This is always backward. I am the Scorpio..he is a Virgo. He is the one who avoids commitment. He wants me to chase him after he cheats and avoids me. I'm the one who is in pain. I gave and gave and gave to him. I was the one who did everything. He wanted reward without effort. I pulled back all my energy because I am exhausted and tired of giving with no reciprocity. I am very hurt but he isn't trying so I can't try anymore. I must focus on myself now because I have been backstabbed and betrayed. I am trying to build my life back without him. I want him back but I don't feel like he wants it. I can't be the one who is always doing all the work.