10 Biggest Turn-Ons For Men You're Just Getting To Know

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

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[@sharondotson7027]

I ask a guy sitting at a bar if he was married and he said no, I asked him if he wanted to be and he said "can we go out first" and I said, "if you must". We were married 8 months later. You just don't know what will turn a guy on.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

"If you must" 😂😂 Love it!!

[@gracehall9199]

Usually that scares men away. They don't want to think of marriage when you first meet. You just got lucky.

[@louisemc3680]

@@gracehall9199 clearly, he was into her, it wasn't luck.

[@nofybn7794]

@@louisemc3680 both.

[@sharondotson7027]

@@gracehall9199 Yes, I did.

[@Destiny_Jewel]

On the third date, I told him I wasn't ready for sex until I was in a relationship, and he took the initiative to actually respect that and court me.

[@lucymb00]

The anticipation of sex by delaying sex is so so important! Cannot stress enough.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

So powerful with the right people! 🤗

[@peggywells9398]

Still anticipating, after 5 months. Pandemic and living situations....

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

Yep

[@lindazwerling9908]

yes i agree

[@alizabethkat52]

Yesssss!!!

[@MandyJRoss]

It's all about the good vibes. If you're a happy person you will naturally attract a happy mate. Guys compliment me on my positive energy -- "it's refreshing" and my smile is "infectious," as per them. Also allowing them to be in their masculine while I remain in and celebrate my feminine energy. And being fully present and making a man feel they have my attention and making them feel uplifted and special whenever they're in my presence.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Love it!! 🤗

[@chelsearyan5955]

Mandy I just subscribed to your page because of your comment here. ☺️

[@veronicav1779]

Yeah stay skin deep see how long that lasts

[@MandyJRoss]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick ☺✌🏼

[@MandyJRoss]

@@chelsearyan5955 aw thanks girl! ☺

[@pamelamichelle0309]

Ryan, I knew I captured a guys attention. When we had been texting for a little bit and I asked him to call me on the phone. He was avoiding it for a while and I told him that it couldn’t go any further with us if he wasn’t willing to at least call me. So he asked me if I wanted him to call me. I told him I was going to give him a typical girl answer. I said I want you to want to call me, I don’t want you to call me because you think I’m forcing you. He laughed and then my phone was ringing 30 seconds later. After an hour of conversation. I said to him hey I really appreciate you calling me I know you’re not a A phone guy so I’m just going to say thank you so much I enjoyed the conversation and let you hang up and relax for the rest of the evening. He pause for a moment and said no we can talk a little bit longer. That’s when I knew I had them. Or at least I think I did.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

This type of live feedback to those you like is PRICELESS 🙏🏽 Thanks for sharing, Pamela!

[@maxonout]

I have zero interest in going out with a man until we have been texting, chatting and videoing for a couple months. If we are sure there is chemistry, then look out when we meet! He wont have a chance.

[@lanamccracken1701]

kknh

[@princess102477]

The sarcasm is both a gift and curse

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

A curse only with the *wrong* guys, honestly 😉

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

I hate sarcasm sometimes. It's a total turn off to me.

[@googleuser2874]

I think this is Ryan's thing not every guy's thing. lol

[@mariacisneros2403]

I prioritize myself, my needs, my schedule, my self care. Pretty much everything!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Powerful list!! 🙏

[@RealityxFairytale]

But I also think it's quite selfish to prioritize ourself (as we should tho) and not respect that man has its own priorities as well, so we kind of have in our brain "ok he can't meet me, when I have time, what a jerk." Just thinking that we're the only one thing in his life. What I mean is that I think value ourselves but also respect his life.

[@JD-dz9lx]

Yep. 💓

[@dianamilliard4722]

I told him that we should form a friendship first

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Like laying down that boundary from the get-go! Nice! ✊

[@amandabowers9038]

I did the same thing and he asked me to marry him

[@LynseyTate]

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[@arias2026]

@Diana milliard, supermega respect for you !

[@wowso4]

Amanda Bowers wow congratulations are you guys married now?

