Secret# 581 ~Kuv Ntshai Chaw Siab~ 02/26/2024~

[@alifetoliveyes8824]

Question 1- It’s your husband fault for cheating on you.

[@pjthao8621]

Lady. I'm sure you're smart enough to know that if he was a loyal husband, NOBODY can change his mind to cheat on you. He promised to love you, he promised to respect you, he promised to be loyal to you. The other women had never had that promises to you. You know who's at fault, you're in denial.

[@wisteria4550]

Q1: Yeej yog li tus poj nrauj hais os…tim koj tus txiv. Yog koj tus txiv yog ib tug txiv zoo tiag li koj hais ces txawm tus poj nrauj yuav sau ntawv npaum twg los nws yeej tsis teb. Nws yeej muab tus poj nrauj block kiag xwb. Koj tus txiv los yeej thab thab tus poj nrauj thiab os.

[@baoyang529]

Q1: It take two to tango!!!! If your husband doesn't want the other woman, its easy to remove her from his life but he wants her in his life, that why she's still a part of your life/marriage. He's the problem.

[@dssb3511]

Question #1. It's 100% your husband's fault. If he wants to end it, he can! We cannot control outside forces, but we can control ourselves.

[@pakouxiong4230]

Hai rau tus poj niam tus txiv tham nkauj nrab os. Yeej yog tim yu tus txiv ma. Yog yus tus txiv siab ncaj thiab saib tau yu ces txawm neej twg thab nws los nws yeej tsi thab thiab nws yeej paub tias nws muaj poj niam lawm. Yog nws hlub koj ces tseev lawv thab os nws yeej tsi k

[@user-lx5yp8kx2s]

yes, it is your husband's fault too, because many of the divorced ladies are out to break every marriage since they 're marriages are ready broken.

[@youchang7077]

Tim ob leeg lawm

[@95leefamilychannel33]

Q1: It is both their faults. They just blame each other so you would be confused. But first of all, you shouldn’t have let your husband do those xa stuff by himself in the first place. I guess you don’t know that when a man is away from a woman more then 3 days, they will look for someone to give them pleasures. So I really don’t know how you can stop your husband. As for me, I would never let my husband do those xa stuff. I rather be poor & have no marriage issues because of being away from each other & not being faithful. Good luck to you sister!

[@Nchai-Yang]

Q1. It's your husband's fault. He has admitted that he was talking to her / dating her from the beginning. The majority of ladies will not contact a man if he is also not pursuing her in return.

[@micahelijah40]

Block her n cancel his fb account. Just share one account with u.

[@kxiong9030]

Q1: your husband is the problem. He is the one allowing her to stay in contact. If he blocks her and ignores her, she has no chance but he’s allowing it.

[@cleartao3924]

Q1. If your husband truly respect and love you, he wouldn’t start a relationship with the other woman. It’s your husband to blame.

[@lemlem6608]

Q1 Tim ob leeg xwb os. It takes two to mingle so definitely both. Don’t trust your husband too much.

[@Joyfully321]

Q1: If it is true, that the other woman is the one who contact your husband first she may be partially at fault but ultimately your husband is the one who respond. He’s the one who keeps the connection going. No woman in their right mind will keep bothering a man who is not responding back. Unless, she is psycho and totally obsessed with your husband then that’s a different story but I don’t see that this is the case. Sorry but sounds like your husband is a liar and a cheater. Deal with your husband first!

[@zoolikuv]

Q1. Both, your husband and the other person have faults, but work with your husband directly. Q2. Talk to your spouse openly. Be sincere, but also tell him that he hurts your feelings by prioritizing others' over yours. Don't be mad at his siblings.

[@nkaujmoon]

It’s both, it’s his fault and if she is a good divorcee, she will not communicate back.

[@xxtanjiroandnezukoxx2145]

Question #1 sis, that divorcee is just at fault now that you have talked to her about your relationship! You are in the right to blame her for knowing and still interfering after your husband already sold the farm. Not excusing your husband's actions bc he is your husband and he should have known better. Your husband was to be blamed first.

