Say These Statements To Collapse a Narcissist INSTANTLY!

[@narcabusecoach]

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[@belwillcoily6407]

My ex absolutely lost it when he kept begging me to tell him whether I still loved him. At first I refused to answer. Then I got tired of him asking so I told him the truth. I told him that I still loved the man I THOUGHT he was but I’ve had to accept that that man does not exist AT ALL! He stared at me in shock then screamed that I had no idea what the hell I was talking about and then retreated to another room for the rest of the day. I got three days of peaceful silence from him as a result which I’m sure he saw it as him “punishing me” with the silent treatment. If he only knew, silent treatment was a literal vacation for me from having to hear his voice! 😊

[@Gina71954]

And its so good not to hear their voice

[@MNJGaGa]

Im no longer playing Tom and Jerry. They will get haunted regardless. No need to get revenge, they will go down anyway. Be grateful you got a chance to escape them. Don't ever let that parasite back in your life ever again.

[@bintefiroz7319]

100% right.

[@JoniTevive]

Fly 🐒 monkeys

[@MonoFamily-v1r]

U r real advocate for souls like us

[@yuu_miran]

One can never be safe around a narc to say those things. Who knows what kind of darkness hides in them to be unleashed. You say one clever thing they will say twenty in reply, even if it will be an arguement its not healthy or helpful to argue with them. Instead of saying anything to them, let them learn from your actions. Those may as well trigger much of their anger for example leaving them or ignoring them.

[@heyafamilysfam5649]

Couldn't agree more.. narcs don't deserve any mercy.

[@Sunshine-uo8nv]

Exactly!

[@raidenewalden4354]

Yes I told him I am a special gift for you, so you have to appreciate me being with and you have to look after me , once I’m gone no one can replace me because I got everything that you want . You have no time and years to spend looking for someone special like me .

[@user-ly7en7bg1j]

I would also reaffirm that this can be risky too as some can get violent. I honestly believe it is the level they are at, whether they are from the psychopathic level or sociopathic side of NPD. As you said. We must be safe.

[@Hopeishere77]

I had a death recently of someone I loved, I'm greiving, and since those in living with see me vulnerable they pounced on me with great force and evil.......yes narcs have demons

[@mrsqueakthecat.8061]

I can relate. Several years ago I lost almost everything in a fire. My 'loving family' went after me with everything they had trying to take control of my life for it. Their view of 'helping me' was to force me to give up what little I had left and do as they said for the rest of my life. It was insane.

[@YomaOhwovo]

The narcissistic knows that they need to acknowledge you for all the things you do for them , but they don't do so because of their inflated ego.

[@Gina71954]

There is nothing I have not done for him and our marriage and how he disrespected still !!!!!

[@mrsramales]

Danish you got this down 100 %. Thank you ! You have a mayor talent to help and use words to describe the hell they put me thru!!

[@MsTery-ul7pw]

They really do the bare minimum.

[@mrsqueakthecat.8061]

And too often not even that.

[@AngelEyes-xm7el]

Live in a house full. Being told they don't want you talking because they don't care.

[@aparna1170]

If people don't value us, then instill fear in them. That is what dad did and ex did.

[@KatherineGrey-pz9on]

The narcissist is capable of feeling infatuation, but not love. Once that cools off, and inevitably it does, they get bored and lose interest because they don’t enter the love stage like normal people do. They are just going to get bored laboring over you and thats precisely how its going to feel to them. You are like a novel toy that suddenly isn’t novel and they seek a new one. Of course if you damage their ego thats why they will move on. Even if you keep supporting their ego they’re going to want something better, or just different and novel. The narcissist doesn’t care about you, and, why settle for the adorations of just one person when you could get it from many? That is how they think. So, they will stop giving you attention. They will stop clicking like on your posts, stop texting, stop calling… sometimes they might throw you a scrap here and there while phasing you out just to keep a hook in, but it won’t be much. They won’t fake smiles or try to start conversations with you anymore. They might even slime you with negative remarks to create distance so that your attention won’t continue to annoy them. Basically, the novel appeal of a new toy is gone. That is all you are to the N. They never saw you as a human, an equal, because they don’t have the empathy it takes to see you as that. You were merely something to make N feel good, and when you aren’t needed anymore, thats that. Additionally I got to know about my narc husband bad ways when I reach out to a private detective MetaspyHub@gmail. com for help he did a perfect work for me I can see everything he’s doing on his device.

[@PNWWildernessJourneys]

Yikes! I'm pretty sure that the narcs I deal with would be totally triggered by all of those! I would like to say some of those things to them, but my gut tells me that I should just continue to remain silent. 🤔🤐

[@crucifire9224]

Silence is as loud as a war.

[@mariannamurphy8969]

On point as always!

[@margaretkinyanjui9237]

I would be dead by now if I ever told him that....thank God I left

[@prr611]

This is helpful, Specially the second point is so so good, Thanks for sharing this

[@KhanAhmad450]

Waiting for every episode ❤❤❤

[@lecoramassamba]

😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾 you clocked it ALL!!

[@aparna1170]

If i was not sensitive, i would have said u r not enough. But, if they think i am asking for too much then i can say u are not enough

[@ericalbright7210]

Christine Albright Thank you🙏...

[@User414xz]

Never defend yourself If you are an emotional safe person 🚩🙂🌞

[@Phillyphysi]

Excellent

[@dakoderii4221]

Read Proverbs and Jesus' rebuke of the Pharisees. Narcissism(pride) in a nutshell and how to defeat it.

[@Theeunseenart]

Play damn and be indifferent

[@aniagrandprime7630]

Dumb?

[@Theeunseenart]

@aniagrandprime7630 yep that's right, you play dumb

[@mrsqueakthecat.8061]

@@aniagrandprime7630 Autocorrect hats us all.

[@MonoFamily-v1r]

Ok thanks alot... but why I'm able to leave him

[@elisabethwyndaele5912]

Oef I know ❤

[@chamanara3048]

Please isko hindi main karein

[@anithajob2408]

Sir Npd and paranoid schizophrenia is same

[@Abm-ms4bz]

No

[@grayirishgalt]

Sir unicorns and dragons is the same

[@mrsqueakthecat.8061]

The Venn Diagram is just a single circle with two lables.

[@lyndylulu2]

Too many words. Confusing.

[@naowright9308]

When you think about these sayings, you can consolidate them and use your own words. This is just the essence of phrases that will trigger them into a meltdown.

[@lyndylulu2]

@naowright9308 I wish it was the essence, which would mean the main ideas upon which I could expand. Generally great content here, so this is my first minor criticism.