People these days swear sex has no effect on your spiritual body. I don’t see how it doesn’t because you are always spirit. People swear energy transfers aren’t real, like how?! Lol if we talk into the phone or shake hands that’s an energy transfer. They say it doesn’t effect them because they don’t have an emotional connection with everyone that are intimate with, but why? Why do you want to do something you don’t care about? Why do you want to be numb? Feeling is all there is. You’re not living if you’re not feeling anything, and I’m not talking about physical feelings.
@ctinaalena52753 жыл бұрын
💯
@tatamaka33 жыл бұрын
Even science know this now. Just google for Microchimerism. Women carry the DNA around from every man they have slept with. It's in their brains now! However having sex with another human is the most intimate communication two people can have so it should be something valuable.
@jwu19503 жыл бұрын
Lots of sex with lots of partners enhances your spirituality. I am experienced in that. You think Sadh has experience in that or is he just making things up to piss on your brain ? Didn't he say don't believe in anything or anyone but experience life first hand ? So what's the point of believing him and hold back on sex ? Can you see his double talk ? May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
@jwu19503 жыл бұрын
@@tatamaka3 Exactly. Having lots of sex with lots of partners enhances not just your DNA but also your spirituality. Believe me, I am experienced. You think Sadh is experienced in these, or just making things up as he go ? He wants you to not believe anyone or anything except him. LOL !!! May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
@yahwehsbaby3 жыл бұрын
@@jwu1950 I live the way I live because I listen to myself, I don’t need a guru to tell me anything. That’s your experience, this is mine. I’m not gonna listen to you, him or anyone else when it comes to my body, energy, experiences etc. I make all my own decisions. Thanks for your input, glad that’s working for you….
@user-yk9sk7pg6v4 жыл бұрын
“Don't make a permanent decision based on temporary emotions.”
@travis66943 жыл бұрын
Dude.. that’s wild. And so true.
@fuckeduproadie3 жыл бұрын
There are no "permanent" decisions.
@daknathan65392 жыл бұрын
@@fuckeduproadie Really, Look at Suicide… It’s a Permanent solution to Temporary Problems…
@fuckeduproadie2 жыл бұрын
@@daknathan6539 - Fine then, solve your temporary problems dude. People have made sex such a big deal, youth in our society is unable to focus on anything else.
@shuntaneengram92284 жыл бұрын
I am a 45 year old woman. There have been several times in different stages of my life that I wanted to explore celibacy because deep down I knew that having sex was contaminating me in some way. In my younger years I started battling depression and now when I think about it I notice that it started when I became overly active. I think that women are more at risk of the sadness because when we have sex we are literally letting someone INSIDE OF OUR BODY. Think about that. INSIDE my sacral chakra space. So at 45 I'm ready to free myself from the burden yes BURDEN of casual sex and take my stand and be great.
@Thekingsdota3 жыл бұрын
@Sufiya H. wow
@pantherprime14703 жыл бұрын
Yep. It is going to be easier for women as they hit menopause and peri-menopause because the hormones have stopped raging and finally they can think with a clearer head about things. As biological beings, truly we are a sack of chemical reactions and hormones, and as such, ruled by that biology more than we would like to admit.
@jacquelinejones42303 жыл бұрын
I have been celibate for 6 or 7yrs. On-line dating and they want sex also
@Fortnite122-uk3 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelinejones4230 I have been celibate for 22 years
@tatamaka33 жыл бұрын
You're right. Even science know this now. Just google for Microchimerism. Women carry the DNA around from every man they have slept with. It's in their brains now! However having sex with another human is the most intimate communication two people can have so it should be something valuable.
@sanjaysharma87715 жыл бұрын
Physical and emotional intimacy with two or more people create disturbance and instability. This is hindrance to peace and hence inner growth. I agree totally
@markoperic50234 жыл бұрын
Can confirm. Even sex in dreams isnt safe.....
@donnawoodford66414 жыл бұрын
suhas cool No one is pure evil, although Hitler and my Ex came pretty close to that description in my opinion. I guess we're supposed to live the sinner and hate the sin???
@sheetal...88274 жыл бұрын
Sanjay, u felt like that?
@phoenixj12994 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@jwu19503 жыл бұрын
Try having sex with four or five or more, at the same time, will help you to overcome such unnecessary fear. Great emperors and empresses do that in the old days. No problem. May the love and the peace of Jesus be with us.
@medeaendor37064 жыл бұрын
I love how he explains that not everybody marries and that it is not necessary to consider marriage as standard
@sette604 жыл бұрын
In fact marriage is not a norm😉☺️ and I agree with that
@gustavobarajas61554 жыл бұрын
Marriage is for the selfless Sadghuru objective for everybody. But if you cant marry its not because marriagr is the problem YOU are the problem and you need to fix yourself.
