S3E5 Lost while solo-sailing from the DR to the Bahamas (FIRST SOLO SHAKEDOWN SAIL BTW!)

[@Adventureman_Dan]

That was really scary. You kept going through some really tough stuff. I'm so proud of you! For such a tough way you started this adventure, you've done great, and because of that we have so many more (hopefully less scary/safer) adventures ahead! :)

[@SailingArtha]

I'm so grateful for your love and support 🙏

[@bryanirwin5473]

Take a class on proper radio operation and etiquette.

[@isawthis448]

@@SailingArtha You need redundant systems to be safe out there... like a wind vain steering and a tiller....

[@anonymous.notatall6419]

You showed disrespect to the sea, disrespect to those who have gone before you who made basic saftey systems for good reasons and you showed disrespect to basic sharing of the sea let alone being a "Buddy boat" when you ran after seeing a knock down and didn't stay to fully communicate state of vessel and intent before running away. Your disrespect and cowardice towards your lover is your own personal business to deal, that is unless you keep pushing the alternative narrative here on a fully aware audience. People can see this debarkle on both channels you realise? Why not just take the proper way out and say "sorry, I fucked up, I should have stayed and made sure Nicole was okay and then sheparded her to the islands rather than just thinking of my own skin and then this wouldn't have ended up so dangerous and a matter of pure luck that she was okay" and teach others this was bad behaviour and there is a bit of honour with some basic humility?

[@isawthis448]

@@anonymous.notatall6419 And thinking about it, didn't Dan help her get her boat ready? Why didn't he check he safety systems? Well waiting to watch Nicole sell her boat and take the first flight away from Dan as soon as she can.

[@bobhodges3116]

You’ve done the right thing to admit you were unprepared for this relatively short passage leg and it was a bit painful to watch it unfold (no safety equipment, boat in dis-array, reliability issues, no backups, flawed decision making, scared pup, irresponsible boyfriend, etc.). On the plus side you showed a decent measure of grit, courage, and perseverance to get your boat to safety. Be brutally honest in the lessons learned here to help you go forward. Your partner's behavior and his comments in this mis-adventure are disturbing to me, don't let him cloud your judgement. I wish you the best.

[@grahamvallance75grahamvall88]

You call him a boy friend ,yet he up and leaves you to your self what a gentleman. I wish you the best and fair winds.

[@kakuto500]

Yeah, I watched his video of him leaving her behind and immediately unsubscribed from him.

[@simba4805]

I've never been this scared watching someone else sail... For a moment there I forgot that this being uploaded must mean that you at least arrived somewhere safely. I'm glad you made it and I hope it never gets this scary again.

[@Patty-kf4rv]

Cant beleave Daniel just left you, so much for buddy boating its great to see you made it and you are safe

[@dwight_klaus2981]

She needs a new boat and a new boyfriend

[@scripteaze]

@@dwight_klaus2981 She doesn't need a new boat, she just needs to be more prepared with backup systems.

[@canvashomesusa8729]

buddy boating.... waypoint to waypoint ??

[@bitcorp-gs8ed]

On the boat, your solar panels are very poorly mounted. The one above the entrance is even secured with just zip ties. The autopilot cables are poorly connected, posing a risk of breakage and water ingress. You need at least $3,000 for a chartplotter with AIS (Garmin GPSMAP 723) , a backup autopilot (Raymarine ST2000 Plus), and safety equipment. Stay in the harbor until you resolve this! You are endangering yourself and also the people who might have to rescue you.

[@anonymous.notatall6419]

👏 👏 👏

[@williamnethercott4364]

That was a roller-coaster. I see you've already learned from the mistakes. If nothing else, it demonstrated the value of a shakedown. Stay safe!

[@phillipfrankreid]

