Role Reversal

[@Moshe5573]

its so hard for me to just join a church now as BAD AS I WANT TO. Pastor Darby has set my standards of being feed SO HIGH that i cant go back to "entertainment"

[@diongreene9251]

•Is this too much? •Are y’all thurr? •Talk back to me •Oh lord I gotta go, look at the time. Then proceeds to preach another hour. •Say Amen. 😭 I Love Pastor Darby Teachings! God bless, knowledge is really being increased in these last times.

[@SaltSunSandals]

Here in 2024 & If this aint the truth Jesus this is knowledge that can really save a generation. If your here in 2024 remove the spirit of offense & this will bless you. Amen

[@strictlybusiness450]

This brother was way ahead of his time. Hitting the nail on the head in 2022.

[@queenlibra3585]

Facts! Darby set the bar high! Got me questioning pastors on how they preach 😂

[@walenalivingprayingdancing4215]

All of my life....I've been a dominant woman but I decree and declare I will STOP thinking I have to be so strong....Lord I don't won't to push the next man(my FUTURE HUSBAND) away like I did most of my ex's....Change my heart O Lord...I don't get along with females! He was speaking to me!!!! I received this WORD! THANK YOU Pastor Darby 🛐❤❤❤❤❤💓

[@SeanHillofficial]

Everything this brother is teaching in this message is absolutely CORRECT! Another issue why women act like men is because men have neglected father responsibilities, therefore a lot of women are forced raise children on their own, in which they try to be a mom and dad. And that will always fail because a woman cannot be a dad! Anyways, God bless you all. Peace. ;-)

[@rg9241]

This sermon should be a requirement for couples prior to marriage.

[@angelsmile9789]

The best message I ever heard regarding Men and Woman. Pastor Steve was the Elijah of our modern day history. This message needs to be heard by every black family in America

[@randyjohnson9772]

Black men motivated from a loving woman is one of the greatest instrument to the society...

[@shaquetaashmore4697]

Maaaaaaaaan!!!! There is not one message I've watched of Pastor Darby and Destined Ministries that I haven't been convicted. Man, this kinda word cuts ya deep!!!!! Lol Bless this ministry.

[@deborahfranklin9370]

I wept from this sermon. It pruned me. I receive the correction and will walk in alignment with the Word of God. I declare that I'm healed from this demonic programming!! 🙌 🔥 🙏

[@lolojones963]

This is what I call a fatherly teaching pouring out to his children.m. I wish every young women would get that fatherly wisdom . It is extremely needed in this generation.

[@theresmoretomethanthat5929]

there was a time I was dealing with something very powerful over my life and I asked God that if he was speaking to me about it, let me know in a certain way of words. Not long after I asked him that, maybe a few days to a week went by. I ran into a old buddy of my brother's who attend your church who then invited me to attend that following Sunday. I did just that. As I'm sitting there listing to the man of God; you...I heard exactly what I ask God to say to me to confirm it was him. I got chills at that moment. I was new in the kingdom of faith so I was easily moved from a supernatural revelation. But it didn't come from a friend, a family member, not even my pastor. It was you! And at the end of service, I couldn't wait to shake your hand. You gave me a friendly smile not knowing what took place in my life that day. I wanta say Thank you, pastor Darby! That was a powerful day for me! it freed me!

[@jarrellneriahshamah5394]

You can't find this kind of man of God very often. this man is a rare breed, and a breath of fresh air. thank you Lord!

[@yazzyw9434]

The level of conviction on my life! This woman he preaches of is me. I had loads of trauma but no God, no word, no conviction, not a drop of understanding--not even awareness of the damage I caused to myself & others & my relationship with God. I wanted to change soooo bad but was drowning in darkness (so much I can say about this). I was a lot of things for a long time. I continue to ask God to reveal in me anything that grieves him, to perform surgery on my heart with precision so I can repent & turn from my wicked ways. Only & I do mean ONLY by the BLOOD OF JESUS, GRACE & MERCY...whew. My God

[@a.j.wilson2948]

NO shame to say we need help.GOD put people in our lives to help us like Pastor Darby.

