IS GOD HOLDING BACK On Your Love Life?

[@Izayahswalk]

When I get lonely I used to think that was me longing for a relationship with someone. But now going down this walk with Jesus my heart doesn’t feel as lonely because my relationship with him is so comforting and fulfilling. Thank you Paul for reminding me that we must seek our relationship with Christ before anything.

[@loverighteously]

Hebrews 12:11 says, "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. This is my phone background to serve as a reminder. This video was timely and beneficial.

[@hahahlol9724]

@@loverighteously hus word is amazing

[@Jaylmusembi]

Been single almost five years now. Won’t lie it’s been really, really hard. Knowing that I have God and he’s all I need is making it a little easier. Hoping one day while I’m still on this earth I can see how going through it was part of the plan

[@bookishmami]

Please pray for me. Grieving the loss of a relationship with the man I thought I’d marry. Battling thoughts of self-condemnation, guilt and depression. Losing hope.

[@koketsomorwalela8657]

Me too

[@DaughterOfGod929]

Lord, please bring comfort to my sister in Christ and allow her to know she can forever come to you for help ❤ in Jesus name I pray Amen

[@iheartjbgccb]

I am going through the exact same thing around the holidays when we were supposed to make happy memories. I pray that he is reproving and preparing us for our future blessings. God is the only thing getting me through this

[@Itssmyles]

Can yall pray for me. I’m anxious and scared. My life is chaotic and my love life is a whole mess. Pray that I may trust in God more and not be afraid! God bless!!

[@anayaj7163]

Be sure to let go of whatever God is telling you to, ask God to show you the things you need to know (in a way you understand and the heart posture to welcome it). Remember that whatever God can give you/promises you, can’t be compared to what the devil tempts you with! I will be prayinng for you!

[@AviMarie21]

As I was reading your prayer request some scripture jumped out at me and I copied them below. Understand that you are not alone, so many of us are going through what you are experiencing, but we serve a God that is always with us. We don’t know what tomorrow is going to bring but God will never leave us nor forsake us. Don’t be afraid, God is working things out for your good. Just keep saying “Lord I trust you” in very situation, and I am a living witness that God will work it out. Philippians 4:6-7 6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. 2 Timothy 1:7 For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.

[@hahahlol9724]

He goes before you brother.

[@Itssmyles]

Thank you for the encouragement! God bless!

[@Itssmyles]

@Hahahalol9724 amen he does. God bless you!

[@EssieBMusic]

33 years, and I've never been in a real relationship. I have been single my whole life. God has always been there, and I do my best to trust Him. The desire to marry, the loneliness I feel, the sadness that I've never been in a position where the feelings are mutual...c'est la vie. I guess I'm still not there yet 🙏🏾

[@cassialopes9383]

Im 23 and same here. However, only now I was able to recognise that lust and sexual immortality may be the reason for that. Only now I was able to genuinely repent after a set of rejections. I really hope god has something better for me, and I’m glad he has opening my eyes and that the Holy Spirit has convinced me about my sins. God bless us.

[@SeekGodsWord-n3g]

I haven’t been with a woman since my Wife passed away, 12-24-2023. Since I’ve gotten closer to God, I don’t really want a relationship right now. I miss my Wife everyday, but being with a new woman is not something I want currently.

[@hahahlol9724]

Bless you brother. Yoke with God he will give you comfort.

[@theone7216]

Wow the same here I was married 17 years .been since over for years since wife passed. She told me before she died find a good woman. Guess what all the wrong women came my way i turned them down. I just been focus on me and the lord still missing my wife.

[@PANCY_MAKGOBATHE]

God told me 3 days in a row that i must let someone i loved deeply go, i didn't and now God allowed them to hurt me. I am angry and in pain but i know God has the best praying for me. First i have to repent and work on myself and heal. The devil will never tempt me💔

[@JessBelman-x4e]

Praying for you sister

[@PANCY_MAKGOBATHE]

@JessBelman-x4e thank you

[@ItsAllAgape]

As a woman growing up with no male figures in my life. I've surrendered the desire to be loved by a physical man. Single 6 years and the loneliness is DEEP!! But clinging to God and waiting on Him to provide His best is all I have to hold onto!!

[@ashtonwoods1375]

Amen

[@DaughterOfGod929]

You’ll make it sis! By the Lords help

[@margaretturner4467]

I was thinking, His grace is sufficient…and it is. And read Psalms 19.