[@karinaward971]

"Slow your roll" has got to be the best advice ever! I recently met a guy I really like, who is also really into me. This has happened to me before in life, but I'm romantic and passionate and have a tendancy to rush things and overshare. This time I've followed your advice of leaning back - not seeing him more than once a week for the first six weeks and no sex for 30 days. Things are unfolding as I've always wanted. He's initiating dates, he's escalating contact and we're slowly building an intense, organic intimacy. Thanks for the insight, this could be a game-changer.

[@donnadoram357]

I have been totally happy with myself, my career as an art director in an art museum. I loved being free, still do. I had 7 marriage proposals in one year with no sex. I ended up sailing with a friend to the Bahamas. Met the love of my life there where he put me in my own house on the ocean.

[@melssf7852]

I'm so happy for you you're living the dream i hope my situation is similar to yours. I feel pressure to have sex a bit lol

[@MsWoman7]

I met a guy at an outdoor Christmas market I was working at last year. Whenever people walked by my booth, I'd smile and say hello. I caught his attention as he walked by, we made small talk, and exchanged names & phone numbers. My boss (gay man) tried to pressure me into texting him right after he left. I stood my ground. I DO NOT chase men. Besides, he said he would call. It was a test to see if he'd follow through. Sure enough, he did call me... 2 days later! Due to his profession (commercial airline pilot), we set up a date a week later. We've been going strong ever since! Know your worth, ladies! Don't put up with crap! The men will smell it, and behave accordingly. See my next comment on how to weed out men with the wrong intentions!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Beautiful! 👏🏼

[@wowso4]

So true I’m the same way and some of my ppl call me picky I don’t care I’m not chasing no man.

[@texasstardust6010]

Indeed..... Applause for you !!

[@perfectlyimperfectmae6137]

so happy for you. 🧡

[@AmandaRaye]

I went over to his house the second time we met, brought dessert and we chatted. I was being very matter of fact about my knowledge of some of his habits and asking him questions. At one point he commented that I had HIM giggling like a girl! It was so cute. For the first time with a new guy, I felt powerful and confident in myself and it showed. He texted me after and told me he had a surprisingly good time (lol) and that he wasn’t scared that he felt he clicked with me pretty early. He also said he’d like to have me over again, cook dinner and talk shit while laughing, soon. Winning!!

[@michelledekenipp2382]

My husband pursued me. I made him wait for the goods because I didn't want him to leave, had to make sure. 14 1/5 years later. 10 years married 💞

[@danihaiden890]

I'm an eye contact master when a flirty stare at my eyes I stare back with no emotions , until he looks embarrassed, it's like a challenge.

[@amari6229]

wish i could relate. cant hold eye contact at all 😭

[@Zoe50936]

I thought I was the only that does this even with strangers

[@lasteniadardano4311]

😂😂😂

[@ellengrace4609]

I would call it witty instead of sarcastic. It takes talent to do it well as some people think they’re being sarcastic when it just comes across as rude.

[@kimfrederick7710]

I've been dating since the quarantine in video calls and in texting and he's coming to meet me in 2 weeks. He's all in already. He's hooked already

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Beautiful! Have fun with this one, Kim! 👌🏽

[@joannedocker1788]

Hi Ryan . I’m just coming out of a marriage. I’ve had the same man for 30yrs. Your advice has certainly helped me to notice stuff about myself that I had ignored for so long I’m still getting to know who I am again and what I want from life , but when I do start to get bored of being single and I’m ready to really mingle , I’ll definitely feel more clued up than I did in my 20’s 🙏🏼🙋🏻‍♀️

[@cynthiaziegler6558]

I too am back in the dating scene at almost 50. I have dated a few. This last week my player AKA friend wanted to see me and i told him i was busy. I was not, but boy the texts moved from not as sexual to more of an actual conversation. The texts are longer and more meaningful and he called. Now, am I falling for this, absolutely not. It is what it is.

[@suzanne5971]

I am back in dating after 34 years.

[@cynthiaziegler6558]

@@suzanne5971 I know this sounds corny, but its kind of comforting to know there are others my age starting over. Sometimes I feel so out of place.❤

[@joannedocker1788]

Cynthia Ziegler I was actually terrified of putting myself out there again , but having watched several of Ryan’s videos , I felt a little more at ease if meeting someone . I’m not a swipe left , swipe right person . I don’t have time to do endless chat about my likes and dislikes on the swipe sites . So these short videos have made me feel more at ease with what I could do

[@b.johnny369]

Ooooh, I feel you sister friend! ❤️

[@makachauruka7967]

"hey look at me, look at me, am over here" That had me rolling in tears😂😂Also love the faces he made

[@sandyhammond]

I'm not actively looking for a guy but I can't stop watching your videos to see your eyes and facial expressions when you talk, Ryan. Especially when the vid and sound slows down - those are the best faces ... oh my god, it's so good!

