Gok Has A Hard Time Raising This Bride's Self Esteem | Say Yes To The Dress Lancashire

Bride, Nikki, has tried on 15 dresses already and still can't find the one. She's liked the dresses on the hanger but just doesn't like the way they look on her.
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[@JodiLeaSnakeQueen]

WHO THINKS GOK NEEDS HIS OWN SHOW 100%

[@gemmabutler8724]

He's had several.

[@JennyHoddy]

Gok’s Frocks

[@emjenkins464]

Not sure if you're from the UK, but throughout the 2000's and 2010's he's had several shows about confident dressing and finding clothing/a style that suits you. Honestly wedding dresses is the best end goal for his career path

[@mohammadal-drees3106]

No, I like him show-hopping! If you follow his career, he‘s done different shows of different genres throughout his career. He adds his twist everywhere he goes. I love this about him.

[@karolinapupi19977]

@@emjenkins464 yeah so many shoes! He even had one in Poland!!

[@monishaparikh7026]

At this point gok should just create his own show

[@SadieDLdn]

He’s had so many of his own shows though. It’s nice to see him do something different.

[@jamienaz1378]

He had his own show, and the goal was also to make woman's get their self confidence back. I love watching him ❤️

[@davi8647]

@@jamienaz1378 What's the name of the show he had?

[@amyhagen94]

Davi “how to look good naked”

[@davi8647]

@@amyhagen94 Thank you!!

[@zilkill09]

I used to think Randy was the best consultant, someone who was 100% born to do that job. Then I saw episodes with Gok. There really is no one else like him. He does deserve his own show.

[@lostboy587]

YES!!! I would binge show God’s show just like I’m binging SYTTDL. He’s my fav stylist by a mile

[@arocks1234567]

Still like randy more, his warmth is beyond! And goks dresses are nice but i like randys more southern inspired more conservative dresses. I can also see gok doing the psychology thing a bit too much and not his job. Like even its spot on its too much and over stepping.

[@indiecloud100]

@@arocks1234567 I think picking a dress for this event is such an emotional process, it's hard to pick one when you're psychologicaly distressed He's not a therapist that will fix it, but it's great that he eases them into a better mindset dress-wise 😊

[@candace200]

@@arocks1234567 Remember we are only seeing a small slice of a very long day. He's talked with them and the boutique is more intimate that the others. I don't feel it is over stepping to the brides he helps. He says just enough, we just see the condensed version.

[@eggiboiroi]

i honestly love them both equally, which is surprising! i’d also love to see them team up if they had a ldr situation with own bride in america and one in the uk

[@theindigopapillon3495]

I would say Gok missed his calling to be a therapist, but he absolutely has found his calling. The world needs more Goks

[@bettinaallen5782]

I agree 1,000,000% but wouldn't say he missed it. He made himself more easily accessible to those who may need him but couldn't otherwise reach him or may be too afraid to seek out a therapist. Sometimes it's easier for someone to accept how beautiful they are with an image than it is to come to that realization with just conversation (compliments, therapy, etc.) alone. I believe that's what he does. He creates a picture while explaining their beauty so there is an actual image of the person as the star they truly are. What better way than with wedding dresses, since people place so much importance on them? When insecurities surface, he can freely combat them head-on with much needed rebuttals and actually say the words "you are beautiful" without being hit with a lawsuit or being cited as being unprofessional.

[@user-wh2qq8iu8n]

having therapists disguised in other professions especially like this one is the biggest blessing i think everyone should try to learn or observe thing or two about human emotions to deal with their customers well

[@jhsemoxitha3821]

Yes

[@ad4029]

Brides need someone like him too though!

[@Van-hb4gi]

I agree, but I'm so glad he has this platform to reach so many more people than he would.

[@patatipatata4990]

I love how, even though her budget is 5k, Gok just tries to find the dress that he thinks best suits the bride (and those aren't even close to 5k), unlike *some* other consultants 😒

[@alfiona7951]

Thank you!

[@jemmaj2919]

Name him!! DAVID Emanuel

[@lencibee15]

Jemma J just reading his name I can hear him saying it 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣

[@aparnatripathi6257]

That's one of his best traits..N there are so many

[@rachelciararose]

Valencia Harper hahahahaha

[@limitless3765]

Something Ive noticed about Gok is that when he has a bride who's unsure of herself or insecure, he always goes with a new dress with the same level of enthusiasm as the first one. Rather than pushing on the bride that he's getting tired or they're running out of options, he gives the bride the chance to fall in love with a dress like it's the first one they've put on and I feel like that means so much

[@youneedjinsus8656]

Gok surely loves his job!

