Ruined by Red Flags: Ashley Williams v Joshua Davis S24 Episode 26

[@RAINEYSARCHIVES]

I can't imagine what she felt experiencing a house fire and the loss of two children, I pray for her healing!

[@1stisraelitessweetness17]

I agree, as well her losing her mother, and the miscarriages she had to go threw 🙌🏽🙏🏽 This case was sad.

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Losing a child is so painful.

[@tinajackson6875]

My God help her heal Jesus. Awful lost 2 babies, I'd be done.

[@deejai1173]

I’m so tired of grown people talking about being “on break”. You wanna break, you do that, break off and keep going. 🙄

[@bridgetts4767]

Exactly! 👏🏽

[@22Poohbear1]

Right, that must be the new thing

[@kimr5479]

YES!👍

[@zanerobinson4355]

Break to go sleep with others what an excuse 😫😠

[@deejai1173]

@@zanerobinson4355 right.

[@MsTM-bt2tu]

The worst pain in the world is to lose a child and she loss two children and her mother! My heart goes out to her!🙏🏽

[@valjohns5823]

I love Miss Star in this role. She’s SO good at getting to the root of the issues.

[@brittanybrown484]

Me too, I hope she'll be the host FOREVER

[@Malaan7]

I will always love Judge Toler and Judge Ephriam for Divorce Court. Star Jones is the perfect person to follow those great women. These women have the wisdom to deal with these issues as well as great marital and family advice. I'm now back to loving this show.

[@latoyahynson5400]

First of all what you mean follow these great women and they are old news and Judge Star Jones don't need to follow nobody and she is doing just fine on her own and they are great in their own way.

[@Malaan7]

@@latoyahynson5400 I'm so glad that you agree that Star is phenomenal! She's a great addition to the legacy of Women of Divorce Court. I totally love her style!

[@tamikalee4441]

I definitely Agree l love her the best! She’s like my keep real doing out of love Aunti 🙌🏽❤️

[@WesleyLindsey]

I love Judge Faith and followed her from her own show to here. Definitely enjoy Judge Faith doing civil suits more than Divorce Court and definitely enjoy Judge Star on here.

[@orian3131]

Nah. This judge is super biased. Every episode she’s attacking the males while being soft with the women. See how she assumed homie boy was living in her house!! As soon as he said “she’s living with me in my house” the judge followed with who pays the bills. This is all one sided in favor of women. At least judge Faith and Toler gave solid advice to both sides. Those two didn’t let anything slide from both sides. But I’m sure women will disagree

[@ruthlynaaron6725]

The worst time to enter into a relationship is, when you're grieving and vulnerable. You set a precedent for the relationship's future. You drop your guard and leave yourself open to be hurt over and over again, because you're too afraid to step out of that uncomfortable comfort you create with that person. And they won't even realise they're hurting you because you've put up with it for so long. Ladies, learn from this.

[@lindawilliams7845]

Real Talk

[@bellabelnavis4002]

I can respect him for going over and giving her a hug when she cried.

[@blackberry1670]

I don't, because he doesn't do it off camera...that's when it counts.

[@itsdebbiecakeyoubigdummy828]

It was a performative hug. It wasn't real. Look how he turns and looks at Judge Star for approval lol 😆

[@kiraj2873]

@@itsdebbiecakeyoubigdummy828 A one armed one at that.

[@lashaunclayton1149]

Nope. They will love on you hard in public and walk past you while you break down in private.

[@jacksonernie484]

A hug? No wonder he is smug and feeding off of her grief, suffering and pain. Similar to a blood sucking leech...

[@sweetsweet81]

Whew!!!! I can't even imagine. Losing her sons, her mother, and having miscarriages....whew! I've had two miscarriages and I was completely torn up. I'm 8 months pregnant now and couldn't handle losing my baby. I hope she finds help for her grief.

[@LeshaFBaby]

Wishing you well with your blessing

[@fernellclayborne1424]

Praying for you and your new baby.

