#himym #howimetyourmother #tvshow Josh Radnor as Ted Mosby Cobie Smulders as Robin Scherbatsky Alyson Hannigan as Lily Aldrin Neil Patrick Harris as Barney Stinson Jason Segel as Marshall Eriksen
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@davidortiz2026 Жыл бұрын
Robin only had feelings for ted when ted was happy with someone else
@kartikkrishan462211 ай бұрын
Just like kids wanting their toys back
@davidortiz202611 ай бұрын
@@kartikkrishan4622 exactly 🫡
@rwynnchristian38859 ай бұрын
I couldn't agree more
@francisindinibotwey8409 ай бұрын
tipical girls
@DJRevan9 ай бұрын
Just like Rachel from friends?
@zyaicob Жыл бұрын
When you look at the show like this it almost frames Robin as the main character. She moves to New York, finds a career she needs to progress in, makes friends she needs to learn to open up to, and most importantly, learns how to feel her feelings. Her relationship with Ted is largely about her becoming more like him. Ted loves Robin because he just does, Robin loves Ted because he teaches her that life can be better than she believes it is, and that she can be happier than she thought she could.
@JohnSmith-bn5mi Жыл бұрын
That's... actually an interesting take. I'd be curious what a recut of the show would be like if it was framed more from her perspective.
@SirSX3 Жыл бұрын
@@JohnSmith-bn5mi wow, it really would've been really awesome if it went: "Hey kids, have I ever told you the story of how I met your father?" And then as the story progresses, we realised that the narrator is not actually the mother of the children, but a close family friend, and is actually speaking to the children to ask for permission to date their widowed father.
@gpsem376011 ай бұрын
@@SirSX3 It could have been an excellent ending for the canceled spin-off series "How I met your father"
@cryptojihadi2659 ай бұрын
You are exactly right, wxceot it doesn't ALMOST frame it that way, they made it about as obvious as possible, yet apparently MILLIONS of people totally missed it. The title was intentionally ironic. The show was always about how damaged Robin was and how Ted had to wait 25 years for her to get to the point where she could receive real love. All the girlfriends Ted went thorigh weren't part of his journey to the mother, but rather Ted constantly trying to replace Robin. ALLL the ridiculously hyperbolic accolades Ted lavished on the mother were just him trying to convince HIMSELF the mother wasn't a consolation prize. The fact that after his life together with the mother, who's supposedly THE most perfect angel to walk the earth, he decides to honor her memory with the kids by going back 9 years RIGHT to the point Ted met Robin and then spend the entire story talking about his relationship with Robin. The mother was about as much of a 2 dimensional character as you could come up with, because it was never about her.
@cryptojihadi2659 ай бұрын
The other thing that blows me away is how many people thought Robin and Barney were actually a thing! DEAR LORD people are gullible, or completely clueless about relationships and people.
@mehku2363 Жыл бұрын
I think this really highlights, that Robin only wanted to be with Ted when he was with another girl. Most of these moments Ted is with Victoria, Stella, or Tracy.
@SirSX3 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, Barney even exploited that with the whole Patrice thing to get her to marry him
@notoffended843710 ай бұрын
Yeah, also Penny and Rachel.
@Shakespy19797 ай бұрын
I also noticed that Robin somehow knew when Ted wasn’t serious about a girl and she didn’t even try to intervene in Ted’s love life, for example: Karen, Zoe and Jeanette. She knew those relationships were doomed.
@awezsheikh89626 ай бұрын
Well tracy thing only happen beavuse she's married to barney if she hasn't she should've sabotage their relationship too.
@Mr.F-xd3pp4 ай бұрын
She didn't have a mom to show her how to express her love or emotions. She was repressed all her life, so a guy who is sure of himself & what he wants was her kryptonite. She instead took the role of being there for Ted when Tracy was probably going for kemo/treatment for her illness, & needed someone to watch the kids so Ted could spend alot of time with her. The last season blitz this with the last episode, but they had a whole season to do it, I just think they wanted to milk the series too much.