Nicole, it’s clear that you have the “bones” to be a successful bluewater cruiser. You have the experience, both at sea and in the yard, and-most important-you genuinely enjoy the act of sailing itself-the way it makes you feel. And you know the deep sense of accomplishment and fulfillment from making a voyage-even a little one. The sea has just taught you a few lessons, which, while harsh, are merciful, relatively speaking; the sea does not make a habit of taking prisoners or awarding second chances. I spend my days studying the history of humans at sea on sailing craft, and there is no counting how many it has swallowed. Anyone who gets taken to school by the sea and lives to learn from it has been most fortunate, and can take advantage of that. Serious sailing requires a mix of bravery and prudence that the sailor must learn to dial in rather precisely. Too cautious, and you’ll never leave the dock. Not careful enough, and you won’t reach another one. Or, if you do, your PTSD will ensure you never want to see blue water again. Preparation for sea governed strictly by Murphy’s Law-“what can go wrong will go wrong”-is the core ingredient of prudence. Redundancy, double- and triple-checks, having someone with prior experience check any work you’re not 100% sure of, the correct safety and navigational equipment for survival at sea, reliable ocean-appropriate self-steering, and stowage that seems excessive in harbor but will be necessary in a rough seaway. A boarding wave weighs several tons. And they’re going to happen. Squalls pack a few seconds or minutes of unpredictable hurricane-force winds that sink boats. You’ve been allowed to learn these things and come out ok. And you have the ideal boat for what you’re trying to do-though, as you’ve learned, it’s on a whole other level from a basic 26’ racer-cruiser. Whether you decide to keep doing this a completely individual call and no one has any right to question it. I decided not to because I decided it wasn’t worth it, and I’ve never regretted that. But you can do it if you want to. If it’s worth it. You’ve said yourself that this is an arduous life. You’re right.

[@JCGible]

@phillipfrankreid So much good information here, Phillip. Thank you for expressing your knowledge so warmly. Nicole has done a fantastic job getting the old boat on the water. I got tired just watching her. She is so beautiful and courageous. I hope she will think long and hard about this dangerous lifestyle she has chosen.

[@phillipfrankreid]

@@JCGible Thanks. She's put in the work; she's just got to tie together some loose ends and move a little more toward the "cautious" end of the spectrum. I can't think of a better prompt to do that than a really unpleasant and unsettling passage from which one emerges unharmed.

[@jaxjake95]

What an incredible piece of sage advice, I hope our girl listens.

[@phillipfrankreid]

@@jaxjake95 Thanks! She seems very much inclined to accept help--no dumb ego getting in her way. If it is of even a smidge of use, it's worth posting!

[@barnettg66]

Always always have a backup to the backup with critical items. If the phone is it for navigation, then have a spare burner phone with GPS (charged), and then a Garmin (also charged and hard mounted). The Garmin might be the best bet since if you should capsize or otherwise end up swamped, there are versions that can withstand being submerged and handled roughly.

[@marykok7616]

Charts are your friend. Get some and learn how to navigate without electronics just in case they go out. That will build confidence.

[@brycedoon2581]

You rock girl!!! You earned your stripes and learned a lot. Auto pilot failure with one soul aboard is when stuff gets real. So happy you pulled it off then god for Daniel monitering 16 I’m sure he was pretty worried. You a sea warrior!!!!!

[@anonymous.notatall6419]

Pausing at 1:12 says it all. Unfinnished unconnected saftey lines after 18months on the hard sailing straight into a squall full cloth up. "Let's Go!" Indeed.

[@mendyviola]

I’m not a sailor, but a solo adventurer on land. Trust your gut. If it tells you to stop and deal with things, do so. Don’t let someone else influence you to push yourself past your comfort zone. Sailing on open seas is no joke let alone solo. You can only rely on yourself for your own safety as well as your dog’s safety.

[@scott.the.sailor]

I enjoy solo off trail backpacking and this is so spot on

[@lazzj4995]

You have a very robust boat under you, a strong head on you and a fickle sky above you. Always be prepared. A supply of bungees to tie anything down at any moment. bristols are low to water so you may have to figure out an alternatjve place for jerry cans on longer journeys or disperse to both sides to reduce risk of losing all. I also have a favourite sailing word LIFEJACKET. Hope by now you are truly enjoying some time in Bahamas making it was all worth it. Thankyou for sharing the raw story of yr journey

[@JCGible]

Life Jacket for sure.

[@anonymous.notatall6419]

I would say tether before lifejacket in blue water. Why not get both intergrated. A lifejacket in the middle of nowhere just allows you more time to contemplate your mistakes and realise no one will find you as your boat goes over the endless horizon. A too long tether will just drag and drown you in the water too. So yeah, short tether, jacklines to clip to all the way up deck and lifejacket intergrated. But we are talking about a skipper who hasn't even strung her saftey lines around the edge yet 1:11

[@JCGible]

@anonymous.notatall6419 good point. 🙂

[@cattaraugustonawanda4426]

Although I enjoy you and your videos there is one thing that concerns me. My boating/sailing experience dates back to the 1950s. Sailing any size boat requires a bit of planning, preparation, maintenance, and organization which doesn't seem to be your strong suit. I see stuff loose on deck and disorganized and loose stuff below. Maybe some time spent on keeping things organized and secured would be helpful. Solo sailing makes these issues much more important in terms of safety and comfort. Wishing you fair winds and more favorable weather.

