Bride Can’t Get Mum On Board With Her Pink Dress Dreams! | Say Yes To The Dress

[@jennypage2005]

The pink dress is GORGEOUS! And the second bride chose a beautiful dress.

[@erinjaynes]

Yes!!! That delicate pink floral dress was completely stunning and feminine and gorgeous!!!

[@connie27100]

Beautiful floral dress. Stunning. Best choice

[@Justicia007]

My sister chose a pink dress. It wasn't super dark pink or anything. It was blush, but my mom loved it and so did everyone else and no one said a word.

[@rosehavenfarm2969]

The pink flowered dress is gorgeous. She looks beautiful in it.

[@MsJubjubbird]

I don't like it. It reminds me of wallpaper

[@jb6712]

For a 2009 style, yes. That's when this was filmed.

[@Kayenne54]

I loved it. It was unique, extremely pretty, very feminine...totally looked fantastic on her and didn't overwhelm her either.

[@deadlyfox666]

@@jb67122004 not 2009

[@shawroberts5149]

But how does that dress fit in with the desired theme, it's pastel, $600 over budget and somewhat wishy washy? The dream was to match the decorative boxes from the engagement. The bride seems to be so easily distracted with her budget, style choices etc Her mother is aware of this, knows her best and can see this. Strong willed does not equate maturity here.

[@m8trxd]

How awesome to find a husband and a mother in law that completely accept you for who you are 😊

[@Shasha-jo5iv]

yeah, the proposal???! wonderful people who love her!

[@Anna-fm7hh]

But it is easy for the mother of the groom, becuse the young couple will live close to her. I know that the mother of the bride should accept it,but it's her who is in a heart breaking situation, not the mother of the groom.

[@susaneva520eva9]

But your mom does not

[@elizbethlennox6550]

@@Anna-fm7hh I live close to both my mom and mil, havent spoken to my mom in four years, my mil, yesterday

[@RevLeigh55]

My daughter didn’t want the kind of dress I would have preferred, but I kept my mouth shut. Her day. Her way.

[@ellenfoster9764]

Good for you. I cannot get why all these mothers care so much!

[@elena3476]

Honestly whats the point in bringing your mother to an appointment if you dont value her opinion or if she isnt honest with you(in a nice manner)

[@tishguzman5116]

You are a considerate, wise mom. Your daughter is blessed to have you.

[@kittys.2870]

Thank you!

[@TheSuwanneeMama]

I agree. I wanted to wear my mother’s dress. I’m the only one in the family whose build would fit it. But it was white & it was my second marriage so she was horrified that I’d wear white. This was in 1994 so long past that rule!

[@helsnheidi]

I will never understand how these mothers can’t understand that it’s not about them. It’s not their wedding and it’s not their dress. How can they seriously sit there and only focus on what they want?!

[@jeswainston]

Because it’s about the spectacle of the wedding and it could be the mom’s didn’t get the wedding of their dreams or want to relive.

[@morganablackwater2017]

​@@jeswainston still doesn't give you pass to ruin your dauther experience.

[@jeswainston]

@@morganablackwater2017 I never said it did. Where did I say that? I was explaining. Yeesh. Calm down.

[@helsnheidi]

Yeah I totally understand the psychology of what’s driving the desire. What I don’t understand is how they can think it’s ok to prioritise their own needs over their child’s.

[@dietotaku]

@@jeswainston i didn't get the wedding of my dreams and i can honestly say that when/if my daughter gets married, i will be singularly obsessed with making sure she gets the wedding of HER dreams, not mine. will i let her know if something looks tacky or clashes? sure. will i help her find a way to achieve HER vision and inject HER taste in a way that still looks classy, like randy did with this bride? absolutely. THAT is my job as her mother.

[@kaitlynwright2190]

That MIL is an angel. They’re both so lucky to have found each other. She gets to enjoy being a part of his family, and they get to enjoy how sweet she is!

[@SunBeeSmoked]

It's incredibly sad when someone else's mother makes your child feel more accepted than you do.

[@s.susanmarandi9080]

It is kind of understandable, though. The mother has been visualizing her daughter in her wedding dress since she was born; the mother-in-law has no such preconceived notions.

[@SunBeeSmoked]

@@s.susanmarandi9080 it's not understandable at all. You shouldn't have those kinds of expectations that don't impact you or your child in any way. Having expectations to the point of your child feeling unaccepted for having likes and dislikes and preferences is just overbearing.

[@DYOR3938]

@@SunBeeSmokedit’s always 9000x easier to accept someone else’s kids life decisions rather than your own kid. If the kid down the block wants to dress as a furry to high school it’s fine. If mine does it he’s gonna get a whooping.

