S0me ladîes get mînd

[@phoenixrising7538]

Nenye,your words of wisdom are truly inspiring and you have a good sense of humour.You are blessed.

[@janea8517]

I am with Nenye. Lady, stay with the present guy. He loves you genuinely. Your baby's dad is a playboy. Let him not use overseas to confuse you. Overseas is not paradise.

[@mortalwombat78]

Some people doesnt know how to enjoy good life. She got a second chance now she wants to go back😒😒. She'll come back and cry later.

[@CssbOsa]

Stay with the new guy and forget the old guy. Coparent the baby with the baby father only. Once bitten twice shy. Don’t make same mistake again. Go forward and stay with the God sent guy.

[@JeanAkakpo-gn8oh]

Nenye,may God bless you for that advice.

[@ehizakhidenor4542]

Lady stay with the new guy. There is a different between a guy that supports you in times of need vs the guy that denied and left you in times of need , be wise young lady.

[@austimataustimat4530]

Thank you so much Nenye, you have said it all .

[@Wisdomsinior]

See how foolish some women are, see her talking about loving him😂

[@John-y5d5g]

A lot of Nigerian women don't know what love is; they just hear the word and it sounds like a get out of jail card. If I say I love somebody that means I loose all of my brain cells and do foolish things.

[@ikadethomas3758]

Nenye for the first time I stand with your advice totally

[@samosaiwe1325]

Yes o

[@PatNgozi]

She always gives reasonable advice

[@ARISISAAK]

Nene, my beautiful queen: l sincerely love you, by your wonderful advice to her, ashley, you have said it all, nice spoken,

[@ashantifox3241]

Stay with the new guy he is God sent

[@RoseGilbert-w3n]

Nenye I love how u doing ur stuff because u doing it the best way u think it okey but their are some mistakes u do like now the father of the baby she is talking about at least before they have child or pregnant their is love between them and I’m not saying what he did is okey but because of what he did that does not mean the love should go away it does not work like that so please stop criticizing or judging her due to how her heart feels and this is my advice she should stick with the new guy because the father of the baby might still repeat what he did in d past so she won’t loose twice

[@maintainman]

Mumu girl you like to suffer the new boy friend is your love. Not that mad man who dissappear

[@saheedaderanti8021]

Sister please stay with your man that had been taking care of you and your baby don't be distracted let your baby daddy support his son for up keeping

[@chiniceiroegbu8129]

Your mind dey to go USA talk true...forget what you sayin you love him

[@lonywichjuay5276]

She dey mumu she still talking about love while they left her years ago.

[@Itsogey]

She hear overseas her body dey jump. Let her leave her new guy and return to her ex na let’s see if her eyes won’t see her ear 😂😂😂. Confused my foot

[@UjuNnebe]

Madam if you try to leave the new guy you will regret it for rest of your life!!

[@lateefazeez8645]

O girl you have treasure and good man that every fine beautiful lady are looking for you get it on a plata if gold and you don’t value him. Not everybody in abroad are living well.my own good advice to you this man is your angel . Your ex boyfriend did not love you . Don’t loose the man that value you and adore for a person that treat you like a trash.

[@jasperebusbig1265]

Stay with the new guy oooooo my sister

[@obioraezechi]

You will be a BIG FOOL to go back to that guy.

[@elliottjohn8459]

Nenye thank you for that advice. Can you imagine she is still talking of love . What love? Many girls are easily deceived by the sweet words of men .

[@kingmpr2740]

Baby mama don turn gold digger 😂

[@johnjesus332]

Nenyen u are another God sent to her life to advise her. Lady once beaten twice shy. 5years of a man taking care of u n your baby. You better dnt make mistake that would destroy your life. Go for the one that has shown u unconditional love n care. Make your choice.

[@mallucnoel4427]

It’s not love that’s in her mind, it’s the idea of going to the USA that’s what sweeten up her mind. How can someone love a guy who abandoned you for 5years when you were at your most vulnerable moment. If she knows what best for her, she better stay the guy who took her care of her.

[@aronuobinna3921]

I just pity the new guy. This girl has already left the new guy. Chai !!!! She wan go abroad.

[@KarenLewis-hc9lr]

This girl wants to be evil with that man that takes care of her.is because of money she wants to go back to her baby father

[@phoenixrising7538]

A bird in hand is worth two in the bush.This is to say the man that rescued and supported both you and your child has proved to be trust worthy .I would stay by his side to build a happy home together.You will have only yourself to blame if you take the sperm donor back and he abandons you again.Once bitten, twice shy.

