Sis just doesn't understand after a hard breakup & being suicidal, she literally saved my life with this one
@shotgunhottie5 жыл бұрын
Gemini Luvvv I’ve been there. Self care literally saved my life
@shotgunhottie5 жыл бұрын
Also, he’s not worth it. You’re beautiful and blessed. Find solace in your newfound peace and strength
@queenanderson82544 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up beautiful
@gaileynsawyer92704 жыл бұрын
Keep on keeping on ♥️♥️
@chelley-7chelley3704 жыл бұрын
🖤💕
@amalaljahdhami1384 жыл бұрын
As women, we are trained at a young age to always please others and put others above us. No more sisters . Selfcare my darlings. We need to continue wearing our crowns and if it tilts , we push it right back up again. This resonates so well with me. Thanks Savannah. I needed this reminder.
@blessedgee62323 жыл бұрын
You First Ladies🙏🏽🔥🔥. She’s DOPE 🖤
@anadriabrown40503 жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY!‼️💯💕
@Yktv.473 жыл бұрын
Ty girl
@motherlessflower30813 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@rebeccagreen66473 жыл бұрын
This is ture 😞 focus on self
@serafinafefeina97744 жыл бұрын
When Savannah first released this song I used to listen to her every day while stuck in a toxic marriage. Just wear my headphones and close my eyes wishing I can speak these words into the universe and just be gone anywho left this person and it's been the best 8 months. He texted me yesterday begging for us to get back together and when I said no he called me selfish and I immediately remembered this song! I said yes I'm selfish as fuck im finally back to self love and I ain't going back ! The best decision for my kids and myself. Back to listening to this song but this time with living through her words.
@sharond37723 жыл бұрын
Woman power 4 u r worth more than diamonds! 💕
@songsforlowewedding2 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@jb211512 жыл бұрын
Check out( perri Jones- free ) seems like it fits where you are now
@merarirose17382 жыл бұрын
Sis I agree ☝️ facts
@arteonabynum34392 жыл бұрын
Bless you Queen
@netta21885 жыл бұрын
“Self care, Self Love , Selfishhhhh” I felt that.
@soulwiredcafe5 жыл бұрын
Me too...
@godsfavoritedaughter61315 жыл бұрын
Netta B. That's Where Ones Power Is!!! 💥 Self Is The Soul (God(Dess))!!!
@netta21885 жыл бұрын
God's Favorite Daughter 💕💕
@faruktype27475 жыл бұрын
Self-defense
@summersims25755 жыл бұрын
Selfish..as FUK ... that moved me! ❤❤
@makaylaamber93305 жыл бұрын
“I gotta be fine by myself, alone with myself” I felt that 💕
@masondiggs65954 жыл бұрын
Yessss felt that in my spirit
@meekarenee44 жыл бұрын
Chile Listennnnnn.. this shit right here got me feeling myself... can't tell me nothing right now
@desihay224 жыл бұрын
💯
@flowerchild333 жыл бұрын
Sammee!! I love this song , when I first heard it kept replaying it!!
@eryssalora635 жыл бұрын
Why is nobody talking about her VOCAL RANGE *edit* wow thanks for the likes! I didn’t think anyone would see this 😭 for those of y’all commenting about the auto tune and reverb or comparing her to other artists: yes, your points are somewhat valid. BUT. Impressive “range” shouldn’t imply just high notes, for those mentioning alto’s like Mariah? Not really comparable, and that’s not what I was referring to when I first posted this comment. In her runs, she effortlessly moves up and down the scale - her lows are so well controlled and her highs too. Just let the girl sing lol did y’all come here to hear HER sing or hear your favorite mainstream singer? 😭 I’m thinking she’s a mezzo soprano 👀 but yeah I just came here to address her haters cause I keep getting notifications 😓
@k-dotboi50854 жыл бұрын
Eryssa Lora yeah the reverb will make that range just pop outtbh but she killet it 💪🏾😊
@Funkojazzist4 жыл бұрын
Too much fx on it.
@yourbeautifulnightmare46574 жыл бұрын
Like seriously! She sang my panties off!!! 🤦🤦🤦🙀🙀🙀😻😻😻💘💘💘
@jazkookie41184 жыл бұрын
She’s a good singer, but there was a ton of autotune on this. It was distracting. She should sing it live without autotune.
@GodisNanu4 жыл бұрын
Because shes bot hitting notes I can't... shes dooe but shes not Beyonce, Whitney, or Mariah... she has he own strengths... range is probably not one of her strongest musical assets
@keishabenson82599 ай бұрын
In 2024 this still hit.
@lawandamoore74128 ай бұрын
Definitely agreed! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@gymns4118 ай бұрын
Amén!!!!
@caleciadefils46962 ай бұрын
Water is. Alive !! She as singing too the water and it responded !