[@anujasoni7874]

You are absolutely correct 🙂

[@farwafaraz22]

Unlike David Emanuel

[@8DIBa]

Not to mention that his selection of gown are just, gorgeous.. 100% way better than the other say yes to the dress series.. Also they have this way of fitting the gown to the bride perfectly even if its not the right size for her. Other sytd failed to do so, hence the bride cant see the whole picture of the gown on their body.

[@Icebluegel11]

Yes!!!

[@FelisTerras]

Who destroyed this gorgeous woman's self-esteem to this point? She could wear baggy pants and a comfy shirt and still stop rush-hour traffic! It so sad and maddening thinking of whatever she had to suffer through, to make her feel this insecure about herself. And hats off to Gok for boosting her confidence; he's a real gem. She looks great in everyting, but the last one just sent my jaw through the floor. Just..incredible. Absolutely incredible.

[@danielleking262]

I said out loud "OH, WOW" when I saw the last dress and even started tearing up when she finally opened her eyes to see it!!!

[@Ko-et8vo]

idk if it was broken by anyone .. Imposter sydrome is a heavy burden and it seems a little like she has it.

[@onlyelise]

@@danielleking262 I swore out loud. LOL

[@danielleking262]

@@onlyelise but in a good way, right? lol

[@danielleking262]

@@onlyelise I'm curious what you shouted out exactly...... hahahaha

[@jjue123]

Gok should be paid more for this. he is not only giving the brides best wedding dresses, he is also boosting their morale. I just love to watch and listen to him. The world needs more Goks in it.

[@ddey1890]

Gok is the only one who doesn't exploit its clients. He is not bothered about the profit but is concentrating on the bride He is such a sweetheart.

[@suzannehribal4117]

He’s a true gem. I wish there was more from him!

[@katsweeterly2039]

Absolutely, and the dresses are more beautiful than on any other syttd ♥ and most of the times even more affordable

[@puddlemini]

Its this excellence that makes him successful lbr. I feel like I could trust him to do whats best for me.

[@ireneangelucci8984]

I agree, he's the example of how a true sales assistant should be. Customer oriented, detached from the result, active listener. Lovely.

[@monalisa7]

Agree! But Franc from SYTTD Ireland is also the same. He doesn’t exploit and genuinely wants his brides to have the best bridal experience.

[@belenjohnson637]

Anytime I see that it’s Gok I immediately click. He’s always so encouraging and uplifting towards the brides and picks amazing dresses.

[@sandywlaschin3878]

My feelings too!

[@b.j.loveislove9090]

I feel the same... see it's Gok & click on to watch 💖

[@corallester5808]

He is amazing....he's voice is so calming. 😀

[@khadijaahmed6065]

Yesssss

[@miapeanut23]

See

[@kathybell4719]

She was a victim of bullying. Obvious viciousness. She is stunning.

[@rastafahrer]

The title of Goks personal TV Show in the future: Oh my Gok!

[@sour__casm]

This comment deserves more likes!

[@danielleking262]

I SECOND THIS!!!

[@samarahraffat9922]

💯💯💯

[@janiceperryman687]

He IS the best!!!

[@Adriana-hp1eh]

That made me laugh. It's perfect!

[@shieldmaiden.valkyrie]

Bride: "My budget is 5.000 pounds" SYTTD US: "let's start with this fabulous 28.000$ dress. It's nice". SYTTD UK: "let's start with this faaaaabulous 18.000 pounds dress. It's nice" Gok: "Honey, there's a 20 pounds dress. I bet you'll look STUNNING in it. You are gorgeous, never saw someone like you!"

[@dietotaku]

that's not really fair, the US version tries really hard not to go over budget and even the UK version has gotten better about respecting budgets (at least when david's not there to ask about StReTcH 🙄). any bridal shop would be thrilled with a $5000 budget, that covers the vast majority of dresses.

[@marleenrossatti9589]

@@dietotaku ,

[@syd7801]

At Kleinfeld, "five thousand" is the secret password that unlocks the door to the dungeon where Pnina is kept.

[@theelolicious9302]

omg this is the UK

[@Esellajessica]

@@dietotaku I know David has alot of experience, but I feel like he's a little bit too full of himself to really consider the bride and her budget. Even when he goes to meet the bride, the air he gives off is like " ALL EYES on ME! I'm RUNNING the show now! Bring your pocketbooks because I'm NOT CHEAP! You will receive sub-par service, be happy I even gave you my time-REMEMBER, I did PRINCESS DIANA'S DRESS! Your welcome 😒😤!

