r/AmITheA**hole My Date Thinks Girls Get Periods from their Butts

[@superprincessgem1]

Child of severely bad divorced parents here: The OP of the first story is absolutely the AH. The daughter is 15, she is old enough to make her own decisions and figure out who she wants to spend time with. OP’s “reasons” for not allowing her daughter to go to the party are nothing but vindictive and malicious. OP is using her child as a tool to get back at the father. I spent many events in which my divorced parents disagreed on time, did things that were vindictive, and then cops got called. It gave me PTSD. Going down a road like this will only give the daughter trauma. OP seriously needs to reconsider her choices before her daughter starts to hate her.

[@sophietremblay3795]

I won’t be surprised if her daughter becomes resentful with her mother

[@Jessidafennecfox]

and goes no contact

[@ouroborosjormungandr5615]

I feel you. I knew which parent I wanted to be with by the time I was 15.

[@sophietremblay3795]

@@Jessidafennecfox exactly

[@sophietremblay3795]

@@ouroborosjormungandr5615 the father for sure

[@Rico_71]

The first story: "I have my reasons", the *daughter* wanted to be with his dad on his birthday, you grounding her because she decided to go... you are on your merry way to be absolutely despised by your daughter. And you deserve it honestly

[@freakvomdienst]

You can also tell that her reasons are probably BS, because if they justified her in any way she would absolutely have shared them.

[@orchidquack]

Exactly.

[@buckysgirl4945]

If I were the mother I would have let the Dad have my daughter for his birthday on the Condition that I get her for one extra day when I have custody, and if my birthday falls on a day I don't get custody He gets the day swap.

[@wewenethiwa9286]

Okay I haven't listened to the whole thing yet. But why couldn't the mother have treated it like any other birthday party that her kid wants to go to. Went with her kept custody of her, let her see her dad, let her go to the party and then taking her home after the party.

[@SylverGryphon33]

I really hope her birthday lands on his day so he can have some petty revenge. I mean what's one extra day? OP is the asshole pure and simple.

[@rina123456]

So here is the thing that I think was overlooked on the first story. The daughter is FIFTEEN!! That is well beyond the age where she is legally able to decide which parent she wants to be with DESPITE custody. If she wanted to live with her father (which will end up happening is mom keeps going down the road she's on), the there is very little OP can do short of proving Dad is unfit. Going to court will have the judge most likely abide by the daughters wishes. When that girl turns 18, she's gonna go NC or LC with mom, just wait and see.

[@BeanManolo]

And I bet when that happens, OP will be all "SEE, THAT'S WHY I DIDN'T WANTED HER WITH MY EX, HE MADE HER MIND AGAINST ME!" and probably the daughter will post about her in r/InsaneParents

[@karenayers2122]

when my daughter was 13 we asked her who she wanted to live with and she wanted to live with her father so I let her go. This was 26 years ago and today we have 2 grandchildren, and a great relationship.

[@damagedcanofbeans]

And the dad will have to take the blame for it i can guarantee it Oh my ex husband keeps my daughter away from me

[@TonySamedi]

I honestly hope the daughter does decide to live with dad soon, and OP never sees the kid on her (OPs) birthday again. Seriously, it'd be one thing if the dad had some history of being abusive or something, but if he did then OP absolutely would have mentioned that during the post. So it's gotta just be her being bitter.

[@GiordanDiodato]

that depends on the state

[@rebekahbell4298]

“He didn’t have my consent to have MY daughter” I think that says all that needs to be said.

[@DisneyFanatic2364]

Story 2: And THIS, parents, is why sex education is important. Everyone needs to learn about BOTH male and female anatomy, otherwise they're gonna make fools of themselves like here.

[@zacharyjackson1829]

or you could....you know.... not be a man who insists he knows more about a woman's body then she does. seems like a lot of that going around these days I have never felt the need to know what goes on down there for a woman and really don't need to.

[@supervegito2277]

Indeed, hell there are women out there who doesnt know this either. When i first saw the title i thought the genders where reversed as i have had that argument with a friend (just friend mind you im not into the dating scene)

[@Theimmure]

@@supervegito2277 You had an argument with a woman who didn’t know where their own blood was coming from...? I need more details about this-

[@supervegito2277]

@@Theimmure Argument is a strong word, but she didnt believe that there was 3 holes, and only 2... i think it ended when i tried using wikipedia as a source... completely forgetting that wikipedia is NOT afraid to use explicit images ...that was midly embarrasing.

[@shadowdash5839]

Ikr, people who claim they’re “Experts” about something shouldn’t be so cocky & just accept that there are somethings that they don’t know!!!

[@bajojohn]

Second story, she didn’t laugh at him for being wrong, she laughed at him for doubling down when he was shown he was wrong

[@RagingFireFart2000]

Poor little macho man couldn’t handle being told he was wrong about someone else’s body 😂

[@mohamedemad2051]

​@@bradleybarnett1469 She respectfully explained how and why he is wrong and he should have admitted he is wrong or just be quite, But NOoOooO lets argue basic biology that should save a face right, to be honest I'm happy she broke up with it sounds like a big bullet she dodged, can you imagine being in a relationship with someone who argues about tiny obvious things like that and breaks up about it ? wow

[@spiderace7994]

It kinda remind of a friend I knew long before who thought women have penises.

[@FEKana]

@@bradleybarnett1469 idk...when I say something stupid and dumb and I'm corrected by my boyfriend, yes I'm embarrassed, but I don't double down this hard and then get upset when someone laughs at me. But I mean that's just me xD

[@RagingFireFart2000]

@@bradleybarnett1469 well, when you’re wrong and then proceed to mansplain, that’s a pretty common dumb guy macho move. He deserved to get laughed at tbh. How are you gonna tell someone you know their body better than them? Like unless you’re a doctor/nurse, stfu.

[@Poltato222]

The last story: 'Respect your elders' is 90% of the time used to ignore hypocrisy or to treat someone, whom do not deserve it, as an autority.

[@spiderace7994]

Not to mention the insult that was thrown to your older child and the apparent theft of your younger mom. Tbh my mom would have not let it slide. I do wonder why the mom reacted the way she did?🤔

[@fnjesusfreak]

Respect is often used as a bait-and-switch: "if you don't treat me as an authority figure, I won't treat you like a human being".

[@limiv5272]

Very true. Respect, beyond basic humane treatment of others, is earned. Something is wrong with that mother if she thinks it's okay for someone to insult her son and steal her daughter's property.

