Thank you for being truthful instead of taking sides. We need people to adress the causes just as we rebuke the killing
@Nessa_Views9 сағат бұрын
As individuals we need to have more self respect, discipline and accountability for our actions.
@mmakopamakwela4 сағат бұрын
This is so sad 😢 May the two families find peace.
@charlottejessica50658 сағат бұрын
At the end of the day, this is not a justified action.
@neommutle80338 сағат бұрын
Guys you have the CHOICE to walk away, if the girl is wrong walk, if the boy is wrong walk.
@sosmansa53597 сағат бұрын
"He worked away but the guy tried to have someone to move on with life, which is side chick when was in that process the wife came back to tried and negotiation resolution and find that he has side chick phone and mass thing on side chick side and he was dumped by the side chick and wife dumped him to so this is what made him furious that everything is messed up" father
@Chimmie236 сағат бұрын
@@sosmansa5359 “he cheated and got mad he got caught, and the person he cheated with still was a bad partner AS SHE ALWAYS WAS. So he got mad” in short. He was the problem, she showed him MULTIPLE times she wasn’t a good partner and HE stepped out of HIS committed relationship to be with her AGAIN Like the top comment said, WALK
@califonia-52 сағат бұрын
you have no idea how it feels i know this very well.
@mandlankomo3407Сағат бұрын
Cha all I can say you never been there if you think is easy to walk away
@mandlankomo3407Сағат бұрын
Husband and wife died so case closed the guy was not strong enough to walk away at least he didn't kill umtanabantu or ingane yakomunye umuzi bese yena ephile naye uyilandele so mantombazane musani ukusebenzisa abafana ngalendlela cause nibaphendula izilwane what do you think is going to happen when I spend my money on your education then umusugrand uyangi dumper obviously expect the outcome on that depends how strong is that man to walk away
@fikiledlamini79489 сағат бұрын
I fear for my life 💔to be honest opening up about abuse it’s not easy at all.
@IAmChosen99258 сағат бұрын
Are you okay?
@neommutle80338 сағат бұрын
Are you safe ? The minute you fear someone, that is not right.
@lebohangconfidence27508 сағат бұрын
😢I hope you okay mama❤....maybe seeing this video Is a sign for you too open up before it's too late
@paballoulenda8976 сағат бұрын
Please reach out if you feel unsafe please please
@pulengtsolo-q3n5 сағат бұрын
Open a case sisi
@Purpleandblack-i1j7 сағат бұрын
The father is very articulate.
@LaurahSilence5 сағат бұрын
This Witchcraft is difficult to Explain
@OnlyRandi2 сағат бұрын
Hai for witches and wizards if they were doing positive spells the world could be a better a place......witchcraft at higher levels.
@blaqbee032 сағат бұрын
@@OnlyRandiweeeh they left the yt people killing their family members left and right. What difference would they make now?+
@OnlyRandi2 сағат бұрын
@blaqbee03 only witches and wizards could really answer that because the way they like inflicting pain towards people.
@nokwandasbiya64628 сағат бұрын
Ayi Sbusiso was sick. Now I hear that he ran her over with a car and helped her apply for Road Accident Fund 😪 that's y he was so mad when she wanted to leave when she was about to get the money.
@cebile14937 сағат бұрын
Haiboo he ran her over😮???
@thembisegodi42315 сағат бұрын
Joo
@PopieAntoinette5 сағат бұрын
Yeah they plan that hit together to get money ba stout ke bao heh ba e sigile bale 2
@OnlyRandi2 сағат бұрын
You know what you are saying makes sense why was he sooo furious over RAF monies that aren't his ?
@bluey30185 сағат бұрын
Lets not kidd ourselves and try to be the voice of reason or psychologists or senzengathi sihluzekile or as if we would have acted better... the stats will still rise coz we're a very lost generation, full of lust and disregarding valuable things, senza noma yin to get what we want, singadla amasimb omuntu to satisfy our wants, listen to the father, this guy was a sane person, humble a d all that then ifike intombi engazaz ifunan izoxhaphaza inhliziyo yomuntu over n over... mxm we're really messed up nje as a youth and its as if we're trying to rope in nalaba abazlungele kuwonke umsangano esiwenzayo, akungimangaz lokhu and im afraid akupheleli lana...