[@xine91468]

“Dr. Gok”.... psychologist. And best friend. And number one cheerleader.

[@johnnabuzby6103]

Don't forget Best. Stylist. Ever! Auntie Gok is Awesome!

[@ljiljanamajstorovic2377]

@@johnnabuzby6103 9

[@mikivanduyn9630]

and a way nicer than that David guy...

[@nicolekarpov4037]

Makes me wonder who treated her so badly that she lost her confidence:( she’s so beautiful and sweet

[@emiliamcmenamin9897]

can we just appreciate how the dress looked absolutely stunning on her and was only $1,700 (way under her budget). they didn't try and put her in something that didn't flatter her and was way over her budget.

[@mariesmith1616]

Yes big difference with the American show

[@blizz2795]

@@mariesmith1616 THIS!!

[@jessann5581]

Gok is who she needed for this experience. Anyone else wouldn’t have gotten threw to her like he did. Beautiful bride and a fantastic man can get her to love a dress.

[@angrydonutface7420]

Agreed. I think most would have stopped at the safe dress.

[@jessann5581]

Angrydonutface they probably wouldn’t have even gotten to the safe dress. Would have tried to persuade her on one of the others just to get her out the shop. I’m speaking from experience on that one.

[@asherduff8627]

Yes, he got through to her by throwing the best dress last.

[@shaiknilu7035]

Why don't other versions of SAY YES TO THE DRESS have as beautiful dresses as LANCASHIRE 🤷❤️❤️. Budget friendly and Classy!!

[@jemmaj2919]

New shop, the other series are old and repeated

[@thinkingbout]

@@jemmaj2919 But they are shopping for new sampledresses every year, so they could have a wider viarity of dresses in the other shops, too. I think one of the reasons may be the different cultural background, cause this is in GB and maybe through that more european while the others are more american? Also the demand for different type of dresses varies in different regions, so the shop owners buy dresses that they will probably sell in that region.

[@jemmaj2919]

@@thinkingbout doesn't mean they have new recordings of these for us to see on youtube. Most ppl seem to love Randy's collections, these are newer recordings.

[@thinkingbout]

@@jemmaj2919 Yes, you're right that could be an aspect, too!

[@hallscroft]

@@jemmaj2919 I don't think it's a new shop. It's Ava Rose Hamilton in Colne.

[@aakankshasarraju7452]

I actually gasped when I saw the last dress and I’ve never been so entranced by a wedding dress on a bride before, she is absolutely stunning.

[@scarlettkhan9667]

same here

[@miraclinemeshwin2983]

Yess

[@heatherpace4433]

Same feeling here! Perfection!

[@crystalnavarro8006]

I completely understand how she feels. I always feel like people are lying when they tell me I'm pretty or give me compliments. It's so hard to get past it.

[@sailuna9195]

Everyone has beauty and I'm not saying we're all a 10 but we are beautiful, we have a very short life to live and we have to enjoy it and embrace our beauty, feeling beautiful is not arrogant, shallow or bad it's happiness, it's what encourage us to be healthy and treat other with kindness, so next time you get complement say thank you ❤️ cause you are beautiful

[@JustD402]

your beautiful, you were born this way and you have human and realistic features. nobody is EVER going to look the same. you can do this, your gorgeous.

[@mashakachan9213]

You can do it ! Go girl! You can overcome it 🥰

[@user-hx7mi7ml8u]

Why would people “lie” to you? How can you prove that people are just going around “lying” to others when they compliment them, what would be the purpose of that?

[@crystalnavarro8006]

@@user-hx7mi7ml8u when you've been mentally abused for most your life you find it hard to believe people when they say that

[@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460]

She says her budget is $5,000. Rather than try to gouge her like they do in Atlanta, UK and NYC, Auntie Gok has her try on dresses progressively less expensive and the final dress is well below 30% of her budget. THIS breeds trust!!!!! (Edit to add: When I say *"UK"* I'm speaking of *David* in "Say Yes to the Dress UK" (not Lancashire). No matter what budget the bride has, David *Always* picks dresses well above that.)

[@ruthiglesias1563]

It seems like the family and friends grab dresses with out checking prices in NYC and Atlanta. You can't blame the consultants for that.

[@theelolicious9302]

this is the UK.....

[@mollytomlinson9431]

This is the UK😂

[@simatahery4523]

But this is the UK?

[@sisib1389]

@@theelolicious9302 There's another show called say yes to the dress UK this is say yes to the dress lancashire. He's not talking about it geographically

[@lovepurple88]

I just hope the person who has made her feel like that about herself isn’t the person she is marrying.

