YOUR FAVORITE CREATORS ARE LYING TO YOU AND HERE ARE MY (UNFILTERED) THOUGHTS ON THAT …

[@kbotelho8976]

Sam, I just wanted to give you a big hug when you were talking about your robbery and sweet Aries.😔 I’m so glad you have your mom and such special friends in your life to help make this more bearable. ❤️

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

Thank you so much, that means a lot 💖

[@cyntheknitter9927]

You are so blessed to have a circle of friends to support you and who you support as well. Please embrace this time in your life. Also, there is no "getting back" to who you used to be, as that's not working anymore. There is only becoming more of who you're meant to be. Sending love❤❤❤

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

thats such a good point, thank you ❤️

[@TheStipplingWarrior]

Grief and trauma experienced, coupled with trying to keep things 'normal' is soooo real. Long story not as long- after my own experiences- I felt like I was a completely different person, and still am. I used to be a go getter, climb the ladder, keep up the home duties and raise my babies all at once, kind of gal. Then, all the grief and trauma caught up with me. And I sit with that, more now than I ever allowed myself to, because I felt I had to be 'strong' I ended up having this crisis, if you will- that changed me completely. I cherish life so much more, but at the same time- my drive went by the way side- and I had so much of my identity toed to that. Now, although I value and appreciate the gratitude I have gained, I don't feel like... myself? It is a struggle. And the grief and pain is still there, which sucks, lol. I don't k ow- does any of that make sense? That is the first time I have actually articulated that. Ever. Probably because it is so complicated to try and explain.

[@christeennone8361]

I can relate to this!!

[@katia_gabriella]

I've been going through similar feelings and reactions, you could say. I think we're just trying to figure out what makes us happy as we get older. We're entering new eras. It's okay to feel off for a while when figuring out new life paths and questioning our feelings. All of this is healthy. It's just when you feel stuck or worse that it's time for a psychiatrist or therapist. I hope you're not having to deal that, but if you are, I wish you the best ❤❤

[@tonyasullivan1164]

I love how real you always been

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

thank you so much 💓

[@Sera-R]

You are such a sweet genuine person. Thank you for always being so sincere and authentic. Love your videos!

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it 💖

[@teresacapozzoli1822]

I absolutely loved the short with you and Ashley doing the faces and noises. I laughed so hard. I suffer from PTSD from a traumatic event 15 years ago. So from someone who knows I’m sending you lots of love and hugs❤

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

aw thank you!

[@jennifertriesthat]

It's so special seeing your friendships with Katie & Ashley. I'm so happy you all have each other. Ashely does have great style. Her house is so nice.

[@jenbcrueltyfree]

14:17 Okay, Okay TT refugee here 😂 so I’ve always been transparent in my content however I feel like this personally has made me feel the need to be more transparent and more thoughtful about the choices of brands that I’m using in my content because I feel this need now to make sure that their ethics are on point and their political views and contributions align more with what I’m trying to represent. I was raised on KZbin though and I was created by influencers like you and Some of the older generation where transparency and ethics were so much more important so I supposed that’s why TT has always made me feel somewhat out of place.

[@CarynsChaos]

I absolutely appreciate your GRWM vids where you aren’t already mostly ready. I want the start to finish. It’s a you can’t win thing, though, with showing your apartment/home in the background, it’s either too messy or staged (I’ve seen the comments and there’s always comments about either way. I LOVE the realness. But I’m also older and have been a part of the marketing world so it’s easier not to get sucked in by the exaggeration so many influencers do.

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

thank you so much, I really appreciate it 💗

[@jessieb93855]

Also incredible quality on this video! It was so clear and you can actually see your skin and makeup!! Love being able to see how beautiful those eyeshadows are! Loved the whole thing!

[@nadiazanchetta1388]

My heart breaks hearing all your pain 💔 Ashley is an amazing angel 😇 sister being there for you! Its great that you are talking to someone that can be there for you 😊 Appreciate you! Dont appreciate when content creators are not truthful when filming with products more they trick you in the outcomes 😮

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

Thank you so much!