@naughtiusmaximus8 ай бұрын
The moment when Robin regrets her decision seeing Ted happy with Tracy is so dang satisfying
@THE2026 ай бұрын
Kinda sad, though her agreeing to marry Barney(FREAKING BARNEY) after dumping Ted for wanting to get married eventually was such a slap in the face
@Caches6 ай бұрын
@@THE202 tbf Ted wanted more than just marriage, he also wanted kids. A part of me believes she didnt choose Ted cause she knew that she coudlnt fufill one of his biggest dreams
@Rybread17676 ай бұрын
@@THE202 Hard agree. Robin and Barney had some sweet moments, sure, but most of their scenes just felt like a couple of kids playing house. The relationship never felt real to me.
@THE2026 ай бұрын
@@Rybread1767 Exactly
@mannybutler59375 ай бұрын
@@Caches She had rejected him several times before she found out about that
@AM-sk5up Жыл бұрын
One of the best thing about the show is there concept. Like telling past stories, imaginary stories , different person perspective etc
@SahilArora-d5i4 ай бұрын
" I am the biggest overthinking person but i don't spend a lot of time thinking 'What if' , i guess that is happiness" such a simple and amazing definition of happiness. Loved it
@hamdanasiri_101 Жыл бұрын
Lilly's lobster theory was true, Robin is only interested in things she can't have, almost every time Robin had a crush on Ted he was taken same with Barney and Patrice😂
@madmothertrucker183 ай бұрын
Lily’s lobster theory was stolen from Phoebe in friends 😂 further combining the two shows as himym being a copycat version
Robin’s loss. She thought life would wait for her but it never does. I’m glad Ted didn’t wait for her.
@arc4055 Жыл бұрын
The network didn't wait for Ted. The show runners had no choice but to set him up in the final season. If the consistency of humour in the show had remained, she would have waited a lot more. Atleast 3 more seasons in my opinion. The last season was hurried as hell.
@cyrusmallison6157 Жыл бұрын
@@arc4055oh no, not another season, 5 would have been enough.
@JoybuzzerX8 ай бұрын
Now see, that is true about Robin. She did want certain things first. I always felt that was explained at the one wedding when Robin said time and chemistry. Ted and her had chemistry they had poor timing. It's also why she moved out of the apartment before Marshal said anything to her. She loved Ted and knew she wasn't ready and was hurting him.
@gabrielbarbosa40916 ай бұрын
Except that he did wait for her… thats the tragedy of life
@Guillermo2598010 ай бұрын
this show is the reason why I have such high expectations about love
@mousahassan79384 ай бұрын
After all these years, I can’t get over the show
@SM-qe4wd Жыл бұрын
Was just looking for this. Perfect order of clips too, thank you
@pynshngainlangrynjah3231 Жыл бұрын
Not a popular thought, but i like the ending........ i like them together
@AlexisMorales124 Жыл бұрын
the make a great couple
@SirSX3 Жыл бұрын
Ignore the haters. They make a lot of noise, but that doesn't make them the popular opinion.
@arc4055 Жыл бұрын
I dunno about Ted and Robin but assuming she and Ted get together as per the original ending, she still had kids. Her step kids. Ted's own kids. I kinda liked the ending because it kept the premise grounded. Like not all people get an happy ending. There are struggles in everyone's lives. Some struggle a bit more than others. The original ending was very realistic. On the contrary, I cringed hard at the ending of friends. It felt like a fictional story about 6 friends. But himym, felt like real life. Because seldomly people get happy endings. Life is a rollercoaster ride with highs and lows. So the all not wanting the kids on her part, roaming the world was all bullcrap in the end.
@cuatro336 Жыл бұрын
Ending sucks. Tracey should've lived, Robin and Barney shouldn't have gotten divorced.
@senmurw4428 Жыл бұрын
exactly ending is literally perfect
@stevemyopinion423 Жыл бұрын
i like this, what sad is so many people act like ted is just following robin around and she does not want him, when she really does
@JoybuzzerX Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Robin gets in her own way. When she moves out she was ahead of Marshall when he said it. She loved him and wasn't ready for it in the end.
@satisome Жыл бұрын
Well, Ted admitted that he made an ass of himself going after Robin bunch of times, and he was her backup plan all along while she only loved and chased Barney. Barney and Robin always belonged together.