[@MarianKaine]

"The answer is God". Thanks for sharing! I needed this! 🙏🏾

[@briajackson0]

I have been single for 4 years and even though i feel lonely, I know God has a plan for me. I have been lukewarm for years and i truly believe this season is about God and God alone. Please pray for me I want to know God like He knows me.

[@SistahJay27]

You are in my neighborhood, driving down the street and knocking on my front door. Gesh! I'm at a point in life where I actually want to be single. I've never felt this way before, ever. I don't even watch t.v I read and study more because my goal is to grow my faith more in God in 2025. I don't feel lonely I have peace.

[@JadenJG742]

Well, I am sad about the decline of human relationships. Me personally, I am going to focus on my relationship with Him

[@anayaj7163]

Yes, and ask Him to send a good,fruitful community of true believers to uplift and disciple you!

[@Naiki29]

Thissssssssssssssssss. And I am a woman! This! It’s the exact same for women.

[@chd-u2c1p]

Very encouraging. Gods is bringing me through that situation right now. It’s not easy in your own strength. Everyone needs encouragement in this area especially. This video had hit home for me. Amen and Amen 🙏🏽 🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽⚔️⚔️🔥🔥

[@DarkNLovelyy]

You're wise brother Paul, and thank you God so much for your grace, mercy, discipline and your redirection and correction for your children. God knows we need it. We love you too brother Paul

[@ruthieauguste670]

Amen! God is truly using you to edify His remnant my brother. Prayer and fasting truly works, your words testify to that. Stay encouraged saints, God remains faithful. Blessings. 🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@margaretturner4467]

Bro! This is so true. Honoring God and clinging to Him is key. I’ve been fasting as well and the Holy Spirit led me to the word. Psalms 19 was / is so good! I have been longing for a stronger relationship with the God of the universe. I’ve wanted to appreciate all that Jesus the Christ has done for all us and to truly worship Him as Lord. And finally to accept the leading of the Holy Spirit and not to grieve Him. Fasting and prayer is key to breaking strongholds and opening up revelation of the Word!❤🎉😮

[@essie2459]

Thank you for this video. I’m currently disciplinig myself to stop trying to control the outcome and trust in God in every area of my life. It’s difficult but liberating 💕

[@kiim_caam]

Ay, I’m not even stressed. I’ve bounced from relationship to relationship to cope with the loneliness but sitting in that feeling I don’t feel to lonely anymore. I accept myself I just want to not have my heart closed off. More excited to form good bonds of friendship first and meet new people

[@mavscarlos28]

I pray the Lord reveal these truths that they may be self evident to me.

[@echozulu2011]

when and if i finally ask that girl from church out, I'm not thinking about her lustfully, im thinking about what could happen with that relationship. I'm hoping that if she agrees to be more than friends, then it goes to marriage, and is long happy marriage where i can grow old with that person and just be happy. but i trust god with my life, and if he says no relationships then that's fine with me. i trust him completely.

[@zeraorasincero5551]

Paul, my brother in Christ. Thank you so much and praise the Lord, who used you to talk to me and other people about this. From a brazilian teenager who is so far from you rn, you blessed me so much. God bless

[@DanielSanchez-tv6vh]

Facts brother. Trusting in God fully is not easy but necessary. Thanks and GOD bless y'all! ❤🔥

[@crystalcarter9375]

Keep going, MOG. God bless you and all the singles watching this video. 🙏🏽

[@jasminealexia]

Oddly enough, what’s really helped me is the story of the girl who went viral here on KZbin where her own husband SA’d his own two daughters. So many people wear masks. They present themselves as one way, then later come off as someone totally different. This is not true for everyone of course but I’d say a lot. I’ve just been working on my finances now more than anything. Putting my energy into God in regards to my finances and self improvement has also helped me really take the edge off of the loneliness feelings. I’m praying for you all so heavy! When I pray for my own kingdom spouse I regularly pray for other Christians to get married as well! I can’t wait to see more and more kingdom marriages all through 2025 in Jesus’s mighty name, Amen! 🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@SaiMyName4]

Letsss Goooooo 👏🏾 that was good. Keep doing what you’re doing

[@Alina-vt2hk]

I really needed this. As a woman, I really struggle with not watching/ reading pornography. I used to think it was something that was good because it has helped me maintain my “virginity” but I’m starting to realize I’ve become so lustful, even despite not being with other men physically.