[@Ja50nkAt]

That's a tiny old school boat, I don't think there are very many sailors that would feel comfortable crossing oceans in that thing. It's more of a fun weekend getaway boat than a live aboard vessel.

[@cattaraugustonawanda4426]

@@Ja50nkAt That boat just needs a clean up and some refit to be ready for crossing an ocean. More a matter of seamanship than the boat. I know of a fellow who crossed the atlantic in a Cape Dory Typhoon which is much smaller. Old school has little to do with fitness of a boat design.

[@RCTestPilotGuy]

@@cattaraugustonawanda4426 My "little" boat is a CD Typhoon. I can't imagine crossing an ocean in her!!

[@cattaraugustonawanda4426]

@@RCTestPilotGuy His CDT was the model with the longer cabin. He fitted her with vane steering. This was before anyone could afford electronics to navigate 1970s?

[@norml.hugh-mann]

Small men (if ya know what I mean" love trying to tell women what to do. Pathetic

[@murrat]

You are a very brave woman, and my hats off to you for all you do on this channel. We all learn from our experiences and get stronger as we go, so keep at it.

[@silasb378]

Happy you're safe but you are so unprepared on different fronts, hopefully you make treasure of the lessons you should have learnt. You have been lucky...but the seas do not care.

[@cortjampole9391]

Wow. Scary. You in danger girl. Better rethink this lifestyle. Proud of your perseverance.

[@CuriousHumbleMarie]

You’re an amazingly tough, independent, and very capable woman Nicole! I’m sure if you stay the course on your own that you’ll have a very successful channel. As you grow and incrementally obtain better boat equipment, camera gear, filming and *storytelling skills* that your channel will wonderfully grow with you. Have faith in yourself that you’re learning and evolving as you should be and creating a beautiful life for yourself. 💙

[@glennarchard5723]

Your shirt says it all: LUCKY. ❤ So glad you're safe!

[@shaneparrish9991]

Always reef early, you may reef for nothing but better safe. That being said.. Daniel's boat is made to outrun somethings but you can't outrun everything. I'm glad you picked the heavy slow boat, she'll handle worst storms than that little one you went through. Enjoy your your adventures. Skylark 😊😊

[@Useless_Knowledge07]

You have a lot of Heart ❤ young lady!

[@DanielTiffany-o8i]

Your sailboat has more character than Daniel’s dose. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just sayen. lol 😂

[@robertdepalma7321]

Learning from and surviving you mistakes are life's best lessons.

[@TerryLee-c5v]

Just started the video but I've already seen the outcome on Dan's channel. It will be interesting to see it from your perspective. Wishing you full sails. Well..... I was very relieved at 14:00. I wish Dan would have made sure you were better prepared but I guess you're responsible for yourself! You've gained (Earned) a new subscriber. 😊

[@scripteaze]

After watching his video over a week ago, its good to finally see it from your eyes. 🥰

[@egontoustrup]

You are really amazing 👍 I really enjoy your videos And now I know you can sing really nice too ❤

[@robertgold2643]

That sunrise selfie was priceless 🙏. Make that a Home Screen somewhere for an instant reminder of why we sail 😎

[@josephdeak2257]

I’m glad your safe. You put your heart into that boat and your sailing please don’t quit we all love and respect you. As for Adventure Dan he should have never left you I don’t know about that guy.

[@Ja50nkAt]

I don't know how those solo sailors do it, being out on a big empty ocean by yourself. If she doesn't want to do it anymore that's just fine, know one should feel pressured into doing something just to create content, especially if she's feeling unsafe, that's a tiny little boat to be crossing oceans in.

[@rabsmcsporrin9572]

That's why you never buddy 🚢

[@sailingresurrection]

That is NOT buddy boating! It may have been intended. That is too dangerous of a situation to fail to man up and deal with a relatively SMALL sickness. I saw his video(s), too. Thats no where near debilitating sickness! Its not even seasickness! Not a sign of illness the next day! And, actually smiling at the horror of posible situations he imagined you could be in! Not enough of a challenge to justify abandoning a buddy, especially an inexperienced, solo, girlfriend! It may have been an opportunity to use the situation to scare you into being dependent on him, or abondoning your boat to join his?That's too bad! However, you are being made! Keep going! ...knowing ultimately you have to have a true "solo" mindset, being completely reliant on you!

