selena gomez - lose you to love me (slowed + reverb)

[@kaycie1801]

I’m here crying about a breakup that has never happened to me.

[@David.15_]

Kaycie meee

[@cheesefloss1662]

Vea Pfirter That might be true but for some reason I still want someone so that I will know that someone is able to love someone like me.

[@cheesefloss1662]

(if that makes sense)

[@cherylcoomes6739]

Same

[@ayo6868]

Me to sis🥺. Try your bet to stay happy no matter what ever happens,🥺❤️

[@fritzpacifico6652]

*cries in slowed n reverb*

[@user-xn1cx6de3r]

*m o o d*

[@wabi-sabi5621]

I wanted to be sad but this comment made me laugh

[@Maria-ne7cn]

I'm sad laughing I don't know how but it somehow happened

[@toxic_kicks3488]

M 0 0 d

[@vanessataleon9361]

HAHSHSHS POTANGINA

[@gabypaz2796]

"I saw the signs and I ignored it.." wow.. so deep, wtf..

[@Mahaabaalkhail]

Lmaooo

[@peanut.buhtur]

i literally saw this comment right when she said it HAHSHSA

[@anaisjoyeux4968]

@@peanut.buhtur me too

[@gianaross249]

@cherryeong same

[@lovelyme9577]

@@peanut.buhtur same

[@arizexas]

“in two months, you replaced us...” :(

[@almalezcanofernandez8863]

Como se llama el anime que muestra??

[@arizexas]

alma lezcano fernandez evangelion

[@kittensmom100]

Replaced you before you even broke up.

[@alexamorenogonzalez6181]

Mine took a day to do that... Nice to know she was always there...

[@Sara-xn4em]

Alexa Moreno u know u deserve better

[@charly333go]

It really hurts when you're that cold type of person who doesn't like to open up their heart. But when you do, you become the most vulnerable person in the world and everything hurts a thousand times more.

[@Krunch13]

I felt that. ouch.

[@Skinny_Virgo]

you don't have to attack me like that!!!

[@beeahofficial]

Mhm

[@ZoZyMisenheimer]

So baddielicous

[@josehernvndez387]

This hits differently 😓🎶

[@SoetkinVerschueren]

I felt that to...please be my friend 🥺

[@thyyyphammm]

Frrrr

[@esmeerekers5524]

Frrrr

[@idk-qe1us]

fr tho 😢

[@gerbiei.1370]

i came here to hurt myself, but i couldn't feel anymore. once i thought it was a gift not to be able to feel pain or hurt, but right now i would give everything i have just to get my senses back, to be able to feel a sliver of emotion, even if it means getting hurt again

[@dohugsnotdrugs1039]

That's a really dangerous way of thinking, if you want someone to talk to add me on snap @Marchtwentith I'm here for you

[@kyra1398]

I relate to this so much I can't even describe it. I'm so numb and I wish that I could lie awake and just cry but I don't have the ability anymore

[@chloemichalak1491]

Me too

[@kenia5289]

I used to be like that for so long and I promise it gets better.

[@cheesefloss1662]

Lia N but what if it doesn’t?

[@vionheron]

To him, freedom was greater than love. She hated that. Because she had always thought that love was freedom.

[@bomiae]

omg im cryingg

[@coconoot_]

This is so depressing wtf

[@mongom2952]

Where is this from??

[@jalkrutimehta5945]

So true

[@greenmidnightbastard8908]

Why ithis reminds me of aot? Eren... Crying rn

[@erinnewall2412]

“i saw the signs and i ignored it” literally how i feel in my relationship 😔

[@sofiajamal2918]

Me too😔

[@sofialaura5219]

then stop ignoring it.

[@tzi3692]

@@sofialaura5219 it's not always easy. For example I tend to overthink all the time and 1 million scenarios can go through my mind about it so it's not that easy

[@fiarydeath]

Sending you a hug. Be safe, strong, and hopefully you find your happiness. 💜 here for you

[@athaliasequeira4709]

Same I never thought anyone else would ever relate

[@AgeOfAtheer]

The scene + the song = meltdown

[@bassunderscoreharmonic6689]

what scene?

[@AgeOfAtheer]

The scene in the video from The End of Evangelion

[@ws16-19]

Shinji had to lose Kaoru to love himself.

[@mariamfayed4740]

I needed to hate you to love me....

