I thought it was a really good connection and hoped it might lead to more than a platonic friendship until she turned up.on a date after.arranging to meet with me in our local social club. I was really taken aback and didn't know how to handle the situation and I did react but not as bad.as could have. Yes they ruined our friendship and we haven't saw or spoke to each other for 3 months I did try to clear the air a few days later.but got the door closed in my face I.did appreciate their company all the times we were together and if she were to communicate I would respond and see what happens.