[@StudioBhobho]

I saw his video after this, I can't help but think all that sickness was faked after realising how bad he'd look on the video. Most people when they're seasick their mouth becomes dry, and it makes it difficult to speak, the dude was speaking normal. The words he was saying after knowing that his girlfriend was hit with squall with full sails and no autopilot makes it even more worrying. I would have been worried sick if it was a stranger let alone a girlfriend, which brings to think the sickness was faked after the fact. Every camera records time stamps on the video to show what time it was recorded. The only way to prove my theory would be to check when the sickness videos were recorded, and compare that with the placement on the edited cut.

[@CuriousHumbleMarie]

@@StudioBhobhoUnfortunately, I think you may be right. He is nice but so manipulative. I've recognized it since his first video with her. He never takes any accountability for being wrong. Instead he gives bs, gaslights, and feign confusion. Nicole is going to learn his true colors when she one day starts calling him out, questioning him, and trying to him take accountability. However, she’s currently blinded by love as most of us have been in the past…poor thing.

[@ronshillum4897]

Hi Nicole. Many lessons learned… even under high stress you didn’t give into fear. Thanks for sharing this raw experience with us. You are a resilient and resourceful person. -- I’ve got separated from a buddy boat under extreme conditions for quite a few hours- a bit scary but I was also lucky because I was steering towards a known piece of land… intentionally heading to the ‘left’ of my destination with no reefs or mysterious islands to confound me. … also ‘short’ of a working vhf radio…. Only a small scale chart and compass. … at 81 years of age I use my phone for navigation and keep track of where I am on a paper chart in case my phone craps out. … As for me, I’m going to get a decent waterproof shock resistant case for it now- your experience reminds me to be better prepared for when. ‘Shit happens’ ! “Never too old or too young to learn important stuff! “ ~ Keep on sailing, Skipper ~

[@pennymcaninch2293]

You are a very resourceful young lady. Keep up the good work, thank you from British Columbia, Canada 🇨🇦

[@fishin4bogey]

16:59......Fantastic shot !!! Looks like there were a few lessons learned on this particular voyage. You'll do so much better next time. Keep kicking ass.

[@VinnieVan]

You are so brave! Jeez girl. amazing to see your varrying emotions as you go through this. There is so much reward in following through. You had so much resilience during the re-fit to get to where you are at now. You are on the seas in this beautiful boat. Guess what? Youre going to be alright. Hang in there. Dont sell the boat. You will totally regret it. Travel when you want, see your family when you need it and live your life. All of it is what makes life so wonderful. When you smiling, Thats just everything. Some dude said you are mentally unstable? I disagree. You handled it and I think its totally normal to be emotional when you are scared. Its called being in touch with your emotions. Better than shutting down and making huge deadly mistakes! Bravo. I am a fan. Dont quit, just follow your heart. Balance sweet girl. Balance. Happy New year!

[@PetraKann]

You shouldn't tell anyone what to do with their lives and what decisions to make

[@hydrotechservices]

Please use a vest for the puppy and lifeline when offshore. Great job on the sailing

[@RustyKnorr]

Great job?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chrisgeorge2717]

Do companion boats normally leave their partner in the dust and sail out of radio range? Especially on this long of a sail for a recently splashed vessel? I can imagine that conversation wasn't too pleasant.

[@empress_Iam_divine]

Not first time he's done that, smh.

[@anonymous.notatall6419]

You think he allows her to complain? Have you seen the damage control video he did on this on his channel, he literary shuts her down with "no no no" as she tries to speak and obvious cuts and edits when she talks.

[@chrisgeorge2717]

@anonymous.notatall6419 ill have to look for that one. Not really surprised though.

[@chrisgeorge2717]

@@empress_Iam_divine yikes

[@CuriousHumbleMarie]

@@empress_Iam_divineWhat bothers me about Dan is that he never takes accountability for anything. Instead he’ll bull$shit and gaslight. Poor Nicole will have go through hell when she one day starts calling him out, questioning him, and try holding him accountable. However, we all have to learn through our own mistakes…I was foolish about men when young as well.

[@rosariolaselva1500]

WOW !! You have me feeling your pain & joy at the same time ! My ❤ out to you ! Glad you made it safe.