@gustavobarajas61554 жыл бұрын
@@sette60 To put in in blunt terms marriage is an extraterrestrial activity that was brought from the first Man Adam and then passed to the Jewish wolrd. Marriage is extraterrestrial because the origins of the human being are also extraterrestrial due to the fact that we need our "heaven" here on earth.
@medeaendor37064 жыл бұрын
@@gustavobarajas6155 I never heard such incomprehensible words
@gustavobarajas61554 жыл бұрын
@@medeaendor3706 the human needs spirituality to be able to live
@DLFfitness16 жыл бұрын
It’s all about commitment. Decide what you want and commit.
@dianamwangi87264 жыл бұрын
And what about the guys who don't commit
@NetSkillNavigator4 жыл бұрын
@@dianamwangi8726 well, there's no growth for them because they're doing limited things like casual sex
@QOrtiz4 жыл бұрын
What kind of growth do you speak of?
@MmeInformaticienne4 жыл бұрын
What if you commit but the other person doesn't
@masixchell4 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽 yes exactly -
@Skillcappedyo5 жыл бұрын
Not only casual sex , but also with whom one hangs out, can have a serious problem to oneself, cuz there is also a certain intimacy between two people. But this may be also an experience, its not only about the things we should avoid of, cuz there is someone saying this or that. The real healthy problem is about any diseases through multiple sex partners.
@murkywaters19316 жыл бұрын
I've found my desire has been all but obliterated. Maybe for a good reason, I look around me and see how miserable people are because they didn't pick their partners wisely. Maybe it's better to forego relationships if only because of the state of American culture right now, it's very toxic and riddled with corrupt ideas.
@murkywaters19316 жыл бұрын
... Our culture is shot to hell, it's not the fault of one gender.
@missellendiane5 жыл бұрын
me 2
@ManPursueExcellence5 жыл бұрын
Rolf Sonofashepherd I’m with you. I agree.
@missellendiane5 жыл бұрын
unconditional love & respect for others is a cure- all
@111Lky4 жыл бұрын
Same here, don't see any point in marriage. Looking around me I see many couples who are like strangers living together, what misery! There are still some rare good marriages, very rare.
@neo-qn1vs5 жыл бұрын
People with multiple partners ( many of them who have commented negatively abt the video) may be currently in an ecstasic phase of life or on the upslope of success...But they r forgetting the fact that not only they r making newer karmic imprints...but they r also destroying some1 elses life or playing with their minds......this they will realise when the success part or happier phase ends..... You need to remember that a truly devoted and committed married life like in Indian society gives one an ultimate sense of inner joy that cant be described....ofcourse you should know how to dive deep inside your own HEART.
@jromeo82474 жыл бұрын
I am getting married in 2021. And the next person I sleep with, will be my husband.
@nameisezio19633 жыл бұрын
the truth hurts for those who slept around...they are such a delusional ppl...who will suffer in the end
@tatamaka33 жыл бұрын
Even science know this now. Just google for Microchimerism. Women carry the DNA around from every man they have slept with. It's in their brains now! However having sex with another human is the most intimate communication two people can have so it should be something valuable.
@shivam97493 жыл бұрын
@@jromeo8247 are u married maam !
@lotusphoenix84 жыл бұрын
I wish he had expanded on the energetic/karmic exchanges with those who share their bodies loosely, the memory imprints they collect and share. I also wish he had expanded on 'best' being a comparison to others and thereby leading to an outward way of living. But I guess those who have ears will hear...
@annjenkinson79884 жыл бұрын
I feel the same loreto
@annjenkinson79884 жыл бұрын
Sorry Lerato
@Novaknet4 жыл бұрын
That's what I was expecting
@ebazileyes14753 жыл бұрын
@Mason CicconeInhave seen so many of his video and I liked them initially but I notice he never explain. In one video a question was asked about disease if we allowed disease from out thinking and what can we do to change that. HE NEVER explain or answer directly. He run on about big tech and if your hand start poking your face are you sick? Then he proceed to say yes you sick. Then change subject by this time the video ready to over. Subject is never clearly address Smt He does around the mulberry Bush that's why I can't listen to him anymore..waste of time and boring.
@ebazileyes14753 жыл бұрын
Never getting the point. I'm convince many of these KZbinrs just want their cheque. Cheaper to research and find your own inner and pray take your own advice
@TheClayCreature5 жыл бұрын
This talk has reminded me of my personal studies into the mystery of water. "Water memory is the purported ability of water to retain a memory of substances previously dissolved in it even after an arbitrary number of serial dilutions." 60%+ of the human body is water 70%+ of the earth is water To me this gives a new meaning to promiscuity and this hook up culture being promoted.
@benyoung45054 жыл бұрын
Elaborate please
@BiGFLATE984 жыл бұрын
The water is dirty
@TheClayCreature4 жыл бұрын
@@BiGFLATE98 That sentence is too simple.......but why complicate the situation. Well said.