@JoybuzzerX Жыл бұрын
@@satisome They didn't belong together tho. It was shown even during the wedding. Barney and Robin had different desires too. They just thought they could overcome them. Barney was needy. That doesn't mean Barney and Robin didn't love each other either. I also believe Ted, like Barney, may have been the two guys in Robin's life that may have accepted her not being able to have kids. As much as Ted wanted kids, I never once believed he'd have been upset that they went childless since she couldn't have kids. May have been different if she could and never wanted too. Ted is the first guy Robin said "I love you" too. He's now the last. :)
@satisome Жыл бұрын
@JoybuzzerX No barney and Robin had similar personalities and same perspective towards life. Both never wanted kids and get along really well unlike Ted and Robin who are diametrically opposite person. In real life too the couple with same outlook and goals are called soulmates. And Robin was needy as much as Barney was and in their own weird way they were able to console each other like in the wedding all of their problems resurfacing and resolving at the end of each episodes.
@JoybuzzerX Жыл бұрын
@@satisome Robin and Barney had dated and broke up before because they weren't happy with each other. In the season 9, Barney says he did want kids, but wasn't going to be sad about it because Robin couldn't. Said as much to his mom. And all that Barney did for Robin, Ted did as well. It was Ted who comforted her after finding out she couldn't have kids, not Barney. Ted didn't even need to know what was wrong. He just knew he'd always be there for her.
@ishikasrivastava22846 ай бұрын
Ted is the first guys robin really loved . He is the first guy she said i love you
@equaniman6474 ай бұрын
The fact that Robin gets these opinions really tells how great of a job Cobie Smulders did in bringing the written character to life lol.
@JPk55634 ай бұрын
She really was very good. The fact that i remember her acting, decades later goes to show she was really cooking
@amh5209 Жыл бұрын
thanks for bringing back the memories ❤ i’m one of the minority who liked that they ended up together
@Musicienne-DAB1995 Жыл бұрын
Another proud minority member!
@FulcanMal Жыл бұрын
Not sure that the majority don't, so much as the majority are louder. I always hated the whole Robin-Barney thing.
@shubhamkadam95685 ай бұрын
I hated robin and Barney too!!!!
@RavDeBest5 ай бұрын
@@shubhamkadam9568 Why? It improved Barney so much. It shows that Barney actually wanted a family. I think Barney should've ended up with Nora or smthing, but his ending is above average, instead of ending up alone he got a daughter.
@sari29121Ай бұрын
@@shubhamkadam9568finally!! Me too
@FulcanMal Жыл бұрын
People acting like Robin is being some kind of drama queen, totally forgetting one important detail: Robin didn't want kids, and Ted did. As someone who had a relationship end for that very reason (I didn't want kids, she did), that is a major dealbreaker no matter how in love with someone you are. But it doesn't change how in love with them you are. Its been years and my heart still breaks thinking about it. Robin made her position on this crystal clear, but then gave in to her feelings in a very human and understandable way. (My girlfriend and I stayed together for a while even after we knew it was destined to end). And so finally, years later, after both of them had experienced the lives they wanted, they got together because now their goals aligned. Ted's kids were approaching adulthood and Robin had gotten everything she wanted out of her career. It also doesn't diminish teds love for Tracy, we just didn't get to see as much of it due to the structure of the show.
@PaintHim Жыл бұрын
Major Dealbreaker
@FulcanMal Жыл бұрын
@@PaintHim Nice one: )
@andrewsutherland133 Жыл бұрын
The issue with that is Robin isn't portrayed as, "I love him, and it hurts, but it's for the best" she's portrayed as trying to get Ted to move on and then regretting it when he finally does. Likewise with the ending; yes, in their universe, it all makes sense; but the viewers saw the last 3 seasons dedicated to the theme, "Ted can't move forward until he moves on" and the last season doubled on that theme with showing him finally letting Robin go and finally getting everything he wanted with Tracy. Only for that to be completely reversed in the last 2 minutes saying, "I didn't really move on and I'm still going to chase her after 25 years"
@diallorajerison9140 Жыл бұрын
hope you have kids now
@tamannahamid373211 ай бұрын
That's a perfect explanation!
@francisindinibotwey840 Жыл бұрын
robin was soo confused.. and yet she somehow managed to get her ending
@paciulpkbyby Жыл бұрын
love how barney stacked all his battleships on top of another
@ryanberkowitz5399 Жыл бұрын
Honestly if they just cut 2 scenes from the last episode I would say it’s the best sitcom finale
@lucifantine Жыл бұрын
which two?
@aniketprasad3128 Жыл бұрын
@@lucifantine the one where they end up together
@sheldonliberman1139 Жыл бұрын
It was the best sitcom ever. The ending was great.