@a-eazy38084 жыл бұрын
Ladies if you’re feeling low or in a peaceful mood I would recommend listening to this before you go to bed. This is honestly so therapeutic and helps you remember to manifest everything you want for yourself. That being said o hope we all make it 🦋❤️
@sydbey9474 жыл бұрын
She made a hit huh lol
@a-eazy38084 жыл бұрын
Syd Bey yes she did girly 😌
@NikkiMbabyyy4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@01MJ104 жыл бұрын
@A-Easy 🙏🏾💚
@Vony-Go2 жыл бұрын
This for KINGS to all woman ain’t Queens💯
@hilaryjade77484 жыл бұрын
It's the waves crashing against the shore, the vibrant brown skin, the thick hair, the vocals, the shirt touched by the breeze and the ability to normalize the word "selfish".....yes Ma'am whew.... I've given about 5 views in the last 30 min! A new fan!
@tishag2163 жыл бұрын
Yasssss lol
@jackieg4443 жыл бұрын
Period
@jasmineteonna10123 жыл бұрын
What you said 💕
@tyrinaharris47803 жыл бұрын
Okayyyyyy
@carolinafunbudgie3362 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾
@StevenCuller5 жыл бұрын
Your voice, and I love black women who rock all natural, it drives me crazy.
@Ctwosrer5 жыл бұрын
Steven Culler I’m a white boy and I agree 😩
@raydude15105 жыл бұрын
Yesss 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
@StevenCuller5 жыл бұрын
@@Ctwosrer 😂
@Youtubekert5 жыл бұрын
Now now. .Settle down gentleman
@StevenCuller5 жыл бұрын
@Her Right There ?
@arteonabynum34392 жыл бұрын
This song played a big part in me moving on after escaping an abusive narcissist. Stay in tune with your higher self. We are Kings and Queens. We deserve the treatment we demand.
@royalempath4181 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved what you said Queen. Many blessings to you.
@kenishah.784 Жыл бұрын
💯🙌🏾
@Kim-wt8jh8 ай бұрын
Amen I finally left 10 yrs of falling in deep 😢with NPD Partner . And I'm finally being selfish and I'm 46 yrs of young 😊 Starting completely over . Can I get A Amen!!!!
@agray04078 ай бұрын
@@Kim-wt8jh Amen👏🏽👏🏽💙
@Foodieasmrnaudii5 жыл бұрын
can we just applaud how the beach sounds match her voice and vibe round of applause for the black women who self care
You just pulled me out of a state of depression and restored my Queendom 🙏
@shante2chaney5 жыл бұрын
So proud of you Queen!
@jaimeharris71545 жыл бұрын
@@shante2chaney Thank you so much!!!! 🤗
@cynthiakern12585 жыл бұрын
heart
@terrismith6135 жыл бұрын
Okkk me tooooooo i cant stop listening to THIS
@jaimeharris71545 жыл бұрын
@@terrismith613 yeees!!! This song is everything I had been needing 😭 *Fixes crown 👑*
@imaniellis19055 жыл бұрын
The ocean in the back is so wonderful
@tfptravel.food.peace.37889 ай бұрын
To me, this song maybe about a relationship but although, im in a beautiful and happy marriage. I haven't really loved ME in forever or ever. I feel like I pour so much into my son, my husband, my students but never myself. I need to lose weight, take care of my skin, hair, teeth. Just love me! This song reminds me to do that becaue Im pouring from an empty cup. SELF CARE, Self-,LOVE, Selfish!
@CrowdSpectator2427 күн бұрын
You can do it! ❤ You deserve to set whatever goals and make time for them because the benefit of growth will be worth it. "You" are important. It is very empowering too. ;) God bless.
@karenhardy30295 жыл бұрын
I’m currently out of a 20 year relationship. I loved this man with everything in me. I’m 47 and he’s 63. I thought dating someone older would be better, it’s hurts a great deal, but I’m tired of the back and fourth, his mood swings etc. I’m also doing self care. I’m so emotional and hurt. But I know all things are working for my highest good! Love and Light! ❤️
@pearlythobz5 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry queen. It will all wotk out in time. ❤️
@KiyahPrettyBOMB5 жыл бұрын
U got this sis. Do what makes u happy.
@J.Moyine5 жыл бұрын
Sending you so much love beautiful♥️ Women, we can endure everything. And I actually think the generation of men below mine are smarter , more sensitive, more giving... More conscious. They came onto this planet with a whole different operating system to the older generations. So I have hope. May you find someone who loves, respects, cherishes and appreciates you as you deserve 😘😘
@wutaeworld4 жыл бұрын
Karen Hardy Hey Ms. Hardy❤️ How you feel about this?👉🏽 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2aWin-uibZoptk
@MississippiWomanOnTheDirtRoad4 жыл бұрын
May God grant you every desire in your heart including true love. You deserve it.
@Shellsvaldez5 жыл бұрын
this song reminds me each and every day that I need to focus on myself and stop letting others take advantage of me. I'm too much of a good person to be treated this way... it's time to be selfish & for do what's best for me for once!
@alwaysbeclosing57975 жыл бұрын
Just remember, if we don't look out for our self, we can't be there for someone else anyway. Too many people can't stand to be alone, and they're quick to link up with others, but chances are it won't be a lasting relationship 'cause WE HAVE TO HAVE CENTERED OURSELVES FIRST. We will lack the vision to truly see another, if we haven't faced our own flaws and cultivated ourselves to the finest version that we can be. Consider this: A lump of coal in one hand, and a diamond in the other. They started as made from the same stuff. The only difference is how it focused under pressure. We all have the ability to shine, but we must be willing to put in the work and be humbled. Peace and blessings upon you 💎
@wutaeworld4 жыл бұрын
Shellsvaldez please listen to this ❤️ just a reminder 🎶: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2aWin-uibZoptk
@Funkojazzist4 жыл бұрын
Yep, and became one of those assholes) Nice.