[@johnbalogune]

I will say this boldly, PROPHET DARBY is the first true one of his kind. The first true prophet of the last century or more. May he rest in peace

[@itsme1wr]

Yes his teachings have helped me in so many ways.

[@Starr.P.]

I've been a member of a church for 5 years and though I love my pastor, Pastor Darbys sermons have helped me tremendously. The way he articulates without preaching over people and how he relates the Bible to what's presently going on is what I need. I take something from every sermon I watch and I thank God for leading me here.

[@cierralee1826]

I believe this message will help save my marriage. I have always been a hard women as I was trained but I desire to be gentle.Lord help me to be how you created me with no fear.

[@yasmin24-u2p]

I had to hear this three times! Thank you lord for using pastor Darby as a vessel to share your word, amen! 🙏🏼

[@mspleasant8184]

Pastor Darby was so on point! You get a man of God and a psychologist all wrapped up in to one! He was a gem! RIP pastor Darby, you are missed!

[@meganbrown8749]

I cry every time I watch his teaching because it’s 2023 and every thing he preaches comes to pass it’s heartbreaking

[@miamor9224]

It’s almost like the Holy Spirit drops into Pastor Darby, speaks, and then leaves until the next sermon. I miss this vessel SO much!! RIP Pastor Darby

[@ItsDJNuName]

I have to change my ways pastor. my wife has to change as well cause we argue entirely too much. thank you for this message!!!!!

[@MrTuarian]

Man could grief......if this don't make you look at yourself, then I don't know what will. Thank you Pastor for yielding to the holy spirit to bring forth this message. this is real meat. Thank you God for your grace and mercy.

[@teresasjackson2233]

This is it! You broke this down like a new Cadillac left in the projects overnight. Ouch and Amen

[@ladonnaheyward7051]

All praises to the Most High! Awesome message! I'm a have my sexy pot roast for my husband tomorrow. I praise Yah for my husband because I'm not ashamed to say I need him and I love needing him. #Keeping it 100!

[@tashajohnson4226]

I need a man like this in my life, a husband, because I always been so strong and independent. I was exactly like he’s saying as a female. My dad raised me to be strong and so did my mom. Now that I’m thinking I was the man pretty much in my last two marriages. I was dominant and I couldn’t stand women. Military 12 yrs just hard now that I know it was me that caused my divorces I can change and pray for a man of God to come in my life that is a man.

[@HumbleWifeandMom]

The anointing this man had was unmatched! The most high used him to changed lives!! Praise God for his Word!

[@ATZCMinistries]

I definitely needed this Word. As a single Mom, who's been single and celibate for over 10 years now... I have definitely been in a masculine energy. In a way I have to be to survive in this cruel world, but I know God is convicting me with this Word. I believe my Kingdom Spouse is close as the Lord is bringing these kinds of teachings to me lately. I've never been married so Lord prune me, get me ready, and purify me of all these worldly traits. Thank you to God and Pastor Darby for this teaching 🎉❤

[@s.m.1675]

thank you for the GREAT message. I'm living in a role reversed marriage. I'm tired of being man of the house. I got saved after my marriage, I'm tired of being the tough one. prayers welcome.

[@popa213]

I’ve literally been binge watching his KZbin videos back to back since I found him last week 2020. It hurt that I found out he passed away day 2 of being fed. I believe the truth tellers leave this earth too soon. Thank YHWY for technology so I too can receive the meat of our lord and savior.

[@sheriecemalone2155]

Man this is so true and real, this is some of the same thing's my husband use to say to me. I have changed a lot but I want to change more. Cause I notice how different my husband treats me now that I know how to speak to him and knowing when to be quiet.

[@niecyh2313]

Everything this man said about the role of a woman is so true! My mother was never the arguing type when she was alive and married. God would always handle my pops! She left it in the hands of God and was very submissive. Everything is on point!

[@Keneth-z1d]

Thank you Stephen and Missy Darby ministries.