@noxiousdlamz62515 сағат бұрын
And the sad thing about this whole thing is that Sbu had a choice, he wanted to delete his life and he did not give Ntobe that choice🤷🤷
@anelz1226 сағат бұрын
The very first set up was forgiving her with the baby incident ,knowing he will make her suffer for that situation and probably bring it up everytime and ngoba naye she was guilty she didn't have much to say or do but accept whatever🤧
@kedibonel84855 сағат бұрын
Turns out the baby is his
@khotatsosuccess78626 сағат бұрын
Too sad for sure.. but the blame goes to both parties.
@mahlabimapengo75205 сағат бұрын
The one to blame is the murderer, he had a Choice to walk away
@WillamShauke4 сағат бұрын
Weman have to be taught to be independent stop using for financial support. Men stop buying woman for love
@ericmolokela3983 сағат бұрын
@@mahlabimapengo7520he did and got tricked back by the victim because the victim was on the mission to destroy. So she invited the worse that a human being can experience. She declared a war and war ended.
@malungisamaseko31552 сағат бұрын
@@mahlabimapengo7520They are all to blame.
@decepticon80002 сағат бұрын
Bahlukumezene kwaphela sekukubi kanje. Imbi maan yonke lento.
@siphokazimbelu10358 сағат бұрын
Aaiii ibuhlungu le nto😢
@KingP-h9q2 сағат бұрын
Same story even me but I decided to run ,.i raised a child which is not mine I found out the boy when he was 9years.
@velelambeuralukakevideos372Сағат бұрын
Men and Women, please if your are married, stop cheating and stop undermining your partner because of Money. Don’t leave your partner because money or bcz of jobless
@nokwandasbiya64629 сағат бұрын
Eyi ibuhlungu lento. Yes, the girl was wrong for making him raise a child that's not his, but ukubulala umuntu is never a solution.
@sosmansa53597 сағат бұрын
"What about messing up the relationship that he was trying to figure side chick and also dumped him" I think the girl was provoking the guy we don't promote that
@nokwandasbiya64627 сағат бұрын
@sosmansa5359 he also was a willing participant, y was he with his ex if he's in a "New relationship" with someone else.
@amafanisa24466 сағат бұрын
Amanga okwengane eyakhe.
@nokwandasbiya64625 сағат бұрын
@amafanisa2446 I personally believe you
@sicelokuhlembhele8777Сағат бұрын
Nkosi yam 😭💔
@ZandileNgubeni-z9b5 сағат бұрын
Parents are the once who suffer most in Gbv situations, they are the ones to deal with the pain of the decisions made by their children, may they all find peace and solace in God .
@Chimmie236 сағат бұрын
I have no sympathy for that man at all but I do I feel for his family and you can tell his father is deeply affected by the whole situation. I hope the family and the girl’s family can find peace
@itumelengmosailane11923 сағат бұрын
Ladies don't be indecisive if you don't want someone don't get back to him 🙏🙏🙏
@lydiateleki97536 сағат бұрын
Shame man. He is so ashamed.
@TumeloMokwena2 сағат бұрын
The father is not ashamed for his son's actions, he is broken for what happened. He also lost a son.
@WNdaba4 сағат бұрын
Toxic. Toxic. Toxic😩😩
@MondliDladla-q8n5 сағат бұрын
Mina ngithi kumele ibhekisiswe kahle lento yalentombazane ibe isifunda kwabaningi sihlukumezekile singamadoda kopha asinandawo lasingakhala khona ngoba nohulumeni wena akasazi singabadoda wazi abesifazanekuphela
@BuhleNkosi-w1b5 сағат бұрын
Okunye could be black magic (idliso) you can act out of character because lona. And maybe thats why ugirl was playing ngoGuy ube azi ukuthi angeke akhone ukuhlukana naye
@gugumapalala8 минут бұрын
Onkosi sivikele😱😭😭😭
@IAmChosen99258 сағат бұрын
I hear for her to get the Raf money Sbu drove over her with a car, yah neh 😑😔
@MaphillyHlubi5 сағат бұрын
Ubheka mina ngedwa unje uzimbela wena umgodi udlisa ingane yomfazi ujike uyafeba
@saintcolzy87114 сағат бұрын
Every action has equal and opposite reaction...... GBV will get worse until "actions" are addressed instead of always addressing the "reactions "
@cebile14937 сағат бұрын
It keeps getting worse 💔💔💔
@SihleSijadu5 сағат бұрын
Ayy kodwa abantu besfazane bayazi donsela amanzi ngomsele ubemenzelani islima abuyele kuye kube bebesebehlukene, and umuntu othulayo inkinga kabi , ngazi ngami ngacishe ngangena kulenkinga . mina nje ngiyaphuma manje if ngike ngasola something so nje angiyicabangi lento.
