Scott Vs. Randle: Same Book Different Page

[@juliusdv6657]

She doesn't need to have friends if she doesn't like dealing with people like that, but she should still do her own things solo. Take herself on a date/shopping, join a gym, or anything unrelated to him.

[@jackieo8672]

I absolutely Agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@sexymama1966]

I agree with that.. I'm not big on people, I'm a bit of a loner but I entertain myself.

[@miap6844]

Very true. I enjoy my own company and haven’t always enjoyed friendships. I’ve always made an effort in relationships to still do what I love; go to the movies, read in a cafe, attend new classes/hobbies etc. I can spend time both by myself and with my partner.

[@Thetruevirgo27]

Yup!

[@brianmuhammad6903]

Men are simple. Women are the complex ones.

[@HerGoodWorks]

She makes the relationship her identity. He definitely knows what he’s doing and knows that she’s emotionally and socially dependent on him. They both need to let it go.

[@mariorobinson4889]

I agree "BRIANNA" 👌

[@elizabethashton761]

P

[@ceeella7215]

She will go further in life with someone else, or even alone, yep even alone she'll accomplish more because it seems like when she sets a goal she works towards it and seems like he just drains her energy.

[@dennissimpson8074]

They both need to go there own way it's not going to work 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️ you go your way and he go his way bye Felicia

[@dragon11819]

is happening when try get married early end up in court

[@lakeofalltrades]

She needs friends and her own identity because even if he’s cheating or not, even if you guys stay together or not, you have to be OK within yourself and be content with yourself rather than looking for something out of someone else. She’s to focused on him. It’s a bit toxic.

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

Agreed! Your partner can't be EVERYTHING for you. You have to have your own solid foundation mentally and socially first.

[@brittanyr1456]

If she “needs” friends then she’s still not making herself the main focus. She just needs to do her own thing. Everybody doesn’t need friends. They’re overrated.

[@lakeofalltrades]

@@brittanyr1456 You are missing the point. You need balance. Meaning hanging around your family, hanging with your friends, taking care of yourself and having alone time. No one on this earth was out here to survive or be alone. People need people . It’s just being happy with yourself knowing that you are living your life and if you are busy following a significant other making only you and him miserable, what’s the point .

[@HeyItsChuanTe]

I really hope she stands her ground and leave him ALONE!He is self centered, disillusional about his so call ,"Rap Career," immature, financial irresponsible and doesn't show No accountability in his actions and is extremely disrespectful . They are obviously on two different pages and they should go their separate ways immediately 💯👍🏾😁

[@laurennicole641]

This!

[@raydavis507]

This!!!! He is terrible and hopefully she moves on with her life. He takes NO ACCOUNTABILITY at all. And he talks to her crazy and over her whenever she’s speaking. He has literally no regard for her at all.

[@moussabby]

"Sis, don't settle" would be perfect for her.

[@drapertraci7]

This is a disaster. They want two different things and if he gets more popular it's going to get worse. She needs to get a life outside of him.

[@oldwalt4645]

How do you have a so-called paid-for house, spending $50k on sneakers, but digging in the piggy bank for $50? This fool is a whole clown.

[@hoodpeckher2051]

How is $200 - $300 pair of shoes 👟👟 an investment? Especially after he wears them 🤔 She needs to 💨🏃🏃🏃 away fast.

[@brandaohimself]

im not sure where the correlation is?

[@brandaohimself]

@@hoodpeckher2051 never heard of stockx?

[@hoodpeckher2051]

@@brandaohimself Nike pays $1.00 in China for a pair of shoes and sells u a 👟👟 shoes for $250 -$300. That's called profit. Nike is in the stock market. Please explain ur definition of profit?

[@brandaohimself]

@@hoodpeckher2051 tf does that have to do with anything?

[@ericwashington8998]

This guy is like so many young brothers in our community....immature. He more than likely does love this woman, he's just so unfocused and self-centered that he is unwillingly to put the work in to maintain a mature relationship. Conversely, this young woman is quite mature and focused on her future. She needs a grown man who also knows what it means to sacrifice and build a future. Unfortunately, the young dude is just not that guy. Sad part is, he just doesn't have a clue.

