Dating Indonesian men (dan cara PDKT sama cewek bule)

Di sini aku share tips buat para lelaki Indonesia yang mau PDKT atau pacaran sama cewek bule... and at the same time I have some tips for Bule girls as well..more warnings than tips actually :-s. Enjoy the video! I can't WAIT to read the comments!
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[@SachaStevenson]

I didn't want to speak for Indonesian women here but I'm so interested in reading all the comments. Turns out my Indo girls feel the same way! Yeah! We're all looking for that 20% I guess.

[@RajaPamungkas87]

hi sacha,,,actually iam admiring bule girls,,i don't know why,,, and someday i went to jakarta kota,,and there's a lot bule girls,,,i tried to talk with them, one girl from aussie feel uncomfortable with me,,maybe my grammar is bad, and i'm so nervous to talk with her,,,so it is end with she ask me to go away,,,ehehe.. next day i went to that place again,,and met girl from germany,,she so nice her english is same with me,,not bad and not that good,,but i'm to nervous to ask her phone number....so the conversation over without me getting her number,,,hehehe i wanna ask you,,is bule girls very easy give her number? i watch so many video in youtube like "how to ask phone number from random girl",,all that girls so easy to give her number,,,so what should i do? thank you ps: tho you are bule woman,,you are so Indonesia,,it maybe bcz your husband is Indonesian, right?

[@azchtein]

+Sacha Stevenson ko aku dengernya jilboob ya

[@rafidarramdhanr3487]

Rule to pick up any girl 1st: be good looking 2nd: be good looking 3rd: be good looking

[@yuurs7354]

+Rafidar Ramdhan R 4th and most of all, rich or super rich

[@natashaestellie]

Oh man you don't even have to date that guy to turn clingy. You can meet a dude who pulls this shit to every girl in hoping that one would actually respond well because all these guys care about is not being jomblo and have a girlfriend. It's fkn annoying when you're just trying to be polite and so you respond accordingly. "Hiii apakabar kamu udah makan belum" "Baik juga. Lo apa kabar?" "Baik" "Sibuk ya" "Hmmm" "Kok gak dibales" "Halooooo" "Hmmm.. lagi sama cowo ya :)" Being friendly to someone feels as if we're playing minesweeper waiting for someone to finally pull this shit out. They can also come in guise of a potential client or a business connection you have made or something. Damn diggity.

[@auliafebriana456]

((they don't care about grammar mistakes)) org indo mah salah grammar dikit aja langsung di judge abis2an lmao

[@TaufanDharmawan]

apa lagi orang indo yang soksok "nge-inggris"

[@bagasprakoso848]

It happens all the time

[@utuhmantap7321]

bener banget,, apalagi ngomong broken english..

[@rembrandfeter735]

+utuh mantap or rip english

[@abadlydrawnsnowman1648]

ironinya yang ngejugde itu rata rata orang indonesia juga one of those guys are me

[@reviamirah]

i'm not even bule but i really hate that "sudah makan belum?" thing lol just.... don't ever ask that guys, eating is a must and we are not going to like forget to do it

[@ainacarlina7523]

I do agree, kalimat sangat klise dan it doesnt work on some women, cewek lbih suka laki2 yg asik dan to the point dr pada yg sering basa-basi kosong

[@vaniad5843]

omg finally someone gets my point

[@dngarissan5378]

+angela van haha tru I feel like a pet when someone ask me sudah Makan belum lol

[@arrum8079]

Couldn't agree more!

[@ikanmaskokiaja]

+reviamirah why u have to be hates such a positive words .. chill girl

[@liskarony1561]

Jangankan cewek bule, saya yang asli indonesia raya saja, kalau Di chat udah makan belum? Jangan lupa makan, lagi ngapain, muakkkkk sekalii ouy

[@anisrahmawati5155]

Liska Rony bener pdhl yg nanya calon sendiri. Kl udah gt terpaksa jwb singkat2 saja.. "udh" titik

[@2c007]

sekali kali dijawab ...ngak makan ...saya menyerap energi dari matahari ....dan duit :D

[@hendrarahmadhani8389]

Liska Rony jangankan cewek, saya yang cowok asli kalau ditanya udah makan belum? Juga muaaakk.. Kecuali mau ditraktir makan ya nggak masalah... Hahaha..

[@JustSholih]

Liska Rony kamu udah makan belum? Makan gih nnti sakit mag loh, bisa" mati :(

[@vidvismmajority7033]

bagaimana kalo sudah eek belum?

[@attallavidonnyell6231]

sacha, bikin video romantis "how sacha and angga meet". penasaran nich gmn PDKT nya angga hehehe

[@pmbfit]

Took me over 10ish long years and couple of dates (pacaran) before I finally clicked to 1 girl that's my soulmate. The rule of thumb is "BE YOURSELF"! Chances are, you were born original, don't live and die as a fake! Be genuine and you'll get that 1 special person who will admire and adore you, and vice versa.

[@puppytraveler]

Daripada nanya 'udah makan belum?', mending nanya 'uang transferannya sudah masuk?'

[@MariaLeonietha]

1. "Sudah makan belum?" 2. Minjem duit sama pacar 3. Yakin banget cewek wajib nurut sama cowok Tragically, these are the most common characteristics that can be found among Indonesian men. Nggak cuma cewek asing doang yang geli sama hal-hal di atas. Cewek Indo juga banyak kok yang langsung mundur ketika ketemu cowok-cowok kayak gitu. Gak paham, kenapa cowok-cowok yang misoginis justru yang paling posesif dan nggak malu minjem duit atau minta dibayarin ini itu sama ceweknya. Something is very wrong when a guy believe that a girl should obey him, available when he need her, but also able to pay the bills.

[@gendengraven5049]

you mean, their stupidity is the only one that elite..... or like, Elitist wannabe

[@enugrahabharata]

you need to grow up be a grown woman

[@java7743]

bener bgt ,, gw aja sbagai cwe gak pnh minjem2 duit .. pengalaman sama cwo indo kbanyakan minjem duit tapi ujung2nya selingkuh. akhirnya saya nikah sama org prancis.

