folks are that one rotten bag of produce.

[@abundanceoffavor1353]

@Science not religion folks who cheat are seeking validation. It is THEM that have the problem. So, you don't have to dismantle your values and start sleeping around, just to match them so you're even. The way to fix their wondering eye, is to help them heal the wound of rejection. If you in turn sleep around like they do, then it's a vicious cycle of rejection that leads to dog eat dog.

[@Happycactus-s1q]

Have you heard of Josh Duggar?

[@younme1775]

Im 26 and still virgin. Im getting married this year.

[@akosuaayim888]

anne anne God bless ur marriage life xX

[@missmcphee8859]

Congrats

[@Bufosmixes]

Congrats. Waiting will be worth it.

[@pramilaprasad9151]

God bless u bro 22 me still virgin

[@bangtanbangtan8338]

Congrats

[@brambletbrats3184]

Been married twice, divorced twice... in both cases, lots of sex before marriage. I had very little respect for them and for myself going into marriage but I wanted to "do the right thing". That is a losing formula. Learning to wait and respect the other person and yourself is so crucial. Thanks.

[@suhsuhi1867]

He is talking 100% truth.

[@RobBKowalski]

Thanks brother!! A great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you my brother is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@johnahbal4027]

Your soo soo soo get a life you sad sad human

[@Baconboy2323]

No he's not. He's telling people to wait meanwhile have slept with more women than most guys do in their lifetime.

[@saimoooo]

I can't believe I'm hearing a man saying all this. But I'm extremely happy. 😊

[@LA-sz6yo]

Yet he had plenty of sex before marriage, so he's in no position to talk about it

[@dannygillmusic]

Lisa Aldera that’s like saying an ex drug addict is in no position to talk about drug addiction.

[@LA-sz6yo]

@@dannygillmusic no, it's not the same. He's telling us all the benefits of not having sex before marriage like he experienced them himself, but he did have sex before marriage, so this means he can't have those benefits, it's a paradox. An ex drug addict can get clean and talk about his past experience with drugs, because he has experienced addiction and he's now sober. But this guy hasn't experienced how is it like to not have sex before marriage, cause he did have sex before marriage. He could re-marry and not have sex before it happens, but I doubt his religious beliefs would allow it

[@dannygillmusic]

Lisa Aldera no it is actually the same, the ex drug addict can speak with more authority than I can about the dangers of doing drugs because he’s lived it. This guy can talk about the damaging effects of sex outside of marriage because he’s lived it.

[@mullm5375]

Danny Gill No it’s like someone who has got to eat more than their fair share of sweet delicious cake telling you to keep your hands off it. Drug addiction is something that should be avoided at all costs sex on the other hand is something that when practiced safely can be very healthy so your analogy doesn’t hold water.

[@taliavandenouden-asmar3107]

Oh wauw u have the best 10 reasons ever! I'm 25 years, and will never let a guy touch me till marriage. And if he will not respect my choice, then he can look for on other girl. And I believe that God will let me find the right man. Thanks for your great video😊

[@lifeofraphi_c1099]

Talia The Magic Fruit .there is a guy there out for you...tailored and customized by Gods Grace and filled with His womderful wisdom

[@taliavandenouden-asmar3107]

John Alfred Thank u! Yes I trust in the Lord Jesus! And he knows what best is for us🙏☺️

[@darsanprakash27]

I hope the sames happens to me. I have never had sex or a girlfriend. I hope I get a great girl for marriage who understands me.

[@taliavandenouden-asmar3107]

Crysta thank u!! God bless u too!❤️

[@leonherperger4055]

so, you run the risk of marrying a guy who can never sexually please you, despite the fact that that is our only purpose as a species?

[@rosarieannfernandez2099]

Im 20,and still Virgin. Im saving myself for my future Husband. 😘 And I am Christian also. 😇

[@RobBKowalski]

Great news!! Keep it up!! Of course, you are not alone in saving yourself for marriage, and belonging to a community of likeminded people is the best way to keep the commitment. A great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@travissongs3747]

@@RobBKowalski I am also a virgin but if u kiss your bf does that mean h aren't a virgin

[@teodoraiftimie6869]

This Rob is manipulating you all wtf do what you feel whenever you want, what is the purpose of life if you're not living it properly

[@AnjaliKumari-tn3cv]

Nice

[@يوسفاحلام-م7ص]

Hello can I get ur facebook to know eatch others

[@Elf_tronic_Lil]

My husband and I was virgins when we got married. I’m so proud of it!:) The most important part in our marriage is a emotional connection, THEN it goes to physical connection. Without the emotion there can’t be no love. I’m a forever subscriber to your channel today:)

[@tendaichigoveraa4605]

y are blessed

[@RobBKowalski]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience in waiting!!

[@jazzieharry2291]

Am 23 and am still a virgin, however, I've had super bad experiences with guys. Form almost being raped to being cheated on countless times, oh I was engaged to this captain(of a cargo ship) but three months before the wedding he wanted to have sex, I said no marriage first. And he broke up with me, then took back everything he give me, after he told me to leave my job, ( my only source of income at the time) my mom was sick too. I was only 21. Now I keep my heart to my self, work night's days. Trying to save for my degree. I have enough experiences to last a life time. Am beautiful am intelligent, am kind, am healthy and most of all the favour of God is On my life. I've learnt to love myself so much, am not afraid to be alone :)

[@reviewqueen1222]

Jazzie Harry amen

[@azadsalihe3305]

Rob Kowalski i like this video. God bless u.when man get it right and take their. Place. Women surely follow.we need a man who blieve like this and show the way.

[@robingriffin42]

Jazzie Harry, be strong, yes!!!!!!!! I'm also 23 :)

[@GreenOx-yo6nk]

That's so good to hear that you didn't go through any terrible experience, you will find someone eventually, you actually inspired me to keep going, I am working on loving myself and being a better person and your story is proof of that it's possible

[@EveofPyrite]

Girl im also 23 and a virgin and have had people try to rape and assault me over the years which pisses me off. But God is faithful and he loves YOU dont worry about your future just keep on serving God you will never be alone !

[@racheljohnnie1614]

26 years still a virgin, and I am proud of myself

[@RobBKowalski]

You should be proud of yourself!! Way to go!! While waiting, it is a good idea to have a support system/community. A great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@angiesworld8038]

And I'm proud of you too. 😊

[@asancgosna8824]

If you did not find a man to love then be proud but not having sex until mariage no mather what kind of bullshit. You need to first love then you should know other person body. You will be having sex with that husband maaany years. And if sex sucks you might regret it.

[@lemontagnardbref7552]

Hey stay on that way ,may God bless you.

[@racheljohnnie1614]

@@brookericketts7486 was born on the 7th January

[@marlenecalderon5830]

I love how the comments are full of succesful waiters! LOVE YOU GUYS, 25 and virgin, me and my fiancé are both virgins and we are marrying this year... he is 33 and he made it! Its possible with God's help!

[@octosimp1717]

The hardest struggle in my life is knowing I had sex before marriage. It haunts my dreams, my thoughts, and even my prayers, and at times, for a split second I am even reminded of the lustful it gave me. Although instantly conviction floods mymind. Everyday I struggle with knowing that that very sin is why Jesus needed to die. I sentenced Jesus to the cross with my sin with my sin and while I am reminded of Gods grace daily I am also reminded of my shame. God forgive me, for I know I have sinned against you, but make me clean again O God and make my heart desire your desires, not my own.

