Part 1- Godless Women, Sexual liberation, Breaking down the home and Why men love influencers

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[@sadiapsychology]

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[@imranmiah5753]

Sadia you can’t blame all guys because of them pimp type men’s behaviour and mindset

[@lifewith.giselle]

women often prey on women who have been viewed as vulnerable, paying others off with sexual favors.

[@lifewith.giselle]

You dress like Kim K. She was the start of sex trafficking.

[@lifewith.giselle]

you only view women who have an education as worthy. who are you to determine who is worthy?

[@lifewith.giselle]

education is also being paid by women who have had to sleep with another for your scholarship.

[@dynishaabreu4544]

Any person who identifies that both men and women need to be good is wise. Sadia is the wisest among them all❤

[@stacyjohnson9685]

Yep BOTH genders LOYAL TO ONE PERSON AND NOT HAVING SEX UNLESS ITS FOR FAMILY AND COMMITMENT!

[@jumpa654]

It's on both the men and women. ''Tell the believing Men to lower their gaze and guard their modesty.......and tell the believing Women to lower their gaze and guard their modesty''

[@thedecentcow]

Exactly. Women shouldn't observe hijab for the sake of men. And men shouldn't observe hijab for the sake of women. Our duty of observing hijab is for the sake of Allah swt alone. In the last few hundred years, many men seem to have lost the sense in this and have ran with the narrative that women should dress modestly for their sake 😒

[@SWOTHDRA]

That hadith is not sahi.....men have never lowered their gaze, not in war and not normal, the prophet gazed into the eyes of the wife of his adooted son, and allah ordained her to him. Allah knows best , you feminist try everything

[@SWOTHDRA]

​@@thedecentcowshow me where in koran does it say that???

[@dragonfly5334]

Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their modesty. That is purer for them, verily Allah is All-Aware of what they do. 24:30 So God is a feminist trying it according to you?

[@jumpa654]

@@dragonfly5334 God is the Creator of the Universe and everything in it. God knows what is Best for us, and has laid out rules for us to follow, for both men and women. God isn't a feminist, or red pill or black pill or whatever joke term we have nowadays.

[@Saya-rz4hi]

It's very clear who does understand psychology and who doesn't. The other girl is very very privileged and can't see the position of vulnerable women or girls. Blaming only the girls is the absolute wrong way. We need more people like Sadia who breaks down the real issues without blaming women or men and instead blaming this whole structure.

[@williamwallace410]

Actually, for someone always saying she is anti-feminist, Sadia is spouting a lot of feminist ideology. Always portraying women as the angels and eternal victims. Never holding women accountable for their actions. She is of course right that women are influenced by immoral culture. But I agree that the other woman is right, that women have always been the ones responsible for gatekeeping sex. She says women need to be accountable. And it is all about upbringing. Who is to blame the drug addicts or the drug dealers?

[@kinndah2519]

@@williamwallace410 OK so what are you blaming? You want to acknowledge what Sadia said isn't true? Women are finding more and more men not worthy of committing themselves to, and they don't care what those men think about it. Just like many men these days don't want to become better men for wives and families.

[@williamwallace410]

@@kinndah2519 I already said, what I wanted to say, she never holds women accountable for their "own" actions. You are even worse than she is. Read your comment to me... it is pure feminist poison. There is nothing wrong with most men. You are right, women deem more and more men unworthy, but that's not because of men, but because of toxic inflated and deluded feminist egos. It's because they value men for the wrong, unrealistic superficial standards. You can't all expect millionaires... and even in that case, then women would find millionaires unworthy and only want billionaires. Men of today are doing what they need to do, just as men in the past. But the same can't be said about women of today. Actually today it's the men who are finding more and more women not worthy of committing themselves to in marriage as a result. As you said, women don't care what men think about it. Who wants that as a wife?!?

[@sylviasuwan4735]

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[@jessicagoodall1458]

The other lady is also assuming that vulnerable young people accessing Instagram and becoming influencers are the minority of these people, they're not. Most people on Instagram are seeking attention they don't need if they had a healthy soul. Where does unhealthy souls come from, trauma

[@TrollMeister_]

I only discovered Sadia a couple of days ago. She is articulate, she is bang on point…and boy is she beautiful.

[@cutiepiea3687]

Heavy on the last part I’ve been obsessed ever since I came across her on insta!

[@Netwrk72]

lol have you seen the homeless woman with makeup ? sadia wears 5 tubs of makeup each day plus her face is very unsymmetrical which is unattractive its the hair

[@jljryoung]

My daughter is a 24 year old American putting herself through college. She was working and her manager said, if you wear short skirts you will make more money. She quit the next day. Yes, woman have a choice. First, know the difference between right and wrong then, do the right thing.

[@IndigoInfantry]

Same with abortion, women need to learn to keep their legs closed outside of when they want kids.

[@nelsonoluyemi9169]

Thank you for your insightful response - "women have a choice"

[@caseylynn5976]