[@2387Productions]

I disagree...kinda .... your on point with somethings...it's the man fault in most relationships....men need to delegate more over relationship and have plans In place for it.... the problem is she want to be number 1 and want Him to be number 2....men have to start dating women that want to be their program or its never gonna work no matter what maturity level you on.

[@dennissmith7214]

@@2387Productions Nahhh all these dudes ain’t got it in them to delegate, my wife does the day to day delegation of the household and I make the money, protect and teach my kids how to maneuver outside the house in the world! 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@elisejackson1719]

💯💯💯✔️

[@fwb1012]

He still didn’t answer the question “why did u need to take money out the piggy bank?”🙄🙄🙄

[@TangieJ]

Her: "I used a fake page, we all do" Me: Ugh na speak for yourself

[@chereeamore4615]

Facts 😅

[@sharoneh8929]

Yep. Nothing fake here 👀👀👀

[@mochabby93]

Friends or not. He doesn’t really want her. It’s so obvious. I never have a lot of friends. I like staying home to myself. My husband doesn’t care. He knows he has friends but he’s MATURED to know the fact he doesn’t need to be around his homeboys day in and day out.

[@mochabby93]

Also he can’t even respect a savings account. He’s simply immature. She acts out the way she does because she doesn’t trust him and she isn’t feeling secured.

[@TheOnlyBaeee]

Damn I thought he wanted me all this time !

[@bribri0786]

I don’t understand how people can have all those shoes and just throw ‘em in the corner of a room all messy like that. All that clutter is so gross to me. I couldn’t look at that every day.

[@broadwaybiz211]

I agree 1000 percent

[@bribri0786]

@@broadwaybiz211 You would think with all that money he’s spending he would invest in some simple shelving to store them properly.

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Can't tell you how many times I've decided not to download an album because the shoes were awful in the video. Gimme RUN DMC

[@minkki5656]

She seems very clingy. Having no friends, no outlet, and putting everything in into him is so totally crazy. She need to move on and let him go. Also, what kills me, these people go on the show acting as if the issues in the relationship just started, when it's actually been going on for awhile.

[@notoriouslyNAY]

When she said the only thing he is good at is rapping i spilled my drink 🤣. He is extremely immature and only concerned with his desires. Leave him alone. At this point when a man says theyre an artist its a red flag to me, wayyyyy to many horror stories.

[@LoveAngel333]

6 yrs it’s time to go hunny. No ring no respect no commitment and a wanna be rapper. CHILE 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Strawberries0000]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@terrycochran7322]

Please take your dignity and move on he is not worth it love.

[@blackroyalbrand1287]

😭😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Apricityville]

Ladies, at the point in which you have to start making fake pages to watch what your partner is doing, then you need to roll on... someone said she has made this relationship her identity and I 100% agreed when she said she doesn't want friends, but instead, would rather be up under him.... yet, she's miserable with him 😒🙄.

[@queeenpeechez]

These two are the epitome of a trauma Bond

[@TangieJ]

Bingo

[@demanlopez5256]

I was confused by that statement too. You like being with him yet your miserable. She does need to find her own way and maybe one day they can try again.

[@shereekern6801]

So you digging change out the water jug but you have thousands of dollars of shoes thrown in a corner 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@NaomyP]

It’s okay to not want friends but she should invest in loving her own company! Take herself out, travel and enjoy her 20s! She shouldn’t base her entire identity on him! He’s not going to change coz he doesn’t see a problem wrong with his behavior so she needs to stand her ground and leave him like she says

[@naijaboi8837]

"Enjoy her 20s" The worst advice ever given to women. Enjoy your 20s, cry in your 30s. You need a dose of Kevin Samuels.

[@darjaytv]

Leave him alone he knows what hes doing.

[@ElaineLoyd]

6yrs no ring real disrespectful. Why is she staying. Wasting her time. If he says all her reasons aren't valid he isn't going to change. He doesn't want too.