[@MsPangY]

Q1: Girl, These Women Won't Leave Your Man! If Your The Women He Don't Want, Be The Women He Needs! Q2: The Boys Who Don't Know What He Wants Is Going To Be A Lot Of Problems, He Loves Them More Than You & Your Going To Be Miserable For The Rest Of Your Life! Asking & Knowing Is Good But If He's Listening To Everyone .. It's Going To Be Hard!! Wait Til You Have Kids, Even Harder ... But, As Long As He's Not Abusive or Cheating; Somehow It's Hard But You Have To Do Something Bout It & They Won't Understand How You Feel! Sometimes, They Use Their Family To Use It Against You ...

[@CloverStarz]

Lol the McDonald's part😅

[@jasthao9330]

The McDonald's story is giving me a headache, LOL😂😅

[@arinalis3130]

Uhm, it's your husband's fault too. He needs to STOP texting her back.

[@puaspaubkub1989]

Txiv ntxawm aw!!!! Tsi paub hais li lawm o kuv twb ua txhua yam rau kuv tus txiv los nws ho pom kuv yog daim ntaub so quav xwb o Cas ntuj tsi muab cov zoo rau cov zoo cia cov phem rau cov phem o

[@whatheck6797]

23:11 this does not apply to only the wife’s. Some husband needs to think of their wife also.

[@angielo06]

Nws tsis ruam os yog nws tsis muaj kev respects koj xwb os.

[@sandyvangyang110]

Q1: IT TAKES TWO HUNNAY Q2: Please keep your relationships within your walls unless you have too/ hubbs need to check his boundaries & priorities first with you.

[@hlinagsiabhaam4169]

Secret txog koj tus poj niam puas Yog koj poj niam yeej tsis txaus siab yuav koj mas. Neb yeej tsis tau sib hlub es koj cia li yuam yuav mwd xwb. Peb cov poj niam mas txawm tsis txawj2 hlub peb cov txiv los yeej yuav tsis ua li koj poj niam thiab

[@pajyaj5405]

Fist story. It's all your husband's fault. If he loves you, he needs to stop on this end. Then there wouldn't be any problem. The other lady has no part of your life.

[@chuevang6286]

Tis Niam tsev yog Tim koj tus txiv 100 ferm puss koj

[@casesvang1262]

Sis aw maum dev tsis cos tws txiv dev tsis nce os

[@doogvang]

Q1, tim koj tus txiv xwb os. Yog koj tus txiv ncaj thiab coj zoo ces txawm tus poj nrauj ntawv yuav sau ntawv txij ntuj los nws yeej tsis teb tsis k. Q2, tim koj txiv xwb os, txhob cem koj cov muam vim lawv tsis paub tias neb muaj plans, lawv tsuas xav tias yog lawv tus nus ces muaj dabtsi lawv hu xwb. Yog tsis mus ces koj txiv yuav tsum hais rau lawv tias neb muaj lwm yam mus es yuav tuaj tsi tau no xwb. Tim koj txiv xwb txhob lam mus cem lawv vim lawv hlub neb es lawv hu xwb.

[@maipalo2895]

Its your husband and the divorcee's fault. She a B and so is he.

[@choumoua7789]

Hais rau yus tus txiv xwb yus tus ces zoo li tus nab yog koj ntau nab ntau lub taub hau nab thiaj tuag yog koj ntau nab tus tw xwb lub tau hau mus tas zog hais yus tus txiv ua ntej koj yuav hu lwm tus tiam vim li cas xwb os mi viv ncaus aw peb yog poj niam ib yam yog peb hais tsis tau peb tus txiv ces peb mus hais lwm tus ces teeb meem yeej tsis tag li os

[@michaelf2700]

Q1: Ur husband is a cheater...cheaters will always cheat. If he really wants to be innocent, he could block her r not pick up her calls. Dont be stupid. Q2: Ur husband is not a leader, only a follower with no backbone & common sense. Elavuate ur life goals & it its not what u want, then change.

[@maixiong-mu5cm]

Q2. U need to put your foot down n don't let him go to his family gatherings especially if u already had plans. If u don't let him go a couple of times then eventually he will stop doing that. This is my suggestion. Because he's used to have his way n he knows that u can't stop him that's why he keeps defying u.

[@LimeLM3]

Q1: it’s all your husband fault. No matter how divorcees are pursuing your husband, if he’s faithful to you, they can’t touch him. If he’s going to cheat on you, you can lock him up in a white room, he’ll find a way to cheat.