@TiaJoy13724 жыл бұрын
😊💛
@linglang73224 жыл бұрын
Be strong and welcome to your new journey of strength
@NateB.ChillinG5 жыл бұрын
Lyrics=dope Backdrop=dope Voice=dope Classic if y’all agree I I V
@RAG7185 жыл бұрын
Body=dope
@JustLovelyQ5 жыл бұрын
Agreed 💅🏿
@theodeslewis52615 жыл бұрын
Nice & smooth...old school feel...
@kyjanamartin96242 жыл бұрын
This song can never get old, still love it in 2022 😍
@leopeatv2 жыл бұрын
This video popped up in my recommendations. I am so glad it did.
@destinixshakur2 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@velirod87002 жыл бұрын
STILL ❤
@puresoulreload3369 Жыл бұрын
2023
@aliciastewart3503 Жыл бұрын
Here 9 months into 2023
@justsaiyan86785 жыл бұрын
The atmosphere is so perfect! 🧘🏾♂️😌
@rachelwilliams19715 жыл бұрын
Yessss WokeNojoke
@n.b.02125 жыл бұрын
Yes! I could live on a body of water. Serene asf!
@nanamak75 жыл бұрын
You've brought so much peace to my mental since you popped up on my recommended. Nothing but peaceful vibes listening to you. Ugh. Love.
@jeanjaniceleontine5 жыл бұрын
Yesss so ture 💯💯💯
@shanicew95815 жыл бұрын
SAME
@kendrawilliams1985 жыл бұрын
I think this is my new favorite artist.
@loveislexis14204 жыл бұрын
Okay, who else just discovered her and is slightly pissed about JUST DISCOVERING HERRR 😤😭 sis... perfection... period
@lucopeland78744 жыл бұрын
Jus discovered what a jem🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@meekarenee44 жыл бұрын
That would be right now
@dezgal4 жыл бұрын
Same sis
@spoilyagirl24 жыл бұрын
From one lex to the next. I was and still am!!😂. lex danae' btw😏 got those same glasses 2!! Lil mama's u cute!
@keepondjw4 жыл бұрын
She is sade badu l hill in one voice im impressed
@Jazzzzzy0073 жыл бұрын
Everything about this performance is RIGHT! Words ✅ Beach and sounds✅ Her voice ✅ Her look ✅ Her energy ✅
@hljackson5 жыл бұрын
Listen, this is a whole journey in a song. She’s a beautiful writer.
@lucyrushing21265 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯
@taurus_beauty11-115 жыл бұрын
Hope Jackson Agree!
@ebabylove104 жыл бұрын
Yes! Love her... she’s on a level of her own 🙌
@BetterMe0014 жыл бұрын
Hope Jackson ohh I was there vividly I’ve been and Am here ❤️
@MNerestant835 жыл бұрын
Vibes for the rest of the year. Starting 2020 with a bang.
@basicinfo20225 жыл бұрын
Yes, dust free 2020. ❤❤❤
@mrxsrude5 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@livinggood75225 жыл бұрын
And and idc who it is!! You will get put last...I'm first this time!
@tatyonatownsel5 жыл бұрын
Mercy Nerestant feels so good girl♥️
@우앙-m5p5 жыл бұрын
💓💓💓
@moremelessyou65255 жыл бұрын
Black woman's 2020 and forever anthem!
@moremelessyou65255 жыл бұрын
Do you.
@adennega5564 жыл бұрын
@The Calming Kind whats your problem? Leave the video then.
@Mia-sq4fn4 жыл бұрын
The Calming Kind You must be the president of the pick me club 😂
@LadiiDomonique4 жыл бұрын
MoreMe LessYou I said the same thing
@LadiiDomonique4 жыл бұрын
The Calming Kind minute thinking. Who said she was talking about black men ? Or even men at all ? You hear nigga and auto assume it’s about a Black Man...hmmm🤔Not what does that say about you?🤷🏽♀️
@cali11144 жыл бұрын
This song was the beginning of my healing and I'm 49. Good job young lady 🙏🌹❤👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@LoiLaing5 жыл бұрын
I had no idea who you were when you popped up. KZbin's recommendations are finally making sense. This track is straight🔥.
@LANDYV5 жыл бұрын
Same reaction!!! I was like 👏👏 nice recommendation
@ALLWynter5 жыл бұрын
Omg Riiiight!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙃🙃🙃
@capricerobinson79075 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful
@shatoriarichardson49145 жыл бұрын
me too i stumbled across it been in love every since self care is needed
@camiltv15215 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@marcusmoutra5 жыл бұрын
Not even 30 seconds into the song and I'm a fan now.
@klove69flava5 жыл бұрын
Girl me too
@Nonexistentcreature005 жыл бұрын
Felt
@namastebutterfly78205 жыл бұрын
Yes! I’m like where have I been? Or where has she been?!