[@oluwafisayoomikunle8237]

It is because they are not their mothers. A mother will always be particular about her child that doesn't mean she won't support her child. There is an obvious bond between this mother and child

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@DYOR3938That is so true! My cousin had a baby out of wedlock, had a shotgun wedding and dropped out of college and my mom was so supportive. But if it was me, she would have killed me. Those are all things my mom does not expect from me.

[@annied3276]

Oh my gosh! How could anybody not like that second dress? It's absolutely magnificent!!! The embroidery and colors are gorgeous!!!

[@NancyGnome]

It's gorgeous but it doesn't fit the leopard/hot pink theme, I think, it's more like a formal China pattern. I love the floofiness of the first one!

[@nannajulies]

It looks like an eiderdown

[@michellewinkler3985]

The embroidered pink dress was one of the most beautiful wedding dresses I have even seen in my whole life! It is spectacular! Great Choice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@angelic8026]

Her mil is a gem! The bride is strong willed and not swayed by any of the comments. Kudos to both of them

[@ladyjustice1474]

1st bride's mom, I understand that's her baby. But her daughter needs wings every bit as much as she needs roots.

[@KickedMangoStudios]

Well said! Love that! 💕

[@v.k.i9412]

Well said.

[@fieryphoenix2020]

Couldn’t agree more

[@wendiewhitneydeprisco3663]

I love that her MIL is so supportive. I loved her in the pink flower dress!

[@cc-sb1is]

Not only did her future MIL support her 100%, they look so alike! It could be her daughter, and now, through marriage, she IS. 💕

[@jemmaj2919]

That pink worked for her, she looked great

[@Kat-zj5kd]

she is beautiful and the pink floral dress looked so pretty

[@jessiejoseph1093]

That pink gown is Gorgeous! What a beautiful bride!

[@heyy13]

She looks beautiful in that embroidered flower dress. I am so glad her mother in law is so supportive and loving.

[@jenwanner4911]

That pink flowered gown was spectacular. If I had it to do all over again, I'd go with that gown.

[@seawitchpirates9871]

Both of those pink dresses were absolutely gorgeous. And Holly brought me to tears, she looked beautiful.

[@becartist13]

The dress the first bride chose is GORGEOUS!! I'm so happy she went with the cream floral one, it's beautiful!

[@pamelafox7677]

The embroidered dress was so gorgeous. It was perfect. And the second bride was a good look too, amazing!

[@woowoochuggachugga]

"I picture Tiffany getting married......the first time...". Whoa, Tiffany's mom, that's below the belt shade. Poor form. No wonder they are moving to Colorado.

[@alisons9740]

She wanted the symbolism she raised her with, nothing wrong with that. Only if she had forced it, but she eventually was won over. Mom seemed pretty young herself, maybe not still with Dad and thinking ahead.

[@fdm2155]

Nah, mom is ridiculously self centered. She should have STFU and supported her daughter from the start. Mom is probably 50 but doing all she can to look younger.

[@Mjl449]

@@alisons9740 she’s referring to how she said the “1st time” meaning this marriage won’t last.

[@KidCity1985]

I agree, smart groom

[@promiseiromuanya1998]

I love they found an elegant, beautiful version of her vision.

[@helwigtwin]

The bride is the person who MUST CHOOSE HER DRESS!!

[@s.susanmarandi9080]

Well, she did, so I'm not sure why you're shouting, lol?

[@moniqueengleman873]

My mother bought and mailed my wedding dress sight unseen. My wedding was all about them. They (mom and dad) I was finishing up my masters degree and graduated and got married the next weekend. They did a beautiful job and at 500 people we cleaned up in the gifts department. It never bothered me. Not once. I was grateful. I am just not that girl who dreamed of a wedding. I dreamed of flying jets

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

That is why she should go alone or at most with one person who is supportive.

[@catladyfromky4142]

It depends on who's paying for the dress. If a mom is paying, then she gets a vote. Since Tiffany is paying for it herself, her mom's opinion is only as important as Tiffany gives it.

[@cc-sb1is]

​@moniqueengleman873 that is very bizarre, but I understand some people really don't give a flying f*** about their wedding and the details. After all, it's the marriage that counts! (Not choosing your own dress is really messed up though! imo)

[@markcooke729]

"getting married for her first time in a white dress" That speaks volumes about what her Mum thinks about her daughter's marriage! What a hateful thing to say!

[@Fatimasroots]

I thought the same! So disrespectful

[@OpheliaSees]

That was the mother-in-law not the mother who said it.

[@juanitasterba7675]

I thought I was the only one who caught that.