[@stellakwankam8928]

Nenye, God Bless your advice. If she accept the ex boyfriend, he will imprenent her and drop her and travel back to his bass

[@lawrenceonuoha3070]

Lady, borrow some sense. Never leave the man who has been helping you. If you do, regret will be your name.

[@Greatvincent-s4g]

Don't leave the new guy, marry him, i know u want to go to America. Ur daughter will be ur link to him, don't leave this angel.

[@KarenLewis-hc9lr]

If dare go America you will suffer like never before you think abroad is heaven?? Dey play with your future

[@kingsleyobianigwe]

I stand strongly with nenye. Forget about the first man don't even listen to him intact you should stop having any discussion with him. You don't even need someone to advise you over this matter. Block him as nenye advise. So he will not spoil your future

[@mc_kizzy]

After all una advice she will still go for the first guy bcos she want to travel.

[@samosaiwe1325]

I foresee dat also, she wan travel abroad.

[@EGConcept]

aswr

[@lonywichjuay5276]

Nenyebaby, I dey see my confused people on your platform. I don't know why they don't think straight

[@fishwater1594]

Lady Listen to my advice’ marry the guy that take good care of of you and your baby’

[@alino_chelse92]

He left you for 5 years, n a godly sent took care of u for 5 years n now you are wondering whether or not to go back ??? Sister are you truly stable, or u need some mental treatment?? God saved u the first time, dont fall in thesame trap abeg

[@ibrahimhalilumohammed168]

You better stay with the new guy. Your baby's dad is a fake. He will dump you again.

[@christieokwaraji51]

Stay with this current man, forget about the America old lover? He doesn’t worth it?

[@mlawinlandford881]

Nene have done well you said all everything well

[@oripanyestephen9887]

That your old guy has gone for good. His parents too are evil. If you love yourself don't go back him again I beg of you. You have not learnt your lesson! Marry this your new guy.

[@osaseki1987]

Please don't leave your guy

[@falodunbabatunde6655]

You have said it all, why should you be confused for God sake? You should know that the new guy is the best for you. Imagine, what plan? Don’t be deceived, it’s not all that glitters is gold… watch it and take Nenye advice. Don’t act foolish

[@MarycynthiaAnene]

Please don't go back to your ex.stay with the one that took care of you and your baby,if you don't want to regret your life.

[@osaseki1987]

We recovered

[@naze497]

Stay with the new guy. He is good.

[@touchymb]

Pray that the second guy doesn’t see this video otherwise, you just messed up. You said you love the first guy. Advising you from the US. Let me tell you, the guy probably got married to get his papers here. If you risk leaving the second for the first, you may be putting yourself in fire. America is not as easy as you think when it comes to marriage. My advice for you is to ask him to be caring for his child and you stay with your current guy.

[@jeandetti6250]

Tell her 😅. Imagine be the second guy. Despite leaving her for 5 years she's still love him 😂. Its an evil world. Man don't become step father.

[@SolomonSarah-o5y]

Hmmm na wa ooo

[@osaseki1987]

Please my sister you don't need to be confused tell him that you already have somebody

[@SurprisedBabyKittens-fs8vh]

I support you Nenye

[@mufioke7408]

Don't let your emotions control you.

[@samosaiwe1325]

Fear woman, God save us from dis kind of women o. Hanti, what is confusing you? Becos U see Americana, wey wan carry U go obodo-oyinbo, U come dey confused. Assuming the other guy didn't show up and U started hawking on the street to care for urself, will yr Americana even consider you? I stand with NENYE, 100%

[@intelligentleader123]

The solution is simple: Don't go back to your baby's daddy and I repeat don't go back to your baby daddy. She denied your pregnancy and his family encouraged him to deny the pregnancy. Please don't go back to your baby daddy. Stick and stay with this new guy. That type of man is difficult to come by. Forget about the stories he is telling you. HE COULD AS WELL BE TELLING YOU L;IES. Don't go back to your baby daddy. GOING BACK TO YOUR BABY DADDY WILL BE THE GREATEST MISTAKE YOU WILL MAKE AND HE WILL STILL DISAPPOINT YOU. Stick with your new man. It is not easy taking care of another man's baby for years

[@DaughterOfzion-xt7br]

You lie, you don't love him, you love his money, you are an opportunist.