[@wdychennyc]

I have no "wait to be intimate" rule but surprisingly all the longer relationships I've had were the ones that intimacy was delayed.

[@tans3015]

I literally never expect a guy to be interested in me. One time my dad told me someone was interested in me because I was clueless! That describes me! I am clueless.

[@classyconversationswithrho344]

Years back when I always went out with my boyfriend at breakfast I would allso put the cream and sugar in his coffee. Twenty years later he told me, "he always loved that and no other woman ever did that" Thank you for your great videos. I signed up to be on your new show.

[@victoriaaydelott6187]

Finally, a guy who actually has some valid points!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks Victoria! 🙂

[@ManifestingPoetess]

I used your advice! I asked him what he was wearing, he told me and then asked why. I said, "Because I was wondering what I would have to take off of you if I were there." He literally said, "Ok. You've got my attention!" Lol I couldn't believe it! Thank you for that! 😊

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Great job! That'll do it! 😅

[@KayNovember26]

Tease him. Create lil scenarios. Get him all worked up... That shows you're comfortable in your own skin as well as a lil adventurous. Most guys love this!

[@angela-op1bt]

And then after 3-4 months now it’s a relationship, the guy knows that he had her, there’s no excitement for the guy. Bc he pursued her and he had her. End of the adventure. But never make the guy think that he has you. Even when you marry him. Never.

[@svasianfilipiname6603]

Damn, dating is so much harder now than when my parents were dating! One bad move (it wasn't even my fault), and I was outta there lol so but thank you Ryan for this great help! It's help me bring my self-worth back up!

[@ThePrettyRabbit]

HOW TO MAKE HIM TURN OFF IN A SECOND : - Tell him you want babies - Tell him you want to get married with him as soon as possible

[@elainebenis2230]

lol

[@Stevinpj]

That's true 😅🤣

[@ThePrettyRabbit]

@@Stevinpj 🤣🤣🤣

[@BlushGush]

Not true, it makes them see that you know what you want and take you seriously. From my experience.

[@ners.nurona]

😂😂😂

[@sassyshekshek]

You aint lying..I do all that. I grew up hanging around guys and I took wat I learned and I used it to my advantage. I like your content and personality because you know your stuff. Much love💯😉

[@Crazeywolflover]

Mine is about when I met a friend of mine for coffee last week. Keep in mind we both know there is something between the two of us but it is unspoken of and unofficial. Anyway once we got our coffee and sat down he handed me a stuffed wolf and said "I saw this and thought of you." I thanked him and told him it was cute then asked what I should name it. His reply was that it was up to me. I told him then the plush's name is the same as yours. My friend laughed and blushed. 💙

[@Bellag77]

I always thought my sarcasm was a turn off! 🤣😂

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

NOPE! It's the perfect way to screen out guys who don't get sarcasm is all 👌🏽

[@lisabuckner243]

I JUST LOVE THE FACES YOU MAKE 😂😂

[@Love0515.]

Letting him know I wasn't looking for sex. He texted often and got to know my personality

[@Silneth]

Such great advice again Ryan, thank you! I'm personally SUPER guilty of operating by the "scarcity paradigm" you mention, so I need to work on that. One time where I know I captured a guy's attention and turned him on was when he was making a semi-long speech to a group of us about a semi-obscure area of expertise of his (Revolutionary War history type stuff) and I flipped a comment he'd just made into a relevant joke, sort of showing that I was knowledgeable about it as well but didn't take it super seriously. Guy wouldn't stop staring at me for the rest of the night and pursued me for weeks afterward!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Triggering that mental attraction indeed! Nice work, Lauren! 👌🏽

[@larisamiller5320]

I told him to stfu when he got too bossy with me. He was used to quiet submissive women bc he's Mexican and they are the bossy macho and I let him know that ain't flying with me! He fell on love with me and respects me more...