[@sweetsweet81]

She's afraid of losing him after suffering major losses already. She cannot mentally and emotionally handle another loss, and that's why she chooses to stay even though she sees all these red flags.

[@bee12355]

Yes, I hope she can get therapy and heal.

[@Afrolatinalexi]

Yes, great point!!

[@lindawilliams7845]

Yes

[@stephenleigh4571]

👩🏽‍⚖️ Judge Star 🌟 Jones has found her groove... she is par excellence in this role... perfectly suited and I didn't see it coming... she is so insightful. Love it. ❤

[@kattiethomas4687]

He doesn't want me to work ".

[@tonyaharper2468]

Some women are so addicted to being in a relationship. Stay single and enjoy self sometimes

[@sweetsweet81]

We're living in a society where a woman's worth was wrapped up in being married and having a family and nothing more. Slowly, that's starting to change but there are a lot of men who don't place value in our accomplishments. Plus, a lot of women are afraid to be alone, so they settle for anyone.

[@simone_e.4207]

I know someone like this. She's afraid of being alone.

[@kimr5479]

TONYA , PREACH AMEN!👍

[@qt4everandever63]

Notice she barely mentioned she has 2 living kids... just this dude and calling women, women calling her, miscarriages. Focus on the damn kids you have already for christ sakes!

[@jenb6794]

Best comment on the internet!! 💯

[@sagthenaturalsiren5997]

Everything is telling her to leave him alone even literally her own body is rejecting what he has to offer. 🏃🏿‍♀️ 🏃🏿‍♀️…………..🧍🏿

[@wandabrewer4296]

Powerful!

[@wandabrewer4296]

This is a true example .. of love not being enough!!

[@kimberlyjohnson4635]

Yessss! God give her strength to 🏃🏿‍♀️

[@daffodil4500]

I can deeply relate to this. It's a whole other type of something when even your body starts rejecting a person. It's torment almost.

[@trusno7751]

She might have self-esteem issues, & can't leave

[@bunnibrick]

I mean how many red flags did she need?? She needs alone time. He showed her exactly who he was and she decided to ignore. Puhhhleaseeee

[@bunnibrick]

I wrote comment before hearing about her losses and that’s horrible. But honestly she needs more than a hug. She should see someone professional

[@welcome2vonasworld821]

I was thinking the same thing . What do u need to show you n tell you this man a dog he not into huni move on

[@tdguy7152]

It’s true what you said. My heart goes out to her. She has alot to deal with emotionally grieving her children and her mother. He provides security in handling the bills, however she has to accept all of the foolishness he throws her way. That’s not acceptable. Paying the bills doesn’t give you license to just do what you want to do if your in a relationship. I have to add also that woman have to stop doing wife duties as a girlfriend.

[@indiarobertson]

I was gone for a while and this is my second time watching Judge Star and I swear I love her style! Yes 🙌🏾 I’m about to binge watch again

[@kaylove3318]

Right

[@shenquejames7598]

That's not a reg flag that's a whole red state!

[@blackberry1670]

👏👏👏

[@olujonzin]

😅

[@queenmama9229]

Omg I'm crying for her, her sons RIP BABY BOYS💔 I hope she finds healing 🙏 I love Ms Star she is actually offering services. TY! Ms. Star 🌟

[@jesstheromantic]

She was obviously trying to cling on to something when her world got ROCKED by grief. I really can't blame her for that. I'm more mad at him that he saw her vulnerable and took advantage of it.

[@aprilross251]

Liar, cheater and he's not emotionally there and you still want to marry him. Perfect example of a woman causing her own problems, then will play victim. Sad

[@AS-ji2wc]

She knew within a month of dating him that he was with someone and cheating on them by dating her and whoever else he was dating. Anything after that point in dealing with him that’s on her if someone is showing you that they are a cheater and a liar because they are in a relationship and dating outside of that relationship and lying about it what’s the surprise when they lie and cheat on you?

