Self Care Days in Portugal | finding balance through a breakup

[@niharikaharne610]

"one video from hitomi a day keeps anxiety away " a slogan that works great for me

[@thwype9725]

REAL

[@TheEpicPlace]

yes!

[@ReannaZhane]

Im also going through a conscious uncoupling right now and I’ve been having those same feelings of wanting to completely detach out of fear of what the new “normal” between us will look like, but this was a beautiful testament to the fact that people can transition from one area of your life to another and it doesn’t have to be this tragic loss. Thank you for this reminder Hitomi 💛sending you love & light

[@Moonfairyyadig]

I too am uncoupling right now, it feels so challenging to not detach cause the separation hurts… we both still care for one another and want to preserve the goodness we had

[@kattensilverregn340]

I am also in the same situation, me and my partner just decided today after 2,5 years

[@anniehamma6732]

My beloved partner of 4 years, with whom I believed I would grow old, blindsided me with a breakup three weeks ago today. Up until the very end he acted his normal self, verbally and physically expressed love, and promised me he was happy and fulfilled in our relationship whenever I m checked in about his needs. It’s been so so devastating, I barely recognize myself and second each day hoping he will feel my unaltered love and return to our relationship when he feels able to. You have such a healing energy. While I wish you didn’t have to go through a breakup right now, because you deserve such abundant happiness, watching your videos on the topic has helped me feel less alone. Thank you.

[@sarahwalkertunek3095]

Sending you lots of love❤

[@Andre-lh4zd]

Experienced something similar 7 months ago, still going through it. You are not alone, we got this ❤️❤️❤️

[@tanyamsam]

Hii that's me at 10:08 ! So magical to run into you on the island, Hitomi💜Thank you for being so sweet, I loved dancing with you and connecting. Enjoy the rest of your travels 🫶

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

I had the best time with you. Your energy lingered in my heart

[@inesgouveia426]

Hitomi, you should definitely check the other Portuguese islands! As an island girly, i think you should see the beauties that this country has to offer! Come to Madeira, we have such an incredible island, you will love it!! The best part is that we don't really have any harsh winters, so you can explore the island any time of the year!

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

Omgg okay I will have to come back!! I wasn’t sure which island to go to so I randomly chose Sao Miguel, but now you’re not the first person to mention Madeira 🫶🏼🙏🏽✨ thank you love!!

[@basicinfo2022]

Yes to Madeira!!

[@rachellee2967]

I can not agreed with you more. I have traveled 70 countries and lived in 4 continents. Portugal by far is my favorite. Portuguese people are so kind and respectful.

[@catiesmith645]

yes madeira is amazing 🌺

[@nathalielima2184]

I second this!! Madeira is incredible

[@C.C.369]

"... May your footsteps leave imprints of love for others to walk in!" Damn!! Thanks dude! ✨💘✨

[@kaylanrosa]

I’m also searching for home on the road, I know we’ll find it in perfect time! Living nomadically, I find that having fresh water swim and nature so near is sooo important for my happiness and health.

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

So important to have access to the elements. Oof happy we’re in this together. Let’s circle back when we find our places!!

[@innere_raeume]

In the middle of a meltdown and I'm trying to ask myself "What would Hitomi do?" But I'm so far gone that just makes me feel bitter. I'm disabled and I'm so tired of comparing myself constantly to people who are not and falling short again and again. I know somewhere deep inside me there is love and that I am still guided but the less I feel connected to it in these moments of despair the deeper the pain becomes. Such a loneliness. I'm longing for words to be able to share but it is beyond words.

[@aaneellla]

hitomi, darling. how i wish i could speak to you one on one. your presence in these videos helps me through so much. i have been bedridden for 4 years and my life has took the most drastic turn. i don’t want to go into too much on here, but i would love to speak to you whenever our time aligns. i love you hitomi, thank you for being just as you are 🤍

[@sarimckenzie3543]

I’m so sorry you’ve been bedridden for 4 years ❤ I’ve been bedridden myself before and am now housebound and it is a tough thing to go through. I am sending you so much love and light and hope ✨ You are an amazing human! And just getting through today is an amazing thing ❤️❤️❤️

[@aaneellla]