Unfortunately, no, ALL women do not have that choice. Some don't have the same options available to them as your daughter for example. Many wouldn't have had the _luxury_ of choosing to up & quit like that. Why? Well, here's a scenario for you: Single mom Sara lives one day to the next financially, works as a waitress. No friends or family. She has a disabled child with severe behavioral problems (but it'll be several years before doctors diagnose that). So at this point everybody just labels the kid as "bad" & blames her parenting. The child has been booted from virtually every daycare in town, so, Sara pays an old lady she knows to babysit, let's call her Patty. It's obvious Patty is growing weary & more fed up each day. She will not babysit a single minute more than their agreed upon 25 hours a week. And Sara understands; she truly feels bad about burdening Patty in her old age & is incredibly grateful for her help. But she also knows if she loses her as a babysitter that she will lose her job & be faced with homelessness. What's more, is she's working under the table. Opinions aside, she does this because without government assistance she'd have to choose between food, rent, and her child's medical care. Because if she got paid on the books she'd all but lose the medical insurance, and lose the food stamps altogether. To top it off, her pay wouldn't even cover the loss! Why would she put herself in the hole? (And no, she can't just work more hours-remember there's no more childcare available). Under the table jobs aren't everywhere, either, so she can't just go get another one & wouldn't have the funds to survive until then anyway (and again, no childcare). She has nobody to even babysit for an interview. If you think it couldn't be any worse...well, there's more to that story, it's much worse... but I think I made my point. The choice your daughter was able to make, (and I assume, survive the outcome of), may absolutely destroy the life of another woman. Not only her life...but the consequences of her making the same choice could affect the safety, wellbeing, and even the literal survival, of someone else...like her child. Not so much of a choice when you look at it that way, is it??

[@IndigoInfantry]

@@caseylynn5976 women have the choice to not do the things that cause problems. You just want to absolve women of their responsibility

[@dripmal7469]

​@@caseylynn5976she still has a choice, I was in a very bad situation when I was 18 and I still had a choice I was poor, homeless and alone, still had a choice

[@mariavelasco6629]

There’s issues on both sides. Period. You cannot place the blame on just men or just women. Also, society as a whole is a slave to their phones, social media, internet. There are so many factors at play.

[@enceladus4900]

ur first point is debatable,as there is some degree of blame and accountability that should take place. agree with the second point,we're all slaves to our enviorement and society as a whole,which is a problem as it tends to drift towards hedonism and degeneracy, this is why religion is important,as it provides a structure to follow and regulate our actions. for that reason the middle east is still standing strong in the face of our modern world issues and self identity crisis and tries to push back degeneracy. sad to see those with weak faith falling victim tho due to social media and it's influence and amplification of their desires.

[@thelemurofmadagascar9183]

Exactly. I'm sick of this childish modern discourse of pointing fingers and always blaming only one party as though the world is black and white. Anyone who engages in promiscuity, whether male or female is to blame for contributing to societal decay. Evil begets evil, so whether it's a man paying for OF, or a woman making OF content, both of them are responsible for making evil run rampant, full stop.

[@azskinsfanhttr3494]

@@enceladus4900 I agree. However, there is such a divide on which religion is superior that it complicates things. I believe being 'spiritual' at ones core is essential and helps define ones values and morals.

[@MySimDied]

I feel like you can put the blame on men. And I'm not really much of a feminist. But the root of the change in society all comes from men and also there is so much mixed messaging from men. We need to have lower body counts. We also need to be having sex with "average" guys (who typically fall below the average american in height, weight, earnings and looks but that's another story) while somehow maintaining said low body count. We also seem to take the blame for social media, internet and phones which were all things that were invented by men and targeted at women by men to make money from us. Onlyfans is a male invention that is funded almost solely by men. But women are to blame if they take the choice that is presented to them to earn 4x more in a day than their male owned company would pay them over a year. Basically men always controlled society and they've lost control of it. But that's on them not women. They keep voting in politicians who focus on money over values simply because most American men seem to be a little bit racist and it's ruined society for all of us. Look at Trump, he did nothing for the majority of people in the country and yet all the men are going to go out and vote for him a second time because it's seemingly more important to them that we build a wall to keep out needy Mexican people than have our bills reduced. Men are even directly responsible for feminism. Yet rather than look at themselves and the mistakes that they keep making they focus on girls doing things they don't like on instagram. Guys get more angry about a woman saying something mean on instagram than they do a male serial killer. Women are expected to be perfect and make the right choice every single time and we're expected to accept crappy behavior from men as standard. Western guys on the whole used to be strong and dependable but now they're insecure and weak. And they really need to get it together and stop blaming everyone but themselves.

[@AussieAmigan]

@@azskinsfanhttr3494Any religion that practices traditional values in society is a net positive, I don't care which. I'm not saying the women should be stoned, but some degree of shame should be cast, especially when they promote and brag about their deeds. I'm not religious, but what we have in society today is a perversion, that goes against basic human biological needs, all in the name of feminism. Men gave women the power to choose and more than evened the playing field in ALL vocations and educational pursuits, and yet these women chose to sell themselves on OF, being too stupid to understand the consequences of this choice on themselves, let alone society as a whole.

[@jdfreedomlover]

You're right. While both sides are culpable, supply always follows demand.

[@TZWWoods]

After watching Sadia, I want to learn psychology. Love her statements.

[@ISBE91]

Don't get fooled by this, it's not that easy 😊

[@robertschiller5422]

do not bet to learn this at a University. I have a uni degree in Psychology. you do not learn this there.

[@azskinsfanhttr3494]

@@robertschiller5422 Correct, but it is a foundation to build on. The degree it self is not the end game.

[@enigma5627]

I don't think she's an actual psychologist although that's what she claims. I agree with a lot of what she says but she doesn't seem to have the credentials which imply some level of fraud.

[@AussieAmigan]

"I want to learn psychology". God help us. Just what the world needs, another woke AF feminist who blames all men for the actions and choices women make.

[@bodhi9464]

thank you sadia; we need more ladies like you in society . god bless you . 🇦🇺❤️☮️

[@SamahMakawy]

I'm with Sadia. She understands more. Also as a good girl, why i would accept a man how won't mind pay an all fan and no one blame him! We deserve mature good men too.

[@IndigoHazelnut]

I think that trying to pinpoint which gender is to blame for women monetizing their bodies on the Internet is like asking 'which came first, the chicken or the egg?' I do agree with Sadia.. The responsibility is on both genders (not just one or the other).. Because it is a societal problem constructed from both

[@thelemurofmadagascar9183]

100%. Immoral men create immoral women, and immoral women create immoral men. It goes both ways, and it's a waste of time trying to blame only one side.