[@hateisforlosers6116]

Exactly!!! One month into the relationship you found out he was in a relationship with another girl. You have nothing invested with this person but yet you moved forward with him. HEALTHY SELF ESTEEM IS SO IMPORTANT. We have to learn how to deal with grief, stress ,anxiety by spending that time with ourselves or people experienced with dealing with your issue. If you are experiencing all these things are you mentally able to make a decision about being in a relationship with someone. Immaturity is another issue that makes us deal with people that treat us badly. This woman needs Therapy!! Not a man!!

[@kimr5479]

YES if they do it with you they'll do it to you!

[@wins.8073]

Anxious attachment issues reinforced by multiple unfortunate losses. I agree that her focus should be her mental health and working on herself.

[@riellekoy7196]

Yeah, she needs to be single. He has no intention of reinforcing her emotionally.

[@34Nails]

Oh my word she lost both of her son and her mom I know the feeling because I lost my mom at just the tender age of 14 and it still bothers me at the age of 34 so trust and believe anybody that knows that feeling I do and it’s agony is not a good feeling at all and for her to make it through this she is a strong woman💯

[@drapertraci7]

She COMPLETELY ignored the Judge! She is dependent upon him. He’s resentful because she doesn’t work! He’s cheating and she knows and she’s talking about, “We’ve gotta figure out each others love languages”… He didn’t say a word… No… get a job sweetheart. You need one.

[@Lovingmylife24]

So sorry to hear about the tragedy that happened to her family. She should have something of her own at least until they get married. Even if it is a small business. It may take her mind off things. Men can leave you when they get ready or find someone they think is better.

[@tonyaharper2468]

Love him as a friend he doesn't have to be your husband

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

“I had on gloves” 😂🤣😆

[@2intriguing1]

My God....Black women. My prayer is that we elevate beyond our greatest desires because we are so much more than the dust and red flags we cry over. I've only saw about 2 men worth anything this season....all this other trash needs to be taken out. You're better than them and the hell they drag you through, your husband may not look like you....ACCEPT IT, you deserve happiness. Ase🖤

[@MochaMadness74]

The amount of desperate women on this show is tremendous and this exactly why they get taken advantage of so much…

[@michealtyler9702]

Nobody want y'all... duh...

[@selfishgirlsgofirst]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@2intriguing1]

@@MochaMadness74 its so unfortunate and God awful

[@qt4everandever63]

Every race has trash....

[@pamelaferrell8556]

I shed a tear when she said she lost two of her children in a fire. My heart can't take it. 😪

[@naturallyflawed5472]

Losing two sons? Omg, I don’t even know how she’s still standing… losing a mother is hard enough I too kn that pain. She’s dealing with a lot mentally she needs to heal on her own. Marrying him is not the answer bc he’s not gonna change or respect her bc she’s not demanding it by walking away.

[@authorlydiagreen1862]

The case with couple with the blue on with the lady crying over a man , now this case. I need these sisters to get it together and stop trying to hold on to a greasy rope on fire (that man) because it’s literally impossible to hold. I need you all to be strong and wait on God to send you the right husband.

[@2intriguing1]

Its so sad girl. I feel for them because of the type of society we live in

[@tkeyah331]

I mean but the lady in the blue was liar 🤥…

[@MochaMadness74]

I was so mad with that episode…she embarrassed herself on national tv for a little boy!!! I tell you these women need some self esteem already this one admitted she has attachment issues or whatever but you fight that…you don’t allow ppl to use you!!!

[@authorlydiagreen1862]

@@MochaMadness74 exactly

[@authorlydiagreen1862]

@@tkeyah331 a big liar and deceiving

[@raxxmoriti]

1:30 When you say that the relationship is a red flag but yet you come wearing a red blouse to court 🤣

[@jnicolebell9937]

What you allow is what you continue 💯 How many red flags you need to see, nothing will change. He's not going to change for you. Honey, move forward and get a job and take care of yourself. Sometimes the breakup is the blessing. You, deserve God's best ❤

[@hateisforlosers6116]

HUSH Truth!!!!