[@Baconboy2323]

But the guy peddling this message isn't a "successful waiter". In fact, he's the complete opposite and never waited. He's slept with so many and trying to make money trying to tell people to wait.

[@charlestheidiot6475]

The video literary said that talk is cheap, these people might just be saying it to get a heart and a bunch of positive feedback

[@thebaxman4459]

It must be nice knowing YOU no longer have to wonder IF or WHEN you will EVER find/meet someone special anymore.

[@juniperlabor3489]

I'm 28 and I'm still virgin because I'm waiting for my future husband who deserves everything of me.

[@RobBKowalski]

Good for you, Juniper!! I commend your commitment for purity until marriage. In the meantime, a great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@dinohall2595]

Are you aware that there is no biological difference between a virgin and a non-virgin, or that experimenting sexually allows you to evaluate your sexual compatibility with someone?

[@ahmadabdullateef3386]

@@dinohall2595 It really doesnt.

[@dinohall2595]

@@ahmadabdullateef3386 Yes, it does. You get to see if you and your partner have the same sex drive, the same preferences in position, or are even physically able to achieve orgasm together. All of which could be big deals in committing to a long-term relationship.

[@ahmadabdullateef3386]

@@dinohall2595 All if which can be achieved without having prior sexual intimacy with other people. Because each person is different in what they prefer so it's just useless endeavour and is nothing more than an excuse to sleep around without consequence.

[@adaezealisonokafor9927]

Just had an argument with my boyfriend about premarital sex. I'm not having it. Thank you for reinforcing my beliefs. This video was really timely. God sent.

[@yasi7172]

Adaeze Alison Okafor first of all, god didn’t send, you were browsing on KZbin you came across it due to some highly intelligent algorithm that shows you the things you’re most likely to be interested in. So KZbin sent it. Thank KZbin 😂

[@adaezealisonokafor9927]

Premed Yasi atheist? No problem. Do you.

[@lennomenno]

Bye bye boyfriend.

[@LilySaintSin]

lennomenno Yup! 😂

[@bosstwouharvard2194]

Adaeze Alison Okafor dumps him please if he keeps on asking. I made a mistake like me that I ended up a sexual assault victim that has been hunted me for years dealing with depression.

[@ThestorytellerofKatunga]

June 31, I will be celebrating 6years of celibacy. It is the most liberating decision of my life. Praise the Lord.

[@CYMRUKID69]

Jolaade Adebayo you are beautiful I'd marry you.

[@paulokello5981]

But but but June has 30 days

[@Prince-pb1vf]

Awwww, God protect our dear sister in all she does and be her everything in life . #USA

[@Prince-pb1vf]

Leigh hahahhaahha maybe of she loves ...but u can go ahead and talk to her privately and see what she says ... wish u the best bro ...God bless u .. that's how we connect .. God's ways are not our ways ..have met alot of lovely pple in a joking way here online.

[@promisehenry9689]

Mine is over a year now and I am so at peace

[@Rose-of-autumn-2002.]

I’m a 20 year old autistic girl and am constantly mocked by my friends and even family for wanting to wait till I’m married it’s really refreshing to see someone showing the consequences of those choices

[@RobBKowalski]

I applaud you. Join our communities (100% free): facebook.com/groups/waitingworks and facebook.com/groups/cityfam

[@arreola891]

They Mock you because THEY didn't wait and when they see you, You remind them of their bad choices. You remind them that they're hoes...😂 Sorry, sounds harsh but I guarantee, deep down, that's how they feel.

[@noodlexdrago]

Beautiful girl inside and out! Don't worry about them mocking you!🙏

[@AlohaAlina]

Wow, it’s so refreshing hearing this from a man. Being in college, it’s rare to find guys who have this kind of mindset. I’ve always belived this was the right way to go about relationships and now I’ve learn some great reasons behind it from this video. Thank you!

[@moonlitbalcony2861]

AlohaAlina girl I know right!

[@moonlitbalcony2861]

Rob Kowalski I trying to Rob! I have no time for situationships!

[@92hareth]

Gerrod Zuber that's is impressive bro.. hold on to your belief and hope.. you'll definitely meet someone.. it's all a matter of time.. I'm also 26 and never slept with anyone as this is the right thing to do for both a happy relationship and a fulfilling life

[@92hareth]

Indeed.. this is not only a problem on relationships.. it's also a social issue... So many babies have parents who are not married and hence all too often they grow up abondoned by their parents... And so many people get infected with sexually transmitted disease because of the same reason.. people know what's right yet they choose not to do so just because it's difficult..

[@tracikauffman6753]

AlohaAlina "Guys" exactly, not yet men who dont honor and respect themselves let alone a woman.. I am a firm believer in what he is saying only wish Id heard this 30 years ago. Stay strong..

[@aestheticvibes432]

18 and a virgin, never been kissed or touched sexually I'm trying my best to abstain from and stop sexting cause it's sexual immorality... I love the fact that you're saying the truth and not adding any loop holes, may God help us all

[@RobBKowalski]

Thank you for sharing!! You would benefit greatly from having the support of a community to help you through your struggle. A great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@aestheticvibes432]

@@chadradwell2593 thank you 😊😊✝️may God help us

[@randomcankersore8772]

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[@TheDanielsDiva]

Love this! Happy virgin waiting for marriage. My reasons are primarily faith based but I love the way your justification are credible and logical even if you aren’t spiritual so anyone can see no matter your belief or lack there of the value of sex after marriage. Two thumbs way up!

[@GreenOx-yo6nk]

TheDanielsDiva That's true this video it brought up points I never thought of and blew my mind completely

[@jeanyves4705]

TheDanielsDiva.How are you ? Sublime way to go about it Diva:).

[@jeanyves4705]

And thank you so much @Rob for discussing what's no longer valued by so many in our communities :).Many negative connotations are thrown to those who choose to go the way you are advising! And to those who long for lasting happiness !:).Canada loves you and can't wait for your next video ma man :)

[@TheDanielsDiva]

Jean Yves I’m doing well! How are you? Thank you so much for the encouragement !

[@leonherperger4055]

sex is an important part of any relationship. to settle on character traits alone is to risk being an unsatisfied partner, or risking missing out on something better. sounds like wilfull repression to me

[@shenarpacheco229]

This is for those virgin people that exist and wait till marriage. Godbless you! I admire people like you! Very rare.

[@sayfulmiah8120]

Thanks I'm one of them

[@chlariepeace6810]

That me and my boyfirend

[@wellingtonlewis9040]

Me too

[@zeesays726]

Thank u that's me

[@elizashiku5066]

Thankyou

[@dikakafechina7988]

I am 25 and still virgin and proud to wait till the marriage

[@jesuslovesyou2270]

Wow that's beautiful

[@troyjacobsson9609]

Ha gay

[@ceceprincess4758]

congrats keep good work up

[@MusiimentaIan]

Can you be my wife ?

[@sangyachatterjee4984]

I absolutely agree with u. Dika kafechina.