[@kiraanastacio3506]

“i needed to lose you to find me” 💔

[@puspamishra5019]

❤️‍🩹

[@dohugsnotdrugs1039]

"made me think I deserved it"

[@weirdnightmares9873]

I came to your comment at the same time she said it

[@thewaylifegoeslol]

:(

[@gothcheese]

My ex raped me and now all I can think is that I lead him on... my god I hate boys

[@peanut.buhtur]

@@gothcheese oh my goodness god wtf r u ok? no that’s a dumb question i’m so dumbfounded right now. i hope ur ok. u deserve so much better baby cakes. i love u. ur so strong. nothing was ur fault. and i’m proud of u for making it this far.❤️ i. am. proud. of. u.

[@jamboi6349]

Lyrics You promised the world and I fell for it I put you first and you adored it Set fires to my forest And you let it burn Sang off key in my chorus 'Cause it wasn't yours I saw the signs and I ignored it Rose colored glasses all distorted Set fire to my purpose And I let it burn You got off on the hurtin' When it wasn't yours, yeah We'd always go into it blindly I needed to lose you to find me This dance, it was killing me softly I needed to hate you to love me, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to lose you to love me, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to lose you to love me I gave my all and they all know it Then you tore me down and now it's showing In two months, you replaced us Like it was easy Made me think I deserved it In the thick of healing, yeah We'd always go into it blindly I needed to lose you to find me This dance, it was killing me softly I needed to hate you to love me, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to lose you to love me, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to lose you to love me You promised the world and I fell for it I put you first and you adored it Set fires to my forest And you let it burn Sang off key in my chorus To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to hate you to love me, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to lose you to love me To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah And now the chapter is closed and done To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us

[@vincentedits8597]

MY GOD

[@l0v3lyangy]

Thank you

[@aaronobrien2233]

This is a beautiful and slowed it’s just wow gives chills

[@saltsoakedpart]

𝓎ℴ𝓊 𝓅𝓇ℴ𝓂𝒾𝓈ℯ𝒹 𝓉𝒽ℯ 𝓌ℴ𝓇𝓁𝒹 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝒾 𝒻ℯ𝓁𝓁 𝒻ℴ𝓇 𝒾𝓉

[@izzy_vp1515]

This lovely boi is from the anime neon evangelion genesis he suffered from depression throughout the show I guess he took it out on controlling a war machine thingy killing monsters.

[@alinap4465]

so cultured

[@multi-millionp7107]

shinji, my baby, was forced into something much bigger than him when he just wanted to see his father... he even killed the one and only love in his life Koawru...

[@isimp9231]

@@multi-millionp7107 kaworu is my child 😭

[@firdosinizam3443]

Multi-Million :p *SPOILERS* shit dude in the end of Evangelion when they reunite for a minute the happiness in Shinji’s eyes fucking broke me wth

[@peniteciagite1]

TYSFM I WAS NEEDING THE NAME OF THE ANIME

[@kxy.mxrieee8461]

This was my breakup song when he broke me. He completely shattered me, and he didn't even care. He broke me so much to where I almost had to go to the mental hospital and I couldn't sleep in my own room cause I didn't trust myself to be alone. I almost attempted 3 times while I was alone. Worst pain of my life. To anyone who is going through the same thing, it does get better. It may not be today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, but it will get better. Pick up the pieces they broke off of you bb. You are SOOOO much stronger than you think. You have to let them go though, and do not, and I repeat DO NOT go back to them. Cause if they hurt you once, there's a good chance they'll hurt you the same way if not more. You cry okay? Cry all you need to, and do what you have to do (that does not involve self harm). But, don't you dare stay there too long. Don't let them win. You will come out of this. Don't let them break you down that much. Just know that you are an AMAZING human being, and there IS definitely way more people out there. Don't look for them, let them look for you. Keep your head up, and if no one has said this to you today. You are AMAZING, you are WORTH every breath, I LOVE YOU, and I hope you had an AMAZING day, and if not, there's always tomorrow. Head up king/queen. You will make it. Everything will be okay in the end, if it's not okay, it's not the end.

[@llt_8515]

😭💖

[@athenakeziah5195]

It's so hard to eat and sleep, really lost my will to live.