[@tonyasullivan1164]

It's not just a dog that was yours unconditionally loved every minute

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

❤️

[@tonyarst2922]

Please never change Samantha!!!! We love you the way that you are. You have a huge heart and you are real.

[@jackivacha]

I’ve worked for the post office for 30 years. Recently I was offered an early retirement buy out. I’m pretty much thinking that I am going to accept it. There is a nice money bundle attached to it. And, I’m going to be 53 on March 7th. I’m scared to death but I definitely need the change! I will be able to do something I want to do. Definitely want to work at Ulta or Sephora. And, it’s time for me to start my own channel! When will I get this opportunity again? Probably never.

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

oh that's so exciting to think about a fun change!

[@katia_gabriella]

Yes! Go be free and happy!

[@Makeupry]

Do it! Create your channel! While I'm a bit younger than you, (I'll be 36 in a few weeks) I've been finding myself watching more creators who are older than me because I enjoy hearing about life lessons and different perspectives. I'm sure you have some wonderful stories and experiences to share!

[@kristygregory1483]

I don’t think I’ve ever related to you more. Wish I could give you massive hugs. I’m here crying with you hun. Sending so much love, strength, positive vibes your way. Xx

[@klinzer1]

People need people…period. No matter what anyone says people need people. I’m glad you’re learning not to be as hard on yourself. You’re an amazing go getter and a savvy businesswoman. You’re an inspiration to all and you should be proud of yourself. You’re amazing Samantha. Truly.

[@jenbcrueltyfree]

12:41 omg I missed that TikTok influencer with the foundation but I definitely needed that today given recent events not gonna lie

[@tdsollog]

I agree with you… your home should be safe. Everyone needs a safe space. I think it’s wonderful that you have friends who are there for you.

[@WildlyAmysBeautifulThings]

I am so guilty of the hyper independence as well. I really love that you have community that takes care of you that you feel safe to lean on. We should all have that in our lives.

[@krissigray4738]

I feel like I’m certainly guilty of watching videos that show an “unrealistic” type of life and sometimes it motivates me to do better and get my life that way but at the same time I LOVE the real creators like you that show what they’re really doing and the struggles. We may not be on the same path but I agree that I can pick up things here and there from anywhere that might help make my life easier/better. I think the overall takeaway is “take everything on the internet with a grain of salt” not everything is what it seems but you may still find a little gem that could help

[@mama.kelley]

The problem is that what people watch or hear on social media is not always real or realistic, and with the rise of AI I think it's only going to get worse. This is not true for every platform but certainly some. I think some creators have a lot of their younger audience believing what they see is true and authentic when it is just a facade and this is problematic. I like the content of creators like Sam who tells it like it is. It's not all sunshine and rainbows all the time and that's the reality I know!

[@katia_gabriella]

Seriously. The older crowd and the younger crowd think everything on TikTok is the God given truth 😂😂😂 '88 baby here.

[@Dragonflyathena]

Love you Sam. So thankful for this community. ❤

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

same here ❤️

[@tgknits]

Samantha, your true realness is why I watch!

[@jennifermarriott6581]

Sam, I totally understand why you are going through it don't listen to those nuckle-heads. I lost my soul dog a year ago without much warning. You are amazing! Having your house burglarized is so scary. You are supposed to lean on your friends its so hard. Just listen to your heart and forget the rest of it. People are so devoid of compassion. I think those people definitely are envious and don't do those things for themselves.I appreciate your honesty is best way to be!

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

aw im so sorry 😞 thank you for your understanding 💗

[@lisaorr3977]

It's been 10 years since my fur baby passed away and I still miss her with all my heart and will reach for her occasionally. Her picture is still my wallpaper on my phone. She loved me unconditionally.

[@lisaorr3977]

Your loved ones get to share their love and love on you when you ask them for help. My mom feels useful and that she has a purpose when I let her help me because she could love on me. Acts of love is a love language.

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

aw i totally understand ❤️

[@freckledklutz]

I like that you are you and don't have everything all perfectly curated your authenticity shines through :) Big hugs to you and as someone who doesn't do well asking for help I get it but we need people and its okay! You are right the way we view content means that creators want the engagement so your tiktok musings were interesting for me to hear.