[@brookealexandra34]

0:36 #10- Sex masks problems 1:22 #9- Marriage allows you to evaluate your real feelings 2:14 #8- Sex connects us 2:46 #7- Pregnancy 3:00 #6- Everybody else is doing it 3:40 #5- What we gain too easily, we esteem too lightly 4:24 #4- Transfer of control 5:06 #3- Talk is cheap 5:31 #2- Physical attraction fades 6:02 #1- Better to have life-long friends than short-term sex partners

[@RobBKowalski]

Thanks for time stamping my video!! Appreciate it!! :)

[@etapekang1992]

Thank you very much

[@TameraWeeks1]

We've been happily married for 30 years, raised 6 children (oldest one has Cerebral Palsy), and we waited until our wedding day to share the same bed. It was worth the wait! 😄

[@Prince-pb1vf]

Tamera God bless your family and always be with u in everything and lead to more prosperous ways and be your joy forever in Jesus name.

[@zahra2695]

World mind telling me what's the secret behind this happy marriage ?

[@TameraWeeks1]

Prince Iman Thank you so much, Prince!

[@TameraWeeks1]

zahra ben Well, there is no secret and we've sure had our ups and downs. Lol There was a period of time where I had to write down on paper the things I like about my husband. Then, I had to keep this list in my mind. Lol We both live our lives for God first and then for each other. I have prayed lots to get through tough times. God has moved. One time....I didn't know this for years....but my husband was inspired by a story at a men's conference. He began to pray for God to help him love me.... without expecting anything in return....no specific response from me. It took months, but these prayers and actions from him changed our marriage.

[@zahra2695]

Tamera Weeks that's lovely ,thank you for sharing that story ... i will always remember that May Allah (God ) bless your family 😊

[@AsphereLP]

I am 45 and still a virgin. I am sure one day I will find my prince, who will care for me and will protect me.

[@makedaqueen6867]

Talvez não

[@cherylyeo5609]

And I'm 46yo and never regretted to make the best decisions

[@dikakafechina7988]

Waouh. Amazing. God bless u

[@RobBKowalski]

Good for you, sister!! Until then, a great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@jamessharp9790]

Ok so what do you do when you marry someone who is totally physically incompatible?

[@msMuffet.]

I’m a teenager. Never had a boyfriend. Never been kissed. Am terrified to lose my virginity. Maybe I’ll wait ‘til after marriage....

[@naomieriktv709]

Please wait 😁

[@indianajosephine4881]

1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. I was scared too but trust me. It gets better. I am still a virgin waiting till marriage but I am no longer scared. I believe the right man GOD has for you helps that fear and you feel safe and the love really sets you free. Try to trust instead. GOD knows our beginning to our end, no need to worry.

[@worldfamousgamer9191]

How old are you?

[@justahugenerd1278]

Me too!

[@yukorai8323]

Alyssa and after marriage it will be painful and it will be worse if you find out you’re incompatible

[@jessibella0167]

Never heard it like this before...the funny thing is, everything said is already cognitively understood BUT we totally ignore what we already know and understand...so glad this video was made. Thanks!

[@creatingdigitalassets]

Agree ...be sexually disciplined. Discipline is important with money, fitness, avoiding addictions and this . Be celibate and practice abstinence. So many good reasons. No baby. No disease. No heartbreak. When you meet the ONE you’ll be pure in mind body and spirit. Not bitter. You never want to make sex so routine careless and casual that it’s no longer a special gift .

[@celestiaheartfilia2410]

I am still seventeen years old. I was raised in a Christian home and was taught that keeping my virginity is like saving a very important part of me for the person who deserves it the most. Watching this video made me proud of myself and made me want to raise my head higher than I already do. I am going to college in a few months and I am going in strong without letting others force me to do what isn’t right. 🙏 God bless

[@RobBKowalski]

I'm proud of you, too!! Of course, you are not alone in the wait, and college life does bring about it's set of temptations. I recommend getting involved in a community group now to support you in this commitment. A great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@blessedemmanuel6089]

God will help you stay true to your Creed...

[@Baconboy2323]

You do you, but he wasn't a virgin and doesn't believe in the BS he's peddling here. He's just trying to make money.

[@سليم-خ6ه]

Hello

[@Rebeccs777]

It's been 2 years. Any updates on college life..? No condemnation of course if things went south but it'll be encouraging for others to know your story

[@hidingbrutality5695]

I'm a man , i'm a 31 years old virgin and i'm proud of it . That's what the western society needs, people like you . In our society sex before mariage is forbiden. Great work man , Keep up .

[@sasori8555]

Actually you're one of the manilest dudes

[@hidingbrutality5695]

Rob Kowalski i'm a muslim and i realy respect people like you ,people trying to show to others good maners and good morals , trying to built a good and spiritual society with good morals . Keep up the good work brother ...from Algeria with peace and love and respect . Ps : excuse my english , it's my 3rd language . ^^

[@hidingbrutality5695]

Sa sori what do you mean with '' manilest '' ?!

[@hidingbrutality5695]

Sa sori hahaha , thank youu . For me being a man , is being responsabl , have a word , honnest, faithful, loyal , having pride and dignity, using his strengh to help, and to protect his family from his wrong desires and from the others . Sex is a way to give the material body his pleaser between couples and to strengh love between a man and his wife .... respect and love to you ^^ .

[@barbieplayboybunny6111]

hiding brutality Hola. You are phenomenal. So much respect. Thought that it was extinct. I wish the Latin Society could think like that. Being a virgin rocks so much positivity.

[@Mclovin-mj5wz]

18 years old, single, and still virgin, cause I promise lord that I'd wait until the right girl comes and be my future wife.

[@kuronomalin2392]

Jhonatan Barradas 19 waiting as well. We got this!! 💪

[@luciandara4346]

Tracey, also waiting for the right guy 💪

[@jasamkojajesam6108]

Beautiful💗 ur the real man

[@johnmoshaard5941]

Sex

[@mariahwisel1381]

Jhonatan Barradas alright dude👍

[@MoviesYouveScene]

it's pure gold when you find a guy saying these sort of things and living by it. excellent video!

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[@DawgTreyna]

I told my grand kids that I'm still a virgin.

[@rebeccamomof4]

Hahahaha

[@meIatonin]

Ewww

[@leosama8952]

They should believe in you

[@mayankwalya283]

Virgin forever

[@itsmichelle_thevirgo]

Yea grandkids, yall adopted !!

[@athonynesbitt7956]

I been with my gf for 3 years now, she told me she dont want to have sex until were married i told her i have no problem with that, i love her with all my heart i will marry her some day when the time is right, i dont want to be with no other woman because shes my Beautiful Queen

[@bombonzrocks]

Anthonio Nesbitt AMEEEEEEEN! God bless your future family!

[@bettyannewhite4526]

Unless there are serious issues you both are working out in your lives, 3 years is a long time. If the right time has not come yet, it never will.

[@athonynesbitt7956]

@@bettyannewhite4526 what are trying to say? Sex is not inportant to me...

[@bri3449]

You are a great man that's rare💖

[@basirmohammadi5657]

your the man

[@NameePark]

My husband always says he read what people come into something for is what they will leave it for.

[@noonehere4332]

Wise words mate

[@Countryboy316]

So true, and not just sex. If someone comes into a relationship for a materialistic thing and thing is all the suddenly gone, they will leave and find it elsewhere.