@kar3n354 жыл бұрын
In pass 2 years i had sex once. Is been a year. I have forgotten what sex is like. What it feels like. I havent even kiss a guy in 1 year. I forgotten what an orgasm with another pwrson feels like. I even feel so shy to kiss. I tell u when i sleep with a person again even a kiss will be so important and significant and especial. I work i support my self but i wish to have a hisband to have a family for companion and physical needs. And since i have been celibate i know my husband can know i can be loyal and dont sleep outside of marriege. Marriege to me is so important.
@southindiantraveller99524 жыл бұрын
Is it??
@SchilderwerkenAntheunisLeiden4 жыл бұрын
Ok let’s get married 👌
@pradeepinyt4 жыл бұрын
The way Sadhguru handles and explains every single topics are way beyond & bind blowing...no words to express the joy and clarity what am getting after hearing all those...long live Sadhguru..
@akcenglish29564 жыл бұрын
How great the person is with his great wisdom.India is proud of him.
@ASAPFENIX4 жыл бұрын
I have a close family member who is very loose with their body, I’m talking literally a new body every week & I could see that misery in himself with my own eyes but I know he’ll never admit it due to his pride & ego
@Lorenzo-ib5rg4 жыл бұрын
He's very lucky
@NetSkillNavigator4 жыл бұрын
@@Lorenzo-ib5rg Why do u think so?
@saswatmishra56444 жыл бұрын
@@NetSkillNavigator "Hormones have infected the intelligence" This explains.
@kishawolson76793 жыл бұрын
Pride and ego is our worst enemy...
@tatamaka33 жыл бұрын
Even science know this now. Just google for Microchimerism. Women carry the DNA around from every man they have slept with. It's in their brains now! However having sex with another human is the most intimate communication two people can have so it should be something valuable. Send it to your family member!
@COSMIXA6 жыл бұрын
Too many partners causes 'energy clutter', if that person don't know how to manage it well. Just like how overwhelming social media can be to some. And they feel so much better after quiting SNS sites. And energetically, it's not how many you're sleeping with, but it's WHO you sleep with matters more. You become who you sleep with.
@ratnasadal55615 жыл бұрын
How to clear this energy?
@mookie12475 жыл бұрын
Ratna Sadal prayers to the most high and ask for real for give ness from your heart he will free you of the soul ties it's a must especially if past partners had bad energy as sign of this is when you feel up and down some days and are unable to express or explain why you feel such a way I know because I've experienced it in the past and it took awhile to heal and cleanse my spirit and soul again.
@nishobit.12935 жыл бұрын
@@ratnasadal5561 One can do an ayurvedic detox or pancha karma. This will release negative memory that has manifested in the body. Doing daily yoga and meditation retreats also bring relief. And practicing abstinence from physical initmacy for some time will make the body finds its own energy again. Please remember that every human being has the capacity to heal and purify him or herself. There is no such thing as permanent damage. Nothing is permanent in this creation anyways and every human is a part of god. Pure and beautiful.
@ManPursueExcellence5 жыл бұрын
Nisha Rajah Excellent comment. I’ve been with multiple women. Now, I’m single and couldn’t be happier but, I conduct my practices daily. However, I can see what Sadguru is talking about. Most people don’t have any kind of spiritual practice.
@jnt69284 жыл бұрын
So true!!! You pick up on, and become tangled into, their energy!
@WildBillHickums4 жыл бұрын
With hookup culture, we trick ourselves into believing sex is a casual superficial activity, but alot of physiology and spiritual transaction is happening well underneath even the trained perception. You won't even realize what has happened during a night of sex until months later sometimes even a year later, and it latches onto you and stays for awhile.
@KitKat-nu8dv3 жыл бұрын
I'm in full agreement
@gordonfernandes68734 жыл бұрын
He never talks Straight ! Mostly meanings indirectly, here he mean Karmic Burden of too many sexual encounters, in life, eventually lead to huge suffering, mentally & physically.
@777ina94 жыл бұрын
Gordon Fernandes basically he means don’t be a hoe ..:)
@ManojKumar-qg9bw4 жыл бұрын
Indian yogis have always been that way :) enjoy their special flavor with no expectations, cuz expectations are the source of grief
@WhiteMetal_4 жыл бұрын
@@777ina9 🤣🤣👍🏻 right
@gordonfernandes68734 жыл бұрын
@@777ina9 You mean he's talking to u ??🙄
@gordonfernandes68734 жыл бұрын
@powershel23 Yes
@valonahunters73305 жыл бұрын
Quality > quantity
@smssms71673 жыл бұрын
i rather choose quality ;)
@raysadhra4985 жыл бұрын
Don't damage your self.
@devongannes77675 жыл бұрын
too much of anything is bad! bless up.