[@xggxn9375]

I never understood why just being older should give you respect unconditionally. Being older doesn't mean you are more right and you haven't most likely done anything to the person who you entitled ass demand respect from

[@BubbleBunnyy]

Yea I had some random dude yell at me about respecting my elders because I flipped off some asshole who put me and my mom in danger in the car. Like wtf you don’t even know what happened, idk why he was so mad then he proceeded to flip me off for no reason and was like “how do you like that huh?” Like bro that dude could have caused my mom to crash the car!

[@madding1602]

"I have absolutely no respect for people who's willing to use their own children to get back at their ex-spouse" you've described about 90% of the story between my parents with me between both of them, and being the kid in the middle of revenges

[@Richard_Nickerson]

Yeah, things I'm actively trying not to do the same way my parents did. I have a 3.5 year old, his mom and I aren't together, and I think both his mom and I were doing this when we first broke up. We're in much better places both separately and together as co-parents now.

[@BunnyQueen97]

SAME!! I think the replies to that first story leave out that stupid stuff like this almost ALWAYS flows both ways. The dad knew what he was doing when he snuck his daughter out of school, and it was just as petty. They need to take it to court and leave their teenage daughter ENTIRELY out of it. People mention that she’s a teenager so she knows what she wants, but she’s still a CHILD. And BOTH of her parents are going to have a LOT to answer for once her brain is done developing and she sees the all around emotional manipulation for what it truly is.

[@madding1602]

@@Richard_Nickerson I've already decided that I'm not going to have children. I know it is a truly serious decision for a 20yo, but I have clear that I don't want them

[@BeeWhistler]

Never been there, thankfully, but my husband has told me some pretty awful tales from his family, poor guy. These people weren’t good parents in the first place and their selfishness just took over entirely when the dad slept with his wife’s hairdresser (who is now his step-mom). Messy, messy people. He cut off all contact about five years ago.

[@BeeWhistler]

Never been there, thankfully, but my husband has told me some pretty awful tales from his family, poor guy. These people weren’t good parents in the first place and their selfishness just took over entirely when the dad slept with his wife’s hairdresser (who is now his step-mom). Messy, messy people. He cut off all contact about five years ago.

[@uhohspaghettios3801]

"You need to learn to respect your elders" is one of the most infuriating things to me. Just because someone is older that doesn't mean they can be rude and still expect me to be polite. Respect goes both ways ffs

[@ethanrace1387]

Facts. The other one I hate is parents/people saying "treat people how you would like to be treated" and then treats you like shit and then get in trouble if you do it to them or other "Elders". To be clear agree with the msg but not the hypocrisy that comes from it.

[@shadowdash5839]

Ikr, people these days are so naive to the bullying & abuse right in front of them that they only recognise us as the bad guys, not the ones who originally done it. “I’m not gonna punish this person for hurting you, even though they did it in front of me”.

[@_.-._.-.]

Exactly. Respect is earned, not inherited.

[@catherineervin2630]

I respect elders as far as giving up my seat on the bus for an elderly man/woman or something like that. But they don't just automatically get my all around respect in all things, if that makes sense?

[@jjwang_safari0813]

This reminded me of the well-known yet hypocritical Chinese Idioms: "Parents can do no wrong" and "Respect the aged and the wise". I know those idioms meant well, but somehow they just become excuses for rude elders/parents to abuse youngsters, even when they're in the wrong. I'm so glad that all my elders in my family are reasonable and respectable people so I never have to deal with that kind of crap, but unfortunately, that's not the norm for most Asian families.

[@ThePanMan11]

First story: someone is definitely not gonna be a part of her daughter's life if she keeps this up.

[@francescaperron2003]

If you have your period out of your butt, you may want to go to the doctor and get that checked out

[@rezmcc1820]

lol

[@JoyBoyGeeze]

Nah it's natural, a classmate in second grade told me. Just gotta wait it out

[@francescaperron2003]

@@JoyBoyGeeze Seems legit, I'll give you that

[@leeannsampson6050]

Definitely get it checked. Bleeding analy can range from hemorrhoids to cancer.

[@Mistfall254]

@@JoyBoyGeeze r/sarcasm but seriously rectal bleeding can be serious

[@joseph0998]

He’s so embarrassed that he ended an entire relationship

[@angycat4262]

She didn't laugh at him for not understands, she laughed after she explained everything and he decided that he in all his female anatomy expertise still was in the right

[@toomuchglitters7254]

@@angycat4262 Exactly! She didn't laugh at him for being confused, she laughed at him because he was _adamant_ that he was right. Typical mansplainer.

[@franl155]

That's a sure sign of maturity /sarcasm/

[@morgandouglas6014]

That boyfriend is clueless AF. I’m actually glad they broke up. Just imagine if they had kids and he started teaching their daughters this BS😬

[@CaIasanctius]

people have moved entire states because they waved at a person they thought was waving at them, but instead was waving at a person behind them.

[@danielbrant6740]

2nd Story: Dude got a humiliating lesson in the difference between learning about something secondhand (reading, being told by other people) and learning firsthand (experiencing for yourself). Being male, one of the first things I was told about periods is that unless you're a doctor (and even then, there are limits) is that you *DO NOT* act like you know more about them than the women who experience them. And that periods are like _literal_ snowflakes: not every woman experiences them the exact same way. I'm going to take a guess that this story took place in the U.S. and that the guy's parents never signed that sex ed note when he was younger.

[@Avrysatos]

There's a caveat to that snowflake line that might be helpful for you. One case where you should say something is if they're in extreme pain. I'm talking they're curling up in pain. A distressingly high number of women don't realize that isn't normal. There are several medical conditions that can cause it and they're, to varying degrees, treatable. It probably did take place in the US.

[@justaperson4656]

This, man! I got told numerous times by my PE teacher at school to "just move more and the cramps will go away", but I have a family history of endometriosis. Endometriosis is a condition where the uterus lining becomes inflamed during shedding/a period, and then doesn't heal right. My mother actually developed ovarian cancer and cysts due to the scar tissue rotting underneath her inflamed uterus lining (thankfully is now cancer free). I had to stay home for 2-3 DAYS at a time at the start of my periods because I couldn't move at all due to the pain. Eventually I got put on mephanamic acid to ease the cramps, before being put on the pill to manage anaemia cause by my heavy periods. Thankfully I don't get periods anymore, but I do still get the cramps (less so), and being told to "just move" when I was doubled over crying from pain? Bad move teach

[@justaperson4656]

@@Avrysatos agreed, family history of endometriosis and my mum saying "I used to get that, take a paracetamol, a hot water bottle, and the day off" for 2 days in a row made me realise the pain I was in wasn't normal

[@Avrysatos]

@@justaperson4656 I had to tell a girl in university when I was there that her pain wasn't normal. She had thought everyone had such pain that they could barely get out of bed sometimes.