[@adinatoader8595]

Hi, I started to follow you some days ago, I just wanted to tell you that you are a godsend! I really appreciate your videos and you're helping me understand and learn every day more about the "man universe", the psychology it's another thing that I like! Thank you so much! ❤

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Wow, thank you!! Glad to have you here, Adina! 😀

[@MariaMaria-oo3kj]

What has happened to men that they seem to have lost their active role? It's all about women hunting men, l don't believe a woman can be really happy with a man she had to hunt.

[@belgicarivera4002]

I agree Maria. I believe in giving him signs that you're open to getting to know him, but after he does the chasing.

[@rubybegonia7052]

My ex found me. But then he lost me. He could have still had me had he played his cards right. But he didn’t think he had to. Crazy 8’s and Solitaire is not for me. C’est la vie.

[@aliikram673]

Actually, in most cases, I think its the man having to hunt the women (ask her out, propose to her, etc). Men feel the same way too.

[@FireCracker3240]

I wanted to say how awesome it is of you to use all types of women in this video! Representing everyone! That's fantastic, Ryan (but not unexpected). You're amazing. 😊🤗

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Aww thanks! I try to keep representation balanced when I have the footage to do so 🙂🙌

[@melindab5585]

We took a photo together and the next day I printed and brought him a copy- he was hooked!

[@christineprimeau3246]

Love these tips - I’m definitely going to try the sunglasses “eye contact” tip!

[@cassandralynngillson5968]

I love to make anyone go from a frown to a smile by showing them my smile and recognition that I see them. I have seen too many people afraid to smile because the smile might be seen by some as only flirting. In this time and age, I see a smile show positively implement that is needed in everyones daily life.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Love it, Cassandra! Never fear the almighty SMILE 😁

[@sandyg7807]

Went on a great date but then he was a little ghost, a day or two just to respond to a text. I am over 40 and don't hold my tongue back much more. I basically told him, hey this is the first and last long text I am going to send you. In a nutshell, I told him I know my self-worth and have no time to waste with games. I told him I like him and respect him and expect the same in return. Then I said NOT to reply if he doesn't see a future with me. This way I can move on. Fast forward we have a great relationship, he knows I won't tolerate any games and I feel better putting my feelings out there with no expectations.

[@TheHilikus89]

I really appreciate the sunglasses tip I’ve struggled with eye contact all my life but I’ve met someone who I can comfortably do it with.

[@juliesmith4086]

I said that things are hard for you right now, you have been through a lot, you are missed but I support you in your accomplishments, I'll be so proud of you when you've completed these things as I'm so proud of you now!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Ahhhh nothing beats some good ol' acknowledgement of his mission, passion or purpose. Good call! 😎

[@juliesmith4086]

Thank you, yes, in fact he is calling me more, even wanting to connect with me on his 10 minute break at work just to say Hi. We've not seen each other for 18 months, but we connect as best friends, also neither of us are seeing anyone else! He lives the other side of Canada but will be back sometime!

[@michelesabini4639]

The compliments that are specific and well thought out are a ringer for sure! Loved this video, Ryan! As always, you are SPOT ON! Thank you!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks so much, Michele! 😎

[@chandasoriano4188]

Hello, does it applies to all status of women like widow ????

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

@@chandasoriano4188 Most certainly 🙂

[@mismatchedeyeliner]

Ticked off all the boxes with this one guy without even knowing it myself 😂😂😂 and now I'm like what the hell??

[@katedauphinee7536]

Looking forward to your course, Ryan, so I can surround myself with men to practice this on! 😉

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Aww yay! It contains my *very best* stuff for sure! Can't wait for you to see what's inside 👀

[@p.e.4386]

Ignored him, chased me everywhere😂😂

[@pragatisingh2884]

They love chasing

[@leslieisepic]

I open up and am honest about where my intentions are at the beginning. If he’s interested and senses a spark, then I leave the ball in his court to make a move. It has worked so far with this guy I have been talking and seeing since May. He has had a lot on his plate but still managed to set up time for us to spend getting to know each other. Also foreplay in text and in person has worked in my favor so far.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

YES!! Foreplay in texts builds that anticipation to see one another *perfectly.* Thanks for sharing, Leslie! 😀

[@kaydykes9916]

Love your smile Ryan! Thank you for all the advice, it’s helped me try things differently. Here’s hoping!

