Siblings Clash As They Struggle To Agree On Wedding Dress | Say Yes To The Dress: Bridesmaids

[@mrsgollum]

It’s embarrassing when you’re more of a brat than a seven-year-old.

[@MsWarriordiva]

She's not a brat. It's the older sister that's being bratty.

[@rebeccaernette1749]

That's what the comment is meaning

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Age does not dictate maturity. Some are old souls while some never grow up regardless of how old they get.

[@JodiLeaSnakeQueen]

​@MsWarriordiva that's..... what they meant...

[@Airelda]

I would more likely call it very troubling....

[@nafiulhudapalok]

The kid is very mature and thoughtful actually. She prioritized the bride’s picks

[@mariesmith1616]

Actually the kid liked better that dress.

[@rebeccaernette1749]

This seven year old is a perfect maid of honor. Shes supporting her sister and prioritizing her ❤

[@jemma-joon]

First time the kid is not the annoying one

[@dietotaku]

yeah it's not often the first born is the one acting like the last born

[@melodied4314]

Toss up.

[@seriliaykilel]

Here's the thing -- if you have a 7 year old as a bridesmaid, it is physically impossible to have them wear strapless without risking a wardrobe malfunction. Insisting made no sense

[@mariesmith1616]

They could have added spaghetti straps for the kid but it was more about what the bride envisioned for her wedding.

[@shevahauser1780]

​@@mariesmith1616oh definitely. but there is a trend to have the moh wear a different dress. i also agree that not everyone will fit or like the same dress. i think if each of them have the same fabric and colour, itll still all match

[@figmo397]

At first I thought the bride was humoring her little sister, but after seeing the dynamics between the three sisters, it's obvious that the bride picked the right sister. Somehow the older sister couldn't deal with the idea that it's the bride's wedding and not the bridesmaid's wedding.

[@Alinasinging]

The bride has a very thoughtful 7 year old maid of honor ❤

[@hayleymariemills]

There's something wrong when a 7 year old is less entitled & has more respect than a twenty something!

[@viesymanchita]

The older sister isnt upset about the dress- shes upset that she isnt maid of honor. And shes bringing that resentment here

[@MrsBrit1]

Why is she ok strapless but having "one naked shoulder" feels wrong?? 😂

[@lelacalhoun8362]

It doesn't matter she's the bride. That's the only thing that matters. Her sister is not doesn't matter what the sister likes or anyone else. Just the bride. Have you heard of her, She's the spotlight of any wedding ❤

[@cdr3986]

One strap dresses look and feel lopsided. A compromise should have been reached - most brides pick a color and let the bridesmaids pick the dress. It even looks better in pictures to have different- but same color - dresses.

[@Andrea-lk6qq]

​@cdr3986 that wasn't the look this bride wanted. It is her wedding, no compromise is needed. If you don't want to wear whatever the bride wants, don't be a bridesmaid. If the bride wants you dressed as a minion, you show up dressed as a minion. There does come a point where it goes from being your day going the way you want and you becoming a bridezilla, but that is not what happened here. This bride said no to them wearing a dress the bride specifically said she didn't want. A bridezilla is someone that gets mad that your mom died and you can't make it to the wedding.

[@cdr3986]

@@Andrea-lk6qq I’m entitled to an opinion. You’re entitled to an opinion. Good bye.

[@Andrea-lk6qq]

@@cdr3986 never said you weren't. Was just stating mine. Not sure why it made you so mad.

[@ladyjustice1474]

The bride needs to keep tabs on the dresses she chose. I wouldn't put it past Amber to change it.

[@stone.durfey5862]

The child is more adult acting....than big sister. Such a lovely little girl, she's so sweet.

[@tastymedleys]

Can't believe the 7 year old girl was NOT the problem after all. She was lovely and supportive actually, while the other sister was a brat regardless of age.

[@bronwentillman8385]

I love how they kept putting the older sister into one-shoulder dresses!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@careycline8852]

Mom needs to step up and tell sister toget over it

[@maryannedelaney]

Sweet little girl! Sister knows she has to suck it up.

[@sheryltaylor7181]

Amber reminds me of my oldest child with her telling her sister "only for you " at the very end. My oldest was mean and bratty to his younger siblings. Then one day at the beach while wading with his younger sister, a larger wave hit and my 4 year old fell down under the water. Before I could get up my oldest bent down and pulled her up and got her back to shore. She was fine. Later I thought to myself "he really does love her".