[@scatainternet]

Great show guys and great subject. I’ve just watched the video . Time doesn’t exist so it’s not a late comment:) . It’s nice to see where you all come from, and regardless of each one’s opinion, it’s easy to see that you are all having in mind a higher good for everyone and I love that. @Sadia, I love how you so easily throw light to old paradigms which no longer have room in this reality and so much more. The host is great , first time I see him. Andrew 😊. @Lubna, first time I see you . Deep and powerfull , I love the way you think and we are on the same page on this subject . It all comes down to the golden rule aplied to oneself : “Treat YOURSELF and others as you would want to be treated by them” - you don’t need ANY education to know that you treat yourself badly , NO METTER your situation. You ALWAYS know it in your soul and you are always CHOOSING ( conciously or unconciously) your next move. The power is ONLY yours , so never blame anyone. And if you know you should stop , just stop . And forgive yourself 100% for treating yourself badly. Renew. If you treat yourself badly, the universe will pay you synchronistically with men who are treating themselves badly (because they have to pay for attention or nudity) . The demand for these kind of services will always be there through men who are treating themselves and others badly. But YOU ARE your universe so it ALL starts with you for you ( as a woman or a man, you have all the power and responsability) . It is the man’s job to take care of himself and others ( by being totally onest with himself he will atract FREE nudity if he wants, and genuine -not fake- connections ) AND it is the woman’s job to take care of herself and others ( by being totally honest and really taking care of herself, she will be “paid” with different circumstances and with her kind of man without selling her soul and she will have all the help, attention and admiration witch will be the real trully fulfilling one. What is the use to pay or to be paid with money for nudity and fake connection if you KNOW in your soul that this is not fulfilling? ⌛️

[@quelliana]

Sadia, you are too knowledgeable and intelligent to be on a conversation with these people. Please make sure your value matches the values of those you are having this type of conversations with. If you want a sustainable presence online, which I think you really deserve, be careful about who you are anchoring your name with.

[@YourDoctorUSA]

I like one thing about Andrew , he is very respectful to women when he is in front of them

[@insights3140]

I agree the culture teaches young women this is the path to liberation and when they feel like it or when they find the right one (which they have no preparation for) they can get married and have the traditional life…but by then the men who want to marry do not want these women. Men are just as accepting of “all women” tropes as well. When I was young I had significant social pressure from my “friends” saying if I didn’t lose my virginity soon I’d become a prude. You can’t win either way. We need better parenting.

[@petrplihal9999]

About the family unit Andrew is mentionning: A very important fact no to underestimate is that the family unit builds warriors (meaning : a warrior's mindset) if the children are raised correctly. Every member of the family unit with a strong family value will de facto defend their family from harm of threats. As in contrario, individualists are simply easy preys most of the time. Andrew get near this fact. By saying that destroying the family unit make people become individualists which are very easy to control & enslave. One example to consider : At every war, rulers always motivate citizens to join their armies by telling them that they will fight to protect their family & land. This since every war in history. If ruler would tell them that it's for anything else, citizen would not fight. So there is to be understood how the family institution is powerful. The family is also one of the top three instances of control (the two others are school (education & spirituality). That's why the state controls both & royalists managed to quickly get the control of religion. A warrior mindset brings honor & valor to a man's conduct!

[@JustineKiskaBusiness]

I do not agree with the lady who suggests that it is the women who need to make a change, Men and Women need to make a change. let's look at it objectively - as an example: if activists want to stop Animal cruelty, who are they going to? They are going to us the consumers because we are consuming meat, they are not going to the farmers and telling the farms to stop producing so much meat and have society go into a food crisis. In the same way it is the consumers that are the problem here for they are purchasing the content and by purchasing something you are now creating a market, Men are creating an only Fans market for they are buying content, women are creating content. It is a Societal Issue. Its not one Gender.

[@Elsa-dp2jo]

I was waiting for this conversation for such a long time!!!!😊

[@DA22-w1o]

Sadia sounded all smart like usual until Andrew came in then she lost it completely, started by touching her hair

[@amorepsyche808]

Survival Mode is a BIG word, this is the problem in this planet. We are all in survival mode

[@audodonald]

I think there are role models but they’re not on social media man and not “out there”. I have an MBA, am happily married to a very masculine and have 4 grown children. I think I’m a good female role model but my social media is locked down and I have no interest in being attacked for being more traditional so I just mind my own business. Of course, I’m NOT an Instagram model at 57 either but I do take care of myself and exercise. The only opinion I truly care about when it comes to my appearance is my husband’s opinion.

[@pashaj92]

Oppressive culture vs Humiliation culture. Good point Sadia. 9:14

[@spaceghostcoast2coast614]

The Woman on the right knows Her stuff hardcore but acts so humble about it. Her husband is living the dream. I know what this feels like 🙏🏼💕

[@dennisfabian2570]

She doesn’t have a partner, which leaves me a bit questioning

[@spaceghostcoast2coast614]

@@dennisfabian2570 yeah, that's a huge 🚩

[@souzanemou834]

Avoiding blame on a specific gender is more constructive; understanding the societal, political, and psychological factors behind certain behaviors is key. Sadia, the essence lies in pride and dignity.lubna is correct on this.. it's important to note that labeling this as a cultural issue and associating it with a different country may not be accurate or fair, your perspective might be influenced by the specific environment you experienced, many from the mentioned country in Dubai will not be visible in your surroundings, and one's style, can reveal influence from "influencers" and Identifying someone willing to seize the first opportunity to save herself in moments of vulnerability is quite clear. Psychologists adopting the guise of a typical influencer's appearance is skillfully done, Sadia. While there may be more psychology-savvy women, they should fully use all aspects of feminine bull in this social media era. Unfortunately, I haven't observed any social analysis from the journalist or psychological insights from the psychologist in this podcast.

