Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Lyrics)

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LYRICS
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus
Cause it wasn’t yours
I saw the signs and I ignored it
Rose colored glasses all distorted
You set fire to my purpose
And I let it burn
You got off on the hurtin’
When it wasn’t yours
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
I gave my all and they all know it
You tore me down and now it’s showing
In two months you replaced us
Like it was easy
Made me think I deserved it
In the thick of healing
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus-
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
And now the chapter is closed and done
And now it’s goodbye
It’s goodbye for us
Music video by Selena Gomez performing Lose You To Love Me (Official Lyrics). © 2020 Interscope Records
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[@farihamehrin1832]

"And now the chapter is closed and done" this line hurts like hell Love the song

[@itsVICT0RIAM]

"Its goodbye for us.." 😭😭

[@morningglory.213]

fariha mehrin but it's beautiful too ❤️ as when one thing ends, new begins :) stat happy ❤️✨ i can relate so much as i did close a chapter with a toxic guy but now i will meet a nice guy who genuinely loves me and i will get a new and healthy relationship ❤️✨

[@farihamehrin1832]

@@morningglory.213 you will 😊

[@celeste9473]

Precious Bitch I needed to hear this. Selenators always have the most healing words.

[@morningglory.213]

Thanks yall are so appreciating 😘❤️✨

[@SarahE-io3eh]

This song is so deep. Selena is a lengend.

[@anandvalsarajan9368]

*legend😌

[@queenv4340]

She is

[@Billionairebabi]

She should’ve made more songs like this for her album :( this style suits her voice well

[@ciromoralesaguilar9062]

X2

[@edson152]

Crowded Room fits her Voice so beautifully

[@robertrodriguez3163]

So true. This is the best song on the album. She should have made more like this.

[@pettynicolee2992]

Yes like this is really my favorite song on the album. Yikes. 😢

[@vi-hq2eg]

Try VULNERABLE!

[@khadijahmachdar2855]

I cried so much because i've been cheated, treated like a fool by my students and being dissapointed by many people, but i slowly regain strength listening this song.. Selena, thank you for this beautiful and powerful song, i hope you will have a good life ahead with someone deserves you

[@aprendemodadigital]

Girl, I don't know you but I feel what you wrote, I have been through the same. I hope you are doing great and you have found people that deserve your love. I wish I could hug you, but I send you love from distance.

[@khadijahmachdar2855]

@@aprendemodadigital thank you so much💙💙💙

[@ldcldc3803]

"And now, the chapter is closed and done"

[@mariacamilamurillosandoval9377]

🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@teojine]

LDC LDC yeah🥺

[@rafaelabueno8242]

😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@lukaveselinovic]

@@rafaelabueno8242 IN MEMORIAM Charlie Harper 2014-2021/22

[@ben8464]

That line chokes me up all the time because it reminds me of the best year of my life and I didn’t want it to end

[@ameliam5066]

“.. And now it’s goodbye, it’s goodbye for us.” That is the goddamn line that makes this song. The finality of it. OH. MY GODDAMN HEART.

[@PrincessTatyanna]

Don’t say God’s name in vain

[@samuel_is_awesome]

The last 3 notes after that line make me cry all the time

[@mysterypotatocat]

The last 3 notes killed me 💔

[@rosalyarroyo5901]

This song just always hits different every time ya hear it 🤝

[@ovok10]

Yes

[@robertelder7014]

Yes it does🙂

[@colorspun4780]

Love this song

[@salmashaheen2267]

I dont understand why people dislikes this masterpiece

[@kursadtopdemir3150]

Justin fans

[@shatakshisingh5820]

STUPID

[@alexterr8562]

Cuz they're tasteless!

[@fatoom645]

Haters

[@annechrystelleetemengono1858]

So ppl dislike this song ?

[@novasters]

“I needed to hate you to love me” I’m not in a relationship, but I somehow interpret this song as more of a toxic friendship. I feel like I’ve gotten into one and every time she says something about me I feel like I hate myself as I hate letting other people down. I had to silently push her away so that I could love myself.

[@tothelostsheepofjacob5787]

Ensure you put balance and self care first, you can't fix toxicity once you've shown love, you've done your best. Tell guilt I'm not accountable for another person's actions when ive tried my best in all sincerity.

[@rowenaacraman5198]

I'm currently doing the same, my behaviour and mood has changed drastically. My emotional health has improved and I am glad.

[@indirasolis1891]

same. just got out of a online toxic friendship and i feel better. i always try to give them advice and when i told them how i really felt about their attitudes, they took it seriously and called me names. they knew that i was grieving over my mom dying last month and what they said made me hurt even more. I'm done putting other people before me. from now on, i'll focus on myself.