[@buckysgirl4945]

To be fair to that guy. I get massive gut issues during my Period.

[@elizabethcox5911]

Story 2: not really laughing at him misunderstanding, but at the fact that he kept arguing with a woman about her own body instead of realizing that he misunderstood. Better off without him.

[@namelessvq3404]

I love how RSlash is laughing so much at the 2nd story that he forgot to give his rating 😂

[@jerkofalltrades5430]

First story, that mom is a JERK being spiteful and is raising a daughter that will hate her.

[@kingoreo3642]

I can clearly see why she’s divorced

[@jotacatalan]

Seeing how the daughter wanted so badly to be in his father birthday, she may already despise her own mother, it's sad that the mother won't know until is too late

[@ReigoVassal]

for me it's unhinged

[@h3xagon488]

The fact that she was grounded was really the coffin in the nail

[@SALSN]

I don't understand why some people think age by itself commands respect?

[@garfeld625]

To the Butt Period OP, you dodged a bullet. A lot of men, and I speak from experience as one, don't know how to back down from an argument. Including over things we know nothing about. If he had stayed I can quarentee he would constantly argue with you like he knew everything and make you out to be the villian for calmly showing him he's wrong. Some of us guys just need to be knocked down a peg and realize we aren't God's of knowledge and that we can just hear new information and accept it

[@captmac7]

Right, because only the Y chromosome carries the trait which prevents a person from backing down from an argument. If you speak from experience, then you need to experience being around more women.

[@maxwellguillory405]

@@captmac7 yeah it should’ve been “a lot of people”. It’s not even a gender thing, people can be stupid as fuck regardless of what’s between their legs.

[@ramenbomberdeluxe4958]

@@captmac7 He didn’t say all men, what is with you guys? I’m a man and I got the memo just fine! You really need to understand the difference between “all” and “not all BUT ENOUGH to be a problem”.

[@ramenbomberdeluxe4958]

@@maxwellguillory405 Except he’s not talking about all men, just enough to be a problem. You two need to chill…

[@chuuu4610]

I think you may have just helped to prove his point lol.

[@champslim]

That kid is 15 YEAR OLD. She wanted to be there for her father's birthday. OP is pushing her daughter away. Period poops do sucks tho

[@buttnugget3121]

I like that you lumped both stories together, so now it seems like period poops are a part of the ex husband’s birthday lol

[@myopinion69420]

one of my mates just up and left home at 14 to live with one of his aunts because his mother was to controlling and would not let him see his dad. his dad was not in a position to move in with (semi homeless) but one of his sisters was more than happy to provide a bed, food, schooling and drive him to soccer practice etc. all so he could have contact with his dad (and have a generally better life). he now owns his own home, has a fiancé, a kid and a really good job. all his siblings that did not get out are dole bludgers (people who are on unemployment benefits because the don't want to work) like his mother and a are generally bad people and I put that all down to her.

[@champslim]

@@buttnugget3121 lolol

[@JadeyCatgirl99]

When "respect your elders" becomes "let adults treat you however they want without standing up for yourself" we have failed the kids of our society. That last story is a classic example of someone with power mistreating someone weaker than herself. You can bet that if that boy had "borrowed" her sons' bikes, their would have been a serious recourse.

[@Lucas-zg1vz]

Last story: OP's mum should have been proud of her son for standing up for and protecting his sister. It takes some character as a 14 year old to approach elders in situations like that.

[@Yumi_Jay]

Its the sibling bear thing. too would get defensive on behalf of my younger sisters even when they can defend themselves. If my sister is having an asthma attack I go on mama bear mode.

[@35173Elise]

Imagine Man-splaining periods to a woman. There are only 2 valid reasons for a biological woman to not know how periods work: 1: She hasn't had her first one yet (and was never otherwise educated) 2: She has amnesia.

[@reflex9238]

“Man-spraining” very sexist, for someone who claims to not be sexist hypocrite.

[@clashatdemonhed9554]

3: her father placed and locked a chastity belt onto the woman to control her and he’s the only one who changes the underwear

[@meowgi]

@@reflex9238 so is rslash a sexist too? 🤔

[@15stargamer98]

@@reflex9238 it is literally man-splaining. By definition.

[@reflex9238]

​@@meowgi I'd say yeah, unless any of you hypocrites are okay with calling women that bitch woman-splaining.

[@ScorpiusZA.]

That last story.. i was so pissed at his mother. RESPECT IS EARNED.

[@sneko2860]

yeah I've never understood the whole "respect your elders" thing especially considering it's only used when someone older than you is being an asshole.

[@spiderace7994]

@@sneko2860 Plus another woman tried to steal something from your younger child while insulting your other one by calling them a dirty playboy (just paraphrasing). I truly hope it was maybe a misunderstanding since that happened to me before. If that's not so then idk since who would let anything I said above slide about your children. Overall weird reaction.

[@danielseelye6005]

The idea is that respect would be earned by experiencing decades of life and by getting old, you've proven yourself worthy of being listened to. Of course that was millennia ago when the idea of someone reaching 50 was rare but now, thanks to advancements, just because you're old doesn't mean you've proven yourself in thoughts and deeds to be worth listening to.

[@sneko2860]

@@danielseelye6005 well that's the thing it is true that you grow wiser as you age but that doesn't mean you get to be an entitled douche and literally steal from a child. It seems fairly common now that with age comes entitlement.

[@sneko2860]

@@spiderace7994 I really doubt it was a misunderstanding as op in the post used pretty clear language when referring to it being their sister's bike and that the boys already had their own bikes.

[@mavisvioleta]

For the brother babysitting against his will, yeah he definitely has to call the girl and tell her EXACTLY why his brother left the date, I hope she sees it like we do: an irresponsible man, who dumped his responsibilities to others.

[@angusmacintyre2414]

My thought exactly. Also, don't bother trying to reclaim the spare key. Change the locks.

[@velvety2006]

And warn her she will probably face the same thing while the brother still goes on dates behind her back., he is not looking for a gf he is looking for a nanny with benefits

[@sherylcascadden4988]

And if the brother is dumping his kid on OP without warning on a regular basis, maybe Child Services needs to be informed. After all, where else is he dumping his son whenever he becomes inconvenient? Just a maybe.