[@kxy.mxrieee8461]

@@athenakeziah5195 i know its hard. its been 8 months now and im still healing from him breaking me. but. im almost completely healed, the sun shines brighter, the days are completely bearable, and im in love again. finally. you may not heal completely for a very long time. you may not be okay ever again. but one day. the sun will shine brighter, the days will be bearable, and you will fall in love again. you just have to trust the process. and believe itll happen again. its been 8 months, i dont even remember his middle or last name anymore. hes irrelevant. hes gone for good. i havent seen or heard from him in over 3 months. he was reaching out. he was trying to come back in my life but i didnt let him. and now i am a better person and will always be a better person. cause i experienced pain. i experienced loss. and i couldnt be any more confident and powerful now. he lost someone good bc he was too dumb. too blind. and now hes stuck crying over me bc i wont acknowledge his existence anymore. itll happen. you just have to be patient. and you have to believe. i promise bby. dont give up.

[@athenakeziah5195]

@@kxy.mxrieee8461 omg, thank you. I needed this. Thanks for reminding me to trust the process. Everything will be okay soon. It hurts so much bc he got back with his ex. I never realized what we had was a borrowed time. We were together for 2 years but in the end, he came back to where he belonged. I guess I wasn't really his home. I'm in the process of finding my self-worth again. Someday, I will be happy again :)

[@ghozziaines3656]

I loved every word you said to where I cried you're so emotional and strong at the same time ! Keep going I wish I could have the same strength you had ❤

[@sabihak9730]

this dancing is killing me softly

[@AllYellowJoshua]

Sbh // 😭😭😭

[@sabihak9730]

@@AllYellowJoshua holy fuck it's been 3 months and it's still killing me

[@sabihak9730]

it's been 6 months. it's not killing me anymore. i am finally clean. :)

[@auroralmao34]

@@sabihak9730 hope your doing well now :)

[@AllYellowJoshua]

This is the most beautiful song Selena has ever done ! Thank youuu 🙏💛 Sel, love will come to you I promise 💛😊😭

[@adelynmccandless8940]

i always hated this song until i realized i hated myself because of him. i needed to hate him to love me.

[@paigechew9696]

he made you feel bad things nobody wants to feel :) if you ever see him in person again rub in his face what he is missing out on :)

[@hobi5959]

i just realized why i hate it now because of your comment i- 🥺😭

[@probblob3644]

me too. and that’s okay. self love is the most important. focus on you boo❤️

[@moustafadakroub4717]

my boyfriend just cheated , he still managed to get an F on that exam.

[@moonie9024]

i-

[@podgie__]

he gets an F in the chat as well

[@shinyfroggo]

you had us in the first half ngl

[@yazkji]

XD

[@aubrielizaa]

gurl i-💀

[@mengasyiqkan]

shinji crying hits harder then the song ngl

[@spaceranger]

What is the name of that anime?

[@mengasyiqkan]

@@spaceranger its neon genesis evangelion and im surprised you dont know

[@spaceranger]

@@mengasyiqkan Thanks! I've actually seen a couple of episodes, don't know why I couldn't remember.

[@alinap4465]

@@mengasyiqkan i watched it yet i was so confused at the end. anyway, this song brings me to my feels

[@weffle2449]

They hold you in the middle of the dance floor, whispering threats into your ear. They buy you gifts, but the moment you show a hint of ‘ingratitude’ they turn on you. If you ever disagree with them, they wait until the party’s over to strike you. To others, they look like delectable wine. *To you, they look like poison.*

[@sarah-lk5ce]

damn :(

[@motionlessen_blanc02]

That's some toxic shit you got there.

[@princesstyana4864]

I put you first and you adored it 🤕

[@Mindyouownbussiness]

You promises the world and i fell for it....😢

[@Sage0013]

This... hits the spot... 😞🥺

[@lynn717]

"made me think i deserved it" ... damn

[@Beautyglamour161]

this is beautiful

[@allisonnewsome934]

“In two months you replaced us, like it was easy, made me think I deserved it” hits hard 🥺😔

[@noelani_hh]

it doessss and i love your pfp

[@yumennie8831]

the guy in the pic looks lovely 🥺💕💕

[@gabrielfagundes4842]

I never get tired, this song is perfect

[@rajarshi1432]

When he said "it's goodbye, goodbye for us" I just-closed my eyes,let out the breath that I'd been holdin'

[@zuzakicka8884]

“I needed to lose you to find me” that hits different

[@lonelygirl24ok94]

I loved him. I put him first no matter what. He said he loved me. It’s been 3 years of us together and today he left. He cheated on me with my best friend. I came to him that I was suicidal and he said I should do it. Maybe I’ll love myself now that you aren’t here to tell me I’m worthless. But the worst part, I miss him and love him.

[@MimiMimi-pg7kj]

It’s okay girl push though you got this💜💙

[@aashrithasunki6510]

Dont do it.