[@symouacheupao6228]

#1 yeej yog tim 2 leeg tab si nco ntsoov tias tus poj nrauj ces nws xyeej tsawg xwb yog leej twg kam tham nws ces nws nws ok xwb Mas qhov tseem ceeb yog tim koj tus txiv ntau nawb yog nws tsi teb 3 zaug xwb ces poj nrauj tsi hu tuaj lawm nawb Tab si ua kom zoo rau koj tus txiv nawb tsam nws cia li mus caum pog lawm os

[@kuvxwb11]

Q1: Tim koj niag txiv vim nws yog ib tug neeg muaj poj niam lawm. Yog nws hlub koj tiag ces poj nrauj yuav thab nws npaum li cas los nws yeej tsis k yeej tsis nrog lawv tham yeej tsis sau ntawd teb luag. Poj nrauj los tsis paub cai thiab lawv tsuas pom tias nws yog txiv neej ces lawv thab seb paus fall for lawv.

[@maiyang3659]

Vivncaus, tsis yog tus nkauj nrab yog tim Koj tus txiv xwb. Yog nws hlub Koj tiag ces nws yeej tsis ntxeev siab rau Koj. Ntxov nrauj ces ntxov zoo xwb os

[@gynnsworld]

Nahh it’s yo man fault. No man can be taken or bother if he truly loves you. No matter who bugs him 😂

[@praneea-nanpon7992]

Q1: Don't trust him. It was 100% your husband's plan, his plan to catch fish with his two hands.

[@eveher7084]

Sister,open your eyes! You know the obvious, you know the truth! It's your husband! He got a taste of the playing field and he wants more. Of course, he still love you, but he's not will to stop

[@youtooonelee9177]

1 minute into the video, it’s your husband’s fault. If he loved you he would have never let another woman walk up to him.

[@piamoua3649]

Q1-Yog lawm, tsis tim cov poj nrauj. Koj hais Koj tus txiv thiab no phone and no Facebook . Q2- you need to train your hubby to wipe his own butt. No more diaper.

[@maitonglee6398]

Ham tsis tim koj tus txiv 100% mas cas tseem yuav nug os.

[@Lifemoments54]

Q2: Your husband is the problem, why cant he just say NO to them. Dont blame the family and dont hate on them . Maybe he rather spend his time with them.

[@maixiong-mu5cm]

Q1. 1. Tim koj los mos. Koj tso koj niag txiv liam mus ua xas ib leeg lawm tsheej tog xyoo. Nws nyob tsis taus ces nws thiaj li mus thab poj laib nev. Tamsis no ces lig dhau lawm pab tsis tau lawm os. 2. Tim niag tsov tom poj meb cab, poj nrauj, niam ntiav khaus pim ua nteb xwb los ma. Nws khaus pim dhau lawm es nws pheej nrhab rau koj niag txiv liam es nws thiaj li muaj muaj siab los mos. Nrhiav ib pab laib mus qhia kev cai rau niag pog laib ko kom nws tuag ib tsig es nws thiaj li paub cai . Lwm zaus nws thiaj tsis thab cov txiv neej uas muaj poj niam lawm. 3. Tim koj niag tsov tom txiv liam. Nws tau yaim poj laib lub pim tas lawm ces nws thiaj li tseg tsis tau tus poj laib kom los ma.

[@atlasanyaandamazingplaces8597]

Kuv tias kuj tim cov nkauj nrab thiab vim koj yog ib tug poj niam es koj hais no rau txiv neej ces lawv yeej cia li tsum xwb. Kuj tim koj tus txiv me me thiab 😅

[@leejmuam1]

Q#1. Your husband is at fault. He can shut her down if he is not interested. But some women are maum dev, too, especially peb cov poj niam hmoob. Lawv mas muaj cai tiag tiag cov neeg tham luag tej txiv.