[@damenlanzillo4320]

We will here this story on rslashes next r/maliciouscompliance

[@cyberwarfare8636]

@@angusmacintyre2414 get a freaking bank vault as a door

[@bettybass8177]

The first story reminds me of when rslash was reading a story about op not letting her daughter go with her father to see her dog on their last day just because she was petty

[@KamotzII]

I was wondering why that story sounded so familiar. I think the other story even used the same "I had my reasons" BS for not being flexible.

[@bettybass8177]

@@KamotzII ikr

[@kranberry3318]

Rslash laughing at the butt period story so much he forgot to give them scores 😂

[@animeotaku307]

Second story: I got the kinds of periods that the guy’s high school gf got. Those “period poops” are likely a combination of cramps and heavy flow. NTA, OP. Dude is old enough that he should know better. 4th story: I hate the “respect your elders” rhetoric when used like this. It absolves the elder of responsibility and dumps in onto the younger person, essentially demanding that they be the adult in the situation. NTA.

[@tirill452]

Period poop is an actual "term", might be slang. Since a lot of girls get either loose or hard stool when on their period, since the bowels get affected by the cramps, and you end up being stuck with blood and loose stool, and it just sucks.

[@SolGames]

But all schools don't have sex ed, for us it might be a given what does what and how everything works. I don't know but 22 is still quite young and if he has not been thought about and the only information he got was from a misunderstanding. But Still På is NTA.

[@lavenderoh]

@@SolGames None of that excuses his willful ignorance after she explained it.

[@ladosis5596]

This woman is NTA. She tried to explain and the guy just couldn't accept he had been wrong. This girl wasn't laughing at someone that doesn't understand, she laughed about the willful ignorance and mansplaining this man child displayed. Good riddance

[@SolGames]

@@lavenderoh I said she was NTA I just explained why a 22 year old might not know

[@lcwpd52973]

I laughed so hard I peed when he said does he think butt plugs are feminine products 🤣 💀

[@severedproxy]

I choked on my sandwich when I heard him say it. Best part of this story TBH. Period plug lol.

[@josephnorris4095]

Woman, it is not "My Daughter", it is our daughter, you do not own her.

[@StoutShako]

For the second story: This reminds me of a HILARIOUS convo I had with a coworker. This dude I didn't like much, let's call him Samson, was out for a few days. We naturally thought he was playing hooky, because the guy had attendance issues, but eventually like 4 days later, he returned. Turned out he had a kidney stone. Again, I didn't like the dude much, so I only heard it secondhand, but I wouldn't wish a kidney stone on my worst enemy. I expressed my condolences to the coworker who relayed the information to me, and prepared to go on my merry way. Then the coworker who told me said that Samson told him "yeah, kidney stones are way more painful for men, because the opening of the penis is smaller than the opening of the vagina." I DIED LAUGHING. The coworker that relayed the information is like... in his 20s, so that's already pretty bad -- BUT SAMSON WAS 38 HE WAS 38 AND THOUGHT THAT *WOMEN PEED OUT OF THEIR VAGINAS* AND NOBODY EVER BOTHERED CORRECTING HIM. To this day it remains the funniest shit I've ever heard, and I still think about it every time I see him now. That was about 5 years ago, so Samson is now in his early to late 40s. I wonder if he still thinks women pee out of their vaginas. 😂😂😂

[@superexplosion5985]

Love it on aita when rSlash realizes half way through the person's an asshole and starts giving them a more entitled voice Like the first story

[@lucinda3964]

At first, I was thinking the daughter was a smaller child and the father was somehow a terrible person. But nope, she's 15 and more than capable of making the choice to see her father on his birthday. Where he went to a public place with his family to enjoy dinner. So yea, the mother is the asshole here. And I am seeing where the divorce came from, she clearly has some control issues here. There was no other reason for her to deny the dad's time with their kid other than "it wasn't his day." And if there were some dire reasons for not wanting them to spend time together, then I really don't think she would post it on a public forum it wouldn't be a question.

[@tiredman99]

Exactly this

[@g.s.651]

You don’t understand how serious custody law is then. What he did could’ve gotten him arrested for kidnapping. That was incredibly irresponsible of him, he could’ve just rescheduled the birthday dinner but he had to go and break the law and act indignant about it because “it’s my birthday!” Like, wtf. The courts do not give a shit. Let’s say you’re right, maybe she was a control freak, but he’s at best a childish dumbass who recklessly risked his freedom and custody with his daughter over a single dinner. You don’t break the law and act entitled to it just because your feelings were hurt.

[@lucinda3964]

@@g.s.651 You would be correct I do not understand custody law. I'm one of those childless millennials you hear about. And yes, I agree, that he shouldn't have pulled her out of school or thought more about his actions. But the way it shapes up, seems like the mother could have also called in the law. And she didn't. So in my book this is way more petty bullshit.

[@truthseeker9249]

@@g.s.651 You're absolutely heartless.

[@nicoleb695]

@@lucinda3964 preach! G.S. clearly is one of those control freaks if she's siding with the ex wife.

[@chriscross4906]

Tbh I wouldn't be surprised if, as soon as the daughter turns 18, she'll go completely no contact with her mum in Story 1. YTA.

[@crispychips7161]

I feel bad for the daughter in the fist story. I hope some day she can move past it.

[@xNETxEx]

Last story: YEP! I’ve honestly never understood this whole “respect your elders no matter what” mentality. And on top of that I’m an older brother so there probably should’ve been a trigger warning on this for me lol. There’s no way anyone would’ve bothered my sister and not suffered dearly. She’s a grown woman now that can very well handle herself and I have the same energy. OPs mom needs to get her priorities straight.

[@frank-kj8gn]

The whole "it's my day!!" thing from divorced parents really fucked up my partner when we were just friends in high school. We had a project at my house and when it was time for them to go home, one parent couldn't pick up my friend, so they asked the other parent. The one whose day it was said they'd call the cops if the other parent came instead, so my partner had to wait until one parent's relative came to pick them up instead. It was really weird to me, and my partner was embarrassed. My parents would soon be separated and even they were horrified

[@gilded_lady]

First story: damn, mom is awful for being such a petty person. Good job on alienating her daughter. Third story: He should have agreed to call the girlfriend (trade it for the key) and told her the truth.

[@alexthegr8estt]

Good idea lol

[@sherylcascadden4988]

Yes.

[@akl2k7]

Yeah, if he told the girlfriend the truth, how much do you want to bet she'd break up with the brother because she didn't know he was a father, and lied about it.

[@d.phantomfan1216]

Last Story: So A bunch of kids steals your daughter’s bike, and their mother disrespects your son, but what you got out of that story was that your son need to “respect his elders ”? I don’t wanna be mean but that is terrible parenting.