[@brittanybrown484]

Of course, he hasn't changed at all 💔💔💔💔

[@SheniceSays214]

All of these red flags and you’re still trying to save the relationship.

[@JAYBOXPOWER1987]

I'm going to be honest and say I love Star Jones definitely more than Faith Jenkins. She done my favorite case this season. The way she handled it and called the bitch out, bruh Star Jones is on 🔥!

[@tammaras.8253]

I love her on DC too!

[@bunnibrick]

Her advice was spot on!!!!

[@latoyahynson5400]

That's your opinion and both Judges on good in their own way and can you do better.

[@rebelhenz]

She needs to grieve alone and heal. That’s heartbreaking I wish her the healing she deserves, for once he generally console her that was quite sweet. ❤️‍🩹

[@blackberry1670]

Nope. That was for the camera. He doesn't do it at home. Wishing her healing and real ❤️

[@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare]

It’s the one he looked at Star like did you see me

[@QueenKilla90]

She stay’s with him because she doesn’t want to do for herself and he pays the bills 🤦‍♀️ it’s better to be independent and single and happy

[@meliciadaley3805]

When will people stop loving people to death,love no one more than yourself and stop that foolishness about love to death

[@myshanamakisi6063]

I like Ms. Star in this role, very good replacement 👌🏾.

[@KWin-ik5cl]

It all started a month into the relationship? Girlfriend, what the hell else do you need to see to get that he’s not gonna be faithful. YOU are literally letting him take your youth and drive you crazy in the process. Really sis!?

[@malenkadivine]

I lost my son in 2019 so I can feel her pain. It’s a lonely road to walk and your emotions are everywhere. Grief is a bitch. Joining the I lost my child club sucks ass. And she’s right unfortunately you have to keep going because of the other kids. Very heart breaking. Sis I hope everything works out for you and yours. Mad love and light!!!!!!

[@Simplyblessed871]

Sorry for your loss ❤

[@jesstheromantic]

I hope you're doing okay!

[@a_p_6142]

She’s not leaving him… so sad

[@traviousivey2271]

Anyone else notice how Judge Star always has an ink pen to match her every outfit?

[@velmamacdonald1724]

Nope

[@AlieshiaTV]

She loss two of her sons Omg 😢

[@annitricewheatley6496]

I pray for this young lady.Peace, and healing.

[@fernandes199138]

I can’t believe this sister judge is 60. Like where? She is fine as wine and I love her already. #bingewatching😍

[@gailsmith836]

This beautiful articulate woman deserves a man who loves and honors her. She is being dishonored and stays due to trauma. I wish her peace and a new loving man.

[@agray7474]

Wow, she still didn’t hear what the judge said…she needs to focus on herself

[@TwiceSmittenOnceShy]

A month a half in after confirming he was with both you and the “ex” should have been GG.. I’ve been out of the dating scene for almost 8 years to handle my education, but is the market really that tight or something? It seems like society as a whole is normalizing ignoring blatant warning signs and irrefutable evidence these days 🤨

[@MochaMadness74]

There’s just more and more lonely women out there willing to just accept anything from a man in order to have one!!! I’m single for many years after a divorce because I won’t lower my standards and accept behavior like this!!! I’d rather be alone!!!

[@TwiceSmittenOnceShy]

@@MochaMadness74 Ah, now that makes sense, and I don’t blame you! I’m the same way. Theres nothing wrong with knowing your worth and sticking to your guns on your standards ❤️

[@ameegbotee6837]

I think he just needs a little growing up to do. The trauma so hard for her, sorry sweetheart 💞

[@michealtyler9702]

Yall just love crying about stuff that's out of your control.

[@getreworkd]

Wow! Losing her children that way is just unfathomable. He’s not worth girl. You have already gone through so much. It’s time to heal and move on.