[@jennya4170]

Amen! Thank you for this word brother.🎉

[@jacobmyers0615]

spitting straight facts brotha. Thank you for what you are doing. A timely word to say the least🧡

[@Trinitainspo]

This was very good and on time 🙏🏾 The lord revealed this same area to me in the beginning of 2023 after I was idolizing the idea of marriage (video on my channel) after that I began to "accept" the correction the lord began in me... it was a very long and not easy year for me as I had no idea that you could even idolize a marriage. However God delivered me. I still pray for a God ordained marriage now however I no longer "live for it" I live strongly for the lord and submit to his desires for my life! Thank you for your obedience man of God! This is what we need to hear.

[@audasianewsome30]

thank you for your obedience, because this video just helped me!

[@Pap1vic]

Never watched a video that spoke to me more then this one💙

[@AviMarie21]

This was a beautiful message and something I needed to hear. Thank you for allowing God to speak through you and deliver and on time word.

[@wesleygraham6325]

Hello Paul this is a perfect message to me thank you ❤

[@M_Taylor252]

Amen to this word 🙏🏾

[@ItsEllis113]

Amen brother. Christ is the prize. He is the only thing that truly matters in the end. God bless you. He is revealing to me to lean on Him more. Trust Him more. Let go of control. He is in control.

[@_wisdomandlove]

Dang this really hit the spot , i know i had to face it, but you really made it more real to me. Thank you

[@kbooify]

Such an important video. Thanks PB 🙏🏾

[@636ari]

Everytime I'm feeling down on a topic or have slightly lost hope, Jesus always sends a sign that I need not worry for he's alongside me, and it's always done in the most beautiful way. His closeness to me is something I would never take for granted, I think about it and thank him for it almost everyday, though it really should be every single day. God bless you♥

[@SeekGodsWord-n3g]

I can’t stress it enough, be GENUINE in your walk with Jesus, praying and reading the Bible. I PROMISE YOU, you will no longer want to sin. I know, I was there as well, watching porn, masturbation. I was convicted by the Holy Spirit and STILL did it. I felt AWFUL, a porn ad on here did it for me. I haven’t watched it, masturbated since June. Praise God!!

[@MissRod-p1q]

Amen! 🎉

[@ethanchumbufit]

Thank you for the video bro i was battling Lust but after watching this video that urge is gone after i was hearing what you were saying and bro i think you need to pray after you done your videos

[@dlowmighty9283]

Really needed this Amen 🙏🏽

[@JonahJin-g3t]

I asked a sign from God, about this girl I’m dating rn, and this popped up. Thanks

[@reggiedavis4961]

I love you Bro. Thank you for going through your suffering in order to help us out of ours.

[@Ari__shantel]

Thank you for this message ❤

[@JanelKLauren]

This video was very edifying. Thank you for the obedience.

[@terriyannab]

Thank you so much for sharing this video. It is needed and is helping me more than you may know.

[@tatianao.5583]

Good stuff! Thanks for sharing this.

[@jeremiahguard11]

Amen God bless you and God loves you man

[@JoeTorres-c4l]

Thank you brother for allowing the Holy Spirit to lead you. On time video 👊🏾 Be blessed my guy

[@MissRod-p1q]

Awesome word sir! It’s going in the playlist.

[@JayWhite123]

Thank You for sharing this well needed message. God has given you the opportunity to share what you’ve learned with those who need it such as myself. Now I can do the same ❤️✊🏽✝️💯

[@bradleya2574]

Currently writing this in a hospital have been Single for almost Two years, since my ex partner left me, i felt alone, and physically unwell but this Video taught me so much , Jesus truly is wonderful! I know life will get better. “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” Matthew 6:33

[@BrieLani]

God is all we need 🤍

[@traderkel]

amen God bless you all 🙏❤️‍🔥

[@Ez-Money.E]

Thank you for this message. I am struggling so badly with lust. It helped hearing you say that God pulls us out of things or relationships to ultimately help us. I was a bad boyfriend and I desperately need Jesus. Please pray for me❤️

[@MissRod-p1q]

I pray that if you haven’t given your life to Christ, you will. Check out Romans 9:10. Then you surrender and allow Him to lead you and renew your mind (Romans 12:2) When you walk in the Spirit, lustful desires can’t walk with you (Gal 5:16). I pray God reveals the source (root)of your lust and that stronghold, idol be cast down (2 Tim 2:22; 2 Cor 10:4-5) Once you know the Lord, you can do anything through Him (Phil 4:13). I pray that you find God today and He completely changes your life, in Jesus name!