[@ramenbomberdeluxe4958]

Delusional adults love using terms like respect your elders and don’t talk back as delusional excuses to get away with being rude to their children or the children beneath their authority.

[@velvety2006]

then that mummy needs to teach her kids to respect other people's property what if they broke the bike?

[@akl2k7]

Yeah, I think everyone deserves respect to a certain degree, however, the kids' mother negated that when she excused her sons' bullying and stealing. Respecting elders has limits.

[@mckenziemarsalis9482]

As a girl who is currently on her period this made me laugh my blood off

[@wendiezearfoss3816]

Related (sort of) to the second story. I heard about a doctor who told his patient who needed to have one testicle removed, that as a result, he could only father children of one sex. That doctor must have miss class the day meiosis was discussed. And the first woman should have gotten 5 out of 5. She’s in deep danger of her daughter cutting ties with her when she turns 18.

[@myroc1]

I love how in the second story he cites her laughter as the reason he's ending the relationship rather than his embarrassment 😆

[@Dudman83]

The first “mother” in the first story is a complete joke. I bet she will wonder in a few years time why the daughter wants nothing to do with her

[@allisonharris1319]

The first story their daughter is 15 and in most states if she says she prefers staying with one parent over the other courts will usually listen to them and grant it to where the other parent will have the child every weekend or every other weekend so OP better start acting better

[@g.s.651]

... Speaking from experience, that is not true. You have to be legally of age to decide for yourself. And what he did was kidnapping. If the courts find out he pulled this kind of stunt, he could’ve lost all visitation rights and been thrown in jail. He’s lucky she didn’t press charges, my parents would’ve.

[@xeedflarian9748]

@@g.s.651 that is factually wrong. There are alot of states that give weight to a kids preference on which parent they want to stay with. They have to be 14 and older, look it up. In my state it's true.

[@sherylcascadden4988]

Some states it's 14, others it's 15 or 16, and it's possible some states may require 18, but I haven't heard of any. Individual states have the right to make their own laws on this. I have heard of a custody case (on mobile, cannot research and link, sorry) one parent in one state, other in another, and each had custody hearings in their own state. Needless to say, the judges didn't agree, and multiple lawsuits came later. I think the kid's opinion and wishes should always be considered, with an independent party (child psychologist, or other specialist) giving a report to the court. My opinion, not what law says or requires. Too many children are at the mercy of their parent's "covert war."

[@PennyAfNorberg]

in sweden it's 12 i think

[@puppilull7830]

@@PennyAfNorberg Yes, it is. And with the convention on children's rights made into law, I would imagine the child's opinion can weigh in even earlier now. Tricky though. Not a good situation for a child to be in, since it can very easily feel like a choice of which parent they love more. Still, it's good children are heard.

[@ju1e5_v3nt5]

As someone who grew up with divorced parents, the first story was insane. My parents would always be flexible for events, especially things like birthdays. Jeez.

[@halokylene8407]

That’s cause both your parents loved you more than they hated each other 💜

[@Yumi_Jay]

My parents hate each other but was still willing to be flexible in terms of visitations or holidays. If my sister and I got cast in the Nutcracker then my dad would have us for Christmas because the Nutcracker was Thanksgiving weekend. Honestly I prefer Christmas at my father's because it's a longer visit.

[@random_hime]

last story: you should only "respect your elders" when they being reasonable. that karen obviously wasn't.

[@ZeniaRose]

lol The period one... it reminds me of several years ago when I went to the ER because ... incoming TMI.... I'd been bleeding from the butt for over a week and got so lightheaded that I could barely function. It had happened before but usually stopped after a day or two. So this time I was afraid of like, cancer or something. Anyway, while getting a massive blood infusion (my hemoglobin was the lowest many of the nurses had EVER seen) a general doctor came around and without even examining me, INSISTED that I must just be on my period. I was like, "Uh, no. This blood is not coming from my vagina. I know what a period is like man." He barely even came into the room, said it must be my period and he was gonna send in a gyno to give me a pelvic exam. So the gyno came in and I told her what was going on and she apologized, did the exam anyway and was like "Yup. Not your period. That other guy is dumb. I will send a different general guy over."

[@dylanharding5720]

I mean, first story is an obvious YTA. Privacy breaches, breaching your daughter's own free will, before considering the morals of stopping your ex from seeing his family on his birthday.

[@slayboss3000]

Agreed

[@IAmzColbz]

The person in the first story is most definitely the YTA, she couldn't even try to spin the story to make her look good

[@pearlthenephilim]

Yes the first one is a YTA story, but in law technicality the dad kidnapped his daughter because he did not have permission to have her at that moment according to their custody agreement. I'm not saying what she did isn't wrong, it is but the father does have some you are the jerk points in my mind just not as much as the mother

[@tavishworrell572]

Not only that but the daughter is almost a legal adult and if the mom tried bringing that to court she could get in trouble for that, the father would get in trouble too but not as much trouble. Ultimately the court would probably decide that the daughter gets to spend the parents birthday woth them even if it's not the whole day. This is how my custody was set up so I could have dinners with my mom on her birthday

[@pearlthenephilim]

@@tavishworrell572 Mhm!

[@Tantejay]

About the daughter in the first story: As soon as she is being heard in court she will leave momand move out to Dad. If mom makes that impossible, she WILL move out at 18 and cut contact. She can do that because Dad apparently has her back And then, in "relationship advice": "My daughter cut all contect with me and I don't know why"

[@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer]

Story 4 never blindly respect elders, be polite to them but not submissive If they respect you, you respect them back

[@JoelPerry1]

Yeah if that was my kid, I'd tell him not to swear first, but praise him for standing up for his sister.

[@driversuz44]

Story 2: That wasn't "mansplainging." It was an extremely immature and insecure person whose go-to response to discovering that he's mistaken, is to double down in the face of clear evidence.

[@limiv5272]

I think it was both

[@driversuz44]

@@limiv5272 I don't. I think it's bigotry to gender obnoxious behavior.