@planetchlo51585 жыл бұрын
literally
@shacoiarandall40625 жыл бұрын
I promise ya had me in tears
@alexsantiago1765 жыл бұрын
Just seen the short version on IG so came here to show some love here as well. Great song awesome back drop. 🎙️🎶🌊
@miriamjouini60135 жыл бұрын
Where...i couldn't find it 😯
@jahmantha5 жыл бұрын
same!!!
@JessyBaby075 жыл бұрын
SAME!!!
@vvW8885 жыл бұрын
Me too!🙌
@SoulisticMommy5 жыл бұрын
Alex Santiago you n me both !!!
@jazzminemonroe57604 жыл бұрын
Why is this therapy you call music not being played mainstream?! Yassss sis!!! I needed all of this!
@tigress_43934 жыл бұрын
The amount of times I came back to this song to cool me down is unhealthy 😭😭😭😂😂
@daisy21974 жыл бұрын
Same! Anthem for life
@tierrafryar83834 жыл бұрын
Same
@Clipper.Krazy.Teeeee4 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@BossladiiShay4 жыл бұрын
Okayyy😂😂
@zee_lolaj73824 жыл бұрын
Shidddd Least you came back
@lovefoodandmagic23865 жыл бұрын
When she says she felt this before...I guess shes talking about how us ladies have felt let down by a man at some point in our lives but when you go on the spiritual journey you start to realise by putting the blame on the men letting us down we dont acknowledge the lack of self love that led us to 'rely' on a man to fill that peice of our hearts we thought he could fill 🤷♀️ self love, self care, selfish is the way 🙌🙏 then I pray once we are healed, the right healed man will come and find us for the beautiful gem that you are. Peace to whoever needed to see this today ✌
@ThePRgirl895 жыл бұрын
This was a needed read
@briteal53365 жыл бұрын
Thanks!🤔😇🙄
@ThePRgirl895 жыл бұрын
@@briteal5336 what's with the shady emojis lol. I was saying what u wrote was much needed.
@urdestinydaughterofyah97395 жыл бұрын
LoveFood&Magic I love ❤️ u for this sus thank u blessing on ur journey 💫✨💕🙏🏽
@briteal53365 жыл бұрын
It meant thinking.
@Queenofafricatown5 жыл бұрын
This song really makes me love myself and forget about my domestic violence background. I didn't deserve that, but I left that alone and I'm still standing. I'm a survivivor!
@MsSignorinaBella5 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you are one
@shalisacoltrane39665 жыл бұрын
Yes you are
@Queenofafricatown5 жыл бұрын
Yes! Thank u all! I'm selfish as fuck right now.....
@NishaLarein5 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤🌼🌼🌼
@xilef49175 жыл бұрын
❤
@kristinamartin824 жыл бұрын
The vocal range and how she flows to each melody effortlessly is amazing
@PunkinFreetobemeAnderson5 жыл бұрын
This song is helping me threw my healing process. I recently found out that I am a empath. So I consume others energy rather good or bad and it drains the life from me. My doctors told me I need rest and to learn self care. One day this song came on and I've been listening to it daily. I must learn to be selfish I don't know how to be that. But this song is giving me life💯
@aishahunt5 жыл бұрын
Being Empathic will always require self care....but trust as your intuition strengthens and you perfect the craft of protecting your energy field and peace of mind, you realize that being an empath is gift connecting you to others in a unique way...you can help others as you see fit and separate their emotions from you're own much more easily...blessings to you Love!
@PunkinFreetobemeAnderson5 жыл бұрын
@@aishahunt thank you for this en lighting information. blessings be upon you
@Kiekolbz5 жыл бұрын
Boundaries mama! We’re setting boundaries this 2020 to protect our energy because it’s precious ❤️
@PunkinFreetobemeAnderson5 жыл бұрын
@@Kiekolbz indeed we are beloved,i am learning everyday about being a empath and that everyone doesn't have the gift. Now i am trying to learn how to build a shield around myself to protect my energy and learn to control my emotions i will be even more of an amazing person.🥰🥰🥰
@krystalmorrison42615 жыл бұрын
Yes honey.. I'm the same way!
@KayExposesTruth4 жыл бұрын
This SPEAKS to MY SOUL... WE often get caught up with some1 that ISN'T Really for US & when we REALIZE that, don't get upset... make adjustments & never compromise self love to make some1 else happy that's not ensuring your needs are met... Single women know what I mean.. THANK YOU I LUV U FOR THIS SONG #SAVANNAHCRISTINA
@lucyrushing21264 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@dupuyloveable4 жыл бұрын
You hit it on the head. EXACTLY.