[@NexusPhotografi]

You did amazing hunny. Not a quiter by any means. The definition of not quitting because I haven't a choice💪 When you're in trouble,say prayers .He'll be with you and I will pray for you also 🙏✝️🛐🤗

[@momosworld7312]

Sure….

[@nigellyttleton7]

The problem is no liferaft, no lifejacket, radio is ineffective out of view range and the sqall under sail and the buddy boat sails off out of sight. Just put yourself in her position I would feel abandoned and at the mercy of the ocean.Dan does have six years experience so I would be expecting safety enough to survive my first overnight journey. Pretty worrying start 😮

[@captainhml3868]

No foul weather gear at the ready? Come on girl.

[@elpedry1]

My takeaways from this video are; first you’re a brave women, I have much respect for you, and second I am not sure what was thinking your boyfriend when decided to keep sailing instead of turn around and MAKE SURE you were ok, I guess time will tell. Keep it going and enjoy life.

[@earthman3000]

Don’t give up…you learned a lot on this short trip and next time you will be that much better prepared.

[@powellkwd40]

I wish your buddy boat would have kept you within handheld radio range (5 mi) since that's what you had and it seems you were depending on him. That's a lesson. Make a list of things learned. Quite a blow with that squall. You cooraged it out and survived. Bravo on doing that. You are a brave lady.

[@TheAdderalDiaries]

How about she needs a working radio lol

[@Regencyexpress1769]

Wow … you know what , a lot of people would have bottled it after your buddy boat disappeared. You kept your head and stayed on 300 That showed serious courage on your own. Keep it going 🎉

[@soloaquatics]

You did an amazing job by yourself! I wish I was out there with y’all! Maybe next season!

[@jlmbradshaw3619]

You are more capable than you realize. Only grit and determination got you through the rough voyage. Keep your chin up and realize that you are to be admired for your courage and perseverance.

[@keithfaulkner3726]

Just watched your video, and rarely comment on any channel. However, wanted to say Outstanding performance. You faced some challenging moments and overcame. Anyone can sail when conditions and equipment are perfect. You stood up to the challenge a d this should be an inspiration and learning experience for any one who watches. Well done, hang in there.

[@Betruetotgeyself]

Nicole, I also want to mention that it is essential to learn how to push down the emotions in uncertainty of crisis. Deep enough to function. The importance in converting emotion into action and focus is essential to survival. You can feel after you are safe, decompressed and comfy.

[@OldManMuskrat]

I was worried. I'm glad you have friends out there on the seas. Keep your dang chin up tho.

[@brucehartnett8709]

INCREDIBLE First passage!! As others mentioned yr shirt said it all Lucky! Totally impressed with yr Bravery n Refit of yr ship! NOT impessed with Dan with his experience to not make sure yr ship was all secure n ready for passage. He was ill n did what He could but all for not when in the middle of passage we are all on our own when soloing buddy boat or not. Will be subscribing n patreon to U but not AD lol. Looking forward to more of yr adventures!/

[@SVZ-hj9fp]

I always think exactly the same as you did when on any passage and I'm not even solo. So impressed you kept going. A brave person is someone who feels the fear and does it anyway. You are sooooo courageous

[@mattronk3458]

Keep your head up!!! You'll be fine! Fixing your boat in exotic places is fun!!!

[@sleethmitchell]

yeah, those experiences really add thoughtfulness to subsequent decisions and undertakings. our culture pushes a deadly sort of 'optimism'... i totally relate to that level of fear. it is nice to KNOW that you have adequate courage despite your fears. take smaller steps. you'll do fine.

[@CecilLee-h2z]

You’re doing well I see despite the conditions I’m proud of you you seem like a really awesome person keep up the great work! 👍🏼 good to see you under sail again

[@Jim-ro5sl]

I remember going through all that drama myself. Many, many times just wondering What the hell am I doing out here. In the end you made just like I always did. As you gain more experience it will get easier. Don't quit sailing you will regret it if you do.

[@davidmilke4324]

Your first time out you should not have bean left on your own. At least now you know the score. Keep goi g young lady ❤

[@04MOC]

Hey brave lady, you did great holding on despite the equipment break downs and without any help from your boyfriend !! But please, make sure you are well prepared before you do a solo sail again. Thank you for sharing your honest sail report, I think that deserves much appreciation. Greetings, Frank.

[@jamesgordon2289]

Great video, even with the testing situation you filmed for us. Your sharing of this experience was very generous. Thank you!!

