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[@Savantics]

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[@bunmibunonbhbyyoun]

Hello

[@certifiedhomelanderstan]

Well,this is new.

[@aceofclubs.]

How did you post this a day ago-

[@Thot_Patrol_USA]

nah

[@Goobalicious]

Ok

[@Keznen]

Feel sorry for the poor kids in all those situations. There's no way they consented to this insanity.

[@genericname2747]

Imagine being like, a toddler or something, and your mom leaves the house. You wait for her to come back, but she doesn't. Instead, a stranger comes home and everyone acts like she's supposed to be there. You have no idea where your mom is. Definitely a horrible experience. At least the kid won't remember it.

[@Keznen]

@@genericname2747 The older kids will.

[@genericname2747]

@@Keznen At least they understand what's happening. But yeah, older kids have their own problems. A random lady comes into their house and tries to make them act in specific ways. The kids must feel really awkward and uncomfortable

[@MsUnamusedNerd]

I forgot what episode it was, it was the traveling performing family, the daughter on that show took to TikTok to explain her experience on the show. Basically the swapped wife on the show was egged by the producers to bully her about her insecurities of not having friends due to her moving around a lot. So yeah the show is hell for the kids.

[@creativeswirl6002]

trauma

[@alyssamay9237]

Last dad tried to act all manly, but the first dad is way more manly. First dad is happy to help his wife and kids, happy to help with chores and cooking as well. He doesn't need to prove his masculinity to anyone, he's comfortable with his life. Seems like the kind of dude who'd happily get shoved into a dress, boa, and tiara for his daughter's tea party

[@GiGitteru]

Dressing up in frilly frocks for your daughter is masculinity at its peak No, not sarcasm

[@Keznen]

The Loser "Alpha" vs The CHAD Real Dad

[@stephanniemorin]

Respect!

[@potatotheugly2954]

Shoved into a boa?! That's sounds horrible...

[@AugAug989]

We Stan dad 1

[@program.gender_notfound761]

"A women's place is in the kitchen" "No" Iconic good sir. I almost died laughing

[@Joeeyyyyy]

No fr I was about to type this 😂

[@plaguedoctorjamespainshe6009]

Absolute chad

[@ddjsoyenby]

a womans place is telling her man what to do in the kitchen moar like!

[@paigemosher8697]

@@ddjsoyenby Honestly, FUCK YES. No man of mine is going to boss me around no matter whose house I'm in.

[@lordadorable7362]

@@ddjsoyenby it's more like "Respect each other and and don't order your significant other around no matter what their gender is."

[@mndrakon]

7:37 I respect that father for just calmy disagreeing with that woman. he should be able to love and take care of his children, just because "tombstone" can't have any responsibility doesn't mean no other man can-

[@justasentientmclarenp1879]

Tombstone is a fitting name for a dead beat dad

[@3HorsemenOfMovingPictures]

@@justasentientmclarenp1879 bro reminds me of the 'Living Tombstone' Band bruh-🤣🤣🤣

[@emily_4899]

We stan

[@Musical_Pigeon]

I saw a lady on Tiktok that had him doing his stuff. Making plans isn't his strong suit so they never make plans with his family because she won't make plans with his family for him and says he doesn't care enough. Then people started shitting on me because my boyfriend and I play to each other's strengths and split the things that are normal jobs or that neither of us particularly want to do often. We switch off on dishes, do our own laundry unless we feel like doing the other's laundry (or if we need something washed and don't have enough to justify doing 1 load). He cleans the bathroom and mows the lawn, I do the handywork and big ticket cleaning. He cleans up cat puke, I clean the litterbox, whoever notices the cat food is low first fills it. We switch off cooking, bills are split in a fair way based on wage (I make less than half of what he does). He hates my family because my step mom was abusive and controlling (he actually got me out of the situation) so he doesn't contact them, but we make plans with each other's families. Spend one holiday with one side another with the other side. I don't clean the toilet or shower, he doesn't touch certain areas of the house. He gets rid of spiders for me (he's a catch and release kinda guy), and I catch and release any mice that get in because both of us feel bad watching our cat toy with it, but we obviously don't want it in the house. Our former roommate was horrified when I scooped a mouse up in my hands and yote it outside into the snow. I'm not pampering or spoiling him by doing things for him and he's not pampering or spoiling me by cleaning the toilet or thing I don't like doing. Couples just need to respect each other and what they can do.

[@boopsdoops]

honestly seems like a delightful family in comparison to literally just "im okay with women being objects" like what the hell, they did not deserve this

[@_ANDRE.]

I refuse to believe these shows arent scripted. I just cant accept people like these actually exist.

[@mr.nobody2191]

There alot weird people out there

[@A_Ducky]

They are kinda scripted, but it's done in editing mostly. Listen at 7:32 clearly it wasn't her saying that last part. They create the narrative from the start. You're being served anything but the reality.

[@darkthunder2776]

Twitter

[@gameb9oy]

I mean, reality shows are ironically more fake than actual shows

[@Mami__halo]

Babe, ur funny if u think real grown children like this don’t exist

[@hamishstewart5324]

It’s funny how that one husband thinks of himself as an alpha. I’m willing to bet that he hasn’t even fought off any rival males for control of a harem, or eaten any children to impregnate their mothers.

[@LmaoMoni]

Like a horse 💀💀💀💀

[@genericname2747]

I bet he doesn't carry snacks for his kids or stay up at night guarding them from potential enemies. I bet he doesn't even pretend to be hurt when they playfight so the kids can feel strong.

[@aiste8099]

i bet he can’t smell when a female is in heat, i bet he doesn’t even defend his territory to the death ://

[@3HorsemenOfMovingPictures]

I bet he can't handle real carefree kids who express their own actual feelings, to himself🙄

[@Knightwolf1994]

And I bet he doesn't treat his wife with respect and expects her to do all the work.