@laceincission886 жыл бұрын
I do not need Sadhguru to say this to me, I have always somehow known how detrimental casual sex can be to ones inner world
@keyair1236 жыл бұрын
applause everybody
@ravishingravi6 жыл бұрын
You have made it in life
@serenyaa25725 жыл бұрын
Yes, somehow i always knew this from a very young age, and i think is discusting also to share your body fluids with a lot of people, yacs!!!
@sys92085 жыл бұрын
But you need to be taught arrogance is also not good
@dohnjoe49105 жыл бұрын
Now if we could just get the rest of women to stop thinking sleeping around is perfectly normal and acceptable.
@basavarajmeti3566 жыл бұрын
Whatever you do.. Do it totally. That's great!
@AuroraNatureSounds6 жыл бұрын
Indeed :) so simple and yet so powerful :)
@WhiteMetal_4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I wonder what's that mean
@priyanshu31823 жыл бұрын
how??
@priyanshu31823 жыл бұрын
At one time he say sex will create runanbandha
@priyanshu31823 жыл бұрын
And next he say do it totally
@npatil854 жыл бұрын
Sucks that you can't have the one you want. Or the one is not interested in you...
@tinalove78603 жыл бұрын
Agree
@Unknown-bv7lv3 жыл бұрын
Fact of life
@fpriest643 жыл бұрын
i was a virgin till my first love and the father of my 1 st child when i was 22... was never really into sleeping around...
@shivam97493 жыл бұрын
Very less people get that
@alicebowen10184 жыл бұрын
Comment 1# truth. 2# honesty. 3# happiness 4# equalness 5# 100%commitment 6# having faith in each other's dreams #7 time patience 8# never let let love of your life fall below your side 9# hold they're hand lift them up 10# surprises gifts candy some quality time together 11# share each other's worth these are 11 rules of marriage you must be able to go through the ups and downs good bad and to think think you got have someone in your life use rap your arms around faith it maybe bumpy ride but in end your come out worth something never spread yourself thin better wait on love and commitment instead of reputation you can't wash your hands clean it's stays with you so save yourself your blessed cherish it
@jeromeThailande4 жыл бұрын
There are people made to do things if you're not you can sell sandwiches without remorse, If you're made for sex you will remain as a comet in the life of others, an angel that the met one time and never forgot ,the spirit has no moral specialy if you treat the body of others as a temple
@kenzen35644 жыл бұрын
You have to be truly free to be able to have physical intimacy with multiple partners No egoic tendencies whatsoever may inhibit you anymore This is next to impossible for most
@sanjeetgill4485 жыл бұрын
Yes agreed true, I felt this when my friend talk about this weird freedom
@prakasnathen22704 жыл бұрын
You're right guruji my body never forgets it's former strength...whenever it is weak it requires good healthy food which seems like addiction towards a bad habit this physique was indulged in...but it was the other way which I (the soul)knows...
@rajinisai13874 жыл бұрын
I really understood why marriage after 22years of my marriage , with Ur kind and vivid and valid explanations
@TheDobermannnn2 жыл бұрын
I agree with him. The emotional baggage comes with it is just depressing. Having multiple partners will just make uou dumb and miserable. I know the pain.
@rprasadt8166 жыл бұрын
So Insightful. So much clarity. Thanks Sadguru.
@supernovax68673 жыл бұрын
Quality over quantity. Sex is very intimate and also very risky for your physical and mental health.
@margaretneanover60665 жыл бұрын
Especially if it's a control mind trip of another source. Good thinking
@markoperic50234 жыл бұрын
I fell into a rabbit hole of this narcissist... only because I didnt know how to say no
@zNathaniel6 жыл бұрын
I have only one girlfriend whom I have sex with very often. Right now, my physical needs are strong. Also my mental and emotional. I want a companion and love, maybe one day I will transcend but I love her and I think I will get married
@reginaldbray39035 жыл бұрын
Nathaniel Zavala well did you do it? Did you get married?
@unpopularopinion1494 жыл бұрын
Reginald Bray he soon hopped on tinder.
@gustavobarajas61554 жыл бұрын
You already have the love, what do you need marriage for? Marriage and love are two seperate things.
@virginiadavila3976 жыл бұрын
Its very helping me thankyouu❤
@clear14393 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT/ EXCEPTIONAL TALK. I only wish the recording were of a higher fidelity, but the content is profound & spot-on. I will share this talk with many others. Thank-you.
@cosmicsprings86906 жыл бұрын
Funny thing for me was how many rich moguls kept harems
@energybasics5 жыл бұрын
Multiple partners seems to cause a certain Thickness in the energy. So you laugh and are happy but not as deeply. There's something missing. Can this be reversed? Or have we missed out for this life?