[@chlariepeace6810]

I do not understand what you husbsnd means

[@Emma-gi6hy]

So true!! At 18, I became a nun. Now, at 39 years old, I'm still a virgin but not so much of a nun because I had to switch careers for personal matters. But still keep my faith strongly in Christ. I'm forever grateful to God to have given me that gift. And I can say that it honors God and gives him glory when a woman not only preserves her virginity until marriage, but also presents herself in the presence of God this way.

[@kaiyah05]

Coming from a man’s point of view, this actually made sense. I always wondered why waiting until marriage to have sex was so important. Now I can have a better understanding of what it means. I’ve always heard this from a woman’s point of view.

[@hiralsheth8885]

kaiyah05 couldn’t agree more!

[@k.a.3614]

Well... at least for me (I am female) I wouldn't want a man who wants with sex till marriage. 1. I don't want to get married (at least not in the near future) and second I want sex before marriage to know if he/she can actually fullfill my needs (and I his/hers) and if we are compatible. And I don't want to be together with someone for 2 years or more before having sex. (Two years because only after two years you don't have those pink love glasses on anymore)

[@superdanyal2009]

@@k.a.3614 This is a bad reasoning to me, sexual performance is something that can be enhanced with practice. You don't really need to be physical to get a gist of how sexually compatible someone is, even a conversation can clear that.

[@cooperjenkins2657]

@@k.a.3614 figures

[@gabntumba2434]

Am 20 still a virgin and I got a girl lately and I was thinking about having sex with since she's till a virgin too but after watching this video am going have to wait ,test my patience and maybe marry her . Thanks you so much it's really helpful

[@rn8845]

Gabriel Ntumba that is very charming of you to wait!💙

[@gabntumba2434]

@@kagonteselang8482 what you mean

[@kagonteselang8482]

@Gabriel Ntumba big up's to u for making the right decision, not to sleep wth ur gf.

[@gabntumba2434]

@@kagonteselang8482 it's hard but with GOD I can go through that

[@maranatha5555]

hi, you can look up some video's of mules munroe on this topic

[@matty.3696]

I was lucky to be in a relationship with a girl that had the exact same view of extramarital sex as I do, absolutely none. I’m extremely glad we held to that because she ended up not being the girl I thought she was, she broke up with me 6 months after our relationship started. The funny thing is, I was sure she was the girl I would marry, there was hardly a doubt in my mind until she started to get really distant in a The relationship. So the lesson is, just because you are sure you will marry that girl or guy, you still need to wait till your are married to sleep together bc no matter how close you are to them, it can still fall a part. Trust God and follow His design, He will never let you down.

[@lydia8322]

Matthew Dealy i need a godly man like you. God bless you

[@kccoj12345]

Lydia Eseosa Osaretin same

[@andreahan6969]

Matthew 😍

[@wilsonwaigwa520]

Amen and amen!

[@christopherjameswright9614]

Man Preach... You on Point....

[@smokeymeow52]

I’m 40 and still a virgin. I believe in self respect and that will prevent me from settling for less than what I truly deserve.

[@RobBKowalski]

Way to go! Join our community: facebook.com/groups/waitingworks

[@Jericho-xs3ju]

Smokey meow. What do you deserve? And this was a while ago. Did you find it yet ?

[@genevatoby2397]

Yes! Fastest way to chase off a player is to say you are saving yourself for marriage.

[@mima_piedade]

Brian Waller awhile doesn't mean never, I'm wort the wait and so is "mr. Perfect".

[@zainatrish1531]

Some players don't give up.they will marry you indeed and start treating you like shit....Africa is full of virgin who end up being divorced abandoned with children.

[@mima_piedade]

Zaina Trish how long did those couples took to get married? And Africa is full of virgins? Where? I don't see them.

[@zainatrish1531]

Ilka Piedade come to Africa I will introduce u to many of them.it took them years to know each other. They met at church as born again.u can never know a person even if u date for 20years.only when u sleep n wake in the same bed everyday that's when bad behaviours are showing up.

[@mima_piedade]

Zaina Trish I was born and raised in Africa, I still leave in here, the whole continent isn't the same, you should know that. And in those cases, 9/10 times there were a bunch of red flags those women ignored, yeah, you'll never know everything about a person, but you can't hide yourself completely either.

[@MegaJacko4]

Im 27. A virgin and engaged.....and i cant wait to marry the man who has waited for me.

[@elmerovero7528]

I can't imagine, after 27 years. Lucky guy, so much better than not having waited.

[@metawarp7446]

firecracker 91 I gotta say that you got some balls.

[@MegaJacko4]

Thanks guys

[@ashleyj5766]

firecracker 91 that's amazing!

[@bosstwouharvard2194]

firecracker 91 congrats.

[@retsuko9444]

Ever since sex became even easier to get, both men and women have become a lot more bitter and cynical. You see more men bashing women and more women bashing men. It has caused a lot of emotional instability. Everything you said definitely makes total sense and anyone who can't see that is either blind or in complete denial.

[@talyahyisrael3720]

Pizza Head So true.

[@thelovely961]

Pizza Head Well put and well said

[@leonherperger4055]

and wrong. the rise in gender arguments are within the last 10 years, when in reality we are more repressed since the 60's

[@HoneyBlissClothing]

Pizza Head Yesss!👏🏾👏🏾 I was actually thinking the same thing the other day

[@noraaa8479]

unfortunately that’s the sad truth, but let’s just say that there's still good men and women that we’ve not come across yet to be positive.. and just for advice don’t show a new girl your money and take her on fancy dates and stuff test her first she might be a gold digger you never know, let her see a poor man and then you’ll see then if she deserves your money if she chooses to stick cause that means she’s a real one she chose your personality not your money

[@giftedsoulhealer]

Y’all who never even kissed and had sex until marriage, you are part of the 1% purest people in the world. So congrats 💖

[@zippyblessed839]

Thank u

[@littlenightmare3481]

Why are people who already had sex bad? Wtf

[@juanzavala9023]

@@littlenightmare3481 they’re masked in their religious purity culture

[@Relies-t5v]

You seem to be living in an alternative reality with that 1%... because the vast majority of people around the world get married in their 20s and then have sex, it is only in western countries that promiscuity is common which is also why their divorces are so high families are so dysfunctional

[@Relies-t5v]

@@juanzavala9023 Who said that? nobody said they are bad but it is a well observable fact that premarital sex/promiscuity leads to mental and physical array of issues alongside much higher divorce rates and dysfunctional families

[@liiilliees]

Am a living proof too,, two years (celibate) And still counting #waitingisthenewbae😍😍😍

[@mercedesmercedes173]

Lilian Juma me too.

[@liiilliees]

Mercedes Mercedes am glad we are many of us.. 😍

[@deeplygazingable]

I'm 27 & I'm still a virgin. I battled with my moral compass a bit, but I'm sold on continuing to wait until marriage. If the guy is celebate and willing to wait, I'm okay with that, too.

[@davidfrey08]

You do You boo, but don't think premarital sex is immoral because it's not. You have the right to choose for your self. But you're not better nor worse than someone choosing not to wait.

[@RobBKowalski]

Proud of you sister!! Of course, you don't need to white knuckle waiting alone. A great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@shurenraorao4850]

@@davidfrey08 umm, it is bad.

