How Hindu Weddings have become Degenerate

[@vp-lv6yk]

I am so tired of all these show off and waste of money that i decided to do my wedding in janki temple of sitapuri. With only close family members. Relatives attend weddings only to come to eat and complain. Its better to give all that money to poor children insted of wasting on people who will anyways complain that it's not good enough

[@anianu-nm9ql]

Exactly my thoughts for my children

[@vijayasaraswathy3894]

In addition sir to whatever you discussed,there are a some more aspects that we need to talk about and let out feelings known.The South Indian wedding has never included mehandi and Sangeet events.these were exclusion North Indian traditions.However,in the recent years ,more and more Tamil weddings are getting these events included.Up until now ,I have not seen one single North Indian wedding that includes South Indian tradition, except ofcourse,when it's a cross cultural marriage.tambram weddings are performed in traditional attires which is called madisar for the bride and anchagacham for the groom.Brahmins hold the highest respect and sanctity for these attires where in,they are worn during special pujas and sos much so that partaking lunch in one's wedding attire is not permitted.Its one of the very few traditional aspects of Brahmins that exist today.Howevrr,we can see actresses wearing this madisar and getting married to their partners who belong to a different religion.the groom is also made to wear the panchagacham.why don't people understand what traditional value aan attire has and are ready to abuse it with no thought.It really angers me to see such flagrant abuse of traditions are are so very specific and special to individual communities.

[@sunwukong2959]

Yea this guy is blind over Ambani son's wedding!

[@dcmhsotaeh]

Same with dress food language Salwar kameez was unknown in Karnataka until two decades ago paani puri Samosa Naan kulcha paneer also No north Indian girl wears langa pavda

[@locusstandi8329]

I think Mehandi and Sangeet was a Punjabi thing which over time rest of North India adopted. Weddings in UP Vihar 50 60 years were very different from Punjabi weddings. Because of the huge influence of West Punjabi Bollywood it became popular. There's a difference even in practices of West Punjabis and East Punjabis.

[@spiekd]

I have to agree with you .I don't understand why mehendi ,sangeet and all the dancing have to be included in south Indian weddings .It just cheapens the whole experience .

[@sunwukong2959]

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[@irshikha]

These weddings, even if they last, have no actual feelings towards the partner. Tell these couples that their internet usage will be banned for six months, they'll start showing their true colours. It's sad that instead of actually "living and experiencing" togetherness, people are treating it as an acting platform.

[@kalyaniashok3382]

Why are you discussing celebrity weddings and say that we are losing our values? Common people do the weddings with great values The purohits do explain important aspects Purohits bar the guests from touching and congratulating the couple until all the ceremony are done

[@RealRandomVideos]

no, in telugu states, even common people are doing these perverse weddings.. especially in Rich people

[@kitttyMiaw]

LOL!!!! they shout do drama, barat mehndi dance, the Puja satpadi was not even considered as priority but gifts money decor are!

[@ratandeshpande8255]

Maybe he is trying to say common people emulate such things

[@SR-mv6wn]

Tamilnadu right

[@GalaxyImpact200]

Because people may try to copy celebrities

[@Aversiontostupidity]

You are discussing vulgar display of wealth in wedding without mentioning AMBANI weddings?? So cute

[@Iambeautiful123]

Did they sell their wedding to Netflix???

[@financialvigilante365]

They had pre wedding parties - their wedding ceremony and rituals were held with respect and sanctity that they deserve. You only saw videos of the party - not the wedding ceremony. Most Hindus have zero respect for the ceremony but they want to have an elaborate Bachellor Parties / Haldi and Sangeet which nothing runs on time. And when the main ceremony is supposed to take place, no one ever adheres to the anointed times.

[@seansanwhybaptisingmakesch1930]

Ambani wedding was deeply dharmic and culture.

[@mercedesbenz3751]

Ambani wedding was about business and Indian's showoff of cultural power to the world. And he did become successful in that. . Hence it should be accepted as exception, but normal people shouldn't make it a norm.

[@samrat7]

For Ambani it was expected as they were always seen this way, people even mock their wealth, but celebrities wedding culture is something new in the past 30 years, which many a times do not last long. This was discussed

[@MadhaviT-t9x]

Celebrities sell wedding videos becos there are people who like getting a Glimpse of the rich and the famous. Like Kim Kardashian. Becos there is consumption, these exist. If there's no demand , nobody will pay for these weddings. You have to blame the degenerate consumer choices and high consumerism pusher by the media and social media. Actors are only a medium!