[@nellysmith6006]

Was literally going to comment the same thing.

[@veronicaleyba929]

I agree. She's really beautiful. Gok is fantastic.

[@aileen694]

Love Purple88, Agreed! And this lovely woman could do with some proper therapy and the right antidepressant medication. Poor dear, to think she's starting off her marriage in this state of mind...

[@barlowwe]

Notice her mother isn’t part of her entourage.

[@Du-Masses]

I know for a fact that women can do that to themselves with very little help because of impossible social standards…😭

[@user-hp1yh1px6t]

Gok doesn't just give you the dress you want, he gives you the dress you NEED

[@Stefaniaddison]

my heart hurt when she talked about how she was like "I want some of this gone, maybe get rid of this, if only I were like this....". She's beautiful.

[@kdragon713]

The store looks like a fairy tale. I love the unique dresses on the bride's.

[@user-xc9di1ko4t]

Why don’t you have any replies lol

[@kdragon713]

I loved the last dress on her she was glowing. I'm glad she did not go for the safe one!

[@wilmaknickersfit]

She looked stunning in them all, but I drew breath with the 3rd dress.

[@dietotaku]

me too, i swear somehow he is hand-stitching these dresses from scratch for these brides because yet again he has found the PERFECT dress for this bride. every time gok puts that final dress on a bride, i gasp. he's just that good, it's amazing.

[@bayunizar5295]

And it just below 2000 euro. We cant find it in UK version

[@JacobBlack2023]

what is the 3rd dresses name omg I love it so much!

[@lisamarie7275]

This lady is insane. EVERY single dress fits her body like a glove. Stunning. Totally jealous 😍

[@danielleking262]

Same!! I could not understand how she couldn't see how freakin' gorgeous she was! EVERY dress fit her like a model!!!

[@brittneylove95]

The big giggle when she’s finally found a dress she likes makes me so happy☺️

[@monikacrljen6827]

My favourite thing about this comment section is that I haven't read one negative comment. And I'm loving it!

[@Alexandra_Hill]

me too!

[@joyfuljaj]

Gok brings out the good in all of us!

[@jenniferbond7073]

Only about other locations specifically David. I don’t like him much, he always picks above budget and is very pretentious. Plus usually just brings the same 3 Dando dresses. Got is the opposite, like a trusted BFF!love him!

[@monikacrljen6827]

Agreed

[@monikacrljen6827]

@Elisabetta wasn't waiting for a negative comment. And the fact that you felt it was necessary to provide one speaks volumes about your character. Have a nice day.

[@myrina6509]

MY JAW DROPPED WHEN I SAW HER IN THE LAST DRESS. BREATHTAKING. Ps: I wish insecure people could see how gorgeous they are and stop putting so much pressure on themselves about their looks.

[@Ameechops]

I literally said ‘oh my gosh!’ aloud! Which was a first for me. And I have watched endless hours of Say yes to the dress right from the first Kleinfeld episode. Usually when I see someone with a beautiful dress which they will eventually choose, I just smile and nod. But she looked drop dead gorgeous and Gok is truly the best there is. I won’t call him a consultant coz he is so much more than that! He must be such an amazing friend to have. Randy too! Both of them are simply n fabulously amazing!

[@villanessa]

Me too

[@samhex7312]

Oop im insecure but that’s actually bc I’m ugly lol

[@phoenixdavida8987]

Agreed.

[@kailyrose9127]

I said WOWWWW

[@surlygale1082]

I'm just noticing how intently Gok watches the bride's face when she first looks in the mirror. He's simply lovely.

[@anee7558]

i usually never cry for wedding dresses, especially when i don't even know the person and i'm not from a culture that has wedding dresses, but what i do know is how she feels when she thinks she isnt beautiful, and when she apologises for being hard work, and when she's insecure and pulls herself down. i do that every single day and it's so exhausting, so seeing someone so beautiful finally look at herself in a dress and be that happy really got the tears flowing. im so SO happy for her

[@shershan254]

I'm sure you're amazing. Wish I knew you I'd definitely give you a hug and take you out for spa day.

[@danielleking262]

I started crying too at the last dress and so heartbreaking she could not see herself so beautiful with the others!!

[@TemplePriestess]

7:25 “It’s weird how someone can get in your bones just after a few hours and really learn who you are and what you’re about.” She described Gok perfectly. That’s why he is so amazing in helping a bride find the perfect dress. He’s literally an angel. 😇

[@tastymedleys]

The "plain" dress looked stunning on her already, but damn, the one Gok came up with looked like it was made for her, just sensational.