[@rachelfox8108]

@@driversuz44 It's a specific term that was created to explain a very specific behaviour that occurs due to the specific ways in which men are socialised in this society, where the man's credibility is always assumed and the woman's credibility is always doubted first, which leads to events where a man often makes assumptions of the way things work and -- without further guidance, pushback, or learning -- assumes his assumption is correct. It becomes "man-splaining" when he takes this assumption and insists it is correct *to a female expert on the subject who says otherwise based on her expertise* (whether that is "expertise" by official credentials or "expertise" by personal experience). It is the second part that makes it specifically "man-splaining". Yes, anyone can do something this obnoxious, but the term "man-splaining" arose because the overwhelmingly sexist values of our society make this behaviour most common in a specific way, in a particular dynamic, often enough that it was named. It's just how we have all sorts of chemical reactions that occur, but we only give the name "oxidization" to a specific kind of chemical reaction, and only that one. This isn't "picking on men" or "unnecessarily gendering behaviour" -- this is giving a name to a social phenomenon that occurs because of sexism. A man explaining something (even when done obnoxiously) isn't automatically "man-splaining" unless it is to a female expert and the topic is her area of expertise. And no, "woman-splaining" isn't a thing, because women are generally socialised to doubt their own power and expertise (see: imposter syndrome). A woman who explains a topic to a male expert in that topic is the same thing we call a man explaining a topic to a male expert in that topic: an asshole. And that is not a gendered behaviour.

[@sephthesatanist6558]

@@driversuz44 this comment has major pick-me energy

[@driversuz44]

@@rachelfox8108 "... It's a specific term that was created to explain a very specific behaviour that occurs due to the specific ways in which men are socialised in this society..." Exactly. Now apply that sort of stereotype to any other demographic, and try to call it anything but bigotry. It's not "OK when we do it."

[@carmelita6425]

"I can not stop laughing about period plugs"....... Tampons....... "Respect your elders" Being older doesn't mean you earned my respect. Especially if you talk like that to someone who is politely asking something.

[@silverflight01]

Story 1: Even without knowing about that subtle wording, you can tell that OP was being too unreasonable. Even that punishment that OP unnecessarily threw at the daughter speaks volumes about her character.

[@jeremygoslin8864]

Well she’s also FIFTEEN. She can choose where she lives at that point. And she will choose her dad if OP doesn’t smarten up

[@g.s.651]

... alternate interpretation: Her daughter asked to go somewhere that she was court ordered to not be, mom said no, the dad and the kid disregarded her refusal and broke the law. Because objectively, that is what legally happened. He could’ve been arrested. Bare minimum, he’s an idiot and he did it over a birthday dinner he could’ve rescheduled instead of risking a kidnapping charge. No one in these comments understands custody law, istg.

[@contentlobby3824]

@@g.s.651 so you agree with the child abuser, okay, thanks

[@tiredman99]

@@g.s.651 Nice to know you agree with an abusive parent. Also parents do this stuff all the time if they can coparent well. "Hey is it okay if I have Kid this day even though it's not an assigned day?" And the ex responds sure that's okay if I can have Kid for "x" day when I don't have custody

[@g.s.651]

@@contentlobby3824 🙄 y’all dumb as hell. You are not exempt from a court order just because it’s your birthday. I am not talking about her. He was reckless and irresponsible.

[@JasperCatProductions]

Hmmmm ground your daughter for loving her dad…..I hate it when people use their failed marriage as an excuse to use their children as pawns and weapons. Oh they cheated they deserve to be punished! Or whatever….you have chosen to have a kid with this person, so whatever happens is on you. Encouraging love between your kid and their parent is important. When you trash the other parent kids feel like “ I am half you and half them and I must be trash too”.

[@readjordan2257]

1:54 Basic respect and boundaries? No wonder youre divorced, you dont know the meaning of respect and boundaries! Your daughter comes first. Also .. you have "your reasons" but under an anonymous posting that doesnt cut it. Explain or hint at the nature, or provide other serious reasons to get a pass on those. Otherwise you could just be making an excuse to us.

[@dylanharding5720]

I'm fairly sure that's even exactly what she said to her daughter/ex

[@OneEyeShadow]

Since she went home and grounded the daughter right after, I'm pretty sure the 'my reasons' bit is something they threw in because they realized how unreasonable they were looking in their own post.

[@asmith8692]

I think that the hint of those "reasons" is she hates her ex and likes to hurt him every chance she gets. I really hope he can get majority custody.

[@MrKingArthurhk]

I remember first being married 23 years ago. I had a sister and a mother who explained the birds and bees early on and a sex education class long before High School. So, my wife has me shopping for everything. I get to the feminine hygiene isle and I am overwhelmed by the options. There were different sizes of pads and I had no clue what to pick up. I thought they were like women’s shoe size based on vaginal shape. Eventually, I got educated and banned from grocery shopping as I would still shop like a single guy, and that was just not compatible with her need to have ingredients and cook everything. I got like survival food that you could grill or make easily.

[@ChosenOne41]

With the period story there is a huge difference between laughing at someone for not understanding something and laughing at someone for doubling down on not understanding something

[@JC-sd1xq]

The weird thing about the first story was the woman saying she “has her reasons” as to why the father couldn’t have custody that day, but she never goes on to explain those reasons… I thought maybe there was a past history of a slew of custody violations or something else that would make a swap of days unreasonable and her not the A hole, but she never gave any background. I would assume if she had better reasons, she would have given them to try and get more people on her side, but as it stands it sounds like her “reasons” are mostly spite.

[@immadrachett3290]

Her "reasons" were that she's spiteful and didn't want her daughter around her father because she hates him.

[@treehugger0241]

Hit the nail on the head. She knows her reasons are bs so she's keeping quiet about them in hopes people won't probe.

[@cetkat]

I dunno. Basically kidnapping his daughter secretly from school is not the act of someone level-headed either. As an adult, I would do the mature thing and just change the day I went out for my birthday dinner to one where she could attend.

[@deadmann320]

Respect is earned, age does NOT mean instant respect

[@zerobolt9506]

Tell this to my family please

[@angycat4262]

The Nurse story is basically: how dare you not put hundred of lives and your own job at risk so I can get laid??? So selfish

[@limiv5272]

And time and effort and probably money...

[@brom0198]

The first story, I'm giving mom 4,5 out of 5. She's actively using the kid to hurt her ex. This behaviour is abusive, manipulative and will cause the daughter to go no contract as soon as she turns 18. I'm a divorced kid myself. Trading time is always an option and the laws have to change from "the parents right to see the kid" to "the kids right to see the parent". Also, if the parents were still together, the daughter would attend the dads birthday, so taking that away from her is nuts. Grounding her on top of that is abusive.

[@xxTC-96xx]

isn't it great when separated parents treat their children like property when it comes to shared custody

[@rachelwilliams2896]

I remember seeing a clip from judge Judy or something where the judge put the mom in her place and told her the father was as entitled to the kid he created as much as the mother. Dads shouldn’t have to go through hell to spend time with their kids.

[@Yumi_Jay]

I remember that quote. Judy said "fathers are not second class citizens." There's a KZbin clip of it. Judge Judy was a family court Judge before doing her show.