[@hafsioussama4730]

I have more respect for you after watching this episode. A great woman, a bit stressed at the beginning, but you managed to keep your composure. Bravo !

[@AussieAmigan]

Not all women can be influencers. I bet a lot of so called "influencers" don't make much money at all. Just as only the top 1% of OF models are getting rich, with the rest are ruining their lives for little to no compensation.

[@AmelMason]

Daría was so on point here, speaking for the majority of women.

[@shiwanaLS]

Sadia thinks to the core, the cause of the situation. Other girl is blaming just girls yes those girls are wrong but men who are liking their bikini posts are worse than them.. and are really promoting, normalising this behaviour.

[@bob77137]

I am totally with Andrew on this and thank you for saying it so clearly! All the way from Eastern Europe, I believe in God and in family values. We stand up and stay up against all evil together, until we bring old values back and create a society with even more loving families!

[@sammynoyb4550]

Sadia for President.

[@unicornkitty.AI.]

I find it intriguing that I've watched several podcasts with you and other female panelists, and it's evident that you come from a place of caring, with a genuine desire for societal betterment. However, the path to a better society lies in recognizing our collective responsibility to improve as a whole. Yet, in these podcasts, while engaging with other female panelists, there's a recurring narrative that places the onus on women, suggesting that we are the ones needing change and improvement. This perspective is misaligned with the broader objective of societal advancement. True progress can only be achieved through collective efforts-both as individuals and as a society-aimed towards common betterment. Unfortunately, the discussions often veer towards a narrow critique of women, with some panelists cutting you off consistently. It's not for me to question their intelligence, but it becomes apparent that your educational background and grasp of the issue at hand is more nuanced, making your contributions notably more insightful, if that makes sense.

[@CutFromADifferentCloth7]

Interesting and confusing… As an outsider (*I’m Christian), I thought Muslims would have less problems because for the most part everyone in your community is on the same page as it relates to culture, religion, gender roles & conduct - and these things are reinforced by your friends, family and a lot of the people in your community.

[@omatseyeugen5697]

They are humans first and foremost.

[@CutFromADifferentCloth7]

@@omatseyeugen5697 True, no individual or group of people are perfect or without flaws or shortcomings.

[@realone1339]

@@CutFromADifferentCloth7 even within the Muslim community, we are not free from the influences that people in the Christian community, and other religious communities face today. For example, the influence of Hollywood, the music industry, social media, and propaganda. We are all affected by these things, and even the strongest "Christian" or "Muslim" can be swayed even if there are positive reinforcement via family/friends. The only thing is... it affects Muslims differently than Christians.

[@realone1339]

This is because Christians and Muslims have different rules and standards. For example: Muslim women who never used to be influenced by concerts are now going to the Beyonce concerts (listening music isn't allowed in Islam cause it distracts you from God), Muslim men are commanded to be honest and authentic, yet some date a non Muslim woman for years and then abandon her for a Muslim woman that he later marries, Muslim women taking off their headscarf for one day at their wedding, and having the wedding mixed with men and women (taking of headscarf in front of men isn't allowed no matter what, only her husband can see her hair), Muslim LGBTQ+ members (homosexuality is not allowed in Islam), Muslim insta models goes completely against what the headscarf "hijab" stands for, what's the point of being fully covered but wearing tight ass suggestive clothes, heavy makeup, all to get male attention... it defeats the whole purpose. SO as a Muslim woman, I can tell you.... without a doubt the negative influences of western media has every single community unhealthy chokehold.

[@LisaGammon-m2c]

Education and parental guidance is important even as a single parent, it’s important for guidance early in life.

[@emekaabuah6029]

These women are the kind of role models young girls need to look up to.

[@ingridyau3012]

7:00 "Confusion" is the word that defines the younger generation - gender, self-recognition, relationships, sex. I think it is normal for young people to feel confused at this stage of life. It is out of confusion and curiosity that people seek to experience different ways of life and experiment different beliefs, eventually finding their true belief, as "the unexamined life is not worth living". Therefore, I do not oppose "confusion" itself as it arises naturally in a society of diversity, but if "confusion" becomes the mainstream culture and political agenda, I can't help but feel worried. Most people do not "examine" their life experiences and beliefs, but blindly follow suit. As "confusion" is the norm now, they also become confused. To break free of this "confusion", people have to think for themselves by learning and reflection, but they just follow the trends, so it forms a vicious cycle of personal "confusion", resulting in this "confusion" no longer being a phase but continuing into adulthood. 16:12 What's worse, due to the "confusion" being related to sex, the consequence is reproduction. Thus, this "confusion" becomes a hereditary issue. Immature people who cannot heal their past trauma by therapy and even bring about their own negative behaviours create a traumatic environment for their offsprings. I cannot imagine how damaging this societal "confusion" can be to our future generations. 23:03 "Society is degenerate. It's not men and women." Blaming societal problem on either gender is not a comprehensive way of viewing the issue. Good take. I think Sadia is wise to use social media to spread her psychological insights in a manner that reaches out to those who normally would not have access to such knowledge and wisdom, thus are in a state of "confusion".

[@leahhensley229]

An old proverb says that once when a zen master was asked why a man being with many women is viewed as good while a woman doing the same is seen as bad. He answered by saying that a key that can open any door is a master key, while a door that any key can open is a shitty door. This reminds me of what Andrew says about women being the gatekeepers.