[@cameronpekelder4055]

I hate it when people say firefighters sit around all day doing nothing. They have work to do around the station when not on a call, they maintain the station, they train, they are busy.

[@randomtinypotatocried]

Also, they end up on a lot of medical calls. They're great to have when I need a patient picked up on scene.

[@Sorrelhas]

Firefighters are true heroes All my homies hate people that badmouth firefighters

[@CleaningCaptain]

@@randomtinypotatocried You work in a hospital, then?

[@gliscorpropagandaaccount1764]

@@Sorrelhas firefighters > cops

[@lilithiaabendstern6303]

& they have to be mentally ready the whole time in case a call comes in, that is this is not doing nothing, where others can just take their mind off while doing things or just relax and wait for the work day to end + a day they're not needed is a good day for all

[@auggiemain]

"Firefighters are always playing cards, not really doing anything.." Damn okay I'll be sure to remember that next time your house goes on fire or you're in a burning building.

[@kingoffire105]

Who actually believes firefighters have an easy job? Apperently that chic!

[@JNJNRobin1337]

people that dont work and sit on twitter all day complaining about art probably think firefighters have an easy job

[@MrXemrox]

Fire fighter: *Puts out fire* Still think we doing. Stupid idiot: I have no idea that you actually truly fight fires as your job name described... I thought it was one of those things that aren't true to the name.

[@jkbutterfly3142]

*A burning house and screaming people in the background* "You got a 5?" "No, go fish"

[@lelandsperry1511]

@@kingoffire105 Firefighter: *battles through flames, toxic smoke, and saves thousands of lives everyday* Karen Lady: "Firefighters are LAZY and don't do ANYTHING!!"

[@jasper2366]

I remember there was a wife swap episode where there was a lady who was straight up racist and was put with a black family-

[@ddjsoyenby]

"dammit dem darkfolks are gunna be my family!"

[@gracekim1998]

Oh boy😬

[@tkrc1888]

Wiggins vs Felix? Lol

[@abbycollins]

Let me guess: the episode hasn’t reaired.

[@nameofthename]

oh no 😭

[@perfectallycromulent]

yall don't understand the glorious tragedy of Wife Swap. each week, two women travel to another household, certain that her way of life is so superior the other household will finally see the light and adopt her ways, and she will achieve a sense of moral victory she has craved for all her life, and that never, ever happens.

[@futuristicgirl14]

Yeah basically lmao

[@thesneakymemedealer5071]

if i wanted to see people try in vain to assert their moral values on random people i'd just go on the internet

[@Chadmiral]

@@thesneakymemedealer5071 lol

[@owiec8240]

In Poland we had even worse format of show like this. It was called Dames and Peasants and was classist vomit about rich women from the biggest polish cities swapping with poor women from countryside and it was exactly as bad as you can imagine

[@rivermoore1716]

we have that, but its the whole household trying to live like that. All the poor family members are like "Can we stay? Wow!" "I'd Get lost in this house" like, having a nice time, enjoying themselves and then theres the rich ones like "Wheres the rest of it? I cant live in a house this small!" Except its literally just a normal fucking house, like actually middle class. We live in a simulation, surely thats not real Called Rich House, Poor House or something like that.

[@owiec8240]

@@rivermoore1716 Also forget about taking the poor woman to the best boutiques and hairstylist to get her to look as rich woman and it was like big reveal to the husband. It was almost as teasing this poor families showing them how good wife and mother would be looking if they had money

[@owiec8240]

@@rivermoore1716 Yeah, even reactions was similar, but the rich woman also must do some farm work etc. often crying because animals smell or how she don't have milion pair of shoes. The last season ended in 2016

[@Eepop_stuffs]

@@owiec8240 at least it ended😭

[@SunVKing]

I just wanna say, in Poland there's a really huge difference in mindset of people from somewhere, where as we say in Poland, dogs bark with their asses xD and people from cities like Warsaw, Kraków, Katowice etc. Going to the countryside (the real countryside, not 30km from cities where people live and travel to work in the city) is like a trip back in time to the communist Poland both in quality of life and the mindset and opinions that people have about the world. There's and enormous disparity of income, education, tolerance etc. Most young people escape the countryside as soon as they can, so all that's left is old folk and those that choose that type of life, like my aunt and uncle who worked in big corporations in Warsaw and have had enough, they choose to live in the countryside in peace rather than in the urban rush hour culture.

[@therealopaartist]

My grandma is the second lady. She thinks a woman should stay at home, do all the chores, never work, take care of the kids, and get married then pop out babies as soon as she can. Apparently me not wanting kids is a sin.

[@libalarrr]

My aunt once saw me holding hands with a girl that I had been friends with for years and threw a fit about how I shouldn't be romantic with people of my gender. The funny thing is that I was actually dating that girl.

[@cardemis7637]

I am so sorry.

[@luvbeinghiswife1148]

I'm at old lady at 48, happily married but we're also happily child free. We were pressured for years about having children. Stand your ground, if having children doesn't appeal to you, don't do it. I wish you all the best.

[@attonrandismybabygirl]

people like that are insufferable. im a girl and i keep being told by my family and other people that me not wanting children is just a phase and i will definitely have some in the future, i was made to believe having kids is my purpose and i sometimes still feel bad about not wanting them because i feel like my life wont be happy without kids. im 16. luckily my boyfriend doesnt want kids either and is a feminist lol

[@hakudoshi999]

As in she acts like her, or she really is her?

[@2dense967]

My mother was asked to act on the Italian version of this shitshow, and you find out, they don’t even pay you for it. That means that people crave so much attention that they are willing to participate in this for free. It actually shocked me.

[@Rato_Arabe]

what kind of family did they she have to take care of?

[@2dense967]

@@Rato_Arabe thank god she didn’t accept to do it in the end, because she wanted to get paid. I’m so happy about that tbh

[@logemcdoge4620]

Maybe the american version does pay?

[@2dense967]

@@logemcdoge4620 I don’t know actually

[@ghosthost2033]

Hol up, italian version? Cioè, serio?