@unpopularopinion1494 жыл бұрын
Something is missing. Your self respect and inner innocence is gone. You can have innocence and not be a virgin...but sleeping around is almost sociopathic. No disregard for the other. Your interest in pleasuring them Is what brings pleasure to yourself. Think about how selfish it really is. It’s much more mentally damaging for women too btw.
@churka59844 жыл бұрын
I have read that it takes 6 months to get your energetic and emotional bodies clean again, but take this with a grain of salt.
@markoperic50234 жыл бұрын
@@churka5984 so theres hope :D Ive been lured by narcissist... this eye contact intimicy.. had sex in a dream.... felt so much confusion... the dream was greyyyy.... I never felt more alone
@kristaconsciousness14644 жыл бұрын
I am also wondering how long it will take for the energies from those partners to leave the body? Thankfully I don't sleep around with just anyone I find attractive anymore. I don't even think sexually about others anymore. Only if I am in a relationship with someone whom I love dearly and deeply. I was so lost back then and so immature. Very proud of myself for this wonderful change. Also, what does all of that unnecessary energy do to the body and mind anyway?
@questtofreedom4 жыл бұрын
Its longer than that especially if you dont do healing work residual pain remains. Ive uncovered stuff from a few relationships back that made me cry and breakdown this stuff lingers and takes active continuous effort to remove
@anitha48053 жыл бұрын
Guided me in a time in my life. Never forget swamiji 🙏🌺
@kevintaylor76363 жыл бұрын
Too much of one thing easily can lead to ruin. But in these modern societies, they treat it so cavalierly that sex has lost its value🤷🏾♂️
@halopeople64626 жыл бұрын
I was looking out for this video, thanks bro.
@savage93764 жыл бұрын
It doesn't damage, it rather does something that even your don't know.
@divyanshimishra21614 жыл бұрын
You will never know how much damage it has done to you until you start to heal yourself and level up your vibrations. You have to walk on the path of meditation and yog to know what's going on inside you.
@justafriend34082 жыл бұрын
To be honest sex is one of those complex things that we shoul leave alone without trying to explain, analyse or think too much about.We humans need to realise that we don't need to or will never be able to analyse everything. However my question is this: Is sex not a natural thing for humans then? why was it created if it is not to be freely enjoyed? In my view a lot of this negativity about sex stems from society which has been brainwashed by very rich eugenics who want to control the world population and use marriage for economic gains. That's how I look at it. Also, it is important for both parties to be mature and they need to both consent to it; otherwise society or even families need not get involved. The only other rule to remember is 'do everything in moderation'.
@blisswkc33445 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much dearest 💐 You’re such an inspiration 🥰 Be Blissful Eternally 🙏🏼😇
@youeverpickyourfeetinpough38224 жыл бұрын
No wonder so many ‘loose’ New Agers sound so confused... they were pranked
@Haririsina4 жыл бұрын
There is no best cuase best involves others. Thats pure knowledge
@maryanncarrlton68786 жыл бұрын
Thank goodness it’s not on my list of to do’s.
@aumsivasiva6 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Sathguru, even though a thanks cannot suffice even .00001% of what you offer to the masses.
@farfetched92962 жыл бұрын
Sex is spiritual transferring of energy. Ppl at times will dump their troubles, worries, fears, and problems into you during sex. Watch what happens in your life sometimes when you have sex with someone that's troubled or careless with sex and have multiple partners
@mashupvital24004 жыл бұрын
this talk is , really good.
@pazzodi33 жыл бұрын
She's not asking herself this, she's asking another human being for an opinion on what should she do.. question is why is she asking that question.. expectations.. expectations placed on her by family, friends, community.. she is in conflict with herself because of the pressures of her community, otherwise this thought would have never existed.. and people who have multiple partners are usually not stressed unless the partners are stressful individuals, same thing as a marriage.. it all depends on who you involve yourself with. Whatever you decide to do, just chose carefully.. Marriage won't solve your problems, not marrying won't solve your problems.. you decide what problems you prefer to undertake.
@siddusonnad27856 жыл бұрын
Namaste sadguru. What a heart touching message Involvement absolute involvement is really really required.
@krishnamsdhoni6 жыл бұрын
Gender is not something which I like speaking about because its not a concerning issue for a brahmachari but the only reason this issue have to be taken seriously for other things. This is an interdependant society we are making, women cannot have ecnomic security nor can men have hoursehold security, both need to become the interdependant and without that dependancy no trust or true bonds will happen because there will be a million reason not to adjust. You're going to create an imbalance in the system like this which will come with a grave consequences later on. Both of them have their own dharma and have to be tied to each other. the very aspect of feminine is devotion, servitude. If thats lost then its pointless. This is adharma. A feminine is the manifestation of all illusions or maya in terms of forms, its the duality. It has to be duality. If you try to make things equal instead of balancing, then things will fall apart because differences exists and as long as it does, something called equal is an illusion people make up to deceive existence. People trying to deceive existence will only cause non growth, imbalance and suffering. The strength and consciousness has its own role to bring dependancy in social roles and same goes for energy and illusion. Liberation is something that happens internally through dharma. Outside is subjected to many things in terms of society
@bunnyangles78196 жыл бұрын
My God such a nice explanation 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 How old are you Krishna?. Sry was just curious as ur dp shows an adolescent boy. Pls reply
@User-724306 жыл бұрын
Hema S really intriguing 👌
@bonniejean16495 жыл бұрын
I was widowed twice by 35, left w 4 children to raise.i went to college, got a great job, and successfully raised my own children.i didn't need a man.if I was in India, where would I have been put?? I live in the far north of canada.women here are so capable, we can get our own fire wood , haul our own water, grow our own gardens. What imbalance does this cause?? Women are better off alone, than to wait for any man..