@@sarimckenzie3543 oh my gosh, thank you so much. this message made my night. it really did. i’m sorry that you’ve been through something similar. my heart goes out to you my love, you are a warrior for getting through that, thank you for co existing with me. you are loved 🫶🏻✨

[@nohenohelia]

Traveling is exhausting and I understand that longing for home. Having all your belongings in one single place and having enough time to belong to a community, to enjoy hobbies, have a drawer that feels yours… I feel you. Migration is tough. Hugs, Hitomi. I’m on the same journey to find a home, I wish you the best in yours. ❤❤❤

[@gracehillen7883]

I appreciate you dearly hitomi💖 it’s so special that you continue to share intimate moments with us. Never stop being you🥲

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

It’s truly my pleasure 😭 so grateful to be received by you!! I alway think of how Alok V Menon said that “beauty is looking like yourself” and I think that applies to acting like yourself as well! May we all continue shining our unique light and setting our expression freee 💫 it’s medicine

[@brookeaustell]

Hitomi, I have been watching your videos for many years now and it feels like we're growing together at this point. These diaries are always such a comfort and make me feel safe in my own skin. You somehow give the warmest hug only through a computer screen, I appreciate you so much

[@VEE3RDEYE]

I resonate with that travel life, craving a home but it doesn't exist yet

[@DanielaSilva-777]

Love from Portugal 🇵🇹❤️

[@ChaiTogether]

Those curls are amazing 😻

[@suse1312]

Dear Hitomi, you have a wonderful timing! I moved to Lisbon two weeks ago, to spend my Internship here, and I felt lost and overwhelmed the past few days. I didn't assume I would get homesick so soon, but I miss my flat, rice cooker and the people I carry around in my heart (having a hard time not being able to hug them). Your video restored the wish to care for myself, brought back the wish for little adventures - now I feel a lot more excited and ready to cherish what's ahead of me. Thank you with all my heart!!

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

Oh my gosh I felt this in my heart ♥️ I’m so proud of you for moving through the phases with so much grace! It’s such a process settling into a new place. I definitely recommend writing your loved ones letters, it reallly helps to integrate that longing into something beautiful, I’ve felt that so much throughout my travels and it’s only been a few months. Sending you a big warm hug and the courage to keep doing the next right thing for yourself

[@mindfulfairy46]

I'm so in love with the relationship you have w your ex because I too have someone like that in my life, we have such an unbreakable bond, it's like they're meant to be in my life no matter the title of our companionship.

[@kaylanhardin1060]

"May your foot steps leave imprints of love for others to walk in." A Journey of Heart!❤👣

[@liiskaro]

I truly appreciate you being open and speaking your mind. It inspires me how calm but lively and loving energy you send out, and I feel the excitement of finding your own space and creating life there. May you enjoy your breath ❤

[@symbelmine]

Hi Hatomi, I had to put my cat to sleep yesterday and I'm so sad I can hardly breathe. Your videos are soothing and helping me get by. Thank you.

[@mimi-ir8ox]

so lovely to see you visiting my country hitomi! sending love and peace to you, always

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

It’s so beautiful here!! So much peace and love to you Angel 🕊️✨

[@NYKIRA]

This video reminds me in so many ways that home is where the heart is. (Whatever home may be for you) That no matter what comes up ~ relationship change, location, internal journey ~ that home & ultimately unconditional love is there for us to tap into if we allow ourselves to trust it ❤

[@katrinaneville5427]

Hitomi, I feel your spirit could resonate strongly with the small town nature of Ojai, CA. It's kind, playful, and has a southern France, Mediterranean feel.

[@lilumultipas]

I dream of looking like you when I grow up, and being a person as deep and incredible as you.

[@jules4009]

Being an island girl, I believe that you would also LOVE visiting Greece, Im talking about the less known islands (we have plenty) where you will get to experience the truly amazing mother nature and the authentic traditional greek life! Like in every place, I believe you really need a local in order to be able to truly experience the true magic of my homeland because sadly a lot of areas are becoming more and more touristy, and their true nature and magic has faded away... But still, there are so many breathtaking places both in the mainland and on the mountains, but also on the islands! Being able to show you around and experience my homeland through your eyes would actually be such an amazing experience for me! Sending you lots of love!