[@mukymuk3]

I've been exactly where you are psychologically speaking. A bad sail and then you realize how bad things can get--and quickly! You're already on edge sometimes for days--almost exhausted before you even start the passage. A few things go wrong--autopilot, squalls, etc. and suddenly you go from "on edge" to borderline panic. In that heightened emotional state you think about family and wonder what the hell you're doing out here... I have been there more than once while sailing by myself--hand steering through the night by compass alone, singing to fend off sleep and fear both. I've said "this is not for me" a few times as well, only to flip-flop hours later after a meal or a coffee. I'm not prone to high emotion, but out here...well, it's a different game. I have had to adapt to a much more dynamic emotional state out here. I think that's a good thing.

[@sparkeyjones6261]

She did just fine, if it hadn't been for the whole getting lost part. She needs more reliable navigation systems and redundancy. A single phone won't cut it. Chartplotter, handheld GPS, tablet, etc.

[@JCGible]

Woh. What an emotional episode. I felt joy and I teard up. Things will be much better after this experience. The things we do when we're young. ❤

[@paulhumphrey3195]

Your story is so much better than Daniel. Thank you for sharing. What a relief to see him.

[@DaleShirley-o1u]

Hang in there kiddo love you!!❤

[@Nicoantonio42]

I’m going to be frank. As a liveaboard solo sailor of only 5 years I have experience sailing boats from folk boats to hunter 27 and Alberg 37. I think the design of your boat is smart and quite forgiving. It is very important if you’re solo to secure everything inside and all pets must be safe inside so nothing falls on them and they can get cozy when things get hectic. I don’t think solo sailing is ever prudent. But those are choices we make. I know you learned so many lessons on this trip. And you will walk away very different. I look back on footage I took a year ago and think wow I had no idea 😂 you know quite a bit. But your experience has yet to catch up to your knowledge. I think we are similar in that way. Don’t be discouraged! Being afraid is healthy. Next time think about all that before heading out. Respect the ocean with an irrational fear based on potential outcomes. Prepare and truly expect the worst and your outcomes will improve I guarantee. Smooth sailing! -Nico

[@rlofgren6787]

That was intense! So glad you made it and found Daniel. Eagerly waiting the follow up video.

[@warddeckers3288]

You have courage! Believe in it! Impressive to see you restoring your confidence in the dark, by singing and vocalising your Hope and Goal. And cry if you need to. Good (solo) Sailing!!! Ward 👍🏻🍀

[@svkusi]

ive been sailing since i was a kid, and race in all weathers in small boats, that is challenging and you absoloutely need your ducks in a row to singlehand, no wonder that was a scary experience, you were extremely unprepared. budy boats are no use to you in heavy weather, especially if solo, competence and confidence come with repetition and training, sail on a variety of boats with different people and know your boat and its quirks backwards. dont rely on engines, they stop you learning to handle a boat under sail in close quarters. this summer, our engine was inoperative so i sailed our 35 footter back into weymouth and put her alongside under sail. everyone was impressed... its how we always put our 19 ft dayboat away, and sure enough the fleet of squibs came in nd did exactly that. nobody thought anything of them doing it because they always do. i learned in the squib... i was putting dinghies alongside aged 13 in the same way, im now 47... if i cant do that theres something horibly wrong... keep going, and i reccomend a sailing tender, so you can sail more often. practice makes perfect. also racing is the best teacher, larry pardey started that way, thats how they had the skills to take a very similar boat twice round the world. it gets less scary once you feel competent and capable. more, ok this is serious, careful now, kind of scary , not out of control out of depth scary.

[@Ilia777kh]

Well done Nicole, after overthinking your fear you became brave , awareness, responsibility as brave as I expected and wrote.....I understood each feeling you passed, ,,,as solo sailor did trip from Amsterdam to Mallorca by ocean without autopilot and any instruments else except my mobile which same problems I can say the mood becomes like sea conditions in the beginning then ,,,all pass ,, I'm ocean...by the way as you did that trip with this boat and that problems you faced so imagine you have better boat and ready,,, you have now your life lessons forever,, good luck be brave,,may see YOU around the world,,cheers sailing is freedom

[@SupFromCz]

Check out her last video. You can see how poorly her autopilot cables are protected. It's wired in such a way that it's in danger of breaking + it's not waterproofed. The cable moves freely around the deck. Completely wrong.

[@Ilia777kh]

@SupFromCz may you never sail solo to understand all obstacles and control

[@SupFromCz]

@@Ilia777kh Nonsense. Her boat is in disrepair and not ready to sail safely. It poses a danger not only to herself but also to others. She should not leave the port without repairing critical safety components. The fact that she lacks a lifeboat or even a life jacket or basic emergency AIS proves that it is too early for her to venture far from the coast.