[@mira6191]

You deserve better, I hope you find a another man😕

[@isabelle5470]

I remember listening to this song but not the slower version on the radio, it was late like 12 a.m I think and the driver left the car so it was just me and I was crying screaming out his name. That night was the time it hurt cause I found out I was depressed and I just wanted to let out all of my emotions at once and tbh I don’t think I will be the same. If you read all of this thank you for listening to what I was saying, but if you don’t care about my comment then it’s alright not all people like to read trashy useless comments like mine. Update: omg guys I didn’t think this would get noticed, but I’m fine now. I got over the dude, I’ve also met someone that makes me happy(friends though😅) but yeah I’m glad to have him😂👍

[@malia2394]

this one comment made me realize im also depressed

[@uwubaby4329]

i hope everythings ok ):

[@isabelle5470]

ally faye I hope so too😊

[@isabelle5470]

Malia Piutu I hope you fight through your depression 💔

[@richiesupergenio]

Just_ Someone you’re not alone, look 4 help ❤️

[@Sheepcakezzz]

I went through the same thing Selena did. But losing him was a blessing in disguise. I found myself and a better man. Stay strong.

[@gracechambers2216]

screaming this after you’re finally over that person who absolutely destroyed you is fucking beautiful

[@rico...8163]

I really love that shade of depession that surrounds you when listening to this

[@sincerelaughter1561]

To me, this is a beautiful song about someone learning how to love them self. Self love being the best kinda love there is

[@dragonfly5665q]

the fact that this song didn't get a grammy hurts my soul

[@may.5289]

this video deserve more views likes and comments its just sooo good makes me depressed yet happy.

[@ahamots2763]

Normally I don't write comments, but this character really fits this song so well, it hurts. This may apply to his father, who never cared for him, and it left a big mark on him. And the fact that this boy goes through depression is when everyone he loves or wants to love dies and suffers, and he has to do things that destroy him too much. And the only man who loved him, and whom he loved in return, turned out to be his enemy, but died at his hands to not fulfill his "duties"... This anime is such big heartbreak i can't

[@Kai-su2zv]

slow songs hit different at sunset🥺

[@eunoi1856]

*the song hits hard also the anime make me cry :(*

[@raidedlion]

*You promised the world and I fell for it*

[@laurenjones8318]

"...you promised the world and i fell for it" wow-hits different...

[@roselamoure]

This is seriously Selena‘s best song! Even my Mom loves it so much and feels the pain 😢 i think we all can relate to this! Let‘s don’t forget our value and love ourselves and get out of a toxic relationship! We all need a Prince Charming ladies not an abusive ass!

[@jillian.millie361]

I cry, omg this is so beautiful 🥺

[@AllYellowJoshua]

Jillian Alaimo 😭😭😭

[@sofialaura5219]

made a whole fanfic while listening to this.

[@ojaswinitawar8611]

This gave me goosebumps ❤

[@A_Tay101]

1:46 had such a pleasing lineup

[@mrsarmstrong55]

Ohhhh my God This legit made me cry😭

[@kianaadrienne7567]

“we’d always go into it blindly”🥺

[@shreenidhhi8633]

This is so pure wth

[@richie3519]

i loved her , i really did .

[@sophia7881]

this song makes me cry. i clicked on this video knowing that, i literally started sobbing when this vid started-

[@roseanne42]

Bruh I never realized how mentally unstable I was I just randomly started crying whiles looking at the wall

[@lynn717]

"In 2 months you replaced us " no in 2 days :/

[@larizsa5756]

Its ok bb u deserve so much more 💖

[@Harperman8707]

I don’t know why but I listen to this song when I’m sad or depressed. But I also listen to it just to listen to it.

[@Maria-ne7cn]

No one: Me: *imagining me and my imaginary boyfriend breaking up*

[@marsyapaulina305]

pain

[@RoxanneS88]

I really love the sound of the voice here ❤

[@Emma-vy7id]

this will be stuck with my soul now

[@amiastraea5048]

When she started to break down, I felt that..

[@marthab5312]

wow, here is me trying not to cry cuz im in class GREATTTT ( this is BEAUTIFUL btw ) -w-

[@jazzmonhernandez8141]

"you promised the wrld and I fell for it"..hit diff😔

[@thebreadcrumbsondaddygojos4182]

Listening to this and crying mid anxiety attack yay !

