Seems like the children were FOLLOWING us | Grocery shop and haul

We get our weekly groceries, on a hot day in the Bay Area. It really did feel like children were directly behind us the entire time, screaming.
PS the buttermilk bars were AWFUL, literally had to spit it out...not sure whats up with those!
Homeless, day in the life , homeless people, Oakland, food, grocery , grocery haul, side hustle, couples, love, california, vlog , mental health
#fyp #foryoupage #explorepage #explorepage #ptsd #mentalhealth #vlog #couple

[@MFF901]

Just buy what you both want, its simple 😊 you are the ones eating it ❤ Have a pleasant day 💕Tfs blessings 🙌

[@jesandjay]

Exactly. Thank you

[@MFF901]

@@jesandjay 👍💖

[@1000shoeswoman]

Small camping stove with gas canister u can use it in the car to makes one pot meal and hot water drinks 💚 22:58

[@IzzyMic70]

You can make egg and potato burritos. Scrambled eggs with fried potatoes and onions. Cheap and delicious goes long way

[@nr1785]

Good idea. The egg and potato burritos sounds nice.

[@valgal72]

Baking in a home with no ac is tough, for sure😓 Love y’all💜🙏

[@DWPersianExcursion]

Even with 😅🥵

[@karenknight9565]

Hi! Thanks for taking us shopping. Always interesting to see what different stores have. Groceries are so expensive now! You two know how to stretch a dollar! 🩷💙

[@jesandjay]

Thanks for watching!

[@chachachubs5600]

Lol Jay: "I'm American"....😂

[@tiffanyshadleyhaulkindagir7378]

I love watching your videos. Sending prayers and hugs. ❤

[@BargainBeautyAmy]

He did the best he could with what he had. Sometimes convience food helps mentally even if it's not healthy. It maybe be comforting for him. You know him I don't but that's seems like it might apply

[@BargainBeautyAmy]

I will come back later and watch the rest

[@Sincerely.Alexandra]

This is a really kind comment.

[@jesandjay]

Exactly. The effect of one’s upbringing , social status, etc can have a huge impact in how you act later in life

[@LoLoLifeinFlorida]

Jay felt that about the gallon of drinks lol😂my childhood too❤

[@jesandjay]

It looks like battery acid or something 😭

[@LoLoLifeinFlorida]

@@jesandjay omg haha my family got it cause it is cheap and about half way down add water to it lol cheaper then koolaid

[@jesandjay]

@@LoLoLifeinFlorida exactly what Jay was saying too, eating crap food as Americans because it’s cheap

[@LoLoLifeinFlorida]

@@jesandjay he's not wrong!

[@EmmaJ716]

I’m so sorry Jesika and Jay that you get so many unkind and hateful comments. No one deserves that. I have mental health struggles and can really relate to you both. I am often quiet like Jay. I’d love to be around someone who can carry the conversation like Jesika. Repetitive noises like the children screaming sometimes gets on my last nerve. Everyone handles things differently. Peace to you both

[@kellijacobs4251]

Hello y'all! God bless love you guys

[@jesandjay]

Hi👋👋💜

[@rejeannagwynn5665]

Need to invest in camp stove so you can eat something besides junk food, when you’re not house sitting.

[@WhateverRandomness]

"It smells medicinal in here" 😂🖤

[@jesandjay]

We use to say that at work as law enforcement😄

[@WhateverRandomness]

@jesandjay I've never heard it said like that, but I'll definitely be saying it like that from now on. Lol

[@jesandjay]

@@WhateverRandomness 😅

[@LoLoLifeinFlorida]

Try making this dessert that Dolly Parton made it's just a cup of flour one can of fruit cocktail with the juice in it and one cup of sugar mix it up and put it in the oven on 350 for like 20-30 minutes I think it's delicious you put a little bit of whipped cream or ice cream on it😊 or I just put butter on it as well

[@jesandjay]

See this sounds like the American eating Jay was talking about 😄

[@LoLoLifeinFlorida]

@@jesandjay he's not wrong lmao 🤣 is a poor people dessert since I grew up poor still poor I loved it. Sometimes you just want something sweet but your broke that little dessert hits

[@meatavoreNana]

Such a big super market😮 ... I'd get lost 😅...Cheers from Hawkes Bay, New Zealand 🇳🇿

[@jesandjay]

I'm used to supermarkets like this and I still get lost- Jay

[@elizabethzabludoff1377]

Keep in mind that sugar and other processed foods affect many mental health issues. Choose wisely.