[@HeronCoyote1234]

That’s exactly what I was thinking. The third one was perfect. But then she tried on the fourth one. Oh my gawd wow!!!

[@betweenus2821]

She looks INCREDIBLE in the dress Gok chose. I went “wow” in front of the screen

[@danielleking262]

I did too!!!!

[@scarlettkhan9667]

same here!

[@wakedemupdeon]

Ditto

[@prabhleenreen8774]

literallyyyyy

[@n_n3535]

"It's weird how someone can get in your bones just after few hours" that literally what he does which is mind blowing about him I LOVE HIM

[@Ellainthegarden]

Oh my gosh this shop is like an enchanted forest. All the dresses hanging up look like snow covered pine trees.

[@georgielancaster1356]

That makes these girls all Nicholas Alkemade miracles. Have a google to read his story in WW2, but basically, his bomber was going down, he was 19, his parachute was damaged. He had to decide if he would go with the plane and blow up or jump, at 20,000 feet, and splat. He stepped out of the bomber, as he got closer to the ground, he passed out in terror. He didn't guide himself, he was unconscious. It was winter, he miraculously fell between two fir trees, spaced perfectly, apart. The branches were weighed down by snow, each cross of branches slowed him more A metre either way, might have cut him in half. He woke between the 2 trees, in a gully full of snow, convinced he was dead. His first thought was this must be heaven I have to be dead. But why is heaven so cold and wet? He spent the rest of the war as a POW. His grandson was a chef last time I heard. So the thought that those wedding dresses were like snow covered trees, made me think of that extraordinary WW2 story. In a way, those dresses pull off little miracles in Gok's hands...

[@DeannaBrownlee]

She honestly looked like a model in a bridal magazine in every single dress she had on! The poor girl has probably been through too much trauma. But I'm glad she found the dress that makes her feel every bit as lovely as she is.

[@annemiegroenewald8132]

Agree. She looks STUNNING in every dress!

[@lamar9331]

I hope she's not being abused. She seems scared and intimidated.

[@FashionMajor2012]

I swear Gok is a professional psychiatrist who specializes in helping brides feel as beautiful as they look. The shop is his office and dresses are his prescriptions.

[@laurachauvin2592]

I wish this woman much healing.

[@Waggers789]

I can identify with her, I’m the same. If someone saying I look nice I don’t believe them. I know it’s something I need to change. Probably the reason I’m still single. But she looks stunning in that last dress.

[@shorty2544]

Same tho, we all need to work on ourselves

[@sylvias1546]

Honey, try going to therapy, it helped me so much. You need to be freed from the voices in your head. ❤️

[@seannarodriguez2226]

I get it. That's me too

[@sasha8641]

I feel the same

[@jemmaj2919]

I used to feel the same, one day I looked in the mirror for a long time, and thought why? Why do I feel that way? For how long do I want to feel and be like that? You only have one life. You can't spend it in doubt. Then I started to google for "what makes someone appealing when they aren't nice looking" and the answer was always "confidence"... Then I looked for "how to look confident" then I faked it until I made it!

[@MissMisnomer_]

My jaw dropped when they revealed the last one, she looked absolutely STUNNING and Gok is a national treasure for understanding her so well and just CARING so much

[@renecahoneyghan7713]

It pains my heart to see such a beautiful bride that is so hard to accept compliments 😔 I hope 🤞🏾 she gets the confidence she needs and also keep it.

[@allthatvrjazz]

This girl is beautiful! Such a shame her own mind won't let her see that. If I had a body like her, my dress would prob be completely sheer XD

[@YT4Me57]

LOL!

[@bhagya1985]

hahaha made me laugh

[@isabellarose6514]

Ewww, how about your dad or brothers and uncles.🤢🤢

[@enaj1632]

@@isabellarose6514 take the joke woman

[@isabellarose6514]

@@enaj1632 take my joke Ena

[@ebenschoter]

she looks like the type of bride that doesn’t want to talks abt the fact that she’s self conscious and that’s why she’s quiet but she’s a beautiful bride 🥺✨

[@masuganut2082]

Gok just has an absolute talent Not just for picking dresses but he seems to just be able to understand these brides and help them on a deeper level He’s amazing Cinderella didn’t need a fairy godmother.... she needed Gok. Finding the perfect dress and gaining the confidence and self love needed for a happy life!

[@lightofeyezz]

What do you mean Gok is fairy godmotherr

[@iminspainwithoutthes6747]

The way she walked out on that last dress screamed so much self confidence. Like her entire aura screams, "Gosh I'm beautiful and I know it"

[@washurhands5079]

I have to start saving money so I can see Gok when my day comes to pick a wedding dress. I need his pep talks

[@babawali3021]

Go for it! Put that dream on page 1 of your bucket list (in the Top 10) and make it come true!