[@cervacio]

You should find different circle of men to hang out with. Karena temen2 laki saya pada bayarin semua tuh. Kebanyakan professional muda jarang (bukan gak ada) sekali yg mau minjem pacar/gebetannya.

[@aldosofyan3276]

Haha

[@jrbonzai30]

Lol this is so typical. I'm indonesian, but i often confuse why there's guys who says "love" in early relationship. Even when in "PDKT stage". It's weird. You don't even know her that well, it's not disney guys, seriously.

[@kevinkusuma]

Wow

[@jrbonzai30]

+kevin kusuma hi kus HAHAHA

[@TaufanDharmawan]

kalo i love you sih emang parah, too straight forward. jangankan ke cewek/cowok bule. ke sesama bangsa aja. tapi gak usah confuse mbak. kan kata pepatah. "cinta pada pandangan pertama" mungkin tuh cowok jatuh cinta sama mbak pas awal lirikan. haha

[@utuhmantap7321]

karena kebanyakn langsung jatuh cinta sama "wajah" bukan kpribadian yg membutuhkan waktu buat tau

[@noirsoulse]

Jessica Rusli well because in disney no matter what you are, a tea pot, a half fish, a queen to be, a friggin frog or a man with a hump, they ended up gets the princess...

[@andreena]

So freakishly accurate! The first Indonesian guy I dated literally sent me the 'Haeve you eat' text the first day and 'I love you' the second hahaha. I just wish my bahasa Indonesia was a little better so I could understand exactly what you're saying for the Indonesian men in this video - but, Sacha, I think I can trust you enough to show this to my Indonesian bf hahaha Right?! I love your videos so much, you are a godsend for us bule women - keep it up!

[@noirsoulse]

Andrea Fisher i hope you didnt ended up dating him... dont, just dont...

[@andreena]

No, I am not dating the 'I love you' on the second day after we met guy. But I am dating a different Indonesian man now & he is very sweet and I'm very happy. Thanks for your concern though! hahaha

[@azizkartasasmita7356]

hi...have you eat? hahahaha its very boring this is indonesia...its a habit

[@altachannel6065]

how about have you poop ?:)

[@andreena]

Yet to come across a 'have you poop' guy. :o

[@aghinaf]

I'm Indonesian & I'll run if a guy tell me "I love you" on the first date or too early. Mission abort 😂😂😂

[@Apawcalypse_Meow]

+Ajeng Ghina Farhani cos u're so hot, they can't resist of felling in love with u so fast hehe

[@ChottomatteUyachan]

+defragekb you're missing the "I love you" in your comment

[@Apawcalypse_Meow]

+ChottomatteUyachan oops, my bad! I'm not an indo guy so I'm just learning how to act indonesian

[@ChottomatteUyachan]

Ohhh... well, you definitely nailed it!

[@Kiev-in-3-days]

defragekb. Just don't.

[@zano_korellio]

As an Indonesian this is as accurate as can be. Loving how relatable your videos are!

[@taxol2]

There used to be classifieds in Poskota newspaper of guys seeking "prospective wives" who're obeydient, can cook, religious, good housekeeper, good with kids, etc. Those guys have better chances of finding maids "pembantu" rather than wives. I don't know is any newspaper still have those kinds of adds.

[@SachaStevenson]

+taxol2 hahaha...yuck.

[@freezingmania6603]

+Sacha Stevenson bagus videonya, saya ngerti tpi yg sblmnya ngk faham so ngk ada subtitle indonesianya

[@rubberchicken1219]

so true ahaha

[@lusianaye1952]

The kontak jodoh. Yes it’s ridiculous...

[@kim7990]

What year was that haha 😂🤣

[@yen-lyngloh144]

Oh my goodness, Sacha. I don't think it's an Indonesian guy thing. I think it's an Asian guy thing. I only understood a quarter of what you said but it already sounds super familiar.

[@nurulzamzami3108]

Hi Sacha! I literally just discovered your channel half an hour ago, and I found your videos highly relatable since I'm an Indonesian teenager living in United States this year (I'm on an exchange program). Aside from the fact that I felt attacked (in a good way, like I mean it's funny) by video kamu soal remaja Indonesia yang ngomong bahasa Indonesia dan Inggris campur-campur because I'm one of them, watching your videos with my host family ended up with a thorough discussion about the cultural differences between US and Indonesia. Thanks, and I truly enjoy your videos!

[@SachaStevenson]

+Nurul Zamzami Thanks so much! Enjoy your time in the states!

[@manuelabrasta]

aww. makin bagus format videonya. makin berwarna. love it

[@nadiaalmira4232]

Aku bukan bule tapi aku benci semua yg dilakuin laki2 di video ini

[@meghangleason93]

Hi sacha! I can relate to almost everything you said. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. It is a lot of drama but nothing is ever boring in this relationship. We both watched this video and I said to him it was sooooo true hahahahaha. Love that you made this video. It helps bule understand more about Indonesian man thought

[@nathanaelgavriel8135]

Thank You Sacha, your video has made me happy, but something you shall to know that indonesian definitely can't speak english as good as 'bule'. But your sentence "Kalau grammar belum terlalu lancar, jangan pakai itu, pakai yang biasa saja" make us feel "Yes, sacha's right" "If we can't speak english with all of the right grammar, don't do that" nanti dikira kita pamer. Thx Sacha !

[@KHAerisMan]

Oh shot !! this is amazing . I am totally out of touch with Indonesian culture. since I'm raised in texas, grew up in Chicago/boston and work in dc. . but damnnnn. this is so accurate even all the way out here I recognized the gem you spit out Sascha. I'm loving this. "interracial relationship is not a hostile colonization take over " 😆 the irony didn't escape me . you got yourself a new fan . Imma stalk you around and be that guy . (nah I'm too cool for that guy )

[@SachaStevenson]

+Yunus Khaerisman hahaha. Glad you relate!