[@Tajah8145]

It's definitely fine if a woman wants to be a stay-at-home mother and work at home, but when you go as far as to make it your whole ideology and claim that "women should be seen, not heard" that's where the oppression starts. Women should have the ability to make a choice! Because, duh, that's what feminism is

[@Chadmiral]

Facts

[@weeping_scope]

I never knew this was an actual show, since I only knew it as a joke in Horrible History.

[@HelloHamburger]

They did that specifically to show contrasts in culture between two groups of people in the same place and time, but who were radicay different. This is reality. I guess it makes sense things don't go well when you put people who are complete strangers and see if they can make a relationship work by temporarily living together. Guess I will have to find out how bad it is when I watch the video. *wink* 😉

[@ddjsoyenby]

holy sh1t my church was right it is awful :O

[@hellxsco]

You mean that Horrible History? "Gory stories, we do that"?

[@jamesy8217]

Same lmao

[@MinecraftRealm713]

this was my first thought as well.

[@brenee260]

You should do beyond scared straight. The fact that parents think exploiting their troubled kids on national television is going to help them be better is very concerning

[@erinchappel1359]

I hate that show. The parents refuse to parent so they have the prison guards and inmates do there job for them.

[@HackiePuffs]

And the fact that we’re supposed to think that the kids deserve the abuse because they’re not 100% well behaved like what kid IS 100% well behaved?!

[@user-xr4nw3pt2v]

lol lots of the time the kids have unchecked mental health issues as well. How the kid acts tells more about the parents.

[@RC.-]

@@user-xr4nw3pt2v Agreed. Those kids need therapy and support, not scaring them with jail

[@talkingfez1265]

YES PLEASSSSSEEEEE!

[@ddjsoyenby]

there were lots of men on this show that needed their wives to take care of them like a f'ing mommy!

[@roxassora2706]

They have a mommy fetish without wanting to say it

[@CookieSwandwich]

Sounds like they have a mommy issues

[@quietperson3886]

if the wife pass away, those men probably have to be taken care by his kids.. until he finds a young, naïve and gullible woman to trick her to became his maid

[@zakosist]

And being incapable of taking of yourself doesn't exactly seem very manly (unless you have a real disability that prevents it), which I guess these men want to be seen as

[@owl7072]

"Because that is a woman's place" "...No❤️" Love him

[@RedtailArt]

The internalized misogyny in that one lady is really just sad

[@justadudewholikestotalk]

He is very misogynistic and misandrist lol. He thinks women can’t work and also that men aren’t men if they don’t work

[@Salvage5681]

Honestly yeah I don’t get her at all, I feel bad for her

[@demetria-n]

Yeah, you can really see it in how they change the rules. The self-employed woman just asks the "new husband" to help clean stuff, simple really. The other one just gets all upset and claims the kitchen as her own, it wouldn't even be that bad if she did it in a respectful way. Just simply ask "Hey, I'm used to doing all this stuff, can I do it?" instead of "Women belong in the kitchen".

[@blastortoise]

Nice made up term. Maybe that's how she likes to live, like how the other woman likes to live as a person in a position of power. Gotta love how everybody has a choice but when you don't like it then it's: "Internalized misogyny".

[@jonathangoodwin5609]

I mean, yeah but its not necessarily internalized misogyny. It is entirely possible for people to live like that because of it being what they are comfortable with. It is entirely possible for someone to simply prefer such old fashioned ideas.

[@NiGHTSIntoMemes]

As a kid, one of my biggest fears was my mom signing us up for this and liking the other family more than our own. Fun times.

[@absurdwords2965]

My gf was raised to believe that woman should be subservient and do all the cleaning and cooking and wait on their husbands hand and foot. We are in a same sex relationship so I asked her which one of us should be doing these things then? She told me it should always be her. I finally got her to accept that we are equals and she shouldn't serve anyone like that whether it be me or a man. Now we split the work.

[@GoblinAttacForce]

That’s wild

[@mrpro538]

Idk if I should be appaled by the fact that some people are still raised like that, or happy that you managed to change her mind.

[@BuckBlaziken]

My father also believes in the Pus-ificafion, except he calls it Sissification, and it’s just as stupid as it sounds. He honestly thinks men shouldn’t apologize for their mistakes or transgressions to other people because it’s a ‘sign of weakness’. Yes these types of people actually exist

[@paracuna]

The biggest sissification is not minding your own business, imagine being so fragile that you can't handle happy people.

[@roxassora2706]

Damn, he's such a "masculine man" he cares about "Non-masculine men".

[@XWierdThingsHappenX]

Sounds like a narcissist.

[@genericname2747]

So, if we insulted him I bet he wouldn't get upset and he'd just ignore us. Right? Like a real manly man?

[@megsley]

holding yourself responsible is the most masculine thing you can do

[@acequeenofthedeck8431]

7:37 when he just said "No" I burst over laughing bc of how simple it was and the timing XD

[@Remi-the-Angel]

he fucking killed me with the "Nu"

[@3HorsemenOfMovingPictures]

222th liker

[@3HorsemenOfMovingPictures]

@@Remi-the-Angel lmfao

[@roxassora2706]

"She has old-fashioned views." "The husband shouldn't clean his house nor take care of himself." And he should also get super angry when you burn the food. Does she not see how that's bad?

[@Goblinhandler]

I still remember the vegan mom that gets rid of the frozen game in the freezer and the dad goes out and shoots a deer for dinner

[@CalliNightmare]

Whaaaaaat?? 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏

[@jacobevans489]

Speaking as a country raised man...I can totally agree with this reaction lmao. Though if I had anyone try and throw all of my family's game away...I'd be livid. Thats money...thats nutritional security.

[@callmeak21]

My favorite part was when she thought she would solve world hunger by staring into the sun

[@firesnakex8]

Even from the perspective of a vegan that makes no sense. Like she’s making the animal’s death go to waste as that meat is just going to rot away

[@Knightwolf1994]

So she wasted two animal lives instead of possibly getting that family to eat more fruits and vegetables.