@RushiiCreativeMantra6 жыл бұрын
Very True
@merepyaresadguru3 жыл бұрын
Sadguru 🌹जब आप के अंदर लचीलापन होता है तो आप जीवन को सुनने के लिए तैयार होते हैं
@Kim-vs4vb4 жыл бұрын
I strongly believe, Every person you sleep with takes alittle something away from you.........bed hopping leaves you jaded, empty, feeling used ect....plus these days you expose yourself to great health risks..... Iv always been a firm believer in abstinence, take the time to know someone, build emotional intimacy and then physical intimacy, something long lasting on a solid foundation.
@VajrahahaShunyata4 жыл бұрын
I would say the opposite. Everyone you sleep with leaves a little of themselves inside of you. There is a transference that occurs. You end up feeling a little bit like they do. It is very strong for up to 3 months. You will have similar feelings. You feel like them and they feel like you. If they slept with 30 people you will feel also like those 30 people. There is no such thing as casual sex for this reason. It is the real reason for chastity. It has nothing to do with morality. It can make you crazy. I am an older man. I have seen my promiscuous friends become unstable as the years went on. They get upset easily and become radicalized about something to blame the crazy feeling on. This is why so many spiritual paths practice chastity. Stay blessed. Do not share your Temple with polluted people
@dappiduck4 жыл бұрын
This is something i wondered about and suspected for the last 5 years or so..... i feel relieved to hear it from a guru, and that others share this view..... but also guilty of polluting myself terribly. Who knows if i can heal and find love.... but im content to heal best i can.... and find love of myself. Om 🙏
@EverythingHomemade11113 жыл бұрын
I think u are right I have kised my bf in my teenage and even now I remember that memory and it hurts alot
@pantherprime14703 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this and uploading it.
@iloveamerica48914 жыл бұрын
SOLUTION: For people who have caused "damage" to their body, heal the body, reverse the process by fasting from having sex. In my experience nobody reaches the end and says, wish I hadn't had so much sex.
@niveditharayappa78994 жыл бұрын
What do you mean....??? Can elaborate 🙄🙄
@iloveamerica48914 жыл бұрын
@Niveditha Rayappa Body tells you to have sex from time to time because you are alive and to push body fluids out is harmless. People getting emotional about sex is the problem. For example people are not emotional when body tells you to push out poop -- You poop and forget everyday.
@niveditharayappa78994 жыл бұрын
@@iloveamerica4891 we can use that fluids....into ojas(spiritual energy) for creativity or something productive....🙄 ....so....I mean u r saying that ..sex with multiple partners are common ...uh!? sensual pleasures sources of pain.....and we will be like animal beings.........🙏 whatever Kali Yuga. Lust takes over everything!!!!!
@niveditharayappa78994 жыл бұрын
@@iloveamerica4891 yay...we get emotional about sex!!true....🙄
@iloveamerica48914 жыл бұрын
@@niveditharayappa7899 Life is simple -- but not easy. Listen to your body to progress. You can only control your own actions. Keep learning. Good thoughts Good words Good deeds. We all are born ALONE with nothing, no relationships, no religion, no country and in few years we all will expire ALONE and leave everything behind and leave with nothing no relationships, no religion, no country. God bless everyone.
@harishparmar6144 жыл бұрын
Sadguru, you answer all sorts of questions
@surbhisharma86744 жыл бұрын
But the people who are just going around having sex with people are apparently happier than the one's sitting at home, working on themselves. I don't understand why?
@earthboundblueprint4 жыл бұрын
It's not easy to work on yourself, to honestly look at what triggers you and why and to have the strength to work on it. It's not light work. However people that are just following their impulses most of the time, (not everybody of course) are not doing the work of answering to the hard emotions or difficult situations (mostly just chasing the happy emotions/situations, while they ignore the hard stuff until it passes)
@NetSkillNavigator4 жыл бұрын
It's a fleeting, shallow kind of happiness..
@surbhisharma86744 жыл бұрын
@@NetSkillNavigator Gotcha!