[@KHAerisMan]

+Sacha Stevenson the animation are on point too. thats awesome sis. you do you! preach on

[@yohanesparamartha1692]

i swear, i did what Sacha said here when i has traveled in Bali. lagi duduk-duduk sendirian di Pantai Kuta macam anak ilang, ada cewek bule minta tolong diphotoin. So, take some picture of her. Then i try to make a convertation (gw ga pernah lakukan ini sebelumnya). Before i go to Bali alone, my friend in Jakarta tell me that bule kalau mereka senyum ke kita harua kita balas senyum. Kejadian di malam sebelumnya saat seorang cewek bule bilang hai ke gw dan gw ga ladenin ga boleh terjadi lagi. So, i said her to take my picture too. Then, (with a little nervouse) i ask her name, from where. Surprise, she answer every question. Pertanyaan2 sepele sih, film apa yang dia suka, apa yang dia suka dari Bali, dsb. But i make a lil bit mistake. That is, I much talked about my self. Tapi luckinya, dia baik. Akhirnya dia minta tolong diantar beli parfum...ah ya, berhubung murah gw beliin aja sekalian. I swear, cuma 20rb ngapain pelit. hahahaha. Sayangnya, waktu itu dia mau balik ke Rusia. Dan tidak sempat bertukar nomor telpon. Until now, i search her on FB with some Rusian Bule in Bali. Bukan untuk diajak nikah, because i knew she was marriage now. Hanya untuk bersahabat. I love having friend around the world and I love the peoples. I love you guys. God Bless You. Ah Ya, That is my picture with her. thanks

[@Violleteart]

Yohanes Paramartha thx for sharing yota

[@djandelmarbun4154]

Who cares anyway..

[@ryanayyouby6427]

Saya sedih bacanya

[@yosbudi5708]

Mengarang Indah...berbakat bang

[@sugawara5011]

Cara membuat bule mengejar Anda: Pertama, datangi si bule pas lagi mau bertransaksi.. Kedua, ajak bicara.. Ketiga, ambil dompetnya.. Keempat, kabur SEKARANG JUGA!!!

[@Dark_Lantern_]

WooZiiFuZii This... actually.... makes me laugh.... Kampret, gue ketawa ngakak nih 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@aforismedm1129]

Sugawara hahahah

[@viralinside4957]

Mengejar. Literally.

[@olendita5477]

Gue suka komen lu

[@AhmadMaulana-nt9jn]

Sugawara anjeeeeng WKWKWKWKWKWKWK kocak anjay

[@jennifert7403]

seriously though i'm indonesian , and yass you are so true .. not just bule girls si actually , every girls hate those type of text like "ud makan belom? lagi apa?" ya bruh .. mending beliin aing makanan , kebanyakan bacot nanya2 ud makan belom .. 😂 and they "obey" part OMG I HATE THAT SHIT SO MUCH .. 😢

[@villaboreh9916]

Hahaha... 90% Agreed, I'm an indonesian (balinese) man that been stay long in australia, and once i back and work in Bali, i have a friend ask to me... "why my boy friend always want to borrow money?"... i cannot say that is our mentality but many (not all) indonesian peoples see that foreign are more rich base on jobs, salary / business bla bla bla... but honestly they not see how the process is... GOOD JOB!!

[@nothing_imposible90]

bali di mana nya bro

[@anna_m59]

Indonesian man definetly focusing get money out from bule girlfriend. That’s probably the higest priority for them.

[@redsox7897]

80% of Indonesian male you know say 'I love you' on the first date? You must really be in a wrong crowd.

[@nicholaskevin1698]

The thing is the Indonesian equivalent for "love" is confused with several words.

[@cikacido9185]

No she isn't

[@jimmyjim5yearsago376]

Most of Indonesia I know didnt say "cinta". I think think they say "suka" atau "sayang"

[@angelinedarien2620]

Eddie Alvarez Agree 😀

[@mascuenk9027]

Beberapa kata indonesia memang gak ada atau beda makna dalam bahasa inggris

[@lilith7870]

Hahahaha cewek indonesiapun bakal marah kalo diatur2 bajunya atau disuruh nurut

[@fabadila]

nyatanya banyak yg suka diatur kok apalagi disuruh hijab lol

[@yusufarvisco3606]

+Cubic In Can bener pas udah lama jadian malah cwo jutek dan cwe yg nanya mulu

[@lilith7870]

Well, mungkin itu cewek lo aja. Gue sih ogah. Baru pacar udah ngatur, apalagi suami nanti, neraka.

[@mangofamily8257]

setuju bangeet jengs! gue juga pas mantan gue ngatur2 ngelarang gw pergi ke bali buat nikahan sahabat gw, ya gw ttp pergi lah. sebodo amet dia ngancem putus, lha emak bapak gw aja ridho gw pergi ke bali sendirian. pergi pake duit sndiri kagak pake duit dia, kenapa dia yg ribet ngatur. wekkk

[@Granola616]

Well, klo lu gak mau di atur / di suruh nurut sama suami / pacar ya sama aja ujung ujungnya lu masuk neraka karna gak mau nurut / di atur sama suami, yg bisa ngebimbing/nuntun rumah tangga lu kan cuman suami bukan elu ya menurut gua sendiri sih wajar klo cowok ngatur asalkan ngatur'nya demi kebaikan si ceweknya itu supaya menjadi lebih baik mah gapapa u know wht i mean? tapi kalo emang ceweknya gak mau di atur sama sekali ya apa boleh buat mybe gak ada cowok yg mau ngertiin atw ngikutin alur kamu :/

[@kartikasetyowati8175]

Waduh mbak sacha iki reeeekkk..🤣 It's both the good analysis, the good tips.. you know our people so well.. mantuuuuul👍

[@putriwardhany1260]

'dating Indonesian men is like...much more drama' hahahaha 😂😂😂

[@wanikentang4684]

more like everlasting drama

[@adrianwakeisland4710]

Much better watch then naked showing their uncensored boyhoods than having a relationship with them.