[@mariesmith1616]

She meant that it it would have been a second wedding a different color dress would be more acceptable.

[@PinkieJoJo]

@@OpheliaSeesno. It was the brides mother that said it.

[@marinam.2293]

LOVE the second bride! "I wear peanut butter more than I wear real shoes" - classic mom statement! 😄 I also have three kids, and that's just reality.

[@nelleeh]

It’s so nice to see second time brides here. Having gone through a divorce myself it feels heart warming to see people getting a second chance.

[@JJ-ei3jh]

I had one but I wore a champagne color…

[@wintersanctuary]

Coloured dresses are absolutely gorgeous. Totally on board with the brides vision. You go girl!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

[@lanamack1558]

My daughter got married in a royal blue dress. She looked stunning.

[@wintersanctuary]

@@lanamack1558 How lovely 🥰. I bet she looked incredible! I personally got married in lavender grey with rose gold sequins. Totally loved it ✨🩶💜🤍✨

[@hannahholmes892]

This show makes me so thankful for how supportive my mom is! She said I looked beautiful in every single dress and made sure she knew what was looking for when we went in. She actually was the one who found my dress which made it even more special! So sad to see so many moms miss out on what can be such an incredible bonding experience! All the moms' comments on this video make me happy because it seems like there are plenty of awesome mothers out there! In case you haven't heard it, THANK YOU for being supportive of your daughters when looking for wedding dresses! I promise you it made all the difference!

[@nikkib6604]

The pink dress was gorgeous!! Randy scored on this one!!

[@Beth-zg6gb]

I love that pink dress she picked! She looks gorgeous! Good for her for sticking to her guns! 💕

[@danaleanne38]

Until Queen Victoria, wedding dresses were not all white.She started that trend. So as long as you like the dress you can wear what ever color you like. It is just crazy that because of one person ,now everyone thinks it's written in stone .

[@jenniriley482]

If ever I was to get remarried my dress would be blue. 🩵

[@jeanettejeanette1199]

I wore a red lace dress at my wedding :) with a white beaded fabric tie belt and a white veil with a white rose bouquet. I always thought, I look better in red haha 😄

[@fionaeckert4556]

​@@jenniriley482 same for me! Fun fact: when I asked my maid of honour to go dress shopping with me, she told me what she thought would be perfect for me... and it was exactly! what I had envisioned. We had never talked about bridal dresses before.

[@suehofkamp8594]

The pink floral dress was stunning. I would have loved to have something like that available when I got married.

[@emilybenck3780]

The second bride just seemed like such a lovely and caring woman. I hope she gets everything good in life.

[@anastasiarose9003]

I love the dress with the veil and the bouquet she looks absolutely stunning and unique. It is sad that her mother is wanting to hold on to her child not see the woman that her child has become. Great job Randy.

[@margaretmathis4775]

I love the pink floral dress!

[@ohbrother1967]

Go mother in law!! I love how she is pushing for Tiffany!! That is so refreshing to see! Especially with her mom being so pissy.

[@marysheffield190]

I don’t understand why these wedding salons don’t have more variety of colored dresses. There was this girl in London who wanted a Steampunk wedding theme and they found her this stunning eggplant fitted gown. Everyone has a right to have their dream dress.

[@mariesmith1616]

These are old episodes maybe 2012. At that time, it wasn’t that common colored wedding dresses. Of course, anybody should marry as they please, they just want to go to the right place.

[@MsJubjubbird]

Supply and demand. They have only so much space and a huge majority of their customers want white or ivory. Sometimes it might be better to go to a formalwear store.

[@jb6712]

It would be impossible and impractical for a bridal salon to try and anticipate all the various colors brides might want. They'd have to have salons the size of an Amazon warehouse to house dresses that would have bridal appeal for all of, what? Two months, max?

[@lisamelroy2855]

I saw that episode, and the bride and the dress were gorgeous!

[@terrafletcher1930]

They can always go to a non-bridal salon with ball gowns and evening dresses

[@agocataldig]

The mother in law of the first bride is being so supportive! I love it!

[@lisasamuel8709]

The dresses on both brides looked absolutely spectacular

[@jeniferkenney2984]

The first bride's final dress was just perfect for her. I also like the all white dress with the leopard sash.

[@cathybaldry7822]

I would not have considered pink but geez these 2 pink dresses are soo beautiful. I really really love the dress she chose. I would love to see a version suitable for a party. Sooo sooo love it!

[@ndisfoshiz]

I remember this episode and really liking the first bride. I thought she was super cool and I loved the idea of a pink dress. I myself got married last year and my dress was a pinkish color

[@kimberlypfleuger4261]

Loved the pink floral dress ! Much better choice than the leopard print sash and hot pink ruffled bottom ! Haha

[@timeforchange6818]

These consultants who always say 'a little over', when it's more than $1000 over is cruel. She said $5000 for it ALL, alterations and veil included.