[@MegaLadylove2012]

I can understand if they met in h.s but after a certain age, it’s unacceptable

[@Professionaltrolll]

She was in prison for 8 years 😂

[@xiantraedgerton8477]

@@Professionaltrolll yes she did, now wassup? What that gotta do with anything?

[@NyakzOTSD]

Unacceptable! Y’all full of shit! If she doesn’t want to get married that on her

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

All she knows is him. She will never leave. He can cheat all day long she won’t leave. She’s emotionally dependent on him. He’s a rapper, and she expects him home being a family man. Smh 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@MegaLadylove2012]

Trust me. She’s not ready yet but you see women like this leave. Guys like this turn extremely vicious when tht happens bc they NEVER expected it. Or they become bitter Betty the rest of their lives

[@queeenpeechez]

You are correct. She will never leave him. The money is too good, plus she apparently likes being treated like a doormat. Decades will go by and maybe she will finally realize when she's in her 60s that she played herself

[@APC-yr5fi]

Yep..

[@significantc8478]

Zakelia don't settle for less! You are bright, articulate, beautiful and you can be anything you want to be! Go make your own money and don't ever live with a man unless you are married to him! I agree with the statement of Judge Faith - Go your separate ways!

[@TheOnlyBaeee]

You’re so kind thank you 😊

[@death24314]

@@TheOnlyBaeee you are beautiful. You deserve so much better. There are men like me who appreciate you and would treat you like a queen. Find your equal

[@sincereleajackson9382]

Ms. Scott is a gorgeous young lady... she clearly has more sense than her man

[@Apricityville]

This is why I'm not for all that "let's bring somebody else into the bedroom" stuff... no shade to anyone who participates in that sort of thing. But yea, there are too many guys like this who try to take advantage of that situation and start getting beside themselves. Obviously, not ALL guys, but you get my drift.

[@mosesmartin588]

When you’re “together” everything is not “y’all’s “ That’s called marriage.

[@lilspooky3030]

Together for 6 years?? Yall building a life together at that point come on now Moses.

[@RacieRain]

🤣🤣. I agree Moses. It's not "yall's" unless it's marriage. I wouldn't waste time in a 6 yr relationship with no plans to move forward.

[@thefreequency]

A marriage is exactly what she thinks she's in. He is still single in his mind. Therein lies the difference

[@mosesmartin588]

@LilSpooky just because someone’ wants something to be, does not mean that it is. They are boyfriend and girlfriend playing married. No license, No ring , No title. She was just wasting time.

[@rodneyanderson567]

He supposed to be a artist but he in the piggy 🐷.Whole 🤡

[@esterjo408]

👏👏👏👏👏👍

[@queenteireigns6212]

"I made a fake account because that's what we all do". Speak for yourself ma'am.

[@adriennesales6869]

He seems a little selfish to me. He’s not ready for what she wants. Good to separate.

[@seanjones8737]

I would treat her like a queen. Mature, beautiful, and headstrong. I love it! ♥️

[@susannecarolinehoff7847]

She so beautiful looks like a supermodel!

[@ILoveMyMelanin.]

He does not love her.

[@andreaherron968]

Juan trips me out with his facial expressions and the little noises he makes 😂

[@nannynewsviews542]

No friends....that is her rite. But its not his responsibility to fill the void. Girl go out alone. This man can't be your whole world.

[@gjones3047]

Go out alone and he’ll surely turn into a stalker tho lol

[@MrsRmilbank4u]

She needs to grow. She’s entirely dependent on his existence to validate her. He’ll never do right enough and she’ll always be unhappy and unfulfilled

[@2387Productions]

Wow rachel...Right on...you sound kinda red pill lol

[@dashawnalong6144]

How???