[@jazzyladyjae7669]

Here in 2024!👋🏾 @34:05 ... If your boss, supervisor or the pastor ask you to do something, you'd do it, but when your man(Husband) ask you to do something, now you have issues with him - bcos you don't see /perceive your husband as a person in Authority" ... Every man/woman, especially Married couple or couple Engaged to be married should Hear this Teaching ... Real Men / Real Women; this is for the Grown and Mature people, or the ones who wanna Grow. @51:20 ... "Anything(body) you don't Need, you don't adore, you don't respect" - bcos people value what they Need. ... Powerful Word!

[@ItzjustAva]

I wish I could've found you and your ministry 20 years ago. Thank you Pastor!!! May the blood of Christ keep you strong from now until the last day comes!!! Peace and Blessings to you and your family.

[@curlygirl5828]

OMG I laughed sooooo much n learned a lot too...Great Teaching Pastor Darby. ..I also love how beautifully u speak of your Queen..... Very Admirable. ...God Bless ur. union. .

[@jazzyjeffshirl]

God sends a word and it cut both ways. So much to learn if you have a teachable spirit. Thanks you Pastor. God’s word is a living and relevant word.

[@sherriholcombe5428]

Such truth in this message. I was grew up in a house with a hurt female and was taught the feminist lies too. I suffered in my marriage and life for it. I married an effeminate man who didn't want to take care of his family and I worked and paid the bills. It was totally out of order. God revealed this truth to me way before our divorce. I'm determined to raise my younger daughters according to God's design for males and females,not the world. Thank You,Father, for using Pastor Darby to speak Your will for us.

[@shimmerelle]

wow...this is GREAT preaching! but I would never ever say I don't need or want a husband because I do! I love God's rules and guidelines for the role of man and woman! the world's way...Satan's way...is CORRUPT! I would love to have a godly NONFEMININE husband! I wish more preachers preached like this!!!

[@blissbabe7296]

Thank you for this message, I wish all men can listen to your messages. What I realized too is that there are some men who do not want the responsibility of taking care of a woman, they want to be taken care of and without shame too.

[@destineetaylor4233]

rest in paradise. God himself has shown me him when I started to loose faith. I found him when I started to question life and why am I like this. God put him on this earth for his teachings to reach out to people like me. Someone who has fallen to these standards to the world thank you for being the one person Ive heard make sense of life and to connect the book to RELATIONSHIPS. This new generation needs to hear it. Rest in paradise God show me more

[@GoodVibesNewlevel2023]

Pastor Darby was the John The Baptist of this age. He warned us and now we are seeing his prophetic words in real time.

[@simoneymone89]

I can’t even believe the deliverance and knowledge I’m receiving by listening to Pastor Darby and I listen just about everyday since I’ve discovered him. I’m so sad he’s gone but God had another plan for him in the Kingdom. I am so grateful for all the work he’s accomplished while here. And it’s soooo much work. He’s convicting me and delivering me as a wife and a woman out of my victim mentality despite the circumstances of childhood and all with biblical grounds bc besides my husband and my children there’s nothing I love more than the Lord. Thank you God for his life and this teaching!

[@simoneymone89]

And I love the Lord even more than them because He gave them to me! Just had to clarify lol Jesus is my FIRST love.

[@palesamakoko4413]

Wow it's so sad that I found this ministry only this month but this word blesses me so much, I wish someone could have told me this before I said yes. 😢 I destroyed my marriage as i refused to be submissive and respectful to my hubby regardless of what he did. Had to listen to this twice and go in prayer to ask for wisdom to be a better wife and to apologize and repent for not being obedient to God's word. How I wish we can have more of pastors who preach this way

[@manoniemoments]

I AGREE! Yes & Amen.✨🙌🏾✨ This is a transforming word for a person with a listening ear, a willing heart, and consistent discipline to bring his or her own spirit under biblically authority. Thank You Lord.🤗

[@ladytee7311]

God bless this man of God for these powerful nuggets! May God bless his family and may his legacy live on in his seed in Jesus name!

