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@PhindileNdimande2 жыл бұрын
It was great to be part of the panel as the expert on this show. Marriage has to be managed by both parties. Becoming transparent and honest is key to sustain a relationship that is full of trust and commitment.
@themphasanes2 жыл бұрын
Your meant to do this, I love watching you babes 🥰👌
@masase192 жыл бұрын
Sis Phindi I learnt so much from you 💜
@TlangiBaloyi2 жыл бұрын
I was like wait a minute when I saw the thumbnail, I was excited 💃🏾💃🏾. It was lovely seeing you be you at your best, you made great points and you’re appreciated Queen P ❤️🙌🏾🌸.
@Tokollop2 жыл бұрын
Me I appreciate you guys for putting these episodes on KZbin
@kzeetha2 жыл бұрын
"Just don't be late for your surprise parr😅🤣🤣🤣
@veeem22302 жыл бұрын
Phindile mazindo is such a gem! Wow so much wisdom👌👌👌😍😍🔥
@haleboneramokoena1542 жыл бұрын
Wow I didn't think that such a simple topic can be so broad, but certainly this was quite a learning curve for me even if I've been married for 20 years to be exact but I've learned. Phindile Mazindo is the best👌👌👏
@joseymoloi71692 жыл бұрын
I used to be open with everything thing to the T, however, when there's misunderstanding he'll use them and my weakness as the weapon. Soooo with time I chose to have boundaries, choose what I tell and not... 🤔
@cecilemuntu54012 жыл бұрын
Same thing with me. And things like this really kills the complicity between couples. Sad reality 😢😞😔😪
@PhindileNdimande2 жыл бұрын
That is the unfortunate thing. We need to learn to be sensitive and safe with our partners vulnerabilities.
@themphasanes2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you choose what you tell and not 💯%👌
@phumieyntoots29403 ай бұрын
Me too… i now keep choose wat to say
@masilelabg8702 жыл бұрын
Very informative. We learn a lot from these episodes. Thank you ❤️💯
@justgugu85222 жыл бұрын
Hai, uPhindile!😳 I could listen to you every time mina sisi.🤲🏽
@mariamashilo84872 жыл бұрын
Very informative conversations 👌
@nthabisengprudence43302 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 mavusana, like the in between like acts.
@heathermbambeni5292 жыл бұрын
You mean"lerelatshepe mazibuko"🤣🤣
@blossom62352 жыл бұрын
secrets in a marriage is a recipe for disaster, it leads to divorce and trust issues.
@PhindileNdimande2 жыл бұрын
That is so true …
@vkmabunda95972 жыл бұрын
Wow all couples/singles need to watch this
@TlangiBaloyi2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this episode. It was very enlightening 🙌🏾✨.
@P-masutha6062 жыл бұрын
Season 2 please 🙏, this show is helpful
@lilykabachia2 жыл бұрын
Such a great topic . Thank you for sharing. 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@moe_ramz2 жыл бұрын
Secrets are bad. Both gentlemen are wrong. Tell your partner.
@PhindileNdimande2 жыл бұрын
So true …
@masegoseroto10192 жыл бұрын
How i sooo love to be on this show
@Lirrah_Lee2 жыл бұрын
Mavusana!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@Noxii_MaNgema2 жыл бұрын
Very informative. ...Asbonge
@PhindileNdimande2 жыл бұрын
Pleasure madam. 🌹
@LethoHali2 жыл бұрын
Yoh! I’ve only just realised I was not subscribed to the channel!
@masegoseroto10192 жыл бұрын
Invite us for relationship after divorce😉
@swazi47692 жыл бұрын
I don't know what to say. Secrets in a marriage is not right, but the truth is we all have secrets. So best way is to create boundaries and expectations. Share material information, you and spouse will decide what's material and what's not. Create a safe space for the both of you to talk about anything and everything. Lastly there is information that will be kept from you, accept that it's not everything that will be shared and appreciate what you've been told. Really I feel policing my spouse on other matters is not my portion, the point is to have a good marriage, not policing each other. We are not in court. I can't expect my husband to tell me secrets between his friends, really now, it's their business. In all honesty, secrets will come out, nothing will stay hideen under the sun, so just manage each other and learn to know when and how to speak, but never think that you'll die with a secret 😂.
@tsakaninkuna492 жыл бұрын
Secrets make a marriage last longer. Ehh!!! I keep secrets from.people because I ha r seen how they handle other people's secrets or their behavior is not one that should know certain parts of mu life. Something's should be know by me n God. I am taking my secrets to the grave. Six feet under.
@calvinmatjiu91782 жыл бұрын
the way to revel the secret is in the bed room guys