[@gabrielle7201]

Miami is not completely full of shones. Miami is just 1 city in Miami-Dade county. The good girls are found in the burbs, usually at home because they rarely ever leave the house.

[@tiberio1352]

jajajaja.....right, the 4 to 12yo good girls.

[@santijuas2010]

Lubin you are a Goddess, wise and with more sense than Sadia herself. Blame can be placed on men but is not until women also become accountable for their decisions that the world and relationships can start working for better.

[@aishanoorsheikh105]

Sadia has educated me so much❤

[@MakeupByMarisabel]

I loved the discussion before Andrew walked it. I find it mind blowing how you guys can make him part of the conversation when he has so many old videos out of him talking about taking advantage of woman by pimping them and taking their money and homes and literally had no shame about it, now he’s in this scandal that he was forcing woman to post on TikTok so they can attract men to their only fans and he would take that money, so how and why in the world would you even make him a guest and the most disgusting thing is that y’all make him feel so important and he just walks in late so disrespectful and wearing his sunglasses like he’s the shit like get the fuck out of here , then he starts making jokes at all the important points the ladies were making like it’s just disgusting 🤧🤢

[@Rita-tr6cq]

Some people actually realise after exposing who he is and others are still protecting him.

[@marilenat.5255]

Indeed 😢

[@truthh8597]

I swear for someone who pretends to be so masculine Andrew tate sure does depend on women to make his money

[@kongol5036]

You clearly never watched his old videos and only highlights and clips. His message aligns with Sadia. And people do stupid things to get rich when they are younger, should they be judged forever? Ask him if he would get back in that business today, he won't!

[@shayrobin145]

The word is called DISCIPLINE!!! It starts with self🫵🏽 When questioned by the most high Adam blamed 👉🏽Eve and Eve blamed 👉🏽Adam… At the end of it all BOTH were punished 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@kyliekia8917]

❤this never thought of it like that before

[@bennaarsongidi]

Profound

[@DeborahFoxx]

Sadia has a very interesting point, more men accept a promiscuous girl nowadays. Hence the standard of what is right and acceptable has shifted for girls.

[@xiaoandbao]

Instead of blaming men and women, can we consider trillion dollar tech companies who create these platforms for men and women to engage? What if there’s a ban on social media?

[@PeleRana-pp6zc]

Whether it’s men or women are to blame ends up becoming a chicken and egg argument. Both should take responsibility for their actions. Understanding true values and respect is important. Most people in life are confused and go along with majority!

[@happywanderer111]

Really good to see the balance of different perspectives and opinions here

[@aishanoorsheikh105]

She is psychologist and the journalist here is speaking as if she is a psychologist and understands the psychology of victims who get manipulated by male preferences and societal pressures...

[@zeeshanabbas9049]

Sadia sister, God bless you. I am very proud of you as a Pakistani.

[@bradleyb.425]

A women who posts bikini pics isn''t confused, she's immoral.

[@kohinoorchoudhury9185]

Oh my god such sweeping statements; who’s trying to break down the family home? There seems to be no understanding of people’s feelings to pursue their dreams.

[@J3an_j3an]

Women have what men want, it’s up to us to decide how they get it..

[@awaniamartha1274]

Sadia Don't use the exception as a rule. A few girls have been abused and so are the dudes....but the majority haven't. If a woman wants to be respected earn it and if a man wants to be respected earn it. Don't try to reap what you haven't sown

[@blissfullyinsane8718]

Most girls I know were abused. I live in middle class America

[@saimahussainsheikh369]

Excellent interview as always, and brilliant insight. I love how she calls it out and can see why this would upset a lot of people but hey if the shoe fits. Great role model for our girls

[@attilavf]

You know, for me there can be only fight between a man and a woman: who can attract better the other for a better common future.

[@mukondelelic.mulaudzi8357]

My view is yes, it's a two-way street. Let's stop blaming each other and take accountability and get back to being what God wants us to be, disciplined and principled. Ultimately this ungodly lifestyle is destroying both Men and Women. The issue is not Men or Women, it's a perverse idea about life. Let's both return to our Godly purpose on earth, restore Order and the blessings will follow us. Otherwise you will keep having this "chicken vs egg" debate, and that one never ends lol We're both suffering and the bottom line is that we're creating the conditions for our own pain and suffering.

[@justme-dq5sp]

the discussion is either chicken-egg discussion or law of supply and demand Filipino women used to be conservative but many of them have become sexualized, wrongly indoctrinized with feminism and pursuit of materialism..this is just sad, when women have become more of a sexual commodity, when expression of freedom has been thwarted, when parents has lost authority over their children, and when both men and women have lost their moral values

[@user-xf2wg5re8j]

sadia is amazing as usual

[@unaisahkhan976]

Awww Sadia, intelligent, beautiful and confident but once Top G walks in, she has turned to mush!!! His words are powerful, have been listening to him for years and agree with the majority of his content! Well done guys! Love listening to you all, May Allah swt guide you all and keep you strong and safe!

[@parkwood6334]

I'm glad Sadia points out that women are responding to what men want. Men act as influencers to other men. A man may be basically decent, but have some undesirable behaviors. If men surrounding him see these behaviors they tend to excuse and minimize them instead of dissociating themselves from him. Rhe man behaving poirly doesn't alter his actions and doesn't suffer consequences from them. I hope it's understood that the majority of Western women don't behave the way women in movies and television are portrayed.

[@bjgtu8429]

Totally agree Sadia, it is both women and man! That speech that morals only apply to women is just unfair. Both women and man need to level up.