@ryanberkowitz5399 Жыл бұрын
@@aniketprasad3128 that and the scene where they killed off the fridged Tracey
@ryanberkowitz5399 Жыл бұрын
@@sheldonliberman1139 the ending was emotional but didn’t do right by a lot of the characters
@PedroRodrigues-je6xp Жыл бұрын
This show is essentially about how a cute girl kept thinking she had a good man waiting for her only for him to move on and for her to end up filled with regret. That one sentence, about marrying when they were 40, is the mcgaiver of this show.
@choryllis6646 Жыл бұрын
And we all hate the writers for making it that way. Could have gone so well with Barney and Robin getting together. But noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. They just HAD to make Ted and Robin run back to each other. Ted was Robin's safety net, and Ted used Tracy to fill the hole in his heart he kept wide open for Robin.
@bluespruce8430 Жыл бұрын
@@choryllis6646 the fact that your last line is wrong is clear enough from the deleted lunch scene. Though of course it's more convenient just to ignore it.
@choryllis6646 Жыл бұрын
@Blue Spruce It's a deleted scene. It's not cannon. If they had kept it, I'd be more inclined to believe that Tracy was more than another stepping stone for Ted to be with Robin. But the way she dies so quickly and Ted and Robin leaping back into each other's arms in 5 minutes of screentime leaves a rotten taste in my mouth. I love Tracy. She was absolute perfection. Well worth waiting 9 seasons for. But she deserved better than that ending.
@bluespruce8430 Жыл бұрын
@@choryllis6646 Even without that it, there is that scene about extra 45 days with Tracy Ted would have given anything to have, that scene where he cries when she says about mother not visiting her daughter's wedding, that scene where Ted talks to Robin and then Tracy appears in her wedding dress and all his attention turns to her. We know that Robin and Barney divorced many years before Tracy's death, and Ted and Robin got together only six years after she had died. For me it was quite enough to believe that Ted really loved Tracy. Loving more than one person during your life is not an impossible thing, not even a rare one.
@SirSX3 Жыл бұрын
@@choryllis6646 you really think that Barney and Robin could've "gone well"? They're a terrible couple. The only reason people like them together is because Neil and Cobie are conventionally attractive and Ted is more of an everyman.
@nadimabbas4093 Жыл бұрын
Robin may be afraid of saying "I love you", but she has an easier time saying it behind his back multiple times and she keeps falling back in love with Ted every time he's with someone else. Why is her timing always late?
@AnnJo-gq8gu Жыл бұрын
Oh not only Ted, Barney too!
@Gabriel-fr3sd Жыл бұрын
She is a woman
@aniketprasad3128 Жыл бұрын
Basically she's the one who has been smashed by both guys and if there was another one, he would have smashed her too
@propogandalf Жыл бұрын
@@aniketprasad3128 Ah, I see. You live in the universe where women have sex done to them as opposed to being equal willing participants. I wonder if you take any issue with Ted or Barney for "smashing" a number of women during the series.
@sheldonliberman1139 Жыл бұрын
It's human nature not to appreciate what you have until you lose it. However, it is not true in Robin's case. She could have had Ted before he started dating Victoria. She could have had him when she told him she didn't love him, which was a lie. And just before she married Barney she actually wanted Ted, who wasn't with anyone at the time, but her rejected her.
@SirSX3 Жыл бұрын
2:00 how ironic that Lily is the one that end up breaking them up
@SM-qe4wd Жыл бұрын
One suggestion would be to reupload with the last scene of the finale as a cap, to show the emotion Robin has when she sees Ted with the horn
@nidhipandey2174 Жыл бұрын
12:18 oh she is gonna regret asking this question 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@alokotta5466 Жыл бұрын
This is perfect
@gracekang40356 ай бұрын
When Robin tells Ted "that's not the ending that you deserve... that's not Ted Mosby" when she tries to get him to stop marrying Stella, you can tell she only gave up Ted because she wanted him to be happy, not because she stopped loving him. That's true love, putting their needs before your own.
@Jorizzle22Ай бұрын
Yes! I had completely forgot about that moment, but she was absolutely right and that was Robin expressing her love for him.
@beefcake0354 Жыл бұрын
I can live with Tracy being written off as dead, but Robin doesn't deserve Ted if you ask me. so no, I'm not happy with the ending.