[@Awalkinheart]

Great message, beloved. Thank you for sharing your message and heart. I greatly appreciate it and you. ❤🙏🏽

[@Princessyinss]

Another revelation God gave me this week is that a lot of us are still in agreement with the spirit of smallness. ( read numbers 13-14 where the Israelites rejected claiming the promise land due to their fears/ insecurities- even when God literally handed it to them!! )We might have low standards/ beliefs on the kind of partner he could bless us with. This is kinda dangerous because if he eventually blesses us with said partner, we may not be actually prepared for it due to insecurities/ seeing ourselves as small/fear etc which could lead to us sabotaging it. So some of us really need to see our worth so we can step into the right partnership for us, rather than the familiar things we are used to (e.g the I Israelites asked if they could go back to Egypt, saying it wasnt that bad when the promise land was literally there for them to take 😅)

[@KeyannaRuss]

Okay man of God, you better teach!

[@Ohheyyall]

You are so right brother.

[@TayLove31]

This was a great word, I needed it. Amen 🙏🏾

[@dalejones1396]

Thanks Big Brother 🙏🙌🦾💯

[@NolaD1123]

Thank you 🧡

[@caleblukete2594]

Thank man for the video❤

[@ogescobar2]

Amen. God Bless You 🙏🏻

[@GamersPalette-1]

guys this vid is so helpful 😇

[@EL_Christians]

Every thing is what I needed

[@imcyruskw]

1 Corinthians 10:13, "God will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you can bear," God knows you can make it through, just believe for it and walk in his word.

[@TheledbyGodcast]

Unless I’m reading wrong but sounds like your saying because we’re not chasing God perfectly daily is why we’re single

[@asiamwithraenetteleepodcast]

Not you reading me about my heart of lust but you’re so right I definitely think about sex an unhealthy amount

[@nerva39]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@Phyfoee]

I feel bad almost everyday, I don’t know why, I get random aches in my chest from mental pain anxiety hitting me like a bullet, I’m 15 and I feel scared everyday for myself and my family and for what? I don’t understand I just, I think I need help because I can’t keep living to feel bad, to feel depressed and sometimes I feel there is no hope for me sometimes. I help people around and only one of my friends has asked am I ok.

[@SaulAguilar.]

Trust God’s plan

[@cruzitaenos]

Amen

[@hihellobye4018]

dump, it's a bit of a different situation for me but aside from praying about this i wonder what fellow believers think it's been so confusing for me. idk if it's good but ive ended up pushing away some people because of fear and because i really want to wait on the right time (still dealing with studies🥲). it's been weighing on me though how it feels like time is stopping for me while doing so, while for others it keeps going. recently it feels like i pushed someone nice who made it clear that they had pure intentions (and they have the same beliefs) away and i got scared. nothing happened tho, it was just during the early stages of liking someone and i guess i somehow pushed it away, and theyve been led to someone else (a good person as well, glory to God). i feel lost because im worried if im doing things in a way not guided by God. but i also think the anxiety im feeling is from a lack of faith in Him, so my prayers right now are for His forgiveness and guidance to keep trusting Him. anyway, to fellow waiters out there, im praying that we keep holding on to that faith and let things happen the God way, not ours. God bless you, esp for reading all the way here haha

[@TheRandomGuysOfficial]

I search "why am i single" and then i get videos like "YOU WILL BE A VIRGIN FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!" And i'm like "wtf?" But there are a few videos that tell the truth, like this one

[@NB-uh5fy]

Amenn

[@bigheadfriendly]

so does this mean i’m not meant to be loved or married? this is why people treat me like crap? it’s my fault?

[@ChaunceyHarrelson]

Yo bro where do you find you background music for your vids?! i’m a small channel making gospel content also!

[@Yoursy27]

hi, can i share this vid to others?

[@Paulbernard11]

Please!

[@JamesG1-c1y]

Whats Up PB hows it going!

[@Paulbernard11]

Whatup! Just pushing through it day by day brother hbu?

[@JamesG1-c1y]

@@Paulbernard11 Good bro started a Grow Group with my close christian friends and connecting with the LORD!

[@TheledbyGodcast]

I actually don’t find this fair for you to say. Cause all I ever do is pray and yeah there are days where I become a little drifty. What makes me diff from anyone else who don’t do it at all though and still has love?. You should rephrase that.

[@tia_shay]

I often wonder the same thing. I know many people who got married young, and they did not seek the lord or have any type of relationship with him. Honestly, I don’t believe that’s a true requirement. It’s advice people give often to unmarried singles, however most married people have never done this. So, now what?

[@EricTheOvercomer4]

Idk if its just me but your speaking fast

[@tia_shay]

It’s just you, but you can edit the speed

[@BrielleMercedes]

🤍