[@kittybeck151]

Wow, that happened to me, too. I went under & the undertow kept me down. I thought I was going to drown, when a hand pulled me up - it was my big brother!

[@Joury07]

If I'm disagreeing with what the bride wants on her big day why would I accept to be bridesmaid? 🙄

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

If big sis is worried about how she looks, she should first focus on how spray tan + cool toned blush looks like a bruise. Her cheeks are purplish gray. It's not just her that's fallen prey to this, I see it on the Real Housewives reunions all the time.

[@moonj605]

i thought maybe i was seeing wrong but she literally looked completely grey faced😂💀

[@SophieLaF0ntaine]

@@moonj605 Whoa, I noticed that too! It looked so odd!

[@dietotaku]

did this consultant forget that there's an option besides one-shoulder OR strapless, i.e. TWO STRAPS? that would be the most appropriate for lily and also look nice on the older bridesmaids.

[@flowc9372]

At the very least, it would be SO easy to add shoulder straps to ANY dress for the youngest one!!

[@GrainneDhub-ll6vw]

Or is it that the consultant remembered that the bride specifically said she likes the one-shoulder look?

[@marisa8699]

Yes!

[@juliestrickland7754]

The consultant remembered she said she liked the one shoulder look, so she pulled those for her. Everyone except the older sister liked the look. It's her wedding, only one person didn't like the look, so why does she need to look at a bunch of other options? Just to delay the inevitable?

[@diannebernau3293]

I think Amber is so used to getting her own way that she thought once she had the strapless dress on her sister would cave in. You could tell by the smirk on her face that she thought she had won. It is a privilege to be asked to be in a wedding. I don’t know why the bridal party always has to make things so difficult. Lily is such a cutie - she is going to do well on the day.

[@kiarimarie]

Can you imagine what the mom is thinking? "why is my oldest daughter just the worst?"

[@siarogers5725]

The title is wrong I kept wondering why it said wedding dress and them finding bridesmaid dresses

[@zjjir]

i love the lil sis, being "way less of a baby" haha. she was so much nicer. you can tell which sister cares about the bride and which just cares about herself, sheesh.

[@meganlewis2424]

That little girl is a sweetheart!

[@CorinaSha]

The little sister smiling then getting so serious and saying she didn’t like the first dress 🙏😭 what a sweetie

[@ashleymarks3726]

Amber needs a different blush. her skin looks blue!

[@kittybeck151]

I loved the blue dress, too ~ perfect for the little girl. Looked good on the sister, too! I don't know what she was complaining about ~ the dress is beautiful & made the bride happy.

[@Jtopatlantic]

Miss sass has some deep grey blush going on… sheesh

[@NorseButterfly]

And this is why my now, disowned sister, will never be a part of a wedding I may have in the future.

[@shae686]

The little one is so cute. So mature too!

[@nadinehealey790]

When your 7 yr old sister is more mature than you its time to really look at yourself sheesh

[@ushere5791]

"i'm way less of a baby than my older sister!" - lily ...preach, sister. you're spot on! :)

[@Christopherhlee]

Amber needs a different color blush. 😳

[@kimberlyheibel8759]

Glad she spoke up for herself.

[@sxnxstervxbes3689]

Imagine your attitude being worse than a Childs. If you feel restricted in a one strap dress then u better throw away all regular shirts because 2 straps will be HELL for you.

[@annagraser5088]

Sometimes the Maid of Honor wears a different dress so people know she's not a bridesmaid.

[@GrainneDhub-ll6vw]

In this case, though, I think if the Maid of Honour wore a different dress, people would assume she was the flower girl.

[@Jerseygal30]

I've never seen that, only the same dress in a different color.

[@juliestrickland7754]

​​@@Jerseygal30people do it a lot. A couple of decades ago, you usually saw the same dress, different color. But now it's more common to see a different dress, or same dress with some kind of detail that the others don't have. More common is that they all wear the same color, but different dresses.

[@dennisefletcher8958]

Wow It is bad when the seven year old is more adult than oldest sister.

[@melrobertson2743]

MoH sign the papers as witness to the wedding, would someone else step in because 7 is too young to be a witness??

[@allysonmorse1039]

I was wondering about that too!

[@amethystanne4586]

My sister was my maid of honor. She was 14 at the time. My DH’s brother’s wife signed as a witness.

[@juliestrickland7754]

Yes, but anyone who saw them get married can sign as a witness, so I'm not sure where the problem comes in?