[@FocalPointElisa]

Ms. Williams is one of the first individuals to say "I have an attachment issue" 👏🏾 Knowledge is the first step.

[@cynthiaward4512]

Peace, She Needs Peace..

[@virginiasweets5530]

She seems so genuine and lovely

[@keishasmith379]

Ppl need to stop being on brake instead of just breaking up all together. It makes no sense. And why are so many ppl living together instantly and not taking time to see if u want to be with each other. Nobody is listening and paying attention at all. Ppl are accepting a quarter of a human being just because they act like they care. I hope she can heal as much as possible from all this loss she suffered. Horrible.

[@claratay9216]

All these red flags, and she still kept him. GIRL BYE

[@MrsLipgloss2025]

A real man comes to restore from a broken heart in all aspect of a woman life. Remember that Gentlemen!

[@DVWMT96]

Josh gives me vampire vibes, is anyone else seeing what I am seeing? LOL He's unique looking in his own right. Why is she not working if she feels she has a purpose in life. He does tattoos no wonder he's exotic. Judge Star say, "ANOTHER EX!!" LOL. I am sorry she lost he son's, as a mother I know exactly how she feels. SHE DOESN'T BELIEVE THE RED FLAGS

[@jackiesims3776]

Why is she bothering herself with this BS??

[@wandabrewer4296]

It’s time to ROLL OUT SISTA!!!

[@KawaiiBabyy13]

I agree, he's not going to be the one to help her through her trauma. She has to handle it on her own. And it may be difficult, but I believe she can do it.

[@sinavaitululeupolu1455]

Girl love yourself n get counseling. This hits close to home cause I lost my mom in 2019 n it's still feels like it was yesterday

[@SRT_DRE]

Star Jones climbing the DC ranks at a rapid pace. Lynn Toler will always be my #1 . But Mablean better watch out cause Star Jones on her heels 😂 Judge Faith tripped, fell, and rolled into a shark tank as far as I’m concerned.

[@Theoneandonly_Chi]

My heart breaks for her. I couldn't imagine. Praying she met with the grief counselor, Judge Star recommended.

[@ReallyRachelLynn]

Absolutely, pure vocals.

[@miszladybookie]

She literally didn’t let him speak at all. He told her they were on a break and SHE stayed in his house and never left. He didn’t get to get any words out because the woman was so hurt.

[@robbbietheim2096]

Who in the world stays engaged for two whole years, if a man truly loves a woman no way he decides to wait that long, in making her his wife, SMH 💯

[@erinjohnson4273]

I agree 👍

[@dawnh4829]

If a man loves And want to be with a woman there is nothing in the world that will keep him from her and there’s nobody in the world that can take him from her.

[@penelopeparks5022]

Chile, the ponytail, the shirt, the grill and she looks like his mama

[@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324]

Go deal with the PTSD and come back stronger and wait for a man to find you healed and ready for real intimacy.

[@sheenabarrett2730]

I really cried for her! That is just traumatic , I don't ever want to experience this!

[@shg7289]

Hahahahaha, the judge just assumed that it was her house. Hilarious

[@cocopuffs6298]

This made me realize how much I missed Star Jones. She’s always on-point and uplifting all women and most def keeping it Sista-to-Sista. Where are these women from? We no longer letting no man define us or take care of us. He yo boyfriend not yo Husband. Just because he a man doesn’t mean he has to take care of everything unless he wants to. There’s no more he supposed to. Equal rights for equal pay. Who are the young ladies looking up to?

[@farmermarshall]

These aren't red flags. They're STOP SIGNS but she's just driving right thru them!!!!

[@wandapatterson8337]

Omg my heart goes out to her lost her son's and her mom I know how it is to lose your mom! prayers for her🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@sharonsimmons1325]

Love Judge Star Jones her wisdom . awesome love the show. Lady deserves better. Get a back bone man.grow man just saying 💜 Much love always.