[@bryantworley2922]

Thank Judge Faith for keeping it real and saying they need to go their separate ways. Unfortunately, the girlfriend left the door open by saying "if he wants to fix it". She has on blinders, or has short-term memory loss, because this man has already stated he ain't changing. So leaving the door open for that possibility just shows you as desperately trying to hold on to something that's done. He, at the end, stating that she's still the one is ridiculous, because, how is this woman you've just called pesky, and who wants to cling to you like 2 statically-charged socks, someone you want to be with. Something's wrong here - Pardon my French but, either she's giving up some good stuff that he doesn't want to lose out on, or she is someone who he knows he can use and it won't cost him much. Either way, he's delusional.

[@raydavis507]

I think it’s the last part you stated. She’s someone he knows he can use

[@mikeb8824]

This girl is to finnnneeeee to be allow him to treat her like shit . I blame her cause lady u r that queen

[@sweetsweet81]

I couldn't be with a man who can't save money. He's shady in his dealings. I don't think he's cheating, but he's trying to live single while being in a relationship.

[@audreyamponsah4268]

LEAVE!!!!! He knows exactly what he’s doing and he knows you will put up with it. He didn’t even see anything from your POV, he doesn’t care because he is selfish. That’s ok because he just not mature or ready for the type of life you want. He’s not for you go and find someone who is.

[@lavidaloca2344]

She's more mature than him but they're still young. Why do people insist on making something work if it's not meant 🤔🤔🤔

[@GigiLeflair]

Yeah, she needs a life. Her entire EVERYTHING is wrapped up in this man.

[@onegreenenvy]

She has no life outside of him, wasting her time

[@rosalynasare5765]

Run Forest Run....this man is for play play....you need a Man with goals and priorities

[@teelove2564]

She's right though he can answer the phone communication does rule the world....I AGREE WHOLEHEARTEDLY

[@TheOnlyBaeee]

That’s all I’m saying !

[@staysunny170]

Just the way he phrased it at the end. "I'm the one for her." But don't want to listen or compromise.

[@jasmineyoungblood]

At the beginning of the show, I thought she was fed up with him and was putting her foot down, but she said “if he wants to fix it” at the end of the show. Her existence revolves around him and she’s emotionally dependent on him. Moved from home, no friends, she’s afraid of starting over, even if it’s best for her.

[@ladytt9331]

Remind me again what does she love about him. 🤦‍♀ Your peace is not worth it !!!!

[@bellabelnavis4002]

In my opinion, she has a right to be at her wits end! He is very nonchalant and disrespectful and If you’re planning a future with someone you need to compromise! She need to leave!

[@yahmadoss6860]

I'm stuck at his Materialism. Who in the World needs that many shoes to perform in? The lack of Responsibility is overwhelming and he seems to be Focused on Himself while she's Focused on Him. She needs to go her own way and live in Peace. That's important

[@joycejoseph4151]

They both need to go separate ways, for she's a home maker and her fiance is a home breaker.The judge speaks so well, because she understands the logic between the two 👌👍💯✅🙏👏👏👏

[@miap6844]

I very much value Judge Faith’s advice at the end. Very well said.

[@LoveAngel333]

If we putting money in why can’t I take it out? Because we put the money in so WE should take it out. Smh girl this little boy gon take all your good years. 6 yrs no ring no respect and a wanna be rapper 🤦🏽‍♀️ CHILE

[@crystalkimble7018]

You better NOT be buying all them sneakers and you DON'T own a house👀👀👀👀👀

[@antonialchilders-xy2vb]

He said he did own a paid off house

[@34Nails]

Way disrespectful, self centered, doesn’t care and she can do better 💯

[@egcarswell]

Fun drinking game -- take a shot every time she says "OK" lol 🤣. We'll all be drunk in the first 5 minutes LOL.

[@dannielleyelder]

Poor tink, I hope she finds wholeness within herself because she will see things totally differently. The young man can keep doing him by himself he knows exactly what he's doing

[@TheOnlyBaeee]

🥰

[@mikellbull]

Judge, I can't trust em, he spends way too much money, he's disrespectful in front of me... Hey judge, should we get married? 🤣

[@author_tiffany_dionne]

“Getting friends” won’t help a broken relationship. Having friends is healthy. However this relationship is unhealthy all by itself.