[@melrobertson2743]

@@juliestrickland7754 wondering because a 7 year old is not of legal age to be a witness and that one of the roles of Maid of honor along with signing legal papers, was wondering how the situation is handled not trying to make it a problem

[@juliestrickland7754]

@@melrobertson2743 it's traditional for the maid of honor to sign it, but not a legal matter, so her mother or father or the best man could sign it was well. I should have worded that differently. Apologies.

[@trayciepitcher3098]

The dress was so pretty. I think Amber is jealous of her sister. Sorry Amber you lose.

[@WhirledPublishing]

It's not my business - so I won't ask if Amber is addicted to coffee and booze and pills.

[@whatdeyadoes]

I really like this consultant. I googled her and was unable to find more episodes of her. Anyone know what season this is?

[@spudnut00]

Amber: "I want a strapless dress." Also Amber, in a dress with one 'strap'......"I feel like my arm is naked." News flash for the dim Amber. A strapless dress leaves *both* arms 'naked'.

[@SophieLaF0ntaine]

That's exactly what I thought when she said that!! 😆😆😆

[@Brizlebird]

What is wrong with Ambers face? Looks like she has bruises on both cheeks!

[@lefty72486]

Amber said is there any that don't have the 1 shoulder.... Why didn't they put them in a dress that has 2 straps to really put it to her LOL

[@GalactosemiaGastronomy]

It seems like the older sister was acting like a 7 year old than the 7 year old acting like an older sister..

[@kareneley-ix6lu]

Really Amber?…….just be a guest😅

[@ramekalawson7956]

The sister needs to chill it is not her day 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@VanessaMcgee-v3v]

It's one day...dang..older sister is a joke😂😂😂

[@gloryakiepper7918]

Liky is the most mature of the bridesmaids.

[@C0rvidC0rpse]

IF anything, I'd say maybe have the MOH in a dress thats a dif style but same/similar colour, I've seen that a lot and it works because she MOH not just a bridesmaid, but as long as the bride is paying for the dress i dont think the bridesmaids really get a say

[@jillmarsh8256]

Lily you are correct you acted way more mature than your older sister and the dress was pretty

[@almondpalmer8099]

Is this show still on the air? I feel like every episode they upload is from the early 2000s

[@franh4570]

There was 4 seasons between 2011-2013

[@juliebuczkowski1028]

You know if I really didn't care for the dress, I would say I really don't want to be a pain so how about I just come as family member and enjoy the wedding. I don't like standing up in weddings I love being a guest I have always said no thank you way before the dress shopping. All my friends and family knew this before they were engaged. Bride pick the dress it is your day. 😊 O at the end the bride was a bit rude as well. I would not be rude but... after bride being no better than the sister, I would have said wish you all the best but I'm going to pass and go on vacation put my feet in the sand sun in my face.

[@juliestrickland7754]

You kinda can't blame the bride after the way the older sister acted. And we only saw part of the visit. She was low key trying to bully the bride into picking the dress she wanted, even smirked at the bride when she thought she had gotten her way, and probably had been going at this for a while considering how tense everyone was as soon as they were waiting for her to come out of the dressing room. The bride had probably just had enough. And if Amber didn't want to compromise for her sister on her wedding day, she could have done just what you said and declined, or buggered off on vaca instead of bringing her negativity to the wedding. No one twisted her arm or held a gun to her to make her be on this wedding.

[@SusanPederson]

Amber needs to be uniinvited.

[@vidabing]

When will people understand that bridesmaid dresses are made to be ugly so you can’t or won’t wear them again 😂🤦‍♀️

[@callanightshade8079]

Lily is adorable and reminds me of my daughter lol ❤

[@YarnCrafts4lefties]

I give these bride's credit. Their patience for self centered adults is better than mine. I have no qualms about kicking someone out if they can't get with the program. The wedding is about the couples vision NOT the bridesmaids. Say no if you aren't about to realize its not about you. I would have kicked her out.

[@karenmccabe2371]

Interesting scenario but in the end I ❤ their choice

[@justice9094]

Amber needs to just sit down an hush. What a tedious woman!

[@MsJubjubbird]

This was when everyone named their kid after Harry Potter characters

[@JelenaW]

why are Amber's cheeks purple?

[@juliestrickland7754]

Because she has a spray tan and her blush is a cool tone instead of a warm tone and its clashing badly

[@ChocolateDealer]

Funnily enough the dress they chose looked much better on the sister than the strapless!