[@angelinedarien2620]

Putri Wardhany hahah Its true

[@zodiakkamu4804]

Sorry telat 5 tahun, menurut aku sama aja bule atau indo 😂😂 pernah dating bule OMG drama banget

[@dimasfajar3825]

Perasaan saya dapat kenalan bule2 di Bali gampang banget. 1. Jangan kaku 2. Kamu harus tau bule sukanya apa (mabok) 3. Go to beach club 4. Pesen minum (jangan sampai mabok, setengah mabok aja) 5. Turun ke dance floor 6. Joget paling heboh/lucu (bule suka itu) 7. Liat respon sekitar (liat bule yg ngeliatin lo terus ketika lo lagi joget lucu, kebanyakan bule senyum2 sendiri ngeliatin tingkah polah lo joget g karuan, deketin target bule yang senyum2 itu tandanya dia udah open to talk, bahkan malah kamu yang sering di samperin diajak separingan jogetnya, pernah sampe diajak ke next party dia selanjutnya) 8. Open to talk (bulenya udah open nih, lo ajak ngobrol aja basa basi standartlah, nama, dari mana, sama siapa aja, berapa hari di bali, dll) 9. Perkenalkan Indonesia kepada bule itu, kasih tau tempat2 bagus di Bali (mengajukan diri mendadak jadi tour guide / translator dia selama di Bali, bule tertarik itu, dan minta tukeran nomer, dikasih dong 😁) 10. Besoknya di chat atau malahan kamu yang duluan di chat 11. Be yourself tapi yg sopan 12. Beda budaya (bule sukanya yg unik, kok beda ya, kok kamu care ya beda sama bule2 cow pada umumnya, yalah di negara dia semua orang sibuk dengan urusannya masing2, setelah beberapa hari ketemu dan lo tanya, gi apa, udah makan belum, bagi dia itu unik, kok care gini, bedalah pokoknya dari budaya mereka, itu membuat mereka tertarik) 13. Udah tertarik sama lo 14. Lanjutin sendiri mau dibawa kemana terserah lo ✌️🤣 Sekian dan terimakasih, selamat mencoba, semoga berhasil.

[@morwanggg]

Sacha. This is TOTALLY a great video! I know I'm not bule but THIS! This is the answer to why I don't put Indonesian men on my first list. Stop asking me whether I've eaten or no, sending me lots of texts and apologising for "disturbing" cuz I'm not always on my phone godamnit, and said LOVE on the second date :/ I don't have problems with dating Indonesian men, think some of them are very handsome, with their dark skin colour, hmm... but this kind of behaviour annoy the shit out of me. I really hope lots of Indonesian guys watch this video and do some reflection. Thanks much Sacha!

[@nyomanmardiana2399]

Who cares? Yes u are in a right choice for not put Indonesian Men in your first list,cuz none of them fit in your big hole lol,

[@putraortega5717]

@@nyomanmardiana2399hahaha good job brow...

[@manusiabiasa9191]

really? 80% cowo indo suka minjem uang ke pacarnya? wow....pengetahuan baru buat gw yang cowok.

[@wanikentang4684]

actually all girls are like that, not only foreigners, but indo, chinese indo, european, I have ever experienced with all of them(but ofc not at the exact same time), they were all have those behaviour you mentioned. The key is only one imo, guys must respect his gf.

[@ilmupiano]

Sejak gak bahas political things Ibu Sacha jadi makin makin keren lagi.. bener bener great content. Subscribe lagi ah~

[@AgusHasibuan]

i'm not really interest in western girl, but this tips is nice...

[@SachaStevenson]

+Agus Hasibuan Thanks Agus

[@grankensteinfrokernocken2907]

+Sacha Stevenson how if lesbian want to get "lesbian bule" 😆😆😆

[@Fukuro_1406]

+Grankenstein Frokernocken 😆😆😆😆 boleh tuh wwwwww

[@grankensteinfrokernocken2907]

Ruki Kagami u lesbian juga? Jadian yuk 😆😆😆

[@grankensteinfrokernocken2907]

Sacha Stevenson eh sacha... jelasin dong tata cara perkawinan luar ... maksudnya pengantin pria harus bayar apa aja... trus kalau ceweknya apa aja. Di indonesia sering ribut tuh masalah bgt. Seolah2 perkawinan si cowok... tamunya yg cowok aja... and itu sering tuh keluarga dari pihak mempelai ceweknya didepak suru pergi kalau itu perkawinan yg ngadain pihak cowoknya and vice versa .... tolong jelasin seharusnya sopan santunnya gimana... coz nonton perkawinan luar keliatannya ga ampe ribut2 kek di indon... indon mah ikut2 perkawinan bule tapi ancur... malah kesannya jd ga sopan bener. REQUEST SACHA.... tlg jelasin THANK YOU !!!!

[@ArifMunandarStory]

Enak nonton videonya, jadi terbiasa dengar bahasa inggris yang pengucapannya simple-simple..

[@MrButong15]

you're talking about Indonesian teenage boys not the men, :p

[@adrianwakeisland4710]

Mr Buthong the men you mean are boys, girls or gays?!

[@cetarbahana5843]

Kelakuan menyebalkan cowok indonesia kalau PDKT cewek lewat sms. Isi nya: hai, sorry ganggu ya, sudah makan belum, you very busy, why you not reply my message, why you not answer my call, kamu tinggal dimana, boleh kenalan Gak, aku cinta kamu pada kenalan pertama. Kelakuan cowok indonesia ketika pacaran. 1. Mengekang perempuan. 2. Menuntut perempuan harus jadi penurut 3. Pencemburu 4. Kirim teror sms kalau si cewek sedang jalan sama orang lain Kelakuan cowok indonesia kalau pacaran sama cewek bule 1. Minjam duit 2. Si cowok merahasiakan alamat rumah nya 3. Lebih banyak drama saat pacaran

[@AdiWaru]

tapi rata rata cewe bule (abg) disini (bali), ngeliat cowo lokal yang pertama mesti badannya atletis dulu, berotot gituuu (this is the requirement PRE-PDKT) setelah itu baru bisa chat.