[@paigenoel5513]

I told my guy friend who had a crush on me that he makes me happy (I texted that because he had to go have a “chat” with his abusive dad and I wanted to make him smile or feel better) and he sent a lot of blush’s emojis and said that if I were with him he would have kissed me.

[@lucymb00]

Abundance paradigm is very well put!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks Lucy! I appreciate that! 😀

[@amandaantico78]

I’m a very optimistic person and that is so much better than someone who always focuses on the negatives.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

This will get you very far in a variety of situations for sure 👌🏽

[@casy6203]

Watching my guy ryan while doing minute wall sits...learning and blocking the pain😂

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Is he doing the wall sits or are you, Casy? 😂😂

[@margaritam.9118]

Good job, Casy! :D

[@starshake8998]

Comment 500: When I watch videos like this -- long lists of all the subtle, precise, magical ways we're supposed to be and act -- I feel very discouraged. I know lists get clicks, and I realize the hyper specific instructions are meant to make these suggestions concrete and actionable. I can also easily see how all of these traits and behaviors would be very appealing. I just don't see myself in any of it, and that makes me sad. Just hearing phrases like "be outspoken but in a subtle way" baffles me, and I can feel my stomach tighten and my soul start to wrap itself into a pretzel as I imagine myself trying to evoke any one of these styles (let alone all 10!). I know that none of these women are me, and I know I could never pull off a single one of these attitudes for more than an hour or two regardless of how much I might want to. I had a good cry after watching this video. I think the sheer magnitude of it is what really did me in. It might as well be called "All the Many Things You Lack That Keep You From Being Loved'. If this is what it takes to be cherished forever by a man, that explains why I've never been proposed to, and at 48 (almost 49) , still find myself alone. I guess I'm going to have to start buying chocolate in bulk, get a dog, and call it a good life as it is.

[@danaje7649]

I started hiding my sarcasm at one point because I just grew tired of explaining what I meant. But you are right, it should be a sign we are just not on the same page. Btw, love your videos!ty!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Totally! Use it as a screener! 👌🏽And thank you! 🙂

[@queensparkles284]

Who else in the intro heard him say "heey everyone im dating your relationship coach" I almost spit my tea!

[@Dssnow25]

I'm oblivious. If the guy won't tell me, I won't know 😂😂

[@whossiermami]

New to your page and I am OBSESSED❤️

[@DrJenTattoo]

Hey Ryan. Great video. Me being sarcastic is a part of my charm. I have a guy at work who always seeks me out and no matter how bad I get sarcastic with him he keeps coming back to me.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

It can be an addictive drug! Sarcasm conveys so many wonderful things 😌

[@DrJenTattoo]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick The best part Ryan is he gives it right back to me and follows me around like a lost puppy

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

@@DrJenTattoo Ahhh LOVE when the other person can dish it right back to ya 😋

[@amelianabors6130]

Excellent Tips as always it’s Paramount to keep a man interested ! You are so wise to educate all of us ladies , I been single for so many years because I am very selective and found myself picking up a lot of hints ( Advice ) from a very wise Dating Coach 😍😍😍

[@katherinegordon7615]

I was happy because I was shopping at good will for the holloween custom I was building from scratch...something I LOVE to do each year. I drew him in by asking him his opinion. I really wasnt looking for "trouble"...and it did turn into him asking me for my number...I really wasnt looking or wanting a boyfriend...but he did turn into the Best Boyfrined

[@melissamcqueen582]

thought i was going to learn something new in this video, but it turns out i'm already knocking it out of the park, thanks to your help Ryan! (btw ur hair looks really good lol 😘)

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Glad to hear it, Melissa! And thanks for the compliment on my hair too 😄

[@oscarolley8465]

Watching this as a guy, this is pretty true.