[@Ja_0ri]

Idk why sad songs make me happy sad🥺

[@jigglypuff1800]

Goosebumps 😔

[@sophiaohuka3456]

This is literally my brain singing to my heart

[@priyasri9153]

No matter how sad this song is or how depressing my life will be, I’m too broken for tears to escape my eyes.

[@phoebeeeee2699]

Shinji:((( This anime may be old but it's one of the best things I've watched

[@zereenakhtar8760]

this version hit diff

[@lynn717]

When she says 'to love' its like shes sending a message to love :/

[@meenakshi2183]

Remembering the days we used to be happy^_^

[@Josh-vs3rl]

Never had more goosebumps when listening to Slowed versions

[@manalalraisi7815]

wow makes me cry thanks for this one I like that❤️😭

[@teatalkswithrachel6420]

My heart has been scarred

[@kamryn8838]

When music is the one who has your back

[@raynphiiaa]

every time i see shinji in these sad slowed songs i cry ten times harder...that boy deserves the world

[@ciaraa917]

you will never know that feeling of wanting life so much until you are on the coast, about to lose it. One Saturday, I was in that position, and of so many times that I wanted to die, at that precise moment, I wanted to live it until I grew old. Now I love my life very much. It doesn't have much to do with the song, but I wanted to share a piece of my life here

[@fabiosilverio447]

Getting deeper on the dark sea than before. I like that.

[@alexandragallagher5375]

This song hits hard cause i was in an abusive relationship i ended it cause i lost myself from him hurting me and boy those 2 months after the break up had me crying bout everything that reminded me of him and after 2 months i realized i did it for ME and i was finally finding myself after i did i found the LOML that treats mw the right way still have my days but i finally realized i can be happy.on my own

[@sn25603]

Instead of “two months, you replaced us..” it was “two weeks, you replaced us..” for me 🙃

[@andreaxo__]

me too me too😭

[@taehyungrei]

omg same...after 1 year...

[@beyoncestojkova785]

To love love yeah i love it!!

[@ansleyjones9047]

I love this, thank you ❤️

[@munmunmondal2773]

Your voice just hits in an another way.......🤩

[@sanastoe7276]

I’m just crying about life in general, it’s all so hard and overwhelming

[@hectelionstormrage6098]

This version is on a différent level o_O More mature, deep ans painful.... amazing job here 👌🏾

[@annnoca]

Damn... IM IN LOVE WITH U.

[@abhilahal9928]

hits different when you're high

[@laurendollar5571]

This dance was killing me softly

[@hannierosales7623]

this sounds heartbreak and self-worth realization at the same time.

[@katsukiswhore1743]

It sucks to know that you were the person on the other side not knowing you were hurting someone so much

[@chm2314]

i love it i love it i love it i love it !!!!!!!!!!!

[@veditarai1729]

how can someone bring happiness and sadness at the same time?

[@rareandco]

i just wanna share that this song is now one of my anthems. i dated him almost 3 months and even tho its a short time, it was my most healthy relationship and i was his he said. it was all tenderness. but storms come and he had his demons. we had a talk, beautiful one the day we broke up. i think i was mad at him bc he said that the distance was going to be temporary but 5 months passed and didnt see a hint of him coming back so i needed the closure. broke no contact and we both sent long long messages. he said he was so grateful for giving him the most healthy relationship. i wanted to say goodbye and he said that for NOW he couldnt give me a relationship and that he hopes to see me in the future. honestly i dont believe it so i said thank u for everything like 4 times hahaha. we are completely different persons. im a really chill guy, i dont go to parties, i prefer gym, coffee shops and reading, hes a party guy, clubs every weekend, casual sex. so its gonna be hard for me to trust him now that i know how he is even tho i felt safe while i was with him. i still miss him, miss the hugs, the dates, joking with his mom, taking naps together, seeing clothes and buying things. i miss it. but i dont want him back. sometimes things just dont work out and it doesnt need to end in a bitter way. im grateful he was part of my year and im grateful i got to be with him. i wish him the best.

[@Reze333e]

Shinjiiii dont cry :(

[@TheMainMayn]

This got me hitting out extra sets at the gym! 😥

[@aliyalackey7917]

Put speed on 0.75x 3:03 Now picture this (read slowly: You barge out of your house. Just learning that your brother died in a car accident. It’s pouring rain but you don’t care. You kneel down in the rough street. You grip your hair. Tears streaming down your face. You scream. It echoes through the neighborhood. You let go of your hair and let your hands fall to your side as you stare at the ground. The wet pavement beaming in your tear filled eyes. When you finally realize he is gone, you collapse in the middle of the road.