@formanga8871 Жыл бұрын
I would be more then happy if Victoria was replaced Robin
@vootvoot918011 ай бұрын
Nah I am glad Ted and Robin ended together
@gpsem376011 ай бұрын
One great thing about the show is that it teaches that life can be hard, even cruel, but it gives you second chances. In 2030 Ted is 52 years old, widowed for 6 years, Robin is 50 years old, divorced for 10 years without second thoughts. Both deserve this second chance, as individuals and as a couple.
@petertraicer5 ай бұрын
This is what people fail to understand about the finale. Is a great ending for 2 people who already Made their life and fullfilled their dreams and now are alone. As Robin said, is all about chemistry and Timing.
@DiederikCA5 ай бұрын
Exactly! The only regrettable thing is how little we got to see about Tracy, and trying to squeeze them meeting, her dying, and Ted getting with Robin into one episode. For the viewer it seems wrong. Chronologically and in terms of character development, it fits quite well.
@junkiedropouts31864 ай бұрын
Robin is an awful person and not a suitable stepmother, Ted should have prioritized his children
@TrinoPichardo3 ай бұрын
@@junkiedropouts3186Omg, his "children" are teenagers now, they dont need a stepmother, also they love aunt Robin. She is a mature woman at the end of the show, is not the same person we saw at ted story. The whole gang grown up
@pp-vf8ls3 ай бұрын
@@petertraicer are we watch the same thing?IF they ended after season 4, we can all agree that this is acceptable
@bam8425 Жыл бұрын
My fav tv show ever
@mrd200988 ай бұрын
Not news for anyone, I don't think, but this whole show is the creator's homage to Love in the Time of Cholera. There are so many things that are similar between the show and novel, including the relationship dynamics between Ted and Robin. Hearing about the show from this angle makes the ending better in my opinion.
@honduraswalks6 ай бұрын
Robin just never really knew what she really wanted. She had a safety net that she really loved and wanted that to always be there.
@xjackintheboxАй бұрын
I do love the ending, but the reason I like it is because it shows Robin eating the worlds biggest piece of humble pie and realizing that Ted really is a unicorn and she totally self sabotaged. He ended up with the most amazing, worthy girl and in the end when Tracy was gone she finally knew how great he was, and he loved Tracy for her whole life. The deleted scenes really should have been left in
@dale40395 ай бұрын
Alyson Hannigan looked great in that 1st scene she's a goddess, she was 1 of my early celeb crushes, I still like her now she's a real little minx
@kofithefaneditor11 ай бұрын
The fact they knew she liked Ted before she even said it.
@smitpethani4798 Жыл бұрын
i did make it rain
@paulistastars Жыл бұрын
Robin was as mess, she knew what she wanted to some extend but didnt knew how to give one thing up for another. i get it, I had a girlfriend that didnt wanted family or kids, and fine, our relation was finite and we knew it. We splited, I got family and kids she dosent, we see each other and she dont hit on me. The last scene pf this video is the worse, she is asking a "what if..." to a guy happy with his family. Like, if u take this scene out I am ok with the ending, but she just wanted Ted on her terms and was uncapable of be happy for him be happy without her.
@gabrielgamez5767 ай бұрын
That’s actually a deleted scene
@paulistastars7 ай бұрын
@@gabrielgamez576 I had the feelling I didnt remembered that one, thx
@punyashlokmohapatra4645 Жыл бұрын
You can add one more scene. Final season, robin asks ted in her wedding dress why she should not be with him , while attempting to flee .
@VDA193 ай бұрын
6:50 is just heartbreaking. Being someone's safety net. Jesus..
@dataisnugold4 ай бұрын
robin has a lot of rachel in her.
@j.l.howlett68433 ай бұрын
Rachel is better honestly robin is just copycat of Rachel anyways
@syednoorerasul2 ай бұрын
Yep. Other than Phoebe every character is a copy of their respective friends character
@masterzombie1615 ай бұрын
I always hated that they ended up together in the end. Ted finally getting over robin was perfect, but of course they flushed Robin and Barney’s relationship down the shitter for their cliche happy ending.
@SandraLugn-nc1rk7 ай бұрын
The I-love-you-inity is so much more pretios then the virginity.
@goldenscarecrow8 ай бұрын
That last scene should have been how they started the series. It could have been them reminiscing and the writers wouldn’t have felt a need to include a mother they’d barely feature.