[@365ral]

My best friend lost her mom to cancer when she was 8, so she was mostly raised by a single dad. She'd have a field day with the one wife who looked down on those dads.

[@PipeGuy64Bit]

I do wonder how much of this show is faked/exaggerated. It blows my mind people like this genuinely exist irl

[@Gchildwarrior]

I can't remember where, but someone said the producers manipulate the logs to give them a shock factor to the reader.

[@Jane-oz7pp]

@@Gchildwarrior that's just all reality tv

[@ericspencer8093]

I read an article about Wife Swap a few years ago that interviewed several participants. They pretty much admitted that the whole thing was staged. Some of the couples weren't even married in real life. Some were actors who just wanted to be on tv. They were told to fit pre-determined roles, like the homemaker, or career woman. It wasn't scripted exactly, but it was all set up beforehand. So it was fake anyway you look at it.

[@AlphaOmegaKnight77658]

I think most of it is. No real Christian would step foot in a house that practices witchcraft. It's honestly a matter of safety for the wife and her children.

[@AhngieCho]

@@AlphaOmegaKnight77658 No real Christian would care to participate in a show called wife swap...

[@moudoukam9597]

"Women belong in the kitchen" That, can actually be disturbing if you think about how she started saying that Also stop with the alpha male thing it is not actually a thing and whoever says their alpha are just miserable in life and try not to be losers

[@geprekbento7543]

Keep virtue signalling, beta

[@eropandasennin13]

@@geprekbento7543 Spoken like an "alpha"

[@dr.archaeopteryx5512]

@@geprekbento7543 Lmao have fun with your inaccurate wolf roleplays

[@paracuna]

@@geprekbento7543 alpha is a myth, wolves don't have alphas they live together and treat each other equal

[@JNJNRobin1337]

it becomes a thing in specific conditions but not in the wild

[@sierrasasmartass7755]

Honestly any show on TLC makes me feel like life is a simulation

[@3HorsemenOfMovingPictures]

Same

[@hbmcu24]

Bruh that stay-at-home dad is an icon when she was like 'That's a woman's place' and he responded with "...No" 👏👏 legendary

[@randomtinypotatocried]

Being an alpha male sounds tiring. I have thought of going back to vegetarianism and enjoy spending time with my step kid. If helping your partner is the worst thing then I guess I'm a monster for doing so

[@bobbyhill1110]

Y go vegetarian? Eating meat is a natural and healthy part of life. We wouldn't exist today without it.

[@baronvonlimbourgh1716]

This is not alpha behaviour. This is what beta's think being alpha is all about. Actual alpha's in a group dynamic, which could be both male or female technically, are simply the ones who naturally have confidence, are a trusted member of the group and who can basicly control group dynamics without words. It basicly means natural leader and someone that people naturally gravitate to for comfort and group guidence. Most people don't even notice they fulfill an alpha role in a group dynamic. If you ever are in a group and everybody is indecicive of what to do or where to eat or whatever until one person makes a sugestion for then everyone to agree and say, yeah i like that to. Or "yeah let's do that", you found your alpha. Or if you see people pay attention when someone enters the room, and changing the things that are being talked about etc. You also found your alpha. Being an alpha figure is not something you can demand, it is something that others voluntarilly assign to someone mostly. To someone they trust, percieve to be fair, and someone who can keep the peace and with the ability to point the group into a direction that everyone can agree with without drama.

[@missingnotheglitchmon]

Monsters are cool, actually. Self proclaimed "alpha males" with no pack on the other hand...

[@alim.9801]

​@@baronvonlimbourgh1716 are you serious?

[@GabrielTheMagolorMain]

"I believe in old fashion family values." This just reminded me that we see violence in movies and sex on TV, and that these values are on which we used to rely.

[@AlecNormal]

luckily there's a family guy at 7:35

[@GabrielTheMagolorMain]

@@AlecNormal thanks 👍

[@RavenLunatic517]

I'm so glad you're talking about this, my mom and I watched a couple episodes and we're blown away by how terrible it is

[@AxxLAfriku]

I HATE people that HATE other people. The comment I respond to did not spread HATE. That is good. BUT! I get a lot of HATE comments on my amazing videos and I HATE it. Please don't start spreading HATE. Do I have to HATE you too, dear rav

[@dontlookatmyprofilepic3084]

@@AxxLAfriku umm wtf This isn't even remotely related to this comment or the video itself BTW seeing the content u make, I can see why ppl leave "hate comments" on them Unless it's death threats or any valid kind of discretion

[@anthropomorphicpeanut6160]

@@dontlookatmyprofilepic3084 ignore him, he is just a spammer. I've been seeing him for years and KZbin refuses to ban him

[@dontlookatmyprofilepic3084]

@@anthropomorphicpeanut6160I've seen him too lol I just felt like roasting him for fun on that day bc I was bored

[@kareemmasri3934]

@@dontlookatmyprofilepic3084 I just took a look at his channel, the titles of his videos alone made me feel like I was developing encephalitis with each one I looked at 😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@caitlinmartin1188]

I remember seeing an episode when the show was fairly new: my mom went to college with one of the wives. The woman was portrayed as very high-strung and a meticulous planner (the family had a large scheduled calendar they called "The Brain") and she and her family were crazy strict Christians. The other family was all about fun, chaos , and living in the moment. It was very interesting watching it with my mom because she could tell when there was an honest interaction between people and a scripted interaction. She would point out that her friend would never approach a situation this way, or she'd be way more kind about that. It was especially interesting to see the loosey-goosey mom get drunk with power and burned the calendar in front of the family as part of the new rules. Everyone was devastated by this action, in fact she went in to explain her reasoning to the teenage son and he said "I understand that you disagreed with how we scheduled things, but do you think that was the kindest and most effective way to prove your point?" So mature, not crazy or brainwashed. The other family benefitted from having the Christian mom in their house too: the kids there didn't want to be left to their own devices and they actually said they liked having some direction and advice coming from a parental figure. The best part though? The Christian family brought back their calendar and kept all the other changes the other wife made in the house like letting the daughter learn how to play the drums and giving more trust to their teenage son when it came to dating. That was one episode where I can definitely say that both families actually learned from each other. The rest of the show? Oof the drama. Yeah,there are many parts that are totally scripted. Anyway, thanks for reading my rant. Glad I mostly stick to KZbin for entertainment now.