[@hlinagsiabhaam4169]

Q2: lwm zaus koj muaj plan kuj including nrog koj cov muam thiab mas. Koj yuav tau qhia lawv tias koj muaj ib qhov yuav mus rau seb lawv puas nrog neb mus. Koj ib tug nyab xwb Yog koj hlub thiab muaj dab tsi qhia siab hlo rau koj cov muam ntshe lawv coob tus muam hlub koj ntshe yuav zoo dua. Zoo li koj tsis nyiam koj cov muam as. Koj hlub koj cov ntau dua lawm

[@eiathorthor9867]

1 ham tsi tim koj niag txiv xwb mo yog nw tsi nyiam mas nw yeej tsi teb thiab nw yeej txawj 2 muab poj nrauj nplaj lawm lo mas nw yeej nyiam 2 kawg thiaj niaj hnub nrog tham koj nte tau nw lam keb xwb Txhob mu hai poj nrauj kav tsij hai koj niag txiv ko xwb yog nw tsi tham ce poj nrauj txawm yuav sau ntawv tuag lo nw yeej tsi teb li lo ma

[@kuvxwb11]

Q2: Koj tus txiv put others before you that's why he pushed your plan or plans aside. Put yourself and others before him so he can taste his own medicine and see how he feels.

[@maiyang8492]

Its your husband fault. If she contacts him, he just needs to block her. Never allow your spouse to leave your side l. Men have needs and the first female that wag their tail, he will climb. 😊

[@kavaj6693]

But ur husband keeps talking to her. It will hurt but u will need to teach ur husband a lesson

[@colleenchan9872]

Q2: sister lawv yeej tsis respect koj nawb you should express kiag koj txoj kev xav rau lawv es yog lawv ntxhub thiab nkag siab ces muab ua ib zaug hais thiab ua.. koj tus txiv yeej cia lawv control nws thiab make every move hauv neb lub neej rau lawv make xwb! Yog tom qab koj hais thiab ua tag yog tsis hloov ces kawg khiav mus nyob deb or khiav ua nkauj fa seb nws puas hloov xwb tiag! Good luck 😊

[@hmongremark2686]

Story 1 - Cov poj niam muaj txiv ruam ruam li koj no kuj tsis yog muaj koj tib leeg xwb. Koj tsis muaj cai hu mus cheem tus poj nrauj ntawv los yog ib tug poj nrauj twg kom txhob tham koj tus txiv. Koj tsuas muaj cai cheem koj tus txiv kom txhob tham hluas nkauj los yog nws tus hluas nkauj nkaus xwb. Story 2 - Case no los tib yam nkaus case 1 thiab vim koj tsis muaj cai yws thiab nroo koj tus txiv cov nkauj muam los yog txheeb ze. Koj tsuas muaj cai cob qhia koj tus txiv kom txawj yoog koj thiab hwm koj nkaus xwb.

[@levieyang]

Q1: Koj paub koj tus txiv tsawg os. Any faithful man who loves their wife would never respond to another woman behind their wife’s back.

[@ScatteredYO]

Q1: If your husband doesn't answer the divorce lady, problem over. Block her. Change his phone number or FB username. It's 20% her fault. 80% your husband's fault.

[@maitvang1]

If your husband loved u even she text him he will tell him to leave him alone. So he still want to keep in touch with that mistress so is mostly your husband. Is by choice even a woman want to contact him if he shut them down they won't keep contacting him too. For the first question ask. And to every relationship it work both ways it's depend on your spouse you can't tell the other person to stop . You can only tell your spouse but if they willing to stop they would close the door on the mistress or misters.

[@hx7161]

Question 1: It your husbands fault. Don’t blame the other woman. If your husband truly loved you he would never talk to her or cheat on you. At the end of the day, if you’re going to stay with a cheating husband don’t complain. Even if he doesn’t cheat on you with her, he will cheat on you with someone else.

[@windylee045]

Quest 1- li cas los yeej tim 2 leeg. Tab sib xub thawj mam yog yus tus txiv. Why? Vim tia peb ua neeg nyob yus tus partner yeej paub tia muaj yus. Leej twg txawm yuav haub yuav ntxias li cas los yog yus tus partner 100% thiab yeej ncaj tiag ces nws yeej qhib siab lug qhia koj tia tus nkauj nrab tseem tiv qaub nws tas zog. Nws yeej tsis tos koj mus txhom tau tia nkawv tseem sib sau ntawv. Thiab yus tus partner yeej tsis muaj tus qab ntxhiab dab tsis yuav teb to nkauj nrab ntawv rov qab nas.

[@Vwjmao]

Q 1: Lady, you definitely are in denial your husband cheated on you. He is not loyal. It takes two, not just the other woman. Smh

[@kuvxwb9466]

Q1: it takes two to tango. Your husband just needs to stop and block the nkauj nrab.