@darrenuchiha6089 ай бұрын
Times were good when Robin was in love with Ted
@dabossman58383 ай бұрын
Robin's actions throughout the series are both deplorable and realistic. Great guy right in front of you that you have chemistry with, and you pass it up? You deserve to die alone at that point. Like, what more do you want?
@j.l.howlett68433 ай бұрын
Great summary of how the girls are these days and they become very desperate at 40+ and let everyone score on them for the hopes for settling down
@sehajdeepsingh456211 ай бұрын
Where was this clip from? I don't remember it in the original ending. If it were there, it might've made the ending slightly better for me. Also shoutout to the OGs who saw that MAJOR 🫡 problem bit before they did the salute. For god's sake if they didn't salute there, I would've flipped out
@bluespruce843011 ай бұрын
The last scene is one of the scenes deleted from the series finale.
@jamesnesbitt29417 ай бұрын
I hated Robin and Barney getting together let alone getting married.
@chadhartsees4 ай бұрын
I was Team Victoria for the mom for a long time.
@loganpaul9759 Жыл бұрын
I genuinely saw the title and thought to myself “who’s Ted?” And I’ve seen the show a few times
@dairylarry2Ай бұрын
How?
@dairylarry2Ай бұрын
Genuinely how?
@Beautycomesoutofashes8 ай бұрын
She didn’t love him. He loved her but then met his real love.
@Shakespy197911 ай бұрын
In the deleted scene at the restaurant…is it me or this happened sometime around Christmas 2023 in the show? Look at the decorations on the restaurant wall near the door 🚪 when Ted is leaving.
@gpsem376011 ай бұрын
According the interviews, this cut scene should be set around 2020 in the show timeline. Instead the cameo of Robin in IMYFather is in 2022 and she reveals similar feelings
@LVM55845 ай бұрын
2:00. Couldn’t have said it any better Lily. Happiness really isn’t that difficult. And the end of this Video is selfish, self centered Robin getting exactly what she deserves.
@zx-hb9jq9 ай бұрын
does anybody knows the song at 0:57 ?
@januszmujkel505010 күн бұрын
I would like to know too
@tomlevick29354 ай бұрын
Lilly: the woman who suggests once to Rob a liquor store and yet is the voice of reason.
@faisalkamal43197 күн бұрын
she isn't
@sosocute11345 ай бұрын
She had the worst case of attachment issues ever
@00nach0002 ай бұрын
I know the ending is not ok, because it was bad executed but the idea was incredible.
@affanbinemran37152 ай бұрын
Robin is stunning
@pranavprakash485 ай бұрын
After completing the show i think ted life would be much better if they don't include robin in the group
@LL-rn7eq Жыл бұрын
Im teary at the end. But at same time piss off ..... Robin just use her for her own happy ending. After all that. But still its ok the story would what not...... And Still the Best seatcom ever!!! Purely the Best!!!!!
@marinadiaz17627 ай бұрын
I think Robin possibly did have feelings for ted but she was never in love with him
@simratariq5329 Жыл бұрын
WHAT EPISODE IS THE LAST SCENE FROM?
@bluespruce8430 Жыл бұрын
Series finale, deleted scene.
@SirSX3 Жыл бұрын
@@bluespruce8430 it was a great scene, and filled a lot of gaps. It shouldn't have been deleted. But I understand the decision, as Ted was still with Tracy, it makes Robin look like a bitch that makes a move on someone's husband.
@jomardepedro Жыл бұрын
It was made canonical when Sophie told robin about it when they met at the bar.
@juanito-bl3ph9 ай бұрын
Does anyone know what episode or where I can find this scene 11:29
@AshokKumar-qq8vw8 ай бұрын
last season.....last before episode
@donprastАй бұрын
In What episode that last scenes from video??
@HHH4EVA6 ай бұрын
I live that ted did the major problems at the end there. Shows she still has a chance lol
@matthewarant3774 ай бұрын
POV: The toxicity of avoidant attachment
@johanrossouw64323 ай бұрын
Does anyone know the song playing at 10:50?
@diorlaster2 ай бұрын
I'm looking for it as well!