[@dawnhill8161]

Man I should have heard this a long time ago. This really hit home for me... it convicted me in so many ways.... it addressed so much change I need in my life. Thanks you Pastor Darby!

[@reseanbowman8587]

I’m so thanking for hearing this man of God!! MH have mercy on his soul!

[@edythejones3090]

God is good the word is alive. This is great teaching, how anointed this man is. I miss him but how I am still receiving Wow.. Thank you Darby Family..

[@AnastasiaAnderson-kt4oe]

God bless his soul and these precise recordings. Even in death he has reached my heart and made me a devout believer. Thank God for his existence and affinity for the word.

[@tonikagoode180]

Thank you for truth. I had a light bulb moment... Being a single mother of a male child I only needed to make a few changes all around awesome revelation. Thank you once again for clarity and truth...

[@exquisite921]

I am convicted!! I fit this bill! I need to change and I will! This was just terrible programming from my upbringing! 💔

[@Themotivationalmom]

Man of God amazing word, I will apply this word to my marriage and know another level of breaking for my life.Keep moving in boldness Pastor. We need this level of restructure back to God, ordained order for our homes.

[@soldieroftheking4598]

Pastor Darby...I know you may not read this because you have so many followers...but Im going to say this anyway and try to keep it as shortly as i can....Brother of mine...this word was soo exposing for me i could not watch this without rewinding it to see if i heard what i really heard...sir I aspire for the Lord to put inside of me the truth He has placed inside of you...not to be exalted or be noticed of men ...but so I can live in a way that I dont get myself tangled up in stressful situations and hard lessons that i have had to deal with because of lack of truth ...i know you dont know me but I feel like you are my big brother because the Lord has chosen to put such a "realness" inside of you I cant stop listening to you. I thank God that He is real and that He does still have real Godly representatives. I know what you do is so hard and it is cutting even to you ... but sir be encouraged in every way and i pray blessings on your life and your ministry. ..you have been such a mouth piece of God that i needed in my life. Thank you so much for yielding your life to the only Wise One our savior. Thank you for this word

[@joelcanders4596]

Thank you Man of God for this message! This message has opened my eyes to my own effiminate ways. It's hard to admit, but once I as a man recognized this, change is coming. Thank you once again for helping us as a people to see ourselves. I strongly encourage you to continue to allow The Lord to use you to open our eyes. God bless you abundantly Man of God.

🔥Powerful Man of God🔥 Thanks God for bringing us a great man to show us where to find the narrow gate ✝️

[@toko631]

Ex drug dealer player to a true man of God I've been hooked from the first day the spirit lead me to this family ministry, so blessed to hear what and how he brings the ministry ...I got to go ..is this to much.....

[@diannadanyahdandridge8569]

I still miss this brother. My how I loved him. RIP Pastor. One of a kind man of Yah.

[@pamelahayes1084]

This sermon was on time and on point I love my children s father so much and I didn't understand what was going on in our relationship and this sermon was heaven sent answer from God thanks so much

[@debtntaxz5538]

Just found Stephen in November 2020, I’m so grateful and feel like God has took me to a deeper level of wisdom

[@soinspired5421]

I can receive this spiritual food everyday. Pastor Darby was truly a man anointed by "The Most High...My mother use to say; Some were called, Some were chosen and some just got up and went ..This man was truly CHOSEN!!🙏🏾

[@BlaccphoenyxxRises]

I had to come back and rewatch for a recap!! this is a blessing

[@queendommindset3194]

God bless you man of God! I admit this is me! This is why I haven't gotten the desires of my heart (marriage) because of masculinity. Smh. 😱 All praises to the Most High God for conviction and correction. 😊😊😊 Stay encouraged and may God continue to bless you and your family. 😍🙌👍👏💗

[@earline9960]

This pastor was such a blessing I still watch him daily. God really taught him to be a true minister of God. I am evaluating my role and want God to bless me with a God fearing man and be submissive according to God's word. Oh I thought being needy was weak, but thank God for revelation.