[@chang3568]

Q1: Sister, stop making excuses for your txix dej. You should know that's going to happen when he go there. If you still care about your life, tell your husband to come back.

[@myprecious6751]

2nd question, sister, you need to sit down and have a really deep heart to heart conversation with your husband. You need to tell him how you feel and how he makes you feel. You need to let him know how he prioritized his family and siblings over you. Point out that he's not married to them, nor is he sleeping with them much less, building a life with them. That his words mean nothing when he breaks them every time you've made plans than his siblings called, and he goes a prioritize them and canceled out your plans. If he proceeds to prioritize them over you, then you need to tell him that if that is the life he wants to continue to live, then he can move back with parents and go live with them. Otherwise, let him go be with them, and you go ahead and go with your plans that you've already made. Maybe its time to love and respect yourself and put yourself first. Stop catering to him and stop being a doormat for him.

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

Q#1Cov Niag nkauj nrab ko CES yog leej twg Tus txiv mus raug Tau lawm CES tseem tshaj ib tug kab mob COVID lawm thiab Ham tsis Tim ob leeg los mas yog Tim Niag txiv xwb CES NWS tsis thab Niag txiv CES Niag txiv yeej thab tsis Tau li mas niag maum dev tsis co tw ces niag txiv Dev yeej nce tsis Tau li mas, kuv mas Cas yuav dhuav cov Niag poj dab tuag tshaib dab xyob txhiaj kawg li leej twg tus txiv tsis tau raug cov dab ko ce yeej tsis paub li os

[@mellisalauj2089]

Hais rau tus niam tsev es tu txiv mus tham poj nrauj pem teb xas. Don’t blame anyone but your husband. Yog koj tus husband tsis tham lawv Yeej tham tsis tau nws. Ua neeg nyob Yog yus Yog ib tug neeg ncaj ncees yus Yeej tsis tham ua dog ua dig. So don’t be mad at anyone but your husband

[@panhiathao7538]

Q2 koj tus txiv mloog lawv hais ces kom nws sau nra mus nrog lawv nyob xwb mas. Ib tug txiv es ua neej tsis muaj privacy ces muab nws veg xwb

[@Markw5]

Koj tus txiv nw tsis hlub koj tag os es yuav ua dabtsis los nw thiaj tos nw cov muam pom zoo nw mam ua.

[@MaryleHer]

Sister, your sister is the doggy dog he is. If he loves you we would not be responding to that lady. He will be loyal. It is as much your husband’s fault.

[@ongxiong2784]

Kuv xav tias yog Tim nkawv ob leeg tib siv thiab kuv xav mas yog tib koj tus txiv Ntau duav lawm tus hluas hu tuaj koj tsi teb ces hu ntau tsi teb ces nws yeej tusiab lawm yeej tsi Hu tuaj yog vim koj tus txiv dag koj lawm xwb

[@pkcyang2910]

Q1: yeej tim tus nkauj nrab BUT yog koj tus txiv tsis nyiam nws koj tus txiv yuav tsum muab nws block. Q2: you need to sit down and have a conversation with your husband about where you stand in his life. Hes not a little boy no more.

[@jasthao9330]

Q2: It seems that your husband prefers his relatives' company rather than yours. He does not respect your decisions or your plans. Don't talk to the relatives, tell your husband your feelings

[@mthoj]

Its your husband fault because he was messing with her. But, if she knows you exist then she should stop

[@Gardendev]

Q1, tim koj tus txiv nawb, zoo ib yam li scam, neeg dag noj dag haus. Yog koj tus txiv txim txiaj tiag tiag mas lawv sau ntawv tuaj muab block kiag tsi teb lawv. Yog nws pheej teb ces yog tim nws. Tus poj niam thab npaum cas los yog tus txiv tsis thab ces lawv tsum xwb.

[@gaolao2561]

Answer to the first secret story. Your husband and the other mistress are at fault.

[@Llis3322]

Q1: it's 1000% your husband's fault!! don't be stupid. the real homewrecker is your husband!! he doesn't have to reply to her. he can change his number or block her from his Facebook. But he wont.. so it's him. All him

[@jasthao9330]

Q1: It takes 2 to tangle. Tim ob leeg os

[@nkaujhmoobvwj]

It's ur husband fault. he's not loyal.