[@minime3922]

Go lily.xx❤❤

[@elizabethedwards7082]

As usual it's not the sister's wedding. So old.

[@phillyphan1225]

How silly though! You have a seven year old in the one dress and everyone else in something mature! Strapless for actual adults and straps added for a child who should not be a “maid of honor”. They are both spoiled, the seven year old immediately said “I’m not being a flower girl again” when hearing her sister was engaged.

[@FullTimePatient37]

FIRST WORLD PROBLRMS. CONGRATULATIONS 😂

[@kitty62862]

I misunderstood something. I thought Lily was the bride’s daughter. 😮

[@esraayousef5643]

I am glad that in my culture we don't have this Bridesmaid thing. Never fancied the idea of being the backdrop of some bride to have the perfect aesthetics in her party and pictures, and never agreed to be a bridesmaid when some friends entertained the idea of doing it in their wedding.

[@alisademi5954]

Love ❤️ lily Awesome person 👍👏🥰

[@janmcclure551]

The older sister should not be a bridesmaid. She is way too immature.

[@D2J8]

They should’ve told the 7 year old that she can be a junior bridesmaid instead of a flower girl. Maid of Honor for a child seems inappropriate.

[@twoseven1180]

What's on older sisters cheeks? (Genuine question)

[@jalonwilson5096]

Looks like a poor attempt at blush/contour

[@twoseven1180]

@@jalonwilson5096 I think she mixed both of it

[@AshleyFromTX]

It might be rosacea, I had a friend who had it and makeup can easily look off in color because of it. It’s hard to cover up.

[@deborahasher176]

​@@AshleyFromTXYep! My sister has the same problem.

[@sarahstalcup9621]

Crappy make up.

[@wendystephenson407]

Looks like a dentists delight!!! All neon white!!!!!!🤢

[@joywebster2678]

Bride looks 20 yrs older than the husband to be who looks like he doesnt shave yet.

[@irisbaccigaluppi6506]

What happened to Monty?

[@theraweggfiles]

The whole concept of bridesmaids is atrocious. FORCE your friends or family to stand by your side and do as you say and PAY for a dress they hate just so the bride's photos can come out nice down the line. What century is this?

[@juliestrickland7754]

If they don't want to be in the wedding, all they have to do is say no. Nobody is forced to do anything. 😂😂😂😂 That was so dramatic.

[@jessek.1372]

The bride is 21?.........

[@Angerr_5]

Girly is marrying JD from heathers😨⁉️

[@Catg1222]

Who is paying for the dress? The bridesmaids so their opinion counts.

[@sarahstalcup9621]

Um no. They can give their opinion but its the bride’s day.

[@Catg1222]

@@sarahstalcup9621 if the bridesmaids are paying for the dress, shoes, etc then they have a say. Brides used to take their wedding party into consideration when choosing dresses and not cause a hardship for the wedding party.

[@oluwafisayoomikunle8237]

Truly. Their opinion counts and they should like what they are paying for.

[@oluwafisayoomikunle8237]

Sometimes this show projects bridesmaid like anti the bride but the bridesmaid are paying for the dresses. So if a bridesmaid doesn't feel comfortable in the dress she just has to accept it to please the bride

[@juliestrickland7754]

I know that some don't, but I thought that most brides paid for their bridesmaid dresses.

[@roserose749]

i really dont know why the bride has to pick what others buy and wear. Pick a color and let everyone get what they like. It will look nice in the photos. Thats how my family does it and no one gets upset. We dont even get the same shade of the color and its still comes out nice in pictures.

[@gatzwolffadventures]

Some do some dont

[@juliestrickland7754]

Some people are ok with that and some people want everything to match. It's the bride's wedding and she gets to decide what she wants done. If Amber doesn't want to be in the wedding because she cant wear exactly what she wants, then she can easily excuse herself and be a guest.

[@110311DONTWANTCHANNE]

There is no reason the little girl can't have an added strap while the others are strapless

[@Jerseygal30]

At least one of the bridesmaids didn't like strapless as well as the bride.

[@110311DONTWANTCHANNE]

@@Jerseygal30 too d bad if the adult didn't like it, they get an opinion, but they were too picky, the adults needed to compromise, ultimately its the brides choixwe

[@juliestrickland7754]

​​@@110311DONTWANTCHANNEim not understanding this. First you say that the little girl could have just added a strap to a strapless dress. Then when the other commenter says that the bride and another bridesmaid also didn't like the strapless, you say the adults were too picky and ultimately it was the bride's choice. The bride literally said she liked a one shoulder dress. That's what the consultant pulled for her. Everyone but Amber was on board with the blue one shoulder dress. And as far as the little girl having an opinion? The bride chose to give her one, her wedding, remember? And she was more mature than the adult sister. The bride was trying to find a dress she liked that would work for everyone. Amber was concerned only with what she liked and how she looked.