[@ChaiTogether]

You look great!!:) 🎉

[@alysium22]

Gentle and slow energy is where it's at. I'm giving myself permission to rest even if i haven't worked on projects recently. As Tricia Hersey says, rest is our birthright ❤ Its really a positive thing to show how your relationship has changed but is still valid. Polyamory gives me the ability to treat my friends similarly to lovers and lovers like my friends. We get to define our relationships and be very specific. While I don't have the desire to be friends with my recent ex, i love seeing this message be shared.

[@Moonfairyyadig]

Thank you Hitomi. Your videos are so resonate in a multitude of ways! Wow wow wow. 🦋✨ and that note you both left was so touching; “may your footsteps leave imprints of love for others to walk in”

[@not6ix141]

hitomi !! i’ve been a silent but appreciative viewer for a while now and i’m also going through my first break up nd words can’t even explain how much comfort this video brings me 🫶🏼

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

Sending you LOVE ❤️❤️❤️

[@starseedian]

OH MY GOD I CANT BELIEVE YOU WERE IN AZORES! Come to Terceira next time!! I love nature, we could make a group and meet up to go explore those amazing trails! Much love Hitomi

[@weareenough111]

You make me feel good just by your presence, just by seeing you I feel inspired to love myself❤❤

[@meriemryan]

i’m surprised you haven’t included costa rica as one of your stops yet!! you would seriously love it here. maybe in jan during the dry season? nosara is yoga heaven and monteverde is earth angel headquarters

[@Tinamisu18]

My partner and I got engaged on this island on the new moon in Gemini on June 18th at Sete Cidade ❤so happy you got to experience the beauty of Sao Miguel !

[@catiesmith645]

I love you hitomi ~ my moms side of the family lives in Portugal! I am so happy you got to experience the country and found healing within it :-)

[@catpml1442]

so much love from portugal ❣

[@guauist]

Hitomi! If you have a south american passport or you are able to get it you can get dual citizenship quite easy in Spain! If not look for visa options for talents, creators, digital workers…

[@iamhere222]

I feel i have been walking alongside of you for the last few months- also left north america to travel to bali, india and find myself unsure of where to go next or figure out where home would be. Something to be said about an archetypal energy that pulls us to this search, hope we continue to listen to those subtle signs and inner guidance with patience and love- and know there is no timeline or wrong decision :)

[@mckennapickett3001]

you look so adorable at 7:26 i love that sweater

[@yashaswinirajput143]

Hitomi, could you make a video on how u do ur finances and your tips to handle finances, etc , I'm really curious as to how u budget considering you travel so much plus the currencies. ❤ Will be waiting

[@SonitaMen-z3v]

I feel so safe watching this video that I'm crying at the end

[@zalddow8318]

Hi Hitomi ❤ you should definitely check the other islands of Azores as well! Terceira, São Jorge, Pico and Flores have the best nature out of all them in my opinion. I was so excited when you said you were going to the Azores, where I’m from. I hope you had an wonderful experience, you’re always welcome to come back ❤️❤️

[@girlinthehaze]

hitomi is literally my vision board

[@Moonlight-iq4wv]

Hitomi please make a playlist because I love the music in your videos! ❤️

[@Amanda-hw3zj]

You’re so lovely 🥰 and I’m truly soo proud of you!

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

Thank you 😢💌✨

[@katiekollmer]

hitomi! if you are looking for a place in the US that is very outdoorsy, backpacking, mountain life, definitely check out colorado as a whole! it does stay really snowy in the winter but it is gorgeous! wishing you the best❤❤❤

[@carjomot5]

I travelled to Sao Miquel the last months and I lived in this amazing hostel called „out of the blue“ I met there amazing people and so grateful for my time on this island 🧡

[@ChaiTogether]

Asia is great if you enjoy humidity!:)

[@exploringauthenticity5350]

OMG MY FAMILY IS FROM THE AZORES. We go there every other summer! The earth energy there is soooo healing 💓

[@exploringauthenticity5350]

I have SO many recommendations if you need them 🫶🏽

[@rachelsmith-cohen2099]

i had a bad breakup one month ago, i wish it was just a “conscious uncoupling” because i miss him a lot. This video brings me peace that there are better people, and unfortunately sometimes the true breakup split is necessary:((

[@youarelife3437]

thank you Hitomi, you helped me feel like myself again and come into touch with this magic that's happening with us with more and more surrender everyday...