[@heymaiv]

Question 1: the divorcee is at fault for knowing he married but she still pursue trying to get to know him. But it's also your husband's fault for responding back. If he not guilty, he would have just blocked her on fb. She at fault 80% but he at fault 20%. You cannot control her actions s. But you can try to handle your husband's action. If he continue to respond to her, it's time to let him go.

[@cheexiong1634]

It’s both fault… but your husband is already unfaithful by doing that! His actions show what his true intentions is cheating…He knows what he is doing just block those lady end of story. If he still does it again then yup definitely his actions.. regardless if that women keeps reaching out. If he is true like he said then it would have ended. But sounds like he is interested in them too!

[@nengyang6746]

Question 1 Of course it’s your husband’s fault.

[@maymoua5472]

Q#2 you are married him you have to repect he Family and your family the same thing

[@pahouaxiong1859]

Q1: It's both at fault. Q2: Men like your husband ua neej nrog ces yuav nyuaj heev. My ex husband was exactly like your husband too. Ntev tag ntev tuaj ces siab tsis ntev lawm. Your husband need to change this bad habit or else it'll get very bad because in the long run you wont be able to tolerate as much. He doesn't respect you as his wife.

[@luvsmileez119]

Q1) Sister, both are at faults. First of all, how did she get his number? If she bothered you both so much, change ph# & no more farming at the same farm. Q2) Sister, you need sit him down and give him an ultimatum. His side doesn't know what your going through. He need to stick to your plan or split your times with each family.

[@Love98fire]

1st question It’s your husband if he stop the divorce lady will stop. Stop blaming other people.

[@colleenchan9872]

Q1: you got play by two side! Yeej tim koj tus txiv ntau dua os! Kuv xav mas yeej tim koj tus txiv 80% hos tus pojnrauj 20% xwb! Cov txiv dev mus noj sab nrauv ces tseev koj cheem tus sab tov los nws lub siab twb hloov ntawm koj mus deb os…ces luag yeej nyiag ntsis mus li os!

[@zouayang815]

Tu viv ncau mus yuav hamburger tom McDonald's mas taj tiag li os. Tuaj nyob teb chaw vam meej thiab ua ib tug poj nrauj cas yuav ruam ua luaj. Yuav order hamburger xwb tseem tsi paub thiab.

[@chaituaher724]

?1 it's both side. He has the rights to block her out.

[@lillyheu1931]

Question 1 - girl it’s your hubby’s fault. Don’t be stupid. She won’t be txting/calling if he’s not answering.

[@PajnyiagVwj0815]

Secret1: why is a secret if you want your wife to do things for you. Just tell her how you feel.

[@Justin-q4w6d]

Story 2..have you told him to sleep with them or you hahahaah ..but hey come to me I’m not like him ok 😂😂😂

[@seethoj2082]

#1 tim koj tus txiv dev xwb os. Yog nws tsim txiaj ced tseev poj nrauj hu tusj thab nws yeej tsis teb li na. Poj nrauj hu txog 10 zaug nws tsis teb ces poj nrauj yeej musj sisb nisj ntsws thiab poj nrauj yeej tsis hu ntxiv laem na. Tab sis poj nrauj hu nrov leeb ces teb ntua ne . Ham tsis tim koj tus txiv dev xwb mas

[@MAYHLUB]

Sister..... you need to stop your husband only. If he doesn't want to connect with the lady he can always block her # but it seems like he wanted to reconnect with her and chat more. It's your husband fault ok, I used to wear your shoes but I had to throw that shoes away.

[@maivthoj5627]

Ur husband is not a leader. He's a follower. U need to let ur sil noe to stop making plans w him.

[@whiteranger3836]

Majority it’s your husband’s fault. If he loves you he would not be responding to the other lady. I think you are in denial and don’t want to blame him only.

[@maiyang1508]

It’s your husband’s fault,,, hee still entertaining her

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

Q1: its both. Your husband allowed her to come in between you guys. If he truly loves you, he wouldn't open that door for anyone else to come through.. She is at fault too, for knowing that he is married and still messed with him.

[@NtxhaisHmoobUSA]

Question#2 hahaha koj niag txiv on his family side more than you

[@stacyvang1929]

Your husband fault girl