[@washurhands5079]

Babawali thank you for the positivity! Wish you the best

[@vickyarnuco3257]

Gok is a fairy godmother irl. I mean, he genuinely cares for the bride and you know that it’s not just for show. I love Gok!!!!!

[@heidiquayle5054]

I'm crying because she is so so beautiful and it's so sad she doesn't see it . How lovely to see her truly smile. Gok always knows the perfect one! I just don't feel beautiful ever but I feel like he would know how to make anyone see their best features. He's such a sweet and insightful guy. Good on ya!

[@marisa1637]

2 things: 1) Gok should be paid extra for his skills as a therapist 2) Not only is she beautiful on the outside, you can really feel how beautiful her character is on the inside

[@seannarodriguez2226]

Damn, as a girl in high school still, it was heartbreaking to see all of my issues that I have inside her. This actually made me see what's wrong with thinking that way. I hope she finally sees how beautiful she is, because I'm personally still working on it.

[@babawali3021]

Good for you for working on it. What a great way to gain positivity and self-confidence! 🥰🥰 Best wishes on your journey.

[@lucinda2329]

❤️ ~✿~❧~🌿~❧~✿~ ❤️

[@georgina-a]

I'm so sorry to read that you've been struggling with your self esteem. I'd heartily recommend that you look up Gok Wan's work, as I think it might really help you (he's written books, articles, and done a lot of TV work). He has spent years helping women to feel good about themselves and he did a TV series a while back called 'Gok’s Teens: The Naked Truth' that you might find particularly interesting, as it focused on teens with self esteem issues, with Gok helping them to see themselves differently. He is quoted as saying that "self confidence isn't waking up and loving everything about yourself - it's waking up and not hating any part of yourself". That's easier said than done as a teen, I know, but it's a very liberating mindset. I felt very similarly to how you describe at your age, but I promise you that it does get better. You get to a stage in your life where you stop caring about what other people think - because none of them are perfect, either - and focus more on what makes you happy and what is right. My biggest piece of advice to you, though, would be to never put up with other people's negativity. If someone plays on your insecurities or tries to bring you down then they don't have your best interests at heart, so they haven't earned the right to be part of your life. Refusing to accept negativity was a game-changer for me, and I hope it can be for you, too. Wishing you all the very best x

[@donnamarievalentine1156]

@@georgina-a I was so uplifted by what you wrote! Thank you for sharing that for this young girl and for all of us!

[@georgina-a]

@@donnamarievalentine1156 Thank you for your kind words. I'm so pleased that I was able to help! Keep smiling x

[@tasleem5677]

David Emmanuel can learn from Gok. He is awful. Gok offers a very wide variety of beautiful wedding gowns with reasonable price. He is respectful of bride's budget.

[@johnnabuzby6103]

Not to mention that Auntie Gok isn't so haughty and full of himself like David Emanuel is. David Emanuel is my least favorite stylist/designer in the whole series of SYTTD.

[@shalakaj523]

@@johnnabuzby6103 absolutely! and he looks to create drama instead of resolving the clients issues.

[@Quantum36911]

She is an absolute goddess! Low-self-esteem is a terrible thing... I hope she knows how special she is, on the inside as well, a lovely person. My jaw literally dropped for the last dress! Gok is a genius!

[@freyakitty2824]

Very rarely do I see a bride put on a dress that takes my breath away. This was one exception and had me tearing up. She looked amazing! The more I watch Gok, the more I love him. He gets his brides and it shows.

[@rivertam7827]

Damn she has a perfect figure and looks stunning in all the dresses, but that last one is superb. Aunty Gok does it again.

[@carm90]

I love Gok. He always picks the best dresses for every bride and always considers their body type and budget.

[@chenaraseepersad3482]

She’s so beautiful with so much sadness inside, I hope she can appreciate her beauty one day. The last dress I gasped it was absolutely stunnin’

[@ninas2279]

I don’t ever really say wow or open my mouth with awe when I watch a lot of these shows but the last dress I actually said out loud a quiet “wow” to myself. Gok is a very special person. He’s so genuinely caring it’s so nice to watch him 🤍

[@anjalidiwakar880]

"When people give me compliments..i really cant take it on overboard"....so relatable

[@greenfoliage]

I see Gok, i click

[@Lara-sk6uh]

You’re first

[@winonaevergarden1981]

Same!!!