[@Blanctify]

+Adi Waru iya dong siapa yg gasuka badan bagus?

[@spinkicker27]

+Blanctify Berarti gak salah ya kalau cowok ngeliat fisik cewek dulu

[@Blanctify]

+Ilham Maulana memang ga salah kok

[@soehokgie]

orang mau pdkt tuh pasti nya ada yg disuka dari fisik nya. jangan bilang langsung udah lihat kepribadian nya, emang ahli nujum?? anda juga mau PDKT ma cewek, pasti tertarik ma yg ada di fisik kan?

[@ilhamarsanto5516]

Hahahaha. Its not about muscle. Its about how good your energy is.. so, if you have good energy. You can easily talk with every girls all around the world. And then go to the next stage brooo..

[@kelambine]

tinggal di indonesia punya pasangan orang lokal, ya pastinya menguntungkan lah, akan sangat terbantu dari sisi solve problem, yg penting step2 kecocokanya n masing2 nyaman dah terpenuhi

[@rooslauraalqarni6357]

yaay we like your videos are so nice but please 😢 have English subtitles for the Indonesian part

[@SachaStevenson]

+lola koka Ahhh. I'll have to do closed captions/subtitles later.

[@nazjudge]

your tips doesnt only work for western women tbh, works for me too. important tip: have a background check on the men first yall!

[@HMClagi]

And now a second video, made by your hubby, telling us about being with a bule girl. That would be awesome. BTW, also in my situation (bule guy with Indonesian girl) the list of things is endless.

[@SachaStevenson]

good idea! i agree!

[@fndrnt]

Thx Sacha! Saya menikmati menonton youtube kamu. Penasaran banget dengan performance kamu di show nya Ernest. Gonna watch it ASAP. Stay make good content ya... =))

[@titadela7665]

Semua yang sascha bilang adalah FAKTA 😂

[@yosbudi5708]

Ah ngga juga itu stereotyping aja....

[@DuckKnight]

@Sacha Stevenson you have just described most Muslim men in SEA region!!! Not only Indonesian men, but these traits are evident in most Singaporean / Malaysian men too

[@potato8273]

Could you add english subtitles?? I can't understand half of it and i really want to :(

[@ganesht2691]

If there is subtitles in English, it would be great...I like your videos and had been to Indonesia but not much familiar with the language...

[@imronfauzi2416]

i merried already, i still asking my wife "sudah makan belum?" or she asked me the same question, its just an ice breaker for conversation and kind of attention for eachother

[@veetha29]

I am indonesian girl and I really dislike the question like "sudah makan belum", "lagi ngapain?", "kerja dimana?". That's sooo not creative. I expect you to say things like "hobi kamu apa?" atau film kesukaan kamu apa. Come on man be more creative. I think I am more into English speaking man than Indonesian man.

[@Apawcalypse_Meow]

I'm a bule guy dating with an indo girl and all the stages are the same! But the stage #3 came up not in a few months of relationships but in 1-2 weeks.

[@finalcutgod]

What does bule mean???

[@edwinsaavedra2255]

Joshua Laplap TV I'm not Indonesian, apparently it means foreigner I'm not sure only white or any not Indonesian people

[@adrianwakeisland4710]

Bule means any foreigners, specifically whites such as spaniards.

[@AviTaRi142]

I'm an Indonesian girl...but my way of thinking is mostly like that of Bule girls xD

[@Vonfafa3]

AviTaRi good indonesian thinking habits are too close minded

[@simongaywanjala598]

Same but im a male version of u smh

[@krisbowgaming7129]

honey?

[@aprilsweetly2651]

Same here🤭

[@antonikho3444]

bagus nih videonya mbak sascha.. boleh bikin part 2 tips2 pdkt sama cewe bule..

[@sensen5113]

Terimakasih karena saranmu ini aku sudah pacaran sama bule asal italy.. Terimkasih :) Ti Amo

[@simbolon_36]

Wow.. gmna caranya gan?? Dri Apps kah ketemuan nya??

[@putraortega5717]

Bohong😂

[@gueimem8133]

miss sacha....akhirnya video anda ''asik juga''

[@sjbaliyt]

TAPI... sy mau tanya nih, sacha kmu sdh makan blm? ^_^

[@dirmaniman4738]

It's super weird dan nyebelin.. wkwkwkk

[@nicoshine3353]

Keren dehhh....gaya bicaranya lucu ga bikin bosen dengernya..sukses teruss ya

[@HaikalHajja]

well, for me,, since i was kind of grown up with elmo instead of my local wayang.. i cannot denied that you're 80% true, still.. it also applies to 80% of indonesian woman,, so like it or not, i gotta go by the games rule here,, haha i dated Japanese once, while for most indonesan woman i know i do the very low standard of "pdkt".. she say that i was quite presistant.. oh dont worry, give me the tips,, im that 20% of population,, i guess.. i dunno..

[@ainsyahiraamir204]

I've been in a relationship with an Indonesian guy and I am totally agree with all the fact especially from the first to the fourth stage!!

[@yemo5316]

bgmn cara PDKT sma cwok bule? tipsnya dong mba Sacha

[@zhiellasabrina2555]

hampir sama kurang lebih cara pdktnya hehe

[@bene9810]

Yhuend Achmad tembak ja lgsung 😂

[@imamsofyan9138]

Yhund Achmad..langsung aja nyatakan..krn cow rata2 lebih seneng d ungkapkan trima gak trima urusan belakang..tp dgn catatan jadi diri sendiri dan jgan buat kesel si cowok.buang istilah cow duluan..helo ibarat kucing kasi ikan kucing mana g doyan trimakasi

[@olendita5477]

Original aja mbak. Klo jodoh ga kemana wkwkwk

[@yunikartika8215]

+Andre Os stupid dude

[@cml1578]

sacha buat video seperti ini lagi dong.. tips PDKT sama cowok bule. hehehe.. kadang orang indo itu suka gak sadar tentang hal-hal aneh yang mereka obrolin pas PDKT, jadi lucu pas ngelihatnya. dan jadi tau juga cara berpikir bule itu gimana saat di tanya2 sama orang indo. orang indo kan kadang pertanyaanya suka ngaco.hehehe sukses terus videonya yaa sacha..