[@zamanib4]

the family of the man don't even love you , because you say na ei presents talk say me leave you and travel out , i understand this girl don't even know what love ,may she want to take advantage of the man taking him out

[@TajudeenAjidele-yq4ef]

Nenye, my advise is going to be different from other commenters. It may not be the best advise but it will finally resolve this matter . Let that lady go back to his former Boyfriend because that is where her mind is. He never loved the new guy, however, she appreciates all her kindness and support. Let me tell you the truth, it you guys force her to stick with the new guy, which sounds like the best advise, she will never be happy. That is a reality of life. Looking at her reaction she loved the Americana better. If you don’t let her satisfy the curiosity behind that list, she may end up cheating on a new guy because that is where her mind is. If you know how love works you won’t be advising her to forget her first love. That new guy loves her but she never love her in return. That is the main problem here. In most cases, the best option for a woman is to marry the man who actually loves her not a man whom she loves. It the only way a woman can be secured in any relationship but women never feel that way.

[@nickymaduka]

Please don't go back. And don't give him the baby. The first one will still do worst. Stay with your present guy. He wants the baby not you.

[@princeikeji1292]

If you disappoint this new guy you are making a great mistake and will regret it. Forget your baby daddy and move on with your life. You will never value what you have till you lose it

[@samsonpopoola8619]

If you love yourself please don't go back to him and if you go back to him and leave the God sent man to you, you will live to regret it, the choice is yours.

[@bankolefaroye3528]

Don't go back to your baby father, a man that left for five years doesn't love you, don't go back to him, stick to the new man that God sent to you please.

[@jennyonyia9649]

Na wa oooo 😢

[@BossBoss-gn8qe]

Its easy. U already have someone. That your American boy is not responsible

[@fishwater1594]

Lady marry the good guy that take good care of of you and your baby for 5’ years Okay

[@XanYBiRSuV7485]

Why are you confused a man has been taking care of you and your baby for five years and now you want to dump him for the same guy who left you when you needed him the most. Be wise, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Great advice Nenye!!

[@henryopara6570]

Tell the new guy about the call and if you love the new guy for real go ahead and marry him.

[@Nennyo0]

Stay with the person you know woman. Let the efulefu find someone else. But if you want to completely destroy yourself, go back to your ex

[@anietieekanem120]

The old Guy is not real, stay with the new Guy else you will regret it. The old Guy has no conscience. What if you died during the period he left you? Get sense young woman.

[@osaseki1987]

Tell him to send all the money that you have been using to take care of the baby

[@dorisabel6386]

May your joy be restored in Jesus name. Amen!

[@JeanAkakpo-gn8oh]

Madam, go ahead with your new man and forget about your baby papa.

[@MarycynthiaAnene]

I want to go to obodooyibo nonsense.

[@Fleandondeblizt5230]

She don't need to ask for advice on least she is an in greet

[@bariyaanelson-im1tf]

He is caring so why are u complaining 🙄

[@ogechukwuonyejefu1283]

My dear look well woman are you ok someone live you for five years you are here talking about love are you ok

[@zubbybanye7406]

The lady is carried away cos the baby daddy promised to take her overseas. She wants to be in the class of people who live overseas, she has been brain washed by her baby daddy. Where has he been all this while and his family?😢😢

[@johnchinedu5407]

Let those who can be deceived be deceived. Beauty without brain means nothing. If you leave the new guy and go back to the first guy, you will regret it all through your life. 1 Kings 20:31 Benhadad officials went to him and said "we have heard that the Israelite kings are merciful. Give us permission to go to the King of Israel with sackcloth round our waists and ropes round our necks and may be he will spare your life" Go to 1 kings 22: 31 and see what King Benhadad did The King of Syria (Benhadad) had ordered his thirty -two chariot commanders to attack no one else except the king of Israel. Guess what King Ahab of Israel was later killed by the Syrian's army. People will not learn the lesson but capitalize on forgiveness. Indeed you have to forgive but not to your detriment. Forgiveness is not supposed to mar or destroy your future or make you live a miserable life.

[@julietehisiemen3246]

this woman you don't need to come here to be confused, you don't need advice, just stay with this new guy, you don't need to go to your baby daddy , don't let him disiving you again, please this man that GOD sent to you is the best if you live the man that helps you, you will suffer for rever just block 🚫 your baby DAD his is wicked, and his family they are very wicked

[@osaseki1987]

100% believe that when god forgive you your wife will be

[@Wisdomsinior]

You better go and marry the new guy that saved your life o if not cama is going to visit o

[@gbengaolayinka2050]

Sorry o! But whose fault. Who is blame? YOU OF COURSE! Stop saying he loved you! He never loved you. This is a lesson for every lady out there! Stop opening your legs to ANY man before marriage. You love but he doesn't love. Marry the man that loves you - your God-sent man.

[@GodIsGreat-q8x]

She wants to go to America

[@JudgmentOfGod]

Nenye, God is with you. Well done for the words of wisdom. I agree with you 100%. I hope the lady heeds.....there is no other route to peace for her.