[@tumiethedi6397]

*• Uni • Teaa •* Stay strong don’t let anyone tear you down, I’m sure you have really supportive people with you. Don’t let anyone hurt you

[@qandeelfatima3236]

I went through exact same thing with my male best friend and I also silently pushed him away

[@Emmanueldm]

This song is healing not only for her, but for the ones who had a broken heart, and took us some time to heal at all. I love her so much, she's so brave.

[@exa1268]

Who else is listening in order now thats its finally been released?

[@rosaperez7431]

Mee

[@nandiniborade8839]

Meeee

[@neemo9885]

yes and i like the singles more now with all the context

[@JLM498]

E x a 👋🏻

[@wallsbrina]

Meeeeee.. This is the final song❤

[@keechikeechijahan6719]

Most heart breaking line is In two months you replaced us.....

[@nevaehcobarrubia9798]

bro let me tell you, I FELT THAT

[@preetiyadav2495]

You are right

[@shatakshisingh5820]

Keechi keechi jahan In two months your replaced us Like it was easy This is more hitting

[@user-mr9ix7jx1m]

true.

[@melissavoon1193]

Yes... Same....

[@Jolenetonkin888]

Such a song full of acceptance, healing, self love and reflection

[@soniajayson2185]

Whoever is reading this and relating to this song, I pray and hope that your happiness is coming soon. ❤️

[@jhopeschickennoodlesoup6237]

Thanks and I hope the same for you❤️

[@OliverGemmecker]

When Selena said : You promised the world and I feel for it :( I felt that

[@nyttag1840]

I was there when he promised but couldn't keep the promise he is way bad to love

[@amishaaman9273]

"In two months you replaced us" this line hurts..😟

[@moonundernostalgia]

True

[@reinamber277]

Sooo deep and hurts

[@sanchitakale6477]

yeah really :[

[@zinniatuli3146]

He did

[@ja8243]

After years of waiting she didn't disappoint so proud to see our Queen back.

[@arielmarie8493]

" In two months you replaced us like it was easy made me think I deserved it in the thick of healing " 😭❤❤❤

[@santreeago]

Selena! Your song has helped me so much..Thank you for putting your experience and emotions into this amazing work of art. The words were not only felt by so many, but also taken as a great heads up about better days to come. I ♥️ you so much!

[@fee-gz5dv]

this is touchy at any age, at any time, at any place.

[@majgm2880]

I think it was the saddest song on the album, I love it, you're a very strong girl ❤️

[@queend6111]

This is the best song of her album Who agree?

[@Jxdey]

Iconic!! Forever will be an anthem of self love!

[@sapphiresupernova]

I've been emotionally abused before too and I know all too well how hard it is to heal and get stronger again. It's taken me about a year or so but now I can look back on last year and see how much better off I am now and know that that wasn't the kind of relationship I was meant for. Even if I wind up not having a relationship again I would at least know it wasn't with a manipulative narcissist who gaslit me at every turn.

[@SophiaBrooke777]

Same I relate to every word you said

[@xsedrah]

*pretends that this is my first time listening to this song*

[@didisnoodle]

ME

[@maskeddog8754]

@@didisnoodle ME-HEE-HEE!

[@finleysade8260]

“I needed to lose you to love me” Selena speaks to all of us hurting souls right now

[@FoolishMark90]

This song has a deeper meaning to me personally. I was in rehab for 5 months and would hear this on the radio and it fit for my situation, listening to the lyrics this was my song for my addictions. I had to go through the things I did to reach the place I am now and I didn't see it until now. I went from hating myself and wanting to die to actually loving myself and loving life. 12 years down the drain but I am thankful for every step I took and the struggle I have over came. Just thought I'd leave that here :) To anyone out there struggling with addiction or mental issues, please go get help and learn to love yourself. Things will get better!

[@eridel414]

Hope you are still doing well bro

[@verses_verdicts09]

This song healed me truly as a person during difficult times of my life

[@lilthann7512]

This song is so relatable in real life. Nah I am not talking about gfs and bfs but your friends. Sometimes we need to avoid and leave some people to love and believe ourselves.

[@LadyPantheressX0X0]

You can really hear the pain in her voice.This song deserves so much more recognition.I lOVE YOU SELENA!!!!!!

[@camiku.]

Es hermoso escucharla y pensar profundamente en su letra. Revivir todas esas experiencias que has pasado y decir en voz alta: "Necesitaba dejarte ir para amarme".