[@cammm360]

I remember that episode! That’s one of my favorites

[@violettbun]

As a pagan: you did a good job to explain the religion, and the christian mom was so disrespectful to hug the daughter to catch the demons

[@kingoffire105]

I may be a Christian but I did feel uncomfortable when the mom "hugged" that kid! Like when hugging someone you do it in a warm embrace of love, not casting out demons! Besides be respectful to other people and if you wanna convert others to Christianity don't force it but do it in a gradual, loving and kind way!!

[@BriarBeeBenson]

Also just the fact that a LOT of Christian households specifically abide by the belief that children are property and can’t have opinions or bodily autonomy etc and this also means children aren’t allowed boundaries or aren’t able to say “no I don’t want to”. She just grabs that girl, a person she doesn’t even know, this woman is a STRANGER to her and then immediately disrespects her beliefs and disregards her bodily autonomy. It’s not an innocent hug like this woman thinks it is, its a gross violation of boundaries and an abuse of her power for she is an adult who is bigger and stronger than her. Gross. A really, REALLY common example of this is kids being forced, guilted and coerced into hugging and kissing family members when it makes them uncomfortable. And if they voice that discomfort their feelings are immediately invalidated, disregarded and then they’re made to feel guilty for having feelings. “How could you do that? If you don’t give them physical contact that will make them sad. Thats so mean and rude and selfish! Don’t be a brat” Then later on in their adult life things like not being taught what consent is or not being allowed to have consent from an early age can cause really serious and horrific things like domestic abuse or sexual abuse. People not being able to maintain boundaries and say no. It bleeds into so much stuff that can cause irreversible mental and physical trauma and make a person utterly miserable and ruin their entire life. And if you point this out to these people who treat their children like property then they have a spectacular screaming tantrum at being criticised and then continue to treat their children like literal non-human objects. It’s such disgusting behaviour

[@highbahamut6188]

@@BriarBeeBenson let me guest you are also against the florida anti-grooming bill

[@thelemurofmadagascar9183]

@@BriarBeeBenson You're completely blowing this out of proportion.

[@Dovah21]

As someone else in the orbit of paganism, I'd like to politely point out to any anti-magic/anti-witchcraft out there that your "spiritual warfare" is still magic.

[@Miyananana]

My fave wife swap ep is where they had a liberal and conservative family switch wives and coming from a super liberal family, growing up and seeing this ep became a weird irrational fear of mine.

[@bannles]

Alternative title for this show: adults revert back to children

[@astralten]

Fun fact: The German version of wife swap managed to release a single episode so legendary a quote of his is literally the slogan of the German Fridays For Future movement.

[@SarahAbramova]

From this video, I say that influencer mom and pagan mom were better than the rest. Worst is nutrition karen and the sexist traditional moral house wives.

[@missingnotheglitchmon]

@Sovesss Getting rid of locks on a kid's door is actually a bad thing. You're taking away their privacy, which means you can see everything they're doing, from changing clothes to other private matters parents shouldn't be looking at.

[@SimBits]

There is no "women's place," even in a traditional marriage! Traditional roles are not meant to be sexist and mysoginistic and it sucks that so many people act like they are :P

[@SeekerGoldstone]

I mean... that depends on how traditionally you define "traditional". The reason that we send men into the mines and let women stay where it's safe isnt mysoginistic, its biological imperative. Now that a person is so much less likely to die at work, it doesnt really make a difference but the tradition was specifically created to prevent people who can bear children from being crushed or mauled to death. That's not a decision made based on emotion.

[@sussybaka119]

Ur mom

[@nanopanda]

The housewife lady sounds like a parody of trad christian women...but suspiciously less kids

[@BreezyStreamy]

No, there are plenty of people like that alpha dad who couldn't load a dishwasher. My step-dad was a firm believer in men went to a job, grilled, did yard work, but would go ballistic if he or his son was asked to was the dishes or to do laundry. It changed once I moved out for college and he ended up losing his job and went on disability due to his health and he was actually the one who would pick up after the household. He even apologized for how he treated me when I was growing up before he died in 2018. There are still some things left unsaid, and some feeling felt, but I could say that I do forgive him in that aspect. RIP

[@claratalbot7613]

As a Pagan (specifically Egyptian) I think u did a fantastic job as summarizing what our religion is. And yeah it is very rare to find a Pagan family that also works with demons. Not impossible but definitely rare

[@PidgeyHowler]

Unfortunately, really old fashioned women who have been trained to believe their only purpose is pleasing their husband and making babies sadly do exist. I mean, I DO agree the show is probably heavily scripted, and I do understand being skeptical these kinds of people exist because they're not common.

[@Tuchuuu]

I remember this show! I remember one episode where they switched the fathers. One was like a super vegan person or whatever and was very extreme. He made the house he swapped to invite everyone to a party. And the other one was a biker stepdad. He was more about freedom and stuff and the girls he was with didn’t want him to leave because before they didn’t get to be kids, and the wife didn’t want him to leave either it looked like. Like the actual father was very controlling and stuff and it was kinda sad to watch it. This show is very bizarre, but oddly entertaining.

[@someguycalledgoober155]

Okay, for the stay at home lady I have to say this: Fathers, cannot stress this enough, *Need* to be in some way helping with the development of their children and should help clean. Stay at home or not. A lack of this, I feel, is what's harming America but that's just me.