[@LibbyStevens-gt3gj]

With the utmost respect to all four of the intelligent and highly influential speakers on this video, I’d like to raise a point of evolution. Yes I agree women have the power to change the narrative on this topic in society and yes I agree that men are biologically wired to procreate, However, I believe and feel strongly that in order to make the greatest and most successful change, men and women need to come together on a united front to evolve and make these changes. Women through the supply and men through the demand of said “godless ways of being”. Men are not consuming sex in order to procreate and to say they are not capable of change is intact belittling a man’s potential. And also part of the problem here. I feel as a society we project far too much that men are the way they are and can’t change and therefore women should do it. I believe ALL of us are capable of great change and if we are to cause change in a large enough scale to shift the trajectory of values and morals on Earth, then it needs to be done in unity, not division 💜🙏

[@shameercharaniya2168]

@lubna No I don't know what you mean. but you must definitely listen to Sadia what she means. Sadia is making a good point

[@adenanwasli61]

Lubin is right to a certain point.. Sadia is right, to a certain pount. But Andrew wrap them up nicely . Well done Top G.

[@agnieszkagarbacz2613]

To Lubna, Sadia is intuitively not blaming the victim in the conversation of young women and girls selling their pictures on line. In this particular situation men are more in power because they are the consumers of goods, the girls are catering to them. In the west there are more girls born to flexible mortality, often broken homes who do not have role models in the form of wise empowered mothers and grandmothers and fathers are often not present, however even when there they're often not wise as well. It's a generation raise watching shows like "Jerry Springer" and "People's Court". While I am writing this comment, I am realizing that our young men are also victims in this picture because they often grew up without strong male role models themselves, that is for the men in the west. Even when it comes to traditional homes, often the parents are hyper focused on appearance and not so much on what their children are doing. Besides the online persona can be completely secret from her family that often buys her the equipment through which she can post. Also, it pains me to always pains me when I hear about a homogenized white colonial culture because as a Polish white person, I belong to a Slavic culture that was oppressed by the Anglo-Saxon people's culture and continues to be colonized by the current modernized morality that is so corroded and disgusting. However, going further back into the history even the Anglo-Saxons were colonized therefore, the way I see it now, it had always been the culture of the pharaoh that continues to change its face but underneath it all it's all the same. Anyways I diverted, going back to how to fix it the first step needs to be to encourage men not to spend money on women that they are not interested in marrying.

[@michaelkuhn3488]

if women wre not online in the first place, selling their bodies, men would have nothing to look at. so you hold none of these women accountable for their actions. EVERYBODY has a choice, some choose to make bad choices others choose to take a harder road, but also the right road.

[@saintangel6731]

We good girls are out here, you have to look!

[@lvdeluxe1]

Sadia likes the Top G. I've never seen her mood enhance that quickly. All hail the Top G🎉

[@MatrixofLife]

Cmon Tate is not limiting himself in any way 😂😂😂😂 this must be a joke 😂😂😂😂

[@Avicena-tf5uj]

Wow yiur from Kashmir. Beautiful mountain people

[@carlobella1850]

She is one of the prettiest girls I have ever seen.

[@anniegolightly333]

We've just become champions of dehumanising ourselves.That...

[@kamilareyes7890]

Sadia i agree with every word you say

[@accountantas]

Super! Thank you!:)

[@derekbentley334]

Disrespectful in my opinion to wear sunglasses indoors during a interview. Without them you can read him like the clock.

[@marielocascio2099]

Could be to hide how deceitful he is.

[@nonab7692]

He said once he has eyes problem

[@hailekulcha8794]

Enlightening conversation, some proper wisdom and knowledge to understand for the sure folks. 🙏

[@walir9810]

Sadly, the devil cunningly manipulates the masses, while only a handful recognize their own complicity. Unless we awaken to our desires and exert control over them, we will inevitably succumb to his snares and suffer defeat.

[@deanvanlaarhoven1413]

What was her name? She is awesome!! Women have the power to make their own decisions! Stay out of the blame game. She is the boss.

[@nasstube3874]

what is his channel? please

[@truthfilter]

i can say with great certainty that Sadia is a 10 on any scale, and Tate knows it too, they seem like the most perfectly suited couple

[@mooshway2000]

Only extremely dysfunctional woman would touch him with a barge pole. Despite all his bragging.

[@arturazo18]

I think that the two women are right in their points of view and in both solutions that they give to solve a "problem" in this society. I believe that women have the responsibility to make better choices, just as men should stop investing in these kinds of activities. But in my opinion, the man who is afraid of the future of his daughters, everything lies in how we will raise our children right now. It is in his hands to provide them with the principles and values and obviously control access to the internet.

[@anandaalvarez4336]

Go Sadia

[@samahsheikh3743]

Sadia said something really powerful here. When you dont have God and your house is not stable, the society becomes your God. The laws determine your morality and the quicker they get you to believe God dosnt exist and the law is your sense of morality, the quicker they control you.

[@chrissyp9003]

Why does anyone need god to have morals? You don’t know what’s wrong to do to someone else without micromanagement or fear or punishment?

[@FeminineElegancebyRoz]

And it is evident in today's society. I absolutely and totally 100% agree 💋

[@chrissyp9003]

@@meriemyas people around the world and throughout time have disagreed about who or what god is, but many of them had what I am sure you’d agree are relatively upstanding morals. Have you read about all of the gods and found the common seeds of truth among their teachings? Have you read about the history of philosophy regarding ethics? Or are you basing your understanding of morality on a cursory read of the thoughts of one teacher or group of people? God lives inside every single one of us, so the answers can be found within yourself. And if you are reaching externally, a comprehensive study and analysis of ethics, as well as comparative religion, would be a good place to start.

[@chrissyp9003]

@@meriemyas May I ask what about my reply made you defensive and feel the need to say why you responded?