@christinesl99604 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@roseq36504 жыл бұрын
Preach sis
@aaliyahgee55974 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯 No cap
@truthprevail56675 жыл бұрын
LYRICS: 💕💕💕💕 Thanks guys for the likes & nice comments. 👍 if you ♥️ Savannah Cristina. I felt this before And I can’t afford to cry I got work in the morn I got bills; I got family ties You play with the piece of me I try not to reason with Not trying - you made it clear Wonder why you even here Don’t you know I I can’t be caught up on no bullshit I don’t have the time Don’t care who you with or what you doing I’m doing it right Self care, self love Selfish Self care, self love Selfish And I want you to know That I did try my best with you I cut off all my hoes That was just for you And I- I don’t got the time I’m doing it right Self love, self care Selfish baby Self love, self care Self - yea Self care, self love Selfish as fuck I’m selfish as fuck right now Right now Cos a nigga ain’t goin’ pay all the bills They ain’t about to fly me no where I just don’t got the time Cos y’all niggas ain’t Y’all niggas ain’t shit Y’all niggas ain’t shit No noooo So I gotta I gotta put myself in the front Know what I want And I- I gotta be fine by myself Alone with myself and I I’m taking my time I’m doing this right Self care, self love Self - ohhh Self care, selfish Self love, self care, self Selfish Cos I’m selfish as fuck right now Self - yea
@j.marisa5 жыл бұрын
Thankyousomuch
@trinab9035 жыл бұрын
Totally relate!
@missbertrax5 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@therealomonike69645 жыл бұрын
Iriowen Wallace you the real MVP
@ItsTinaTimeXOXO5 жыл бұрын
This song kept popping up on k u feed...super happy I clicked. Definitely a mood.
@fayes91844 жыл бұрын
One thing I’ve learned these past years you have to love yourself & take what’s done to you by someone you love to heart. The hurt they inflicted was by their choice & them not caring how that hurt impacted you or what it did to you mentally. I also learn when they avoid the truth their sending you a powerful message that is they not going to change because change happens in discussion & action. Takes a real man to show you what you were missing trying to stay in a place you never belonged because they know & treat you more like you should be treated. Sad people have to let go when they really don’t want to because they keep seeing the same ol same ok from someone they truly fell in love with but did nothing to change themselves after they hurt you...
@malinda13722 жыл бұрын
PERFECTLY 🥰 STATED !!
@brianlevel76695 жыл бұрын
She’s genius. Pouring her soul into her music.
@tearragunter38035 жыл бұрын
“You play with the piece of me I try not to reason with” ...THE DEPTH OF THIS FEELING LAWD
@jessaglover86985 жыл бұрын
Tearra Gunter yep, shadow self
@shotgunhottie5 жыл бұрын
Jessa Glover girl!!!!! Yes let’s get into the metaphysical depth of our growth
@kiara1989234 жыл бұрын
Found this by mistake... she has a beautiful voice and I love her outfit! When my ex so called husband cheated i left him that week and didn't look back. I have sickle cell disease so I deal with a lot of pain. Never thought he would betray me because he was always there for me. I'll admit to this day I don't get it but maybe it's not for me to get. I bossed up despite my health and enrolled into a medical billing & coding program at Penn Foster. I graduate may 2k21 at the latest. Sometimes you just have to let ppl go and take out time for self but these days ppl rather tolerate bs than be alone. Damaging themselves. The other person shouldn't be blamed when/if you decide to stay. The so called marriage with him ended in 2k18. I've been single and celibate ever since. Best decision I could've made!
@Devinaeniteo4 жыл бұрын
Look into Dr sebi ❤️✨:)
@rachelingabire54034 жыл бұрын
Wow am so inspired!
@samantha-zj4gu4 жыл бұрын
I feel you on the celibacy sis👌🏾💪🏾Im sorry for the hurt i know that caused but everything happens for a reason,he maybe wasn't worthy of where your journey is taking you💙
@debraj86654 жыл бұрын
I hear ya sister with my husband I forgave once, twice, then realized I wasn't playing baseball. So I finally was gone and never looked back.
@TruthNeverDies4 жыл бұрын
I want to get into medical coding and billing but I’m scared . Is it hard ?
@retawedderburn-marshall5963 Жыл бұрын
I just finished a toxic relationship of 28 years ending in divorce. 2023 and I am just discovering this song, right on time, because the residual bullshit still remains. I wish there were an hour loop of this song. Thank you Sis!🥰
@CozyVeganKitchen Жыл бұрын
I'd play this 24 hours if I could ❤
@divinecreation1981 Жыл бұрын
Wow proud of you! I'm going through a divorce after being in a toxic relationship for 23 years! I'm so over his narcissistic behavior! Good luck to you 🥰🙏
@Garagevictoria20 Жыл бұрын
Suerte dónde quiera que estés. Dios te bendiga en tu camino.
@treciap587 Жыл бұрын
😂😂.you can go to top right corner in settings in the video and turn loop on. That's what I do to all my mental therapy songs
@AmazinglyBeautifulca5 жыл бұрын
This summed up my life in the last year! Broke up with my ex and moved to Arizona all in one month! Have everything away and I have started over and I am so happy now! 🥰 not only a new job but a better job with a better income. Everything is falling into place🙌🏾🥰
@veraniazuniga6855 жыл бұрын
Nicky P. Happy for u
@caligotbeauty5 жыл бұрын
Nicky P. Girl I feel you moved to California for love but broke up with my fiancé moved back to Virginia and I’m starting over ! Just landed a new job with better benefits everything is falling into place and sometimes I get down since it’s only been 3 weeks but I’m in a happier place stumbled across this video and have it on repeat !!!!