@jillting18524 жыл бұрын
In another video sadghuru said if u can dont make misery out of everything u do then everything u do will be right... In this case why u say a person seeking spiritual is not happier I can think either a. He doesn't really desire to be spiritual seeking b. He had stumble upon a plateu in his growth n hence need new environment or events for his growth... C. His mind is fickle n he envious what others have that he doesn't have n that makes him misery aka happiness.... If ur happy, does other ppl happiness bother u? If ur not happy then u would start to seek externally n see how others are happy n thinking why they are n ur not... Sadghuru says fully acceptance of what's there is what u wanted, and what u wanted is there aka full acceptance that's what makes one happy....... Listen more to his video n u can piece together the idea.... But then it's only his wisdom u must try to get this wisdom urself too
@niveditharayappa78994 жыл бұрын
They are happeir coz...they are going towards sensual pleasures....and to avoid the reality.......morever nothing is permanent....they are success and happier...but how many days....and next birth they vil suffer a lotsss
@nomg5634 жыл бұрын
Lol why do I have a feeling a lot of woke people are going to be “touched “ by this😂
@stevehuntley30895 жыл бұрын
Work is worship.
@Pr3kashSingh11 ай бұрын
Thank you Guruji for guiding us. ❤❤❤❤❤
@abe32464 жыл бұрын
Best verse great things is very deep. His words do self illuminate. I feel he speech impeded with prajna.
@jitendrazarapkar46384 жыл бұрын
Namaskaran sadguru infinite thanks❤🌹
@RituSharma-hz6ue5 жыл бұрын
Pranam Sadhguru 😊🌺🍃🌸🌱🌹🌱🌼🍃🙏
@kedarbhattacharya64183 жыл бұрын
A very sane reasonable man.po.
@whats_on_your_mind_asksbhavika Жыл бұрын
Maybe the question would be- What is the right age to get married?
@Attackatyourownrisk3 жыл бұрын
Lust over logic. Instant gratification over love. Rush over morality. Something that I do not want to understand.
@mcculler504 жыл бұрын
I needed this
@adhyatmikkhoj92295 жыл бұрын
Thank You Sadguru 🙏🙏
@sreevenkiteshsree4 жыл бұрын
Can anybody give the link of music played at the end of this video
@missellendiane5 жыл бұрын
reading now ----- better late than never? a day late- a $$$ short. . . . . . thank you
@elAfreet5 жыл бұрын
i ve read ur comment many times, what do u mean?
@missellendiane5 жыл бұрын
@@elAfreet it's a common response a day late a dollar short means that it would have been nice to have this information many moons ago.
@elAfreet5 жыл бұрын
Ellen Diane so u think ur day = how much money u make? Life is the days we live , for me a day late without love that’s what takes a bit of my self and soul everyday, money gets stuff, love remove the needs for everything but one,
@missellendiane5 жыл бұрын
@@elAfreet obviously I am not talking about money friend- nothing material- It's all about self love- self nurturing & self respect- I meant that I wish I had read this years ago---- It's too late for me- OK??? comprendo?
@elAfreet5 жыл бұрын
Ellen Diane sorry I miss understood u, it’s only late for dead people dear, after 10 years u might learn something and will say wish I knew that 10 years ago, it’s not about what we know for me it’s about the moment I live , how I can make whatever am doing the best most enjoyable I can, spirit grow with love and warmth, and goes high with calmness peace and a laugh,
@Rajomega14 жыл бұрын
I tell you guys, don’t marry if your really don’t want.
@AnnaLloyd3 жыл бұрын
The heavens can't lie 🙌🙏😌😍👏
@nji777210 ай бұрын
I have not ever had a problem with celibacy. For me it is easy and I believe that there are serious physical (health much more than STDs) and spiritual consequences (darkness). Also, having married young, I just assumed people took vows seriously. I was so wrong on that one. More than 25 years later, I got married one more time. Again, that one was unfaithful. I stay single now and do not trust in this world that most (in the West anyway) take the consequences or vows seriously.
@vegancat5165 жыл бұрын
What if we physically, emotionally and mentally have one partner but they go physically with others as well? How does that affect us who choose that one? Ah I wish I could ask Sadhguru.
@sridhar98765 жыл бұрын
Hmmm. From what I understand from sadhguru teaching relationship is an exchange. Inclusion means one with universe not with one individual.
@deea88974 жыл бұрын
I have the same question ..wish sadguru had an answer to it
@sahithayelamanchili27094 жыл бұрын
Yes! His karmic memory affects yours which is why monogamy was always considered the ideal. In that case, you need to have a firm discussion with your partner and draw the line.
@shivam97493 жыл бұрын
@@sridhar9876 if he/she goes from u to other while being in a relationship it means someone lack something. If he/she went earlier then through ur energy rectify her/him and slowly take her towards ur path .