@vusumuzi_mathumo4 сағат бұрын
Results of ubufebe
@NoluJezile7 сағат бұрын
Ubushumane busezawubulala abantu abanzi, I families mazibe neliso kwi relationships zabantwana especially xa beselula ngeminyanga, lento ngeyingakhange yenzeke xa besibajonga abantu.
@mphoteti60695 сағат бұрын
Awu nxesi Tata, niwenzile owenu umsebenzi no mama namukhulisa u buti
@PhumzileVuyisileGumede5 сағат бұрын
Sad
@SibongileNhlapho-so2zz2 сағат бұрын
Yeah this is not good any way im a mother of 5 boys im very sorry about this but you girl you are so cruel some time you don't deserve be married
@CarolNgobese3 сағат бұрын
❤❤❤
@williecira56766 сағат бұрын
...but he decided not to tell you about the RAF dispute and how she was involved in a car accident and what happened after the RAF claim..
@williecira56766 сағат бұрын
...all in all abantu abazi iqiniso lokuthi kuze kufike la kwenzenjani...noma ngabe umzali noma wumngane wabo, nathi sonke singaznhlanhlathela nje...kulenkantolo yehlathi
@princezondi82716 сағат бұрын
Mina i believe ekthenini izinto ezikanje in most cases ksuke kunedliso phakathi,,ladies please ningayenzi lento yokdlis umuntu bese uyajika uyamala isphetho sayo simbi,,kodwa angijaji ngalokho ngithi imindeni yomibili nceseni nginifisela ukuphola ngokushesha kulengozi enivelele
@MkhizeMkhize-h2t8 сағат бұрын
U Sisi uyalunga , ubhutie nje wenze kahle kakhulu futhi , ningazami ukumufuna iphutha ngenxa yesi febe
Please translate for me, I don't understand the language you're speaking.
@ThandekaMaphanga-o3d7 сағат бұрын
Ai ibuhlungu lento yazi uBhuti angimgxeki mina
@lebolenepa82667 сағат бұрын
You’re too pretty for such words babes.
@SindisiwefortunateNkosi6 сағат бұрын
Ryt now ama comments awasena sdingo, RIP to both of them
@LizwiLofafa-fk5vj7 сағат бұрын
Kuningi😢
@GcinileMkhwanazi-p9z6 сағат бұрын
Yooo I'm scared of boys 😢this is no fair yoooo😭😭😭💔abafana yizinja umbulale nje umuntu wesifazane they doing this bcz of we don't have power to them....yoooo angikho ryt even i don't know her 😢😢😢this is really sad.
@princembongiseni73387 сағат бұрын
Mara😢
@nhlanhla.vchili9607 сағат бұрын
Kodwa mantombazane anoke nikhuzane phela🤦🏽♂️💔, akwenisebenzise your feminine energy to heal the masculine energy. Because if you become destructive to him by provoking and messing up his life this is what we gonna get ekugcineni, men can take so much pain and after lokho ay akulungi.
@Chimmie236 сағат бұрын
He messed up his own life. He was engaged and cheated on HIS fiancé with her knowing she wasn’t going to be a good partner coz she never was. couldn’t he have just stayed faithful to his fiancé?!
@NT_Wethu6 сағат бұрын
Hayi it's time to heal yourself. No one provoked anyone here. Men "provoke" women all the time. How many men cheat on women and have babies on them but they never kill their partners. Men should take accountability Qa and heal themselves. The is no justification to kill a human being.
@nhlanhla.vchili9604 сағат бұрын
So how did her actions helped her? Inkinga nicabanga ukuth i am defending his actions. This is not the survival of the fittest bathong🤦🏽♂️. Yini ndaba nihleli nifune to laverage?
@Chimmie234 сағат бұрын
@@nhlanhla.vchili960 how did his actions help him ? Got a one way ticket to hell and Left his family to deal with the mess he made instead of just loving himself and leaving the relationship he claimed didn’t serve him.
@nhlanhla.vchili9604 сағат бұрын
@ I believe you have the information so you can have an idea on what had transpired between them, but because we have to blame one gender yes we will go to and fro. Also, if I tell you what did he gain it won’t make you feel at ease. But ngyakhuza yekani to want to laverage, it is either you building a relationship or you not, but in whatever we do lets us not toy with each other’s feelings and emotions.