@sarahjane22775 жыл бұрын
We’ll all make it thru❤️
@basicinfo20225 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. Dust free 2020 ❤
@Andreasfavshows5 жыл бұрын
My soul and a song just crossed paths , that's an elevated feeling
@nickinovaaa60265 жыл бұрын
We all ran across this song because we need healing in some way because of a man but we women are the strongest and we go through the most from being hurt, periods, and pregnancy
@wutaeworld4 жыл бұрын
Andrea Oglesby I hope my song motivates your soul to heal EVEN more 🎶🙏🏽🎶: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2aWin-uibZoptk
@trishettelee61885 жыл бұрын
Ending 2019 Anthem for me!!!💯💯💯💯
@jazzljones925 жыл бұрын
Trishette Lee definitely ❤️
@basicinfo20225 жыл бұрын
Yes! stay dust free 2020.
@martinimarie58852 жыл бұрын
This song came out October 2019. It is now August 2022 and I remember it just like it was yesterday.. I was going through a breakup of 10 years and this song, Savannah Cristina herself, Sis you gaveeee me the strength and the courage to REALLYYYYY BE DONE WITH THE TOXIC ISH! ✨👏🏾✨ Enough was Enough and I’m so glad that I stuck to my decision. I still sing this song daily and it reminds me that although I still have a busy life as a single mom, I still have to have self care and self love always! So I Thaaaank Youuuuu Queen! Keep On Shiniiing!!! 💖🌹💖🌹💖🌹💖🌹💖🌹💖
@DRNIKKI4TheOOU5 жыл бұрын
It’s not selfish. It’s taking care of the gift you’ve been given: a spirit in a body...
@audrey42095 жыл бұрын
Nicole Pleasant-Immanuel clicks fingers
@Meesha-MiCheLeLoved15 жыл бұрын
That's deep. For Real.. Thank you. I just wanted to say that.. God bless..🤗
@LemmeSeeTaylor5 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
@JourneyToJustice-withT5 жыл бұрын
♥️
@aquariusstar72485 жыл бұрын
Self-centered...self-central😁
@mr_makhura5 жыл бұрын
This reminds me when I discovered SZA , H.E.R and DVSN before they became big. Can she just be our little secret for a while longer
It's about time someone wrote a song giving me the permission to love myself before anyone else and be selfish with no apology!! Thank you ❤❤❤
@wutaeworld5 жыл бұрын
KM 333 enjoy ❤️👉🏽 kzbin.info/www/bejne/sJ_GeZeXn7d3jZo
@PancakeDiaries2 ай бұрын
Shouldn't have to understand that thru a song
@infinitedivine992 жыл бұрын
CLEANSING, HEALING AND THE WAVES FLOWING WITH HER VOICE IS EVERYTHING! HEAVY TUNE :)
@hilly101cut9015 жыл бұрын
Literally sitting in the parking lot of my job listening to you on my break just feeling at peace. Your music has just came at the right time in my life honestly 🥰😩😍 please keep making music that speaks volumes to the soul. ♥️♥️
@glodaily5 жыл бұрын
Hilly Alanis same lol it’s 5am and I’m on my break in my car
@tinahill30745 жыл бұрын
It's strange, for I'm in my truck at this moment. And I got the same Vibe. It literally changed my thought, mood and attitude. Loving the way the song brings back power. Mind over matter.
@glodaily5 жыл бұрын
Tired Siren hahaha at a hospital
5 жыл бұрын
@@glodaily ok, cool 😅.
@branbranshenanigans16935 жыл бұрын
Tired Siren they better stop doing that shit fuck around and get carjacked ...
@summersday78945 жыл бұрын
A Man recently told Me that I was "single by choice..." That was possibly the best compliment a Man has EVER given Me❤
@summersday78945 жыл бұрын
Can't accept just anything Ladies. Lvl up!
@rickimcfarland22694 жыл бұрын
I've heard that about myself. It was liberating.
@appetite4chic8785 жыл бұрын
S/o to Mother Nature for not allowing the water to electrocute this talented sis while performing this dope ass song because it’s the best thing that happened to my ears. I needed this message because I’m on a 30 day “Self Love” challenge 💯🔥🙌🏾😍
@roycecooper14655 жыл бұрын
Y ONLY 30 DAYS
@appetite4chic8785 жыл бұрын
Royce Cooper I’m honestly doing it for the rest of my life, but they say if you consecutively do something for 21-30 days it becomes a natural habit.
@uriellezey83915 жыл бұрын
Appetite 4 Chic Can you elaborate please ? What this challenge is about 🤔
@appetite4chic8785 жыл бұрын
Urielle Zey long backstory, but I hope this helps ... ok so for me, I’m healing my childhood wounds on a spiritual level, which coincidentally relates to the type of guys I attract. I was raised in a single parent household by my mother, so I’m low key emotionally unavailable to men, but when I do attract guys they’re often distant and don’t meet my needs. Honestly, this gave me a complex like “am I not worthy of love from men?” 🤔 So on this 30 day challenge I’m doing self love meditations, writing forgiveness mantras and gratitude lists and speaking positive affirmations to myself while looking in the mirror. GIVING MYSELF THE LOVE I DESERVE. This will help heal me, while simultaneously boosting my own confidence.