[@IamGaby]

I never took Selena Gomez seriously til this song. This song gave me prospective on my own pain. It gave me the closure he never gave me

[@mariateresatassone]

"And know the chapter is closed and done. And now it's goodbye it's goodbye for us" * cries in jelena *

[@lights-camera-action42]

speechless...........................its a work of art because it just exemplifies sooooo much depth and care, its a lot but you just do it which is why your music is so vivid and beautiful

[@felicityriego7101]

That "I needed to hate you to love me.. " My interpretation is, when you are too much in love with the person you lose yourself in the process and forgot your self-worth but you cant unloved that person so you resort on hating him/her just to go back to your old self.

[@nainasharma9943]

True enough

[@aufanurfajrina9683]

"I Needed To Hate You To Love Me" for me this lyrics has a very deep meaning, i love it 🖤💓

[@streamLalisamilliominhours]

Popular opinion: this is one of Selena’s best songs

[@SayaniMitraThakur]

The meanings of this lyrics are so deep and hitting hard. Selena writes songs with all her heart 😌and we can feel it.💗

[@kat499]

Selena is awesome....beautiful voice and lyrics. I adore her! Justin never deserved her anyway.

[@keepingupwithkaiaworldwide]

Heard this song for the 1000th time today ... Still got me emotional 🙌🏼

[@seelfxx]

One of her best songs ever❤️

[@dariaste5549]

This song is like a soft, fluffy cloud that I could drown in forever

[@nsb__nsb__461]

She loved him, More than he did. Poor Selena🥺I wish she’ll find someone who worth her 💕

[@hetaldave176]

@C RD she didn't even care about him

[@jacobustitus2953]

Hi my name is Eemaan I Love your song

[@woofdes1414]

1:32 Dang.... I felt that pain in her voice. Wish I could give her a hug.

[@afsanaalmas9405]

*I can't stop listening Queen* 😍👑

[@lizzieisweird12]

This song will forever be the best thing I've ever heard Thank you for being brave enough to release this, it's helped so many ❤❤

[@DaianeRosses]

This song is a masterpiece ❤️

[@Danissco]

Selena is genuinely helping me heal from heartbreak. Doubt the nepo babies could do this for me the same smh I am so grateful that you have this reach. Thank you Selena💚

[@ktineamago1077]

Selena "the baby whisperer"" tried playing this to my 8month old baby girl and she just listening n stop moving..amazing lady

[@oliviacastro4978]

Nunca vou me cansar dessa perfeição. Essa música é muito boa, Selena é incrível

[@lukaveselinovic]

Coming Soon Read The Clock 8:00 PM And 8:30 PM Including 20 Different Tracks For The Music 2019 & 2020

[@yessicaamell4142]

Estoy llorando, eres la mejor.🥺♥️🇲🇽

[@israelflores4716]

YO también estoy llorando 💚💚

[@mariacamilamurillosandoval9377]

@@ale-eu6gl x3 🥺

[@paulaandrea107]

X4💗

[@rishitasharma1370]

I actually can feel the pain in her voice.. And finally she relase EVERYTHING in a song.. Selena is just a legend man❤️❤️

[@archikasood3290]

She didn't lose justin. Justin lost her !

[@sonvu4467]

Justin didn't deserve her like at all

[@kbowlesx7842]

Lmao justin is married he doesn't even care about her

[@archikasood3290]

@@kbowlesx7842 Lol n who told u selena care about him imao

[@jhopeschickennoodlesoup6237]

@@kbowlesx7842 Selena doesn't care either. Didn't you hear and see the lyrics properly?

[@sksksk3143]

He's such a jerk to let go of Selena she's an angel, I mean c'mon

[@v.h2755]

I wish Selena's life was as perfect, as she herself --no time,

[@ainatiyaazmi7435]

like we didn't already memorise this song

[@danilodemedeirosdantaspire9695]

If I already know all the lyrics of this song? YESSSS! But I'll watch anyway because I love Selena Gomez.

[@kiara3896]

Waited for this for so long i am so happy she is finally back! I loved her since i was a little girl, i am so proud of her!! ❤👑.

[@azezawerfalli9168]

no she was so right, this song is genuinely her best song. I love it sm

[@hannanabdurahman1907]

“IN TWO MONTHS YOU REPLACED US” I felt that

[@raaziaisaac2798]

What amazing talent, singing, dancing, acting, producing movies. She is shining.

[@SandeepYadav-mh4eh]

those lyrics grl lov ya like anything

[@davidtuiulupona854]

😢she's always hitting that note which always made her sound like an angel..... And it took me this long to realize that she really is "THE" angel🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️

[@iamleorowan]

the fact this was not nominated for a grammy i-

[@İperetty6]

Morning, noon, afternoon, evening, night, dawn, I always listen to this masterpiece

[@emanaslam1030]

She is so brave She is inspiration of so many People. keep it up!