[@chrissyp9003]

@@meriemyas what do you suggest that I study? I already mentioned comparative religion and ethics, as well as philosophy. Comparative religion takes a great deal of study. Are you okay? Breathe. Quiet your mind. Then you’ll realize God is inside of you. You ask if God told me he’s inside of me? Absolutely, but Christ said it. Buddha certainly did. Sufi Muslims and all current and past Abrahamic religions say it. Hindus believe that. People experience God directly all of the time. Haven’t you heard of a religious experience? If you want to be Abrahamic, the Holy Spirit? I never said there isn’t one God. I actually believe that too. I believe all truly spiritual people who do seek truth understand that God manifests as the truth in every spiritual tradition and every human being on this earth. Everything you see is God, but we won’t even go there. All religions and creeds contain the same spiritual truths if you look hard enough. I was just contesting your “one” god who is the sole moral authority without question. Which God are you referring to in that case?

[@zensleep2321]

Sadia has not only far more knowledge but more compassion as well. We as society need to stop this i “blame the other gender”. women need to respect their bodies and man need to stop giving the motivation (money) for women do this. Is simple as that.

[@justimani4]

Exactly once the men stop dangling insane amounts of money for prostitution the girls will naturally stop falling for these traps and influencer lifestyle.

[@stevehuang2612]

The hypocrisy of Tate is unreal - he’s shitting n commenting on the very women that he’s profiting from with his webcam business

[@tiberio1352]

what kind of business is it??

[@anabelsanchez4605]

His webcam business was years ago. He is a different person now. He shut it down ages ago. But good you brought it up.

[@stevehuang2612]

@@anabelsanchez4605 nice try. I wonder what his most recent arrest in Romania was about?

[@eLion27]

I bet you sound like a decently reasonable human being in your own head. Smh.

[@GGxPrinceAli94]

We need more alpha omega divine feminine queens like Sadia

[@lizh1970]

What a clown the word alpha comes from the translation of aleph into Greek alpha . What delusional clown believes they are a god , many and that's a problem !

[@voidwalker9223]

can we stop putting these random Statuses on someone whos highly educated confident. Shes not a Tier 1 Sigma Omega stage 7 God shes a person who is attractive and took her time to educate herself...jesus christ the internet is cringe

[@johnong2655]

@@voidwalker9223 it's also cringy seeing how she behave here vs how she usually was on other podcasts

[@lifesshort9524]

such a simpy statement

[@SWOTHDRA]

She is nothing but manipulative semi attractive female, nothing special here

[@eattoliveveganstyle65]

Yes, it’s very clear that Sadia understands a lot more than the other girl due to her psychology degree. The other girl sounds privileged and extremely judgmental. She doesn’t seem to understand that some girls fall into traps, especially if they have come from a traumatic background. She has to understand that not everyone maybe as fortunate as her.

[@theEpicxY]

BuuuUuuuT they have BrAiNssSsss. acting like grooming/conditioning, low self worth arent contributing factors. sur ethey know its wrong, maybe they even despise themselves for doing it but its a type of "comfort zone" that they dont know how to exit. Sadia is VERY smart

[@DTreatz]

sadia is a grifter who doesn't make any sense tf you talkin about 🤣

[@YasminYoruba]

Absolutely

[@YasminYoruba]

@@DTreatzthat word is thrown around far too much. Do you even know what it means?

[@YasminYoruba]

@suits334 they really can’t otherwise everyone would go and get that. Only 30% of the population goes to University the rest are normally international students.

[@shalinikhan9541]

Sadia has truly expressed her views so eloquently. Love her intellect and respect her so much..❤ beautiful woman may Allah bless her

[@crystalkissoon2136]

Sadia we need more women like you

[@JA-xq6eq]

Sadia is too smart for this room. The other 3 are simpletons

[@tiberio1352]

...include yourself in that case....SIMP.

[@shadiasiroha]

Andrew tate he himself go out there with those type of girls and here he is blaming the society!

[@marielocascio2099]

He's a hypocrite profiting from porn and manipulating and coercing young women to commodify their bodies for money.

[@slavenskiduh1519]

So whats so unconcieveable that a person realizes that he is societaly manipulated?

[@mustafadheyab6513]

This is what they call it co-op with the situation Unfortunately, this is the society that we live in these days So he can’t live on another planet Don’t talk about something you don’t know

[@leoonthetube177]

Lubna has less experience of the world and human nature and her education on the subject is limited. Sadia is an experienced life coach and psychology teacher - her understanding is very in depth and she is not just opinionated but sincerely trying to bring men & women together. Lubna has a black & white inflexible view of life - she’s not someone who can compromise with human nature - she should stick to her investigative journalism - sadia please keep advocating for a more just and balanced society

[@It_was_all_a_dream]

💯💯 Lubna talks like someone who lives in a small bubble

[@TomRocket-zo3hf]

Sadia Khan is not a muslimah. She is a ruthless gold digger and an apostate. She idol worships bad boy millionaires the likes of the tate brothers, whilst demonstrating a sugar coated contempt for the average, hard working guy. This is haram. Also, she has been called out many times for being a gold digger and she does not deny it. She even does not deny being a total coconut. She is NOT a suitable role model for genuinely sincere muslim women.

[@Foxie770]

Lynn’s just knows how to repeat propaganda and slogans!

[@aishah3062]

True💯

[@Elman_Baku]

Oh come on. You are on the side of Sadia simply because she thinks men are responsible for making women promiscuous. You need to look ok at the bigger picture and understand that women are accountable and they have a choice. Don't try to be tolerant towards women who are easily achievable and call it so called vulnerable

[@Juicyfruitsbythesun]

Sadia is so well spoken. I love her podcasts

[@shamalatif3088]

We need more role models like Sadia. Takes a lot of courage to speak against the masses. This is a very powerful podcast, points made are relevant and need to be highlighted more.