[@davidfrey08]

@@shurenraorao4850 no, it is not.

[@3brendan933]

i'm 17 and i agree with most of this. i think it's rlly odd and absurd how everyone just has sex so quickly and mindless as if it were a task like eating or breathing. i also think it prevents people from forming lasting realationships, it's almost as if everyone's worth is around how good they are in bed, and if they aren't then they get ditched. it's not about love anymore but about pleasure.

[@saliha.km7]

Ron Anderson I’m 17 and I’m glad to be hearing this :)

[@wangxu2155]

17 as well, glad to see other sensible teenagers on KZbin lol.

[@rebornlove1324]

Yume Kumo 18 And you all are so right!

[@Computerix]

Ron Anderson 17 and agree with you

[@hawaali4115]

Ron Anderson I am glad teenagers have this mind set.

[@asmrsleep3079]

My boyfriend told me he wants to wait until marriage. I never thought about waiting until marriage but after watching videos I agree with him and that I should save myself for him. We've been together a little over a year and we are both 20 years old and both virgins. He is my best friend. I agree with your points. Sex is like a bandage and it can cover problems that you should, instead, be talking through. My boyfriend and I have never gotten in a heated fight, only arguments here and there but we always stay calm and talk them through. We have such a close bond even without sex which I love. :) I can totally see a future with him and hopefully in a few years we can have that special moment together.

[@RobBKowalski]

That is amazing! I wish I was as smart as you and your bf when I was your age. Join our communities (100% free): facebook.com/groups/waitingworks and facebook.com/groups/cityfam

[@lanchanoinguyen2914]

Good luck,god bless both of you.It is hard but i'm on that path.Even if you dont marry him,you shall keep yourself until you will have married to some one. I usually masturbate instead of real sex.But i'm afraid that my partner might not.It is haunting.

[@ar-1571]

Newsflash: if he/she makes you wait, then they don’t like you like that

[@sucram1018]

@@ar-1571 In your world.

[@earth2sageee]

@@ar-1571 that's not true at all

[@thebasementweeb4909]

I am 19, and I have never dated. My parents have told me from the time I was old enough to know that sex is for marriage. Even though I had already planned to save my body for my future husband, this video strengthened my resolve. Thanks!!!!

[@raisingforhim3186]

That Nova Gal dont save your body for your future husband save it for yourself it doesn't belong to him. Save it because it's the right thing to do but no one belongs to another person

[@thebasementweeb4909]

I know it's the right thing to do, and that's part of why I'm not going to have sex before I'm married, but I WANT to save myself for my future husband. I WANT to belong to him. And hopefully he'll want to belong to me. I'd like for us to belong to each other. That probably sounds silly, but it's just what I think.

[@tuneplan1392]

that's what will make the both of you one union.

[@pujap5483]

TunePlan : i am 29 and unmarried and i too follow the same Philosophy.

[@raisingforhim3186]

I don't know if you are a Christian, but we belong to God, not to another human. I respect my husband and honor and love him, but I don't belong to him :) Your happiness cannot stem from him or you will be very unhappy. I've been happily married for five years, almost six now. Thinking you belong to him will set you up for a lot of disappointment. Both of you seek after God, not each other

[@mosadik9755]

I’m a 31 year old virgin man, living in D.C, medical graduate, I’m a Muslim but I strongly agree with what is said in this video !😍😍😍

[@simplehealthyliving4681]

All I will say is in this day and age finding a good, virgin, affectionate wife is almost impossible. So, if you do decide to have sex, *do not feel guilty about it.* In such a case, just have sex with a woman who is okay with casual sex whether she is virgin or not. It is not your fault that the quality of women is far too excessively low currently to even qualify, let alone excel as wife material. So, unless you are really, really sure you have found such a girl, make a choice to enjoy casual sex with some girl at some point in the future, whom you should remember to not marry.

[@Atlstreetpodcast2.0]

dude go get laid...you may never get married.

[@dijafam1686]

Progress and Peace 1 Am a girl ND virgin ND am ready to wait till marriage so dont discourage him

[@dijafam1686]

Nice Doctor wow u r doing the right thing am also waiting for marriage... Am proud of u

[@simplehealthyliving4681]

*"All I will say is in this day and age finding a good, virgin, affectionate wife is almost impossible."* Farah, Read this very first line in my initial post. I specifically said "almost impossible." You are what I call, an anomaly. You *know* it. I know it. Women are the gatekeepers of sex - whether they wait till marriage or whether they offer their genitalia and mouths to some men who already have 2-3 casual girls on the side, is completely on them. You *know* for sure that *most* women in this day and age, do this. And just so we are clear, I am not *at all* anti-sex. I am very pro-sex, but within the framework of a marriage, i.e. vaginal sex and oral sex and romantic sex and somewhat animalistic sex are all literally 1000000000% perfect (zero negativity, shame whatsoever), but *within marriage ONLY.* So why should a man wait and be made a mockery of, if women are already offering their bodies *almost free of charge* to a certain section of men? Women are not being virtuous. So, if a man exhibits virtue in this specific aspect then he is the one who is being made a fool out of. That is why my advice to this naive Nice Doctor is to either consciously search for that extremely *rare* virtuous girl who would *also* be a pretty decent wife, *OR* make a conscious decision to have casual sex with zero emotional investment, zero long-term financial investment i.e. almost no commitment with common day-to-day girls. If you Farah, are a virtuous girl, my advice to you is find a decent man (job, decent manners, decent looks) quickly, and showcase what you bring to the table i.e. your decent looks, domestic skills, sweetness and affectionate behavior and *maybe* a part-time or not-full-time job, and try to get him to marry you. Last thing, there is a time-limited value ascribed to most things in life. Just because one is a virgin, that does not mean an 80 year old virgin is marriage material. So, the cutoff age till which you would be considered marriage material, factoring in your virginity, is 25, or at most 27, because beyond that it doesn't matter much. 20-25 age is the sweet spot. And remember, you must not give in to pressure from the guy to have sex before marriage. *First* secure his commitment, by *showcasing* the value you would bring to the marriage - cooking meals for him to impress him when he comes to see you, is a solid way to do this (remember to maintain zero sexual bodily contact). Similarly, ask him about his values and virtues. Then tell him about your values and virtues. Then if he a decent human being, pledge that if you guys were to get married you would love, respect and honor him throughout life, because he too would have sacrificial love and dedication towards you. Then it would be highly likely that he would marry you. All these, over the course of 6-12 months. Then you guys get married and have sex thereafter till your 70s or 80s.

[@tonyhabost1494]

since i just had a long discussion with my girlfriend of this, she's being really traditional and the way that you guys saying it. But i really respect and understand where she stand for. This is a really good a video made me think of myself again. I appreciated!

[@onlyy823]

Now I find someone who's talking like a real dude! Man you just made my day!

[@NameePark]

I scrolled up the comments to like the video and realized I already did that a couple minutes before lol

[@RobBKowalski]

Appreciate the love!! :)

[@dracowulfalphyn5503]

I am a guy who is 25 and I refuse to give up my virginity. I was convinced at the age of 14 that I should wait untill marriage and that is what I am going to do.

[@beautifulaether]

37 year old virgin :) It is worth it!