[@pakakaka4227]

I agree with a slight reseavation, these so called CELEBRITIES also go ahed and sign with such companies without feeling any shame for it...I mean rich already and yet hungry for more? Naga should not have been even appreciated for his 2nd time wedding leaving samantha in the middle of life-long partnership that he had entered earlier...but who cares? I thought some female leading actresses may come out against such show off, but most fall in the same categories...that's why some refer all of them to be Bhandywood products!

[@annusingh4694]

Please also post how the weddings should be done as a next video in this series

[@minakumari1515]

It should be done like how south indians do, because that's how its mentioned in vedas

[@KnowtoGrow4354]

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[@ytadltspv]

pls go read books on the procedures. each community have their own procedure and none of them talk abt vulgar display of wealth . all thse spectacles are for showng off . if people learn and know the meaning and reasons for the various ceremonies and chants, they will stop all such ceremonies and rituals and just keep it civil and simple.

[@jagadeesh_damarasingu]

Irony is that, Nagarjuna's father ANR played the character of 'Shri Gora' in his movie 'Chakradhari'.

[@urmilajithoo6511]

The Ambani 's set the role model for the rich and famous.. And the guest list was even more astounding..... Glad you made this video Indians have become so Americanized... Remember that British model who married in India and all the westerners had a party of their life they never could have dreamed off... The marriage did not last..... She went off and connected with the Australian cricketer. .

[@locusstandi8329]

Some people are doing North Indian South Indian crap in the comments. What a pity! First of all who decides what is North and what is South? North of what, South of what? When Hindu India included Tibet Nepal Afghanistan, Iran and Sri Lanka, Maldives and Indonesia what was North what was South?

[@ac-jn7hg]

It's not crap , not against north. Mehndi and Sangeeth r not a part of south weddings but are recently seen in every wedding . Mehndi is to be a low-key affair some 30 years ago.

[@radhikanarender6437]

Well said!

[@iaf010]

North of Vindhyas and South of Vindhyas. Also, it is true that the whole "Sangeet" and Bollywood-ification of Weddings in a North Indian problem. The Drunken Baraat, the crazy drinking, gambling is all against the very concept of a solemn religious ceremony of embodying the diety and affirming faith in the vows.

[@pakakaka4227]

cottect son! Britishers left but we can't come out of thier north-south divide that was introduced to prove their hypothetical idea of Aryan Invasion Theory...so sad, there are more intellectuals in SOUTH but nobody comes out opposing this artificial mental divide that was left by destroyers of our culture!

[@kavi1501]

Earlier there were South Indian classical concerts during South weddings . Now replaced by vulgar filmy songs and dancing to those unpleasant songs seems distasteful.

[@ShyamMadhavi]

I urge people not to watch any celebrity weddings in netflix or youtube. That way we can reduce its impact on our or future generations. Muhurta timing is more important than photo shoot. Also treating guests in the form of god. dharmo rakshati ralshitaha. Let dharm prevail and show offs go away. #jaihind #jaisanatan dharm

[@pmonaja]

Good video sir. ❤❤❤

[@vanillajoy2106]

Thanks for making to he vdo in English.

[@muktasharma8656]

Please do this in Hindi as well

[@sweetysharma7931]

Please make videos in hindi

[@s3narasi]

Hold on do any body know the significance of a marriage in Hindu tradition. Marriage is a sacrifice done for the society. Married people are the only ones who can earn and do dharma. unamrried or divorced people cant participate in dharma. since we have lost our way with dharma the marriages have no significance any more.

[@gajendrakn5589]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@muralidharars]

Yad bhavahah as bhavati alve ,sandipji

[@sahilxd11]

Vivah to sanskar hai isme koi status or dikhawe ki baat nahi honi chahiye koi 1000s logo ki jarurat nahi baki sanskaro ki tarah mata pita or 20 25 log he kaafi hai aise he hona bhi chahiye. Vivah sanskar hai ye ap apne lea karte ho to hazar logo ki bheed ka koi fayda nahi jaise baki Saab hindu sanskaro me hota hai

[@sunwukong2959]

What about Ambani son's wedding, don't you think that is absurd? So u doing cherry picking on south indians only, being biased!

[@GloryToAryaVrat]

We don't give a damn about ambani we don't care about BJP and their stooges we care about Dharma

[@locusstandi8329]

Don't start this North South nonsense here! Ambani is not from North in any case if you knew Geography. He is from West India settled in South India. Yes Maharashtra is South India.