[@puterisejati8752]

so relaxing...thank you hitomi...💕💕💕💕

[@elnazkhanali5416]

Perfect timing as always Hitomi!

[@chloegiles9094]

ive been watching your videos for years now and no matter where ive been youve had some loving words n wisdoms that resonate, thank you for being you

[@jolriao3]

Challenge for you Hitomi: There is a flower called "conteira" that you can suck the nectar from it and ingest it. It's sweet tasting, maybe similar to vanilla. Not sure you find it on all islands though, i tried it at the island called "Flores" which translates to "Flowers"

[@CC-vj3bg]

I can’t believe you are in my country, I am so happy that you are enjoying it

[@jordynnwhite1414]

Oh yay, I'm so happy to see you post! I actually checked earlier this morning but there wasn't a video yet😂 It's like I knew you would today tho! Anyway, I'm happy to see you, you make my days full of joy and abundance 💓

[@dinal3167]

Hitomi thank you for being just as you are ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ In love with you and in love with Caley too. So happy for your new project to announce and caley helping you shoot for it

[@gracejoy8854]

Hitomi, It is nice to see your radiance. ❤

[@WonderboxGamerGirl]

Your videos are always like a warm hug from a friend and they remind me to be grounded

[@gabsbarbeitos]

crazy, hitomi is here on the island

[@marchellogreenji]

Your videos bring me so much peace and comfort! Thank you for sharing your Portugal experience sending my love from the city🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@nancywangui8134]

Hitomi,your videos remind me to take deep belly breaths, and they are usually a nice reminder that I don't have to figure it all out at once.

[@lena-aline]

Ohhh, I lived on this island for 9 months, it's so nice to see it through your eyes

[@aubreydanae3637]

I’m not positive, but I think you may have find a Geocache in that little house, Hitomi! Such a magical find either way. Geocaching is a fun activity I think you’d enjoy as you travel, so I definitely suggest looking into it :)

[@kmp8985]

Your messages of love and abundance are so fulfilling. You are helping me transform my life. Thank you thank you !!🍃

[@dreamblud]

Words cannot express how held u feel by you, Hitomi. The radiance of your light is palpable enough to shoot me immediately back into love. I was recently in portuagal and it was beautiful, but the person I was with made the trip more of a lesson rather than an experience (it was both at the end of the day). And now I see you exploring the places I traced and it’s as if I could feel you from the future in those moments of my past. Thank you sister ❤

[@itsjenvo]

I love your thoughts Hitomit, it resonates so beautifully. Sending hugs from Switzerland🤍

[@Billy33753]

Enjoy the hike

[@dofalesi]

Your videos are so grounding! I’m currently in the hospital for a couple weeks in isolation and your videos help me not go stir crazy LOL Thank you for continually sharing your vulnerabilities with us and being unapologetically you❤️

[@theyoo27]

So nice to see you both together again enjoying life! We met in Koreatown, LA and I never dared to ask for the photo he took of us 😄💛

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

OMG wait DM me because the photo came out so cute!

[@zairaviteria]

this was beautiful...

[@ver0nike247]

If I were you Hitomi, I would definitely look into middle european states, just like Czechia or Austria with its wonderful lakes and mountains, they are also extra safe🤍 Hope you find your desired home ✨💞

[@sarahlstopforth]

Gorgeous, inspiring video as always my girl. One of my favourites 🥹 all my love ✨❤️‍🔥

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

Aweee thank you so much 🥹🫶🏼❤️

[@mariaeduardathomaz9527]

OMG HITOMI I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU'RE IN SÃO MIGUEL 😭 I've been studying here and I would love to meet you, I love your work and the peace your videos give me ❤️

[@emmafunk5811]

Thank you for calming my mind whenever i can’t hear my own thoughts anymore 🫶🏽✨🧚🏽 Also, would you possibly share where the jacket /sweater from the title pic is from? xx

[@arialael4211]

This video perfectly captures the beauty of the Azores. Im moving to porto portugal in January and I highly recommend you check out other islands and cities :)

[@nadiabarmasse5294]

Another cozy and comforting video, thank you Hitomi 💖 I hope you will find your new home 💖

[@makaelalovato3409]

Traveling full time has so many beautys and some unexpected emotional effects. My partner and i have been traveling full time for a few years as well and the longing for simple home comforts gets so real 😂. Thank you for sharing your journey, you've brought me so much comfort and joy to see another soul journey through life! Good luck finding your home! Washington also calls to the forrest fairy within me :)

[@BellaSundqvist]

Thank you for sharing your stories and being open to us! Your healing journey is truly inspiring.