[@airotiv7916]

Same 💜

[@Kisozriel]

I absolutely love Gok, he makes every bride who lacks confidence feel themselves by the end of their time together and it warms my heart everytime.

[@judithajoku8]

Love the way he said “ get that dress of “ and walked out .... in love with this man

[@mohammedashfaqamin]

I remember years ago in summer I went out and I have a scare on my leg from a accident...so I wore leg warmer (same color has my skirt n boobtube) I was paranoid all day...I felt silly legwarmer in hot summer,but I couldn't stand my scare to be shown....I was out and gok was in the same bar he actualy came over to me and said you look fabulous and loved what I was wearing .and those words lifted my spirits and I didnt care what people thought...fashion guru said I looked fab n I did....

[@johnnabuzby6103]

Scar*. The word you were using is scare, as in scared 😱 out of your wits. I'm so jealous that you got to meet Gok in person! You're so lucky! I love 💘 Auntie Gok and would love 💘 💗 to meet him. I could use some of his encouraging words and confidence boosting pep talks. He is the best!

[@mohammedashfaqamin]

I think it was autocorrect that did that but thanks anyway

[@johnnabuzby6103]

@@mohammedashfaqamin You're welcome. I hate when autocorrect thinks it knows better than us.

[@arvi8843]

Lucky you! 🥰

[@youneedjinsus8656]

the moment they showed the bride in that final dress, I was like "oh Gok...🥺" This man is love 🥺♥️

[@anwesha_bee]

When she put on the gown that wasn’t shown to her, I cried. She looked breathtakingly gorgeous. I can feel her anxiousness- but the way she overcame it in that dress, it’s her confidence that she wore the best. It’s beautiful and what’s more beautiful is how Gok was so nice and supportive and helped her gain her confidence.

[@juanitam1643]

She is stunning in every dress she tried on but I absolutely love the one she ultimately chose. Gok and his consultants are so kind & patient & demonstrate so much compassion. Love him❤️

[@user-je5iv2rf3c]

I love how Gok helped her through the process, and made her feel good about herself, unlike other consultants I have seen so far, who like drown the bride and put pressure on her! He made a sale and helped a woman with her self-esteem.. mad respect for Gok ❤️

[@sarasorensen2650]

Gok truly has a gift. He is a treasure.

[@sophitsa79]

This woman seems really lovely and a bit vulnerable. I hope her husband is as lovely and is supportive. I need more Gok in my life. I adore him.

[@regularity2556]

It's unlikely that he is. Vulnerable people often attract abusers and she seems like an abused woman

[@sophitsa79]

@@regularity2556 yeah. I worried for her. I really hope she's very lucky in her marriage, and is well supported by friends and family.

[@iqusamakun]

@@regularity2556 i was thinking the exact same thing i think her issue is the cause of her ex or current partner

[@alymq]

This is the cutest bride i've ever seen. I hope she's living happily now

[@sonjadonovan2016]

This got me crying...I felt for her the entire time! I was brought up with my father always putting me down, never ever saying I was pretty, always criticizing...so I totally got her not seeing what everyone else saw, a beautiful and stunning woman, denying herself. When she saw herself in THE dress and realized her own beauty I was crying hard cause I was SO HAPPY for her. Gok is such am empath...he understands peoples' minds. Just amazing to watch each and every time...BRAVO GOK!!! 👏💕

[@ayuuhhh]

I just love Gok so much i wish i could give him the biggest hug ever

[@hezelgee6012]

There's something so genuine and special about him... He is really a super counsellor, who understands and connects with women's deepest insecurities and fears. Sales are never put above the feelings of the brides. Rather, the gorgeous gowns are simply a means to an end, which is the happy, confident brides. I think Gok is an Empath! 😘

[@morganharmsen5158]

I literally gasped out loud when I saw her in that last dress; sooooo gorgeous on her!!

[@AbigailRTeh]

The progression of the dresses -- too much, too much, too plain, just stunning. Made her see what she needed to see

[@thandiwolfe813]

I love how Gok listens to what his clients want and works with their budget. He does everything he can to get the bride what she wants without breaking the bank. I don’t think I’ve heard him say a single negative thing about a bride’s choices or behaviour.

[@ningduanguangliur.panmei9317]

Gok 💓💓 When people are not satisfied with themselves and started modifying their bodies, it is heart breaking. And the insecurities in her is overwhelming. Hope she is happy.

[@dietotaku]

honestly, i wish i could strip her down to what she looked like at 18 and build her up from there. the plastic surgery, the fake tan, the makeup, she doesn't need any of it.

[@rhs2881]

She's done herself up yo look like Angelina Jolie but I bet she was prettier to begin with.!