[@locusstandi8329]

When Hindu India included Tibet Nepal Afghanistan Iran Sri Lanka Maldives Indonesia what was North what was South? Who decides where North ends and where South begins? South of what North of what?

[@spiekd]

He is a south Indian and he is talking about his experiences .He is not cherry picking .But his views can be applied to north Indian weddings also .

[@Aashviaadya22]

Ambani wedding 👎show

[@Desigirl_06]

Let people live their lives . Don't bring religion ,dharma to everything . If you want to follow, follow . Don't impose anything on anyone . People can do whatever makes them happy , that's all that matters in this world. Stop making an issue out of everything, find something better for your timepass.

[@mithun6977]

Let religious people preserve their religion, customs and traditions. Don't impose your modern nonsense on religious people. There absolutely nothing wrong if people speak against the perversion of their traditions. Live and let live. If you don't like this then you can skip the video instead of asking him to stop. I'm using your own logic

[@harsh9024]

Woke aunty spotted

[@GalaxyImpact200]

It's our duty to preserve and follow our culture and hence these problems need to be discussed ....and where is he forcing people?? Right now because of this there is a crisis of ethics in our society

[@partha384]

Dusron ko kya dosh dena sir humne humari chizon ko barbad kiya, humne humari mahilaon ka jivan vivah k nam pe narka banaya, stridhan ko dahej bnaya, panigrahan sansakar ko shadi bna diya, bache k name pe beta chaiye betiyon ko paida hi ni hone diya onki hatya ki, ladki ki shadi apni subidha aur marji se jab jaha jisse man kiya kar diya, na oski sahmati li na oski iksha jani. Humne humare dharma aur grihasthi ko khud dushit kiya.

[@SR-mv2mf]

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[@komalach5780]

So true 🙏

[@komalach5780]

So true 🙏

[@Malecchavinashak]

Wow, what a big feminist propoganda to defend the wrongdoing of modern surpanakhas. Dowry became the norm after the 1956 Hindu marriage code bill, which grants greater rights to Hindu women compared to men. The Hindu society before the unification of family and marriage law was very decentralized, where each and every state and province used to have their own law to regulate the marriage and family-related issues. After the 1956 Hindu marriage, women got two property rights. One in husband's property right and the other in father's property right, divorce rights, alimony rights, maintenance rights, and child custody rights. The Hindu code bill completely secularized the Hindu society and especially the Hindu women. So dowry and fotecicide all became the norm after the 1960s and especially peaked in the 1980s because men didn't have a clue how to get accustomed to the alien laws.

[@Malecchavinashak]

Dowry became the norm after the 1956 Hindu marriage code bill, which grants greater rights to Hindu women compared to men. The Hindu society before the unification of family and marriage law was very decentralized, where each and every state and province used to have their own law to regulate the marriage and family-related issues. After the 1956 Hindu marriage, women got two property rights. One in husband's property right and the other in father's property right, divorce rights, alimony rights, maintenance rights, and child custody rights. The Hindu code bill completely secularized the Hindu society and especially the Hindu women. So dowry and fotecicide all became the norm after the 1960s and especially peaked in the 1980s because men didn't have a clue how to get accustomed to the alien laws.

[@partha384]

Ab to vivah bhut pret ki tarah aadhi rat ko hota hai. Kisi ko ni mtlb vivah suryadevta k rhte hona chaiye.

[@locusstandi8329]

South mein abhi bhi subah hi hota hai. Jo log zyaada ameer nahi ya phir shehar se nahi woh bilkul sahi taur tareekon se vivah karte hain south mein aaj bhi. Lower middle class log zyaada ache se follow karte hain.

[@ultimate6243]

Yeh bakwas kis mahapurush ne kaha hai?

[@minakumari1515]

Right, hindu wedding aise hi hoti thi, par jab muslim invaders ne attack karne lage brides ko uthakar le jate the, isliye north indian especially Rajasthani Punjabi Delhi wedding happen at night taki raat ke andhere mein invaders ko pata na chale

[@floe61]

@@ultimate6243 jo Mughalon se pehle rehte the. Hamare yahaan kabhi raat ko shaadi nahi hoti thi. Muhurat kabhi raat ka nahi nikalta tha.

[@locusstandi8329]

Bilkulvsahi bola hai. Tujhe pata nahi toh mooh bandh rakh. Vivah Subah mein hona chahiye. Maharashtra aur Daccan mein Vivah ab bhi Subah mein hi hote hain. North mein Islamic invasions ke wajah se raat mein hone lage nahi toh wahan bhi subah hi mein hote the.