[@ScotChef]

Your no quitter, control your fear and keep going ✊🏻🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@brigittavanderveen6555]

If you can Controller your fear, fear will not be able to controle you. Phantastic how you Manager all difficulties. ❤🎉😊keep on going and enjoy all new experiances.

[@Garfield.Farkle]

Lots of lessons learned. It is hoped that getting a life jacket and a harness to clip into would be a good idea. That's not going to be the last time you fall asleep at night in the cockpit. Daniel should have hove to or circled back to keep you in sight. If you're going to sail together, then sail TOGETHER. I don't want to hear it about his boat being faster, either, and how he's being held back by a mere gurl.

[@johneyler8019]

You can do so much better than Daniel in the boyfriend department. I haven’t liked him since you two first started collaborating in your videos. He is a self centered and condescending partner. I can’t believe that he left you behind on your first sail! Drop him! Get away from him.

[@CanadianSeamonkey]

Dan's a douche bag.

[@rabsmcsporrin9572]

I agree

[@empress_Iam_divine]

I couldn't agree more. Dan is horrible for her. This wasn't the first time he abandoned her either.

[@pete.pilgrim9135]

I admire your spirit but you certainly were not prepared for this trip! I’ve never sailed on the ocean but I did sail for thirty years on the Great Lakes! Sailing is a dangerous experience! Best be careful or get some more experience! Be safe!

[@Betruetotgeyself]

Whoa! You said you will sell the boat? That’s new in formation from dans point of view? I admire your mental fortitude to not give up. That’s 75% of sailing.

[@NicholasShortell]

You are amazing. Single handing a sailboat on passages is quite a feat. Difficult and potentially dangerous. I started sailing during Covid and had hopes of sailing the Caribbean. Made it from Lake Erie to Georgetown, Great Exuma. I admire your courage and appreciate your perspective. Thanks for sharing your experience.

[@davidnichols147]

Wishing Daniel is able to line up on your entrance and you both anchor in a safe and secure Harbor.

[@tommyPencils08]

Did Bermuda to Newport RI last August with a friend. I’ve never been on a sailboat. Luckily my buddy was super experienced. Took us 4.5 days. No wind. Not much gas. But happy I did it.

[@goldenandgrand5270]

*You championed brilliantly through this challenging experience Nicole.* You’ve learn a lot about preparation and as time goes on and you get more equipment and experience, I’m sure you’re going become the most popular sailing girl on YT. Just a caution about the Bahamas though, I know the Bahamas will be fun as usual but please don’t stay too long there. There are way too many KZbinrs in the Bahamas and most are too boring to watch and your channel will not grow. I’m looking forward to see how your sailing story unfolds beyond the Bahamas and to see the exciting places you’ll visit and the people you’ll meet. Also, one day you’ll find the perfect mate for you. There is one out there that will not be so self-adsorbed and who would’ve had enough integrity and foresight to ensured you were securely safe and equipped enough to sail alone before a passage …and would’ve instantly pushed himself circling back to find you once he lost sight of you no matter if you told him to go ahead. You’ll realize this as you get more experience in life; meanwhile, have fun in the Bahamas!

[@robwerker4762]

Happy New Year lofley seal ❤🎉🎉

[@stephenkinsey4723]

Would never left you,how could he.

[@DanielTiffany-o8i]

I respect ✊🏼 🧐 your decision. I hope ya do well on the boat sail. It’ll be fun to see what else you get up to . Living on a sailboat ⛵️ is difficult in good conditions. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@apg25]

Great video! I felt your emotions even though I watched Dan’s video first and knew how it ended. Can you go into more detail on how buddy boats work? While he eventually found you, why did he lose contact, especially on your first trip in a new boat? I would also like to see a recap and a video on lessons learned.

[@reloadncharge9907]

Fun video! We have all been there….squalls suck huh! The Bahamas will be worth it! Thanks, Andrew

[@herb2968]

Such a brave woman! God bless you and keep you

[@letsdosomething9610]

The raw emotion is real it’s what I really like. My heart goes out to you, thank you for showing us the true emotional side of sailing.

[@ctndiaye1]

Your and Dan's storm videos made me anxious even though I knew you survived. Current get through them.