[@Nothingseen]

"influencer?" They made another one of these? I hate this stuff. I mean, I know it's all "look at how weird these people are" but it ends up feeling like "look at how everyone who is different than you is insane." Is someone worried about the foods their kids are eating? They're this lady with vocal fry who yells about vegetable oil. The completely bonkers lady who lives with a biker and is convinced that women should be seen and not heard? Well, there's hordes of her out there, right? That's how we could find her. With social media elevating the loudest, craziest voices and reality television finding the craziest people and then elevating them too, it feels like it's so easy to assume everyone around you is a god damn lunatic. It's a deeply isolating experience at the end of it.

[@GoldLeafGardenia]

Agreed. It's isolating and legitimately depressing. I've been struggling with my view of the world for the past few years and the fact that we spotlight the worst of people makes it REALLY hard to believe there are any good, kind, or sensible people out there. That needs to stop. Most people will appreciate other people that are smart and kind and adaptable... right?

[@LunarAscending]

(Assuming this is real, which we all know there’s at most a small sliver of truth here) Nutrition Karen isn’t wrong, but she goes about it the wrong way. Processed foods are terrible for your health and super addictive, and vegetable oil ends up in far too much food and drags the nutritional value way down. The way to go off about it isn’t to, well, *go off* like it’s the devil, but to instead educate and encourage better habits when she’s there.

[@SeekerGoldstone]

I dont think that anybody thinks that processed or fried foods are healthy. Everybody knows that tobacco is unhealthy but we still smoke it. The fact that it might kill me is irrelevant to my decision... if I want Cheetos and bacon, I'm gonna eat Cheetos and bacon. If the health risks were an argument that I gave weight to, I wouldnt smoke or eat Cheetos in the first place.

[@Ax-xo4ux]

What’s your definition of processed tho? Cause processed food is also like flour or sugar. Or literally anything that is not “raw food” Cooked food is processed And oil isn’t exactly bad in moderate amounts. It’s all about moderation

[@BrianJ677]

Stay at home dads are not new. - “Just as men must give up economic control when their wives share the responsibility for the family's financial well-being, women must give up exclusive parental control when their husbands assume more responsibility for child care.” - Imperator Caesar Augustus

[@keybyss98]

Sorry, but for the first family, I don’t even think most housewives in the 50’s bought into the extent this family goes through. I think they had more self respect than this. This is insane! Also sad to see a family apparently thinking that a Dad *hanging with his own kids* is somehow “pussification”, even if this is fake. It’s already a weird mild expectation in society that Dads can’t be emotional with their kids. Again, I think there were Dads in the 50’s that were healthier father figures than this. This is so cringe tbh.

[@Bloojaygay]

As a pagan myself, I think you did a really good job describing what paganism is!

[@tssprankle]

I'm curious, what do you worship? I'm personally a Christian but paganism has always interested me because it's an oddity to me, it's honest curiosity :D

[@lisal.1114]

​​@@tssprankleot sure about the above comentor, but for most people it just happens or they were already interestend in another spiritual practise like witchcraft (for most people that about healing, cleansing protection and anything thats suposed to make u and your life better without causing harm (no Tik Tok Binding Spells please!). U just start to pick up signs and then u accidentally by everything for an altar over the last few years and it just kinda happens. Popular deitys can be egyptian, greek, nordic. (Hinduism gan technically Fall under that term aswell). Paganism is about everything non Christian basically. That does not mean u can not do deity work and Angel work at the same time. Both is fine, but I have heard that Gods like Loki do not feel comfortable with Christian concepts, since they rewrote him to be a bit of a scapegoat, wich is actually not the case. There are so many subcategories like druidry and some r working with local folklore and stuff. Really no limits, u atract what u need and just be honest and aprechiate the deity, if u work with one. Also depens on u and the deity. For example u can work with Apollon to get better at any divination form (personally speaking Archangel Michael and Gabriell can be helpfull aswell with Tarot at least). Satanism like in the video is a separate sphere in paganism, in that context they do not see them like demons that r evil more like ethitys that r there to guide people and that u can call on for wisdom. They do not use a Christian understanding. I personally work with angels, greek deitys, egyptian, roman and nordic. I am more on the omnipotent side its really weird, it basically means no faith and all faiths r real or exist for a reason at the same time. Also I like to clarify I personally believe witchcraft is a commitment to conecting with the earth and all that live in it. Wiccan (a pagan religion) witches have the rule of 3 and would never do curses. I personally believe u atract what u send out so do no evil to others sadly many people that r usally quicker to call themself witch ( instead of seeing it as a commitment and journey) look up some bindingspell shit under the cover of a lovespell and cause some damadge or r surprised that it backfires to them (what u send out isnwhat u atract). I kinda got into witchcraft, cause enough people curse otehrs without rituals in form of longterm abuse or deceptive gossip thats why protection and cleansing is a witches priority and that would start a whole other comversation. Ohh bevor I forgot deitys can also show up in your dreams or in Lokis or hermes case stuff disapears and in Lokis case your electronics dont work for a while. Usally u work with deitys to heal something another example would be Lady Aphrodite and she can help with inner child healing and selflove and has a very loving energy. Ohh and of course even if stuff is new and makes u uncomfortable its a normal first time reaction, but if it causes u harm or makes u feel ill its not the deity that is says it is. U usally feel that or can just call on the actuall deity for help or whatever spriritguids u believe in. That can also be ancestors. Now I have to watch the video again, since my comment took to long to write.❤🌻🕊🦢🧿 Edit: u also learn a lot about history and cultural developement and changes, when u do your research.