[@jasperebusbig1265]

Don't go back to ur baby's father, because his living in America

[@jeandetti6250]

Let her go back to her baby daddy. 😅 She'll learn it the hard way . Karma has caught your baby daddy . Things are not going well in his life . They probably told him that he must ask for your forgiveness. men be careful of dating single mothers. They don't love you . When their first choice comes around they will always choose them again.

[@OladipoP]

Just wondering what kind of affection do you still have for a man who him and his parents colluded to abandon you. I think the affection is still there for the American boyfriend, because God helped escape the excruciating hardship that you are meant to go through. My sister, look if your American boyfriend lays his hand on you this time around, just know that your impending pregnancy from him would be four babies at a time, so that after he might have abandoned your again, by then you are back to your senses in complete shatter. Believe me that love that you still nurtured for him would disappear. Wise up girl. I am also a guy here, telling you reality.

[@Omo_nikenny]

Don't be an ingrate!!! Who told you the guy that have been looking after you and your baby can't take you abroad? You shouldn't have been here in the first place. Good luck to you.

[@moneyman1134]

Go for the new guy because monkey will never leave banana you love him because you want to travel out this guy will show you pepper 🌶️ if you go back again

[@benedictabaye4817]

I sincerely don't know the reason for your confusion. If you had gotten married to anyone or present man / helper ,will you leave the marriage to go with your baby daddy cos he is asking you people come back together? What's the guarantee that this your baby daddy will not abandon you again? Besides, put yourself in the shoes of the guy that has been taking care of you and your baby for the past five years. Imagine how you will feel if what you are thinking of doing to him is done to you . I sometimes don't know why some of you don't apply some level of reasoning to this so called love thingy . Don't be deluded by the fact that your baby daddy lives abroad , most of them are struggling to survive there.

[@okoroabraham-tj6gu]

You can’t love ❤️ your baby’s father. Stay with the new guy and marry him. Your baby’s father DOES NOT love you and your baby. He came back because things are not working out well for him. He’s being punished by karma that’s why he’s coming back to you. Stay with the new guy and marry him. Your old ex is deceptive and a liar. He can never have a settled relationship or marriage. If you dare go back to him, you’ll regret it. Stay away from your old boyfriend and don’t have anything to do with him. Block his phone number and don’t even discuss with him again.

[@senanuagbo5322]

Please let the father of the children take care the children, marry the gay that is taking care of you ooo.

[@Wisdomsinior]

And your baby has already know the man as her daddy, never introduce the baby to another man o if not you have complicated his or her brain of parantal hood

[@JoyceObasanya]

This girl is confused absolutely confused let this girl not confuse herself full self she will now go and suffer the rest of our pain she's better off staying with a man who took her on and looked after her

[@chrise1122]

If you go back to your baby daddy then you're the biggest fool on earth. Remember this, when something good is about taking place in your life if you're not focused distraction will come in and you will lose the good things happening in your life. Be warm

[@johnonyemenam1814]

Women are very funny, this former guy is coming back because of his baby, his parents have told him to get his child, it is like he cannot get a child. Forget that former idiot, let this new guy come and see your parents and marry you, do you think the former guy does not have a girl in his life after 5 years ? He has someone and don’t deceive yourself, focus on this new guy. You will regret it if you leave this present man, pls be sensible. A word is enough for the wise.

[@mukailaayoade1390]

You don't need to seek for advice on this, something should tell you your baby papa is not a good person. Would he have come to marry you in the grave if you had killed yourself. God will not be happy with you if you a and one the angel he sent to you when you are down Don't be carried away with life abroad. We live here and know the tension couple go through on daily basis. Life is more sweet at home with little money. You can not be here and stay at home. You will go out when your husband is coming back and that is one of the thing that destroy marriage. If he want to take your daughter he can do that when she is of age. If you are desperate to taste what is abroad your daughter could file for you and you and your husband who stood for you when the spark donor Japa will come and enjoy here. That man may not have enough resources the way you want it now but he is a good man and he will surely make it in life. You should ise all the female power in you to support him and you will not regret it. STAY AWAY FROM THE SPARM DONOR HE HAS NOTHING FOR YOU THAN BROKEN HEART PLEASE.

[@OladipoP]

Please use your common Sense or seek the prayers from a true man of God.

[@fishwater1594]

Lady are you dreaming’ to say you Love the U S guy’ big fool

[@AnnEstrada-hz5uc]

Flug her

[@BenAdams694]

You are here crying for your mistake, but it seems you wanted to use the pregnancy to tie the boy before

[@timothyosaro8888]

You don't already make up mind ungrateful people