[@johnnabuzby6103]

@@rhs2881 I didn't see Angelina Jolie in her looks...

[@johnnabuzby6103]

@@dietotaku Those false eyelashes have gotta go.

[@faithhope4088]

If you want to make an entrance at your wedding make sure you are getting your wedding gowns from Lancashire.. and cherry on top is GOK's wisdom of course...

[@catzenhouse]

This man has such a gift. Wonderful staff and establishment. Comforting, caring, supportive, and not over the top drama.

[@dogmom2023]

Okay this one had me crying she is the most gorgeous bride I've ever seen in my life and Gok you are so awesome.

[@zabindhanji]

Gok is magic. I absolutely LOVE the dress she finally chose. She looked gorgeous in all of them but the final dress was divine. I don't think I have ever seen anything like it (and I have watched this show for years). Like another person commented, he could have just let her have her 'safe' dress, but he didn't. He wanted her to look and feel like the best version of herself...and he succeeded. He has a gift from God. I also have to say the same for Randy. God bless them.

[@caledoniabeautifuleden8584]

Gok is wonderful, I loved his show years ago when he would take women with low self esteem, give them a makeover and eventually get them to pose for a glamorous photo shoot! Gok has a gift for seeing inside a woman, to her very sense of self, he can sense their insecurities and he is amazing at healing and rebuilding that woman from the inside out! Gok is an incredible human being and as wonderful as watching him on this show is, he really deserves his own show again, doing what he does best - helping women to love their bodies from the inside out!

[@maxxitee4761]

This is the first video that made me tear up , and I have seen many. I actually cried with her friends because I see their recognition of her struggles with her inner self. And to see her overjoyed was such a blessing

[@samaeldeul572]

Gok is my absolute favourite in this show!!! He's amazing!

[@YT4Me57]

Every dress she tried on fit her like 'butter'. She's got an incredible shape, her color compliments the white of the dresses, she has ALL the things. She just needed Gok!

[@trishapark6841]

She looks absolutely amazing in all of the dresses, but the last one is just breathtaking!! As usual, Auntie Gok has magical powers to connect to the brides! (And also I have noticed, Lancashire is the only place that customizes the fit of sample dresses during fittings and not just uses those clamps things at the back! That makes the dresses look so much more beautiful and tailor fit for each bride!)

[@emmab508]

Gok is amazing; I love that he focuses on making the bride feel absolutely comforted and beautiful

[@goldenchocolat]

This was the most beautiful episode I watched of SYTTD - the bride is so beautiful and looked ABSOLUTELY stunning in every single dress! But on the last one I went „WOW“ in front of the screen… Gok picked very well.

[@ariebombariearupa1322]

You are your worst enemy. That’s deep. Thank you Gok 🙏🏾

[@alfiona7951]

The fact that Gok just steals the show. He makes every bride feel so special. He gave her such a confidence boost. It's so sweet.

[@ops1261]

I love how gentle and soft his voice goes when he says 3 when he is doing the countdown for the bride to open her eyes.

[@leoness6925]

Goks definitely my favorite... He's just amazing, the way he talks is full of empathy! His vibe is positively lovely

[@chithra_lakshmi]

Gok literally have the same type of dress in multiple forms.... with bling ,without bling or lace , u name it they have it😍😍😍

[@diannebernau3293]

What a beautiful girl and every dress looked stunning on her - that style really suited her body shape. It is a shame she is so self-conscious and lacking in confidence. She hit the jackpot having Gok as her consultant. He could charm a snail out of its shell!!! 💕🇦🇺

[@s.smilla63]

i've never cried this much for this show. This by far the best episode of this show, the way Gok handled this, was just so touching and mind-blowing

[@sincerelykayyy]

I just want to give her a hug! She’s such a beautiful young woman. But I definitely can relate to the mental framing she struggles with.

[@gabykappscomposermariagabr749]

The most beautiful wedding gowns at the best prices. Absolutely. And no forcing one designer over another. It's just what's best for the bride, and Gok is truly a jewel. Bravo SYTTD Lancashire. You've won the trophy for me.

[@fascienneskytten5497]

this is the most quiet Say Yes to The Dress i've watched. love her

[@danielleking262]

ikr I was just thinking she is the most quiet timid bride I think I've ever seen on this show

[@EVERGLOW828]

I can see how much Gok not only has such passion for his profession but the utmost joy of seeing someone glow. Like he can see the beauty within a person and bring it out. ❤

[@jscho8674]

Another bride that broke my heart. She is soooo beautiful with the cutest little figure! I just wanted to hug her. I am so glad she went to Gok!