[@ericas2034]

I enjoyed this sermon so much, God's information, joy, laughter all in one. Glory!

[@DrMason-es6kk]

This ministry set me back on the right trajectory . Lord I’ve been needing this!

[@kenyettaf1]

When I stopped being so mean and started letting my husband lead. My things really changed for the greater good. 🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@pennyhayes5246]

This is one of the most important messages I have ever HEARD in my LIFE.. thank you JESUS!! HELP ME LORD 😢. I REPENT JESUS HELP ME LORD PLEASE..IN JESUS THE CHRIST NAME I PRAY AMEN 🙏🏽

[@Popoutrockout]

Thank you, Pastor. Even a strong man needs to sharpen himself!!

[@tajia4807]

Still watching and learning in 2019🤗

[@mr.stewart6627]

This sermon is so relevant to my life

[@msve3730]

🤦‍♀️. I pray that God send another man like this in the black community and get these men on the right track.

[@TyKnowsTheTruth]

His voice lives on forever, thank you for sharing these messages Darby family.

[@amirperrymusic]

Powerful message. 🙏🏾

[@gwomenlove]

This is soooo true! I have a lot of work to do. I am truly blessed by the way you preach Pastor Darby. All praises to the MOST HIGH GOD! You are a teacher :-) Stay real because you are helping us get delivered! Break the CHAINS OF THE DECEPTION! Praise God! Peace and blessings to ALL!

[@ferreroreshell9476]

I love his messages and how he brings truth. Pastor Darby be having me cracking up tho.

[@ColleahG]

AMEN!! A blessed message even years later!

[@ladylegs001]

Wow! This changes everything for me.

[@ashleytaplin3962]

YEAH HE SAID IT!!!

[@Flava7585]

God bless you and thank you so much for these diamond Nuggets you shared!

[@detroitman3134]

Just the word that I needed to hear today, praise God!!!

[@jorettawilliams8992]

I see this is going on real strong now. Women playing the men role. And men playing the woman role. It’s everywhere!

[@wayoflifechristianfellowship]

This is one of best if not the best message I have heard pastor Darby preached.

[@anastasiosadamopoulos4748]

Man, Pastor spot on! My next wife we have eat at this table! This is life lessons in the body of Christianity!

[@chrisg2282]

I'm glad I saw this video. Thankful for Pastor's testimony as well.

[@trisha2320]

Because of Pastor Darby teaching I’m a better follower of Jesus Christ the son of God and a better woman. Lord help us(man and woman) get on ☝🏽accord🙏🏽

[@raerae6993]

Great word. Pastor has a great sense of humor.

[@anne8220-o5c]

Glory to God for sending such a teacher. Love your transparency Pastor. Great message on marriage.

[@SharJones87]

I love my husband, but he definitely has always had effeminate characteristics and it's always made me have to be masculine. Then he's cheated on me like I was the problem. I wanted to be feminine and soft, but he never gave me the chance. Even when he cheated the chick he was with was taking care of HIM. I have been praying for God to bring him into real manhood because it makes it really hard for me to be the soft, submissive woman I want to be. It's like he runs away from walking in his true position.

[@sheilap9854]

Wow!! What A Word❤the Realest Pastor Ever, so thankful for Pastor Darby!!

[@patrickwade8489]

All 👏 to TMH!!I needed to hear this today ;) Bro Darby messages still resonates even after his passing

[@immaculateAMG]

R.I.P big dawg... Your teaching will live on forever

[@cityreviews587]

This is the best pastor I've ever come across

[@Ladyj104]

Deliverance and truth. God bless you Man of God!

[@earlsanders1644]

Great word I been listening to your preaching for a couple of weeks..And I understand the word awhole lot better then I ever did going to church. Continue to preach the correct order of God. Thanks You bold man of God!!!

[@steviecharles218]

Wow I juss watched mrs.Darby on wisdom..role reversal 🧐..he lives thru her...they are one spirit...dats the type of wife I want..in the name of JESUS Amen

[@mrs.moonie5894]

When you receive teaching on this level, you cannot go backwards to sub-par.