[@baladakehidupan7567]

Teh Sacha, pernah ada yang bilang mirip Rose Byrne gak? asli mirip pisan, haha :D

[@Yanuarual]

+regal (Sacha malah udah bikin video nya.)

[@baladakehidupan7567]

ooo... berarti saya yg kudet. maafkan. kemaren baru nonton x-men, liat Rose Byrne jadi inget Sacha

[@nurikairliza7297]

iyaaaa mirip rose byrne yak. apalagi matanya hehe

[@cahidijoyoraharjo7833]

Baru ngeh sekarang gw. Pantesan serasa familiar gitu mukanya.

[@yasicaangelina4711]

Nah terjawab, aku Sampe pusing ngingat mirip siapaaa artis Hollywood kaya pernah lihat ,

[@sambalbalado2704]

klo di indonesia malah aneh kalau ngechat orang 'hay, apa kabar (how are you)?' soalnya sapaan ini untuk kawan lama yg baru berjumpa

[@cahidijoyoraharjo7833]

Baru kencan pertama udah bilang cinta. Wkwkwkwkwkwk! Kencan kedua ngajak nikah dah! Orang Indonesia generasi sekarang kan pada lebay semua.

[@vincentalex7280]

+Cahidi Joyo Raharjo karena standar untuk orang indonesia itu wajib nikah dan saya gak tau kenapa

[@cahidijoyoraharjo7833]

Vincent Alex Bukan cuma di Indonesia, kok. Di seluruh Asia emang gitu. Kan itu memang prinsip orang Timur. Beda sama orang Barat.

[@WidyawanWidarto]

blame the shitnetron such as ganteng ganteng sekong

[@Kiev-in-3-days]

Haha Cahidi tidak mengerti tujuan bilang cinta.. tujuannya bukan nikah tapi dapat sesuatu yang lain...

[@Kiev-in-3-days]

Gak ada prinsip orang Timur untuk lebay dan gombal norak begini. Saya pernah tinggal di 6 negara Asia sifat ini hanya saya saksikan di Indonesia... dan di Itali (padahal bukan negara timur kan).

[@NOKKUNOKKU]

youtubers kesukaan bgt niih dri dulu materinya selalu ok

[@DeoFernandes]

Hey still like your blog, just an advice to tone down on the jilbab reference, it is a bit stereotyping... But overall the message are still spot on 😃😃😃

[@raissaemily292]

halo kak, tipsnya keren hahah, buat lagi dong kak yang untuk berteman dengan bule... love ya x

[@slimjadey1493]

halfway thru i realized you werent even speaking english but i was still watching so intently 😂😂

[@adichristian]

omg, is that you in that photo?? stunning!!!!

[@slimjadey1493]

Adi Christian yes it is , thank you !

[@adichristian]

Slimjadey thank you is not enough for that compliment girl! I want burgers! Where are you slimjadey? not in indonesia don you??

[@adichristian]

Why that took so long to reply the message? If not burger, then ur phone number! It's that simple... nah,Im just kidding though Owh, you thought all indonesian guys are like in the video above?? Hey, not all of them! I studied abroad for years! not so like in the vid above, n Im not bad looking either.. I just want to get new friends slimjadey, saw your picture at comment section, I thought wow, she must be an angel from seventh sky or somrthing! Haha..anyway slimjadey, is that ur real name? Anyway I just thought you look beautiful in that photo and thats it girl! Bye..

[@prshendra]

Adi Christian sian beud lu tong

[@putuendy741]

Hi mbak Sacha Stevenson. saya putu endy orang Bali (laki - laki), saya ingin bertanya tentang wanita bule (asing) terutama wanita barat (eropa/amerika). secara lebih detail (rinci), bagaimana karakter wanita barat ? bagaimana cara berpikir mereka ? apa yang membuat mereka (wanita bule) hanya berpikir tentang dirinya sendiri (tentunya berbeda dengan wanita Indonesia) ?. Jujur saya pernah kenal dengan wanita Italia, sesuai dengan konten video ini. wanita bule susah untuk diatur mungkin ada beberapa yang bisa bahkan tidak bisa sama sekali. yang saya bingung adalah jika saya mencintai wanita Italia itu atau menikahinya, dan dia susah diatur. bagaimana dengan wanita itu untuk bisa mengikuti budaya saya (Indonesia/Bali). karena pola pikir mereka saja sudah berbeda. saya mohon pertanyaan dan pernyataan saya ini dijawab :), atau kalau mbak Sacha mau tolong buat konten video yang membahas tentang wanita bule (terutama orang eropa/amerika) agar saya bisa memahami lebih detail dan mempelajarinya. terima kasih untuk konten-konten video yang sudah pernah dibuat karena itu selalu membuat saya tertawa hehehe... :D

[@mhanif7452]

jangan pedulikan gramar saat ngmong sama bule , ok deh

[@SachaStevenson]

+hanif jest Yes. Yang penting ngerti dan komunikasinya langcar.

[@mhanif7452]

+Sacha Stevenson thanks

[@arindapradisty]

true. you have to speak fast to get their respect

[@TheJustbudi]

+Sacha Stevenson saya kalau nonton film sama tv series, kadang nemu adegan di mana salah satu tokoh salah grammar, trus pas ada temennya yg ngoreksi malah yg dikoreksi itu jadi sedikit kesel. bahkan saya pernah denger istilah grammar nazi. is this really happen in the real life?

[@JonhEdward]

+budi winawan gmammar nazi :v grammar nya kbanyakan org jerman :v parah

[@sergiussarmose7191]

youre the second western who said grammar ain't much needed in conversation..like it...ngebuat anak anak yg bhs inggris jd bahasa kedua jadi lebih woles ngomong..thanks

[@FajarMayArdo]

Bule banyak kesamaan dengan buto rambut geni. Jarang dlm kisah pewayangan yg nikah dengan buto

[@andrewsianipar3546]

hai Sacha, i really like ur video. but i think it could be more comfortable if you replace the sound of " broken bottle" with another sound because it so much shock me. but over all i really enjoy ur video and about all ur honesty. keep spirit!