[@dracowulfalphyn5503]

@@beautifulaether Thank you!

[@beautifulaether]

@@dracowulfalphyn5503 :)

[@RobBKowalski]

You the man!! That said, I encourage you to get community to support you in your commitment and to read my book to give yourself additional encouragement of why waiting is the best option. A great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@kathleen0933]

You are the real man!!!! A girl will be lucky to have you!

[@sphindz]

I just stumbled across this video and oh my soul! I truly believe this message is for me. God has been speaking to me about the very same subject and I’ve chosen to be obedient and become celibate. Just this morning at my church, my pastor spoke on the very same topic and it gave me chills! So much I could say but I’ll just say Thank You! Thank you for being a vessel of God and allowing Him to share this message with us. ❤️ May God continue to guide you on this journey.

[@sphindz]

Rob Kowalski Amen!

[@RobBKowalski]

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[@bluegirl278]

Fun fact: You can’t tell if a girl is a virgin. Not even a doctor can. It shouldn’t hurt or bleed the first time. Sex doesn’t make you loose. The hymen is not a barrier. Your labia doesn’t get bigger from being promiscuous. Neither do your breasts. Any changes to your body after sex are temporary unless you injured yourself. m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/eZ-1dHxomM-ab7c www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5958548/ www.bellesa.co/collective/article?id=107/the-myth-of-the-tight-vs-loose-vagina-a-closer-look More links www.glamour.com/story/readers-dilemma-is-it-possible www.uexpress.com/ask-dr-nerdlove/2018/4/25/how-do-i-know-shes-a dating.lovetoknow.com/How_Can_You_Tell_if_a_Girl_Is_Still_a_Virgin There might be one link in here about looseness that refers to the hymen incorrectly. I’m cant find it now but the other studies correct it so I don’t think it matters too much. Virginity is simply “have you done this, this, or this?” Like “have you had pasta before?”

[@louistazvivinga1713]

The fact that you had I mean you already know it by the time you have 🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@keylimiyang1339]

Btw wht bout if we r planning on getting married n already hav a a future plan yet sometimes we still hav sex when we meet just sometimes cuz we r on long distance relationship so we rarely can meet, we used to almost break up multiple times n had a hard time bcuz of our fam against sex bfr marriage but we try our best to fix n keep this relationship, we r planning to get married after grad n get a stable income but we'll still hav sex when we can n want, is our sex relationship isn't good?

[@zibiridestiny8786]

I'm 29 and still a virgin.. Hoping for the best man.. Relationship hasn't been easy... It has been full of ups and downs... I just hope God remembers Me this year 🙏 I'm now 30years, still a virgin and waiting on God for a husband....Please remember me in prayers🙏

[@etzjunior_]

Imagine if you die

[@farhiyok6257]

victor FC barca lmaoo 😂😂

[@zibiridestiny8786]

@@etzjunior_ Death isn't for one person and if I die, I regret nothing but the beautiful thing is I have life in abundance.

[@harbanskaur5338]

Zibiri Destiny me too

[@hosseinrahimzadeh7226]

Excellent

[@jadenmcdaniel2325]

My boyfriend and I have been talking about waiting till marriage. We’ve already have had sex but I believe god is putting it in our hearts to stop and wait. This video really gave me more reasons to go through with our decision. Thank you!

[@najla4359]

I've gone four years since my break up sex free. yes it gets lonely and hard but it's better then trying to break an unhealthy soul tie.

[@luladiaz9821]

Estrellakatarinathegreatrussian oh your life must suck :(

[@RobBKowalski]

Amen Sister! To break up the loneliness while waiting is to connect with a community that shares your beliefs. May I recommend connecting with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex by joining the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@IPadman500]

@Estrellakatarinathegreatrussian lmao atleast this comment section isn’t just filled with Christian hippies, there are some sane people here like you lmao

[@Godfirst986]

@@IPadman500 so people are insane for having a religion. I honestly think it's something mentally wrong with you.

[@tyronesmith6921]

I'm 21 and still a virgin! I'm proud of it. I pray every day to the lord jesus christ that he will bless me with a beautiful girlfriend, that I'll be able to love and treat her with a lot of respect! I really want to wait till after marriage to lose my virginity!

[@Walteralexander1]

Check out videos from AMS. It’ll open your eyes

[@aniketjaiswal3147]

I'm 17 yo from India and I haven't even kissed yet. Still virgin and single.

[@RobBKowalski]

Good for you, my brother. Of course, you are not alone. A great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@samanthamki9260]

❤

[@tyronesmith6921]

@Adwoa you to are blessed 👍

[@cocotheestylistsandy1334]

waiting gives sooooooo much protection from sooooooo many things and it puts your emotions and intentions in check it helps u evaluate yourself and that other person im glad I'm practicing the wait and will continue to.

[@nataliewalters2759]

Great points! I would like to add that soul ties are no joke and STDs are ramped in our world. My boy friend is a virgin too and we are waiting until marriage . He really has protected my heart and a man with self control in that area is less likely to cheat on you .

[@ghstprncss]

VexTech™ but he’s waiting too so doubt it

[@laurakelly434]

I'm 32 year old female, now married with a child but previously I've never had an unwanted pregnancy nor an STD. I have had multiple partners from the age of 16. None of my friends have had STDs nor unwanted pregnancies either. Not sure what your point is. There is something called contraceptives. Although not 100% if a woman and man both use them then it's pretty slim a pregnancy will occur. You know like condoms? There really is nothing wrong with having sex before marriage. At least then you know you are compatible intimately.

[@sacredfox4206]

What if you wait until marriage for sex and then find out sex with your bf is horrible? In my opinion its vital to know that you can have good physical intimacy together LONG before you make such a big commitment.

[@mendingwall3823]

@@sacredfox4206 And what if you have sex and the person dumps you the next day? Anyone can tell you anything with the intention of having sex and leaving

[@RobBKowalski]

Good for you to keep the commitment!! Your boyfriend sounds like a great man!!

[@lindagatwiri869]

This should be shared everywhere

[@justmo6896]

Wow had ignored this video...but I thought to myself why not watch....must say it has really helped me...thanks

[@angiedoe597]

I’m Indian Hindu, was a virgin when i married, as was my spouse. We’re married a really long time & still deeply in love. Sex is better than ever. Never even had a thought of having sex with anyone else. Infact the thought alone is disgusting. Nothing more fulfilling than sex in committed loving marriage!

[@Jambuc829]

Angie Doe Some people did the same and hated having sex with the person they married. I’m sorry but if I’m going to text drive a car I plan on only having for 5 years you can beat believe I’m test driving a woman before I spend the rest of my life with her.

[@angiedoe597]

David Alvarez this is the mindset that leads to dissatisfaction in the first place. First you wanna test drive it. Then when you finally settle with one ‘car’ you start feeling bored with it & wanna go for a newer model in due course! It’s never ending! To each their own. In my own observation most of the couples who were celibate before marriage & stay monogamous during marriage usually end up happier and more satisfied than those with a long line of bedmates! 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@mendingwall3823]

@@Jambuc829 the trouble with that is there is no guarantee you will buy the car after you "test drive" it. I think OP had the right idea.