[@hblackburn5580]

A Fire Chief! That woman is the epitome of a badass, and far more deserving of any respect that Chad bro is. Like she's type of mom her kids would want to aspire to be, can't say the same for that dude. But the edition from the early 00s is even more bizarre because at that time you knew people still legit lived that way. It was notebooks instead of tablets, and you knew they were legit weird back then. Also, I love the random shit she calls us🤣

[@derdiedasjohannes245]

The only good thing that that show did was making the biggest german meme Andreas the man who made german ytps possible (and funny)

[@MyPreferredUsernameWasTaken]

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[@pansenstich6932]

RAAAAAAGH

[@derdiedasjohannes245]

@@MyPreferredUsernameWasTaken danke

[@beri5882]

Es ist Obst im Haus

[@sylvianapalma958]

"A man should enjoy his house, not clean it." Then, it's a shame that you haven't met my biological father yet. He enjoys his house and cleans it because he lives alone and is an extreme neat freak.

[@ja.lena.a]

9:52 "MY kitchen"? Ma'am that's not even your house

[@thefunborgpl]

man i remember my sister seeing our cousin on a regional version of this show recording like half of it and showing it later to me she was a hardcore christian so of course she was paired with the biggest hippie family that they could find worst part came when one of dautghers of the second family came out as lesbian to their and she(my cousin) was legit offended that they accepted her (admittedly not in front of them) the second hand embarrassment i felt that day i wouldn't wish upon my worst enemies

[@scruffyjams2910]

funnily enough we know the second family (boss wife and stay at home husband) they were really excited about this airing on tv and the wife had a lot of fun changing the other family!

[@EnnuiOwO]

That one woman's repeated catchphrase just reminds me of "Good soldiers follow orders"

[@JamesSmith-pp5vp]

She's probably so angry about the dad loving and caring for his kids because it broke the stereotypes she had.

[@mrdonut7158]

i think this could have been a really interesting show if it wasn't completely consumed by the business practices of american television and the self absorbtion of the people involved

[@Fricker112]

12:08 Norse Pagan here. Much appreciation for not labeling us all the same. Demon no good, me no worshipy.

[@valorielewis2858]

I love that you actually explained paganism and stuff. for some reason when other youtubers react they only point out how "horrible" it must be for the pagan's kids as if the Christian family wasn't being horrible and weirder. never met a pagan that wanted to burn all Christians but know many many Christians who would happily burn all pagans.

[@SeekerGoldstone]

What part of the world do you live in?

[@valorielewis2858]

@@SeekerGoldstone The US

[@SeekerGoldstone]

@@valorielewis2858 Southern states?

[@valorielewis2858]

@@SeekerGoldstone why does it matter?

[@SeekerGoldstone]

@@valorielewis2858 I think your experiences may be a regional phenomenon. I live in Canada where we have a much more liberal culture than the southern states. Here, where further left-leaning ideologies are more socially powerful, its absolutely the pagan, wiccan, hippy types that advocate for violence. I've never heard anyone suggest that non-Christians deserve to die. I've definitely heard many people suggest that we should exterminate all members of organized religions.

[@windego999]

My favorite part is how these women are somehow always married to some kind of man that perfectly compliments whatever oddities they have and only sometimes is the man just kinda indifferent and just tolerates it like how did these people meet and marry? That's the real story I wanna hear.

[@kunknown2340]

They wouldnt be together if the man stood his ground.. i should know i stand my ground and got enough exes to know. Gotta find that person who is compatible to your crazy i suppose.

[@averagecoasterenjoyer]

My theory is that the "women belong in the kitchen" wife was mind controlled by the Tombstone guy to be that way. No women I know would ever say that publicly even if handed a million dollars

[@KolchaksGhost]

Okay, and? They’re wrong

[@CrazyGoth631]

I like the stay at home dad seems happy confident and loves his kids and last guy just a miserable man baby that wants everyone to confirm around his nonsense. Also, super creepy telling some stranger she needs to look sexually attractive for him. 🤮

[@asleepyb0i400]

For a second, I thought you were gonna talk about the Stockdale family, and how the parents completely isolated their boys like it was some kind of cult and exploited them for child labor. It was no surprise that one of the sons ended up shooting his mother and youngest brother dead with how awful that home was.

[@CharlemagneGuy127]

Only episode I know from this show was the bit with a vegan wife who got swapped to a hunting family and one day, she was tasked with cooking dinner but deliberately didn’t put out the frozen meat to thaw, and she was like “oh no, guess we’re not gonna eat meat tonight for dinner!“ but the husband then went out and caught himself a rabbit for the family to eat and she started sobbing about it.

[@jennawebb4225]

I think you are talking about the Horrible Histories one?

[@missingnotheglitchmon]

I might be mistaking this for another show, but wasn't there an episode with a couple who hated animals? The wife threatened to let a family's pet skunk starve to death because she didn't want to feed Scooby, because she only knows skunks for spraying, even though his spray glands were removed, and she proudly admits she took all of the kids' pets away, including their puppies just because SHE thinks animals are inherently unclean. In the other family, the husband told a bunch of animals "I hate you" to their faces, knowing they can't say anything back like the coward he is while proclaiming that all animals (yes, even dogs and cats) are his "dinner", and they wouldn't let their daughter have a pet cat because they think cats are filthy due to being animals, when they're actually the complete opposite of filthy. I can just imagine how they'd react when they find out that the human race is part of the animal kingdom; they'd probably call for total extinction of their own kind.

[@tuxedobird]

Tombstone being so okay with doing chores makes me concerned for how that lady grew up, I hope this show got Tombstone to maybe try talking to the other lady.

[@christosgiannopoulos828]

Bro you're telling me it's possible to marry someone who likes to slay demons (and devils) ? That's fucking awesome. I want such a wife. Imagine descending to hell with her, shotgun in hand, reaping and tearing, while doom music plays in the background. Also she made a distinction between demons and devils, which means she also plays DnD. Which is always a plus in a partner

[@rockhistoria2537]

Dnd Girlboss Doomslayer is an unexpected surprise I've never expected to see, but surely a pleasant one

[@Angela.Perkins]

I remember watching Wife Swap a lot when I was a tween/teen. They quickly ran out of opposite archetypes to use and ended up repeating a lot of them, or reaching for weirder and less realistic characters. I also seem to remember the families getting more obnoxious and immature with each successive season, presumably to keep viewers engaged by upping the drama.