[@Hersheychocolate12]

When you were trying out the outfits esp with the boots. I was like I can see you dressing up as Serena from MTV Downtown.

[@g.y.p.s.y.]

If you are open to it, I would invest in an astrocartography reading, basically astrocartography takes your birth chart and tells you what parts of the world will emphasize specific energies of your birth chart. So some places will be innately unpleasant and some will be innately lovely based on the placements of the planets in your birth chart superimposed on the earth. If you're not into astrology then I would imagine this sounds pretty woo woo lmao but its legit in my experience, and I would highly recommend.

[@AC-1995]

Do you have any recommendation for a good astrocartography reading?

[@vitoriaarruda2968]

I can't believe you are in São Miguel, my home 🥺 I hope you feel recharged while there, I think it is the best place in the world for that. I'll be back in December for the holidays, would love to meet you if you are still there ❤️

[@royalindication]

I hope you loved my country. 😊 actually i never went to azores even if it's on my country. But it's definitely something on my booklet list.

[@s.k.henkle]

So sweet, I love the energy exuding from you and your videos capture it justly Watching some is having me reminisce swimming amongst waterfalls 😌 Excited to hear about your project soon too! Until next time, safe travels 🤍🤍

[@branches0Nine]

Greetings and Spaces. Drumming and chanting music at 6:20(?)

[@m.bozica]

Your content is very entertaining and relaxing. I'm inspired by your open minded and calm attitude aswell as your positivity. All the blessing to you!! Can't wait for more videos. ❤️

[@loupelizzo2399]

I enjoyed this video and you’re so inspirational and Portugal looks amazing and just adore all your outfits. Your essence in this video has helped me a lot so please take care of yourself.

[@orchidchamblee]

It's so sweet of you to think ahead about your parents 💚that little house I adore

[@kirahosoi]

M heart is so full watching this 🕊️🕊️🕊️ Such a gorgeous video 💗

[@alicia10387]

Your videos are my safe space Hitomi!❤

[@maeyo5703]

Hey love what outdoor jacket are you wearing in this video? So cute, & just wanted to thank you for sharing your genuine light with all of us ✨✨✨ namaste sista

[@mckennapickett3001]

hearing you mention that you like the humidity made me think about what it’d be like for you to experience newfoundland

[@lunar3n]

hitomi i would so appreciate a little tidbit on how you film yourself and film clips for your videos. i know you’re very comfortable on camera and have been doing it for a long time, but i sure struggle with filming myself in a way that feels natural and not disruptive to my own rhythm - and i have so much to say and bring to life through video. maybe there’s not much of a how-to, just kind of “jump in and do it!” which is fine but i’d love your thoughts on it if you ever wanted to share 🫶🏼

[@sn0wsilver]

All your words resonate so deeply with me. Thank you for sharing your mind here on this thing called KZbin ❤ You’re my fav on here 🥰

[@lulucad]

Come to Sardinia, Italy. Im sure you would love it. An island with a such strong energy💕💕

[@JasminMcCormack]

Hey Beautiful soul, if you love humid places you could come and checkout Queensland, Australia, all along the east coast is so beautiful!

[@preciousmndaweni5157]

Your vlogs are always so relaxing ❤

[@yuliabobak697]

Omg, imagine being so lucky and meet Hitomi in person! Hitomi, wishing you the best travel time ♥️ would be happy to see you in Italy as well 💫

[@MeMirrorCard]

Try counting backwards with whole numbers (e.g. 0,-1,-2,-3, etc). I might be nervous cuz you're so attractive & nothing goes right here either!

[@maddiesa9262]

Im from Portugal! If you ever need something or some advice, let me know. Wish you well ❤️