[@zennafergusson7420]

#9 Seeing him once a week when you first start dating? I saw my boyfriend about 5 days throughout the first week then moved in after that week and we never fight or get sick of eachother, we are best friends, we just clicked. #10 waiting a month for sex? I made him wait till the 4th day of hanging out and i think that was enough of a tease for both of us. We've been together a year now and we couldn't be happier. This isnt for everyone

[@chloezapata4152]

What a great idea to wear sunglasses and make eye contact with everyone you see. For a person who's too shy to make eye contact with someone they are interested in, that would really make it eventually more comfortable in real life 😎

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Yup! I love this little trick! Works like a charm 😋

[@leigh4390]

So like, this wasn't a turn on, but this was something that caught me off guard.. I was sitting at a table with two different guys and like, we were all laughing about a joke he made. His body was already angled towards me and his legs were wide open, taking up half of the table space beside me. So, without missing a beat after our laughter, he asks this, "Leigh, do you hate me?" It caught both me and the guy across from him at that table off guard. I told him, "I mean, no, I don't hate you.." and I kinda just trailed off there. He leaned way back in his chair and clutched his heart and kind of gaped for like, three minutes, meanwhile, the guy in front of him and I conversed until he finally snapped back to reality. By the way, this is the same guy that I talked about in my last comment on one of your other videos (Does He Like Me, Or Is He Just Being Nice).. Leigh~

[@yencymartinez4138]

Love your videos! You’re so funny. I loved the part where you said that if he gives you ultimatums, tell him to get out of here! 😂

[@melissawoods23]

I have a silly personality. I had some candy in my hand that my guy didn’t see. I looked at him and seductively asked, “Do you want some? I really want some.” And smiled. He looked around and said,”Now?” Me….”Yes! Come on …come get some.” He stopped walking towards me. I giggled and slowly put out my hand and said, “it’s so good!” He saw the candy and started laughing! Super funny how quickly he “came to get it!” Lol!

[@annawei4301]

When I have a carefree & confident attitude.

[@FireCracker3240]

I was once interested in a man from the UK. I wasn't the greatest cook, but I learned how to cook his favorite foods from home (many ingredients not readily found in the States), and he was really impressed. That relationship didn't last, but my newfound love for cooking did. I'm now a pretty skilled home chef. I try to find something learned & gained from each and every failed relationship, so nothing has ever been a waste of time.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks for sharing! Yes, I making cooking a priority too 🙂Food is a GREAT way for us to form bonds with one another

[@MK-ex2vt]

Love this ♥️ A new point of view compared to other video's about relationships 🙂

[@abbieamavi]

*I do all these things, basically on accident. I'm a people person and an extrovert, but now I noticed why guys ask me out after a day of knowing me. I'm hella busy, compliment guys on random things a lot, encourage them ...I think I need to be more rude shoot. But I encourage everyone!*.

[@sandracarli1110]

You have more subscribers now and that means that more and more girls and women are learning these tricks so the competition is growing :-D

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

It's true! 🙏🏽

[@KVandendriessche]

I’m a bicycle mechanic and I ride really cool bikes. He did a double take over my bike and said “what a pretty bike!” Then he looked up at my smile and said “wow and you’re pretty” which I don’t think he meant to say outloud lol

[@cheshirexx2623]

congratulations you got a new subscriber ! your channel is really interesting and im stjll trying to learn all these just in case there's someone im interested in !

[@DasaScent]

😁👌🏽👍🏼

[@mimiyi3538]

Ryan l did EVERYTHING in the video and everytime l visit him in cedar hill Dallas area but he lives a hr away from my auntie everytime l say near let's chill his excuse is always I'm at work. And he never makes time for me. He keeps saying he's gunna visit but never does he says he wants me to live with him how to make me live with him l told him he knows just come to San Antonio Texas and see my parents and ask to marry me.

[@lizzieh431]

I'm sarcastic sometimes, but he will only figure out after knowing me better, but it still depends on guys. I actually feel since different guy has different personality, the dynamic with him would be different. The pace in a relationship is also depending on individuals, but I think no matter what, just act after we get ready and comfortable. I honestly would like follow my thoughts at the early stage to reduce the anxiety or something unsettled.

[@lifeonmars9157]

one time I was outside of school and I started singing the Russian song Katyusha that I had learned the night before to show my friends and he then came to me and told me I had a very good Russian pronunciation and that he was Russian. we went out after that and now we've been together for 9 months loool

[@kaylinworthington]

I didn’t realize how big eye contact was but I realize it’s the same with women. And after watching a number of videos, and even random interviews, guys say eye contact! That’s hard when I’m not trying to come off too desperate when I like a guy!