[@thehungrygoldfish]

To be fair, in this case, she wanted something specific. And this episode is from over 15 years ago so there weren’t a lot of options outside of a white traditional gown.

[@elsielinstrom]

Exactly!!!!

[@smiley3239]

she already asked and she agreed

[@noirefit5954]

Well sometimes ya don’t always get what you want

[@catezaida8081]

Problem is, when you want something outside of the box or what is normal off the rack, you should expect that it is going to cost you. So in my opinion, she got off lucky with only $600 more that what she stated. And for a look as special as that, it was worth it.

[@TG-fq6vy]

I don’t know why she didn’t go with a pink sash. The leopard print looks terrible unless you’re getting married at a zoo in front of the Leopard exhibit.😂

[@michelleponzio]

I can never figure out why anyone but the bride has a say in the dress. They're obly there as another opinion, but it's ultimately the BRIDE'S DECISION

[@chess4072]

THE 2ND DRESS IS GORGEOUS!!! I ADORE floral embroidery like that and i can still get bridal vibes from it since the base color is like an off white

[@user-gl1kd3wj77]

Prince bride’s choice was perfect and amazing on her. The second bride looked really good as well

[@catboxcleaner3532]

I adore the second bride’s graceful gratitude for her groom and happy family. The first bride has a stunning dress and headpiece that suit her magically.

[@phyllisprior2989]

I think all brides should go to pick a dress on their own. Its their day after all 🌹

[@donnawallace9938]

She looks stunning in the flower dress

[@absatwell8163]

Her choice.

[@katiuszaYT]

Loved when the mother said, "I pictured her getting married *the first time* in a white dress'.

[@equalityforall5620]

I love, love, love the pink patterned dress.. It looks beautiful on her.

[@RockyMtnRebecca]

I love that floral dress.

[@reneehubbard9027]

The pink dress looked gorgeous on her. # 2 bride, loved her pick & her happiness. I wish them all the best.

[@equalityforall5620]

Holly, love erything she says, And the nice relationship she has with her children and her appreciation for her spouse in her second matrriage after her divorce. What a quality woman. I hope she has a very happy life.

[@aqhasassy]

The first pink was like a cloud. The 2nd pink was beautiful & appropriate.

[@PistachioDean]

1:23 small detail but I love that she mentioned her price point includes alterations and veil. So many times they'll go over that with just the dress alone. But it's a good boundary she has set. Edit: spoke too soon, they went over xD

[@bibimbap5917]

They told her before she decided to try it on. Not like she was blindsided

[@llc1976]

What a pretty dress! Love the hair piece! So much better than leopard print sash

[@celissewillis9399]

The fiance's mom is more mom to the bride than the bride's own mother! The mom has it so set in her mind that her daughter "NEEDS" to wear white, just because she wore white to her first communion? Let it go! This is her WEDDING! Cheers to the Mom in law for telling her straight, it's her wedding, so GET OVER IT!

[@kareneley3718]

She is getting an awesome mother in law....mom needs to pay attention

[@midnashadow8439]

Cmon mil! Its so refreshing to see a MIL be supportive of the bride and telling the mom off

[@TRamp94]

That dress with the embroidered roses was so pretty on her...

[@annehampton5807]

A beautiful dress but a awful lot over budget, when you add on the veil and headpiece, also alterations. I guess when you want different, you are expected to pay for it. Second bride to be, also looked beautiful. Every happiness and best wishes to both couples ❤

[@morganablackwater2017]

If you want different you either pay a LOT or you do it yourself... That is a fact

[@jb6712]

This was filmed 15 years ago, 2009. They both likely have half a dozen kids each, and are long, long ago over their wedding dresses!

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@jb6712Yup, my sister in law rented hers 23 years ago and no longer remembers her wedding dress. The wedding dress is not as important as people make it to be.

[@joeytabucon3372]

FYI 2013

[@BarbaraGonzalez-g1i]

Well the third dress did it ! with that beautiful bouquet and veil that Tiara Omg ! she looked very beautiful

[@gardenplots283]

Sometimes when I watch the old shows the dresses I thought were amazing then I think now are not so great but the pinkish dress with the embroidered flowers is still beautiful.

[@merelhoekstra7330]

The floral gown is beautiful on the bride! 🌺🌸🌼

[@catezaida8081]

Both brides were happy with their dresses, but that first one? WOW. You cannot beat Randy's style and choices for what the bride says she wants. He is spot on 99.9% of the time. If I was ever to get married, I am heading for Randy. Or Gok.