@uriellezey83915 жыл бұрын
Appetite 4 Chic Thank you for your response! I’m sending you all the light and good energy on this journey of self love 😘
@SMACKINFIRE4 жыл бұрын
Just sitting here letting you sing my confirmations. I'm bout to break up with my boyfriend and I didn't know it till a few seconds ago. I did try my best for him. He came to me with nothing and I accepted and settled for him. Love doesn't pay the bills and I feel upset cause he knew how he was coming and didn't warn me until it was a need through the conversations. I need to be ok bring alone cause that's how I might end up. Thank you for being my voice and project my and other women's feelings.
@bloop64613 жыл бұрын
I hope you are doing well and did not go back to him. Live your life sis!
@CeliaBatts40404 жыл бұрын
When she said “& I want you to know that I did try my best with you” I FELT THAT! 🔥 ❤️
@sharond37723 жыл бұрын
Beautiful ❤️
@TheLeanster5 жыл бұрын
I’ve listened to this song about 20 times already. You outdid yourself.
@roseneonlights9995 жыл бұрын
Black girl magic. Her soul is dope asf 💕
@channelingjacqueline5 жыл бұрын
Omg same
@Earth_Angel7775 жыл бұрын
jenee lean 💞👏🏽 She’s singing for all of us. It’s time for self care... self love... and b selfish as fuck right now.
@demim.92035 жыл бұрын
cu3rpona28 facts
@feliciagreer37875 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@soraeyamalia38685 жыл бұрын
Who wish they could love this video instead of liking it?
@andrealesane95045 жыл бұрын
Soraeya Malia❤️
@Carasaf.2 жыл бұрын
UFFF!!!! I love this Fu.. Song!! 💪💪💪
@taylerm.37945 жыл бұрын
*Lyrics* *Self Care by Savannah Cristina* I felt this before And I can’t afford to cry I got work in the morn I got bills I got family ties You play with the piece of me I try not to reason with Not trying you made it clear Wonder Why you even here Don’t you know I I can’t be caught up on no bullshit I don’t got the time Don’t care who you with or what you doing I’m doing it right Self care Self love Selfish (x2) And I want you to know that I did try my best with you I cut off all my hoes That was just for you And I I don’t got the time I’m doing it right Self Love Self Care Selfish...Baby Self Love Self Care Self...Yea Self Care Self Love Selfish...as fuck I’m selfish as fuck right now Right now Cause a nigga ain’t gone pay all these bills They ain’t bout to fly me no where I just don’t got the time Cause y’all niggas ain’t Y’all niggas ain’t shit Y’all niggas ain’t shit No noooo So I gotta I gotta put myself in the front Know what I want and I I gotta be fine by myself Alone with myself And I I’m taking my time I’m doing this right Self love Self care Self...ohhh Self care Selfish Self love Self care Self.. Selfish Cause I’m selfish as fuck right now.. Selfish Yea.. *Like this comment as a Thanks* 😊 *I really just sat here and typed out the lyrics just by listening repeatedly. Hopefully their correct*
@ZafariBae5 жыл бұрын
Tayler M. Thank you ma
@kindredspiritoflife5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate YOU ! Bless ✨
@338holly5 жыл бұрын
there aren't official lyrics out yet. so thanks.
@tiffanypollard86215 жыл бұрын
You did great. Thanks a lot ❤
@SH-ik7du5 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@MuvaMayah4 жыл бұрын
I can’t express how much this song has helped me during my healing period and has been added to my daily tranquility playlist. Thank you ☺️
@OhNotAJ5 жыл бұрын
Here from Twitter, and this song feels like a warm shower 😌
@tamitsansai5 жыл бұрын
AJ same!!!
@xfesto57345 жыл бұрын
AJ same
@MomTheEbayer1012 ай бұрын
This song speaks volumes! Although I’m happily married, self-care is incredibly important. Without it, you can easily find yourself feeling miserable, depressed, and even becoming a burden to your spouse. I refuse to neglect myself, even in marriage. ❤
@ItsMeMissRuby5 жыл бұрын
Love the lyrics! Even though I'm not in that space it's so accurate for those who are.
@BelikeAngel11214 жыл бұрын
The sound of the ocean and birds in the background just made this a million times better. And your voice is so soothing. Love this song, just found out about it and have it on repeat.
@stacieporchia58835 жыл бұрын
2019 Self Care🤗🙏😇 Girl Sing It Beach Look So Peaceful Stay Blessed thanks for this song
@healingstartswithaconversa37615 жыл бұрын
2019 Self-care👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️💜
@JessieSimmonsMusic3 жыл бұрын
I discovered her two weeks ago and I’m so mad at myself for clearly living under a ROCK. Sis you are amazing and you are an inspiration! The number of times I replayed this on Apple Music isn’t healthy and you don’t fucked up and gave us an extended version 🙌🏾😭😭😭😭
@ChristianJaLon5 жыл бұрын
You’re such a gift.
@shanawest46864 жыл бұрын
Anybody else remember her from twitter and how she called in sick to record this then got fired cuz they found out??? GOOD FOR HER!!!💜💜💜
@BarberSense4 жыл бұрын
Wow I didn’t know that
@lotusphoenix83 жыл бұрын
Serious? Lol! So that's where the Self-love video intro came from. Nice one!