@Light-at-Dawn3 ай бұрын
8:43 I was a bit confused at first because I Was sure she already moved to Japan at that point😅
@mmusya793 Жыл бұрын
I love you ginity 😂😂😂😂
@shadowslight3682 ай бұрын
I can understand not wanting to move fast in a relationship like i have cousin's that got kids with two different women and that causes some drama over custody but like marriage shouldn't be about kids or having a house together. Marriage to me is about becoming a family. Wither you want a kid or waiting for it, is your choice. Never rush into having children. Its your time to grow together, to be as one, do & go anywhere or anything together. Be happy with the achievements you make and be sad together. Marriage is a commitment where you vow to make each other happy till death do you apart. Once you learned you love someone and neither of you cannot do without one another. Thats when you should realized i want to be his/her wife or husband for the rest of my life.
@BlackBearInvesting4 ай бұрын
Many people don’t understand feelings and reality. The reason the ending of the show works is because reality has already set in. They are grown up and their insecurities are gone. Their ego and preconceptions are gone as well. They can embrace their feelings without real life getting in the way.
@ricardoortiz4870 Жыл бұрын
Can’t see her as anyone else but Maria Hill and Maria Hill 4life.
@vootvoot918011 ай бұрын
Well I always see her as Robin even in the mcu Robin for 4ever 😆
@ricardoortiz487011 ай бұрын
@@vootvoot9180 What about Batman?
@vootvoot918011 ай бұрын
@@ricardoortiz4870 Bale and Kevin will forever be Batman for me :)
@cuatro336 Жыл бұрын
Tracey should've lived, Barney and Robin shouldn't have gotten divorced.
@vootvoot918011 ай бұрын
No Barney and Robin getting divorce is definitely great 😂 Also mother was dead from the very beginning (you can find clips of hidden details of her death)
@70okello2 ай бұрын
LILLY! Hey Girl... 😂😂
@swagatakar57847 ай бұрын
my heartache
@TheAkira277 Жыл бұрын
What is that ending clip? I just seen it
@AshokKumar-qq8vw8 ай бұрын
it is a deleted scene
@gozdeyzgngl Жыл бұрын
She was interested in ted when he was happy with other woman.
@AshokKumar-qq8vw8 ай бұрын
12:27 ...which episode is this scene???
@spooder-minus5 ай бұрын
this is a deleted scene
@rodangrahf2 ай бұрын
Robin is the shows main villain
@Nicamon4 ай бұрын
I read the 1st part of the title,saw the preview pic and I thought of Robin Wood and Ted the robot boyfriend of Joyce and I was so confused!@.@
@nicholaslever-naylor83154 ай бұрын
I’ve been a Long time Finale hater here more due to set up and timing BUT….to be fair to the creators….. 1. The earlier scene with Ted getting over Robin was important, otherwise Tracy would have felt like another gap fill. 2. I believe Ted would have stayed over Robin IF Tracy had not passed away (much like Tracy and her first). 3. The perspective of Ted recounting How he met the Mother to the Kids WAS sub- consciously to get them to accept why he could move on with Robin - this is 5 years after Tracy’s death remember - I had a friend re-marry about 4 years after the death (cancer) of his first wife so not unheard of. 4. Robin at first didn’t want then couldn’t have Kids so being with Ted earlier would never have worked - Ted needed to have a family My biggest gripe is Tracy’s death was left far too late and used as a shock twist. I would have brought the Wedding into mid-Season 8 with Ted meeting the Mother in the Finale, Season 9 would then be a contrast between Barney/Robin’s life after getting Married vs. Ted/Tracy with the slowly pending realisation to the audience that just because you met the Mother, life doesn’t not just end there.
@curtis4643Ай бұрын
Am I tripping or is the last scene not in the show???? This is the first time ive seen it wtf, which episode is this? ? I thought it ended with Ted under robins window again ?
@bluespruce8430Ай бұрын
These scene was made for the finale, but cut off from the final version. Available on YT though.