[@jesandjay]

Yes I’m aware, thank you.

[@alicerice8506]

It’s hard when that kind of food comforts you but it is harmful at the same time.

[@meatavoreNana]

Ooooo. Dont squeeze the avocados 😮😮😮😮😮just gently feel the stalk end ..if it's ready , the remnant of stalk will flick off. When you squeeze them , they bruise to buggery..

[@Judi-lm2fj]

Hope you find another housesit soon.

[@jesandjay]

Hope so too!

[@angelasepi657]

Or both of them get a job. They're basically looking for handouts for how long now? One year?

[@nr1785]

@@angelasepi657they do work. They do cleaning jobs. They also have mental health issues that can be hard on them.

[@notarenee]

‘merica lol Jay

[@tinapeterson2240]

Hi guys! I missed you guys again live. Hope all is ok.

[@DWPersianExcursion]

Hello and love to both of you beauties❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@jesandjay]

Hello 😊

[@DWPersianExcursion]

@@jesandjay 😇🥰

[@erikitalalokita9300]

Wishing you all the best

[@ambergibson1930]

Do they sell half dozen eggs there?? I would buy those...for the mix and the rest i would flip and fry to put on those tortillas ❤!! I keep them just for breakfast things!! Or you said you had bread..french toast with the eggs? Im single so these are just little things i do along the way!!

[@jesandjay]

We don’t eat eggs outside of let’s say a mix like this, so we wouldn’t eat them scrambled,etc and the rest of the eggs would be wasted. Next time we have a long sit maybe well will grab some right away so we can use them in mixes

[@EmmaJ716]

@@jesandjaydepending on what you’re making you can sub a ripe banana or (I prefer) applesauce if you’ll use one of those up before you would the eggs. I like the applesauce in brownie mix.

[@meganjs]

The crab😭😭😭

[@jesandjay]

He sure was crying a lot 😭😄

[@tammyclark8882]

Kudos to JAY for having so much PATIENCE!! If I were homeless and depressed, I definitely could NOT be around JESS. The complaining by itself would drive my ANXIETY. GOD BLESS.

[@DWPersianExcursion]

Hey guess what, you are officially deemed miserable, and you are spreading misery

[@rachelr.n.3563]

I think he's fine! He enjoys being with her!

[@Lisalisag2023]

What complaining?

[@jesandjay]

He loves me 🥰

[@Lisalisag2023]

@@jesandjayI know Jay loves you but you literally did not complain though 😂😂people!!!!!

[@JUStMeKari]

Hi there! I have been wondering how you both are doing. Omg your making me hungry. I just ate Culver's. Please bring me shopping again 🙏. I have been eating avacado in morning with banana 🍌. I half to eat a snack after meal😊

[@Cookie2u6319]

OBSESSED Cookie IS BACK😂 I really do like you guys Vlogs. I apologize if I came across as being a 🤬 I’m really not that person but I do have anxiety and bipolar so maybe that was a bipolar day…sorry 😢 But just remember, all comments are not gonna be kind of. We have a right to our opinions as well. Sometimes I feel like we’re stifled on what we can say because not what you like and then you’re mods come after us or block us or whatever before we even get a chance Thing with the kids in the store yelling maybe it’s a trigger for you. I love Instacart never have the stuff in the store if you don’t want to

[@jesandjay]

There’s only mods in live chat, there’s no mods in comments. You have been incredibly rude in your comments. I appreciate your candor about your mental health struggles but we also have our own, and I’m sure you wouldn’t want someone talking to you the way you have to us.

[@dinacoleman8208]

I meet my husband in prison is that bad

[@lisaruiz6175]

You are like me literally touching everything

[@sissycourmier3100]

yesterday I saw video about Jack Osborn said that he found a silicon blueberry that his daughter almost ate from whole foods store

[@mariakies5564]

Can you get a chicken strips to cook and put the in the tortilla ?

[@jesandjay]

I ended up putting the tortillas back 🫠

[@angelasepi657]

Plan a few meals, go to the store with a list so you don't go and touch every item and put them back. wow.