[@theredderthebetter1]

I thoroughly enjoyed this video. Your approach has always been based in honesty and I’ve watched your videos since the early years of your channel. Keep doing what makes you happy and in the way you feel good about. ❤

[@DeboraWaller]

I received the Nomad palette yesterday and I'm SO excited to use it 😍 Being lifetime obsessed with skiing and having skied at Chamonix (which is one of the most beautiful picture postcard ski villages on earth) I knew I'd buy this palette the moment I saw it! 😅 I'll do your green look today for my first look, its stunning 💚

[@Stefistat]

Makes me sad all the lying with social media. I appreciate your honesty all these years. I appreciate your authenticity. ❤ I have my small curated beautyKZbinrs I watch but I watch more DIY and home design because it’s calming and motivates me to create. I’ve been on TikTok of course but I’m not one for the nonstop selling of products and they love every product. Life is short I rather be outside with family and friends then scrolling TikTok. I too lost my dog to cancer weekend after a Thanksgiving. I continue to feel the sadness every day bc I work from home and I go to call her and she’s not here. I loved Aries as we all did here. Sending you wishes for a wonderful 2025. ❤

[@jenfarina1892]

I think that's nuts if people are saying you're leaning too heavily on your friends. They're your family. No one is complaining that someone is leaning too heavily on their husband or their mom. Like, who cares if you work from your friends home?

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

lol totally agree ❤️

[@AL-vo2uh]

Great discussion topic. Yes, influencers are lying. It's like when you tell dudes porn is lying to them. They don't fully realize what that means half the time. How you can have a fantasy that doesn't exactly work the same way in real life, at least not without so much more work than most people are willing/able to put in. Our desires can make us vulnerable. But I do agree that we share a bit of the responsibility since clicks and views perpetuate what we consume. (We created our own monster, lol.) I think part of growth is understanding what we have control over and what we don't. So, even though you are independent, you can't always control how your feelings will come out. You definitely can distract/put off feelings, but much to my dismay you cannot ignore them forever. They'll come out somehow... if you can't process them, you might end up with aches in your body or not treating yourself well in some other way. I think another thing the internet makes us vulnerable to is validation. You can find people to validate your feelings, but it is way way harder to find support to process those same feelings. Like you can explain how awful people online are until you're blue in the face, but it won't change quickly... only how you see/manage those comments will change (or not). IMO, of course. I think the validation problem can effect dating a lot too--- we get validation for all our bad experiences we've had, but very little advice on how to make the experience better regardless of other peoples bad habits/behavior. (I hope I am coming through clearly here, that I am talking about myself & my opinions and not trying to insult people who are stuck in very human pitfalls. I've watched aesthetic videos. I've had my feelings validated without changing my behavior/perspective, etc. Because other people are the problem!🤭😅) Also, I really like that eye/lip combo. The darker cool-toned brown has this sort of velvet depth. I think a light sky or turquoise blue would be nice on you.

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

I really appreciate your perspective on this, thank you for taking the time to share!!

[@katia_gabriella]

I love how you explained all of that. It's true!

[@michellej5616]

Someone on the internet.... Told you that you are leaning on your friends "too much." ... I watched Angie's video on how toxic the internet is these days. Sam, you are a beautiful person inside and out. That ashhole's comment is not worth dignifying. But if sht like that is hurting you, maybe you do need a break from this place. I don't think you are weak for living alone and having had your home broken into. That's horrifying. I would be terrified, all the time. And anybody who says there is a time limit on grief has no idea. Fuck them. Love to you, boo.

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

thank you so much 💓

[@heidifoss532]

I’ve learned a lot and connected with many on TikTok. I pray it continues. I love the BTS content and GenX content!