[@VeronicaGillispie]

A man only do what you allow him to do to you. If you want to be respected you have to demand it up front or move round. He's never going to change and he don't care about how she feels because at the end when she stated she was done he told her she wasn't and she's never going to leave him because he's not going to allow her to. SAD SITUATION

[@highlander666]

I wonder if she would have an identity crisis if they broke up🤔

[@montannaNohannah]

She’s too “afraid” of being alone and isn’t ready to do the work it takes to be alone and move on. SMH…

[@diannaa4426]

I understand opposites attract but in order for a relationship to work, you have to be on the same page and want the same things.. She wants to save money, he wants to spend it, She wants a monogamous relationship, he wants to invite a third party in, she’s doesn’t have a social life, he’s very social. They’re just not compatible but I do believe they are both good people and wish them both well.

[@rileyhanes5089]

So let's see. We have a shortage of black doctors and black lawyers black dentist. But I guess we have black people don't need those professionals. All we need is a rapper rappers rappers wow LOL.

[@dollymagojo7130]

Her not having friends isn’t the problem though, he wants a fast life and she should just leave him.

[@mrflynn01]

“The hurt of staying,” Judge Jenkins hit the hammer on the head!!

[@RobinZK67]

Wait... so lemme get this straight... he wants to pursue other women and catcall, but doesn't want them seeing other people? She is too gorgeous for all that tomfoolery. And one other thing, he kept harping on her lack of friends, but if she had friends, they might be telling her to leave him alone. And he would not be happy. Boy, bye.

[@KWin-ik5cl]

They need to separate. He is who he is and she needs to make a decision. He ain’t the one for her. He’s gonna say a few words to give her hope and string her along.

[@mrs.mortician77]

She has lost herself and that's so sad.....she CLEARLY HAVE NO LIFE WITHOUT HIM! BABY GIRL YOU ARE TOO YOUNG FOR THAT!!!

[@miztinkerbellno2]

There's nothing wrong with doing your own thing just do it outside of a relationship!

[@gracelikerain5039]

I really feel bad for her shes a little older then me but I went through something similar a lot younger and going through the heart break and then staying single for a few years taught me how to have boundaries and standards and love myself.... all my exes have tried coming back when I focused on myself but by then I didn't want them anymore I think she needs to be alone to learn how to love herself which means... learn to be ok whether your in a relationship or not because your life is so fulfilling regardless of if you are with someone else and you believe you are valuable and won't settle for someone giving you a half a ssed relationship

[@w.w.heisenberg8044]

Everyone's an upcoming artist. 🙄🙄

[@Zain-kb4of]

SHE NEED SOME FREAKING FRIENDS , her whole identity is so wrap up on him . I hate when people whole identify is wrap up on one person , everyone need a friend , even one solid person outside your relationship is necessary. You got that much patience for him but no patience to maintain 1 other friendship yikes😭😭

[@nickylnr]

Yep my ex didn't have friends..can you spell issues?

[@Leniloveyeshua3483]

He is nasty as it can be. Lady why are you still in this situation?

[@mrsmoore5027]

Ms. Scott needs to find her individual happiness! She's built her world around a man who couldn't care less about her. He's a self centered individual who doesn't seem to care about her wants/needs. Smh wake up young lady!

[@jaiquanfayson1099]

He said he made money at a show and they spent it all on strippers and his excuse was that his boys already made the decision. He let his boys spend his money on a strip club? A couple hundred or maybe even a couple thousand dollars and he let his boys spend it in a strip club for him to get a bunch of lap dances? The judge didn't question that?

[@nubiameryhor369]

She's so pretty and way more... She will realise how much she deserve better treatment

[@chrissyboss263]

“ we all use a fake page “ I was like who is we 😂

[@mrflynn01]

@17:00 things just got real!!! “The hurt of staying”

[@goddessondemand3089]

That man is self centered leave him sis and he don't know the value of a dollar BIG red flag

[@BleuReign13]

He's too childish for what she's looking for..