[@110311DONTWANTCHANNE]

@@juliestrickland7754 do you not understand the difference between a child and adult? the problem with the child's dress is that she has nothing to hold up the strapless, it is not about not liking the dress. if the bride likes the strapless dress, it would be fine to add a strap for the child to hold it up.

[@juliestrickland7754]

@@110311DONTWANTCHANNE did you not understand what I asked you? I understand perfectly that a strap could have been added to the child's dress. Go back and read what I wrote. I never argued that a strap couldn't be added. I asked about your comment because you were seemingly contradicting yourself. I'm not stupid and I never said that it couldn't. 🙄🙄🙄

[@jeswainston]

Oh no, there’s a child in the salon. Code Red!

[@jeswainston]

Who makes their 7 year old sister maid of honour? WTF is that foolishness.

[@jeswainston]

And we have a narcissistic older sister. Man…nightmare time

[@jeswainston]

*sigh* I know they pick the stories with the most drama but this is getting tired where one bridesmaid tries to run over the bride

[@dawnywarthog6642]

And the child's name is Amber.

[@dietotaku]

@@jeswainston the 7yo is tired of being a flower girl and she has a very close relationship with the bride, why not make her maid of honor? amber damn sure doesn't deserve the title.

[@kateyare4708]

I don't like one-shoulder dresses, and I think the dresses the bride picked - both the color and the style - look like something a seven-year-old would wear.

[@pennylehrer1306]

The kid needs a kid's dress.

[@flowerpower3618]

Amber is gorgeous in that dress. She will stand out and all eyes will be on her. Tall, statuesque, beautiful face, her coloring , blue is electric on her.

[@laurenkate7162]

While I didn’t like Amber’s attitude, I do think the bride should take into consideration what the bridesmaids like/feel comfortable in. It sounds like she genuinely found it distracting and uncomfortable having a strap on one shoulder and not the other. Also, bridesmaids walk down the aisle, are in lots of photos etc and so deserve to feel comfortable and confident too!

[@juliestrickland7754]

She wasn't as much uncomfortable as she didn't like it. She wanted strapless and was determined to low key throw a fit and pout until she got her way. That smirk at one point when she thought the bride was going to give in would have done it for me. If she's that uncomfortable wearing a dress that fits her well and doesn't appear to be chafing her or anything ,long enough to be in the wedding amd take pictures, them why not just excuse herself and go as a guest? The other grown bridesmaid really liked the dress, too. Amber was the only one uncomfortable in it

[@KTKaute]

While i agree it should be the brides pick. The statement from Lori "pay up or put up" was disgusting. I wouldnt pay for a dress i didnt like. Lori, come back down to earth. The bride and groom should be paying for the dresses anyway!! It's their fricking wedding. America is insane

[@dorisschneider-coutandin9965]

How old is that bride? 21? No way! 31, possibly.

[@cherylholub3100]

Be real, she isn't 24 years older Lily.

[@diannebernau3293]

She said she was 14 when Lily was born, which makes her 21.

[@dorisschneider-coutandin9965]

I based my judgement on her looks, her appearance. She didn't look so young to me.

[@JB-gs4ip]

The seven year old spoiled brat 😬

[@juliestrickland7754]

How?

[@deborahasher176]

The manager is so annoying.

[@sandimccracken2781]

The kid is a real pain. She shouldn’t have a decision-making position.

[@juliestrickland7754]

How was she a pain? And the bride indicated to the consultant that she wanted a one shoulder dress, so the little girl didn't make anyajor decisions.

[@wendystephenson407]

That kid is soooo annoying 🤮

[@glancycorner7425]

Don’t breed.

[@nikitatrisha1616]

No she's not. The older sister is annoying. The kid was so mature for her age and supportive towards the bride's picks

[@juliestrickland7754]

Ummm, how? She's way more mature than the older sister, who is obviously used to bullying people into getting her own way. The way she smirked at one point, shw really thought the bride was going to cave in and pick her choice. I'm glad she didn't. The child didn't act like a brat at any point during this show. She showed a few 7 year old behaviors, but she talks like teenager at the very least. And her behavior was spot on.