[@Sincerely.Alexandra]

Summer time…. Kids are out 😂

[@jesandjay]

🥲🥲🥲🥲

[@rachelr.n.3563]

Mine wouldn't be screaming in the grocery store like that

[@KristineS73]

Kids can be behaved in public. I have 3 and have never or would ever allow that. Being crazy at home is one thing but in public absolutely NOT. That was simply unsupervised kids parents didnt give a 💩

[@Lisalisag2023]

No offence but you two are terrible shoppers 🤣🤣🤣 You have so much more choice than in the UK though so get it ❤should add in talking about the indecisiveness 🤣

[@jesandjay]

In our situation we rarely go to the same store so we never know what will be available. It can really mess up any planning and require on the spot decisions -Jay

[@meatavoreNana]

I cook everything in the air fryer..Do you have one at the house sit?

[@jesandjay]

We do not unfortunately-Jay

[@crazyinclarence5531]

I absolutely hate food shopping. That store is huge compared to our supermarkets here where I live. I get so overwhelmed by too many people, too many choices and too much sensory input. I'm literally running out!

[@jesandjay]

I get the same way which is why I usually have headphones on hand and go for the cheapest of whatever I'm looking for -Jay

[@beckymarie4936]

hahaha Jays like I'm american! Im not gonna lie I love chips and cookies!! Those for my kryptonite. I'll be honest I cant stand screaming children. One of the reason I dont want kids. Too stressful. Girl do you know how to make tamales homeade? I want to learn! I love them! Guys have you tried little debbie Honey Buns? They are soooo stinkin good!! hahaha girl I started laughing when I saw the camera and the person in the corner. What the heck? haha I love iced coffee. Never tried that stok brand. I love Pickles.I love those Monteray green chili chimichangas with cheese and guac on top!

[@jesandjay]

Pro rip for the honey buns: put the in the microwave for 5 seconds and serve with a cold glass of thick chocolate milk. Your welcome-Jay

[@beckymarie4936]

@@jesandjay heck yea!!!!!!! They have a video on youtube on how honey buns are made YUM!!

[@terriny1040]

Jesika.. if your both disabled are you not both entitled to SSI? Have you both applied? No judgment just wondering 💗

[@jesandjay]

Jay receives disability

[@terriny1040]

@@jesandjay If you have ptsd you are not eligible?

[@nancywright1771]

@@terriny1040 yes you are, My daughter gets it for ptsd.

[@terriny1040]

@@nancywright1771 Then jesika should apply, might help get them on their feet again?

[@bedahuizar1678]

omg ive been looking for those bttermilk bars for ever you are soppusedto warm them up for 15 seconds in the microwave deliciouse what store did you find thrm at

[@jesandjay]

I believe this store is like an off shoot of Kroger so if you have one or similar near by try it. -Jay

[@alicerice8506]

About the pickles. Everyone likes what they like. I’m the weirdo that doesn’t like garlic. 😊

[@jesandjay]

😦 garlic 🧄 🤤

[@1420nicole1420]

I had to sop watching after the donut holes,you have no clue or desire to take care of your mental health

[@jesandjay]

I don't remember donut holes causing depression.-Jay

[@CowMoobaby]

@@jesandjay I was about to say I'm bipolar and have personality disorders and I never knew any donuts that have made my disability worse😂😂

[@1420nicole1420]

Any person knows or should know living on junk does not help your brain function properly,just watch a child on nothing but junk and you will see.

[@joboh3]

@@1420nicole1420I guess we need to tell the MDs, psychiatrist’s & pharmaceutical companies they are not needed since all we have to do is not eat junk & our mental illnesses are cured! Do you hear yourself??? Straight ignorance!

[@1420nicole1420]

Pointless as I said not interested in one’s health.being in the health industry,especially with bi bipolar,diet and sugar is not good for your brain and mood swings.just trying to be helpful

[@1420nicole1420]

Fruit vegetables,protein.

[@jesandjay]

Expires fast for the price-Jay

[@angelasepi657]

I agree

[@PrettiPetty24]

Kids are annoying lol I have one but she’s 18 now. I couldn’t imagine starting all over again

[@jesandjay]

We definitely are not kid people but you know what, kids sense this and tend to really like us 😄. Like when you ignore a cat

[@meatavoreNana]

I'm raising grandkids and love it when they have gone to school for the day..The 15 year old tells me this morning that the school holidays start in 2 weeks😮😮

[@x_stacy79]

Yay, I'm first!!!! 😊

[@jesandjay]

🎉 💜

[@sherryl1275]

Maybe some sorta meat an potatoes with veggie...with ine treat for later...idk...everyone should have 1 aquare meal a day.❤

[@notarenee]

Just started the video but have to admit kids scare me.