[@rachelwilliams2896]

@@Yumi_Jay thank you I couldn’t remember what the exact quote was

[@ScooterBond1970]

I remember a case where the mom who DIDN'T EVEN HAVE CUSTODY came and took the child from the custodial dad and even brought a couple big dudes as enforcers. Judy ripped her several new ones.

[@Richard_Nickerson]

"You have no right to speak about private personal property if you're going around getting a single girl pregnant a single time, now leave me and my 3 kids via 3 pregnancies alone." WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE? Edit: How tf did OP's mom NOT side with him? Yeah, just teach your kids to get walked all over.

[@AxltheTemplar]

Story 1 is simple. Expect the same treatment on every event you think is important. 100% of them from now on. By not negotiating, you are gonna make your life harder.

[@richardpearson1552]

Story 1 is a classic example of "You are suppose to love your kids MORE than you hate your ex"

[@KomaedasOneTrueHope]

"Respect your elders" Yeah no...I treat elders the way I treat anyone else. you EARN my respect you don't get to DEMAND I respect you.

[@marisan8265]

Rslash's English major shining through with his literal analysis on the first story

[@Yumi_Jay]

Yep. He may say it was a waste of paper, but I think it has help him a bit especially with his channel.

[@justj.c6769]

Worked with a guy who thought girls could only get pregnant on their period. I felt so bad for his girlfriend. I told him that wasn't how it worked. He looked at me like I was an idiot until he talked to his gf who laughed at him.

[@dracko158]

The last story: Mom: "You shouldn't have cussed at the mom, you should still respect your elders anyway!!" OP's mom is definitely 100% a Karen.

[@spiderace7994]

I like how the mother ignored the insult that his own son was called a dirty playboy. The mom kinda has dumb logic here so maybe she either misunderstood or maybe something else is going on. Though that's just my assumption.

[@franl155]

Never mind that the woman's kids stole her daughter's property and refused to give it back, and that their mother actively aided and abetted them. "Respect the thieves!"

[@m2pt5]

"Respect your elders" is one of the most BS things, usually said by or about people who totally don't deserve said respect. Just because you're old doesn't mean you automatically get undeserved respect. Be a decent person first.

[@dracko158]

@@m2pt5 "Respect your elders" is something entitled people say when they realize they are proven wrong, shot down, or is unable to get things they want. That Mom is honestly saying that BS because she herself never bumped into a Karen/Darren before, so she think the lady saying that is somehow justified. And, she's a Karen for saying that.

[@dracko158]

@@franl155 So basically, when OP's mom says "respect your elders", itv basically translates to "Respect us even though we did bad things or killed someone!"

[@The_dandy_zombie]

honestly, my mom did everything she could to help me and my siblings keep contact with my dad. I dont understand parents that dont think with there children in mind first and foremost.

[@shadowdash5839]

NGL, I hate how in the last story OP is told to “Respect their elders” & just deal with their abuse. Seriously, that’s like enabling a bully to be harsh to others & then getting angry at the victim for talking back. I personally think we should change that saying to “Respect your elders, unless they respect you”.

[@anthonymedina9425]

Second story: I've had this conversation with my mom, because she thought dogs reproduced through the butt. Do you know how weird it is to explain periods to a woman who's already had kids?

[@wholelottalight]

LOL. Well... I guess some animals do have different ways of doing things. But wow. That is pretty funny.

[@limiv5272]

I don't understand. Where did she think the blood was coming from?

[@anthonymedina9425]

@@limiv5272 well for more context, ⚠️ *warning ⚠️ if you're easily grossed out* the dogs had constipation, and were bleeding while pooping, around the time we were expecting them to get their first period. I noticed it wasn't normal, and told her we needed to take them to the vet, which then led to the "period talk"

[@limiv5272]

@@anthonymedina9425 I hope the dogs were okay. I wasn't talking about them though, I was talking about your mother. If she had you then she is/was fertile and therefore I assume has menstruated in her life. Where did she think the blood between her legs was coming from?

[@dontlookinmydescription7743]

@@limiv5272 The mom knew what was going on with her own body, just not the dogs. She would’ve known it came from the vagina for her but thought the dog’s system was different. I thought OP made that clear.

[@TheRuneTail]

Story 1: YTA. Ex and daughter wanted to spend his birthday together and Op said no "for reasons", reasons she never explained.

[@ScooterBond1970]

Because the "reasons" were likely just petty spitefulness and she very well knew it.

[@akl2k7]

Right. "I have my reasons!" Okay, do you mind telling them to the class? If you can't, then they aren't much of reasons.

[@OneEyeShadow]

First story: Here I was picturing an 8 year old, when in fact her daughter was fucking 15. OP be crazy.

[@MatthewSmith-pv6gd]

I'm a bit torn on the first one. OP had every right to decline giving up her daughter on her day with her, even if it was the father's birthday, but she also handled the situation VERY poorly, at a minimum she didn't seem to take the daughters wishes or well bring into account AT ALL. He handled it VERY poorly as well though, by illegally taking her without even notifying OP. Just bad behavior stacked on top of bad behavior, all at the expense of the daughter.

[@CrazyInLove466]

Oh man, hahaha. The second story had me laughing so hard. 🤣butt plugs😂 thanks for making my day RSlash! Hahahah

[@Plzchangemyname]

All I can imagine with Rslash's period story is the one episode of South park where Eric just says confusingly "so girls do not have balls?"

[@themoo_spl]

The woman watching her nephew one, I'd agree to call the date and tell them what actually happened. Sure they'd be reaaaaal interested in how their potential bf acts in regards to their son and boundaries :)

[@Anaphey]

It is a dude...

[@yackohoopy]

My exwife has been using our children as a weapon and gone out of her way to make that I don’t get to see our children. She has lied about me, made false allegations, her and her mother have poisoned the children’s minds. The worst part is that my exwife is racist and sexist. Her and her mother have repeatedly said that anytime our son had made a mistake, they’d say, “It’s because of your Y chromosome”. Because of her actions, I haven’t seen our children for ten years. Our son did try to communicate with me 4 years ago. Me exwife went through all of his social media and blocked me from all of his social media so that I wouldn’t talk to him.