[@Jackson-ub1uv]

I don't understand why someone would want to *willingly* be below others societally, without even getting anything from it.

[@Nerathul1]

"Wouldn't it imply that she's miserable" in my experience every Tradwife IS miserable, but they just gaslight themselves into thinking it's happiness, they'll constantly complain about everything and how bad their lives/husbands are and then switch around that this is a GOD GIVEN BLESSING and struggle makes you stronger and happier!

[@katadora5568]

This whole show was a brain blast. All the wives, all the controversies, murder..There's even a racist family. I don't know if you want to make another video on this topic but there's tons to work with for you.

[@program.gender_notfound761]

Excuse me what. Murder? Now I got to look into that. I've never heard anything like that related to the show.

[@genericname2747]

Murder?????

[@huh2183]

@@genericname2747 Yea I'm pretty sure that one of the families in the show had a kid and he killed 2 of the family members. It happened years after the episode aired. That's all I remember really. But there's more information in the Internet btw.

[@genericname2747]

@@huh2183 well, that's sad

[@foki8671]

I'm a demonolatress and this is the first time I hear or see other demonolators and even just the discussion of it in mainstream media! Also thank you so much for the amazing explanation on paganism and demonolatry, it really got me excited!

[@ShiftylittleDemon]

This actually made me more interested in demonolotry I can't quite say it'd be something I practice, but I definately want to learn more about it

[@foki8671]

@@ShiftylittleDemon It's very interesting to even just research and not practice! But it can go quite deep, just like any other pagan practice/religion. I've been a practitioner for a couple of years now and I wouldn't consider myself completely knowledgeable

[@Sorrelhas]

I tried saying "demonolatress" three times fast and failed

[@gracekim1998]

Mmm I glad she did her best to explain Paganism and stuff🤔

[@alim.9801]

I've never heard of those titles before this but I gotta say, demonolatress is such a cool word

[@cordingdesert9566]

Stay at home dad for the win. Truly a man to emulate. It hurts my head to think people still act like its the 1700 hundreds. Sure be a stay at home mom, IF YOU WANT, but don't you dare think others should be forced to live that way.

[@mr_noobx3009]

"the road to alpha starts with death" couldn't have said truer words.

[@dontburstmybubble686]

7:43 "No." As he should in front of his daughters. Also damn I want what that couple has.

[@Juju2927]

"I'm a true Alpha Male ! I can do anything !" "Can you do the dishwasher ?" *Runs away while shitting himself*

[@thebreakfastmenu]

Pretty much all reality TV makes me feel like we're in a simulation.

[@adonm6998]

Vegetable oil lady is righ though. Studies have shown how bad vegetable oils are especially when fried and oxidized and TVs or other screens should not be in the same area where we sleep . She might be dramatic but she has a point.

[@TakashiDemonServant]

Yea I learned that most of the couples usually get a divorce or there’s a murder case associated with this show because the family was way too strict on their kids.

[@snowbird1381]

Wife swap is one of those shows that makes you feel like you’ve watched too much TV. I remember watching and I looked around myself and realized this is where my life choices brought me.

[@Samstrainsofficially]

The UK wifeswap was much more uhhh... you gotta see it, it just makes US wifeswap look so normal.

[@parke6704]

For the last family, the stay at home mom and the fire chief’s husband would’ve been a better match together than their respective partners.

[@big_and_bookish]

My dad was a battalion chief until he retired last year, and they are always busy during the day. A lot of them are also EMTs and will get sent on medical calls as well. They’ll also be washing the trucks, making all the gear is packed an in order for when there is a call, etc.

[@GayAnnabeth]

Lady with so much internalised misogyny it's not even funny: "That is a woman's place." Absolute chad dad: "no"

[@edgelux3381]

unfortunately ive been exposed to this show fairly recently since my sister and her boyfriend wanted to watch the episode where *the controlling **-ab*sive-** (oops i meant strict) russian mom who thinks americans spoil their kids and her kids get perfect grades and do extracurriculars so they have LITERALLY no free time and no way to hang out with friends outside of school* swaps with *the over-lenient mom whose husband walks around in a towel everywhere and she can never get him or the kids to do anything* and i had to ask them to turn off the episode because it was giving me flashbacks

[@ashlynnheller8400]

What episode was this?

[@AmirMunir26]

I like how you did not show how controlling the last women was. The fact she watched over him like a child.

[@lazarusthibodeaux]

Gilbert Gottfried on Wife Swap was hilarious. (May The Legend Rest In Peace)

[@secretdoll92831]

If you have to ask permission to leave your room, you are usually either kidnapped, or under extreme duress... disturbing AF

[@matthewyukizome-kirigiri2327]

Awesome. Now we only need to wait 4 months till Savana uploads again!

[@aveganeverywhere]

She hates vegan food because she thinks it's healthy? Does she not know what French fries are? It's certainly looks like her husband is familiar with the french fries.

[@Cupidrat7274]

At 13:21 I thought it was gonna be “We have a wife who is a fire battalion chief and in the other corner we have a wife who is a pyromaniac”

[@crepe7719]

"The worst offense ever..... VEGTABLE OIL." I cant help but laugh when I heard that-

[@greatorange7548]

2 videos in 2 weeks Grateful for the video but you don't have to put yourself through the torture of bad tv

[@Koi_fish1522]

these families are like pokemon cards you got common ones than you have the most rare family out there that makes you question reality

[@vectinator7605]

You’d hope that this show just randomly pairs families together, but no they look at all the applications and select pairs that they think will have the most trouble. They want drama.

[@genericname2747]

I think it'd be funny if one day they just put the wives in a family just like theirs. No drama, just 2 women being like "hey these guys are pretty cool"

[@repent_and_believe_316]

3:37 she sounds how vomit smells--- thanks Cory that was an epic roast