@afnilove11AndiNur10 ай бұрын
And finay... Ted and Robin.... together each of them... happy ending
@ajwilliams34232 ай бұрын
I see this clip and still try to figure out how ted is the "bad guy" by the end for being with robin
@Shakespy197911 ай бұрын
I respect those who think Barney and Robin were “the perfect couple” but think again: They were terrible together. The same issue that broke them up the first time, where the same issues that broke them up the last time: THEY WERE NOT HAPPY TOGETHER…get it? The show told you that, an entire episode told you that and most importantly, the end told you that. Barney was the way he was because his life was full of drama, trauma and Chaos (not having a father in his life and a cheating girlfriend he really loved) so was Robin, with lots of father issues and a mother that obviously neglected her…I can go on all day/night (depending on what time you’re reading this). I have rewatched this show about 10 times and the only woman that “perfect” for Barney was Nora. But he screwed it up, just like Robin did with all her relationships/situationships throughout the show. Kevin broke up with Robin, not because he didn’t love her (he adored Robin), it was because he as a family man (like most men) and he wanted a family with Robin. She simply went on with the idea of not wanting kids, not even considering adopting kids with Kevin. That was depressing because at the end she ended up with Ted (who had kids on his on) and she helped in raising Ted’s kids because Robin was Ted’s true future (and possibly last) romantic partner. This is just my take on it, based on the many time i watched it. Happy New Year!
@marinadiaz17627 ай бұрын
Damn I related to Robin for a sec there... thats a lie I relate to her a lot.
@vishalsakhare15806 ай бұрын
Careful. Robin Sherbatsky is highly unlikable to the best men i know. No-one with righteousness would/could choose Robin and be content with that decision i think.
@thebatman73473 ай бұрын
Nah 1st seasons lily was just... something else
@KingChiggy2 ай бұрын
Man Robin really only wanted Ted to be happy when she was finally ready to stop using him as a safety net whenever she was done screwing around.
@TileBitan4 ай бұрын
until 6:07... and this is how I met your mother. Boom, done. Whatever happened after is not justified. From season 1 I always knew Ted and Robin were made for each other, and the show just kept separating them out of stupid reasons. In the final seasons they did a 180 and forced chemistry between Barney and her, destroying whatever she had with Ted, only for them to reverse everything on the last few episodes. No wonder nobody likes the ending. I still love HIMYM with all my heart, but in my mind Ted and Robin were always meant for each other. In the end, Ted got a happy marriage and children. His dream. Only ended by his wife dying. He wasn't waiting for Robin. Robin was sad and alone in her apartment, regretting for years her decisions, waiting for the impossible. Robin waited for him, not like so many of you think. It's a tragedy and a miracle, both.
@mimializzi Жыл бұрын
The ending sucks because robin shouldnt have gotten her happy ending!! She played with ted and broke his heart multiple times and she also broke barney's heart ... she should have gotten her karma
@julianaviles42445 ай бұрын
nico d robin looks amazing in that red dress!!
@ahsanbaloch674 Жыл бұрын
Ted and Robin are cute together 🥺
@DayumSonny Жыл бұрын
Robin - Too selfish to love anyone properly. Ted - Too stup!d to love anyone properly. Lily - Too controlling to love anyone properly. Marshal - Too sp!neless to love anyone properly. Barney - Too busy getting some to love anyone properly.
@Nope80808 Жыл бұрын
5:56
@maganoiitula95524 ай бұрын
So Robin was Rachel from friends!? So in love with the good guy when he’s happy with someone else? Attending his wedding after saying she’s not going and was involved with one of his best friends.
@Cloud40125 ай бұрын
You have no one to blame but yourself Robin. You thought Ted would wait for you but he moved on and found Tracy
@alexanderromeroquinones50475 ай бұрын
Thats not the amazing ending that you deserve. And she was totally right
@desmond107Ай бұрын
It's the same as Friends. Everyone loves to hate on Ross/Ted (rightfully so), but forgets that Rachel/Robin was just as toxic and literally only ever wanted the guy when he was was about to move on and be genuinely happy. With Ross and Rachel, they were equally bad, so I didn't mind them ending up together, but it really made no sense with Ted and Robin. Ted moved on from Robin and it was supposed to stay that way, even if Tracy died
@richardw644 ай бұрын
Actually, I have feelings for Robin !
@Notkdenben5 ай бұрын
I know a lot of people don’t like robin and ted together. I know they never quite seemed to be on the same page for more than a few episodes at a time, but idk they worked for me. I’m one of the few that thinks them getting back together after Tracy was a good move. It was always Ted and robin. Sure Tracy was great and if they hadn’t killed her off, I think then Ted and robin would’ve been bad.
@ImAntonWS2 ай бұрын
I wish they finished the Robin and Ted storyline better. I always wanted them to be together but god damn, they got there was awful. “It’s like ok, I’m ready, where is she?” That was the first line to something that could’ve ended beautifully