[@MegaVistaman]

@@Jambuc829 bad mindset..marriage doesn’t work like that.people think they can “explore” and settle after marriage.wrong.your past “explorations” might ruin ur marriage

[@scarlethbulapaez791]

I really liked the fact you mentioned the bible in here. I am Christian and I am currently struggling with this as I havent had the chance to have a relationship with someone. Your message is really powerful and very convincing. Thanks for posting this.

[@mau7827]

So are you virgin?

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Mau none of your business

[@mau7827]

So yes

[@YAHheistheWEH777]

If you haven’t, don’t. I made that mistake when I was 16, the next serious guy that I dated afterwards treated sex as something that just comes, it’s not special, it’s not something to wait for, it almost lessens the value of your body ... they don’t care much anymore because they got what they wanted. - not to mention the sin aspect is absolutely heartbreaking.

[@loaded8588]

I feel the and I am in the position as you! God Bless :)

[@silversunset]

I’m VERY proud of my parents. As far as I know, they were virgins for 29 years before marrying and having me (first child). Better yet, the only people they EVER DATED were each other. So my mom married her first boyfriend and vice versa. They’re still happily married. So there are benefits to taking it slow and waiting for the right person.

[@wisdom50123]

Sent this to my two sons. Sometimes they will listen to advice from someone else rather than dad....

[@sihintas5336]

wisdom50123 ur a good dad

[@roninenlightened6350]

Most times children tend to listen to advice than that from a dad.

[@YeshurunMusic]

wisdom50123 If they watch it does that mean they listened to your advice??? Have a wonderful day. =)

[@dianekeogh]

Caleb Camero It's better than doing nothing. At least he's being proactive, and making sure his children have sound advice. The choices will always be down to them.

[@dianekeogh]

wisdom50123 Good job!

[@amandah1875]

This is the best video I’ve ever watched. I knew some of the reasons already, but you have just summed it up perfectly. Even on my dating profile I have written “friends without benefits first” and it’s amazing right after I wrote that, all the guys it filters out.

[@arielevelin7181]

I love the raw honesty! I’m in the same boat, had a crazy past and realized it didn’t lead to anything. Been abstinent for a year and a half now (because of choice) and it’s so much better to find which guys are genuine or not without having ur heart ripped out in the process. Thanks!

[@LBEmpress]

Every teen on the planet should hear this message.

[@Levernis]

Yess

[@sunjanadas8795]

LBEmpress so. True.

[@erika-bs2fn]

eh, its peoples' own choice. if u wanna wait, go for it, but dont force other ppl

[@sunjanadas8795]

Erika Caracciolo yeah totally it’s everyone’s personal choice. However what they meant by “every teen should watch this” is that every teen should hear this message to see the other side of the argument when making a decision on whether or not to wait. Because the side of waiting until marriage is not very common in today’s society.

[@erika-bs2fn]

Sunjana Das I just couldn’t wait lmfaoo

[@brownsugarglamour]

22, never been kissed

[@josephchannel7226]

Same here... Contact me on snap chat if interested cs000.2000

[@suraj-op2bx]

@@josephchannel7226 😂🤣🤣🤣i appreciate ur spirit

[@Panda-gp8rj]

If you're still like that, try to have your first kiss when you both say "I do" - zero regrets.

[@sonniejohnson4142]

A mazing!!

[@GeorgiaChapa]

Wow. Are you waiting for the right guy?

[@kallumwimalasuriya5156]

Even from a non-religious standpoint this is very informative and thoughtful. I really appreciated and resonated with this. Thank you

[@SydeLeaderRayOLD]

Me personally I'm not a fan of sex (even though I'm an 18 year old male virgin with no dating experience). I want love, not sex. Someone I can hold, smile at for no reason, express myself, talk to and just love. I want a wife. Edit: And I am Christian.

[@rawenab2126]

I hope you find the right girl to be with ! I'm 19 and i'm virgin and it don't regret waiting for the right person.

[@rollingdudes8859]

Feel the exact same way!!!!!

[@rollingdudes8859]

I got laid all the time in my early 20s from different women and it finally led to shameful, guilty, anxious feelings that don't just go away. Believe me I regret all of my sexual partners when I was young and wish I waited until I got married. After you have sex with somebody and you do not love them or are married to them the relationship goes south very fast!!!!!!

[@theboy689]

Some drake shit

[@lindut91]

your future wife is so lucky to have u as her husband.

[@Banjosplatooie1990]

I am 30, Autistic and a Virgin! I rather wait til I am married anyway

[@RobBKowalski]

Join our community: facebook.com/groups/301870536988705/

[@chef_julze4984]

I really needed this today. God bless you.

[@nick624179]

28 here, in good shape, got work and opportunities going for me, and the only reason I'm still clean is because I follow God and His Word, and He gives me the strength not to do what I don't need to, and to respect women as they should be, God is beyond words amazing!

[@bharatgupta949]

Super...Experiences brings beliefs and beliefs have been perfectly explained..Thanks..virgins with scattered reasons playing around in their minds are now in place with these 10 reasons..virgins with these honest feelings rock.. God bless them all with soul ties..

[@RobBKowalski]

Proud of you, brother!! If you need more support in your wait, I encourage you to get community to support you in your commitment and to read my book to give yourself additional encouragement of why waiting is the best option. A great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@malsawmthangi9261]

28yrs and still a virgin. I preserve it for my future husband.

[@i.s.9451]

I hope be has waited for you. Good luck in your search for your perfect man.

[@koolmckool7039]

Good for you.

[@skayamoah1197]

27 yr old virgin

[@RobBKowalski]

Smart girl. If you need more support in your wait, I encourage you to get community to support you in your commitment and to read my book to give yourself additional encouragement of why waiting is the best option. A great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@julianbaxter2403]

To summarize 1. Better to be friends with the Person, because as soon as you stop sleeping with them, they will stop feeling for you. 2. Physical Attraction Fades. You will stop wanting to sleep with them. 3. Talk is cheap 4. Transfer of control 5. What we obtain to easily, we esteem to lightly 6. Everyone else is doing it, and divorcing 7. Pregnancy 8. It was meant to connect people long term 9. So you can evaluate real feelings 10. It marks problems.

[@RobBKowalski]

Thanks for summarizing my video!! :)

[@madonnauchehara7755]

Thank you. I literally came to the comment section for this.

[@mamunirout6239]

Thanks for this❤️

[@jopelynamadcarmelotes9204]

I am 29 and still pure waiting for the right person 😇

[@mullm5375]

The idea that you are pure because you have not had sex is excuse me for saying so, ridiculous, you are just inexperienced. If you do not wish to have sex that is fine but if it is because you think there is a cosmic being who is concerned with your sexual behavior you are staying abstinent for the wrong reason.

[@josiahademiluyi4677]

@@mullm5375 Why say that

[@mullm5375]

Josiah Ademiluyi Because, she should know that not having sex with someone she intends on marrying just because she wants to be “pure” is not only ridiculous, it is a mistake that often leads to divorce. If you intend on spending the rest of your life with someone you better know whether or not you are sexually compatible with that person instead of leaving it to chance. She shouldn’t have sex if she isn’t ready but if the reason is because she is afraid of what some unsubstantiated cosmic being is going to do to her if she does...... she’s definitely staying abstinent for silly reasons and it too could have consequences.