@alisabenjamin92803 жыл бұрын
Selfish asf!
@SL-yy2kd3 жыл бұрын
@@alisabenjamin9280 lol yessssss
@niadawn30282 жыл бұрын
Really
@kita.73115 жыл бұрын
This song is so perfect for what I’m going through right now!!
@SoulisticMommy5 жыл бұрын
Kita. Stay strong boo... Everything passes 🍃
@katrinataylor92325 жыл бұрын
Yesssss💕
@doseofdesi9262 жыл бұрын
This brought tears to my eyes. Self care is beautiful
@lloydyoung614 жыл бұрын
Man this is the coolest laid back ocean front singing scene.....calming as music
@riquedagawdramirez4115 жыл бұрын
"you play with the piece of me i try not to reason with" shit hit differently when you loved someone the way i loved her.
@poppyavo59945 жыл бұрын
Damn that's a vibe. Every woman knows this feeling...
@chelliea56864 жыл бұрын
Just heard this song on Sirius XM and immediately came to KZbin. This song is so needed right now because 2020 has turned out to be one heck of a year and we all need self care. Thanks Savannah Cristina
@user-xo5uf2ep9b5 жыл бұрын
i resonated with “i cant afford to cry” so hard.
@kaitanic4 жыл бұрын
The peoole on that boat have no idea of the greatness thats happening on shore
@mj94965 жыл бұрын
Go off girl....she’s a whole mood
@stanleymangumjr4 жыл бұрын
That I'm doing riiiiiiiiiiight" note get me every time.
@MrszShanice4 жыл бұрын
The sounds of the ocean in the background, the scenery, the effortlessness, the natural hair, the vocals.... I'm overwhelmed with so many emotions 🤧🥰🥺
@oliviaspence80825 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t make sense how many times I’ve played this over and over again 😍😩
@djuanajohnson84325 жыл бұрын
me too. Lol
@Beautiful_Nie5 жыл бұрын
It don’t make no sense how many time I play this song. But please put this extended version on Spotify pleeeeeeeease!!! 💕💕💕
@destaneehoward4 жыл бұрын
Who else feels this song in they soul !
@monicap82082 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness and in other parts of my body
@myamarshae95915 жыл бұрын
I love it, I love you‼️ you bring so much ease to people’s mind ‼️🙌🏽
@risingspirit19834 жыл бұрын
She and the ocean are on the same wavelength... POWERFUL
@cha_young5 жыл бұрын
Ugh! I'm so mad at myself for being distracted with my relationship issues the past few weeks! I should've focused on myself, tuned inwards and clicked on this KZbin recommendation way before now! Real music is so therapeutic to me! I so needed to hear this when it was published. I literally need to get back to my "Self Care, Self Love Journey" so I can really manifest my dreams. I have spent too much of my energy, love and time on the wrong ppl and things. It's time for me to put myself first! 11/6/2019
@akhitahealerwarrior79942 жыл бұрын
My anthem every day. This is always a reminder of what I need to do for my Self-love and self-care. I have a huge given heart and I tend to place ppl ahead of me. Thought that was loving me but in the end, I wasn't self-loving myself I was neglecting myself and losing myself in the process. This alone gives me the true reminder that I have to be "selfish asf" to myself. When I hear ppl saying I am more selfish and not enabling them. I will agree and tell them, "It's called Self-care, self-love for me bc I love myself and value myself to the highest more than you care for yourself. I am not your rescuer any longer bc you are stopping my self-growth and taking too much of my blessing water out of my self-love well. I value myself more for making myself rises above the ashes as a Wounded Conqueror Goddess Warrior. "
@yamimaria95924 жыл бұрын
Can you believe the ocean has been here for billions of years & you’re there singing billions year later 🥺 so beautiful 💙
@leogabriellejones19014 жыл бұрын
“Don’t care who you’re with or what you’re doing”
@lotusphoenix83 жыл бұрын
This!
@rahandruthless5 жыл бұрын
I can't stop listening! Her voice is so beautiful and this song is so authentic!
@Badgalvevo2 жыл бұрын
Even in a relationship, self love and self care is very important, especially for your man/women too 🖤
@rachelmccully5 жыл бұрын
all of your songs gives me a peace of mind.. knowing i’m not the only woman that feels this way, is amazingly wonderful.. power of words, is a true art. #writers love!✊🏽
@qianaburnett51545 жыл бұрын
At 27, I'm finally discovering that it's ok to be selfish. Like I wish you the best baby, but without me.
@HealthWithHilary5 жыл бұрын
So much better sooner than later luv..
@mariahtaylor42735 жыл бұрын
Qiana Burnett yes girl I agree with you 100%
@jadababee83124 жыл бұрын
Qiana Burnett ❤️❤️❤️💯
@SammiTheSweetheart3274 жыл бұрын
Almost 34 here had to learn the hard way but its amazing ❤ ❤
@msparkert24 жыл бұрын
It took me to age 41
@abbieamavi5 жыл бұрын
*so calm the way she speaks those facts, that's something to respect for sure!*
@kylat1917 ай бұрын
After 4 years I still find myself coming back 2024👌🏽🫶🏼