[@TheBishonenLover]

ya ampyun... mbak sasha... kok bener bgt yah...?? tapi kayak nya ga cuman ce bule deh yang feel annoyed ama co macam gt... like WTH! suruh bayarin cicilan mobil! GOSH! gue buang ke laut tuh co kayak gt. masih pacaran ajah udh pinjem2 duit.., HAHAHA

[@ihsanfadhilah8992]

TheBishonenLover kalau misalnya pnjem duit karena kebutuhan penting bayar kuliah, di sampinh itu si cowok emang udah sering juga ngeluarin duit kayak buat hadiah atau jalan jalan. Bagaiamana mendurut anda nona? Saya tertarik riset soal ini ni

[@ingrenadya]

setuju Sasha !! ini juga berlaku sama cowok Indonesia yang pengen deketin cewek yang udah lama pacaran atau deket sama bule

[@enugrahabharata]

u picky goody two shoes worthless shit

[@pc4907]

Waahhh, cowo turki lebih parah, blm juga 1 jam udah bilang i love you, bohong nya lebih parah dari indo, dan tukang selingkuh

[@dhiarustam]

Hahahaha cwok India jg kyak gitu, cepet jatuh cinta

[@putraortega5717]

@@dhiarustamhahaha wajar mbak yah rajanya drama cinta kan India mbak

[@dhiarustam]

@@putraortega5717 hehehe bner banget,, beda sm korea susah blg Cinta ngasihnya cuma clue aja 😂

[@amimasumi1529]

itulah mengapa aku katakan betapa banyaknya bahasa di Indonesia, terima kasih kamu sudah mau belajar bahasa Indonesia dan Sunda

[@ehsansultani523]

I want to come in Indonesia and find a love there

[@brendalizama4092]

ehsan sultani lol

[@aprilsweetly2651]

Good luck 😉

[@reactivex49]

'Udah makan belum?' itu sama dengan "small talk" nya orang Indo. Karena orang indo doyan makan, makanannya unik-unik dan percakapannya bisa berkembang dari situ. Sama kayak orang bule ngomongin cuaca. 'Its a nice weather, isn't it?' udah tau cuaca bagus masih nanya.

[@angelinedarien2620]

Saya dari Malaysia ,selalu ke Indonesia urusan kerja ,sya x faham lelaki sana kulit sangat tebal 😡seumur hidup saya x pernah lelaki minta duit ,di Indonesia baru kenal sampai cari saya di hotel pinjam duit Rp 2000 hari2 dtag mahu isi minyak motor ,ada lagi lelaki kerja polisi pun begitu juga minta duit pinjam ingat sya ini ATM ,isteri atau kekasih mereka .Ajak sya pergi makan di kedai malahan bawa keluarganya sekampung. Maaf sya bukan burukan Indonesia tapi pernah terjadi realiti nya,sya lagi suka kawan sama kerja biasa saja daripada berkawan orang ada kerja di kantor @ goverment ,tiada duit . Oh Sorry Im not gils Stupid 😀sya juga kerja cari duit penat

[@HandiADilaga]

Masih kurang paham dengan ceritamu :/

[@angelinedarien2620]

Nam hanth41 lelaki di Indonesia suka minta duit sama perempuan ajak makan bawa sekampung nenek mama isteri ..

[@ketutwiadnyana2610]

Hi Sacha, sudah makan? Bagus juga nasihatnya. Dan bener kan, itu universal. Bukan utk cewe bule aja. Cuman masalah bahasa, itu konteksnya di Indo saja ya. Kalau ada kalian2 yg mau ke luar negeri (misalnya USA nih) dan ingin sukses di pendidikan, bisnis, profesi, dll, bahasa itu biasanya dijadikan ukuran tingkat pendidikan kalian. Jadi ya harus belajar berbahasa yang bagus. Tapi kalau dalam konteks bersosial di indonesia, ya lebih bagus main labrak aja biar tetap seru. Curhat dikit nih. Kita2 ini jengkel banget deh kalau ada pejabat ke luar negeri dan ngomongnya ngga becus. Lebih baik ngomong bahasa indonesia saja yang baik dan benar lah. Daripada pakai bahasa yg tidak tepat dan kosakata yang dangkal. Biarlah si penterjemah yg menyampaikan maksud pembicara sepenuhnya (apalagi kalau di wawancara). Sudah negara korup, pejabatnya juga kelihatan ngga pinter. Wah rasanya capnya gimana gitu ....

[@511dydy]

Singkatnya... Cowo Indonesia katro... termasuk saya... hahaha

[@megamanaluable]

i watched the first three minutes, and it's soooooooooooo accurate Sacha lol good job!

[@lintaskalbarvlog]

Day 1. Ask for love Day 2. Ask for making love Day 3. Dont ask me again, Lu Gue End!

[@bangerUCFhRepd-xAOVpf6MsRgfE9Q]

tq miss,,,,,heheheheh saya sering ketemu bule bahkan tiap mlam masalahnya w kerja di skygarden bali dan apa slahnya ketemu mreka yang sering ngawur krna drunk jdi saya berkesimpulan kenpa saya gak mencari pacar bahkan istri dri luar negeri indonesia

[@siksaalamkubur6473]

bule mmg tdk suka basa basi bule g butuh cinta bule cm butuh harta bule suka lihat cowo sukses saat km knalan sma cewe bule dia pasti akan memandang latar blakang km. klo sekira ny masa dpan km suram boro2 pny mobil mending kelaut aja so yg terpenting adalah jd lah org Indonesia g perlu harus jd sprti org bule dan cintai produk indonesia

[@siksaalamkubur6473]

km salah msh bnyk cewe indonesia yg mau mencintai cowo miskin g ky bule hampir semua ny matre. Km bs lihat prank d youtube bagitu dia melihat cwo itu ky mendadak prilaku ny menjadi murahan yg td ny benci tiba2 eng ing eng

[@siksaalamkubur6473]

Haha g mgkin broh cwe indonesia ky gitu mgkn ada tp sgt sdikit atau bahkan mgkn g ada cwe Indonesia itu pny rasa malu yg tinggi jgn samakan dgn bule

[@siksaalamkubur6473]

Sdh termasuk km

[@siksaalamkubur6473]

Hahaha

[@altachannel6065]

gaby aku orang sederhana km mau ga knalan ma aku?