[@overkrank6149]

Baby don’t quit sailing you had a horrible experience and that’s clear and mostly happened bc of lack of planning and preparation that’s it babe keep it simple in your head next time prepare better think on things that could and will go wrong and try again better suited and experienced. That’s it babe keep your head up.

[@FreshDougan]

I guess Dan's manbun was too tight so he left you? Obviously you were unprepared but also showed alot of heart and resilience. Dan on the other hand should have helped more with prep. And if it was me I would NEVER leave someone behind, especially someone I claim to love. Hope everything works out regardless. And hope Dan can gain some humility.

[@UpstateDS]

Sailing solo can definitely be scary at times. Having robust and redundant systems on your boat can mitigate some of the fears. Auto pilot is imperative! I have hydraulic system with backup motor and lines. Most importantly, having multiple devices to know where you are and where youre going. You’re doing such an amazing job…..don’t quit!

[@DaleShirley-o1u]

It's OK to be afraid been there many times Amiga!❤

[@lodragan]

You don't have to go anywhere, if you're worried about arriving in the dark, you can always heave-to and wait for daylight before going into dangerous water.

[@mitchellbrown7935]

You rock!!!!

[@09591000]

Бодрая девчонка. Удачи.

[@conradboss]

Great video. 👍

[@traciesmith-h6f]

Nicole you’re a rockstar! My husband and crew took shelter there in Feb 2024 and long story short- That’s my shipwreck at Mathew town marina.

[@johnsail40]

You did a great job under tough conditions. Much easier to sail with extra hands I think 3 people is ideal for longer sails. You are much stronger than me, very good video. Thanks

[@roncampbell8634]

Lots of armchair sailors. I have sailed that passage. Good on you for leaving Luperon. That area is no joke. Learn from your mistakes and move on to the next challenge. The first jump is always the toughest.

[@PKAdventures]

watching the last episode when you were saying it was gonna be a calm and easy sail, after having already watched Daniel's episodes. it was like reading the last page of a mystery novel before starting the book, and wanting to warn the characters to get ready for what was about to happen

[@nigellyttleton7]

There is not a last page only a new episode. That's the beauty of it, the adventure instead of having the government dictate everything for you and the police on every road taking money off you 😮

[@Louis.Bouzon]

Hey! Thank G-d you made it safely. The first time I took out the Amadeus, an O'day 302 from Tarpon Springs to St Petersburg my water pump went, then the backstay snaped and allowed my cellphone to run low. I could see two storms approaching from the south, dropped anchor in about 40' of water. Around 2 AM the storm hit. To make a long story short I did not panic or freak out because I had faith in my vessel and equipment. I was also wearing a PFD with tether. I did not set up a jackline. I learned my lesson, look at the weather forecasts, prep and test your emergency equipment and reef the sails way before bad weather hits!!! There are so many things to go over and hopefully you've learned a good lesson. BTW, after two years sailing I made a pretty stupid mistake in November there will always be mistakes to be made, lessons to be learned. Happy New Year 2025, Health, No Fear, Full Sails, Calm Seas. Not all who wander are lost.

[@dmday9793]

Don't quit !!!!!

[@Darenbranch]

Absolutely quit………unless she ups her game otherwise it could end very badly

[@dmday9793]

Quit when things get tough? Its always tough, i wouldn't mind getting on board with her to help straighten things up.​@@Darenbranch

[@Darenbranch]

@ can’t argue with that 😏

[@SpartyTime]

I've been trying to convince Dan to get AIS for years. If you both had it, it would have been much less stressful. Great job getting past your first big solo jump. Things will get much easier when you get to the Bahamas. Don't worry, i think every cruiser has had the thought about selling their boat during rough times. Keep at it.

[@nigellyttleton7]

I wouldn't put the tiller next to my head though just in case you get a rogue wave hitting you would be unconscious I was fearful for you but great video.🎉

[@georgebarber1343]

Solo sailing without redundant systems????? You were lucky to learn this lesson so cheaply

[@BikerBarbu]

Thank you for sharing this amazing example of courage and sailing in some bad conditions Nicole. Also for being so true and real... You learned a lot during all this I'm sure. And its a good thing. You are a great captain and a great human being, never doubt this.

[@anonymous.notatall6419]

A captain is a military rank, I know service people who hate the way this title is just thrown out to anybody steering a boat now. Skipper is a more appropriate term. Great skipper? No, no she is not, if she actually becomes humble to saftey systems and hard learned proceedures and gets far far away from that wreck waiting to happen partner she is following, maybe.