[@michaelminney7102]

Seeing Sadia off guard turning into a 15 year old school girl screaming uncontrollably after seeing Andrew Tate. Seriously..

[@Butterflieslove2]

Yes👀👀👀

[@Mousettii]

I'm English and in my early 50s. I completely agree with Sadia. I was brought up with the same morals. Hopefully society will wake up and get back to basics x

[@lauraalozie3196]

Just love Sadia & her level of intelligence ❤

[@TomRocket-zo3hf]

Sadia Khan is not a muslimah. She is a ruthless gold digger and an apostate. She idol worships bad boy millionaires the likes of the tate brothers, whilst demonstrating a sugar coated contempt for the average, hard working guy. This is haram. Also, she has been called out many times for being a gold digger and she does not deny it. She even does not deny being a total coconut. She is NOT a suitable role model for genuinely sincere muslim women.

[@MichealGou-tw9og]

Yes her intelligence is something else

[@TomRocket-zo3hf]

@@MichealGou-tw9og - yes, when it comes to being a narcissist, psychopath and gold digger. She gives 'relationship advice' yet she got divorced after only 3 weeks of marriage. She has also had cheek implants and cosmetic surgery. What a total hypocrite!.

[@foysollee750]

​@@TomRocket-zo3hf- wow sounds like someone so bitter obsessed with her personal life. Why you stalking her? And no she's not divorcing 3 weeks 😅😂😅 You're definitely one strange creepy guy

[@Tamar-sz8ox]

I’m from the USA 🇺🇸 and most young women I know are in school , doing internships or working . They are normal people. These channels think all women wake up every morning to engage in “ immoral behavior “ 24/7 . It’s just not true

[@krissysherrell6625]

Thank you. I just don’t understand how people get stuck in their own box so much.

[@nightkingxx]

Doesn't matter, a guy needs to fit in 6666 category to stand a chance. That's the norm for most women.

[@amorepsyche808]

Same in EU never heard any of my friends doing OF

[@poizen-ivy]

​@@nightkingxxYou need some worldly life experience. Your generalisations are telling.

[@nightkingxx]

@@poizen-ivy U are delusional. Everyone knows what i said is true. Stats back it up. IRL experiences of many men attest to this fact.

[@mysticveile]

I was enjoying the conversation between the two ladies, so refreshing to hear educated intelligent women talk about important issues. But Andrew Tate coming in just took the conversation to another level. Love it! Thanks for this, I've got some mulling over to do now. I agree with all of them, if that's possible.

[@clarabruselas8444]

The girl who´s not Sadia is just a pick me girl. i agree women need to value themselves more and all this OF culture is crap, but she also needs to accept men are also at fault for this. her excuse is, let´s accept it, men are never going to change, like they are somehow retarded. we all need to be held accountable and expect better from ourselves.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Men never hold themselves accountable

[@yobro6053]

You underestimate the simp in men, these times have shown that men can't control themselves. It's easy to say just don't support only fans bro , and that guy already spent a grand on used socks . It's literally over for society i cant see it ever improving , if there is ever a generation after our time who look at us they'll blame the Simps for destroying everything.

[@nightkingxx]

Most men will not accept a woman with a high number of previous partners and who maintains contact with her exes. Do you expect us to stay silent and accept you as you are, while you maintain your double standards for your own convenience?

[@clarabruselas8444]

@@nightkingxx I expect men to not ask to date a virgin when they aren’t, imor to not expect women to have slept with one man or none while they’ve been around the block. Or maybe that they stop trashing women they lust over. Funny how i said we both need to be held accountable and you took from that “🥴do you expect us to stay silent and accept you as you are?” Lol, no. Stop bi&$ing

[@poizen-ivy]

@@nightkingxx Your insecurity is screaming in this comment.

[@FabiolaBustamanteA]

LUBIN DOESNT UNDERSTAND THAT THIS SOCIETY IS BROKEN

[@thedrasc1465]

Her entire take was as tone deaf as Kim Kardashian telling people to get off their asses and work

[@rosevan17]

We are giving that elite 1% too much credit. It's always "them" trying to do things to make us behave in a certain way. We all need to take more accountability for our own actions, because "they" wont accomplish those certain things if behave in a certain way. Keep free will for all, but choose what is best and most authentic to you. I loved your perspective on this Sadia! I agree that man should also be accountable and have some values and decorum with the woman they choose. Thanks for sharing ☺️

[@ZukMyZik]

Men are always accountable. If he’s fat plays video games all day, he’s a loser and won’t get women. While women if they’re fat, it’s body positivity and they are covers of magazines. If a man cheats he’s disgusting. If a women cheats, she was unsatisfied or unhappy. If a man chooses a dead beat women as a mother of his kids. He should’ve choose better, if a women dates a dead beat father or a bad boy, he’s the problem… see the pattern. It’s on both genders I get that but social or women always blame men. It’s why Andrew Tate said “it’s always the men’s fault” in the beginning.

[@Anonymous-vk9bf]

She is saying” do you die screaming like a little girl or do you die with dignity” it is sooo apparent that this woman never faced hardship and doesn’t know the real definition of vulnerability. When the choice is be homeless and starve she is one of the many who would naturally take any and every deal available in front of her.

[@ZukMyZik]

And how many women are homeless and starving compared men? You’re acting like it’s either sex work or the streets when it isn’t that. Sex work is short cut and most of those women don’t want to work hard to be successful so they chose a short key away. They just didn’t want normals jobs they rather do something that’s easy and gets them paid. Not a single only fans girl was going to be homeless or starve if she didn’t do that 😂😂😂 you’re a clown for that 🤡