@iodhewawhe31005 жыл бұрын
Weird how yellow emperor, 6th Dalai Lama whom are so amorous yet achieved the greatest and fastest liberation
@ManPursueExcellence5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@swedish_sadhguru38544 жыл бұрын
What are the karmic consequences of having sex with multiple people? I actually went to a psychic for this question and she said I would be reborn as a mouse if I leave my current partner. But I dont know if I can trust this psychic, Id rather trust Sadhguru or someone else with a high level of knowledge. I also know a colleague who has had sex with over 200 people, what will happen to him if he dies? Just curious.
@shivam97493 жыл бұрын
He will rotate on the same axis throughout his life and will leave his physical soul in suffering either mentally or physically.
@swedish_sadhguru38543 жыл бұрын
@@shivam9749 Very interesting! Do you have any source or something to back that up? I believe you I just want to know where it is from, thanks.
@anitha48053 жыл бұрын
Agree with you in all sense. Nishchala thathvam
@arjunlirom36966 жыл бұрын
THANKS 🙏
@usshreebhargava36755 жыл бұрын
Not even one we should do and think till marriage
@tanatekii24604 жыл бұрын
Yes we all know that , so what's new.... Perth Australia
@arunkumaracharya96413 жыл бұрын
To lower consciousness what seems right seems wrong at a higher consciousness. Now, you may still have followed your conscience at lower consciousness and it felt right; but then overindulgence at lower consciousness makes you eventually suffocate and that is when higher consciousness takes over. Now your realization at higher consciousness becomes a new voice of conscience, which you may be allowed to break based on the circumstances - you may fall into lower consciousness in the future. The point is time heals everything, time decides everything and time poses problems and has answers. What is important is to realize your state of consciousness and heed your conscience which may have different voices based on the state of mind and spirit and circumstances. The most important of all of it is to evolve and be divine whatever be the state and time and circumstances and for that, there has to be a constant quest. You cannot keep having unlimited sex with a single partner, likewise, you cannot abstain the sex totally. Time, conscience, circumstances dictate things. In the end, love with the divine is precious compared to love with humans of the opposite sex. Moreover, love at the humanitarian level is what needs to be attained - like Jesus, Gandhi, or Teresa!
@falgunidevdas274 жыл бұрын
Thank you for uploading this🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@mypassion5942 жыл бұрын
Thanks my prophet 🙏
@AnnaLloyd3 жыл бұрын
What God Joins together let no man put asunder God let your will be done on earth as it is in heaven 🙏✨🙌❤
@inkabazinka37783 жыл бұрын
True, sir. However, many doctors cause more physical and mental harm than sexual partners.
@adebowaledavid59383 жыл бұрын
You such a guru
@amoldalmia2 жыл бұрын
9:05 There is no best thing
@vioricaadriana50806 жыл бұрын
Thank you 👍
@joewalsh468510 ай бұрын
After my fifth dose of Gonorrhea and second dose of syphilis, I have become celibate, been that way for 3 years, and feel much better.
@isy86403 жыл бұрын
Can someone translate in german.? My question is i were educated that sex is only ok with love. But a lot of people say they seperate sx from love and yoh can have sex whenever you want, it doesn't matter if you love them. Especially some spiritual people say, that we are all connected (i mean it's true) so they say in a special way we should love everybody because we're connected so they say it's ol to have sex with many people. I am kinda new in spirituality i were raised Christian, but now i followed spirituality and found sad Guru, or Eckhart Tolle, Kurt Tepperwein. I am 25 year old and i am a virgin, because i always wanted to wait for love. And i never had a relationship, bc i had some problems in past. Now i try to figure pht what's right or wrong... Is it worth ot to wait for the right partner to have sex with and love.?
@zhulyi3 ай бұрын
It's holly for you it's your life strangers can't know what is the best for you. But yes I think that Christian values are the most beautiful thing man.
@alexmanga48976 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@marcellominasi413 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who spends every night with a different woman, i am so sad and worried for him that, to ease his pain, i have offered to replace him every now and then
@shivam97493 жыл бұрын
U are doing the same job instead of helping ur friend, seesms u have got a lot of intelligence
@marcellominasi413 жыл бұрын
@@shivam9749 i do what i can😂
@brigittenyafli-muller84913 жыл бұрын
every thing got its time..even for outher peace. shure, inner peace can contribute to that.. peace is, to resolve conflicts with intelligence. intimaecy deservs a sacret space and time..its part of personal life, doe holy.
@vincencohan36266 жыл бұрын
Sadhguru didnt say multiple partners will cause serious damage to u. You said that... click bait. Obviously you did not understand . He said, it all depends on your need or what you want... & do it with absolute best.
@arunsp20016 жыл бұрын
He did say that such a person with multiple partners will not know real joy and in the end he said do any decision with absolute involvement instead of forever searching the best decision, listen carefully, you are randomly connecting the dots