[@xjjqueen1847]

@@mullm5375 It is very rare to find a Diamond in the Rough (a virgin) these days. That's why we are considered pure.

[@mullm5375]

Xjj Queen I’m sorry to to tell you but with almost 8 billion people on the planet virgins are anything but rare. Not to mention please explain what the rarity of something has to do with its purity?

[@brighterthanlightning5999]

Somehow the Lord put the desire in me to remain a virgin until my wedding night and by His power I have kept myself back from having sex, glory to God. I'm a 27 year old virgin now, be 28 in 3 months. It's been a struggle but when it really comes down to it, whether you are married or not, single or not, working or not, poor or not, having sex or not, walking with God is the best choice you can make in your life. If there's something you know God wants you to do but you haven't, I encourage you to take that step and do the thing today. No better time than to start now friend. God has called me to singleness and virginity even at this age, it's part of His plan for me. What God has for you is totally different than what He has for me. Take that step of faith and trust God to lead you, ain't no better time than now.

[@PatriceCetrine]

Brighterthan Lightning Amen. I'm 27 as well and we are so similar. I'll be 28 next month 😊. It really is the best decision ever!!!

[@debdub9077]

Brighterthan Lightning ... Wow!! Our Father in Heaven must surely be glorified! I wish I had been saved years ago. I'm doing my best to honor Him, from now on. Your strength is admirable..

[@SonamBewafaNahiHai]

Lol I hope you don't stay virgin till 30 because otherwise you would lose the best sexual experience of you body, especially the young body. I bet if you die virgin tomorrow, it would be still God's plan. It would have been better if you could live for yourself once.

[@BradThePitts]

I hope you do - but how do you know you will HAVE a wedding night?

[@bubblegum-iz8zu]

Brighterthan Lightning keep at it! I just turned 36, haven’t popped my cherry yet either, though I was strongly tempted to on more than several occasions. There’s a bright light at the end of the tunnel, just be patient until you get there.

[@nikodemus6315]

The Bible isnt wrong...yet people ridicule it when you use biblical justification. This dude is right, but its a shame that people dont trust in Gods word first amd foremost.

[@jordyadvitam7605]

Adam Nikodemus are going to cry because people don't want a book to tell them how to live their life?😖😖😖😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@cindychelsea784]

Jordy Advitam the Bible is more than “just a book”

[@estherbeamsforaballad3342]

Adam Nikodemus exactly. People just want to be stubborn and do things their own way than to obey a loving father who has saved them the headache of doing that

[@jordyadvitam7605]

Cindy Otchere it's just a book written by men OK. I admit😂😂😂

[@jordyadvitam7605]

anna _h you're right. I agree with your comment

[@Baconboy2323]

This is an arc similar to Neil Strauss and Roosh V. They were both big personalities in the Pick-up Artist/Manosphere communities. Both wrote books on the topic of how to have as much meaningless sex as possible and after a few years found that their lives we as meaningless as the sex they were having. They then did an about-face and ran in the opposite direction. This is probably the most damning indictment of meaningless sex is that you will become like these people and try to profit off of your hypocrisy.

[@RobBKowalski]

God forbid anyone do an about face when they realize they're going the wrong direction lol

[@JenniferFenelon]

26 and proud. Thank you for shedding light on this matter🤗. Well said!

[@reneedun7138]

I appreciate your being truthful!!! I had to learn the hard and painful way. In my 60s I decided to do the right thing. I have peace doing things God's way. His way is for our protection! God is not being mean or hard. He knows what was created in us and He knows our weaknesses and our flesh. I would have avoided a lot of pain if I had just waited!!! Thank you for a man's perspective in this reality. God bless you. Today is the mentality of free for all. Our young ladies and men are being hurt by this. Thank God someone is speaking up! 😃

[@lindagatwiri869]

Very enlightening....the only reason I don't engage in it is coz God doesn't want us to before marriage but this video has given me other reasons I didn't know

[@rajeshraty9727]

Linda Gatwiri Yes this is right if GOD asks you to do something u must do it for only one reason and it is GOD told u to do so but not for other bull shit... reasons

[@josephchannel7226]

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[@itsablankkandy]

female, 26 and still a virgin. I'm waiting for all the reasons you said. I don't mind waiting either.

[@RobBKowalski]

Way to go!! Of course, you are not alone in the wait, which is why I encourage all my friends to find a supportive community to help them during this season of waiting. A great way to connect with other likeminded individuals waiting until marriage to have sex is to join the Why Waiting Works Community on Facebook. Join the Why Waiting Works Community 👉 bit.ly/WWWcommunity Another recommendation I would have for you is to read my book for more insight about why waiting is the best option. Get a FREE copy of my book 👉 whywaitingworks.net/

[@msdblackwood]

30 year old virgin only by God's grace 🙏💜

[@zackprince7735]

Waooo sister nice I wish we know each other

[@mujerfatal7322]

30 years old still virgin too

[@masonnix9566]

And common sense.

[@intelsospeter]

@Delisha B, How? 🤔

[@axelcardenas9151]

Me too and people can't believe that I'm.

[@Emilyredeemed]

27 years old and engaged. We are both virgins and I'm so happy we are waiting! Thanks to Jesus.

[@lasttime3047]

i dont belive....

[@Emilyredeemed]

@@lasttime3047 why not lol

[@moniqueifill5000]

I believe it because I was a virgin until I got married at 27. Happily married for almost 16 years now. :)

[@littlemonster498]

How would one knows if the girl is virgin or not ?

[@originalblessed]

Congratulations my love!! All the best with your marriage. I'm getting married this month praise God ✨

[@joymalou]

I wish men like this weren't as hard to find 💎

[@jenniferrsn]

Sgt. Shish Kebab you have no pic?? So who are you to judge?

[@suraj-op2bx]

I am a wrestler....23 age still m a virgin .and Orthodox in such thinga

[@lovedrakexx]

@@sgt.shishkebab762 just bc she has a selfie for her dp, doesn't mean she's looking for a man 😬

[@CobusvdW]

Shish Kebab your not a real man saying something like that. She looks fine too me. Where’s your pic btw.

[@CobusvdW]

Joy you will find someone.

[@neemamasha6019]

Am 24& am still a virgin I know God is going to give me a good husband this year in Jesus mighty name

[@RobBKowalski]

Join our community: facebook.com/groups/301870536988705/ just in case He doesn't

[@hiralsheth8885]

It’s so amazing to get this view from a man! It’s Almost refreshing.

[@jasolo76]

He needs more followers

[@younme1775]

And my future husband is virgin too. God help us through this.

[@cashflowscrypt3309]

Ladies should know that men who really love them wouldn't request for sex from their partner to confirm they love them. I Thank God I am still a virgin guy of 28 years old. I'll remain till I get married by God's grace.

[@melika3519]

Cashflows crypt God bless you

[@tbaker4171]

You know, some people never get married.

[@cashflowscrypt3309]

I don't get your point.

[@suneblommie4549]

It's not to confirm love it's to express love

[@cashflowscrypt3309]

Exactly!

[@catherine9808]

Truth bombs . He’s correct, I’m forty and just been broken again by a relationship that I jumped into out of my desperation for love. I’ve been alone a long time and this guy said all the right things. Jesus has to have my heart only he knows how to take care of it.

[@RobBKowalski]

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