[@Airelda]

Her skin and hair colour are perfectly complimented by rosy pinks!

[@MephistoAngel]

I do think the mothers are sweetly funny together! They seem to have a report

[@mona9008]

I love the dress she ended up with! Its just so pretty!

[@goethefaust3504]

As a south asian bride I always dreamt of a hot pink lehnga dress instead of classic red. Many tried to convince me to go with traditional red but I went with my choice and even had to let it customly made. It was awesome. To date the most beautiful wedding dress I personally have seen ❤

[@abaker2302]

When the mom said "It looks like your first bedspread" you could see the bride's face just fall. It was cruel to say that and obvious she's said cutting comments like that to her daughter all of her daughter's life. Perhaps this is why the bride moved to Colorado. How hard is it to say, "If you love it I love it"? Or "I'm happy if you're happy."

[@devirachman5442]

That pink floral is beautiful. I would wear it, for my wedding😀 it's her wedding, her happiness is most important...

[@pritik]

The floral dress is the perfect choice, suits the bride and looks beautiful. Something different from the regular gowns.

[@kathyjones3320]

Both of the pink dresses were beautiful.

[@leighlofgren]

stunning pink dress and she looked gorgeous

[@amarathibault3836]

The floral gown is sooo beautiful ❤️ i wouldve never thought about something like that.

[@clarionblur]

The soft pink floral gown is beautiful, and further from hot pink and leopard than a white one, which those things could have been added to. I think the bride is a bit confused.

[@melasoomarie952]

First btb .. the dress was freaking gorgeous..so glad randy convinced her

[@sahrlve]

I gasp when she came out with the pink floral gown. I was sad when she went back but I'm really happy she went with the dress. It's lovely

[@elisabethstrazzanti2312]

Tiffany- very good choice!! Beautiful on you!!!

[@peggyesquibel8353]

Love, love, loved the pink floral dress!

[@zillafanz]

Good for her! Mom should be proud of her strong daughter.

[@Avyanna_Ishani]

Honestly the dress was so stunning, I was mad when she took it off the first time. I didn’t like Nr. 1 but Nr.2 and Final was just PERFEKT.

[@jeanettejeanette1199]

That floral gown is gorgeous! It looks like a wedding dress to me :)

[@mrgreene3290]

Pink embroidered dress is gorgeous and very unique and unusual, definitely something for someone looking for a 'wow' factor. It's also a type of dress that can be restyled as a tea-length or cocktail dress later, if wanted. My Mom got married in the 50's and wedding gowns in colors were the rage, Mom had a pink dress. In college, a friend with red hair had a pale green dress as a white dress just washed her out with her red hair and very fair skin tone. Go for color gowns if you want it, it's your dream.

[@lizetelliott1443]

It's so sad that the bride's own mother couldn't accept her the way she is. The bride's future mother-in-law is amazing and accepting.

[@jordanrichmond6861]

The second bride Holly is beautiful inside and out ❤

[@lisamaher6710]

I loved that dress. It was very Marie Antoinette pallet.

[@terricunningham6810]

I kept talking to the screen and saying "Leave her alone mom"!!!!!!!!! she has a right to what she wants as it's her wedding.

[@mquinlan676]

Second girl her dress was perfect it even made her look thinner than what she was❤

[@CarpeNutella]

I absolutely love the pink dress. I would love one slightly less pink with a feathered skirt

[@CindyRaper]

I never did that with my girls I had two. I supported whatever they wanted and they were both beautiful brides

[@emmaphillips2608]

People need to realize that a colored dress doesn’t make the bride, the bride being most happy in the dress SHE loves is what makes the wedding day.

[@kellicoffman8440]

Not sure about a bride who thinks of her wedding as sweet 16

[@electroQted]

Exactly! Gave the feels like she never grew past her sweet sixteen party that she might’ve wanted.. it’s okay to want to bring your dreams alive on your special day, but they’ve gotta have your other half IN the imagination, IN the wedding..

[@Allapre]

Thank you! I came to the commets to see peoples reaction to that but everyone is so stuck on her mom wanting a white dress, I feel like if your thinking of it as a sweet 16 maybe you arent really ready for a wedding yet? Like, It just doesnt say "lifelong commitment" to me, I could be wrong 😂

[@kelliazzam1594]

I love the dress with the flowers on it!

[@Raindropsinvalencia]

I agree with Randy, hot pink tulle would have been hideous. If you're doing to do pink, that elevated style is the way to do it.

[@keris81]

The floral dress is spectacular

[@haneesha123]

The second dress was amazing