[@tracyc1121]

This was a fun chat and they eye look is gorgeous on you! Ironically green is the color I don’t wear 😅

[@christinaalligood-thornton]

Samantha, hugs and love to you. I teared up; no, I cried with you. I lost my cat of 12 years last January. He was named Puppy, but unbeknownst to us, he was like a dog. He was brilliant and a beloved companion to me. He was healthy his whole life until his last days, and we discovered he had cancer. I miss him so much. I cherish our memories, though. He died on the Wolf Moon, and think of our memories on each full moon. I pray for your healing to continue.🤗🥰💋 Oh yeah, huge Mahomes and KC Chiefs fan here. 🏈❤️💛🩶🖤🏆🏆

[@debbiebubblescunico8042]

Big hugs!! Your makeup looks gorgeous and thank you for sharing Sam ❤❤❤

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

Aw thank you so much, I appreciate it!

[@jodydroullard5288]

Your eye look was stunning! I really enjoy these types of videos...❤

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

Yay! Thank you!

[@InternetUser7321]

I'm so sorry about Aries 😭 I used to watch ur videos years ago and I just got back into beauty KZbin recently and came back to ur channel, and that is such sad news :( I hope things get easier for u and it sounds like u have such a great support system of friends here for u

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

thank you so much 💓

[@vernaholladay9829]

I found you when you first moved to Vegas. I've always loved how you've always been honest about your life. I can relate to you. Tik tok not I to it,it's just not me but I will never knock anyone downfor it. Firm believer if you e got nothing nice to say shut up. I laughed about the girl with all the foundation, every time I watched my thought was nooo all that foundation all that money going down the drain 😅, but I never once commented about it. Please keep being you and being real. ❤❤

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

Aw thank you so much, I really appreciate that! 💓

[@adriennemartin763]

Life is eternal. This one life is short, but it isn’t the end.

[@OkieMomma]

I watch you because I like you, your personality, your honesty, your vulnerability, & authenticity! Thank you for just being you! 💜 In my opinion, once a creator/person is dishonest...I'm done. I'm not wasting my time supporting someone that doesn't respect me/us enough to just be honest. Aries wasn't just a dog, she was your best friend, your companion...she was unconditional love! You grieve her loss however you want, and as long as it takes... nobody gets to tell you how to do it, when to do it, what is right or wrong, or how long! I just lost my sweet girl to cancer 3 mts ago. My heart is absolutely broken, and right now it feels like it'll never end... I understand your pain! 💜🙏

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

Thank you so much, that means a lot! 💖 and im so sorry sorry to hear that. the loss is so painful 💔

[@Jabburns67]

There are somany take aways i got from this video. Lots of compassion, Just stay encouraged ❤

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

thank you im so happy to hear that 💗

[@tonyarst2922]

Losing Brene'e was the absolute worst and I am still alone. I don't have friends. I wish that I did. Samantha your journey with Aries and your home getting broken into is A LOT! I hope that at some point you will find that perfect peace. It's going to take time. But it's OK. It's going g to be OK. I hate when you cry😢. ✝️❤🙏🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾

[@paris201125]

Great job, be your authentic self

[@jessieb93855]

Hey Sam! These are my favorite videos from you, chit chat and makeup? Say less! Love hearing your take on these topics, we really need more transparency and realness…I really think all of this fraudulent content makes people so unhappy ☹️ Also awhile ago you spoke about how self sacrificing can become a form of self sabotage…I’ve been trying to find that video so I can listen again, do you know which one it was by any chance?? ❤

[@juliegass9746]

Hugs Sam! Having an experience with a robbery it took me a while to feel comfortable at home by myself. Clothing wise I do not wear is orange or yellow. It's not my color because I think it washes me out and not colors I gravitate to.

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

its so hard and im so sorry you experienced that!! but ooh yellow is one of my faves actually lol!

[@juliegass9746]

​@SamanthaMarchxo i have seen you rock yellow and it looks fantastic on you!!!

[@patrickplummer1027]

Happy weekend, Samantha

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

happy weekend!

[@p3nny4nn]

I am not a local friend but if I was, I would 100% be a Samantha's Squad Girlie. I also love football, have a dog love of my life that I lost and have not been able to get another dog since, and have so much I feel in common with you. I also never let myself have a KZbin channel because of my serious overshare. Know that you are brave, seen, and loved!! 💕🥰

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

aw thank you!