[@britbrit8058]

If he have so much money why he stealing coins

[@amymorale1379]

move on and find self. Not the twenties for a relationship at all. as for as friends , 99 percent of people can not stand up to be a FRIEND and really don't know what that mean.

[@CaptainMarvel1939]

Basic core belief differences are reason enough to end it. Her identity is linked to a relationship and he’s not done running the streets. Let it go

[@natnat0576]

Im sorry but you need friends, you need your own life away from your relationship....

[@MzFlyingSolo27]

Faith Jenkins ❤💪🏾

[@WesleyLindsey]

I wish the Judge would've told her that she needs to find some friends and get some business. She's always gonna have this same outcome in her relationships because she's too fixated.

[@death24314]

I agree but I still think he didn't treat her right

[@WesleyLindsey]

@@death24314 you can contest that he was rebelling because she had such a chokehold on his life. The same way as kids rebel against helicopter parents. They both play a part but what I said seems like one of the biggest factors.

[@ChibiChick25]

I think she is definitely co-dependent but I actually like her. The issue around finances tells me she has a good head on her shoulders and she didn't really say anything that seemed too unreasonable. But I have a sense she has been hurt by others and has a difficult time opening up to people. Overall, they aren't compatible and they do need to separate. She needs to work on herself rather than relying on someone else to sustain any happiness.

[@kellabillingsley5141]

She does need to gain her own identity

[@ybshadyii4375]

Annoying The Signs Will Always Bring HeartAches!!!

[@arayaklove]

She has a bad attitude. Dude should leave her.

[@queeenpeechez]

She's extremely clingy and he don't really want her even though he wants to keep her around

[@KamikazeSP06]

They’re both immature not just him. I never had an issue with sneaker heads as long as as bills are paid so her being upset is her disagreeing with the lifestyle she signed up for. She’s exhausting so much energy that she’s miserable. They both need to find somebody that’s gonna make them happy.

[@lavishmisfittink3214]

And he's the bread winner it's his money he pay all the bills and support her its giving she needs her own piggy bank because she Don't like watching him splurge and she gotta wait till he give her something

[@collinschidiebere8231]

This is the kind of girl i dream of..

[@deejai1173]

😂😂🤨

[@collinschidiebere8231]

@@deejai1173 instead i am getting the female version of that guy

[@eyeamthateyeam86]

@@collinschidiebere8231 I don't mean to laugh but damn🤣

[@collinschidiebere8231]

@@eyeamthateyeam86 Help a brother

[@darrellwilliams9850]

Another little boy pretending to be a grown man. And doesn’t anybody wear shoes anymore

[@crystalkimble7018]

Bih....dont touch my laundry change!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@VeronicaGillispie]

She's hella needy and trying to hard to be in every aspect of this man's life. How is it a problem if he's dealing with another woman when you're allowing it with him? She needs to chill and find herself because she's lost and running behind him like a lost puppy. Find happiness within life and stop punishing yourself to please others

[@stacyannjohnson4219]

Girl you don't need friends.

[@sandylane5498]

Sounds to me like she needs a life! He can't be your everything. That's a lot of pressure for one person.

[@lagosfury5142]

Facts..that's the biggest problem...she has made him EXCLUSIVE

[@BreeLvee]

She Is Meee! Frugal On Money, Dont Have Friends, I Like Being Alone, I Love My Space, & My Fiancé Doesn't Complain 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@crystalkimble7018]

She needs to find her something to do for her! #individuality

[@SheilaTrueLove]

I am still trying so hard to understand why would people want to sign on for arguing, fussing, fighting, being disrespected, cheated on, used and abused OVER having peace, tranquility, joy and freedom. No one will ever convince me that being married is better than being single. When it comes to having people to share your life with, that's what family, friends and roommates are for. There is no such thing as a PERFECT MARRIAGE, so why sign on for all this DRAMA and DYSFUNCTION. Help me make SENSE out of this. I was married twice and trust me when I tell you, being SINGLE is BETTER because it's so much EASIER and Less STRESSFUL.