[@nicolalblushi9830]

Hello Ryan....its been along time since I joined you oline... But thanks for video...its been great watching it... Great job....🖒🖒👌👌

[@JD-dz9lx]

Eh. If he’s made it very clear in the first few weeks that he genuinely likes me and wants me to text him, I’ll text first sometimes but let him do MOST of the text initiation, ALL of the phone or FaceTime initiation, ALL of the in person date invitations. I’ve had soooo many complaints about never texting first. And most of the text I send are “light and breezy” and short. Send them and then put my phone away and go back to my life. 😂

[@justinbullock6042]

Guys were tossing these grapes into the air and catching them, so I locked eyes with the guy I liked, threw my grape and caught it in my teeth, all while maintaining eye contact. It was the unabashed flirty eyes that really took it over the edge.

[@miaguerrero6834]

I was dating this guy but had him wondering I was like we aren’t dating or messing with him but then saying oh don’t say that to my boyfriend or to him

[@rachels5918]

3:50 ummm yes. Every time I tell a guy I dont have time for him (or anyone) or don’t want a boyfriend at the moment, they suddenly can’t stop asking me out. Even guys that aren’t interested in dating me, will try to set me up with their friends.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

It's a funny little mental trigger, isn't it? 😁

[@TheFlash-gp4bg]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick is this exactly healthy, though? This is how some men with warped ideas take a woman's "no" for "yes". Yes, be coy, be mysterious. But don't be confusing. Say 'you don't want to date' because you don't want to date. Pretty simple and honest.

[@melinascappatura7919]

Ryan, i really liked this video!!! Very clever made. One question: Could you maybeeeeee do a video about, how to get someone to leave you alone in a nice but working way. I am really bad at that. Either I am still to nice, that they don’t get the hint, or I become over protecting and try to scare them away.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Hey Melina! Thanks for the suggestion! I'm not sure I'd create a video on this topic because it would probably be such a short video (less than 30 seconds) as I would simply advise the direct approach if someone isn't getting the hint to back the heck off. At some point, nice has to go out the window, especially if you feel the interactions are heading down a dark road. Be firm, be clear, and be consistent 👌🏽

[@adj5767]

Just say, ' how do I tell you to leave me alone in the nicest way, hmmm? How do you prefer to hear it? while looking innocent the whole time 🤣. Should work like magic...

[@yessicaquiroz576]

Hi 👋 I like this, very helpful, I need to work on all of this 😜👍😘 thanks 😊

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

You are so welcome! 🙏🏽

[@tonikamarshall7971]

Thanks for the info Ryan. It really helps.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

You bet Tonika! 😋

[@AsianSweetie95]

I told him I just want us to enjoy the moment together.

[@NkosiCebile]

Is it weird i always like the video before I listen because I know I'm going to enjoy it anyways🙂

[@secretshaman189]

Really honest information, thanks for sharing!

[@a.a.m3738]

Hello, and thanks for your amazing tips! It's my first time to comment and I hope I get a chance to be in one of your videos!.. I do have a suggestion.. would you please speak about how to attract a co-worker, a study colleague (work partners in general)? it's difficult you know? as you need to be formal not fired lol..I hope you consider.. and thanks again! Aya from Libya (Yes, you're well known in some Arabian countries )

[@ticaanderson7850]

why are your videos so good? I can't find a good guy, you single? lol thanks for all your good advice!

[@marib.6538]

Im new on you channel 😅 but dudeeeeee all of your tips? Gosh i all did it to my man before without knowing 🤣 but honestly i think it work if your dating a man and not a boy

[@haley3746]

I love your videos, they’re so helpful!!! Thank you Ryan 😊 your wife is a lucky woman

[@SuzieWongSingapore]

Several times when I listened intently to a guy speak about something with a slight gaze upwards earned me a kiss as he leans forward and said “ Gosh that’s so sexy “

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Niiiiiice 😎

[@caroriv7457]

You're adorable, i follow all your advices 😊 thank you Ryan!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

You're so welcome, Caro! Thank you! 🙂

[@juliansanford3367]

one time I was about to box one of my friends, like a full out match. A dude started flirting with me and helping me get my gloves on. 10/10 recommend boxing to get a guy to notice you.