[@katia_gabriella]

😂😂 I missed watching all of the lies coming out. I was desperately trying to download as many as possible of my favorite videos that cheer me up or are just so me. I found my favorite video of all time doing that, so if TikTok was actually gone gone, I'd be sad, but I don't care about all these fake people.

[@debwhite5281]

No we need to see you!!

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

❤️

[@Lilblue515]

When people say they want to see "real" people is the same thing as guys who say they prefer girls who dont ware "makeup" People dont know what they want.

[@katia_gabriella]

Or know how to articulate what exactly they're trying to say. I watch Pop The Balloon or Find Love on here, and most people backtrack on what they've asked or said because the other person is taking in what they're literally saying, and it's not favored toward them. So what happens is that the person who even said anything to begin with has to confront and explain what they meant. Just don't say it if you don't mean it! 😂😂 So lots of people without dates.

[@heidifoss532]

I remember that terrifying feeling! And I went through the home invasion as a 18 year old back in 1989!

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

@heidifoss532 oh my gosh!! that's so so awful😞

[@heidifoss532]

@ I get that unsafe feeling you have.☹️

[@jessicalevy2415]

Not to get too deep, but I feel like so much of this idea that you (or anyone) is “leaning too much on your friends” shows how we just do not have a model for deep friendships that look more like a partnership than just friends who see each other occasionally. Those same people would not criticize people leaning on their spouses in the same way after a tough year. I’m so glad you have Ashley, Sam, and I bet she’d say the same about you 💜

[@JoysBeautyJawns]

I just love you so much 🥰💕💕💕💕💕🩷🫶💜💞

[@katia_gabriella]

💖💖😞 Take your time with your feelings and processing. I'm dealing with stuff from forever ago, and it's impacted my everyday life enough that it's extremely rough. Stay healthy! I did the opposite. No idea if I'll be fully intact body wise in ten years.

[@sarahwardbooks]

Red wall watcher here!

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

omg hiiii!!

[@tonyarst2922]

I dont wear green 😂😂 but i do wear khaki green😅

[@marianekalis1533]

His name was Edward. I actually have my menopause brain working today, so I had to google it. The TRUTH! 😮lol great content today. ❤hugs to you from Ohio where we had single digits on Monday Tuesday and Wednesday.

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

Omg yes!! LOL 😂

[@diannepalshook4845]

Hi Sam. I enjoyed today’s video. I also live in las Vegas. I know how you feel about Aries passing my dog died in 2021 kidney and heart failure. Have you considered adopting from a shelter. I’m trying to convince my husband to get another dog but so far no luck. I miss our Roxy every day.

[@ingriddryden1607]

I love hot topics like this😀

[@wendywilliams4042]

The color orange. It should be banned lol.. And i totally get where you're coming from! Keep up the great work! 💯

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

lmaoooo

[@jodydroullard5288]

I believe Edward was Robert Pattinsons character...

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

THATS IT!!

[@daragladwell3106]

❤❤❤

[@glitter5031]

I absolutely understand not feeling safe in your home where you should feel the safest. I was raped by a serial rapist 33 years ago. It takes all your security away. I completely understand. People need to just take a step back. Take the time for you. No one should judge another person.

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

thats so so horrible, I'm so sorry 😞

[@Omgitskrystal]

💜💜💜

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

❤️

[@aprilrich807]

🫶😊👍

[@mariavassallomariasawesome]

😢❤

[@Patriot1789]

Why should creators be more truthful than the President? . . . . See how that works? He can do it, so can I.

[@foodandlipstick]

Both can be true tithe same time, I think

[@cjaneg97]

If they are selling something it's liying whether it's a product or a lifestyle

[@doriking9756]

You went through trauma and violation! If you and your friends are comfortable with your arrangements, then it’s no one else’s business! There’s no time limit to adjust, ever!!! I’ll be thinking and praying for you and your friends. ❤❤❤

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

thank you so much for understanding 💗

[@debwhite5281]

Chiefs ar gonna be the Bills.

[@debwhite5281]

You don't lie but others do. There are fakes and rude. I have no friends and no money and ond oxygen so i can't travel.

[@debwhite5281]

Why do't you and Katie live together?