[@jenny_mm]

0:30 - I saw the signs and I ignored it. 0:37 - you set to my purpose and I let it burn. 0:42 - You got off on the hurtin' 1:02 - I needed to hate you to love me. 1:25 - I gave my all and they all knew it. 1:30 - You tore me down and now it's showing. 1:32 - In two months you replaced us. Like it was easy. 1:37 - Made me think I deserved this. 🥺 3:03 - And now the chapter is closed and done. 3:14 - And now it's goodbye. It's good bye for us. I REALLY FELT FOR THESE LINES. SELENA DESERVES MUCH MUCH BETTER THAN WHAT SHE HAD. SHE WILL TRULY FLOURISH AND WILL SHOW TO WORLD THAT NOBODY CAN TEAR OR HURT HER.🤍🤍 AND OF COURSE SHE DOESN'T DESERVE THIS. ✨✨✨ SHE WILL GET SOMEONE WHO WILL REALLY CHERISH HER AND WILL LOVE HER TILL THE END. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@tiffanymharris2986]

I love this song. It reminds of relationships or friendships when I struggle to find happiness and freedom to make a new chapter.

[@antonia8782]

“I needed to lose you to love me I gave my all and they all know it Then you tore me down and now it's showing” 😭😭🔥❤️

[@s_ang4445]

Others songs are great but this one really tears me up 😍😍😭😭🤧🤧

[@rashi2479]

"In the two months you replaced us " Literally I had tears in my eyes!! Selena deserves the best!! ❤❤

[@moses4246]

This album is amazing wow 😭😭

[@girlzet2665]

The ammount of emotions in her voice in this song , I just can’t, I’m crying no cap 🥺

[@karynapichiya9524]

¡To love, to love Yeah! Linda canción, Quién la sigue escuchando en Enero ?? 👍😊 🇬🇹 Sos Única Selena!🇬🇹

[@SunnyVibes-s2l]

This is what I needed. Thank you Selena. Sometimes you just have to feel the pain or sorrow.

[@juliapacheco691]

"And now the chapter is closed and done..." Simple 🥺🙏🏼

[@mattrempel5593]

This is definitely the best song of the album. It's the most emotional and I just like songs better with piano.

[@robinsanders8091]

This is her best vocal performance. I love this song

[@pamwilleford2076]

SO TRUE🌹

[@kadd9645]

I cry everytime I hear this like she's so inspireing. I love you selena😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@Mohammed-95]

(RARE album)is the most beautiful thing that happened in 2020 ,thanx our selena❤

[@rangelbby8862]

IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!😍😍😍🥺🥺🥺

[@queenv4340]

She's a legend fr

[@starlight773]

This is my first time I decide to listen to her songs and I think she's very good. I really like the meaning and I think I'll wither about her

[@AllYellowJoshua]

I can only imagine the first time she wrote it "and now it's goodbye for us." 😭😭😭

[@Surrruu]

Losing someone doesn’t Value YOU is not a Loss.... it’s a GAIN for YOU...❤️

[@vinebona]

very true 👏

[@sophiavaldiviesp2214]

Every each line of this song is so true, I can't believe how it defines to perfection how much damaged you can result when a person don't love you back or only you are doing and giving all in the relationship. Beautiful, I can't say anything else✨✨✨✨🤌

[@karlasalazar3915]

Like si la escuchas de nuevo así ya la hallas escuchado mil veces

[@luisamaria03]

@@laliamistancamilo8183 la he escuchado mil veces y la. Amo ella es la mejor 😍❤

[@isabellableu97]

Here, 2/24Love, You Selena🌬️💙

[@pinkpanther1469]

I still love this song. It makes me sad that selena has been through this kind of hearbreak. But look at her now! She happily free and independent

[@animetigerz1103]

This is my favorite song of the entire album, hell maybe of all time it fits Selena so well . her voice is so smooth an calming.

[@jr.pentertainment]

For you we want to stop but we can't stop us to love you. this like living hell for us, love you Selena forever ever an ever

[@gamer_girl99_]

I love her ballads

[@somya2778]

The bestest song ever!!!💕💥

[@septemberrainfall7572]

Her voice is really perfect for this style.Love you always sel

[@yuly8536]

Una de mis favoritas definitivamente 🤷‍♀️♥️

[@Heen-g3v]

The duration of this song is short. But look, loneliness is long. You will never leave my dreams and dreams, Strong Selena! ((

[@venicegasoline6499]

' i needed to hate you to love me, ya' love this song

[@starswiffd7639]

"And now the chapter is closed and done" "And now its Goodbye for us" these lines just go really deep and sad and hurt a lot

[@cris-bella8028]

Like si amas todas las canciones de sele

[@kandangdeal6399]

thanks for the song, that story hits me with my past selena spirit