[@wakeangel2001]

I notice the first person didn't even make an attempt to justify why she wouldn't let her daughter go to the party. Like, you'd think she would point out some other obligation or plans with other family, but no, she just "has her reasons" which based on the story would be "I'm vindictive and selfish"

[@ZombieSazza]

Story 3 where OPs brother is massively irresponsible and just dumps his son on others expecting them to care for his son? He asked you to speak to this woman, right? I’d call her up and be completely honest with her, that he dumped his kid on you, that he literally snuck into your house behind your back as you were showering, and just dumped his kid, knowing you had work. That he refused to pick up his kid until threatened, that he expected you to not show up to work and avoid responsibilities because he demanded it and because he’s irresponsible. I’d call her up and be completely honest about the kind of guy he is, because he would deserve it. Maybe then he’ll learn a lesson, but I highly doubt it, he needs to be held responsible tho.

[@Corso_pack]

My parents divorced when I was 5. I grew up with two spiteful parents that wouldn’t let me attend fun activities on the other side of it fell on their day

[@gedion4000]

So you mean to tell me that my ex wife (who i have split custody with my daughters with) is the butthole for not letting them come to my wedding cause "they cant miss school" and then proceeds to take them out of school the following year for her sisters wedding? Yeah...this checks out.

[@thelordstarfish]

Before even finishing the first story and hearing any responses: Yes, YTA. Your ex and your daughter *both* wanted for your daughter to be there at his birthday. You can't complain about them not respecting your wishes when you're *blatantly* disrespecting your daughter's. Your daughter is not your property. EDIT: Oh, and all the moreso because said daughter is 15. At that point she *absolutely* can decide for herself which parent she'd rather hang out with. If she were, like, five, OP may have had a tiny bit of a point, but at age 15? Get over yourself, OP.

[@zerobolt9506]

So a couple of things I'd like to state, 1) others are arguing this, but cause she's a minor 15 or not the fact that they have a court agreement means that the dad technology kidnapped his daughter & if OP wanted to she could call the cops, he gets arrested & could loss custody, getting only supervised visitation rights, 2) someone said that OP said in an edit that her reasons which yes there petty, but I believe the ex brought it onto himself is that OP had asked him to take the daughter on one of her days that she had off, but he refused, I believe saying something about sticking to the court agreement, I believe there was more I was gonna write, but have just forgotten it sorry, it's 7am here, I just got off work at the (h e l l) (h o l e) that is Amazon Weerhouse at around 4 & I should go to bed now, good night.

[@zerobolt9506]

@@piscarius1 Huh so I was lied too, but to be fair he wasn't justified either & she could still have called the cops, both of them were in the wrong, when OP said no, he should have accepted it

[@mistygames101]

I don’t know why but I found it so funny when rslash was discussing the ridiculousness of “period plugs”😆 Me: “You mean tampons?!”😆

[@Llaceroche]

When I saw the title I was like, “to be fair a ton of guys aren’t taught anything about periods unless they go of their way to learn themselves.” But goddamn dude, learn to be wrong lmao

[@liamblackman7215]

Well played on the titles 😂

[@eksboks148]

a

[@punkythepants2336]

OP’s mom was mad at him in that last story?! Your daughter got her bike stolen but you’re on the lady’s side?!

[@nils920]

Story 1: YTA. This sounds like a textbook example of r/entitledparents or/and r/fuckyouKaren. My deepest condolences to the daughter and the ex-husband. Story 2: NTA. That sounds like a textbook example of r/storiesaboutKevin. Story 3: NTA. Another textbook example of r/entitledparents. OP's brother is the reason why there should be a license to have kids in the first place! Story 4: Respect is for those who deserve it, NOT for those who demand it. NTA.

[@AustinBlack28]

i do hope that the husband will fight for permanent visitation

[@chrissipumpkin]

First story is giving me so many flashbacks. My mom wouldn't let me have supper at my dad's place (where I got off the bus after school), and would instead make him drive me home *immediately*, where I would have to sit, sometimes for hours, oftentimes alone because my brother would go to his friends' houses after school, until she got home. All because she was wildly jealous of how comfortable I was with my dad and (especially) my stepmom. I love her to bits, and also she comes up a lot in therapy. 🙃

[@ayu1980]

First story: Depends on where the story takes place, the daughter can testify in court to give her opinion and prefrance on her living arrangement. I would recommend the father takes this to court because this lady is selfish, spiteful, vindictive and cruel. This poor girl deserves better.

[@iamhungey12345]

I get the feeling the OP of the first story will lose her daughter one day. She's more unstable than that rubber octopus in a certain Ed Wood movie.

[@funbizzybeast8796]

I noticed something about the first story which is has anyone else noticed the first story sounds like the same person from another story about how the father wanted the daughter early to say goodbye to the dog

[@MitzuMage]

For the 2nd story it's actually really common for men not to understand woman's anatomy because alot of schools don't teach young boys on that subject. It's something you could easily look up and find out for yourself but as we know most people don't do that and just assume.

[@evanelzinga282]

But then he doubled down when told he was wrong and tried to act like he knew better

[@MitzuMage]

@@evanelzinga282 because alot of people don't like to admit being wrong.

[@evanelzinga282]

@@MitzuMage true

[@justpeachymomo]

i cannot imagine how awful a “period plug” would be 😭 like tampons and diva cups and whatnot absorb the blood or catch it so you can regularly dispose of it, but to just leave it plugged and accumulating inside??? that would probably be so so painful ahhh

[@vangelina09]

My husband was sensitive about laughing like this story… he would double down on something stupid and I would laugh, For various reasons. And when he invariably gets mad I would respond with versions of “ Stop making jokes and I’ll stop laughing “. “Stop being a clown and I’ll stop laughing”. “Don’t say funny things and I promise I won’t laugh”…. 😂

[@Scarlett.Granger]

What happened to the petition to blur out curse words with Yugos bark instead of a beep?

[@1.1797]

Wait.....butt plugs AREN'T a feminine hygiene product?! 🤔🤣

[@1985toyotacamry]

It isn't

[@1.1797]

@@1985toyotacamry butt are you sure?

[@1985toyotacamry]

@@1.1797 I'm pretty sure lol

[@tidepodpadthai2633]

I mean, technically...

[@noxiouschocolate9644]

Oml that second story, sometimes bowl movement can be really weird on a period but for god sake was he not allowed to have sex education?!

[@tamar7065]

Honestly, I recognize that sex education in most U.S. states is an absolute shitshow, but these days we have wikipedia and tons of great sex education websites and dudes are running out of excuses for thinking that we bleed from the ass and pee from the vagina. If you ever intend to have important... vagina-owners (??) in your life in any capacity--partners, kids, even subordinates at work based on some of these horror stories--then you _need_ to know the very basics. At least so you don't end up telling someone to "just hold it" or something. It's not your fault you weren't taught this in school by reasonable adults but please just invest the thirty minutes this takes.

[@iuliana-2695]

That 'period plug' made me laughing for hours!!!