[@reasonwhy4401]

ATP! I ❤️ Judge Star Jones ⭐ for DC! My Judge Toler withdrawal's have subsided.

[@deborahsimmons3370]

What is ATP?

[@reasonwhy4401]

@@deborahsimmons3370 lol..At This Point

[@NaomyP]

So far I'm enjoying this season as well

[@janicerosier403]

I really like Ms. Starr as the Judge. She is good, honest, gives great advice, stylish, consoling and puts her comments upfront and on the table. 😀❤️ I agree with her comments at the end. That man is not going to be able to help support her while she is grieving. He is not going to be there. He is not able to be a good husband at this time in his life.

[@Kold_Krimson]

the fact that he went over to comfort her shows that he does have some compassion for her, I think they both need counseling in an attempt to see if the marriage can be saved.

[@LaLaVango]

I really love Star for this show! She has the wisdom but she’s still able to tap into this generation.

[@erinjohnson4273]

For the life of me, I just don't understand why you want to marry someone who is a liar and a cheater! Smh

[@ladytt9331]

He is not the worst guy but may feel pressured into taking care of her. I believe he loves her just hasn’t been ready to marry her. She has boxed herself in being 100% dependent on him.

[@brendagiller1920]

Prayers 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@dawn2daylightmadness]

He don’t even look like he LIKES HER, just tolerates. That’s so sad

[@haadioliver7588]

When he held her was so sweet. I hope he gets it together

[@kadinedunckly3879]

He said I had on gloves 😂😂😂😂

[@MoveInSilence000]

I feel for her honestly. If he won’t change she should just leave him.

[@fernellclayborne1424]

God bless a child who has his own…. Or her own

[@ariamarshall5161]

To have thru so much heartache with loss I’m confused how could settle for this type of treatment. She needs to learn her worth. Every woman says that stupid line “but o love him”. Chiiilleee…..It’s silly AF.

[@victoriabelton7168]

I like Star Jones in this roll.👊🏽👍

[@jasminedahna9901]

I had on gloves LOL! He needs to stop messing with all the ex’s such nonsense. She’s a sweet and very articulate.

[@lexislove639]

In his defense if he talks she’ll want his silence if he’s quiet he doesn’t care… she’s not coping well and he wont get it right bcuz she won’t allow it he’s not innocent but he tries she cant see it so he’s checking out by cheating

[@roslynhawkins1475]

Lady leave if you're so unhappy! Why keep whining but do nothing about it?

[@tammaras.8253]

Right! And she has the nerve to stay home and not work to almost guarantee that she can't leave this mess. I don't understand how some women are so committed so quickly. Another woman reached out to her at the start of the relationship. I would have walked away then but noooooo, she stayed and now wants to complain. I just don't get it.

[@roslynhawkins1475]

@@tammaras.8253 Right! Some people love and are addicted to drama because it helps them to ignore the issues in their lives they refuse to tackle. I'm like you. That first contact with the ex would have been the last time I spoke to him or her again.

[@tamikalee4441]

What a mean spirit 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ Show some compassionate!!

[@michealtyler9702]

She like crying, wedding and being emotional. She enjoys being a victim so that she can say look how he did me.

[@roslynhawkins1475]

@@tamikalee4441 Lol. I'm and adult and adults are responsible for the choices and decisions they make. If an adult chooses to stay in a toxic relationship, stay but don't keep complain about it.

[@kimh7978]

That girl didn't want to work. She wouldn't have time to keep track of his every move on social media if she did.

[@latoyahynson5400]

I love this Judge Star advice because I'm still single but I do want to date again and she is a smart woman.

[@filmer2197]

9:11 i cant believe him 9:13 Star had me dying

[@noran5036]

On the pictures of them all the filters are on him. Lmaoooo

[@anvertice]

That hug was for the tv She can do better

[@latanyahood5622]

"I had on Gloves" ok, um done😆

[@savtrill333]

"I had on gloves" 🤣😂😭 and making money is business, I guess she didn't understand that smh