[@DWPersianExcursion]

It gets worse, i wanna screammm also

[@jesandjay]

I’m sorry lol!!!

[@Linda-in9ns]

👋🤗

[@jesandjay]

💜👋

[@MariaJJ-gw6yr]

Poor pickles 😂

[@jesandjay]

Thay are the bane of life and shouldn't exist let alone be eaten -Jay

[@PandaHead602]

American still eat real eggs real meat and grains toast even America. Breakfast is really good .

[@jesandjay]

Yes, we know what Americans eat, as we are indeed Americans 😁

[@meatavoreNana]

Meat and eggs is all I eat 😂 I'm a Kiwi carnivore 😊

[@angelasepi657]

I agree. Have some protein with each meal at least.

[@1420nicole1420]

What’s jay going to eat?

[@1420nicole1420]

Oh poor jay no cornbread,buy another donut thing

[@FURYWORLDx]

💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@jesandjay]

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@captainpugwash7174]

America has so much bad food. I hope you find a home soon.

[@jesandjay]

Yes especially in lower income neighborhood grocery stores like this one. “ affordable” food is usually crap

[@angelasepi657]

You have to be willing to cook. You don't have to choose processed foods. That will stretch your money for groceries.

[@adrianbatey3357]

That pleather sticking to vanity Smurfs skin ain't it

[@jesandjay]

Lol that's actually actually a good one -Jay

[@nancywright1771]

That can't be the only Store in that town, try a different Store

[@jesandjay]

This is the closest store ? What’s wrong with this store?

[@TriggeredAndy]

Doesn’t CA offer cash benefits & food stamps?

[@jesandjay]

We rely 100% on CalFresh ( food stamps) for our groceries at this time.

[@PandaHead602]

Like taking a real child . To store and he wanna pick only snacks and junk

[@notarenee]

Reminds me of my old roommate. Only time he ate real food is if I did the cooking 😐

[@jesandjay]

He grew up in extreme poverty and an unstable household, and still reacts as such. Dont be so judgmental

[@yadrey4761]

​@@jesandjay😂😂 jes I like you and everything but YOU yourself were judging him 😂 criticizing his choices ... I can see why jay stays quiet

[@jesandjay]

@@yadrey4761 the original poster of this comment has been posting BS on our videos for days. I’m asking HER not to be so rude and judgmental, as she is literally a stranger online and doesn’t personally know either of us. And I say the same to you- I appreciate your support but to say “ you see why Jay stays quiet “ as though I’m causing his mental illness -that’s he’s had since he was born-is messed up. You don’t know Jay, or me, or our struggles and the love we have for each other.

[@tinapeterson2240]

@@Paola11852she does not! Why are you even following Jesica and Jay if you’re going to be negative? They have been through enough and don’t need your rudeness and judgment!

[@dinacoleman8208]

J is cool 😊

[@jesandjay]

He is! 😄

[@dinacoleman8208]

@@jesandjay don't worry about what people think 🤔 u two love ❤ each other that's all matters

[@marygambrell8238]

So far, only junk food and processed food! Moreover, why would you ask Jay if he wanted pickles when you know that he dislike them.

[@jesandjay]

I’m sorry you can’t process the concept of sarcasm

[@ambergibson1930]

@@jesandjay 🌻

[@youhdumbasf5862]

​@@jesandjay 😂 there's always one that can't quite get it

[@marygambrell8238]

@@jesandjay I can now , thanks to you!!!

[@marygambrell8238]

@@youhdumbasf5862 I guess you get everything, POS!

[@dinacoleman8208]

U guys hang in there

[@jesandjay]

Thank you

[@joboh3]

I always love your videos!

[@jesandjay]

Thank you

[@minnietaylor4495]

Do you have a PO Box numbers

[@jesandjay]

We do

[@lorigunn7816]

haha he's right - it is american

[@juliamadison5701]

I’m sorry but Jay need to eat a little bit more.

[@angelasepi657]

Title should be Junk Food Shopping. Its not food, its not a haul.