[@karianto1829]

Suka sekali nich ma sis cacha hehe Minta rekomendasiin donk jika mau aplikasi aplikasi yang seperti apa karna saya suka sekali learn enghlish

[@jejenrojabi787]

semoga saya dpt jodoh bule yg sholehah 😁

[@rulyrules79]

One time when I was on board the ship, I am eating Indonesian fried noodle accompany by girl from netherland ( tentunya pake nasi 😊) i offer her to tasted if she like it. & She like it so much, so we're eating meal together in one plate with little chat & finally we're dating. That is the first time I am dating "bule". Bener katanya shasa, intinya kita cuma harus jd diri sendiri, honest, humble & polite. Ga cuma bule, siapapun akan suka koq.

[@abadonvalak8985]

i've dated one indonesian guy and he is very possesive & he is i can say 90% exactly like what sasha said except that he doesnt ask money from me and he is not married and he took me to meet his mom. but he wanted to marry me after a week of dating. 😂😂

[@primahariady8286]

Abadon Valak are you a bule girl? if so then it's your right to get all the love. it might seems to be a bit possessive, that's because us indo men takes Great Pride for our bule girls.

[@DollySachesCox88]

Prima Hariady i wish i dated you. But the guy i dated was a bit i can say not the kind of guy i would ever want to spend the rest of my life with 😅😅😭

[@bunskyel]

Abadon Valak a good indonesian man wilk ask marry soon.

[@budibudiman7429]

Bener, orang luar itu gak peduli dengan grammar, pas dia ngeliat kita orang asia, mereka juga paham kalau bahasa inggris bukan bahasa ibu untuk kita, jadi mereka bisa mengerti dan paham akan hal itu.

[@rizqonradityo2220]

intinya kebanyakan cowok indo itu alay dan kebanyakan cewek indo itu suka digombalin ahaha

[@firose3805]

Beda kalo bagi sebagian muslim tak memerlukan dating, cukup mengenali keluarga nya, pekerjaan, riwayat sekolah, apalagi yg sdh menempuh pendidikan agama, akhlak nya bisa diperoleh sumber nya dari keluarga, bertemu sebentar, menikah. Tak perlu pusing, misal, seorang wanita tau calon pria nya adalah ustadz Abdul Shomad, wanita muslimah mana yg tak tertarik?

[@riesmokinhawt]

seriously im an asian american living in indo and indo guys scare the shit out of me based on experience. i swear. i am now happily dating an american man. so. sorry guys. u guys should stop being creeps.

[@enugrahabharata]

Asian American women are white guys-enamored no good losers

[@zenithdawg1695]

dan sekarang bagaimana saya mendapatkan teman bule ? dan atau (lebih dari) itu

[@addinpa]

how about "how to PDKT with a bule guy" ? and yes im a guy.

[@SachaStevenson]

+addinpa grinder

[@waasizaziz5167]

+Sacha Stevenson hahahahha grinder wtf sasha uahahahha

[@aishafukushima1832]

+Sacha Stevenson grinder is for gay hahahaha

[@addinpa]

+Sacha Stevenson grindr is only for hook ups not date / boyfriend material 😥

[@waasizaziz5167]

*****​ seriously?? Your bf must be a handsome man xo

[@exoticazza]

waduh..., jadi gitu toh mbak caranya..., banyak salahnya dong saya kemaren2..., bisa aja si mbak sacha nih...

[@ddtk85]

hi.... udh mandi blm?

[@rayrendis2114]

😂😂

[@ariasang396]

Dani belum 😂😂

[@anisyayolanda4285]

Sudah 😂

[@dianproject]

hi uda mandi belom

[@TheGoldgoat]

Blooooom, masi bau nih ketek...

[@511dydy]

Maybe the first tip should be: Make sure your Indonesian man is not married, engaged, liberal, open minded, confident, not too religious, etc

[@Hrd-zy5vh]

kinda agree

[@setiawanjoko5103]

Seharusnya waktu anda menerangkan anda harus lebih banyak menggunakan Bahasa Indonesia,karena anda memberikan Tips Untuk orang Indonesia bukan untuk orang bule ,Dan perlu anda ingat Kemampuan Masyarakat Indonesia menggunakan Bahasa Inggris masih Rendah.Semoga bermanfaat untuk anda

[@AdiPrimandaGinting]

Belajar dong bro

[@setiawanjoko5103]

@@AdiPrimandaGinting saya akan pulang ke Indonesia untuk les bahasa inggris,saya tinggal di Inggris tepat nya di kota Leeds selama 9 tahun lebih saya menggunakan bahasa inggris style yang dialegnya lbh halus,tapi wlu pun bgitu jika saya pulang ke Indonesia saya akan les dan belajar bahasa Inggris,Walau keseharianya selama 9 thn lbh saya menggunakan bahasa inggris tapi saya akan ingat nasehat anda jika saya pulang ke Indonesia saya akan belajar dan les bahasa inggris,terima kasih saran nya,saya sangat mencintai Indonesia dan tetap menjadi warga negara Indonesia,

[@AdiPrimandaGinting]

@@setiawanjoko5103 sarkartis ya, Bro wkwk

[@iamachine92]

Get a life moron

[@astryhidayah1064]

Kalo mau gaet orang bule ya hrs bs bhs inggris lah broo..

[@veratopan6185]

Suka banget muka Sacha di video ini. Mirip Madonna pas dia nyanyi lagi la Isla Bonita 😍